I wrote this in a note to myself to get my thoughts clear but I thought I needed some external help.

I'm in a LTR (three months so far), so the word "next" is a bit soon for me.

Her:

  • "im always nice but everyone's mean to me" that is a red flag

  • Doesn't answer your texts but has her phone with her and texts back when you're together. Another red flag

  • Stopped talking and trying to spend time with me online. Red flags, red flags everywhere.

  • But when she's with me she gets close and gets all cute and stuff.

  • She was texting someone. And enjoying it when I looked at the user name it was "???" So obviously someone's hidden.

Me:

Right now I'm on dread game, haven't answered anything she sends (texted me twice)

Edit: she asked "what's wrong, why are you not answering me". Answered "i was busy today".

The situation:

*she's with me in a computer institute, so I have to see her five days a week. plus she sits next to me in the bus (we're the first to get on) so I can't disappear and cut contact for as long as I want to

  • There are a lot of guys around her that want her. And maybe she's already texting one of em.

  • That's why I'm worried if I keep myself distant someone else will take my place. Is dread game the best solution?

Doctor these are my symptoms. Diagnos the situation.