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Your original point: For every one of him there are thousands of men who will cut off their own leg to prove empathy to a female amputee. did seem to be indicating that you feel men are in some general sense far more empathetic to women than vice-versa. How women treat their spouse is not analogous to how women treat men as a whole. I didn't say it was. I just wondered if you were using a study of a very specific phenomenon to illustrate that men are more self-sacrificing/empathetic/? than women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 06:27 PM
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Au contraire, Poppy, everyone knows solipsism is produced only in the vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 06:13 PM
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So if I post a link to the abstract from one of the studies that said women are more likely to stay with a sick spouse than men, does that mean women are more self-sacrificing than men? You are one of the worst people here, rivaling even PPD's very worst, for being a walking, talking example of the being the thing you claim to be against. Empathy! Please! Some empathy! Oh, the sacrifices women make? Oh, the struggles women go through? Doesn't count, not real, not a big deal, more choice than inj…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 06:08 PM
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the point is its a double standard that men want empathy for their struggles while giving women who struggle zero empathy. If men actually struggled with anything, I'd empathize with them! But they don't so, you know. I mean sure, maybe 1 in a 100 or 1 in 500, and I'll pay some lip service to this hypothetical man maybe experiencing some minor difficulties. But we both know in reality men don't really suffer much at all and have so much privilege so... [NOTE to idiots: I am making a point with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 05:55 PM
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These people are absurd. I mean, on the one hand, if you wanna start a club based around disliking and disparaging people who wear purple hats, go nuts. No one can stop you. But if you routinely wear purple hats whilst participating in this purple hat-disliking club, it's just real life that others are going to notice that shit. And the whole "but I'm not talking about people like me who wear purple hats, I'm talking about THOSE OTHER PEOPLE who wear purple hats" is just going to sound really nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 05:33 PM
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Feminists/women are all so weak and pathetic and barely even conscious and super dumb and always screaming about this or that bullshit that doesn't matter. Except for the part where they single-handedly dismantled masculinity, amirite? I don't even have words to describe my disdain for a 'masculinity' that allows itself to be so thoroughly beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 03:31 AM
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Unlike you, speaking for all women everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:50 AM
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Your obvious refusal to engage in what's clearly being described to you is...telling. "Who could imagine?" I mean, you? You could imagine that, couldn't you? Emory is speaking English.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:47 PM
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Guy chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 09:05 AM
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I hope you didn't make your post thinking any of us feral animals would respond with anything even slightly resembling good faith. You didn't, did you? Fwiw, it's one of the best OPs I've seen here for a long time, and I hope you stick around because you sound like you could speak to some of the more unbalanced PPDers posting here, and they might be more willing to give you a listen due to your experiences. Congrats on getting out of that mindset, btw. It's a dead end for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 09:04 AM
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This is one of the most genuinely useful posts I've seen on here for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 09:01 AM
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you’d have to spin some sophistic legerdemain Oh hey, it's a manospherean blogger. And he thinks a C-lister in terms of fame, wealth and talent is a 'Super Alpha.' Red pill, you guys have got to raise the bar. Paul Walker? JFC. As for how much fame/status turns me on, OP, fame doesn't turn me on at all. The reason(s) he's famous could turn me on (extremely good at a specific sport, for example), or off (desperate desire for fame, which reads unmasculine to me). Status can be a huge turn on, thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 08:58 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 08:50 AM
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Right a famous actor wouldn't be a good conversation, eh You appear to be being sarcastic here but tbh 'famous actor' has got to be pretty close to the bottom of my list of 'people who would probably be interesting to converse with.'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 08:49 AM
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So just so we're clear, you're saying that making assumptions about the sexuality of the gender you are not is "ridiculous," right? And I trust that you have not made any comment, ever, about female sexuality, right? Edit: Lol, your most recent comment is accusing the women here of lying when they say they care a lot about a man's personality when it comes to being attracted to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 01:34 AM
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There are certain topics here that get certain groups really worked up, and all it takes it just a small step back to see what's really going on. I mean, the only real response to all these men on PPD, who are so desperately and embarrassingly insistent that women's standards are unfair/sky-high/utterly unrealistic is pity. It's a mass ass-showing and they don't even see it. Fucking red pill and all their lessons on frame: FAIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 11:29 PM
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Good response. I am vanquished. No further need for you to question anything about the ridiculous things you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 11:27 PM
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Everybody wants a high value partner. And levels of butthurtness over not getting a high value partner have little to do with gender. We're gonna have to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 11:23 PM
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You don't even see how psychologically obvious you are, do you? I mean fuck, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 11:18 PM
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Male hamsters spinnin' so hard in this thread they're gonna start a friction fire. It couldn't be more obvious that BOTH sexes' attraction cues etc. change somewhat with age, that it's normal/not evil/not manipulative, and that a good healthy chunk of the men who post here need (NEED) to see women as inherently shittier than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 11:15 PM
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You guys keep trying to turn male thirst into a virtue. "He banged a fattie so men r less picky than womeeeeeen!" Yeah, you're right. Men are less picky than women when it comes to who they're willing to bump uglies with in order to get off. But you line up 100 women and 100 men and then ask men and women to pick who they'd most want to bang and I guarantee the male choices will be at least as narrow as the female, and probably more so. You (men) bang uglies because you have to, not because you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 10:56 PM
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He thinks it's true and so it is. Some people he knows experienced it and so it's true. The balls on people here to speak to the broad experiences of a whole species just because some lady was mean to them. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 10:46 PM
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You do not attack, disown, throw out, or otherwise injure, a weeping woman who's thrown herself on your mercy. Especially if you're a man. Because if you do, you are a bad man and you are evil and sadistic. You are required to protect a woman who's clearly showing you her vulnerability by crying. This is the part we disagree on, I think. I don't think a man is evil or sadistic for not putting up with a cheating partner, especially one who tries to make it his fault. I think he's basically oblige…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:48 PM
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It doesn't. Not if you're attractive. In fact give me two equally attractive men, one with a rusted minivan and the other with a brand new Merc, and minivan guy probably wins because rusted minivan is a negative factor in your RMV/SMV/whateverMV and overcoming that and still being attractive = more attractive than needing points from your Merc. If that makes sense. It's the same for shorter vs taller. A 5 '7 dude who can make me his bitch is way more tingle inducing than the dude who needs the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:45 PM
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Sure, yes. Good looking people of either gender can get away with a lot more bad behaviour than ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:37 PM
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Yeah, men and women can be flawed and shitty. They just manifest it in different ways, and lo and behold, women can be just as shitty as men. Then it looks like we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:34 PM
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I think you'd find most of them would agree with the notion that most women are inherently/bio-truthily attracted to good-looking, masculine men. But it's not really my job to pink-knight the bloops so... yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:22 PM
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But shitty women get away with it far more often. I don't agree. I don't agree that there are more women of value than men of value. I don't agree that being able to get a random fuck from a random person = 'women have it easier in some all-encompassing, universal way.' Nothing I have experienced in my life tells me that shitty women have it any easier/better in that general/universal way than shitty men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:21 PM
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Bull. This, once again, comes down to what exactly people are talking about when they say 'manipulation.' It's a weaselly word game on your part. 'Manipulating' someone into feeling especially masculine during a scary movie is one thing. 'Manipulating' someone into beating the shit out of the guy you don't like at work is another. For example. A man 'manipulating' a woman by presenting himself as masculine and tough, arousing her feminine instincts to be with him etc. is one thing. A man 'manipu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:15 PM
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We might see different things, as our experiences are probably quite different in our dealings with people. You and I aren't interpreting the clouds here, guy. We're interpreting a human being, who has told us using words what she meant. I am taking her words at face value, you are projecting you own experiences/beliefs (as you straight-up admit in the quote) onto her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:12 PM
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God made men that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:02 PM
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What makes men susceptible to this? Because they fucking love feeling like a big man. And as much as you're characterizing this dynamic as 'female manipulation' I honestly think it's just both parties enjoy the feels - he likes feeling like the big, protective man and she likes feeling protected and feminine at his side. Both are getting what they want from this, neither are evilly manipulating the other into feeling/acting in ways they don't already deeply want to feel/act. As willing as I've b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:01 PM
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And once again, because this is PPD and not real life, no one is gonna say shit about this behaviour not being gendered at all. This behaviour is the standard behaviour of a shithead who got cheating, whether that shithead has a p or a v. This is standard immaturity. This is standard human 'I have been caught doing something wrong and don't have the character to own it, so it must be someone else's fault.' Sometimes I think gender is just the catalyst for this sub to piss and moan about the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 07:51 PM
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Are you a troll? Wtf. This is ridiculous. Dude, you go right ahead with your plan to shun all females. Have at it. Thumbs up. Literally no one is going to suffer the consequences except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 01:41 AM
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Basically, it all boils down to sex Maybe for you it does, but you don't get to speak for all humans. I bet even you would change your tune if you hadn't had a meal for two days, or someone you loved was very sick (for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 11:02 PM
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You're both playing "who's the bigger victim" She's literally not. In fact she goes out of her way to make it clear she's not staking out the 'I-am-an-especially-oppressed-victim' ground/is just talking about the normal struggles of a middle class person her age: Thats something everyone under 40 is experiencing - it isn't just men, its all of us... I think that is probably a situation a lot of people here, the men who are upset and angry, could actually relate to. That shit isn't a war - its co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 10:58 PM
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I have a type - blue eyed, around 5'10, dark hair, muscular/broadly built, wide-faced, physically capable. But having that 'ideal' has never played much of a role in who I've dated. At 15 I liked Bieber-type pretty boys. Then I lost my virginity to a huge, 6'4 caveman with thighs like tree-trunks, and forever after found myself partial to huge men (as well as Bieber types). The I dated a blue-eyed blonde Icelandic guy for a couple of years and now I notice that type, too. Then I dated a super ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:16 AM
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Not sure if I'm being accused of hamstering or other people are... If it's me, I think the rule is you have to wait for someone to actually express their opinion before you get to instantly write it off as hamstering.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:44 PM
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I mean, you're right, I don't mean "as long as he knows how to kowtow and snivel like a good slave" - but I probably also don't mean what you/other RPs reading this think I mean, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:41 PM
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I think having kids has a lot to do with this. Esp. for men, for whatever reason (I suspect it's that men are more likely to be comfortable socializing only with their partner, but I could be wrong about that).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:40 PM
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All are yellow. I cannot emphasize enough how important vibe/personality/character/body language/intangibles are to me. I could even be attracted to that first guy if he was styled differently and knew how to make me his bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:33 PM
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This is another of those PPD 'am I taking crazy pills' posts for me. I mean, the basic fact that women get increasingly unattractive as they age as some kind of secret, unspoken cultural knowledge? Fucking LOL. If there are truly women out there who had/have no idea that they are seen as less fuckable (and therefore less valuable to a chunk of people) at 50 than 20 then i think I'm gonna have to stick them in the same box with those flabbergasted men who are just shocked (shocked!) that women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:07 PM
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Men. That is the answer to 'what is it with women and promotional nudity.'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 03:27 AM
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Weak shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 03:25 AM
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Dude, why are you being so hostile? I mean, goddamn. Grid has never been one of those people who seems to be here because she needs to shit on Group X to big herself up. Why not just TRY to consider, for a brief moment and before you default to anger, that her OP might be worthy of considering?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 04:07 AM
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I think I've talked about my former roommate who had a little harem of STEM girls. He was skinny, acne-prone and unattractive. So were they. They loved him so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 04:04 AM
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But, my comment is more to say that even good social skills with same-sex people (here, men) is not adequate to have success with women. I agree that being able to chill with other dudes is not enough to mean you're also going to be great at picking up women, but I think OP might be going more for a 'baby steps' kind of thing. Crawl before you walk etc. And again, I think it's mostly applicable to young men. High betas (as you allude to above; maybe it was me) end up divorced at 45. Do they? I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:54 AM
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If you're going somewhere specific with these posts, Grid, I think I agree. One of the biggest disconnects I perceive on this sub is between that group of dudes who are convinced it's something specific about how they look (not enough muscle, eyes tilted the wrong way etc.) and - well, and those of us who think it almost certainly has little or nothing to do with how they look. There's a whole group of young men here who, imo, seriously don't 'get it' - and for whom spending more time here/on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:47 AM
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After 30 its much more important to be respected by other guys than it is to socialize with other guys. One of these things doesn't preclude the other, though. I mean, ideally you'd be respected by your guy friends. I'm somewhat surprised to see a number of comments disparaging male friendship as not of much use. Not having same sex friends is actively 'odd' to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:41 AM
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Just gonna add my thoughts here and say that I think there are some very different 'types' of men who identify as RP, and I think with regards to what you're talking about, age matters a lot. There's a guy here I spoke to once (could have been you?) who sort of roughly outlined his past to me, he's in his 50s iirc and out of a marriage to a woman who sounded like a bitch on wheels. I think by the time a person is no longer a young adult, there's more room for personality type, bad luck etc. etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:36 AM
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Cumberbatch is a public school boy (i.e. private school, English version of) and it shows. His persona is the epitome of his 'type' - seemingly unshakeable self-confidence/self-belief and a dry, self-deprecating sense of humour. It's very different to what PPD seems to think of as attractive in men, but I think many of the guys here would actually do well to analyse just why Cumbie is so attractive to the ladies. It's certainly not because he's a big fighty, shouty 'alpha.'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:42 AM
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Aw, dude, don't get mad. I said you weren't one of them, and you're not! And i don't post on an alt. This is the only account I use for PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:21 AM
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To be fair to Grid, though, this sub harbours a number of shitty racist hillbillies 'race realists' and I don't blame anyone for having their ears perked up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:08 AM
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I'm pretty sure I'd have to wrestle a good number of straight guys out of the way if I wanted to blow any of the England players right now. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 03:05 AM
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I disagree. Cumberbatch sans fame would still be as fancied - or close to as fancied - by women. He has that whole commanding/posh/British/has a sense of humour thing going on, that 'totally in charge of himself' vibe - women fucking love that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:53 AM
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I remember when I had that moment for Ryan Gosling, but I have not yet had it for Cumberbooby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:51 AM
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Someone needs to make a post on RP vs RP cuz there's, like, serious disagreement here between RPs on whether or not OP is right (hint: OP is right).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:51 AM
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Loftus-Cheek is a definite would. That said, my opinion on the fuckability of the England squad is worth little at the moment due to the fact that I deeply love each and every one of them and cannot therefore be said to be without a small amount of bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:49 AM
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I remember the exact person she's talking about and even now, months later, remember my insta-uuurgh reaction to him. I hope someone can dig up that vid again because it really perfectly illustrated so many things we argue over on this sub. Grid/OP is 100% right, and the fact that so many men argue with what she's saying is just proof that they still don't really get women's attraction or how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:43 AM
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To be fair to concacanca, I don't think he's one of our resident hillbillies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:38 AM
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https://www.buzzfeed.com/michaelblackmon/people-are-obsessed-with-this-world-cup-players-mesmerizing?utm_term=.mgAnkxPvar#.hc64dBzkEn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:37 AM
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No. He's elfin, and 'elfin' isn't a look I'm attracted to. Angry elf = no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 06:22 PM
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Also: tennant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 07:09 PM
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Sour grapes will do that to a stomach. What the hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 07:02 PM
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I would try to bang girls who were uglier than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 06:43 PM
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OK, OP, I have some thoughts. Your title feels bad faithy - nothing in the linked article was aimed at delegitimizing #Metoo and your "another look" wording makes it sound like it was. Lots of points in the article are basically true - toxic femininity is a thing, and in certain circles (both online and off) to even question the 100% unimpeachable angelic nature of literally any human who is not a cis/het/white male = you're a misogynist/homophobe/racist etc. I mean, in certain other circles it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 06:37 PM
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the hawaiians believed in partible paternity Is it known if they believe in partible paternity as a matter of course (i.e. in every pregnancy or almost every pregnancy)? I.e. do we know if this was widespread or if only some babies were thought to have multiple fathers etc.? If you have a link, I'm interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:39 PM
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Why is this post downvoted? This is entirely on-topic and, for fucking once, specifically new (ancient Hawaiian practices as they relate to the sexes? interesting!). Downvoting posts like this is why PPD can't have nice things, you pack of barely-sentient lemmings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:30 PM
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I disagree. But, again, we're probably best off waiting for a specific point to discuss. Which shouldn't be too long in coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:16 PM
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There are plenty of people here who demand peer reviewed scientific journals published within the last 12 minutes I mean, we should probably wait until we do have a specific disagreement on a specific RP point/belief. We can engage then. As for studies, again, everyone here does that thing of 'this study agrees with my opinion and is therefore proof that my opinion is fact' vs 'this study disagrees with my opinion and therefore this study is flawed and what kind of idiot needs studies anyway.' M…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:15 PM
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OK, so just to start: this is just my opinion. You are free to have your own. It's also been 5+ years since I saw this film (although my opinion at the time was even worse right after seeing it). So. Why is American Beauty BP? The husband's lust for the teenage girl is portrayed throughout the movie as creepy and gross. Watching it, you are well aware you're supposed to be horrified by it. This is confirmed when he finally gets the chance to bang her and ends up realizing what a disgusting perve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:05 PM
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The most red pill film is easily American Beauty Disagree. American Beauty is so blue pill it actually put me off (and I am in no way RP).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 08:50 PM
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Your beliefs about JBP seem unfounded, or insufficiently supported at best. I gave my personal impression of JP. I am not in any way wedded to the belief that my personal opinion of JP's psychology = The Truth Of Who JP Is. I am both entirely open to the fact that I could be entirely wrong (I have never met the man and I would be dumb to assume my barely-considered first impression of him is fact) and not at all interested in convincing anyone else that I'm right - because I don't know if I am. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 08:46 PM
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That's a strawman and the first bad faith reply from you. At no point have I ever said that you/I/anyone can't know anything (although my attempts to get people to accept their own possible wrongness have met before with this dishonest response here). Facts and truths exist. Some we may know, some we may not. But you have, throughout this entire exchange, failed to offer anything more than "I strongly believe it's true" as evidence of the truth of your beliefs. And as I have already said many ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 08:43 PM
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This sounds like you are saying no one should ever try to propagate whatever knowledge they believe themselves to have because they might be wrong. Not at all. And even if I was, thankfully I'm just some dickhead on the internet and have no actual capabilities to limit anyone else's speech. People can try to propagate whatever "knowledge they believe themselves to have" but you gotta admit that that's a low-ass bar if a person is at all interested in what's true. Anti-vaxxers themselves believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 08:37 PM
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Strongly agreed on both points. Also: ENGLAND!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 09:01 PM
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FUCKING YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Right, that's me off to the pub. I am in tears and not ashamed. Gareth Southgate, oh, the depraved shit I would do to you. <3 <3 <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 09:00 PM
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Without being patronizing, that's impressively reasonable. Not enough reasonable people here at PPD, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 08:19 PM
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Ah, of course. In that case, I completely agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 08:18 PM
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I'm struggling to think of a time when I was overwhelmed by an argument. But that doesn't mean you weren't overwhelmed by an argument, does it? Have you seen other people overwhelmed by an argument and yet convinced they won? You must have, this is the internet. This is humans humaning. So if them believing they haven't been overwhelmed by an argument doesn't mean they weren't actually overwhelmed by an argument, why does you believing it mean it? You know who thinks they're never wrong? Stupid …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 07:43 PM
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but either they didn't want to finish the conversation or they couldn't, and a subset of "couldn't" is their argument was defeated. So you can't know, and you admit it. Which is correct. You cannot read minds. This - assuming that someone who does not respond has conceded that you have 'won' - is mushy thinking and you should stop doing it. He's not a messiah I agree. In fact the bulk of my problems with JP come not from intellectual or political differences but from my growing feeling that he i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 07:34 PM
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Did you used to be red? And if so, are you now consciously not-red?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 07:11 PM
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Luby?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 07:10 PM
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Oh jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 07:07 PM
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When I "know" something, it is very uncomfortable for me to know there are people out there who are uninformed, arguing poorly, or are intellectually dishonest about topics I care about. You should do whatever you can to stop thinking this way. One way might be to fully and truly accept that the fervency of your belief that you're right (sorry, I am overusing the 'fervent' word today) doesn't in any way mean you actually are right. And yes, again, this applies to everyone. Many of the people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 07:01 PM
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The fact that you're posting this comment in a sub that technically exists solely for debating the truth of RP. You are by definition not ignoring critics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:53 PM
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Though, I don't think I've ever come across someone who had things explained to them in a civil manner that they didn't understand before, and then acknowledged the learning. Usually they just dip out without a reply, or they double down. Well this assumes they were convinced. I see this a lot (and not just on PPD or the internet) - this mistaken belief that those who disagree do so because they don't understand. I see this mostly from people who fervently believe their own version of the 'truth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:48 PM
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But the reality of your experiences, and the reality of your feelings on those experiences (and what they mean to you), do not automatically make your extrapolations correct. Especially when those extrapolations are laughably broad, as they often are from RP. Do you think the blues are lying about their experiences and their feelings/beliefs on those experiences? And if you don't, why is your specific interpretation of reality/the meaning of given interactions worth any more than theirs? The poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:37 PM
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Have you considered the possibility that those who disagree with you are not lying or being disingenuous? I.e. that they believe what they say in good faith, as I assume you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:12 PM
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unbridled TRP ideology Do you really think J Peterson is 'unbridled TRP'?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:10 PM
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but there are so many references to stuff that just might not make sense elsewhere. Sorry, wasn't clear, that's exactly what I meant. I tried to get a Canadian into it and after 2 eps she just looked at me like 'what is this and why do you like it?'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:06 PM
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Fucking England, right? Just when we were all basically calm about the fact that we suck and at least we made it and hey, we'll go out before the knockout rounds for sure, they get our goddamned hopes up once more. UGH.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:04 PM
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What good would it do if they didn't truely believe it? But this is exactly what we're differing on. You think it helps, I don't, and neither of us can 'prove' it. It's a different discussion if we both agree that it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 05:58 PM
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I'm posting on Reddit right this minute because I am too nervous to actually watch ENGCOL. I am a big sports fan who can't actually watch any of the important matches. I care too much and am a massive fuckup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 05:53 PM
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A few people have tried to force me to watch Deadwood. I watched most of the first ep once. I mean... is it THAT good? Ep 1 didn't grab me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 05:50 PM
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OH GREAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 05:49 PM
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Saving Private Ryan NO. Goddamnit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 05:49 PM
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I fucking LOVE Peep Show. But it is so thoroughly British that I feel like non-Brits would miss a lot of it, iykwim. Anyone interested in understanding that specific segment of British culture should watch it, though, along with all anglophiles (although I note that true anglophiles seem mostly interested in the aristocracy, not 30-somethings from Croydon).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 05:48 PM
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Little Finger's ending was super, super crap. Benioff and Weiss have fucked up so many characters. I mean, really? The guy whose 'thing' is outsmarting everyone and keeping his own motivations opaque gets thoroughly outsmarted by a couple of teenage girls? Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 05:44 PM
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What are your current favourite TV shows, and all time greatest films? Current favourite TV shows are Detectorists (gentle, flawless British comedy series) and The Americans. Unpopular TV opinions: I watch GOT. I have watched every ep and intend to watch every ep of the final season. At its best it was very good, but it has since become embarrassingly bad. It was never as good as the itnernet circlejerk said it was, but the storyline kept you hooked - it was compelling in the manner of a Stephen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 05:39 PM
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It's easier to feel confident around people who are less than you. I'm much more confident in a room full of kindergarteners than I am in a room full of doctors. Sure, but kindergarteners are less than you (in terms of their abilities, anyway). That isn't a good analogy, imo, because you to kindergarteners is not the same as men to women. That's a personal choice you made based on your values. Other people with other values with come to different conclusions about if it's worth it or not. Sure, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:19 PM
2

