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| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 02Do you mind sharing your collection? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Reaching a stale point after most 4 months?Thanks. I see that's it's my lack of commitment for the next step is what's causing it all. Like a kettle that you never really let fully boil. My heat is still on medium. can't take the marriage route though, would be a shame to throw away my prime for temporary heat. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Reaching a stale point after most 4 months?I see what you mean, but why is everything turning stale, it's not the lack of chemistry. Leaving them isn't either, we reach a gradual point of emptiness like to me it feels forced. Trying to keep me as an end goal by going along with it. It feels forced from their side. It's not the same spark from before. It's like I was a mountain they climbed and now they want another mountain. Do I need to date a new chick everytime I want to feel something? or just stick to plates? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Reaching a stale point after most 4 months?Damn you're on point. All the "Let's get married" convos were always brushed off. But I told this one that I'd make her my wife if we stay together for four more years or so. Passing 4 months and reaching a stale is a good indication that I was right by not agreeing on the marriage. If this is how it's gonna continue then why bother? But I've been through this before, there's something I'm missing. 4 relationships don't all end the same way. There must be a correlation. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 12:52 PM |
| 3 | What do the red pill men of this sub do for a living??Designer and journalist. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/16 10:09 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill and Blue Pill Perceive Time DifferentlyA great aspect that most of had to discover on our own. Your post is on point. This mindset also shows you who's actually enjoying their life and why are they interesting. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 12:38 AM |
| 1 | I have only two modes of operation: needy and not interested in girls. How to deal with this trait?I think that book is the only one i haven't read yet, and considering i'm half way around the world, Can you help me out? | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Have gotten called creepy on several occasions, what is the deal with this?I think you'd be a bit interested in this Anti-Kino post i made | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Have gotten called creepy on several occasions, what is the deal with this?Here's a small part of what i meant. | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Seduction from another perspective. New methods and ways of InDirect Gaming.Well after you pick yourself up and put the best you in. You get girls. That a fact but I noticed that after a while of being with a girl who I've stayed friends with the vibe went off. It was like a window shutting down. So I took a step back and tried different approaches on multiple girls. But discovered the actual answer by doing nothing at all except being me. My friends wife came on to me. I wasn't really surprised as that spark of interest comes with every girl but this one stayed. While … | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Long term non sexual relationships [Advanced Red Pillers Only]Thank you very much, this makes lots of sense. One last question though, can we have a RedPill sub for advanced users? the advanced questions gets lost in the basic ones in this sub, should we message the mods? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/15 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Long term non sexual relationships [Advanced Red Pillers Only]I'm the only one being open in the relationship, the maximum thing she can do is get validation of guys by reading their comments on Instagram. she knows how beta males are, that's why she sees my value, she has prior experience and she doesn't see anyone worthy of her except me. my question was will my value stay the same? after being non sexual for a few years? or will it drop and we'll be just two dull people meeting and talking, escalating a bit and then backing off? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/15 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Long term non sexual relationships [Advanced Red Pillers Only]Yeah, we'll be in an open LTR. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/15 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Can you please critique my watsapp convo with this chick ?Hey, I'm not gonna rate your Convo since you got bashed, instead I'm going to simplify texting for you to see how easy it actually is. I'm Writing a book for myself and a few friends of mine that really need it so it's stupid simple. This is just thoughts turned into texts on a document so there's no formatting or anything official like, just like a scrapbook, Hope it helps. Texting Methods: Texting is like a window to your world, your situation and the feelings that you have. Texting is like a … | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Have gotten called creepy on several occasions, what is the deal with this?Hi, just noticed your comment. I've been Doing the Game for 2 and half years in the middle east, it's terribly hard to use kino here, even if she approves, other people's opinions are far more important to her, reputation is very important here. anyway i've had to do all of my Gaming without kino, by using conversation only and so far i've reached every level there is without using the kino. so if you have any questions, I'm always glad to help. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 01:15 AM |
