I've been here for almost 4 years, took a long time to pass a lot of stages of the Red Pill philosophy.

Now I've had multiple relationships that all started with a blaze, everything's so hot and intimate last two exes were surprised how compliant they were. but eventually (3-5 months), we reach a stale point and just wait until the other one blurts it out. I can see it in their faces, their interest in me, and disinterest.

Ok to simplify what I wrote. The girls are compliant and everything works like a charm, but then I reach a burnout period with them. I'm fun and different than other guys so we keep pushing the limits of how much fun we can have. But after so much fun you can only go down. Get stale.

Now I've been bouncing on and off with girls. I got a plate and we're having an open relationship with my current GF.. well I am.

she hasn't fallen out of the emotionally driven decisions that she's making with me. They all snap out eventually, feel how the relationship is becoming stale.

So my question is how to reheat or not let the relationship get stale. This happened with me fiver times, so I know there's something that I'm doing wrong.

Plates are easier because you see them only at need, but a relationship can be really different in long term (3-4 months. long term? what?)