Pound kitties are best kitties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:01 PM
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all men would say yes. Ugh why did you even post? And why does it matter so much to you that ALL MEN share your specific preferences in sexual partners? Wtf dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 11:00 PM
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How do you mean? I.e. what, in your opinion, is RP 'designed to do' and how does seeing women as 'lesser' help? I get the concept of 'if you think all X are magical beings of beauty and light, you might be less inclined to try to strike up a conversation with one of them than if you thought of them as more earthly beings.' But I don't see any practical reason to move into the realm of 'women as lesser beings' vs 'women as flawed humans.' I don't see any proof that the possible costs of beliefs l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:49 PM
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ITT: Sidebar Wankers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:31 PM
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They wasted too much of their lives talking to women and thinking about women. Self-awareness level: 0
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:29 PM
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but it's sure as shit good at doing what it's designed to do. Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:19 PM
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I mean, yeah, that's exactly what it is. Not sure if you posted your OP because you're considering subscribing to RP's newsletter or just to discuss or what, but if it's the newsletter option, you can do better. This place (pillsphere) is the fucking dregs, guy. The dregs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:18 PM
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I mean, this is pretty much only going to work if it's a woman using it on a man, right? Or a man using it on a woman in the specific context of a BDSM gathering? This pick-up line would instantly, light-speedily, and completely put me off any man using it. It sounds overtly sexual to me, and overt sexual come-ons from strangers aren't a thing I'm into.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:00 PM
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Killing sprees existed before incels were a thing Yes I know. I don't think incels invented killing sprees. I consider this incel-bashing under ethical pretenses disgusting - it's a societal shaming effort against guys who are romantically unsuccessful; and whenever a guy complains about his romantic misfortune, all the self-righteous dipshits who have pumped themselves up on the internet can immediately pull the "so you're one of these entitled incel subhumans who probably wants to shoot up peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:55 PM
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OK that's actually a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:59 PM
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Do I see a woman saying 'all men are shit, fuck all men, they're all worthless assholes' the same way as I see a man saying 'all women are worthless, fuck women, they're only good for sex etc.'? Yes. This is the lament of the human who for whatever reason has no ability to step back and look at the role they're playing in their own unsuccessful dating/relationship life. Ofc. I am talking here about people who routinely say these things, and believe them as a matter of course. I would go easier o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:56 PM
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Yes, agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:43 PM
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It's funny because Jammerly's point is actually one that more RP men (the ones who still bother with the 'we're RP because we want to learn how to bang more women' stuff, anyway) would do well to give some genuine thought to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:39 PM
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I mean, you get that this means that everyone who doesn't actively choose to fuck only infertile/hugely ugly/very mentally and emotionally disabled etc. people is a eugenicist, right? Including men? I'm 90 and men won't bang me! Eugenics!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 01:03 AM
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I remember we sort of got into this specific topic on a previous trans post on PPD. Of course we (general we) have little to no ability to discuss this topic especially without people getting heated, but I remember thinking the same things back then. Look at the point being made over and over and over in this comment section: I could never be attracted to a transman/woman because transmen/women don't pass - just reading down I'm seeing all kind of comments about waist to hip ratios, soft skin et…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 06:34 PM
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Once again, this sub trips me out. Do you think that caring for (or at least not openly attacking) the 'truly helpless' is a trait more common in women than men? I'm responding to you but this is more a response to the whole thread. We assume gender differences here so frequently they often go unremarked upon, even if they would be pretty controversial in civilized company. Women are more protective of the 'helpless'? Is there any proof of this at all? I don't think feeling for the weak or helpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 08:37 PM
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The father crisis is because men have no reason to stay No reason to stay? I mean... their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 08:17 PM
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if you actually want to discuss this, see the response I just posted a few mins ago to another poster answering your question: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8s9nm9/the_allure_of_aggressive_men/e0yi8u5/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:11 PM
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I always find myself wishing that posters like this OP are trolls, because if they're not trolls, then they really believe what they're posting, and that's tragic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:07 PM
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This still needs to be much more narrowly defined for me to answer. For example, Dude 1 orders his steak rare at a restaurant and receives a steak that is medium rare. Starts yelling at, (and shoving/challenging) the waiter, then at his gf who is trying to calm him down, then at other patrons, then storms out into the street to continue yelling until the cops show up. Dude 1 is often like this, liable to start flexing on anyone who breathes the wrong way in his presence. Dude 2 is very, very rar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:04 PM
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We already know that mere touching and PIV does not lead to arousal nor does it lead to orgasm Why do you keep repeating this lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 10:41 PM
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Define what you mean by 'aggressive.' Because there are some types of 'aggression' that are almost instantly off-putting, others that are neither attractive nor off-putting, and others that are very attractive. And what types of aggression are and aren't attractive will differ from woman to woman, often wildly. Without really defining your terms this is a bit of a useless question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:41 PM
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I thought it stood for another kind of pill. The Zed Pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:52 PM
1

Well, who's staring? Is it somebody I'm already banging or want to bang? Or is it some random mouthbreathing weirdo on a metro platform? Because that matters quite a lot. Like, imagine the Instagram fitness model whose boobies you most want to touch staring at you lasciviously whilst she cooks dinner for you in lingerie. Now imagine an old obese woman staring at you in the checkout line at Walmart. You're gonna be more into one of those things than the other, aren't you? And the endless (and tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:47 PM
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I am pretty sure Brazil has little to fear from England, although ofc I would be happy to be proven wrong. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 11:34 PM
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I'm hoping to move up to Canada later this year Oops, I thought you were Canadian. You were so nice and everything, I was like no way is this one of those blood-dripping-from-its-fangs Americans. :D i've actually never met a Canadian football fan Most of us (myself included) are the same as your typical American fan - annoying white boys/girls who only realized football was even a thing within the past 10 yrs and now regularly making spectacles of ourselves at local sports bars. OK, there's that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:27 PM
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If you could not ever say anything that could possibly cause me to have more than a tiny, tiny, barely detectable smidgen of hope re: England's football fortunes EVER AGAIN, that would be great. They won't so we'll get dumped out in the quarters as usual. Oh there we go. Ahhh, the cozy certainty of disappointment. What're your thoughts on the Tunisia match? 3-1 Tunisia, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:20 PM
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Wait, who is 'we'? I spoke to a few people about the joint N America bid winning and no one was sure if the 3 teams were automatically qualified or not, due to some confusion over whether or not FIFA had confirmed a possible rule change or not? Fuck, if Canada automatically qualifies that is going to be so hilariously awesome. Not sure we have the capacity to give a single flying fuck about anything other than hockey (ok, not 'we' - 'I') but maybe we'll see... I think Senegal... actually let me …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:17 PM
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OMG WE ARE FOOTBALL TWINS I HEART JAMES!!! And even know how to properly pronounce his name. :) Fuck, I love the World Cup. Me tooooooo. So happy it's finally here!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:13 PM
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Jamie Vardy is my favourite player, yep. Was hoping Rooney could make it one more WC but he couldn't have been put on the team given the state of his game. :( My cheering ranking goes England>Adorable Underdogs (Senegal and Iceland this year)>Germany/USA. Football is the only sport I ever cheer for the US in, because they're not very good at it and it hilariously upsets my friends. Do better next time, yanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:09 PM
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All the pieces are in place but it's two years too early. This is the most English-football-fan thing I have ever read. The perpetual, torturous and totally unjustified hope. (and I say that as an England fan)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:04 PM
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OK, so, revision: Fuck Argentina! And fuck Uruguay - and Suarez and his choppers in particular! (my South American team is Colombia)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:02 PM
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England has an extensive choke history. Not anymore! 2018 is our year! Lol j/k.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:00 PM
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We are in total agreement on Suarez. He is the literal worst. I'm actually getting angry just thinking about him and the shit he's been allowed to get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 08:59 PM
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My Argie-hate is deep-rooted but yes, meh on Messi. Funny comment on taxes, I cheer for England but can never REALLY decide, even when watching matches, if I actually like the players as individuals because English or hate them all for being spoiled, flashy dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 08:58 PM
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Oh my God, you were there for that? As a Brazilian? I'm so sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 08:54 PM
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Suarez can go fuck himself Oh this we can fully agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 08:53 PM
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Fuck Argentina.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 08:52 PM
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Dude, fucking thank you. Legit the worst comment section I have seen on PPD in ~1 year. So bad my mind is actually slightly blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 08:30 PM
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Low value. Not low values. And low value can pretty much be whatever the person making the accusation thinks it is. On here it seems to be lower-than-middle-class women who are not married by 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:58 AM
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this actually works pretty well Yeah, on broken dumpster-whores. Not on klassy laydees like me and my friends!!1 I'm joking. I mean, sure, if a dude is super hot go on and assume a larger proportion of women are attracted to you right off the bat than are attracted to less attractive dude. I think someone women are still going to be turned off - but not all, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:17 PM
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It's more 'value-shaming' that goes on here (amongst the women) not slut-shaming so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:59 PM
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Gingercels, heh. Prince Harry used to be pretty much as hot as it's possible for a human to be, tho. And he was ginger then, too. Fuck it I don't even mind ginger men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 08:56 PM
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so how long do you think a man should wait to make a move? I mean, I literally can't answer this without quite a bit of context and info about the individuals involved. How do i tell i introverted woman want the D? The introverted women I know get quiet and blush a lot. But the introverted women on here, I dunno - perhaps failing to kick you hard in the balls = love??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 08:56 PM
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Dear Robots: sadly, individual women often differ in behaviours and motivations for said behaviours. There is no one answer to the 'how does a man quickly tell if a woman is into him?' question. However, I'll try to answer your questions in a 'generally, this may be the case with a lot of women' way, OK? How can a man tell if a woman is attracted to him? In general, friendliness is not enough. Women are friendly with other women, too. I fairly often see men mistaking neutral friendliness for 'sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 07:35 PM
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When RP talks about 'The Wall' they seem to talk about it as a monolithic thing. Something all women are susceptible to, at the exact same age (30? 25 if ur edgy af?). Which is just obviously not the case, OP. Do all people generally decline in looks as they age, past a certain point which often differs rather wildly depending on the person? Yes. Is there a group of men who hold fucking women under X age as more important than any other kind of interaction with women? Yes. So, there are certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:50 AM
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I'm not the person who initially responded to you. I have not given you any personal anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:43 AM
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Yea you don't know any rich men. Seriously why even ask people to CYV if you're not even going to pretend to deal with the answers in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 02:37 AM
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Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 08:32 PM
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Do you disagree? I think so, yes. The second thing is that if a guy acted like girls say is "confident and nice" my bullshit meter is set so high that I'd probably interpret that guy as an asshole if he tried to bring that cocky shit to me. It's the same the other way around, too. "Omg, X is so unique and nice!" No, X (female X, it's a dude speaking) is hot, that's why you like X. For all these 'nice' convos we have here I am more and more convinced it's a red herring at best. Women (and men) li…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:10 PM
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There's a strong correlation. I have genuinely not ever noticed this in my life. Which is why it always strikes me, here, where it almost seems unquestionable/fact-y.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:03 PM
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It seems this is some kind of PPD slang. Yes. PPD is literally the only place I've ever seen this used, and I am def. one of those ppl who starts to take on the slang/language quirks of those around me. Plus it's pretty useful. It's no 'butthurt' but it's useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 06:01 PM
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You fucked up, OP. You really, really need to be specific about the definition of 'nice' that you're using if you're going to ask questions like this. Most of the replies have interpreted your word 'nice' to mean 'spineless/weak/low self-confidence' - is that how you meant it? Do I think spineless/weak/low self-confidence guys finish last, especially if they're competing against emotionally strong/self-confident/will stand up for themselves men? Yes. This sub loves to conflate 'kind/agreeable/go…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:56 PM
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OK. We disagree strongly on what a 'perfect man' would be, then. Any dude (or any woman, tbh) who would never be upset at any bad behaviour on their partner's part is kind of a bitch, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:21 PM
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Why did you delete the other thread OP? About perfect male bodies? Don't let Atlas and her gay obsession intimidate you, PPD dudes!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:19 PM
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Another one I will not have to fistfight on PPD Island. u/ginsmokelies is goin' down, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:18 PM
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The dude I posted on the most recent celeb crush thread was an actor (I do think you noted his broad shoulders, in response, iirc?) but I have posted a rugby player before in similar threads and I have to TOTALLY agree with you on the female-fuse-blowing potential of broad shoulders. The dude you posted here, has, I agree, basically the perfect male body. 'Meaty rather than cut' is an exact description of my preference, too. I've gotten into some arguments with dudes here when I've used the term…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:06 PM
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No I understand if you don't think she exists - I don't think she exists either, absed on a lot of the descriptions in this thread. It's just interesting to hear from a woman who thinks the 'perfect woman' would never be unhappy with any of her husband's behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 11:00 PM
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Oh my god. A woman thinks this? A woman thinks the perfect woman would literally never be unhappy with any of her husband's behaviour? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:28 PM
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Woman A would never be unhappy with her husband's behavior if she was a unicorn. Christ, you guys give yourselves away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:24 PM
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Bougie This is such an American word. And every time I think I know what it means, someone uses it in a way that makes me realize I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 08:17 PM
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She's in her 30s. Life is now about Pat McGrath palettes, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:21 PM
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And JBP comes along, does all this and some stuff on top of that, and it's still not good enough OK, but before we even get into the 'who said it' stuff, all you've done in the OP is highlight how different what JP says is from what RP says. So I don't see how you can even say that what he's saying is somehow 'sanitized Red Pill' - it isn't sanitized Red Pill, it isn't Red Pill at all. You yourself point out that JP seems very preoccupied with morality and doing the right thing etc., and that - …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:19 PM
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JBP did all the stuff BP-PPDers asked of redpillers So I haven't yet read through all of the comments but are we just buying this, then? That it was blues/purples/not reds selling the whole 'if you just sanitized the language everyone would agree' line? Because I recall it being overwhelmingly RP's saying this. 'You're just being a snowflake about words, if I said it in a way that didn't offend your snowflake-y feels, you'd be fine with it.' Come on. It was REDS saying this. For ages. And OP, al…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:20 PM
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She's knows I reddit with red pillers. I'm going to tell her I was advised to hard next her. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:01 PM
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They're a bit old to be in puppy love, wouldn't you say? I don't really think humans are ever too old to be all starry-eyed infatuated. I don't know that he's cut out to be a husband... Not a modern one, anyway, where sexual fidelity is expected even of royalty. she's just using him. I agree. I think she wants to be famous and adored. When I saw that she had ONE person from her own family (I know some on her dad's side seems shady af but one?) and that her friends were all last-6-year-glossy-sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:00 PM
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Trump wants to ride down the Mall in a golden carriage. He's got a royalty boner, too. You guys should just sign back up to be ruled by your betters. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:55 PM
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He is the spitting image of Charles these days. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:54 PM
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Listen. to. what. I'm. saying. I don't make character judgments based on N count alone. It seems you do. Fine. No one I didn't know would be watching my kids. Do I want a diseased person changing my baby's diapers? Probably not. But that's about the disease. Not the N count. Miss N Count of 100 who I know and who doesn't have herpes is getting the babysitting job over Miss N Count of 3 who I don't know, and who has herpes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:53 PM
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It's just different words used to describe the same person. One set of words is more literal, the other includes serious negative judgments that I have no real interest in making about someone who, with 2 STDs, is probably having a hard enough time in life. I'd have to know more about her to make a negative judgment. Like is she a crazed narcissist who racked up that N count because she feeds off male attention? I might judge her for crazed narcissism. But I generally don't judge people for N co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:06 PM
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Basically, because I think they're both still in the 'infatuation' phase and sooner or later she's going to realize he's too/very used to getting his own way, which imo very well might include extramarital activities (esp. after she pops out a kid or two and the thrill wears off) and he's going to realize she's a shallow Hollywood attention whore who was never going to make a good wife. One of my friends got so pissed at me for this opinion yesterday she threw a croissant at my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:01 PM
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Harry is still hot. He's less physically hot but he has all the confidence and power of someone raised with that level of privilege, and that alone is enough to make him attractive to a LOT of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:56 PM
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I was about to disagree with you, because I think her specific career actually made her a much worse choice for Harry, but then I realized I don't think he actually thinks that. His family almost certainly does. And they're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:54 PM
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HA HA HA this made me lol. 'Maples.' Also I've seen a surprisingly royalist streak on Reddit lately from the yanks. It's almost always an American jumping in with that tired 'they pay for themselves!!1!' bullshit whenever anyone says something even slightly negative about them. It's always William or Harry they're defending, too - the worst of the lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:52 PM
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Really? She is significantly better looking than him, imo. 5 years ago it was a looksmatch but he's turning into his dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:48 PM
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I give the marriage 5 years before someone starts I don't think it's going to last, either (unpopular opinion right now) but for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:47 PM
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Ok so here's the thing. Everybody is constantly judging everybody, all the time. These aren't necessarily negative or positive judgments, sometimes they're fairly neutral. "I see that Pamela has banged 1000 men. Pamela appears to be a nice person, and I have no wish to hurt or punish her. However, I choose not to date promiscuous women and therefore will not date Pamela." vs "Pamela has banged 1000 men. Pamela is a worthless human being, who I should actively work to hurt and punish for her beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:35 PM
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Flawless, Lewis. Flaw.Less. Just last night a lower status male dared to breath in my bf's vicinity. And do you want to know what happened? He beat that lower status male to death with his gigantic cock. To death! And then I came 1 billion times and everyone clapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:23 PM
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OP, just fuckin' post what you think. Don't hide behind egregiously fake shit like this. I mean, did you write this? I kinda feel like you wrote this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:20 PM
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Lewis, where the fuck are you? You're on PPD, aren't you? Jerking ourselves - and each other - off over how alpha/masculine/intelligent/XNTJ/UMC/feminine etc. etc. we are is like 60% of what we do here. Recognize it for what it is (completely average low self-esteemers creating idealized internet personas) and it will bother you less. That said, the example you gave doesn't really fit with 'ubermenschen' does it? I mean that description doesn't fit with my idea of what RP men think men should be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:19 PM
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Hoo boy. :: rereads :: HooooooOOOOOOOOOO BOY.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 01:14 PM
1