| 2 | "Do you have a girlfriend..?" What do you say?"why asking? interested?" Flip the switch: Amused Mastery "oh not again, sorry sweety but i'm not interested." "Where did that come from? settle down we just started talking " "Some say i do, some say i don't.. sometimes i don't even know" | /r/askTRP | 20/05/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | shit/comfort? tests galore. Mixed feelings about it all.It was a comfort test, and you're at a critical situation. now even if you open up it has to be little by little and you should make her wonder more than understand from your words. You have two options. Tell her you guys need to re-evaluate your situation. or keep it like it is and she'll snap maybe in a week or two. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/15 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Learning curve. realizing the main point of RP. Is this where I am supposed to be at? It doesn't feel like it.The second i wrote this post i knew i sounded like an ass, but honestly i don't care, I'm only here to see point of views and expand my knowledge. i know that i seem really high on my horse, but that's what makes me cynical in the first place. being this high is what makes you attractive to people. makes you a challenge that is hard to reach. I haven't settled yet, i just don't see the point of the girls around me anymore. it's just the same thing over and over and over again. then you take a re… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Learning curve. realizing the main point of RP. Is this where I am supposed to be at? It doesn't feel like it.I mean, it is natural right now, and it opened a lot of chances that i took advantage of. some of them i didn't because morally they were really wrong. i wanted to but stopped before it was too late. and that made me see how selfish we are as humans. That's all that i meant | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Learning curve. realizing the main point of RP. Is this where I am supposed to be at? It doesn't feel like it.It's not frownd upon to do what you want. what's frownd upon is, keeping yourself busy from applying The Red Pill Philosophy. and to me it seems like you did apply it by reaching that level of thought, it's like this if you have the Two scenarios: Go on a date and increase your experince play video games all day or Go on a date (Knowing you'll Have sex tonight.) Take some time off and relax with a video game. on the first sceneario you don't know what might happen, so you're losing your chances.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Learning curve. realizing the main point of RP. Is this where I am supposed to be at? It doesn't feel like it.I like the way you think, let everyone go and indulge myself in myself. Like the first step of TRP when you take it to improve yourself, but on another level. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Learning curve. realizing the main point of RP. Is this where I am supposed to be at? It doesn't feel like it.so in two words; Be Selfish. I am, turns out it's the only way to live. at least this community sees it the way i do. opened my eyes to see the truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Learning curve. realizing the main point of RP. Is this where I am supposed to be at? It doesn't feel like it.Funny you should say that. Got bored of the whole routine of friends, girls, edeucation and fun part. so i started to play around with people. it's simple once you know their nature. right now, I'm teaching a friend of mine the basics of TRP. chose him after he tried to kill himself and after years of people wallking all over him. he has everything except being alpha. the money, reputation and the truth that everyone's using him. and my other friends on the other hand, i just see as "Helpful" or… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Learning curve. realizing the main point of RP. Is this where I am supposed to be at? It doesn't feel like it.I read that two days ago, and thought i was at the 4th too. but I've accepted that a long time ago. it's no longer an act to me. TRP IS how i live. i think I'm here but without the last sentence: Acceptance – Game Awareness: “Maybe this IS the way things really work. I guess I should give up the gender relations mythology I’ve been holding onto…hey, what do you think of these negs I came up with?” what do you think of these negs I came up with? I don't see it like that, negs and getting girls is… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Learning curve. realizing the main point of RP. Is this where I am supposed to be at? It doesn't feel like it.Your point of veiw seems accurate, i need to think of this for a while. my problem is, what is the point? if each human is on his on no matter how he intracts with the world, then why even try? Right now sleeping with a girl only seems to me like too much work other than fun and exciting. that rush of adrenaline and enjoyment is gone. the trust in people that i had is gone. is this it? the last stage of the red pill? if this the reason most PUAs feel empty at the end of the road?. all we do is s… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 12:12 PM |
| 0 | [Advanced RedPillers] No one seems to handle This lifestyle. Loosing people Frequently. Getting to date a "player". Taking the right actions, But need Guidance.just sex and some food isn't fulfilling enough? IDK. but i want someone to connect with and it's the right thing to do for me now. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | [Advanced RedPillers] No one seems to handle This lifestyle. Loosing people Frequently. Getting to date a "player". Taking the right actions, But need Guidance.Concerned about the situation more than the girl. this is the second time i came across "a Player", the first time i brushed it off cause i didn't know how to handle it. but now i feel like i'm ready enough for these types of situations | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 08:15 PM |
| 1 | [Advanced RedPillers] No one seems to handle This lifestyle. Loosing people Frequently. Getting to date a "player". Taking the right actions, But need Guidance.You got the wrong idea, there's something i didn't mention in the main post because it usually stops people from commenting here or give advise. thinking it's dangerous or different than the other cities. I'm in Iraq-Kurdistan: I know it's an islamic state but it's nothing like the media shows you. when i discovered TRP, i used it a bit here and saw instant results. so i understood that it's universal. and then realized that it's the only way that i can survive and Improve myself here. It's been… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 08:09 PM |
| 1 | [Advanced RedPillers] No one seems to handle This lifestyle. Loosing people Frequently. Getting to date a "player". Taking the right actions, But need Guidance.That's what's getting to her. I'm always assuming she's lying. And now she's pretending to hate me. And the act isn't all that she has. I told her I understand that she's weak and I accept that. That was what made her come clean, and try to be good. The act stopped. But Still I don't believe her completely so I make her earn my attention. Make her do what those white nights used to do for her. But I guess there isn't an actual way to know isn't it. Doesn't matter. I just want to see how will thi… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 05:13 PM |
| 0 | [Advanced RedPillers] No one seems to handle This lifestyle. Loosing people Frequently. Getting to date a "player". Taking the right actions, But need Guidance.No I'm not looking for permission at all, I thought of plating but that's not what I'm looking for at the moment. I'm sure that she hasn't had sex because you can tell, I don't know how to explain it. But I can tell experienced girls from the ones that pretend to be smooth but have no prior experience. TheRedPill right now isn't something I practice, it's who i am. And using AWALT and other basic RP methods became a bit like second nature. So I'm asking if there's anything more advanced to pract… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 05:03 PM |
| 3 | [Advanced RedPillers] No one seems to handle This lifestyle. Loosing people Frequently. Getting to date a "player". Taking the right actions, But need Guidance.you "lost" these women, it's because of them and the fact that they realized they couldn't control you and probably felt inferior around you Ah finally someone that understands. that is what i think is the reason too but i thought i should take a second opinion. to make sure. I'm more closer than females than males cause everyone around me are betas. I'm talking Proud White Night Betas. out of 250 guys i found only one Alpha. and that motherfucker is not stable for anything. Alright that one is … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 03:12 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Alpha Bux: Effective Plate Spinning in Non-Western Culturesyou just described my exact situation. Being RP or having game in the middle east is really amazing to them. I seem like a unicorn that they can't reach its back for a ride. But being Only Red Pill won't help at the long run. I had lots of problems with girls although they were all over me at the beginning. They thought I was out of their league, so they stopped chasing after a while. My problem was attainability and it took me a while but I did fix it. Here you can be an alpha fucks, but you'll… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Got flaked by a girl and now i feel i dont have enough value for any other girl. Help me change my mindset seddit.Listen, you have to go back to the first step. before going after another girl. go have some fun alone, or with some friends. Gym, Hobbies and approaching to make friends. not to date them, just befriending is the best thing for you right now. then when you feel ready, comfortable and confident, approach multiple girls. one after another. the more you get the better, so you can't focus on only one. you won't be able to. even if you tried. | /r/seduction | 28/03/15 09:50 PM |
| 1 | We all talk about looking good. How about some tips for smelling good?The only perfume I use is blue touch which smells "heavenly" according to girls. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this text from plateCan you please type out what he said? I couldn't understand it. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/15 09:37 PM |
| 2 | multiples guys going for the same girlHe who hesitates, masturbates. FTFY | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How does attractive guy game differ from regular guy game?Not really sure, but it's an instinct related to being displeased with someone. I kinda get those looks when someone's intimidated or has heard something about me that displeased them. You can read a few more articles supporting this theory on the web, I'm on my phone right now... Plus I'm too lazy. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How does attractive guy game differ from regular guy game?Hahaha. Don't worry you'll get the hang of it. I'm gonna try to explain it but I'll link you to a PUA website that explains it better than me at the end of my comment. Empathy: it's basically when you put yourself in someone else's shoes. (like when your friend's dad dies, he starts crying and you cry too because you feel his pain. Although it doesn't directly relate to you) this isn't the same thing as being emotional it means relating to others feelings when they describe or tell you about som… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 10:41 PM |
| 1 | How does attractive guy game differ from regular guy game?Sorry it's been long night. I meant that if the girl is normal/neutral to you then she's not interested. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/15 10:34 PM |
| 3 | How does attractive guy game differ from regular guy game?I think i can help you answer this. by numbers i might be a 7/10 but with facial hair, some stylish clothes attitude and game i became a 9. i don't mean to sound high on my horse, i just want to answer the question. if you want, down-vote the hell out of me. these are some things that you get to deal with: Girls try to show interest but are intimidated more than usual. (imagine being rejected by a 9 and then a 6, which one felt worse?) You neg a bit too hard, and she thinks it's an auto-rejectio… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/15 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Class room game without coming across as a try hard?yeah, go Jeff winger style | /r/seduction | 03/02/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | This isn't about dating. I've been RP for three years now but i can't find an answer to this.Man, i had to find my old post that you commented on. i gave a bit of wrong information at that time btw, i wasn't hiding from her family but we didn't tell them about the relationship either. that wasn't a problem at all it's actually something normal here. it was a secret because of the aunt, (you are correct here) but we did set a deadline to tell every one about the relationship (x-mas) we just didn't reach it and the rest is history. is that group of friends over for me? if they come back t… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I need help. I don't know how to handle this.man, it's been a few months since this. we broke up. i realized how much of a bitch i was, now that everything is over. it was my first relationship after all i'm browsing my history while i caught your comment and i fell laughing at it. it's true. i forgot my self easily over a girl. but still, thanks for the guidens | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | This isn't about dating. I've been RP for three years now but i can't find an answer to this.no it's not that i don't think anyone knows about me and the wife, or else i would have gotten a slap, a gun up my ass or worse. (people are really dramatic here) as for the aunt and ex, i am moving on. now excuse me i got some booty calling to do. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 08:40 PM |