that noted increased financial security leads to reduced stress so of course higher income people report more stable marital satisfaction. Did it actually talk about cheating rates, though? I'd be interested to see those. I wonder how much opportunistic cheating goes on, esp. with UMC men banging the nanny/the assistant/randoms whilst traveling for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 07:10 PM
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I picture us both sipping tea with the stiffest of pinkies, Smoogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:26 PM
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I believe you. And just to be perfectly clear, I am not advocating 'meet girls X way' over 'meet girls Y way' - I'm more saying hey, if you really want to meet girls, and you have the time hang out with a group and you don't literally hate hanging out with groups, you might as well try it. It's just me saying if you might as well throw all the shit at the wall, cuz it makes the odds of some it sticking higher. There was none of this "we've hung out together for a year with mutual friends" or "we…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:25 PM
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My man Excuse me I'm a laydee. We can only define TRP by their approved official doctrine aka the sidebar. There is literally no other way. Sure. I just don't fine The Sidebar particularly succinct, clear or compelling. I wish someone would write up a more (succinct, clear, compelling) Sidebar. It would make discussion easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:19 PM
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My dude, RP is no bible/quran. BUT, to not nitpick your point, if you asked me if the bible was "true" or not I wouldn't have a simple yes/no answer to that, either. Do I think God made the world in 7 days? No. Do I think the bible contains some of the most profound truths we have access to? Yes. Do i think all the shitty little RP theories are correct because 1 or 2 studies and a metric fuckton of assumptions and bias? No. Do i think there are basic truths contained within? Yes. Goddamnit don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:13 PM
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No, I mean in the OP you were all "women should give men a chance" and so then I was all "then men should give fat chicks a chance" - just making a point. (and that point was: 'should' doesn't come into this and trying to force it to won't work)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:10 PM
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Sometimes it's "knew him for a couple of hours and then decided to go home with him". But, yes, a lot of times it's "we all hung out together in groups", etc. Yep, true. If I gave anyone the impression that cold approach/know someone for 2 hours and then bang never works i did not mean to - sometimes it definitely works!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:09 PM
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I would say side-bar. But remember, red pill doesn't have exclusive rights to these concepts. Dual mating strategy, for instance, has been a well-researched and documented thing among social scientists for decades. OK, the whole 'side bar' response isn't really good enough (the 'side bar' encompasses a LOT of material, and it doesn't, to me, add up to much more than a bunch of random and overwhelmingly not demonstrably correct material that I personally put very little stock in). If you're talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:45 PM
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I didn't say it didn't work. I said not trying the 'hanging out in co-ed' groups strategy as well doesn't make a lot of sense to me. Unless you for some reason really hate hanging out in co-ed groups. Edit: And what about the fat chick?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:36 PM
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(6) In order to answer this question I need a solid definition of what 'Red Pill' is - RP is and has always been too nebulous to pin down and is therefore almost impossible to discuss in ways like you're asking. If you can give me a couple of sentences briefly explaining what it is to you, I'll answer. So many bloops here think of women in two groups. Quality and low quality. I don't think it's just bloops who do this but yes, it's way, WAY oversimplified (and it's also mostly posturing/signalin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:35 PM
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Are you going to listen to the responses, OP, which are mostly along the same lines? Those 'I got to know him and then I wanted to bang him' scenarios presuppose repeated exposure to a person. This happens mostly in friend groups, clubs (not nts nts clubs but, like, groups of ppl doing similar activities clubs), people who sit beside you in class, roommates friends etc. It doesn't happen with cold approaches. I really want the men here who ask questions like this to specifically get this point: …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 03:21 PM
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Just another dude on PPD trying to put one of the girlies in her place and in the process succeeding only in showing us that some part of him needs to be seen putting girlies in their place. On the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 10:08 AM
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They are more interested in having fulfilling, healthy LTRs... for their own gain though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 09:55 AM
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Log Cabin Conservative Google this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:58 AM
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Alpha malez and their spoooooky guns. Put the proxy away and get your dick out, man. PM me a pic. I'll let you know if I'm intimidated or not. note mods: not actual request for dick pic. joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:18 AM
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Eating meat and considering yourself an "animal lover" is morally inconsistent. This is the plain truth. There's no coherent argument against this. If you claim to be an animal lover and you eat meat, you're a hypocrite. (yes, I eat meat and claim to love animals. I am a hypocrite. Going veg isn't enough, either. It has to be vegan. And that is freaking me the fuck out. But I will still eat honey.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 04:17 AM
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As soon as I posted that i was like, self, you don't know any dudes who drool over runway models. I get the body shape thing, too. As in, I notice it in other women. Height and weight is in no way enough info to know if someone is attractive or not. It's all about the shape. It's actually the same with men. There's a certain shape of man who just rings a bunch of bells in my lizard brain. A man of the same height, same weight, same bodyfat % could have zero effect. I sometimes think that man-hip…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:01 PM
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Have you seen Orlando?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:51 PM
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And on that Friday afternoon, for a brief period, Automod ceased to matter in their lives...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:39 PM
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I've actually had this exact same thought. One of the differences between men and women is that women, even perfectly fit/healthy ones, have more body fat than men. It's why we look soft and y'alls look hard. It's also a direct 'I am healthy enough to carry and then feed a child' signal. When I see dudes drooling over runway models with their collarbones sticking out and no boobs, I don't get it either. And this isn't some HAES rant, ppl can fancy who they fancy, but there's just a super low bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:37 PM
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I like my dogs and cats squishy. Maybe my men a bit, too. Like I def. don't like super low body fat ripped on dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:33 PM
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I thought Agree and Amplify was for insults? Like Laydee: "Lewis, you're such a gigantic butt." Lewis: "Ikr, I am the biggest butt!" Laydee: sighhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:32 PM
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Straight man me woulda treated her like gold, Lewis. Gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:31 PM
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Aw, sweet bot. Bots get too much abuse in this sub. I <3 you, bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:28 PM
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sexually aroused by mod violence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:27 PM
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Men would fuck an old tire left out in the sun on a hot summer day. Misandreeeeeee. Wait are we still under automod?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 06:26 PM
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I'm always surprised by how many RPs like the super-thicc women. She's beautiful, tho, not gonna lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:48 PM
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Lewis are you fucking high? What is going on?? Whatever it is, I like funny perv Lewis better than angry, hates writingtoc Lewis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:14 PM
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Is Girl #3 Iskra Lawrence? If not: https://www.instagram.com/iskra/ My bf, later today: "How was your day, retard?" Me: "Fine. I supplied my mortal enemy with spank material."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:10 PM
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"Lots" of vodka? Sure, Lewis, I am genetically British and can handle the fk out of my alcohol. Also, you have a goatee? And is your wife cool with you getting internet weirdos drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:05 PM
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Dude I definitely thought that story was going somewhere else. Somewhere that didn't involve puke. I bet you thought it was, too, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:04 PM
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These "cough, well I obvs. don't care about DUMB GIRL STUFF LIKE CELEBS!!!1!" responses are making me LOL. Boys, we know you notice hot famous girls. And that you'd like to touch their boobies. It's OK. Wanting to have sex with hot women doesn't make you look gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:41 PM
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Just checked her out in that vid - straight chick here but agreed, she hot. And yes, it's the way she moves. Very hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:38 PM
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I need to work harder on ID-ing your type, I see. that showcases hot dancers dancing to the popular songs. Someone should make a Youtube channel of this. Not NSFW content, it would have to be sexy in the same way (i.e. sexy but still theoretically OK to air on tv), the girls would have to be out of this world hot, too, not just meh-hot. I mean, as I said, i would watch that. I didn't know you were a musician, Lewis! It's nice to talk to you about this kind of thing. (butwearestillenemies4lyfe) ;…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:34 PM
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I respect this choice. She is beautiful. She's also intimidatingly smart af.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:30 PM
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Young Elizabeth Taylor is one of the most beautiful women of all time imo. She's sexy-beautiful and beautiful-beautiful at the same time. Most celebs are 1 or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:29 PM
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I have seen that sub. And weirdly enough I've thought if I was a straight dude I might fancy trashy chicks. Like hot trailer park trashy, in short shorts with tramp stamps and shiny blue eyeshadow and Wal-Mart panties. Not that I've thought about it or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:22 PM
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Heh. Everytime Lewis posts his generously breasted ladies I think to myself 'I wonder if he's OK with the fact that he would fancy me irl?'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:21 PM
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Awesome. So I want to test how accurate my predictions re: your taste are. So in pic 1 I'll guess you fancy brunette, far right the most? And in pic 2, ummm... bottom left? Or bottom right?? That show sounds amazing, btw. Like, i would watch that if they made a new version of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:20 PM
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Caring about being seen to not care for celeb culture is gayer, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:06 PM
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I've always wished that aerobics-wear, Flashdance-y, legwarmer-y 80s fashion would come back around. I would wear the shit out of that stuff. OK I just Googled Solid Gold Dancers and found this vid: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yhyrDSlUf60 - this was a TV show? Dance competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:05 PM
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Do you frequent the Trashy sub, by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:59 PM
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Lewis TOTALLY has a type. It's cute. It's actually sort of refreshing, too. Old school.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:56 PM
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Holy fuck, I think Lewis is being playful. PLAY BACK! WE WANT HIM LIKE THIS!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:54 PM
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Did you used to be red or am I imagining it? Ali Larter also seems like a cool person, along with her hotness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:51 PM
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Agreed. I feel there is no middle ground with Cumberbatch. You either want to tear his clothes off or you think he looks like a weird otter. I'm in the latter camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:50 PM
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Ali Larter and Milla Jovovich Congrats on your surprisingly good taste for a RP!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:43 PM
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I think that's why I'm on Freeman's side - it was Cumberbatch who said shit out in the open, and he seemed to be taking issue specifically with Freeman's thoughts on fame/fandom etc., and not something personal Freeman had said about him. Cumberbatch just seems like a bit of a knobhead to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:41 PM
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So I jusr Googled that - I remember when that photo came out and it is frustratingly hard to tell if that's an actual makeout sesh or if the camera just caught them at a weird angle. FWIW, those two look great together. Super master race-y.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:40 PM
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Luke Evans is hot when his hair is short and he has no moustache. Welsh, too, as is Taron Egerton and Rhys Iwan (another Welsh hottie - Ramsey from GOT, although I don't fancy him GOT). But yeah, British guys... mmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:37 PM
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I DID NOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:35 PM
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I would love to see this if anyone has a link.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:34 PM
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What is “tuber”? It's a 'tater, cuz I like my men potato-y for whatever reason. And yeah, he mentioned some fans misinterpreting something he said - I def. don't envy anyone who pisses off a fandom as rabid as Cumberbatch's - interesting that the two of them openly don't along, either. I think I'm on Freeman's side in that dispute, for no real reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:33 PM
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I wonder if that's true (I know it's a longstanding rumour). There is definitely something oddly sexless about the photos I've seen of her with various bfs. I never perceive any chemistry there. But TayTay as a lesbian I dunno, I could totally see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:15 PM
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but he does have a perfect build. He does, doesn't he? slides limply off chair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:10 PM
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Did you see that interview with him in the Guardian yesterday? Does he have a rep as being a dick or something, because he seemed defensive? But yes, he is very English looking. Not my type of English, too blonde/not enough tuber.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:09 PM
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Sometimes in these threads I like working out who I would have to fistfight or not if we were all, along with our celeb crushes, transported to a desert island. You and i would not have to fistfight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:05 PM
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How the fuck do you find these photos? Like what was the Google search that led you to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:02 PM
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Ew emma watson ??! Dude are you actually from the internet or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:01 PM
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Oooh, agreed on Manuel. Teutonic hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 03:00 PM
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Lebron could fucking get it. Although he wouldn't because he's an amazing person and would not fuck weird Canadian whores because he respects his wife too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:58 PM
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Martin Freeman? Fucking hell, girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:57 PM
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Dong-Haver here. GTFO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:55 PM
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I feel 100% the same way. Out of character I'm not at all attracted to the actor (not that he's fug but he's got a whole hippie/scruffy vibe irl) but in character - oh yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:54 PM
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It's just mad red pillers. Boys, start your own thread and drool away. I actually like the 'hot chicks' threads, too! Although i feel like the boys have boring taste and I'm usually a lot more surprised by the female choices than the male choices re: hottie flavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:54 PM
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Whoa. Holy shit, Tim Cain was hot af. I recently read an article about Mike Pence that had a photo of him with some girls at a frat party (iirc) in college and i, uh, i found Mike fucking Pence hot. jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:52 PM
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Yesssss, I can show off my new celeb bf. So it's Taron Egerton and is a rare example of my literal, specific 'perfect' type (which is basically British Potato Subtype 1-A: blue or green eyed, fair-skinned, dark hair, stocky/non-skinny build, wide/short faced, usually not noticeably tall or over 6 foot, can wear the shit out of a sweater and dress pants, wide/muscular/not weedy neck). So anyway, I totally love him and Taron if you ever Google this and see yourself I just want you to know I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 02:36 PM
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When women run the sociosexual hierarchy, cads are on top. This results in economic ruin, social dysfunction, and hot nights between the sheets for women (which is fun until the bill comes due in the form of thugspawn and STDs and high N). It's like Reefer Madness, but with Teh Laydeez instead of drugs. About as accurate, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:17 PM
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I really thought this would be an obvious one. It is, that's why they're mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 03:43 AM
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Is there an ugly threshold below which almost any kind of sparkling personality/charm/charisma isn't going to lift a man high enough to put him in the fuck box? Yes. But I deeply, strongly suspect that it is much uglier than many of the men here assume. For a long time I've thought that it's more about personality than many of the men here (in good faith) realize. Could I be wrong? Yes. But I actually see why some of them think the way they do. It's about how male brains work and the almost impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 07:30 PM
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Lol so now emotional advertising only works on women and "retarded southerners." That guy doesn't even appear to be joking. He really believes that 'emotional' advertising works on the lady humans only, and not the man ones. I genuinely wonder how it is one comes to beliefs like this. I've got some theories. Well, one main one. As for technical points, I see a whole shitload of 'technical' stuff in ads aimed at women, too (for example skincare products, which often get into specific ingredients …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 07:54 PM
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For most women, looks don't matter as much as they do to most men (looks still matter to women tho). This in no way contradicts that 99.9999% of all humans want the attractive, high quality mate (vs the less attractive, lower quality mate).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:24 AM
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Looks like we don't have to say it. He just knows we mean it because reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:21 AM
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This sub is wild. Rather, you were saying, "Empire building good, being a weirdo/loser bad." The women here are literally telling you that you've misinterpreted what they're saying (and as a woman I can confirm - you are misinterpreting), that they do not secretly long for a male partner who regularly murders other men. You're straight up telling another person what she 'really' means. I mean, wtf? Do you really - like really - think you know the contents of these female internet strangers' mind…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:18 AM
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Why can't women just be more honest about how they sort guys between chads and non chads? Every person on earth, regardless of gender, wants the 'attractive, high-quality' option. And I'm pretty sure no woman here told you they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 12:03 AM
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I don't think anyone wants to be seen as a utility or a means to an end. But anyone over 16 surely realizes that to some people, that is exactly what we (male, female, old, young etc.) are. Being seen as a utility is not gendered. That said, I care if someone I love or care about sees me as a mindless means to an end. I don't care if a stranger on the internet, a person I am never going to meet and who has no obligation of friendship or love towards me (or me to them) theoretically sees other hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:07 PM
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I'm not being passive aggressive or sarcastic - I am literally saying what i think men who see absolutely no value in women beyond sex (and I know these men exist - their female counterparts exist, too - there's no point in pretending either of them don't) should do. Why all this time on the internet talking about it. People who view the opposite sex through a purely utilitarian lens actually have a very simple path to getting what they want. Rich men already pay women to basically do whatever t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:57 PM
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If you have enough $$ there would be literally no difference. I promise you there are hot young women out there who would, if you kept them in style, be happy to do literally anything you wanted them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:07 AM
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Men in general? I'd say yeah, mostly, even though they get sick of our shit just like we get sick of their shit. But the men here? I dunno, the obvious answer is 'hell no' but honestly the main emotion here towards women from the men is anger. And you don't usually get angry at people you don't give a fuck about. I'm not sure this is about like/dislike so much as this is about 'she's got something I want, she won't give it to me, fuck her I hate her and I didn't want it anyway!' The men on this …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:54 AM
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Women hate hearing this. No we don't. Have at it. Really, go do it. These sex dolls already exist, you know. They're called hookers - you give them money and they have sex with you. But it's illeeeegaaaalllll! Well then get yourself a sugar baby and buy her a lot of expensive bags and shoes and make it so she understands that the transaction is that a)you buy her expensive shit and b)she fucks you, acts like she likes it, and doesn't give you any shit ever, about anything. The paradise you seek …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:46 AM
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I am not arguing with you here, OK? I am not making a case. What I am doing, plainly and simply, is explaining my own feelings and thought process with regards to the subject we're discussing re: men and women, attraction, banging the first night etc. etc. You can either take my reports of my own inner workings as true (this does not mean you are agreeing that your own inner workings will match or be in any way similar - I ACCEPT that they will almost certainly not be) or you can continue to arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:40 PM
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Christ, this sub. I mean, i guess it's inevitable when you get people talking in text only about super complex human relations stuff. But I already feel like this whole 'making him wait' thing is getting twisted. I mean even that phrase itself is twisting what it is. I didn't make my boyfriend wait. We both went through a period of getting to know each other, of increasing attraction, and then we started banging. I wans't shoving him out the door with a hardon every goddamn night and then laughi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:17 PM
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You're wrong. That is not what I am saying. You can either make an effort to understand that my thinking on this is different to yours, and that actions you would interpret in X way are not intended in that way by me, or you can continue to cling stubbornly to a narrative that you are being straight-up and repeatedly told by the women in this comment section is flat out wrong. I. am. not. less. attracted. to. men. I. wait. to. sleep. with. I'm more attracted to them. That's why I wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:03 PM
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Do you see how then a guy who has to invest time A guy doesn't have to invest anything. Women aren't holding guns to your heads. You can choose to invest or not. would think you don't find him as physically attractive as the other guy? I can see how a certain type of particularly obtuse internet-type man would think this, yes (and that's not sarcasm, I legit can see this - and do see it here). The women in this comment section have done their usual thing of patiently explaining, over and over, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:01 PM
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That's a hypothetical but I don't see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:57 PM
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Isn't that a contradiction? No. What is going on with the men on this board? Are none of you familiar with the whole fuckable-only vs fuckable+relationship-able thing? I feel like you are, because the men here seem to talk a lot about women who they'd fuck and women who they'd LTR or marry. You understand those differing attractions, right? You understand that some hot people have literally nothing going for them apart from their hotness? That some hot people are actively off-putting outside of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:56 PM
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I know but don't expect me to take it like a smiling doofus and jump through hoops that other guys don't have to, not worth the effort to me. I don't 'expect' you to do anything. But at the same time, if you make zero effort, the odds are that you're probably not one of those dudes who can inspire insta-lust (that's not an insult, that kind of man is rare). I mean, women do all kinds of things to be more attractive to men, too. If a given woman wants to say 'fuck it, I'm gonna eat nothing but do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:44 PM
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Well first of all, don't listen to anything anyone is saying here. It's all gonna be 'go to a feminist rally' comments or 'avoid red pill' (which I disagree with - I find RP men generally more feminine than average, but they're the self-hating kind of feminine which you def. want to avoid). I have a few kinda 'feminine' men in my social group, about half of whom are gay. But these guys - the gays and the straights - wouldn't ever even think about being ashamed or trying to put on some kind of 'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:19 AM
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Uh, yes? You know, some people are uglier/less attractive than other people. Some women (omg) are uglier/less attractive than other women. And this is life. This is how life is. Some people are uglier/less attractive than some other people, and sometimes they have a harder time getting hotties to have sex with them. This isn't anybody's fault, you know. It's not women's fault. You don't want to sleep with ugly women, do you? And apart from that basic fact level stuff, women's attraction works an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:12 AM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:05 AM
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LOL I knew it. You don't really have anything, do you? Underneath all that bluster?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:37 AM
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it is how masculine men are. No it isn't. Note that we're just talking about perceiving a difference. No one's saying 'masculine men prefer to make quiet, slow love in candlelit bedrooms after giving their princesses 8 hr. foot massages' - NO ONE IS SAYING THAT. I mean, what exactly is your position here? That masculine men have both kinds of sex and somehow don't perceive a difference (Atlas, really? REALLY??)? Or that they don't have both kinds of sex? And if they don't, what is the kind of se…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:30 AM
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It's anti-man because you know the type of man we're talking about. Look at the comments (from men) below. You know what kind of men those are, Atlas. And you're doing them the opposite of a favour by acting like it is somehow masculine to fail to perceive the difference between random stranger sex and sex with someone you love + care about. You cheerlead (and instigate, with comments like this) their ass-showing like it makes them badasses, when all it really makes them is lonely and angry and …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:14 AM
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How is it possible that you are still allowed to claim you're pro-man on this sub?! Wtaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 12:00 AM
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Even for PPD, this is insanity level salt. It's not just salt, it's the cringiest kind of ass-showing. It's flat out admitting you don't know the difference between different kinds of sex, which basically means you haven't experienced both of them. Yeah, any man who knows how to make a woman weep with lust = confirmed faggot. Jfc. You can't even be mad at these guys. There is literally no option except pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 11:43 PM
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hard to tell why Oh no it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 11:02 PM
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The pushback you are getting on this topic is - well, it's actually not fascinating, but it is extremely telling. I don't believe (and haven't believed for a long time) that RP is actually about 'understanding women' (i.e. in order to get laid). RP is about making women lesser. RP is about male ego and bad parenting. It's definitely not about 'understanding women.'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 10:59 PM
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I'll answer this (am laydee). Because i don't need to respect someone to want to fuck them. (note: respect is, however, a very important part of my attraction to a given man) I viewed him as a fucking hottie. The purpose of the sex was to bang the fucking hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 10:53 PM
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Sure. Of course it doesn't feel awesome when someone you're into is not into you, or misses your signs of interest (for whatever reason). Are you asking this because you think there's a chance women love it when men they like don't like them back?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:24 PM
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OHHHHH JESUS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:01 PM
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You'll note, OP, that male emotional vulnerability, in and of itself, is not the same thing as asking/requiring a woman to soothe and attend to that vulnerability. Claiming you don't want to be responsible for the entire burden of emotionally care-taking your male partner is not the same thing as saying male emotional vulnerability is bad and/or repulsive. I wouldn't want to be 100% responsible for taking emotional care of my best female friend - that doesn't mean I resent her emotionality or he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:22 AM
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Am woman, your take on this is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:22 PM
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Oops, yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:51 PM
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I'll judge someone (male or female) if they're being promiscuous in pursuit of a goal that promiscuity doesn't actually get them any closer to. My highschool friend from my hometown who used to bring home a different skeeze every weekend in her pursuit of a good relationship. I judge that not because 'ew, slut' but because its a stupid way to try to get into a solid relationship with a solid man. Same with certain men who seem to have compulsive casual sex as some kind of unsuccessful self-estee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:49 PM
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Well it could be either, or neither. That's my point re: people are discussing 'submissive' sexuality in this comment section without all using the same definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:45 PM
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Participants rated the following statements on a scale from 1 (strongly disagree) to 7 (strongly agree): “I tend to take on the passive role during sexual activity,” “I tend to take on the submissive role during sexual activities,” “I prefer to take on the passive role during sexual activities,” and “I prefer to take on the more agentic or active role during sexual activity” (reverse coded). The average of these items comprised our measure of submissive sexual behavior. OK so they're (interestin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 07:41 PM
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I wonder if this has anything to do with passivity and submission kind of going together. If you're not as into sex, you're probably going to take a more passive, submissive role. Yeah i wondered about this, too. The write-up quoted in OP is really confusingly written but it did cross my mind that someone who just isn't into sex very much will probably take the 'submissive' (by one definition, anyway - the 'lie still and limp on your back and think about your shopping list' one) role.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:27 PM
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OP did the study make an attempt to separate women who are genuinely sexually submissive from those who aren't? Or did it assume that no women are 'naturally' sexually submissive? And what definition of 'submissive sexual behaviour' are they using? Do you have a link or quote? I mean, it's not hard for me to understand that a person might feel pressure to behave or perform sexually in 'socially acceptable' ways that don't actually correlate with their actual sexual tastes, and that this person m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:23 PM
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Excellent comment. You've hit a lot of nails right on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 02:41 PM
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The tone of voice, context, etc. are completely different. This is an excellent point and one I don't see discussed around here. Catcalls (I say catcalls, I really just mean male attention in public) vary in type from the actually sweet/totally inoffensive to the viscerally creepy and aggressive. Not all male attention is bad/unenjoyable, nor is all of it good/enjoyable. Some of it isn't even, I suspect, about the man wanting to express that he finds a woman attractive. There are definitely catc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 02:37 PM
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Is this electracute? Did they enmodden you?? Anyway, crack dat whip.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 03:57 PM
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Is this comment section real life? Holy fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 11:00 AM
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OK, I'll tell you. I'm not saying this to make fun of you or to cause you pain. I'm saying it because I believe it to be true. You're creepy. You're really creepy. To the point that it comes across, strongly, even from written words alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:20 AM
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There is one in your case. But you don't want to hear it. I'll tell you if you like, but it's going to hurt your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:31 AM
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Surely if you hate The Red Pill but accept that men are struggling nowadays you’d want to offer alternatives to the growth of this subculture and similar? Oh it's you, OP. Oh, it's this again. It's this tiresome, responsibility-phobic bullshit again. I am struggling and if you offer me no alternative to this totally unsupported creed of misogyny and pseudoscience, then it's your fault if I act like an asshole! You know who else is struggling? Everyone. Ok? Everyone. I am legit stupefied that peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 04:35 AM
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If by 'most guys' you mean 'dudes on Reddit/PPD' I would urge you not to form opinions on male humans based on this particular group of them. Just don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:28 AM
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I really don't think it's something about how I look either. Odds are it isn't. But let me ask you this - why do you want opinions on what's wrong with you? Are you trying to ID whats wrong so you can fix it? Why? What is the ultimate goal? It's to get positive female attention, right? (note: not judging, just trying to clarify)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:21 AM
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Personally, i find that if you go with the assumption that for everything shitty men/women do, the other gender does something equally shitty, albeit different. 99% of the times, you can find it. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:20 AM
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Actually I just remembered that thread we had here a month or two ago (?) about women being 'better' people than men - a surprising number of women, of all colours (which in itself was surprising, I kind of expect the RPW to perform their self-flagellation in comment sections like that), actually appeared to agree. I dunno. It's hard for me to believe that anyone with two brain cells to rub together would think on gender is somehow morally better/more virtuous than the other. it just clearly see…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:19 AM
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The same type of revulsion and dehumanization is met toward unemployed men. FYI, it has never been my position that only terrible men exist. I know that terrible women exist, too. Both people can do things to fix their situations, but both are too lazy to take the steps necessary to do so. What do you mean by this? That they deserve to be treated badly by others? Or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:15 AM
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The amount of guys in here that think fat women are getting constant praise and have over inflated self worth is crazy. This is a recurring motif here - women (in this case fat women) go through life somehow encased in a soothing bubble of validation and affection. Apart from the fact that it's just a simple cognitive fail to see your own troubles as overwhelming and deeply serious, and the troubles of others as trivial and unserious, it makes me think we're dealing with a lot of people on this …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:10 AM
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Your parents. They failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 12:07 AM
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Dude! No! Although, actually, weirdly, yes. What 'it' is almost certainly has to do with the fact that you think a total stranger online could read a written description of your physical self and then tell you what's 'wrong' with you. I mean, what do you think? You seem to think it's something about how you look, right? Or no? Are you facially noticeably ugly or deformed in some way? Is this ADHD's alt? It better not be because I don't want to help you jerk off, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 04:25 AM
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Women have appearance standards too. I think the lookists are right that women are just as shallow as men, they simply pretend otherwise. I see this so often in PPD. This idea that because women are/might be less interested in looks when it comes to deciding who to bang, that women are therefore better people. You know no one is saying that, right? How is being turned on by a combo of looks + masculine aura somehow less shallow than being turned on by looks alone? Why is this being moralized? Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:52 AM
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Great post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:44 AM
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I'm on a Victoria sponge cleanse. I feel healthier already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:41 AM
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my chin still gets some small spots. Maybe that's the one thing that fucks me? It's not this. I don't know what it is, but it's not this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:40 AM
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small ass are okay and sometimes preferred to me, because I'd imagine that they're tighter down there. Dude wat?? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:39 AM
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I think there are a few things going on with fat women and how ppl see them. When I first moved to the city where I live, as a student, I had to find an apartment. In the course of calling a bunch of places I found on Craigslist, I got a call back from a dude, with other male voices in the background, who started to give me the specs on the room. And then, apropos of nothing, he laughingly says "oh, and no fat chicks." All his friends are in the background agreeing, shouting 'no fatties!' and 'g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:34 AM
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Stop it, ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:24 AM
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NOT ANYMORE.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:19 AM
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Perhaps you need to find some kind people, and practice being kind back to them. He's going to ignore this but it's by far the best advice in the comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:45 AM
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You blame us for doing this Yes, that's how it works. You do something, you are responsible for doing that thing, other people hold you responsible for doing that thing. This 'but you made it possible' is incoherent. My local corner store made it 'possible' for me to shoplift by not hiring 3 security guards to shadow me at close range during the entirety of my visit. Somehow it's still on me if I shoplift. No one is responsible for what you do except you. You don't hate women, OP, you hate yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:52 PM
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I'm a bit surprised at how many people say they enjoy it because it makes them feel in control. I feel very submissive giving head. That's a significant aspect of why I enjoy it. Yeah, me too. But I'm like you, I like it not because it makes me feel powerful but because it makes me feel like God made my mouth specifically to suck his dick. Which he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 12:41 AM
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Jammerly1 is a 1-woman frame destruction machine. The boys here can dish it, but they can't take it - and Jammy's posts are making that very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 07:36 PM
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But sometimes its really frustrating to see happy people all around when your sitting by yourself in a Starbucks hundreds of miles from any family. Hey man, I'm sorry to hear that. Four kids and three grandkids is awesome and I'm sure they'll be happy to have you closer in a year or so!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:46 AM
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What did I say that made you think I think other ppl (men?) get everything and i get nothing and that my life isn't fair? Because I don't think that, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:40 AM
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Shame. 🔔 Shame. 🔔 Shame. 🔔 (I apologize for the age of my reference. also for shaming you whilst having not-entirely-hairless legs myself) :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:39 AM
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This shows up in my inbox but not here on this page. wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 02:42 AM
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I see men like you around here. You're sort of an 'RP' type to me - 'Men Who Got Fucked Over By Their Wives' type. And they often go the way you seem to be going - my wife turned out to be a pretty fucking terrible person therefore women are terrible people, marriage is terrible, and all the thing I did for my wife were inherently wrong and misguided and I should never do them again. Putting aside the fact that any woman coming in here and talking about how she got fucked over in a relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 01:57 AM
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Sometimes I feel like we're too quick to jump to the most bad-faith reading of other ppl's posts here. And I include myself in that. I hope you didn't read that statement from me (about being loved, or loving) as some kind of crowing or as me somehow lording it over people who are badly off. I believe that there are people out there who have never been loved and/or who have never experienced loving another person. It's my belief that this kind of person is probably rare (ish?) but it's not like …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 01:48 AM
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I hope i don't disappoint you by saying this, Atlas, but I think this is basically the way it is for a lot of people - more women than men, but i reckon some dudes, too. I'm definitely not arguing the opposite of 'women take! man give and give and give!' - this isn't some 'women suffer and sacrifice and roll around on beds of needles for their men alllll daaaaay' rant. We don't. A lot of us like doing this shit. That doesn't make any of it worthless. Sometimes it seems like certain PPD dwelling …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 11:14 PM
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I do agree that you shouldnt keep score if you want to maintain a happy marriage but thats exactly what OP is doing here Where are you getting that - that I'm advocating for keeping score? I'm not - I think score keeping is a bad idea in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 11:07 PM
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The point, which is intentionally being misapplied by literally every top level poster here, is that stuff she was going to do for herself anyway (grooming especially is fucking stupid to suggest) is somehow being done for me. Buddy, I'm a woman. I'm not trying to have no philomosophical discussions here, OK? We can leave the 'does altruism exist' question to the smart ppl. And no, you're still looking at this the wrong way, through this fucked up lens of either 'this person is literally selfles…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 11:00 PM
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cradle your nuts That made me lol. I think the real issue is these men out here that are terrible at screening partners and willingingly accept women who are NOT giving. Sometimes I wonder about this. Like, specific dudes here I sometimes do genuinely think did this guy just marry a really horrible, mean bitch? Or is he so fucked up that his wife is actually a normal person and he's projecting? And it's your/our fault they seem to breed. Oooh, I do not accept responsibility for this, though. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:54 PM
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Women give everything they can to a man they are attracted to Yep, and same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:51 PM
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Three: They know women do these things for their men, they can't get a woman to do them for them (willingly, I mean, happily) and now they've constructed their whole persona around these sour, sour grapes. ALL YOUR WOMANLY SHIT IS WORTHLESS! I DIDN'T WANT IT IN THE FIRST PLACE! kk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:50 PM
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Oh, but what a tragedy of personal effort. That is, like, not at all what I'm saying. But you don't actually seem interested in discussing this so much as you seem interested in going off so, alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:48 PM
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That's lovely. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:20 PM
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this seems like a recipe for cultivating a permanent state of ingratitude and discontent. By holding these beliefs you set up a scenario where you'll never feel grateful or cared for no matter what your partner does. Yes, this. Exactly this. It's like some people are just bound and determined to think of themselves as islands who don't need anyone, and showing gratitude to another person is an admission of weakness or something. Agreed. And it is so boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:17 PM
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I think plenty of men in the real world don’t have this problem. Agreed. I am specifically talking about the men here. Not all of them, either, but PPD definitely seems to have a much higher proportion of 'everyone with those genitals has it easy, everyone with my genitals has it hard' than you find irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:02 PM
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Legit my response. Single, pregnant 18 yr old? Sure, some snooty soyboys may turn their nose up at that girl, but in terms of the way these dudes tend to talk and think about women, there's really not many worth more than an 18 yr old walking example of her high fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:05 PM
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Holy fucking shit. OP ya played yaself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:02 PM
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You guys are going out of your way to miss my point. They really are. I hope that this is just 'internet argument idiocy' and these dudes don't really think all this stuff is worthless and that their gfs are doing it solely out of self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:00 PM
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Settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 05:16 AM
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GIN! :: scandalized face ::
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:59 PM
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No purpose at all Weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:56 PM
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In my mind, it would just go into the box of guys I'm not interested in That's not how it happens in my mind. That's all that's going on here, in these comments, i think. People who categorize vs people who don't, differing degrees of both, different categories, more categories etc. etc. None of this (i.e. none of the other perspectives i'm reading in this thread) reads to me as particularly unbelievable to me. If someone has a fuck only box, OK, I believe them. If someone doesn't, OK, I believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:52 PM
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Recognizing a guy as fuckable is not the same thing as wanting to fuck him. Ok I actually agree with this. This is correct, recognizing a guy as fuckable does not = wanting to fuck him. This happens to me all the time, often with famous dudes as a good example of it. I see why Liam Hemsworth inspires lust in other women, but he does not inspire lust in me. Is that what you're talking about? Because if it is, yes, totally, I'm on board, I get that 100%. I'm not, in the post you're responding to, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 06:37 PM
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How do you become this type of person that women still fuck but don't like? Technical answer: have a dick made of hardened unicorn tears and the physical characteristics that make her weep with joy/arousal just to look at you. Actual answer: It's seriously not worth any man putting the effort into being this guy. It a very rare male character in human society and I don't believe it's a category one can aspire to be in. A man is either born into the fuckbox or he is not. Ha ha ha, this made me lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 06:25 PM
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Yes, there is a 'fuck only' box. And I'm not sure why some women, who do not categorize men this way (note: you don't have to actually fuck men who you categorize this way, you just have to have the ability to recognize them), seem to be unable to accept that some other women do. I feel like it's some solippybippy, maybe, or our PPD ASD going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 06:18 PM
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Crushing balls under sensible shoes and keeping men down booyaaah!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 06:53 AM
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Ask me how I know you're only alpha on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 06:50 AM
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I'm actually super old here. But it's always nice to see new people riling up the olds. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 06:45 AM
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The ones who can’t back it up So.... you're conceding these dudes exist? I mean, did you read my response? I think both types exist. Those who brag about all the ass they get (and actually get ass) and those who brag about all the ass they get (and don't actually get ass). This is actually a stock-ish character in some social groups, especially younger ones. The social retard who doesn't see that everyone knows he isn't out banging 2 chicks a weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 06:43 AM
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:: reads comments :: These boys mad OP. Holy shit. Ur a salt extractor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 06:40 AM
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U so fuckin' mad, squid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 06:35 AM
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I don't understand what you're taking issue with. I don't dispute that someone bragging about all the pussy they get might be asked for proof at some point... ??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 09:19 PM
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The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world, male bitches. The men of the 2020 generation will have their souls (and their genitals) crushed under the spiked heels of my daughters, inshallah.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 10:46 PM
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No, the insecure and fearful men don't talk about women at all. The men who talk about pussy grabbing are the ones who have actually done it and know what they're talking about. You can't talk about pussy grabbing unless you've actually done it. And the ones who have actually done it are secure and fearless. Y u such a crazed absolutist, guy? Like, do I think some insecure men (note I was talking about men and women) sometimes express their insecurity by not talking about women ever? Sure. Why n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 10:27 PM
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Uuuuggggh I'm not your automod, Lewis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 10:20 PM
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what i discuss with male friends at parties isn't different from what i discuss with female friends in private either. I mean, OK. That's not a snarky 'ok,' either. I'm tempted to do that thing we do here and just dismiss what you're saying because it so doesn't match my own experience but, actually, if this is how it is for you then this is how it is. it would be considered pretty tacky to get graphic about it even over glasses of wine. Ha ha, I wondered how long it would be before someone came…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 07:48 PM
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Fuck, really? Are we doing this again? PPD Women: Nah, we don't talk about sex with our gfs, it's mostly recipe swapping and feeeeeeeelings. Now, OP, don't get me wrong, we do talk about recipes (actually I talk about recipes, while my friends make patient eye-rolly faces until I stfu) and feeeeeeeeelings. But we also talk about sex (unless we post on PPD, ofc). With my closest female friends there is literally no topic graphic enough to be off the table. We have talked masturbation techniques b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 07:24 PM
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You can't read Tbf, neither can you - those are questions I was asking, not assertions. But I see you're not here to discuss. Have nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 04:53 AM
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Don't be mad at 45 year old men wanting to fuck 16 year olds. I'm not mad about men wanting to fuck 16 yr olds, where did you get that? Anyone with a working brain is perfectly aware that, sometimes, hot ppl are underage. If anyone's mad about older A wanting to fuck younger B in this thread, if anyone's talking about this in a moral way ('older ppl sleeping with younger ppl fucks the younger ppl up') it's you, my dude. Just because you're hot doesn't mean you won't get played by men which will …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 04:13 AM
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What if he's hot, tho? What if Mr. 17 yrs old is hot af? And his teacher wants to bang him because he's hot? (and don't flip out, I am not condoning the banging of students)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:26 PM
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Could there be an evo-pysch explanation? Ha ha, what, like something along the lines of "he was hot and so she wanted to bang him"? I mean, that's what's going on with these teachers, you know. Some of their male students are fuckable (some 16 yr olds are fuckable y'alls! for real! even though it's creepy and sometimes illegal, it doesn't stop some of these teenagers from being hot) and so some of their teachers want to fuck them. Same with the genders reversed. If women always want men who have…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:19 PM
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But what if the women can't get to the hair salon to get their hair done and then their husbands come home from work at the factory and see their wives with frizzy hair and then they, like, die?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 02:36 AM
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Surprised by how many people (red, blue and others) are agreeing with this. Especially some of the women - laydeez, c'mon. Also: No, women are not more 'inherently moral' than men. Pls link me to some of those scholarly articles saying they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 11:10 PM
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"There is no female Mozart because there is no female Jack the Ripper." If you think Camille Paglia was making a comment on female morality vs male morality with this comment, you've badly misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 11:01 PM
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It doesn’t surprise me that you don’t see Red Pill men as ever having been good I didn't say this. You're doing that thing so many people do here of being so focused on your specific topics that you read beliefs into what others say that aren't there. I definitely do not think that being red pill and male automatically = being bad. What I said was, I believe individuals are responsible for their own actions and their treatment of others. ALL individuals, all men, all women, all red pills, all bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 10:58 PM
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The upper middle class uses daycare. Do they? In the US? That surprises me but I'm not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 07:54 PM
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"I'm stupid."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 07:29 PM
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A question for the philosophers, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 08:05 PM
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but sympathy is cheap. Not here it isn't. Here, the lack of sympathy for the plight of the poor giga-anal starved men is basically worse than the fucking holocaust. And that's coming from the men. It’s much better to be a poisonous misogynist if it gives you the clarity to understand that what makes women fuck is different from what makes them pass positive social judgement on a person. What the fuck is this. I mean, I'm gonna have to go ahead and disagree with you if you're saying that poisonou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:41 PM
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And that kind of pisses us off. I've noticed. It's an interesting thing to be pissed about, though, isn't it? It feels like getting pissed off at little kids for liking candy or something. People are attracted to who they're attracted to. You're attracted to who you're attracted to. If someone tells you it's wrong/bad/immoral to want to bang Hot Chick X, that's not actually going to cut off the desire to bang Hot Chick X, is it? I do feel like the anger around this topic is pointless and that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:33 PM
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Oh I completely agree. Sometimes when someone makes the effort to not be an insufferable asshole right off that bat on this subreddit I'm more prone to kid-gloving them a bit. Which may be the wrong thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:22 PM
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Oh I completely agree. Sometimes when someone makes the effort to not be an insufferable asshole right off that bat on this subreddit I'm more prone to kid-gloving them a bit. Which may be the wrong thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 07:21 PM
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UK media does not talk about the US opiate epidemic at all The Guardian is all over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 03:54 PM
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Your equating his statement with violence against a random person, which is a textbook strawman. No I'm not. You've missed my point, which was that if one person commits [act X] before another person commits [act X] both are responsible for their committing of [act X]. If you think I was comparing being condescending on the internet with getting punched in the face, as if those two things are somehow equivalent, I wasn't. As to whether or not he was condescending, you and I are gonna have to agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 07:39 PM
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Go on, explain how this is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:20 PM
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I’m not talking about feminists. This is why PPD can't have nice things. Our terms are about as clear as mud. I did think you were talking about feminists because 'feminist' and 'blue pill' often are used interchangeably around here. Oops. We say change your looks yes but we don’t really acknowledge personality as being as transient as it is. Sure. I'm not some wild-eyed blue pill partisan. I acknowledge that some young boys/men are for whatever reason not given the information that would help t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:15 PM
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Yeah, I agree. It's always important to note in these convos that some people DO get massively screwed over by a fucked up parent or authority figure. The mistake is, as you said, in then dumping that personal baggage onto a larger and not collectively responsible group.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:02 PM
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Then there is the feminine mystique element; women are virtuous, unknowable I don't see blue pill/feminists saying this. Not now, not in the 80s or earlier. In fact I see most of them saying the specific opposite. It's interesting that both sides claim to be interested in knocking women off their pedestal. Red Pill calls a long overdue bullshit on being yourself. Change or you won’t get love or anything like it. Game teaches a specific set of skills which can be learned, practiced and eventually…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:09 PM
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Thank you for admitting you were condescending. I did not admit I was condescending. I also specifically answered your question re: kindness being sexually attractive and then you ignored that. You like this, don't you? You like being angry. There is literally no other explanation for you. What do you think would happen if you stopped being angry at women? Something bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:51 PM
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You were to me, first. Lewis, if I come to your house and punch you in the face, and then you punch me in the face back - you still punched me in the face. And you're still responsible for punching me in the face, too, even if you did it second. Because you're a grown-up and "but you did it first" is what five year olds say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:46 PM
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I engaged you directly and in a civil manner No you didn't. You were condescending, as usual. So, are you saying that niceness, in and of itself, is sexually attractive, without reference to any other traits or behaviors? Well, as I and many, many others here have been over with you repeatedly, I don't think there is ANY one trait that, in and of itself, would be enough to create sexual attraction - and that includes having a handsome face or broad shoulders etc. Sexual attraction itself is usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:41 PM
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I know you believe this. How can you be the way you are, Lewis? You truly don't seem to be able to understand that other people can feel and think differently to the way you feel and think, or experience things in ways that you do not experience them. I for one find it impossible to believe that a man can go out, be nice, and this creates vagina tingles/gushing/panty moistening. That's because your ideas about women are rigid, fucked up and, above all, entirely about the inside of your own head …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 11:31 PM
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Is it sexually attractive Yes. (note: this is not a claim that what I find sexually attractive will be sexually attractive to literally every other woman on earth)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:46 PM
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No. Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:52 PM
3

Who is that a picture of? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:51 PM
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You don't understand. Women are bad. Men are not bad. Do you get it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:38 PM
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See: Lewiscross
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:47 PM
1

I can get on board with that Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:22 PM
2

Look at you. Look how you're acting. Look at that flair. Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 08:08 PM
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I feel like I am better than typical women or blues in that regard because I have given access to my body to someone who I wasn't attracted to. You are weird af.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 08:01 PM
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Dude, wtf. I mean, I get we're on PPD, the Land Where Empathy Don't Real (And If It Does You're A Fucking Loser) but what part of you doesn't understand that most people, when confronted with a sad, lonely and physically unattractive fellow human, might feel compassion for them? Might want to cheer them up? Might want to somehow impart the message that hey, I see you feel shitty and I understand you must have suffered some shitty treatment and I feel for you/wish that hadn't happened to you/ackn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:51 PM
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You get over it. We all do. The fucking irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:05 PM
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I now see the poster you're replying to was 100% serious. I took his initial comment as about 50% serious, 50% jokey. But, anyway, it's now kind of interesting to see him doubling down on this. Do I think the average level of anxious/avoidant here is probably higher than the average, for both the PPD men and the women? yes. Do I have any proof? No. So that's kind of beside the point. What I do see with these responses, and the general 'omg PPD women think male supermodels are fug how can any nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:43 PM
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Is that their point? I mean, OK. It just makes me laugh when these fuckin' internet alphas assume that they're all gonna be the dogs doing the eating in the glorious dog-eat-dog world to come. If their adolescent-Ayn-Rand-wank-fantasy ever comes to fruition (it won't, tho, just like adolescent-kill-the-rich-communism-fantasies won't either), us Reddit fuckwits are def. gonna be on the menu, tacticool gear and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:24 AM
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At first I was like :: great offense :: And then I was like :: nah, he right ::
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:18 AM
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Both of these men are spectacular/virtually flawless specimens of human (male) beauty. My first impression was that guy #2 (Sean) was sexier (esp in this pic: https://i.pinimg.com/736x/04/19/4a/04194a4c67c64fa9ceb256e54b3af72e--sean-faris-eye-candy.jpg ) but! after having checked out their social media, I'm gonna go with guy #1 and this is now about 'impressions from social media' rather than looks. Sean Faris is a total basic bro. Inspirational quotes on your Insta are never, never OK - especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 02:19 AM
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Ha ha ha - yep, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 07:23 AM
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ITT: A whole bunch of marshmallow-soft westerners who would all die of shock if they had to spend 5 seconds in the worlds they tell other internet edgelords/ladies they want to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:02 AM
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Have you seen the dumb shit people are doing with freedom?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:55 AM
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You and your buds have tragedy-of-the-commons-ed the outrage that so sustains you, my dude. It's just head-patting time when ol' Gaylube shows up to tell us laydeez r dum now. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:14 PM
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No, there isn't. These fuckin miscreants wish someone wanted their sperm enough to steal it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:00 AM
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You're edgier than AtlasB in a razor blade factory, guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:27 AM
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That's not physically possible though...? Or are you being hyperbobyperboleeus?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:58 AM
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Sounds exactly like me except I'm overweight and mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:45 AM
2