| 2 | This isn't about dating. I've been RP for three years now but i can't find an answer to this.Being able to drop a girl like that and understand what's actually going on is very impressive. This is true abundance mentality and true RP. Well believe it or not this was my first actual relationship. I understood from the beginning what i was getting my self into when i found TRP. i read FR's and found out people's mentality with and without TRP so it's like looking at everything from a distance and understanding the behavior of the world. as for the aunt and ex, i don't think they are gonna… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 08:37 PM |
| 1 | This isn't about dating. I've been RP for three years now but i can't find an answer to this.oh trust me that would be weird and awkward, but honestly.. it's plausible :/ | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | This isn't about dating. I've been RP for three years now but i can't find an answer to this.Oh trust me i tried to know what it is, but they didn't tell anyone about it either. it's not the relationship because the aunt wouldn't have stayed with the niece. and a big fight between them would have happened it's not Feeling up the wife thing either or else her husband would have "talked to me" aka chase me with a shotgun. eh i got tired of wondering why. nothing else to do but to move on. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | This isn't about dating. I've been RP for three years now but i can't find an answer to this.Well I'm still pretty sure that i won't find another group till the next year. I'm just gonna hang around with some other friends that I kinda like, seems good or is there another option? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I need help. I don't know how to handle this.I see her five days a week. How can I cut contacts without looking childish? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/14 04:13 PM |
| 1 | I need help. I don't know how to handle this.Shouldn't I tell her that's it's over and I'm not gonna wait for her decision. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/14 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I need help. I don't know how to handle this.Ok that sounds about right. But isn't there anything I should do to respond to her | /r/askTRP | 07/12/14 12:49 PM |
| 1 | A common mistake that I'm (and most of you are) doing.The advice here on how to get the attraction back is proven, it works, and that's that. You can disbelieve it but probably you're just doing it wrong. alright then explain to me my next step. what is that advise? | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 11:31 PM |
| 1 | RP, I need help clarifying my situation.Yeah I meant that in general. I meant to say that I went to radio silence but can't because I'll see her tomorrow. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 10:14 PM |
| 1 | RP, I need help clarifying my situation.Not this soon, my friend who has the most natural game I've seen. Hit on her for me to be sure that she's loyal (my guy is the only one I know that can get almost all of the girls in our institute.) so when she rejected him and told me about it I felt that she's loyal to some degree. She tells me about all of the guys that hit on her and we laugh about it. So I don't think that's the problem. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | When is being beta fine in a relationship? I showed some betaness and wanted to know if it was the right move.No you did the right thing, it was a comfort test not the other. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 08:19 PM |
| 1 | A common mistake that I'm (and most of you are) doing.Well I tried dread game, she fell for it at first but now she lost Interest. If nothing works then I'm already thinking of my new next I'll try with her at Sunday. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/14 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Need advise. most of you can give. Need to learn from this or Fix it.Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Need advise. most of you can give. Need to learn from this or Fix it.Yeah well drunk me didn't remember that. i learned from that mistake. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/14 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Need advise. most of you can give. Need to learn from this or Fix it.Thanks, now i get it. but what's a fitness test? | /r/askTRP | 25/11/14 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Need advise. most of you can give. Need to learn from this or Fix it.Well you're right. but you got one thing wrong. her family as a whole are in some kind of trouble and her parents can't handle anything new like this especially a relationship. when i found out about this is told her that we shouldn't tell anyone so it won't reach her parents. they are not a problem at all. and about your advise, I'm in a 5 year computer institute with her so i see her everyday and she sits next to me in the bus. so the zero contact thing isn't that easy or possible. and about e… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/14 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Need advise. most of you can give. Need to learn from this or Fix it.Well I just want a stable LTR, I beta'd once and now it's coming to bite me in the ass. To put this simply. I lost her attention, I want it back or the relationship won't work. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/14 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Need advise. most of you can give. Need to learn from this or Fix it.Not really, you see me being alpha gave her a sense of insecurity, me being beta was for one time (although it fucked me up) and her cheating, is kinda not possible. She tells me about all the guys that hit on her and one of my friends(the most attractive one) asked her out by text and we played him for a bit with texting. cheating isn't that big of a possibility for me. I'm not in America or in a city that having sex or cheating is easy in. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/14 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Need advise. most of you can give. Need to learn from this or Fix it.It's been a few weeks since I've been here and I don't really know What are the fitness test and a comfort test Care to explain each one? And how to apply them? | /r/askTRP | 25/11/14 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Need advise. most of you can give. Need to learn from this or Fix it.Well yeah right now I'm on radio silence, she just texted me and I ignored. I really can't explain the closet situation, but we're mostly doing because of a few different reasons some are like her parents and because her aunt is in love with me, and a lot of different stuff that I know she isn't ready for. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/14 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Looking goodI'm on my phone so i can't post a link but chase amante's blog is a great place for what you're asking for. I think the link is girlschase.com | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 11:07 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?Yeah I'm going to call her out on it today. At first I wanted to play her game and dread game her but I don't care anymore so it's either we go back like we were or NEXT | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 09:46 AM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?Well yeah sex has a higher value here. She said "i love you" and I didn't reply at all. Teased her for a bit and I said it once after a couple of weeks. (i know it's too soon but it felt right at that time) No I'm not a virgin but she is and I know that there's pressure on her because of that. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 08:27 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?Nope, tried that. didn't work. now i'm on my dread game | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?I tried comforting her to before escalation but it's not working.. I'm kinda positive that she's just anxious about her first time | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:50 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?Good point. I'll try this next time. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:49 PM |
| 2 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?Yeah i thought of this, i might just do what you say. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?I'm in iraq she's a muslim that was raised in holland. the only thing stopping her from having sex is "the right guy" and she said i was that guy. but suddenly all of this came down on me I think you might be right about the LMR. i tried comforting her but it doesn't work. if she's afraid to take it to the next level then I'll just NEXT | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?She didn't say that. that's what i think she means. and i'm sure she's a virgin because.. I'm in iraq she's a muslim that was raised in holland. the only thing stopping her from having sex is "the right guy" and she said i was that guy. but suddenly all of this came down on me | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:45 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?I'm in iraq she's a muslim that was raised in holland. the only thing stopping her from having sex is "the right guy" and she said i was that guy. but suddenly all of this came down on me | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:44 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?hahahahhah oh man i can feel the sarcasm and irony, let me explain like i did earlier I'm in iraq she's a muslim that was raised in holland. the only thing stopping her from having sex is "the right guy" and she said i was that guy. but suddenly all of this came down on me | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:44 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?I'm in iraq she's a muslim that was raised in holland. the only thing stopping her from having sex is "the right guy" and she said i was that guy. but suddenly all of this came down on me | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | GF shit testing me, call her out or play the game?Not really she started the "come to my house" thing. Her parents coming back is a really slim chance. We haven't had sex yet (she's a virgin) and we're both fairly young I'm 19 she's 20, I think she's testing me before "doing something wrong" you know just making sure I'm the right one and all of that. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Hey Seddit, I've been noticing a pattern, Girls playing along but not commiting to a date. even with lots of IOIforgot about how I'm proposing the dates... i don't really know, i just say next week x place y time. although this time i gave her a heads up and told her to be ready for the 24th and after this time I'm moving on whether with her or without, she said yes. but cancelled today but said shell try again. | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Hey Seddit, I've been noticing a pattern, Girls playing along but not commiting to a date. even with lots of IOIwell, let's see. the first time i was fine with it because it sounded normal (teased a lot though made her make it up to me with some non-nude pics). the second time i ignored her for three days. and the third time which was tonight i got a bit mad told her a few things, then calmed down and told her to explain. then she told me she's gonna try again. i didn't answer. I'm sorry but i can't provide pics because the language we speak is a mix of kurdish and English so you might understand a few wo… | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Hey Seddit, I've been noticing a pattern, Girls playing along but not commiting to a date. even with lots of IOII don't mean to brag or anything, but my text game is good. i tease. hold frame and have fun. they even complement me on it sometimes. "you're really fun to talk to". before and hour feom that text, she told me that she needed to go to sleep. all i thought about was "challenge accepted" | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Hey TRP, I need some guidance. Girls playing along but not commit to a date. even with lots of IOICan you elaborate on that Abundance mentality. and How can i escalate over text? as for Being into me. they got jealous whenever they saw a new picture of me with a girl, whenever one of the girls checked in on facebook.they start asking me about the girl and why i'm with her, try to convince me to leave. sometimes they try to hide their interest but to me it's kinda obvious (Thanks to TRP) | /r/askTRP | 20/10/14 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstMy friend i'm in the middle east having FWB is kinda rare here but i'm sure she's fine with it. i can't just say "i'll meet you there or my penis deep inside of you" (although i get the temptation) | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstI don't understand the second paragraph. what will do it? | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstWell to be honest i have everything on the SMV list high up list fore reference: This One So i don't really know how to treat her other than the usual | /r/askTRP | 29/09/14 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstWell I was doing better than her at the time. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/14 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstAny advice on how to treat her? I'm gonna be seeing her for the next few years we have all the same classes | /r/askTRP | 28/09/14 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstNah last year I was busy with two other girls. But I tested TRP on her all year long. For some reason it worked on her best and when I saw how she's throwing herself at me, I lost attraction. This year I thought Maybe I could get with her but it was a bit too late. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/14 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstThat's what I did last year (around the time I discovered TRP) I used the 2/3 in conversations with her and when we sat in a group I ignored her which drove her crazy (her friend once told her to stop acting like a child in Arabic when she talks to me. It felt great when I said "it's alright" answering when they thought I didn't know Arabic) | /r/askTRP | 28/09/14 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstHahahah it's alright. At least I tried. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/14 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected when asked to be FWB,she's "in love" and wants to know the "real me" firstWell she actually liked it at first, in her words "if you asked me a month earlier I would have agreed, but now I there's this guy.. I'm not in love with him I just want to be with him or at least sleep with him" I interrupted and Said that's not my problem. Then she started saying that if she was gonna be a fwb I have to know her more and care about her. Then eventually "i like you more as a friend please don't change" So in short: I had a shot till last month but now she " has too much on her … | /r/askTRP | 28/09/14 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Is sex worth the effort?it's not just about sex, you need to use this knowledge and experience it a lot, learn from your mistakes. this way you won't have any regrets in the future or on your death bed. and you might even teach your son how to be successful with women. now days handeling women is essential, just imagine meeting the girl that you want to spend your life with but you don't know how to makthe right moves. what are you just gonna settle for someone? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/14 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice, please answer.Thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 04:38 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice, please answer.my questions were: what mindset do i need to have when i talk to her? how to show her that i care, that I'm not some player and she's not shallow, she liked me before the transformation i just didn't know how to escalate so i went out, improved myself and then came back. and that made her like me more the problem is that her head is filled of negative shit about me. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 11:34 AM |
| 5 | You know what! fuck my onitiesyeah, i actually got the first two's numbers and went home with the third. i found out that confidence comes easy when you don't care about the results. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How do I 'spin plates' in an LTR without fucking them?yes but if OP spends a lot time just socializing with them won't the plates lose interest? i was in the same situation 2 months ago, i believe they lost interest after a while even with the TRP tactics.. but I'm still not sure. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/14 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Those constantly flirty girlsyeah, i get your point. thanks for correcting us. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/14 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Those constantly flirty girlsthanks for the explanation, can you provide a few examples? just so i can see how a correct negg is done. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/14 07:02 PM |
| 6 | First time renouncing my allegiance to a narcissist. (potential breakup letter). Scathing enough?i second this. giving her the letter won't do you good on the long run. just breaking up with her will seem like the best thing to you in a few months when this is all behind you. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What's the seddit consensus on mirroring?people don't get more attracted to you by mirroring. we use mirroring to create a connection. you know when you meet someone and you feel like you click with them right away | /r/seduction | 28/05/14 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Those constantly flirty girlsmy neggs also sometimes come off as insults. but i never cared, right until you said it wasn't supposed to be an insult. what is a proper way to deliver a negg? | /r/askTRP | 27/05/14 06:51 PM |
| 0 | How to respond to the "does this make me look fat" question?tease. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/14 05:18 PM |
| 37 | My girlfriend is what you'd call a 'unicorn'. But it's getting boring now, and i'm considering leaving her. I don't know if this is a huge mistake.Wow the tables have turned. that's how girls see betas. boring and always willing to give. my advice for is do what makes you happy. tell her you need to see other people, need some space. but don't brake her heart. don't do the same shit our crushes did to us. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/14 09:19 PM |
| 2 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."thanks. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 07:03 PM |
| 4 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."well I'm from iraq so, arabic, kurdish and English.. no i don't think there is similar phrases. i just got the concept when "seducers" used it in action. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 05:33 PM |