OK, what? How do you burn something black if it's under water?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:45 AM
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Go on, get started on hass avocados. Not sarcastic/actually interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 10:53 PM
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Do you think sex is a non-romantic gesture? If you're asking me if I think sex can be about things other than the mutual expression of love then yes, I do and it obviously can. I can't tell if you're being disingenuous or if you really think sex is always lovey dovey flowers and 'how was your day, sweetie' texts? Is exclusively having emotionally detached sex required for a FWB? No. There's a whole world of emotions out there that can inform a given sexual encounter. Hell, 'hate fucking' exists …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 10:17 PM
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But that's, like, not the definition of a FWB relationship. FWB relationship, as far as I understand it, is specifically lacking in romantic/boyfriendly/girlfriendly gestures - that's what makes it a FWB situation. It sounds to me like you're just having sex with girls who want relationships with you, which means it's not FWB by definition. And that makes you a shitty person, just like it makes women who string men along for favours, meals, emotional support etc. when they a)know the man wants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 08:49 PM
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A valiant effort, Grid. These guys are soooo deeply invested in women being bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 09:53 PM
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Good post, OP, and i think I agree although also want to say i think this is where we often get into trouble on this sub. I.e. when we say things like "men like X" or "women like Y" it just a) tempts the men and women who don't like X or Y to pipe up as 'proof' against men liking X etc. and it also often doesn't get the nuance of these dynamics between ppl. What you talk about is something I recognize - it's actually something I've given some real thought to. I've noticed differences in men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 09:40 PM
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A silver fox is just a guy that didn't go bald No it isn't! What the hell is going on in this thread? Someone else is claiming men don't look any different between 25 and 40. Y'alls sound, for real, like one of those women who's all "I'm 53 but I took good care of my skin and my mom is still wrinkle-free at 75 and everyone thinks I'm 22." Stfu. Also, i now don't understand wtf 'Touch of Grey' is. The way you were talking about it it sounded like it made your hair grey. But it's just regular hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 01:25 AM
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I mean, I want to agree with this but I don't think Wayne Rooney has books so yeah, I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 01:19 AM
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you don't have that athority. I was joking. I don't really think I have some kind of authority over anonymous internet users. Just so ya know. Sorry facts hurry your feelings Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 01:18 AM
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Heh. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 11:06 PM
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But an older man who takes care do himself and is well dressed is highly attractive. Well, he's attractive if he's attractive. And that goes for men of all ages. And this isn't that hard to do. Based on the number of genuinely sexually attractive older men I see, I don't think I agree with you on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:56 PM
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I can't fuck your bookshelf. Downvotes? Aw geez, red pill, u mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:54 PM
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This really depends on the dad bod in question. If it's the 'flabby, skinny arms + pot belly' dad bod then HELL NAW. But if it's the 'broad shoulders, still muscular but with a layer of fat over it' then, well, OKAAAAAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:52 PM
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OP i think you're just doing what a loooot of people on here/the internet/in life are doing. Which is basically projecting what is virtually a universal anxiety about aging onto 'that other group, the one I don't belong to." Yes, women are insecure about aging. And out of 100 women who tell you they're not I believe about 2 of them. I've been using wrinkle cream since I was a teenager, for example. But this 'women age worse than men' thing really is a myth, and it's funny to see it bandied about…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:50 PM
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FYI you've just forfeited your right to call women 'delusional' or 'wishful thinkers' ever again. 25 and 40 look the same? Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 10:23 PM
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Feel free to make a meaningful response. Ugh. Don't come in here with that pulled-out-of-your-ass mess and ask for 'meaningful' responses, dude. Tighten that shit way, WAY up if you want anyone to take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:37 PM
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2 comments. I've said "No one has ever asked" before on PPD. And thinking about this now I realize that there was an unspoken context there that I maybe should have been more explicit about. No one has ever asked me my N-count in the context of courting/checking me out to see if I was relationship material or not. But I have discussed N-count with friends (male and female) and men I was in relationships with. It's the difference between 'how many men have you slept with omg are you a filthy whor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 05:11 AM
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Men like hot women. I'm not sure it matters if they're nerdy or not, especially at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 07:36 PM
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I'm in the top <.5% there Guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 07:08 PM
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It's this. It's totally this. I've actually had this convo with a friend before (the 'why is Elon Musk's love life so fucked' convo) and I said then that Elon Musk is an exceptional human being in two ways: actual genius/smart af actually does the shit he thinks/talks about Either of those things alone could lead to status/$$$ but he has both. He's also a nerd, though, and he has that classic nerd thing of being totally helpless in the face of a beautiful woman. I'm not being facetious, either, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 07:04 PM
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I'm too wide for Magnum XL You just said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 06:55 PM
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U r euphoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 06:52 PM
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Why? Why assume random people on the internet are interested in discussing HopefulaboutADHD with HopefulaboutADHD???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 08:49 PM
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Are you saying that I should see a psychiatrist? What the fuck? No? Where did you even get that? Dude, you went on about how interesting it would be for you to talk to this woman due to your ADHD blah blah and not once did you even hint at being conscious of the question of whether or not it would be interesting for her to talk endlessly about the stuff you talk endlessly about. Because, guy, it wouldn't. Are you a fucking troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 08:47 PM
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Super interesting topic, OP. I'll say that one thing I'm not sure a lot of PPDers either realize or note (or possibly even agree with) is how deeply American PPD is, in our own little culture. That's not a criticism, obviously, but it's definitely something I constantly notice. The other thing is a certain conventionality to people here, even and sometimes, imo, especially, with the bloops. It makes me smile to see blue pillers painted as these purple haired cock-carousel riding degenerates when…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 08:43 PM
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Do you know how fascinating it would be for me to talk to her, given my interest in the topic and my interest in ADHD and disorders and stuff? What is the follow-up question you should be asking yourself here, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:56 PM
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Is this Love8Death's alt? Because this 'tee hee, it doesn't matter what you say because i'm going to take the same thing away from it regardless' (i.e. if they say what I already think then I'm right, and if they don't say what i already think then I'll 'read between the lines' and still be right') is fucking cringe. Just grow a pair and make a post outright stating what you think, ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:26 PM
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You're acting like a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:12 PM
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This is just another instance, for me, where the standard 'women do this and men do this' line just doesn't reflect (my) reality. I have friends who will join me in bitching about so-and-so's terrible taste/bad shoes/dumb hair and it really isn't gendered. In fact my best mean-person buddy is a straight male. It's the same with 'gossip'. Women gossip. Men don't. Except men TOTALLY gossip! And they don't do it any less than women, in my experience. It's just like both parties are more likely to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:04 PM
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Put down the cake. But cake is delicious. :( Edit: 2 upvotes for cake? Fuck you, PPD, you psychopaths probably prefer pie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 03:59 PM
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I completely agree with you - America is literally the last (western) country I would think of when it comes wealth and income not having an effect on your social status. Sure, things other than wealth and income have an impact, but imo they have a much lesser impact in the US than they do anywhere else. Hell, it's part of the story America tells about itself - anyone can aspire to being at the top of the heap in the States, not bound by rigid and individually insurmountable class boundaries lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:08 PM
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I wasn't shit testing the river by swimming in it. Yes you were. AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 03:58 AM
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the reason this is relevant to PPD is because a lot of PPD posters try to conflate and blur the distinctions between UC and UMC behavior by describing typically UMC behaviors as "high quality" (instead of counter-signalling to emphasize the UC/UMC distinctions, UMC try to blur the distinction) - and this is extremely misleading. there can be a lot of overlap between people in the highest social classes and people in the top tiers of the sexual marketplace. but it's not a direct link. simply acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 03:04 PM
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A high quality woman is someone who has made very similar life choices to myself. Complete coincidence, ofc. (yes, it's sarcasm)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 02:34 PM
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You're doing it, dude. You're doing it right now. Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 02:33 PM
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You're going to have to settle for a weird chick. Maybe she won't be ugly or stupid or whatever, but she's gonna have to be weird/off, because you are weird/off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 02:31 PM
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your mom is gay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:25 PM
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very young idiot This is the key phrase here, and it applies to the women, too. I didn't watch the video but I assume the woman is 18-21 ish? That behaviour is what very young women do and even then not all of them by any means. That 'I hate you' BS etc. - she wanted him to see those messages, she's trying to make him jealous/get a rise out of him. I'd advise any man dealing with a woman acting like that to shrug and give every impression that you could not give less of a fuck. I have never acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:23 PM
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I agree with buttfactory. High quality traits are basically the same for both genders. Not a shitty person, good looking or, if not naturally good looking then well groomed/healthy/takes care of themselves. Not a bitch/asshole, loving, agreeable, patient etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:09 PM
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Oh Christ. Hint: if you're talking about how hot you are/how high your IQ is on the internet, you are by definition not a high quality person. Most of my interests tend to be more popular with men than women: science fiction, libertarianism, blogging, politics, economics, guns, gambling, etc. It's an Alt-Right-y Cool Girl with an edge of laydee nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:07 PM
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A person who has never and will never drive a car doesn't have a relavent opinion on what makes a car good. I don't agree with this or the larger point. Someone doesn't necessarily need a driver's license to know Lambos are better than Corollas (to all but the Toyota fetishists).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 06:00 PM
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I feel you OP. I run into delusional people all the time. They're deluded and they live in a comfortable fantasy world and they only have emotional (not rational) arguments. I suspect you and I also share a similar definition for terms like 'deluded' and 'irrational' and 'living in a fantasy world.' My definition is: 'disagrees with me.' You realize you're essentially asking us why people disagree with red pill, right? Is that what you're asking? I mean, what do you think? Do you think people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 02:59 PM
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I don't disagree... not sure what this is a specific response to, in terms of what I said. Are we agreeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:28 AM
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If it's as simple as aggression + violence + low emotional control then toddlers are by definition alpha. Either context plays a role here or it doesn't. Is it 'alpha' if he's throwing a fit over his salad being too short on croutons? Is it alpha if he's drunk and looking for a fight over nothing? I mean, on the one hand we can have this convo. On the other hand, I'm not sure it's worth it. People on this sub disagree on what 'alpha' is - nothing about this total-lack-of-actual-action-mouthy-jac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:24 AM
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If it's this simplistic, then toddlers are alpha af. And toddlers are... not alpha af.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:13 AM
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This is the answer. I once said, ages ago here, that creepiness is persistence in the face of clear signals of disinterest. And I still think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:45 PM
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models who know what it takes to make a suit look good. They get paid millions to walk in a suit, so they know what they are doing. Yeah I don't disagree but making clothes look good and making women want to bang you aren't necessarily the same things. Regardless of looks (because obvs. those male models are exceptionally good looking and fit) I've always found that male-model runway walk really odd - something about their demeanor almost suggests they know they're doing something super feminine…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:40 PM
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The links in this thread are gold - I've never been into Connery but that move is a good one. Edit: Although I can totally see an awkward person really fucking it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:33 PM
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This is actually a good example of a non-Chad interacting with a woman and not being 100% super confident but still coming off well. Like, i did not get any bad vibes off him I got a real 'decent/funny/sweet' feeling - he wasn't creepy at all. Which is obvious but I know here some ppl think u just need to be not-Chad to be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:29 PM
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That was exactly my reaction the first time I saw him play. He's not even just one of those 'yeah, he's hot' guys, either. He is really hot. That's the hottest unknown-dude-I've-been-intro'd-to for awhile. Nice. Also I only said you'd fancy me cuz I am very demonstrative and often look like a lunatic if I'm talking about something I'm excited about. And I'm easily excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:12 PM
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Just reading your post, thinking we don't agree on Bo Burnham (although I do enjoy him, I don't fancy him) so we probably won't agree on those other two dudes I've never heard of. Clicked on the Chris Thile vid because why not. Watch 5 seconds. Huh. OK, he's not fug. Watch 15 seconds. Yeah, I can see why she's into this guy, he's attractive. 30 seconds later HOLY SHIT. Dude, this guy is hot af. Omg. Thank you for linking! Also, based on your post, I think if I was a man and you were single and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 05:56 PM
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Oh man this is one of those topics I could talk about for hours and hours and hourrrrs. With my female friends. Whilst the male friends all sat around doing that 'one-eyebrow-up-chicks-eh?' thing at each other but actually took it all in cuz lady sekrits yay but we gotta pretend like we don't even care did u see the game last night? Ahem. I've never flirted with a woman. I've been nice and friendly to strange women and am in fact much nicer/friendlier/more open with strange women than strange me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 09:00 PM
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Oh fuck I actually had noticed that about the spooks and forgotten! Ugh, so it was about spooks OK. Congrats on the finding a nice laydee to marry you, tho. Hopefully she is not too spooky!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:39 AM
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You know, while I haven't come around to an Atlas-style 'studies are for homosexual jellyfish raised by single moms of a lower caste' opinion, the way we use them here is...not good. It's pretty much always going to be a mistake to approach this in a 'rawr women care about status and men care about looks and this study 100% proves it' way. I mean yes, women care about status and men care about looks. But the argument always hangs on to what extent women/men care about status/looks. Do women care…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:35 AM
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Incel sub was banned? Good. Mad incels, it was for the best. Think of it like your mom taking away your gaming console when you were 7 so you had to go outside and not get rickets. What I'm saying is, hanging out at r/incels gives you rickets of the soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:25 AM
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::raises hand:: Is it because collectivism is bad, Prof. Drok?? I'm just playing. How's you, yank?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 02:22 AM
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Hey Smoogs. Have we spoken before? Are you the small-town 'berta dude who's all Super Red Pill but then you talk to him and he's actually not as bad as his bluster would indicate? I think that might be you but I'm not sure. Are you the 'grils don't read' guy? Aaaanyway, I guess my main thought on this is a kinda of shrug. Like, it sounds like this woman is venting/maybe had a bad date the previous night/is frustrated. It also sounds like this woman is basic. It's an insult but really, the vast m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 08:52 PM
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It's that thing where OP thinks he's telling us about women when really he's telling us about himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 03:46 AM
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OOOoooh good one OP! You got us! It's like if your ideal breast size is 34C and someone asks you if you'd prefer your perfect woman to have 34C breasts or 34A breasts and you say 34C! Haaaa! Busted! This is fucking retarded. Feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:26 AM
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Women don't respond to physical attractiveness, per se. Ha ha, yeah, you keep telling yourself that bud. As for the rest of this, did you have an actual point? It's barely coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:23 AM
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This is just stupidity. "Only women do X in relationships." Dude (or, lady), you ONLY DATE WOMEN. Ppl of both sexes often have no clue about the insane bullshit their own sex can get up to, simply because they never have to see it face-on. It takes some effort, esp. if one is personally invested in one's own sex being 'better,' to see the flipside.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:16 AM
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My view here is that, people ultimately judge you by how you look. This doesn't just apply to women, it applies to everyone. Your not entitled to be judged or treated a certain way just because you want to be. I completely agree. This may be unfair, it may be unpleasant etc., but it's true. People judge other people based on how they present themselves and how they look. But I'm reading your OP and I'm reading some other comments in this thread - like this: Point being attractive male attention …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 07:56 AM
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It's not about 'should,' tho, in a practical sense. It's just about either person X cares about issue Y or they don't. And this goes way beyond gender issues. I mean, I could say everyone "should" (or "should not") care about the suffering of animals in the factory farming system. That has no impact on whether or not they do. There are a billion different movements out there looking for justice for group a, b, c - they're advocating, it's what they do. They're counting on the inherent human aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 08:11 PM
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It's impossible to even talk to you guys. Dry dicks = serial killers? Wtf. What do you even want me to say to anything you just posted?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 04:29 PM
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Also, predators predate. It's what they do. Dudes here seem mad af about having to follow their own instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 08:45 PM
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Harvey Weinstein is the end result when you tell the unattractive incel to "work harder". Yeah, no. HW is about as far from incel as it's possible for a member of the same species as the incel to get. HW is what happens when a man with his tastes/pathologies/turn-ons is in a position of borderline unquestionable power. RP actually likes to talk about the male sex drive as this undeniable, overwhelming thing. Is anybody surprised that this shit happens? I don't think anyone should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 08:44 PM
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Not only do these guys (and i say 'these guys' because I certainly don't mean all men by any means - there seems to be a glut of 'these guys' here at PPD in particular) not know how to hunt, they resent that they have to, if they want to eat. It's so fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 02:59 AM
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Is this convo even being had in the US (actual question not shaming attempt)? It's been going on for a few years in the UK, the dearth of working class voices in writer's rooms, onscreen etc., and some big names have spoken out about it (Hiddlestone has been insufferable on the topic) and how this is leading to fewer working class characters in TV/movies. I wasn't joking that I would watch that US show. I totally would, that's a world I have no insight into as a non American and so much of the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 07:59 PM
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The men here have a whore whore complex. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 07:47 PM
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This. The question isn't "can women ever escape the madonna whore dichotomy," it's "can men who think that way ever escape the madonna whore dichotomy." If some dude can't see the mother of his kid as a sexual being, that's his hang-up. The question is can HE get over it, not whether or not SHE can. And yes, women have their flawed/damaging thought processes too, ftr.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 07:45 PM
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Sometimes I wonder about this in the context of the whole 'everybody wants their partner to be everything to them, no wonder so many feel let down and split up' theory. Like, yeah, the 'best' man is perfectly able to be hard and masculine when needed and then sensitive and understanding when needed. And the 'best' woman is perfectly able to have dinner with your parents at a high end restaurant, making interesting and polite convo the whole time, and then go home and participate in depraved sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 07:41 PM
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Nobody is going to watch a show about some woman in Missouri working at the chicken processing plant and going to shit bars with her skanky friends. No sarcasm I would watch that shit. In fact I've thought before that someone needs to make a good, well-written show about working class American girls from a flyover state.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 07:36 PM
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To me, this isn't an abundance. It's not an abundance just knowing people want to stick their penis inside you, or anyone with a vagina for that matter. Ha, was literally just going to say this, including the "stick their penis in me" line. Agreed. You literally just have to be female and between the ages of 12 and 80 and SOMEONE will def. be willing. Not sure if this is 'abundance mentality.'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 11:02 PM
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Yeah but you're part of the reason it "won't happen," Guitars. For all your affability on PPD, you are still the guy who deliberately dated women in order to dump/hurt/punish them because other women had caused you pain. And now you want empathy? Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 07:50 PM
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If you ask me, and I think this sub and many men would agree, is women should have an idea of basic empathy for men in general. Backatcha. And I'm not being funny here, this is a constant theme on PPD and it never ceases to amaze me that some of the most empathy-free people I've ever come across appear to crave empathy. Hell, just on a common-sense level, surely you understand that asking for something you're not willing to give is off-putting, leaving aside all "but women already have all the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 07:48 PM
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This is the part where he tells you that literally every woman he has ever met irl, ever, spent 100% of their waking hours bitching and complaining about men. I don't know why lewis acts like this, he makes it impossible for himself, he makes conversation an impossibility. There's also a lot of irony there, given that he's one of the complainiest ppl on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 07:43 PM
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RP comes across as so schizo on this subject. On the one hand some of them seem to covet this kind of idealized 50s wife who lives only to have babies, raise them, and care for her home and her family. On the other hand the way they actually talk about SAHMs totally betrays the fact that they've kind of bought into the idea that SAHM-dom is for dumb, bloodsucking, ambitionless women who couldn't hack it in the real world. There's no respect there for the actual roles of home-maker and mother. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 07:41 PM
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I think it is a stretch to come to the conclusion that his research proves that humans=irrational. That is in no way what I'm saying, nor is it what I believe. The quote I posted, above: Thaler’s work shows that assuming human beings are predictably irrational is the most rational approach to studying their behavior. We agree on that, right? 'Predictably irrational' =/= 'wholly irrational' - I would guess 99.9999% of people are neither wholly rational nor wholly irrational. TL;DR Pretty sure we'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 07:10 PM
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Well those things could be said to be true but honestly I just fuckin like the way this guy stands. Like he owns the goddamned world. And I also like that he doesn't know it and when I mentioned it he looked at me like I was crazy. Yessss, yesssss, be unaware of how hot your shit is, because that's even hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 07:06 PM
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Wait what? You're an admirer of Thaler but you buy the 'rational actors' thing?? Or do you mean you admire him but you don't agree with him? Or do you agree with this: Thaler’s work shows that assuming human beings are predictably irrational is the most rational approach to studying their behavior. I agree with that (in so far as I can, it's not like I'm intimately familiar with this guy's work), but 'predictably irrational' =/= 'rational.' No?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 06:58 PM
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I'm dating the Colossus of Rhodes (see flair). OK, fine, I admit he's just a human man with a very nice way of standing on rocky outcroppings. Not even kidding. You should have seen him... standing there...all hot af and not even aware of it. dies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 06:44 PM
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EDIT: Shit, they're already here. OK I loled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 06:43 PM
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But western society treats marriage like dating and everyone figures you can just bail when the going gets tough because you deserve 'happiness' all the time. Yeah, I agree. Although I think marriages are not the only thing affected by this kind of "I should be happy all the time and I'm not so something is desperately wrong and I need to fix it" thinking. I actually think RP itself is a bit of a symptom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 06:28 PM
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When TRP says that women are attracted to alpha type men. Your response can't be "but what about the crazy lady down the street who shoves cucumbers up her ass? she doesn't like alpha men heheh TRP proven false" Was going to reply to the original comment but RockinsocksII already did so I'll just say I'm not sure this hypothetical woman who likes cucumbers up her bum is saying very much about whether or not assuming 'rational actors' in the SMP is a smart move. What about an outlier/exception to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 06:25 PM
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I actually semi agree with you here. It may be a 'prole' tell but it can also be a UC tell. And I don't mean UMC I mean UC, of the type I'm not even sure America can be said to have. I also semi-agree in that I would put money on the British royal family desperately not wanting Harry to marry Meghan (and not saying boo about it because look what happened when they did try to force one of their own into marrying someone 'suitable' in the modern world). And one of the princes of Sweden married a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 09:34 PM
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But at the same time, many men will not want a beautiful woman for various reasons. Ha ha ha omg. Bullshit. Love8Death have you ever witnessed the way men act around a beautiful woman? Oh you sweet summer child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 09:01 PM
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I've known 2 women in my life who arguably could be said to get into relationships with men they're not hot for. And it's important to know that both of them weren't really hot for anyone - it wasn't that they were dreaming of Chad while having sex with their bfs. There were no 'Chads' to these two, they just weren't very sexual creatures, sex was a pleasant thing that men liked so they did it but cuddling would have been fine too. Sometimes I think there are more women than men who are like thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 08:56 PM
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in reality it was that she wasn't good enough to commit to when she was younger. The reason I know this is because when women control the sexual market, the age of marriage gets younger and there is less casual sex. When men control the market, the age of marriage gets later so that they can fuck around for as long as possible. Interesting. You should make a post on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 08:52 PM
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I think Cinnamongirl was kinda right - it smelled a little masturbatory to me, too. Men love that stuff. Makes them feel warm and fuzzy. Even from strangers online? And talking about men who aren't actually OP? Men are fucked. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 02:49 AM
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I'm glad my torment amuses you. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 02:46 AM
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Don't you think though, in situations like the one you described with your former roommate, the women often believe (however misguidedly) that the guy is open to a relationship? I definitely think those situations you're describing exist. Especially if you have a callous/shitty guy, he's often happy to insinuate and hint at a possible relationship in order to get laid and dumb/inexperienced girls can fall for this. Fell for it myself as a teenager, lesson thoroughly learned! But my roomie, well,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 02:44 AM
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You're one of the few people who will GET INTO IT with me, Guitars, even tho... yeah. So we can get into this. I have seen too many women chase guys who weren't that interested in them for years to believe it. Me too! I understand that 98% of the women here are all emotionally rock-solid supermodels (and the two percent who aren't is me) but, dude, I have definitely seen this shit, too. It's not super rare, either. At uni I had a roommate and he had a little nerd-harem of 3-4 women who all loved…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 02:06 AM
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Ooh thank you GSL. It's you who got hitched very recently, isn't it? Well if it is and I think it is I just wanted to say congrats and wish you and the new husband many happy years and decades and many adorable little Texan babies. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 01:44 AM
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noooo oh god pls no no op noooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 12:55 AM
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Why don't you want to believe it? I sometimes get the feeling that some rp men (not you necessarily) want to be pursued the way men pursue women. And there's something off-putting and woman-ish about that. I just realized, thinking about this, that we've had this convo before. It's the same old 'either you enjoy the game or you don't' thing. Either a man enjoys pursuing women in the way men pursue women or he doesn't and he might get buttmad about it and wish women chased him. But urgh, dude, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 12:51 AM
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So I think we have a bit of a minor circlejerk going on in this thread whereby women are all 'I'd never try to get commitment from someone who didn't want to give it.' And I actually get that - it's my response, too. It's like I have this peach tree and it has the best, most juicy peaches and this dude I know doesn't like peaches, maybe he's even allergic to them. The whole 'how would you get him to eat peaches' is a dumb question. He doesn't WANT peaches. So I have no idea how I'd go about maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/17 12:47 AM
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This is almost exactly how I picture alreadyredschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 11:29 PM
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Is that the room with the Clash poster? That just looks sort of studenty and young man-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 11:26 PM
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Ugh that ceiling height. Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 11:21 PM
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You have dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 11:17 PM
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You look like the husband from The Americans. And he married Keri Russell sooo... But your apartment (?) kinda looks lime a serial killer's lair.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 11:15 PM
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Don't know who you are but dude, all i think looking at your photo and reading your comment is: holy fuck there is SO MUCH room for improvement here. So much. I swear to god people in this sub (is it age? a man thing?) don't have any idea how much grooming can do for a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 11:13 PM
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Nope. Hyperrreal looks a bit like John Cena, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 11:08 PM
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So I just fell down a huge Wiki-based rabbit hole based on Googling the word "skookum." My home province had a whole 'nother (pidgin) language that I've never heard of! I was familiar with some of the words - notably 'tyee.' And now I'm going to try to get my hands on the book the WA tribe published (Chinuk Wawa) because this shit is fascinating. At her swearing-in as lieutenant governor in 2001, Iona Campagnolo concluded her speech in Chinook, observing that "konoway tillicums klatawa kunamokst…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 04:44 AM
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Hey Dakru. How you feeling? Sick?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 01:39 AM
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In the spirit of Purge Week and the general tenor of this sub, I want you to know that I didn't ACTUALLY want to to be confronted with hard sources that contradict my beliefs re: spanking (which have been about 57.2% pondered and 42.8% pulled out of my ass) and that I therefore suspect you of being a pedophile and a moron. J/k I'll look at the damned links. UGH I JUST WANNA BEAT KIDS OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 01:37 AM
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RIP Spacewhiskey, Logicked To Death By An Internet Alpha Male
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 01:32 AM
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You're saying that half of humanity is inferior to you ? On the point of IQ, yes, by definition anyone below me in IQ is inferior (in terms of IQ only). they don't deserve to have equal rights ? I do not believe this. Or be treated equally ? I do not believe this. implying that anyone saying they have lower IQ must mean they are saying they are not equal people I have very, very plainly stated that I am not saying anything like this, or anything like what you're implying I've said. They are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:39 PM
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Yeah, last resort, agreed. Although I'm sure different people have different ideas on the seriousness of certain infractions or the meaning of 'last resort' (like with an out of control toddler - do you try reasoning with them first? or do you accept that some of them are unable to be reasoned with in that state?). Someone just mentioned seeing her sisters hit for 'kid-level blackmail' and I know people who would totally not consider that a hit-able offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:24 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by this? Is it the peer group dealing out the beatings or the parents? I was kind of just wondering what's more ideal at that age, and acknowledging that by that age some of the beatings (in the past, anyway) would have been handed out by peers, not parents, in a way that doesn't apply to 3 yr olds (unless they're exceptionally hard-assed 3 yr olds!).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:21 PM
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I mentioned this in the OP but I myself have never seen one of these studies that controlled for things like parents' age, parent's socioeconomic demographic, class etc. Have you? Link them if you have, I'd be interested to read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:19 PM
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Would YOU think he was INFERIOR to you ? I already said this. On the question of IQ specifically, yes, he is inferior to me if he has a lower IQ. It's you who have said "people with lower IQ are inferior" No, I didn't, and this is the second weaselly attempt to paint me as saying something I was very explicit on the point of not saying. I said people with a lower IQ are inferior on the question of IQ score, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:17 PM
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Also agree that by the time a child is verbal Yes, definitely. Once they're old enough to be reasoned with, to use words and to understand the ones being said to them, most kids are probably better of being spoken to rather than hit. I was spanked (infrequently) and I reacted very badly when it happened, although it wasn't even about being spanked, it was about being raised in a house where violence was explicitly verboten. Verboten except when my mom's temper was especially short for reasons th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:11 PM
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this is not the same as beating the shit out of your children because you're annoyed by them Oops, I meant to mention this in the OP. The parental motivation in dealing out a spanking matters. Kids know if they're getting hit because dad had a bad day at work and needs someone weaker to take it out on - they know if it's bullshit. Same thing with asserting alphadom over a smaller, weaker child (i.e. if that's how you assert your alphadom, you're no alpha).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 08:00 PM
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As soon as I posted and re-read for typos I had that thought - that there is the odd 9 yr old who needs an ass-kicking. It's almost always boys, too. /misandrist It might be ideal if the peer group dealt out ass-kickings once into the tweens but that's not allowed anymore is it? And that's also sort of problematic due to adults sometimes not seeing bullying dynamics (i.e. seeing the difference between a deserved ass-kicking and a social underling getting bullied) Interesting problem - if we can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:58 PM
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This made me lol. Awesome. Some kids are pretty terrible, I agree, but I have rarely if ever met an under-12 who was terrible for any reason other than the parents being terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:53 PM
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Fuck you retard. (had to get that out of the way, it's purge week right?) So is this response sarcastic or not? And either way, EXPAND pls. I want those people who gently lead their tantrum-throwing 18 month olds to the side and patiently (verbally) explain to them how hitting other kids is wrong and we don't do that and you should feel bad because you hurt little Amelie and we don't hurt people in our family whilst the kid is kicking off and hitting/kicking the parent/screaming bloody murder to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:51 PM
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If they don't talk about their MBTI types, how will the rest of us know they're better than us??? Naw seriously, tho, MBTI is a super huge circlejerk here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:47 PM
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It's purge week! I just made the thread. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:43 PM
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I'm not engaging further with you. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:42 PM
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I don't know much about autism but I could totally see this being true. If I'm understanding you right and you're implying that a solid ass-kicking or two at a young age, from their peers, might have done some of these people a world of good? (I agree with that, btw. In fact I think I might start a thread on spanking and see if we can't get a proper internet slapfight going)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:27 PM
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On the topic of IQ, which is specifically and solely what I'm talking about, a person with an IQ of 95 is by definition 'inferior' (again: on the question of IQ) to a person with an IQ of 105. You are deliberately trying to muddy the waters because you're too much of a pussy to own that fact that you're just another run-of-the-mill racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:22 PM
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I knew you weren't gonna get specific on any 'to what extent' questions. Anyway, /u/Sunhappy_DC - here ya go, Atlas thinks lower IQs in black people are, at least to some degree, inborn. Also, here is the definition of the word 'inferior': lower in rank, status, or quality. synonyms: second-class, lesser, lower in status, lower-ranking, subordinate, second-fiddle, junior, minor; Atlas thinks black people are, on the question of IQ, inherently 'inferior' (i.e. lesser, lower-ranking etc.) to white…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:13 PM
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I think a pretty high proportion of that crowd actually gets off (psychologically, emotionally or sexually) to being told how shit they are. It just helps entrench their worldview. "I'm shit there's no hope - look, everyone here agrees." I would love someone to do a study on how the incels were parented, that would be interesting to read. And not just 'by single moms who made them wear pink dresses and go by the name 'Valerie'' but actual, specific parenting strategies. I can hardly talk to any …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 07:07 PM
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Hey /u/atlas_b_shruggin - do you think black ppl have lower measured IQs because of inborn qualities directly related to their blackness? Do you think environment or culture play any role and if so, to what degree would you say they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:56 PM
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ITA. I'm curious as to what the reaction would be in the US if someone tried to institute a military service term for post high school boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:39 PM
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How do you do that in the individualist cultural hodgepodge that is the US. My dad taught me and I'll teach mine, but it's not my job to enforce my culture into other people's families There's an excellent conversation to be had here. I wish AustriaPill had replied. I've thought about this before, usually when I'm on here (because this is pretty much the only place I get exposure to a very specific brand of American 'individualist').
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:32 PM
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You're doing it again. Being a dick and blaming others for your dickery. Stahp!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:28 AM
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And the "i love sucking dick" factor runs high in yours. Purge week wheeeee!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:27 AM
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I know you act like a dick a lot on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:18 AM
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They affect the SMP in that people who favour cats are low quality and people who favour dogs are high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:12 AM
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Why you gotta be so awful all the time? You and lewis Cross, man, it's relentless. Don't you get tired? Don't you guys just want to chill and chat sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:11 AM
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Don't be sad, weird guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:07 AM
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Ha, I have a history degree, too (both undergrad, tho). I just read a very broad swathe of works, you know? We were reading Sophocles and Virgil in one class and Wuthering Heights in another. Where are you that it snowed south of you?? Alberta? Edmonton? I bet you're in Alberta, the grossest and most red pill of all provinces. :D It's going to be 30 degrees here in QC this weekend. ::smug::
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:06 AM
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When I was studying for my English Lit undergrad there were a LOT more women than men in my classes. I still think women are more likely to read even the stuff you linked than men. Where are you that it's so cold?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 04:38 AM
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Oh hey it's you the guy who was all bamboozled that women might read literature. You're doing acid, huh? Like, right now? You should be outside. Go run around in the forest and be a tiger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 04:18 AM
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No one. No one is the craziest on PPD this week. An unwise man once said: "I think everyone on PPD is here because they're lonely." And I said "Some of us maybe, but not all." But now I think he was probably right. This week reminds me of what happens when you see two snarling dogs on leashes suddenly let off. They transform instantly from puffed-up, drooling killers into awkward puppers pretending they don't see each other and walking by like 'oh that guy? I didn't even notice him I was just ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 04:14 AM
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Hooker. Not because it's the same as banging someone you love, but because demystifying sex would help you, it would make it less of a 'thing,' show you it's just flesh physics. Then, after you realize that, you might be able to talk to some girls without being terrified or thinking they're aliens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 04:09 AM
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Oh thank God someone else HATES vessel sinks, too. I think their ubiquity contributes to my loathing for sure, every single condo building going up in my city (and there are a lot of condos going up in my city) has them - usually in green glass with some very, very, very stupid faucet. I've had the exact same thoughts re: cleaning them, too. Can you imagine the gunk that would build up on the underside and get into the nooks and crannies? UGH. Ppl in that thread were saying it was 'timeless,' to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 10:15 PM
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I'd want to be from a minor noble family somewhere near Highgarden/the south. Rich enough to spend my days drinking wine with interesting people and reading. Would like a few kids, dead ex husband and a few 22 yr old Gendry-types to visit me. I don't any interest in warrioring or working for a living. Edit: Or I'd want to be Melisandre to Stannis, because I <3 Stannis. The non daughter-killing version, tho. Put all the demon babies inside me, Stan.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 10:12 PM
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Is this more poetry from you? Why are you trying so hard to be something you're not, Love8? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:16 PM
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It's presumed true. It's only presumed true if it's... presumed true. And I do not presume it's true. Why would I? Love8Death, godfuckingdamnit, PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT YOU BELIEVING A THING IS TRUE DOESN'T JUST MAGICALLY MAKE IT TRUE. That isn't how we determine truth, ok? We don't say "well does Love8Death from the internet believe it? WELL THEN IT MUST BE TRUE." Scientists haven't shut down their labs and appeared on your doorstep to ask your opinions on whether or not substance X kills tumour…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:13 PM
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So I'm super jealous of your life. I really want a Jersey and/or a Guernsey cow of my very own. Their milk is the best tasting, imo. Some friends want me to go in on a cow share but I haven't decided yet. Milk cow share, btw, not beef. And I've heard that cows have big personalities! Oh man, I need a house in the country. And some land. Please give your cows big pets from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:09 PM
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It's the worst kind of awful taste, too. Just utterly free of any personality or originality. Those gigantic tiles. That weird bathtub nook. That stupid fucking vessel sink (if you have a vessel sink in your house, kill yourself now). It just looks like a catalog photo from 'Basic Bathrooms Monthly.' Argh now I'm enraged. Note to the sensitive: I would describe my tone, above, as somewhat facetious, in that I a)believe what I'm saying but b)accept that I am not the arbiter of good bathroom taste…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:07 PM
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You don't think that ... a gathering of words being a 'premise' means it's therefore/necessarily ... true ... right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 08:02 PM
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Jesus Christ you're jewish too?? Wtf, maybe it IS true about Jews taking over everything? Starting with PPD, apparently. As long as you don't hoard your baked goods I'm OK with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 07:58 PM
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I hope nobody who posts here thought, for even one second, that we would do anything other than cover ourselves in our own unfunny, uninteresting filth this week. But if anyone wants to talk about Millennial Pink or Christmas wishlists/shopping or the DIY bathroom redesign post on the front page then I'm game. Edit: here is the DIY post: https://www.reddit.com/r/DIY/comments/73xqvv/my_18_month_bathroom_renovation_is_complete/ Everyone in the comments loves it. But I do not love it, although I ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:23 PM
1