| 11 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."thank you. i kinda understood the concept but i needed it written by some one else. and forgive me for my bad English. it's my second language. | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 05:01 PM |
| 15 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."can someone explain the term pedestal? | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | A little line that goes a long way: "How are you going to make it up to me?"Imgur | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 05:42 PM |
| 2 | A little line that goes a long way: "How are you going to make it up to me?"Why did you remove the post's text? this seemed interesting, i wanted to read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/14 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what's your summarize of seduction in three points?Wow, your comment was exactly what i was aiming for, when i posted this. What is "stranger" and why should i read it? i like reading books. so tell me about this one. | /r/seduction | 21/04/14 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Best self-improvement books?One book that haven't been mentioned yet and is as influential as Models is unshakable swagger , it's an amazing book about self help and it really does give you unshakable confidence after applying everything of course. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 08:48 AM |
| 1 | I'm ready to throw my laptop out the windowLook you need to read 2 books. i promise if you apply them your life would be so much better 1- unshakable swagger (this books is like a follow up to models) 2- How to instantly connect with anyone 96 all new little tricks for big success (great for social and your seduction life) trust me right now i have 0 girlfriends and zero plates but i'm still on top of my game. the important thing is not the girls. what's important is YOU and you only. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Walked out on girl but unsure of whether I failed.yeah, sorry i didn't know about that sub. but thanks now i have more books to read and apply.. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/14 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Walked out on girl but unsure of whether I failed.can you recommend me some RedPill books | /r/askTRP | 30/03/14 09:28 PM |
| 7 | Country differences?my time to shine. I'm from Iraq. seduction here is all about status, looks, and wealth. you can't do a few things like kino or fuck her by the first night if girls here have been heartbroken once then they'll give up on dating entirely.. which sucks ass and you have to work your ass off to convince them otherwise so basically speed seduction doesn't work here. and it's really bad to get a reputation of the "player" you have to always keep your frame and be sensible when speaking. everything else… | /r/seduction | 23/03/14 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Your Guide from the College Daygame MasterI'm midway through the book right now, it has improved my game alot. It’s like a follow up to models by mark mansion. | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Your Guide from the College Daygame Masteryou should read "unshakable swagger" it really helped me when i was in your situation. | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Ways to make a girl start talking about herself?in the mean time read this : http://www.girlschase.com/content/conversationalist | /r/askTRP | 20/03/14 08:24 PM |
| 7 | Ways to make a girl start talking about herself?hey you should post this in r/seduction | /r/askTRP | 20/03/14 08:24 PM |
| 3 | How to get that connection with people, especially girls?also i highly recommend this book. how to instantly connect with anyone: 96 all new little tricks to big success in relationships | /r/askTRP | 18/03/14 06:27 PM |
| 7 | How to get that connection with people, especially girls?I'm sorry but I'm kinda in a hurry. judging by your title you want to be a better conversationist here's the best plqce to get that. it helped me alot. http://www.girlschase.com/content/conversationalist next time add a TLDR: | /r/askTRP | 18/03/14 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Is there any hope for me?what panzergling said is correct. here are some books that will help you: six pillars of self esteem unshakable swagger book of pook charisma myth mystery method no more ms.nice guy the way of the superior man how to instantly connect with anyone: 96 all new little tricks for big success in relationships after these books (after you applying them of course) you will be a much more attractive and confident man. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/14 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I know there are guides here but any good book you'd recommend about being a "conversationalist"Glad i can help. | /r/seduction | 17/03/14 07:16 PM |
| 3 | I know there are guides here but any good book you'd recommend about being a "conversationalist"Not a book but rather a big [article] (http://www.girlschase.com/content/conversationalist) this will help you to be a better conversationalist than most. i know it helped me!. | /r/seduction | 17/03/14 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Comprehensive Conversation Guidecan YOU post your list of essentials, it might help a lot of people here. | /r/seduction | 17/03/14 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Practice makes perfectyou said it yourself practice makes perfect, trust me you are on the right track. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 09:25 PM |