Lovely bot!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:19 PM
1

Oooh you rescued them? Well done you. I want a Jersey cow. And a Guernsey cow. But cows can't live in apartments. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:19 PM
1

GODly. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:18 PM
1

Yesssss. Uncut dick>literally everything else that ever has been, is, or will be Btw, if he can get off from that i feel fairly confident he can get off from the slackjawed bj, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:17 PM
1

What kind of cows do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:14 AM
2

Seriously. So funny that he thinks some boo-hooing about how she's going to stop desiring him is somehow hot for women. Nothing would kill my ladyboner faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:06 AM
2

Brothers commonly lost their virginity to their older sister at ages 7-12, and used her as practice Dude wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:51 AM
1

Do you not run tests on your bf (or husband, I think you're married?)? Like the 'how fast can he cum' test? Or the 'minimum amount of stimulation to cum' test? I run all kinds of experiments like this, because I am a sciendicktist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:46 AM
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Blowing them takes less time. Less effort, too. You could just turn your head to the side and slacken your jaw and he could do the 10 seconds of work whilst you read a nice women's magazine or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:33 AM
1

Uncut.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 04:32 AM
1

LICK MY FAT FOLDS, NAZI.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 01:32 AM
1

SUCK MY DICK, HITLER.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 01:30 AM
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7.75 inches is perf. (big enough to make me feel a little, uh, impaled, because I like that shit on a deep psychological level, but not so big it's cartoonish or extremely painful). Also I like getting hit on the inside which some other women do too but most do not. Pink (although tbh this doesn't matter very much it's just that I have a specific dick in mind as I answer these questions and it happens to be a white one) Girth>length. It's the girth that truly gives the 'stretched/impaled' sensat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 10:19 PM
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I prefer it when they cry and whisper "mommy" when they cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 10:16 PM
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It's not about what you say (OK it is kind of about what you say but don't be getting any ideas that anyone says anything complex or highly articulate during sex) it's about how you say it, your tone of voice, the look on your face, how you're fucking her, what the vibe between you is etc. etc. etc. Some men are good at this without even trying. Others are so bad you want to stop having sex and make them some hot chocolate with marshmallows. Also oh hey you're back if it's even you. it sounds li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 10:14 PM
2

This. It's this. I can actually spontaneously orgasm to screenshots of a high bank balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 10:10 PM
1

That's right. That's how it feels to get PWNED, Spacewhiskey. Look (listen?) upon my banter and despair! You butt!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 09:55 PM
1

SHUT UP SHITBREATH!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 09:49 PM
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OK, good. For the first time ever I think I just experienced a measure of righteous indignation on your behalf (at the idea that you were banned during purge week - that would have been unfair).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:36 PM
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Are you going to cum in my eye tho? Come on, I wanna see if you can back up all this manly man manly testosterone manly masculine shit you spew. kneels awaits
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:32 PM
2

Wait what? You're banned this week? And if so, how are you posting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:29 PM
1

I'm in need of release because of my eye? I mean, I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm just saying I don't see the link. Also did you just offer to cum in my eye?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:04 PM
2

The worst part is Love8's 'trolling/purge week' posts are pretty much indistinguishable from his regular posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 07:01 PM
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Girl DO NOT send photos to these people!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:58 PM
3

ANSWER IT PROPERLY!! I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:46 PM
3

Lame, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:43 PM
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Hmmmm. I don't think I want to fuck marry OR kill anyone here. But I'm going to pretend you're holding a gun to my head. Fuck: God this is difficult. I basically anti-fancy the red pill men. So, blue pill or purple pill men. Ummm. Fuck. Mod Dakru, I guess. Out of curiosity MAYBE Love8Death to see if he can back himself up in any way? Probably a mod tho for sure. Except not LeaneGenova. Marry: Littleknownfacts. Because we're both straight women this would be a companionate marriage and we would i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:35 PM
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Personally I don't like attacking other users as part of my response Good for you. Having honour (actual honour, not 'internet display' honour) is a good thing. Just don't go expecting it to do anything for you here, in this fine company.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:27 PM
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You know what happened last week, Love8? I got poked in the eye with a dick. Just kidding it was a branch on an apple tree. I was wholesomely picking apples (it's a thing here) and got poked. Now I look like a zombie and have to wear an eye patch and it hurts quite a lot! Poor me, right?! Edit: You don't even care about my eye /u/Love8Death ? Fine, fuck you, I was just trying to make conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:18 PM
2

Well go on then, goddamnit. Fuck, marry, kill?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:15 PM
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THAT'S THE POINT OF THE GAME
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:12 PM
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FYI when you play Fuck Marry Kill you aren't actually obligated in real life to fuck/marry/kill those people you named.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:10 PM
1

It's purge week so I have literally no idea what percentage of this comment is sarcasm, or if any of it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:07 PM
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Guys, it's Purge Week (see the announcement yesterday) - no one's gonna get banned this week and we can apparently insult each other freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:52 PM
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Guys, it's Purge Week (see the announcement yesterday) - no one's gonna get banned this week and we can apparently insult each other freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:52 PM
1

Guess why. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:43 PM
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I'm getting a haircut right now and the lady just said I'm a supermodel. Also, you're one of my favourite people here even though by saying that during purge week i know I have just guaranteed you're going to say something awful to me and make me cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:24 PM
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Really? I didn't get an impression he was blackout drunk - what about that chick who stayed the night and into the next afternoon to get some D and he never managed? He can't have been blackout that whole time, can he? I'm wondering if not jerking off will help him but honestly, there's a problem (physical or psychological I don't know but one of those two) if a 22 yr old can't stay hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:09 AM
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PPD has been shit at purging, so far. Unsurprising, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:05 AM
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I think he is the greatest living writer (in French or English, anyway). Well, now I'm not sure about 'greatest' - it might be more accurate to say that I believe his works will outlast his era at the same time as they are very of it. Although a person whose opinion I trust and respect read one of his books on my recommendation and disliked it so much he was angry with me (and thinking less of me) for recommending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 06:02 AM
1

Why do you think Houellebecq is a genius? And I've read his books so feel free to be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:59 AM
2

Holy fuck, boys! BPremium is the liquor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/17 05:54 AM
1

23 and can't get it up after a few drinks? That's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 10:02 PM
2

<3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 08:27 PM
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You're a moron OP. Not an intellectual like myself. The things that I believe are the correct things and I am better at thinking about them than you. You have committed many fallacies in your OP. Not that I am upset or angry at you for any of this, it is in your male nature to lack the ability to think of anything other than pussy. No, I'm not mad. If anything, I'm charmed by your inherent and sex-based shittiness and, at the same time as I feel literally nothing but scorn for you on every level…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 08:23 PM
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Ooooh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 08:19 PM
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Rape. Not desperation/can't get laid rape, not feminist 'it's not about sex rape' but about-sex rape, where he's specifically getting off on the physical and sexual demonstration of brute power over a weaker woman. Bonus points if he can only get off by strangling his victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 08:17 PM
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Wealthy and fug.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 04:33 AM
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Is that actually a thing? Ofc it's a thing, they're hookers. Give them money to do a thing, they do the thing. I bet being asked to seduce a 22 yr old virgin would be a night off for a lot of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 04:31 AM
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Dude. Edit: And seriously, you don't think women would read D.H. Lawrence or Camille Paglia? I bet more women than men read both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 04:27 AM
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What did I say that was drink-spit-worthy??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 02:41 AM
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If there was something obvious going on - really bad BO or a super high girly voice, for example, I would tell him. If it was something more difficult or down to being intimidated or something, I'd pay 2-4 of hookers to seduce him (and not tell him they were hookers) at various points over the course of a year. I think some young men are so uptight about sex, so obsessed with not having it, that they make it into an impossibility in their minds, which goes a long way towards making it an impossi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:55 AM
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The most erotic passage I have ever read was written by D.H. Lawrence. I 'get' sexuality in the way he does - so many of my readings of The Plumed Serpent have just been me going yes, yes, uh-huh, yes, 100% correct, yesssss. I don't think I'm a fascist, tho. Not a political one, anyway. Have you read Camille Paglia, specifically Sexual Personae? You should, if you haven't yet. Edit: Oh man, the link even quotes from that bit about 'quiescent power' - the next time someone asks me to describe wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:52 AM
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ikr. holy shit. Also, this is totally Love8Death (or his clone) - that flowery language about butterflies and trimmed wings is soooooo his style. Love8, you need to let your wishy-washy poet flag fly, guy. You're not worthless if you're not a hardass logick monster, you know. Only PPD fuckups think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 11:33 PM
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Oh Christ. Dude, you know whose life is going to be better if you can let go of this weird BDSM-y 'I am but a lowly worm because penis' narrative? YOURS. Except it’s not just one post. It's not that post you linked at all! a “cutesy” post about a guy getting over his scumbag girlfriend Why is the ex a scumbag? Where is the article implying that or demonizing the ex at all? There was clearly the implication that men are disposable and that women are so “powerful” and “slay” and aren’t affected by…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:12 PM
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Oh God. This is such an imposition of the typical RP narrative. 'Society hates men and loves women but as a heroic and stoic manly man I push through this societal BS and emerge out the other side as the beautiful musclefly that I am.' My belief? I just don't think this is gendered. And by 'this' I mean enjoying seeing an asshole get theirs which, incidentally, is NOT what you've linked to, OP. That's just a cute/semi-funny/Buzzfeedy story about two people getting together after one of them got …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:05 PM
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What do you think of this, OP? Do you think it's true? I think it's broad enough as to be interpretable as 'true' or 'not true' from a few different perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:50 PM
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We agree! Ew!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:48 PM
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It's the inability to step back and look at it rationally and then examine it. Nope, not a male RP troll at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:47 PM
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I actually thought OP might be an alt of yours! S/he sounds a bit Love8Death-y.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:45 PM
2

exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:44 PM
2

TROLL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:44 PM
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For example is pretty much everything he's ever posted. And you and I can keep discussing this if you like but I'll tell you right now that we're differing on what is and isn't 'rude' and probably won't ever agree. For the record, I find that OP doesn't listen to the answers that many people here go to some effort to give him. He never seems to have any follow-up commentary (except more bullshit robot questions that give no indication that he's heard anything that the person said to him). He doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:20 AM
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I do suspect there is something... off-putting(?) about me to women. Hearing your story, I suspect there is too. Or, as I said, I think you might be paranoid or perhaps perceiving emotions or intentions that aren't there. And before I go any further I just want to say that I'm not telling you what's happening in your life. I certainly don't know. I hate it when people here tell other people that they're lying about their feelings or experiences, so please don't think I'm doing that. I concede, u…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:11 AM
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You can pay women to abuse you, you know. It's more dignified than trying to strong-arm innocent internet nerds into your wank fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:02 AM
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He's never been rude to anybody I think he's one of the rudest people here, but we can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:00 AM
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You suck, OP, and I think you should be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:32 AM
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Women I walk by on the street, etc. range from intentionally averting their gaze to actively and ostentatiously curling their lip at me. Assuming this is a true report (because honestly it sounds so far-fetched that I'm tempted to think you're suffering some kind of paranoia), do you think this is normal? Do you think this is just how women routinely deal with less-than-Adonis men - by openly sneering at male strangers on the street? Because if this is actually happening to you, I have to say I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:29 AM
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On a scale of 1-10, how hard does your dick get when you read those links (both of which, I'm sad to say, were almost certainly written by dudes)?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:27 AM
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AGSWBALT (All Gasoline-Soaked Wet Blankets Are Like That)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 10:35 PM
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It's wet because it's been soaked in gasoline.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 10:11 PM
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'This person disagrees with me because they don't see reality and I do.' Well that was easy, wasn't it? Almost suspiciously so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 09:49 PM
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Isn't that obvious from how all the men here talk? Keyword: 'here.' This place is full of wounded weirdos. From a certain angle, anyone with a heart would spend all of their time reading this sub sobbing. So many people so desperate for love and respect and so passionately dedicated to doing everything they can to make it impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 09:47 PM
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Men and women mostly love in different ways. They express it slightly differently, and the expect it slightly differently. If I bake someone a cake in a sundress and a penis-haver builds someone a structure, both of us acting out of love, is the love different? Is the way I experience the emotion of 'love' whilst baking the cake different to the way the man experiences the emotion of love whilst building? Is he building the structure with a smile on his face, thinking about how it's going to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 09:42 PM
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Not acting like a grown-up doesn't necessarily make your life suck in my opinion. It can make life far more fun. And this is more true for men than for women in my opinion. The most miserable guys I know are grown-up, their-shit-together-having fathers. (Not saying all fathers are miserable. But of the guys I know that are really miserable, most of them fall in this category). Even the perpetually single betas and incels I know have a much better life. Well I guess that's obviously a call everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 10:28 PM
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OK. Not a snarky 'ok,' either. Maybe that is what OP is doing. But the whole 'well what's the incentive to do X?' question is one I hear frequently from RP (and again, if you were asking it to make a point and not genuinely, that's fine), at the same time as many of them lament the 'a trophy for everyone!' culture as if they're somehow not a product of it themselves. What's the incentive is a question that gets asked by people who've spent their lives getting cookies for doing shit they're suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 10:10 PM
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What is the incentive to have self control in such cases for Chads, besides "not being a teenager"? The fact that you're even asking this question goes some way to making OP's point for him. And I don't really mean to single you out, because I think many here would ask what you have - it's just that today, you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 09:30 PM
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I think I agree re: Bruce Willis. He definitely has a man's man thing going on. Even when he was younger there never seemed to be anything boy bandy or heart-throbby about him, for sure. It's more than cool, though, in terms of his sex appeal. Have you seen Pulp Fiction? That was the height of it, I think. Also to do with the character, the way he deals with his gf etc. Btw, what do you think about Jason Statham being "the new Bruce Willis"? Like Bruce, and earlier in life than Bruce, Statham ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 10:02 PM
2

Ugh... See my flair, guy, northern workingclassness is THE SHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:37 PM
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he looks like he belongs on a building site in some shitty northern British city Well that makes sense because I have a weakness for this specific type. Younger Bruce Willis had a really hypermasculine sex appeal, again, specifically my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 07:29 PM
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Darklord is right, your 'feminine' men have some very masculine features. The terrorist, for example, has a masculine lower face (in fact almost all these 'feminine' dudes have masculine lower faces) - you're just letting his youth and gorgeous flowing locks get in the way. He's masculine (in fact he's that specific type of masculine that you only see in men under ~20, that's going to harden into something even hotter). Even Nick fucking Clegg has a mostly masculine face, you're just mistaking h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:56 PM
1

Why do you ask? Omg. I think if someone ever wanted to torture me they should lock me into a room with you for hours and force us to talk to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:48 PM
1

But I'm confused about (1) why this v-taper from both the sideways view and the forward view matters and (2) why you measure the shoulder circumference. Why? Why are you confused? Have you noticed that the front-view and the side-view matter for female asses? Because they do. And most guys aren't into a super wide but flat pancake ass. Right? Do you get that? Because if you get that, then you also get why shoulder depth and width matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:46 PM
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I understand intuitively why men are into ass and boobs but I don't understand the traits that women lust after and why and what it's like to lust after those male traits. You understand it intuitively because you're straight, right? Because you are into ass and boobs? So, you know that feeling you get when you look at ass and boobs? That's how women feel when they look at broad shoulders and wide jaws. What is there to not-understand here??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:44 PM
2

that bald guy from diehard Young(er) Bruce Willis is literally one of the hottest dudes ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:32 PM
2

Me too. If I'm paying someone money to have sex, he better be 22, built like a brick shithouse, able to fuck for hours and not prone to chitchat. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:21 AM
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Yes, but a genuinely dominant and confident person is usually comfortable and confident almost everywhere in life. No. For example: Wayne Rooney. Totally, utterly dominant individual. Tongue-tied and shy around the media/people he doesn't know (and it is soooo adorable!). Was actually talking about this with a friend earlier this year, how some people express themselves verbally (with words/language), other physically (violence, skill, craft, dance, movement etc.). I've definitely seen people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:15 AM
2

OP were your parents overprotective?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:06 AM
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Why do they care about circumference rather than width? Guy wat? Why do men care about waist circumference? Is that a question that confuses you (not being snarky)?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:04 AM
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Why do you think that broad shoulders are so important? Because they ARE. Broad shoulders are like uuuuughomgFUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 05:58 AM
1

Outrageous!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 05:22 AM
1

Are you a sheeple, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 08:08 PM
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Epic weirdo rant, OP (I know yr not the author). Interested to see the thoughts on this, esp. given that the author seems to be a hardcore blank slatist. My own thoughts? I've noticed that partisan weirdos usually have a pet lens through which they view the entire world. Here at PPD we have a lot of people who view the world through the lens of sex/gender and the person who wrote this rant definitely seems to share that. Of course it's more complicated. Of course it's more than whether or not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 07:40 PM
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He does a whole ritual with candles, lots of talking and 'massage'. That actually sounds awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 06:51 PM
1

Eh, veggies are already pretty cheap Cauliflower is expensive af. Just thought I'd throw that out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:19 PM
2

But the real interest for me in this post is the meta issue that way too often, men and women, reds and blues, come here to discuss issues, and I think many times we aren't talking about the same things at all. Me too. That's really what my previous post is about - it wasn't about me trying to argue, really, or say that you're 'wrong' or I'm 'right.' NiceGuysTM exist. Nice guys exist. They both exist. Neither of us has numbers as to what extent they exist, or what the ratio of one to the other i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 08:03 PM
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You're fucking DOING IT AGAIN, OP. You're spewing your barely formed I'm-12-and-this-is-deep thoughts on this board without preparing any coherent responses when you get a collective 'wtf' from the crowd. FWIW, we all have these thoughts. But most of us then go 'oh shit, yeah, that's kind of not super interesting at all' and then don't mention them to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 07:17 PM
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number one on that list, the loathesome Yanomami of Brazil Ha ha ha omg. Atlas wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 07:15 PM
1

I read a long essay once by the father of a kid with Down Syndrome who said that he'd never met a happier group of people than those with the condition. Said his son never stopped smiling, laughing, loving other people. Why is making the species stronger 'dark'? It's probably pretty dark for those who would be euthanised/sterilised. And assuming you're not a literal Greek god (physically), you'd almost certainly be one of them. Is that a dark outcome to you? Castrastion? Being killed for having …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 07:11 PM
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Because the OP is about "nice", but you're shifting the discussion to "good", when that's something quite different. ITA. 'Nice' and 'good' are different things. But instead of responding point by point what I'm going to say is, a lot of the time (95% of the time) I have this feeling when talking to Reds, or when reading convos between Reds and other people, that I'm not sure there would be any actual disagreement if we could agree on what we were talking about in the first place. What I mean is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 06:58 PM
1

Ha ha ha holy shit you have inspired some of the most epic-level hamstering I've seen on this sub for awhile. You're right, too. They use the 'but it's hard work for men to get laid that's why it's awesome when a man bangs loads of ppl but not when women do it' all. the. time. The call-out on that point was totally legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 06:33 PM
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I good-naturedly but almost entirely disagree, OP. What I'm thinking lately is that your social group, your political beliefs, your place on this spectrum or that spectrum, actually has very little to do with whether or not you're a good person. And this 'I'm too good of a person, I was too nice to girls' is an ego-saving platitude. Girls don't dislike you because you're too 'good,' they dislike you because you're not attractive (and as we here know, there are myriad ways to be unattractive). Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 03:40 AM
1

I forgot about our truce! See edit, above. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 07:03 PM
1

which makes love, sex, and relationships into an algorithm [insert big hug for Lewis]
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 06:21 PM
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How could women commenting about how hot these guys are possibly know that one of them is an antisemite just by looking? I was actually confused by this post, because it doesn't make sense if the women drooling on these guys were unaware of the FB posts. And it appears they were unaware. So, wtf. Also your assertion that men are somehow more logical in their attraction and will stop being attracted to a woman because of her behavior or politics is completely laughable. Yeah, that's hilarious. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 05:59 PM
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I was going to make the point re: all these supermodels banging billionaires. If anyone thinks that these super rich individuals couldn't have 'random straight 18 y.o. guy' in an instant then they're hopelessly naive. These high net worth types can bang anyone they want. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 07:00 PM
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But if it's just a ONS and she knows he's not sharing anything with her other than his dick...then where's the sexual incentive? Something else is going on here to make the guy attractive enough to fuck. I'll try to answer this from a slightly different perspective to Darla10's. Keep in mind, too, that most of the people here are American and for all of us, it's 2017. Also, 'status' and 'power' are not the same thing as 'money/rich.' They can be and I would probably argue that to almost everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 06:52 PM
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Height is attractive. It's not attractive in photos, although it can be (usually isn't) in videos. In person it's definitely something, there's a little frisson that happens when standing next to a tall man. But it's really not a huge thing and I'm perfectly capable of being attracted to dudes under 6 foot, and not attracted to dudes over 6 foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:50 AM
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The answer to this depends almost entirely on how full the balls of the man/men being asked are, let's be clear about that. We're not talking some vague 'do men see women as more worthy and human than women see men?' We're talking 'who is more desperate to rub their bits on/in/around someone else's bits?' And the answer to that is, yes, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:47 AM
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Apparently!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:38 AM
1

Colleen is a saint. super short, ruddy and has hair transplants I don't care I love him. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:38 AM
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Wow. I love that video.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:25 AM
1

At least he's funny with his fuckery. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 11:16 PM
2

A high value man is Wayne Rooney. Any man who is not Wayne Rooney is high value only to the extent that he is similar to Wayne Rooney (in all ways, not just physical). But seriously, aren't people just going to answer this with what's high value to them? The main argument here, at least when it comes to men, seems to be whether or not stoicism vs emotional incontinence (it's a little more nuanced than this, tho) is high value. I vote stoicism, but I don't mean a man who never shows emotion. Edit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 11:09 PM
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You need to keep in mind that the Law of the JAW (am I doing this right?) applies not just in profile but straight-on. It's breadth, too. PRAISE JAWSUS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:38 PM
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I don't know why, but I always laugh at these JAW posts. it might be because I have the sense of humour of a four year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:32 PM
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No, fuck that. If you're going to allow 'women are shit' posting, then you have to allow 'men are shit' posting - this whole 'but they actually believe the dumb shit they're spewing so it's totes fine' is... not good enough. If you're not going to allow bad faith posting, then get ready to ban 85%+ of this sub right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:24 PM
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:) x 2 + 1 <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:17 PM
1

Fucking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:31 PM
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Our points would be funny if they weren't describing the actual situation at PPD. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:25 PM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:21 PM
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Women already have that. Yeah but it doesn't count. Because women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:21 PM
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I already did go first, above. With the smiley and the non-confrontational comment. Didn't you see it? NOW YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:11 PM
2

Some people SOME CUNTS
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 08:05 PM
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No way, Chemist. I logic the best, my logidick is the hardest AND I have no logfractory period.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 07:21 PM
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Also this whole idea of "male friendships are less satisfying than female friendships" is just silly and isn't justified based on the actual data. But you seem to be shitting on 'data' in your responses! I imagine elderly single men ARE more lonely than elderly single women, but the dynamics for their inter-relationships and dating is far more complicated and nuanced than what OP would care to admit. I honestly didn't get a 'ha ha old men are lonelier than old women MEN SUCK CONFIRMED WOMEN RULE…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:50 PM
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Lewis, do you want to be nice to each other? We could try it, you know, and possibly set an example that leads to peace and understanding in PPD-land.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:42 PM
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You guys are behaving as if this article definitively proves elderly men are more lonely, therefore they behave X way. This isn't a mathematical proof or empirical claim. Be honest. Don't do that. Don't tell me I claimed something I didn't claim and then hector me about being honest. This sub has a real problem with studies and opinions and personalizing fucking everything - and that includes (imo it's actually worse on the red side but hey, that's just my opinion AND IT COULD THEREFORE BE WRONG…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:39 PM
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This whole exchange is fucking hilarious. So many of these responses are hilarious. When you think about the utter shite that gets thrown around here on a daily basis re: women suck/are bad people/are stupid etc. etc. etc., with often no real push-back, and then you look at the fucking feels-based FREAKOUT occuring in this thread. Jeeeeesus Christ. Also doubly hilarious because a lot of these people claim to care about men and bemoan the fact that they think society doesn't care enough about men…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:34 PM
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Casually dismisses studies in favour of own feelings on subject matter. Accuses others of going full retard. WELCOME TO PDD, BITCHES.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:29 PM
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You have no idea how hard it was to hold back an extra sarcastic response to this. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:09 PM
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Yeah but you're one guy. Which means your opinion is worth, like, 5 female opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:06 PM
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It said I, writingtoc poster, get off on some strange things. I have no idea why he deleted it. Love8 y u delete?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 06:05 PM
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Pls no, Love8. Pls. No. Pls. :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 05:55 PM
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You're making Atlas right, Lewis. Do you hear me? You're making our resident 'RP men don't even like femininity' edgelady right. IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT, GUY? To make Atlas right?! Ugh I literally hate everybody here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 05:53 PM
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When someone is being logical they're adhering to a logical framework. Adhering to the laws of logic and avoiding logical fallacies. OH MY GOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 05:51 PM
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ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 05:40 PM
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As I said, Camille Paglia is no misandrist. Most of the people we would ID as very blue pill hate C. Paglia and will rage out at the mere mention of her name.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 05:30 PM
1