| 6 | Did an approach on a beautiful girl at a bar, went from feeling alpha to feeling like a p*ssy. Help?most of what you did was good but you're doing one thing wrong and that is you are being alpha for the girls. you should do it for yourself. treat everyone male and female like an alpha. alpha isn't what you pretend to be alpha is in YOU, ALPHA IS WHO. YOU. ARE. so when you approach do it like your approaching your life long friend talk at ease don't be nervous and don't worry about the outcome the important thing is you approached YOU did better than the old you would've done the weak guy who w… | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Don Juan/ALPHA IS what the red pill tells you to be. not because of others..No i believe it belongs here. some people have consecrated on getting girls and becoming a PUA so much that they hang by every word of it. they made it their mission to pickup women, their sole purpose to pick up girls. being a PUA isn't a job it's essential skill for every man and AFC to know about it. a lot of men forgot this, they don't believe 100% in TRP theory. they accept the idea of it and with the first success they forget all about it. only when a man has fallen to pieces over and over… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Don Juan/ALPHA IS what the red pill tells you to be. not because of others..you need to understand that there's no mission you're worth doing if you don't put yourself first for it. what i mean is people will dance, sing do all sorts of things for a girl. for others just to be liked and loved. what these men need to realize is, it is not what people think of you or how much they like you put you forward, no. not necessarily. it is you who should love yourself, you who is confident enough to do something to stand and believe of yourself. only then you will be independent… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/14 07:06 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys open?1.solid eye contact then after half of a second crack a simple smile . 2.say hi and introduce yourself. mirror their body language. 3.things to talk about : i usually go with F.O.R.D (family, hobbies and such) ask what do they have planned for the rest of the day. 4.the more they talk the better you look but don't be a yes guy. don't give her all your time 5 . don't take them seriously or explain anything with logic. 6.if she's on her phone or not listening call her on it 7. and most importantly… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Got friend-zoned THEN discovered TRP. got a reaction and need some help.yep, that's the awful truth and i realized it. i'm gonna go back and spin as much as i can, the only problem is. who's gonna wash the plates when i'm done? ;) | /r/askTRP | 01/02/14 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How do YOU provide value to a conversation?yeah i've got the opposite of this. how to make the conversation more fun and flowing? | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 06:39 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Awesomely Rough Nightfocus on what you have, and don't worry about others | /r/seduction | 31/01/14 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Got friend-zoned THEN discovered TRP. got a reaction and need some help.thanks. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/14 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Got friend-zoned THEN discovered TRP. got a reaction and need some help.thanks this is actually kinda how it happened. i dated girls with higher value, people who are hotter than her but i broke up with all of them because i couldn't find them as interesting as her | /r/askTRP | 30/01/14 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Got friend-zoned THEN discovered TRP. got a reaction and need some help.First of all i'm in an institute with her which takes 8 hours of our lives everyday and it lasts for 4 years. i know everyone there and dated a few that's why i say she's better than most, not all secondly i didn't show any signs of neediness at all if anything i was interested in her and she was interested in me. it took me one mistake to fall out of my horse and that sucked but i learnt from it i didn't put any unrealistic expectations to her. after going to the friend-zone i felt bitter and a… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/14 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Got friend-zoned THEN discovered TRP. got a reaction and need some help.No. i know she's special in the place i'm IN. beacuse i know everyone there. you see i'm in an institute and it takes all my time so i can't meet anyone from anywhere else for at least 3 years. even if i do i won't have that much energy for them so who's better than being with someone from were i'm at. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/14 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Got friend-zoned THEN discovered TRP. got a reaction and need some help.yeah well she was from before TRP. but i dated a few others and then realized she's still better. think of having one big gold fish in your net. and i didn't play her game at all. i think that's what attracted her the most. actually everyone here gets attracted by that.. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/14 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Got friend-zoned THEN discovered TRP. got a reaction and need some help.thanks for this "slap in the face". i needed it. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/14 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Got friend-zoned THEN discovered TRP. got a reaction and need some help.i dated 3 girls since all of this. she still seems better than them. all of them. (i wasn't gonna let 1 girl stop me from playing the game with others) I've had the same prospective on girls since TRP and it changed the whole game for me it's easier to go through life with the truth, rather than a sweet lie. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/14 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What to do when I'm with a SO/fuckbuddy/fwb/etc and we are with a bunch of female friends?Thanks. now i'm hungry.. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/14 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What to do when I'm with a SO/fuckbuddy/fwb/etc and we are with a bunch of female friends?can you explain more about soft game? i get in the same situation Sometimes and they're all used to funny jokes and the things we do for them.. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/14 04:59 PM |
| 1 | applying TRP in a closed society.. i need some help with thisthanks for the advice I've concluded to the same idea. i spent to much energy and time into this girl. letting the whole problem go is the best thing for me right now | /r/askTRP | 02/01/14 07:17 PM |
| 1 | applying TRP in a closed society.. i need some help with thisyes I'm from the middle east. here it's not just sex the important thing is having a small relationship or just get some girls and let them go. I'm 19 and the last five years of my life were full of tragedy so I'm trying to live my life and stop thinking about people for once sex will happen if both partners are that into it but to most that's not the main goal | /r/askTRP | 02/01/14 10:39 AM |
| 1 | applying TRP in a closed society.. i need some help with thisWow guys thanks for all the replies at least say your opinion.. : | /r/askTRP | 01/01/14 11:15 PM |
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