Camille Paglia is no misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 05:26 PM
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Men really are just barely-controlled beasts, aren't they? Camille was right: Men know they are sexual exiles. They wander the earth seeking satisfaction, craving and despising, never content. There is nothing in that anguished motion for women to envy. What does this have to do with OP? I dunno, just the fact that men seem designed to be dissatisfied. All of this 'hypergamy' bullshit is just so much projection. God specifically made these poor motherfuckers to be discontent. What I'm saying is:…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 10:15 PM
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Yeah, I don't plan on befriending any landwhales anytime soon though. You've kind of given yourself away here, haven't you? You don't see any value in women beyond their fuckability. Of course you therefore don't see the value in being platonic friends with women. I mean, you're just a misogynist, this isn't complicated. And before you react badly, know that I have no interest in convincing you that women have value beyond their fuckability. If you don't see it, you don't see it, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 10:04 PM
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I think the question of why prostitution is illegal is way more complex than you're givign it credit for, OP. It's obviously not just 'oh it's to regulate female sexuality' or 'no, it's to regulate male sexuality.' I'd say a lot of it is just puritanism or the vestiges of it. Sex is dirty and bad and prostitution being illegal gives us, and our leaders, the opportunity to be seen to be morally upstanding people. "Prostitution bad. Sex sacred." It's all about not acknowledging the dark side that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 08:02 PM
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Sugar babies are the boss, too (i.e. if you think they'd still be there if the man stopped paying, you're wrong), the whole 'I need a daddy!' schtick is just, in their case, part of what the man is paying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 09:47 PM
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Mistress as in sugar baby? Prostitute? Dude, those girls don't feel 'emotion' for the men they're banging - not the 'boyfriend' type emotions men want them to feel, anyway. That shit's a transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 09:45 PM
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Please don't do that. Please don't link to one of your own posts where you outline various points from a book you read and then present it as the Truth. And note this isn't me saying that the book is wrong or the ideas in it are wrong or that Playboy played no historical role at all in the past 60 yrs (or however long it's been out) - it's just me saying that a single book is in no way the final word on something as complex as 'did women fight for sexual liberation.' You're a historian, aren't y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 11:21 PM
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By love it, I mean like or appreciate and accept male sexuality. This would include the polygamous nature of male sexuality as well as the predatory and violent aspects of it. Apart from the fact that I believe both men and women are more serial monogamist than anything else, yes, I pretty much fucking love male sexuality. Ofc we then have to get into contexts, because I don't think I would love getting raped and rape is a sometime sexual strategy for men. And we have to also be careful with thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 11:11 PM
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Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 10:55 PM
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You're under the assumption that women pushed for sexual liberation. In reality, it was the beta and omega guys, who thought sexual utopia meant every guy would get laid. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 10:52 PM
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30s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 08:28 PM
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I have never fancied Kit Harington. Until this past season of GoT when some little fancy-creepers crawled into my brain during a few scenes (NOT that terrible sex scene though, fucking hell that was bad). Pretty sure it's about his character progression, and I still don't fancy the actor at all (it's his face, he's good looking but he has one of those pretty/soulful faces and for some reason that has never been my lizard brain thing). Jamie Lannister and Tormund are tied as hottest dudes on that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:01 PM
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Dude, ATlas is as prone to idees fixe as anyone on this board, but if the person who made the original comment says 'yeah, no, that's actually what I meant' you're kind of obliged to just accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 06:55 PM
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I AM MAKING BLUEBERRY SCONES. Edit: Oh and Wayne Rooney has been naughty again. I love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 01:07 AM
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Are they the same things? For me? Pretty much. Do you expect the same kind of engagement and conversation between both sexes or do they both have unique roles? Again, pretty much. I actually find that there are more feminine vs masculine tendencies in uninteresting people. Uninteresting in masculine people (and I'm deliberately using masculine vs feminine here rather than male vs female as I have met people of both sexes who fit both patterns) is blowhardishness. These are the ones who talk too …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 01:01 AM
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MBTI is a descriptor. Saying MBTI is shitty doesn't negate the underlying things it's trying to describe. Oh what the fuck does this even mean? Something being a descriptor doesn't mean it's correct or meaningful in any way (I don't think MBTI is meaningless, btw). Doesn't mean it isn't, either, but this isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 05:36 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 05:34 AM
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But the conversation has actually been crap. OP should have riled us up, given specific examples to both sides of 'you think X but you're dead wrong because Y' and let us go from there. OP was sort of weirdly detached and seemed to be asking us for meat rather than throwing it to us and letting us tear it apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 05:32 AM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 05:43 PM
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FUCKING THANK YOU. I can't believe how much cred the supposedly hard-headed people on this sub give the MBTI stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 05:42 PM
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So much certainty in this comment section. I disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:55 AM
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If someone sees it as a mental disorder Yeah but i think my point was not everyone sees it as a mental disorder/illness. but that doesn't mean they couldn't have gone the other way too and become a healthy cis gendered person. Well that depends, doesn't it? I mean, I certainly couldn't have 'chosen' to fancy women, or to feel male when I'm female. So I don't really have a good enough reason to expect others to be able to do so. Haven't brain scans shown differences in the brains of trans people?…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:51 AM
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I think women in their 30's are the best looking. And, though I'm not into guys, I think again, those in their 30's, or 40's look the best. Oh yeah, I mean I get that other people have different tastes. And it's not like I can't sometimes see people who are 30+ and very attractive, some of them even due to their 30+ness rather than in spite of it. I dunno, I guess it depends on what mood I'm in. Today I was in a 22 yr old mood ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:47 AM
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innocent beauty It's not the innocence for me (kinda the opposite), it's just the beauty. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:46 AM
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I also think younger men are better looking than older men. Dude, yes, me too. It's not like I think dudes in their 30s are gross, but it seems insane to me that anyone would fine 30-something men more generally attractive then 20-something. Just look at William of England: hello I'm a prince vs hello I'm a prince. William and Harry (and their father/aunt/uncles) got fucked so hard by those Windsor genes. William was movie star hot when he was 20, and he just looks like a nerdy dad now. Harry's …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 11:29 PM
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They look more like girl parts than boy parts, though. Second one totally passes, imo. And keep in mind a lot of sex doesn't occur at full light levels, between sober people. No way is a straight guy sticking his dick into a wet hole between someone's legs and thinking 'dude.' They might be thinking it feels a bit weird (and does it? again, nobody here seems to know) but they're not thinking 'this is a man,' imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:28 PM
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What???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:26 PM
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Civilization, you say? Civilization will collapse BECAUSE GAY PEOPLE?! OK NOW I AM PANICKING!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 06:12 PM
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It's very easy, I have done it numerous times with him. There's a good chance I'll do it in the future. He does a passing impression - with his questioning OPs - of a person who is actually interested in the thoughts of others. But then you get 20 comments into some abortion of a conversation and your brain is like oh yeah, it's this guy :(.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 06:01 PM
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I am bowing out. Youre Littleknownfacts's problem now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:55 PM
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DEAR LOVE8DEATH: OTHER PEOPLE BEING POSSIBLY-RETARDED DOES NOT SOMEHOW PRECLUDE YOUR BEING RETARDED, TOO. LOVE, THE UNIVERSE edit: reference to retardation was in regards to myself, not u/littleknownfacts who has, once again, bravely gotten into an argument with an ever-shifting pile of goo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:51 PM
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This is wrong and I don't care to try and prove it. Then don't expect anyone to buy that it's wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:40 PM
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Just once, I'd love to see PPD engage transgender identity with a hint of intellectual honesty, instead of rushing to out edgelord each other. Me too. What an utter fucking shitshow of a comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:39 PM
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I was wondering about that - i.e. are there actual stats on any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:33 PM
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Don't let the posturing Reds see this, ha. FWIW, I though this answer might get me in trouble with (some) blues, too, because there does seem to be a push to have transpeople fully accepted as their opposite bio sex. Which, just in terms of truth, I don't agree with. But, I also don't really care that they're not their bio sex, you know? I just don't see how that affects me at all, and neither do I see how calling a transwoman 'she' is a difficult task. And irl, in everyday life, no one really g…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:23 PM
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you know i dont read paragraphs Because not reading paragraphs allows you to avoid them!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:16 PM
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im not avoindign the point It's not a point, it's a question, and you are. The possibly theoretical (I am under the impression that in the case of transwomen this is no longer theoretical) situation of a straight person banging a perfectly passing transperson and whether or not that makes them gay is a good one. If someone transformed a woman into a person who perfectly mimics a Wayne Rooney-type potato, complete with dick and other manparts, and I bang that person (because dude, I totally might…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:14 PM
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Someone is going to have to Google image search this. /u/Love8Death - it's your thread, I nominate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:08 PM
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passing doesnt make you a human female. having a colon or ballskin fistula doesnt make you female. Atlas, so we can get off this specific topic, I agree with this. I agree that people born as one sex cannot be changed via surgery and hormones int the other sex. They can be made to more resemble the other sex, perhaps to feel and act more like a member of the opposite sex, but they will never biologically BE that sex. I AGREE. You're avoiding the question of a straight man banging a perfectly pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:07 PM
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I genuinely have no idea. I've read that it's possible to construct vaginas that pass perfectly these days but I a)haven't seen photos and b)don't know if it's true or not, although I kinda assumed it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 04:59 PM
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I agree, but my point is what if it passes as one? Is a man who has only ever desired vag gay because a surgeon sculpted something that literally passed as an actual vag? Aren't the genitals SUPER important to answering this question? It's obvious that if a straight guy sees a hard dick and keeps going, he might not be as straight as he thinks. But if he never sees dick, or hairy chest, or a lack of boobs, or anything signifying 'male' I don't see why he's gay. It's basically a question of defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 04:58 PM
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Even if there is no outward physical signal that the person you're banging is of the same bio sex? I understand that that is technically homosexual, but I don't really see how a straight man who has banged a perfectly-passing transwoman is 'gay' or attracted to men due to that experience. He likes fucking women, he thought he was fucking a woman, he seemed to be fucking a woman during the fucking and probably wouldn't ever know otherwise unless told. At no point has that straight guy sexually de…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 04:55 PM
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OP said these people have matching genitals. If they don't (i.e. if a transwoman has a dick) then I change my answer to 'this isn't straight' in terms of being attracted to them after having discovered the existence of the D.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 04:51 PM
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Is a man fucking a transwoman, or a woman fucking a transman, a homosexual act? I don't think this is homosexual, no. I also think that the question of yours I've quoted above is not the same question as Is a woman a woman if she says thinks and acts like she is If I'm a straight man attracted to a human who perfectly physically mimics a beautiful woman (including having the matching genitals) then I don't see how that's homosexual. Same thing if I, a straight woman, find myself attracted a huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 04:47 PM
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I've dated two lawyers, one for a year+ and have lawyer-friends as well. Do you have the opposite experience from me or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:52 AM
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Oh you have NO IDEA of the kind of utterly depraved shit I would do for a bad boy software engineer. Including waxing my boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:41 AM
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Being accepted as the most suitable mate IS a prize to be won Man as prize? women as "prizes to be won Woman as prize? So, in your opinion, what is your all's plan to keep women to be seen as prizes while letting women keep their full agency that they have in 2017? What does this mean? You say in your post that feminism has made this 'woman as prize to be won' thing worse, no? And then you say, mushily, that feminism has caused women's standards to rise and that those rising standards have given…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:36 AM
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Yeah but pro bono work isn't the same as 'it's never about me'! Being kind of facetious, obvs. I generally like lawyers - they are good conversationalists and don't have as much of a tendency to get snippy or buttmad when disagreed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:24 AM
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I would not agree with this assessment. Lawyers>doctors
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:22 AM
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It's never about me Lawyer This doesn't exist. I have to say, tho, if I woke up tomorrow as a straight man, this might be the general gist of my picks, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 11:36 PM
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It's a slumber party, Love8, not an orgy. I only show my hairy tits to good guy bankers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 08:54 PM
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Yeah, I got ya. It's the same for me re: morally upright. There are a number of little dogmas on this sub and women not being into morally upright men is one of them. It isn't true. I don't think I could ever truly love or respect a man who wasn't on some basic level a decent/good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 08:54 PM
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You have to sit behind someone to braid their hair, omg!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:17 PM
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Me too. But I like living in cities and that extra 25k on top of the combined incomes would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:16 PM
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Fuck: Bad Boy Selfish Engineer (I know STEMlords aren't thought of as hot but 2 of the hottest men I have ever known - also two of the most awkward, which is why this is fuck and not marry - have been software engineers). Musicians don't really appeal to me at all, not without any other info. Marry: Good Boy Selfish and Selfless Banker (again, the banker thing isn't about resources but a friend of mine married a stereotypical wealthy banker and he and his friends, while capable of being insuffer…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:06 PM
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S'OK, Love8, the lighthearted post (although I am kind of waiting for you to come to some sort of "SEE?! WOMEN ARE ALL SOULLESS WHORES!!1" conclusion) is appreciated after all the consent-y stuff. Want to braid my hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 05:56 PM
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I'd marry that person. Goodness, moral goodness, is an attractive trait to me. I'd maybe like to keep 75k rather than 50k, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 05:54 PM
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The best you can do is listen to the experiences of other people. Pigs are going to fly in a frosty hell before people here do something outrageous like listening to the experiences of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 03:16 AM
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but all that means is they're lame to you. Yes, yes that is all it means oh my GOD TRIGGERED. (me, not you)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 10:31 PM
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I guess it's the difference between "I think so and so is lame" and "because I think so and so is lame, so and so IS objectively lame." I'm not under any illusions that my subjective opinions are The Truth. And yeah, it's partly facetious as well. Partly. I feel the same way about Ben and Jerrys ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 10:30 PM
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There's no defense here with you, is there? You've decided. These are all statements I agree with. Quite strongly agree with. Liking mainstream media does not make you a boring or lame person - it makes you normal liking relatively mainstream European art films doesn't make you interesting. It's exhausting seeing all these film fans turn everything into a badge of honour. Does it matter that I agree with those things? Does it change your mind? Word of the wise, if you don't want an exchange to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 08:58 PM
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Right, because disliking Crash is such a unique and cultured perspective. But it isn't, at all. You made this up in your head that I believe that. I don't. I truly, genuinely, good-faithily don't. This is an interesting back and forth, tho. Communication really is all about tone. RP is somewhat right in that sense - it's not what you say, it's how you say it. But I guess we can't have this discussion because this is now a bitchy back and forth so, uh, screw you and your shoes are ugly!!1!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 07:02 PM
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Yeah, sorry about that, but I'm just not interested in pretending I like things I don't like, or don't like things I do like, in order to not offend boring people. <3 It's cute how you made sure I knew you didn't like Crash, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 06:43 PM
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Here's the thing - no one is obliged to agree with my personal tastes. It's what the original poster said - these are matters of taste and therefore subjective and I accept that. You are free to judge or not judge me based on my personal tastes. But, obviously, I thought BITWC was a great movie, with great performances from the leads, I think Crash was an offensive piece of middlebrow, pandering bullshit, and I am definitely judging people who liked it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 06:17 PM
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I don't have a favorite movie. Blue Is The Warmest Colour is the best movie I've seen recently, though. And ppl are free to judge me. Edit: And Adèle Exarchopoulos makes J-Law look like a bowl of dry crackers in terms of acting skill/presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 06:09 PM
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boring stupid/not thoughtful (and I don't mean thoughtful in the 'thoughtful about ME' context, here, I mean generally thoughtful/curious) emotionally frail no self-awareness can't laugh at self womanly hips can't deal with conflict/disagreement not curious, generally uninterested in ideas/things/people/the world around him lips that are always wet smells weird
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 06:05 PM
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Personal taste is considered subjective for a reason. I mean, this is true. But if you liked the movie Crash or you actually read the articles in Cosmo then you're fucking lame and I can't be friends with you. Now that I think about this, though, Cosmo-reading is a bit of an easy and not -too-realistic target (who actually reads the articles in Cosmo? 16 yr olds? I don't hang out with 16 yr olds anyway). It's more that middlebrow-but-thinks-it's-highbrow taste that puts me right the fuck off. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 05:56 PM
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I give credit to girls from Salmon Arm. Lots of them in my uni. All super protestant, and all big on cock teasing. Wat??! That is one of the most specific comments I have ever seen on this sub. Are there even more than ten girls from Salmon Arm of marriageable age in existence at any given time?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 05:41 PM
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There are tons. Not according to this comment section there aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 11:38 PM
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bah ha ha omg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 11:37 PM
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Ha ha you're proving my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 09:36 PM
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Kelly Brook. But you and Highog are doing what Buartha and some others are doing elsewhere in this thread where' the whole 'very similar' vs 'very different' appears to be about mindset more than one single objective reality. Those bodies ARE very similar in that they are young, attractive, healthy, white females. But there are also numerous differences between them (as there is between the male models used) that can definitely be picked up on, especially by the gender that fancies the gender th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 08:38 PM
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There are tons of photos showing her with a phat ass. Not like that - that's been 'shopped. There are different styles of phat ass. She has white girl phat ass. The photo on the right is ass implant (which it isn't because she doesn't have ass implants) or photoshop. You can even tell from the photo you posted that it's not the same ass! Not gonna argue this with you, btw, if you're going to do that. You're def. wrong, but it's probably your dick making you wrong, and I can't argue with boners. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 08:33 PM
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Naw, girls know what boys like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 08:26 PM
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That photo of Kelly on the right has been shopped. That's not her ass and has never been her ass. Edit: Called it: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2470075/Kelly-Brook-inspired-Kim-Kardashian-shows-curvaceous-digitally-enhanced-derrier.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 08:25 PM
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In other news that photo of Kelly Brook just turned me gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 08:23 PM
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The man would be incapable of arousal or even sexual interest except for his significant other. I think you're wrong about this, actually. And I say that as someone who has definitely heard female friends (and who has, on occasion, had the fleeting thought myself) express something along these lines. But when I think about it further I think this is definitely one of those 'be careful what you wish for' scenarios. What I like is masculinity. A broad, high sex drive is masculine. Literally not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 08:18 PM
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but I feel absolutely nothing towards them. Am female + straight, also feel absolutely nothing towards either of those dudes. Briefly (because I could go on and on), the bodies are way too 'perfect', definitely too toned/too low body fat. I fucking hate this meme on this sub but honestly it fits here - those bodies look kinda gay to me. OK maybe not likes-to-fuck-men gay, but definitely got-these-muscles-in-a-gym-spend-too-much-time-looking-in-the-mirror gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:09 PM
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Oh, God, the DRAMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 04:15 AM
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but you would think at least that brain structure and personality would be related. OK, but you still need to specifically prove a link between brain structure X and personality trait X (and you'd need to robustly prove it, not just relate it correlate it). "You would think" just isn't good enough if we're talking facts here. I'm not saying you somehow aren't allowed to engage in 'you would think' type speculation (it can be interesting and fun to do this) but let's not go mistaking 'you would t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 03:44 AM
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feefees asshole Super mysterious that girls didn't want to hang out with you, guy. SUPER mysterious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 03:23 AM
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OK, thanks for the link. This is a good illustration of how, imo, people on this sub go way, WAY beyond what is warranted by this or that study. And by 'this' I don't really mean you or your posts here specifically, because a lot of people are doing that in this thread. I actually got mixed up and thought you were the one who had said: As you said male babies are more object and mechanically focused, this would spawn interests in games, sports, and in depth literature/science etc. Where as femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 01:53 AM
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::helicopters dick::
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 01:30 AM
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If you're being serious, and it's hard to tell on this board but I think you are, then you and I are just going to have to accept that we have different ideas of 'fat' - neither that girl, nor her thighs, are fat to me. But I accept it if she's a lardass (lardthigh?) to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 01:24 AM
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You and I have different ideas of 'fat' then - white jeans girl is not 'fat' imo - if anything she's got that curvature from working out. Who knows, maybe she even 'shopped her own skinny thigh into that thicker one, cuz that's the shit now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/17 12:31 AM
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Really? So that wasn't you saying it was an impossibility that any woman would ever want to lay a finger on you - or have one of your fingers paid on her? That was someone else? Seriously, though, what a lack of grace. Like, you're in a relationship now, right? And you don't think you were wrong at all in any of your previous views? I mean, how are you justifying this to yourself? Have you just coincidentally met the one non AWALT woman on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 11:27 PM
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Yeah but that's just fat women co-opting the word, like what was done with 'curvy.' Unless you do actually think women like what were posted above by radicalone are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 11:22 PM
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No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 10:23 PM
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rASStaurants?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 10:23 PM
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Millennials don't like boobs AH HA HA HA HA no. Now, I'm not denying that there are trends here, when it comes to body styles etc., but there are certain things that I don't think are going to go out of style until the heat death of the universe and boobs/W-H ratio/female asses are some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 10:20 PM
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That doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 10:04 PM
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but the actual structure of male brains is more varied than the structure of female brains. Can you link me to the study(ies?)/literature on this, please? I saw someone mention it here a day or two ago, too, and I want to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 06:32 PM
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I'm not sure you're responding to the right person, but I don't believe nor did I say that women who can give you the backstory on cosmetic item X are necessarily salespeople or working for the company. It's not really possible for me to respond to this thread in a general sense without the post being way too long and no one reading it anyway, but just to be clear, I think you're basically engaging in the lazy thinking we're seeing all over this comment section. You don't see a lot of women talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 06:29 PM
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Ask me how I know you've never talked to a skincare obsessed woman. I half expect ArthurMc to give you a long rundown of Creme de la Mer's backstory here, because it's a famous one that a lot of (skincare obsessed) women will not only be aware of the details of, but probably have an opinion as to how true it is etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 05:51 PM
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It goes back to my initial point, where I was asking you a question re: if you thought women might experience the same thing you experienced (i.e. people being attracted to you, willing to cheat on their SOs with you, and therefore causing you to lose respect for them). And where I asked you if you thought the fact that you lost some respect for the women who would cheat on their SOs with you meant that women in general are not respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 11:15 PM
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And the mods are fuckin nazis, there's that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 11:11 PM
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Dude, I've seen guys saying a lack of sex is literally life-threatening. That it's soul-destroying for men to go without. So yes, compared to that level of trauma, I would definitely say that even a decent hooker is a comparatively small amount. If you can't save up a couple grand to see a hooker, then I'm going to start doubting how much you mean it when you say a lack of pussy is a serious emergency. Also, if you can't lower yourself to a $150 quickie outside a grubby motel, I'm gonna doubt th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 11:04 PM
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Carkudo also assured us that hell would freeze over before he got a girlfriend. And then he got a girlfriend and gracelessly declined to give us even a sheepish 'oh, yeah, guess i was wrong about that major tenet of my belief system.'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 10:38 PM
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You gotta love this shit from RP. The male sex drive is utterly uncontrollable, it rules our lives, we are helpless in the face of this mighty force of nature and would chop off our own arms and legs to get PUSSAAAYYY raaaawwwrrr!!! then go see a hooker? But I can't because hookers aren't free/don't live on my doorstep/involve a small amount of risk weebly beebly boo hoo hoo!1!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 10:27 PM
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Oh no the mods removed your latest question! Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:08 PM
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Dude, just say it's a hypothetical in the OP. Then no none has to get hung up on the specific procedure (unless that's what this discussion was supposed to be about, which i don't think it was).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 04:31 PM
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Yuck. I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 04:37 AM
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The humans, Atlas. The humans. edit: omfg your flair is hilarious ha ha ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 04:35 AM
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I think he is. (note: I think it's more complicated than 'right' or 'wrong' on this specific point, but am unsure as to your interest in actually discussing this)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 04:33 AM
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Well you are, and handily. And this is coming from someone who has gotten deep into the incomprehensible weeds with Love8. He's 25% troll, at least, and he thinks he's a lot smarter than he is. That's a bad combo, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 04:32 AM
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He is very dramatic, that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 03:41 AM
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You are owning the shit out of these guys today, damn!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 03:31 AM
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The basis of male love is 'owning' the woman he decides to be his, with her voluntary consent of course. The basis of female love is how attractive the man is and if he's her best practical option. Oh you're just barfing this back up because Atlas said something about cars once. Stahp. You know what your problem is, Love8? You just believe everything you come up with. Well it came out of my ass so it must be logickal. No. If you were harder on your own thoughts before you posted here, we could a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 03:15 AM
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Yeah, because they want the super thick Squid D, right? That is basically what I'm saying men do, too, you know. And they do. Men do cheat on their wives because hot laydees.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 03:10 AM
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OK, so have we established that women can act in sacrificial ways in relationships? Yes? Next step - they can, so - do they? I assume every woman making more $ than her bf/husband is now behaving sacrificially, according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 03:09 AM
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Hey. So, I am going to respond to this in good faith. I think part of the problem is that they like to or almost need to find logical reasons to justify the status quo. Challenging it causes some people distress. What do you mean? I'm talking about the people here (and we def. have a higher percentage of this type here at PPD than exist in the general population) who seem to actively promote the idea that they barely experience emotion, that experiencing emotion is weak/bad/feminine etc. Can you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 03:07 AM
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Tbf, I'm not really assuming anything about Love8, the individual human I have interacted with and whose posts I've read many times here. You don't need to assume in his case, because he splatters his psyche all over this sub on the regular. And even if I was (wrongly assuming), it's a MUCH smaller assumption, about a single individual, than "woman don't sacrifice for men." Come the fuck on. You even basically admitted it early on in this exchange, with another poster (your own bias). And that -…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 02:52 AM
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Well then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:31 PM
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No, you're missing MY point. And my point is: you don't see any of that as sacrificial not because it isn't sacrificial, and not because women lack the ability to sacrifice for their men, but because you are literally not capable of recognizing anything as sacrificial, if the person performing the act is female. The problem is in your own head, Love8, it has fuck all to do with 'women.'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:31 PM
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Dude said once he got in shape it was hard to respect women. Implication being the way women acted around an attractive man was not respectable/foolish/degrading etc. That's how I took it anyway. Maybe that's not how you took? So then I was all do you think men DON'T act like fools or degrade themselves around attractive women? And that certain women, seeing that behaviour might, much like the men in the same position, lose some respect for the men acting like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:28 PM
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Really?! Have you never observed the way men act around women they're attracted to? Men act like fools around women ALL THE TIME. Seriously, this behaviour is definitely not confined to a single sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:20 PM
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Genuinely can't tell if sarcasm or not. Suspect it is. Is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:14 PM
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Those things are certainly considered much more acceptable than violence is, wouldn't you say? Oh yeah, I agree. I'm just saying I'm not sure I buy that violence IS less acceptable than those things. The distinction I see is in terms of rights. As far as I'm concerned, if you physically attack me you've violated my rights and my ownership of my own body in a way that you don't do if you emotionally abuse, name-call, or belittle me. Do you have the same intuition there? Yes, again, agreed. Violen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 10:12 PM
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Once you get in shape it's hard to respect women. What do you think this means, exactly? Because it's hard for you to respect women that women are not respectable? And men are? Do you think an attractive woman might ever come to have similar feelings to men to the ones you have for women? Do you think men always conduct themselves impeccably around women they're attracted to, never debasing themselves or behaving in an undignified manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 09:58 PM
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James Herriot shout ouuuuuuuut!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 09:55 PM
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You're full of it. She called you out and you deserved it. It's not that women never do anything kind or honourable or whatever it is you malephiles are wanking over today, it's that you aren't a person who would recognize it, ever. You even basically admitted this early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 09:53 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 09:49 PM
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to put those things on the same level as violence makes violence an acceptable response to those things Does it? I mean, emotional abuse/name-calling/belittling etc. are also unacceptable responses, in civilised company, to someone saying something you don't like. It's weird, I think I get why violence is in its own special class, but I'm not sure I buy that it's objectively 'worse' than those other things. tenants OH SHIT!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 09:47 PM
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it's that the other 80-90% is doomed Doesn't your dick get raw after this kind of furious masturbation? What do you even want? Agreement? "Yes, 80-90% of men are doomed." Is that what you want? I mean, you do sound doomed, but not for the reasons you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:51 AM
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A guy you'd never met? Had you spoken? Why did you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:49 AM
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Why would what matter? That people may think less of you? Are you one of the impervious-to-all-human-opinion types? If you are, then I suppose it wouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:35 AM
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OK. Well, thank you and hopefully no one thinks less of you for your 100% true opinion of me. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:32 AM
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If you're one of those awful IRC-dwellers, and this is a pisstake, it's kind of mean. But on the off chance you meant it, thank you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:29 AM
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I've seen literal virgin girls agreeing to sex at his place even without seeing him before No you haven't. And once again, yes, attractive people have a much easier time getting sex with other attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 02:28 AM
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Top knots are pretty unattractive, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 02:05 AM
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People are not equipped to predict the future accurately or how behavioural patterns might change as knowledge and circumstances change. True, but the whole 'men competing with other men to be at the top of the pile' thing is much more profoundly ingrained than, for example, 'men wearing topknots because it's currently cool to do so'. That's what I'm saying. The kind of change in circumstances it would take to get women to start routinely abandoning their children (for example) is, imo, probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 01:18 AM
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what exactly are you criticizing me for? For bitching about not getting something you aren't willing to give others. For having your head up your ass and assuming that your problems are worse than other people's problems. For not understanding that your opinions aren't necessarily facts. Seriously, what would it take for you to feel genuine compassion for a woman who believes she is living in a patriarchal society? What would you say to her if she made a post here like the one you just made? Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 12:53 AM
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You and your sad songs, Lewis. I can't even.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 12:02 AM
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Without some profound (i.e. borderline world-ending) event, this is never going to happen. I worry about many things, and this is definitely not one of them. If a man was a pyramid, i feel like 'must compete with and outdo other men' would be one of the bottom layers. This is like threatening that women are going to collectively stop caring for their children. Not. Gonna. Happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:46 PM
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but as you can see by the responses so far If you're looking for compassion and understanding on PPD, bro, you came to the wrong place. People here pride themselves on being devoid of human feeling. You're at a white supremacist party wondering where all the hot Latinas are. Feminism has better PR becuase... It doesn't matter why. The only option is to fight back. No one is going to listen to whining, no matter how legit it is. It's tragic watching these men's movements constantly shoot themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:44 PM
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Is this actually a serious question? How is it that people like you, who seem to have absolutely no problem reacting with utter contempt when some shrieking, blue-haired feminist from your nightmares wants you to care so muuuuch about her problems and the specific difficulties of being female in the modern world, expect anything other than utter contempt when you do exactly the same fucking thing?! And don't say "because my problems are real and theirs aren't" because bro, again, that's EXACTLY …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:38 PM
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The onus is you No it isn't. If you want other people to care deeply about your problems and the problems of the group you belong to, and they don't currently care, you have to make them care. That poster is exactly right. Feminism has WAY better PR than MRA/RP/PUA/MGTOW etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:27 PM
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It's about getting guys to feeling liberated enough to the point where they don't feel pressued or obliged to invest in society. Literally no one (except an individual given man - not even other men) has an interest in allowing/helping men to disinvest in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 11:23 PM
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Men who talk that way about women (and to be clear I mean men who talk specifically that way about women that the OP demonstrates) are intimidated, weak and insecure. There are types of male crudeness that do not indicate weakness/fear, but this isn't one of them. Come on, picture the type of guy who talks like this. It's not a well-adjusted, attractive young man. It's some fucking internet alpha. And there's literally nothing worse than an internet alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 07:04 AM
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most robust possible expression of male nature Is that what this: I teased her for a bit and then we went back to my place where I smashed her pretty face into my pillow. I pounded her ass so hard she likely won't be able to shit for a week. is to you? That's the most robust possible expression of male nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 07:00 AM
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Many people got needlessly hurt because of his decision to appease the left No, people got hurt because an asshole drove a car into them. And that asshole is 100% responsible. Once again, unless you want to talk about how the victims of today's attack in Barcelona would all be fine right now if the west hadn't been oppressing/victimizing the guy who did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 09:42 PM
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Cool, yeah, there are a lot of idiots out there, and they come in all political stripes. The person who drove the car into the crowd in Barcelona today is as responsible (that is: completely) as the person who drove the car into the crowd in Charlottesville.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 09:38 PM
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the real reason was the BP mayor who essentially made this drama happen The person responsible for driving a car into the crowd of people is the person who drove a car into the crowd of people. Or we can talk about how the dude in Barcelona today isn't at fault, either?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 08:53 PM
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Pinterest is worse than the holocaust. And recipes, huh? Any pudding recipes? That feature a lot of eggs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 07:52 PM
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This has been my general experience, too. Most of the people I hang out with don't see these hobbies as particularly gendered (and are just as likely to participate in one that's coded to the opposite gender as the 'right' gender is). A woman sewing is basically the same as a woman woodworking to them. And vice-versa. Also, an attractive woman sewing is attractive. Oh she has feminine hobbies, so hot! But an attractive woman playing paintball is also hot. Such a cute tomboy! It's the fact that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 07:42 PM
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Because Pinterest is fucking terrible. Full disclosure: I sometimes look at things on Pinterest. This is how I know it's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 07:30 PM
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Anyone who uses the 'it's my imperative' excuse to justify reprehensible actions is full of shit Well yes, of course. But we got a lot of strong white men (and women!) here who don't need no morality so I don't know how far you're gonna get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 06:34 PM
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It's a self-deprecating comment about my looks, you big spaz. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 06:09 PM
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My take on this is the correct one and should end what has the potential to be a shitshow of a thread. U ready for this?? Yes, some women sometimes wear make-up to attract male attention. I sometimes wear make-up to attract male attention but this isn't the sole reason I wear make-up every time I wear make-up. Sometimes it's to prevent the scaring of small children or to look/feel slightly more human. Sometimes it's for creative reasons. Sometimes it's because I just like putting on make-up and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:08 PM
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It's not really a great tragedy. The male sex drive is the opposite of a tragedy (that sounds like I'm disagreeing with you - I see that your statement was not opposed to mine, and am using it as a jumping off point why am I explaining this I don't know oh dear).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:00 PM
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He just better not fall in love with any of the women. Yeah but he totally would tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 04:56 PM
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A female's love is emboldened by security and stability and she will carefully nitpick each concern that threatens her relationship in order to safeguard it That's an interesting sentence. Someone who is less lazy than me should make a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 04:51 PM
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My ex had a thing for specifically trashy motels. Like, the trashier they were, the harder he got. Weird!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 10:04 PM
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You'll find one! And when you do, get her to a trashy motel ASAP to test out her reaction. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 07:57 PM
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No, I'm actually talking about the LTR/real relationship context, too. Vacations (and hotels specifically) are for banging, in my mind. But ofc this is due to past experience - I actually had an ex who had a specific 'thing' for hotel sex. So I think that kind of got transferred to me and now I get Pavlovianly horny whenever I'm in a hotel? Something like that ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 05:30 PM
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That's genuinely interesting, I've always considered hotel visits solely for the purpose of banging.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 04:58 PM
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r/giganticfuckingweirdos ? But u right, u right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 09:50 PM
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Yay agreement. Yay. Strip clubs are a constant in a sense. Oh God what does this even mean? And how is it in any way a response to what I said? Her own boundaries, as I did mention. OK, so my question is, do you think ALL woman want to be owned/dominated by a man (i.e. those women who would say no or get grossed out - is that a reaction to the specific man and they're all gagging to submit to an alpha maleTM that they DO find attractive?) or that there are actual biological human females out the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 09:48 PM
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You did NOT just 'k' Autobot!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:18 PM
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Oh Jesus, Love8. You know what's weird? These last two posts from you (or, the two stripper-related posts) contain core thoughts that I actually generally agree with. I do think strippers are paragons of femininity (in contrast to most of the people in the other thread) and I do think it's incredibly hot to be sexually manhandled by a bf. Specifically in the way you're talking about, the unspoken 'I own your body so obviously it's my 'thing' to do with as I please.' But then you go full fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 06:14 PM
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I've been reading through the responses to this, and the OP itself, and if I answer the OP directly it's going to be long and boring. So just on this on point I can bring my thoughts into it. To what extent can we say a person is 'power-seeking' or 'peace-seeking?" Is it either or? Is a person one or the other? That seems troublesome. Surely context matters A LOT here. And surely a person can be both, in different contexts or situations? A traditional woman, for example, who defers to her husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:17 PM
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You are a Trumpian projection machine, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 05:28 PM
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I bet strippers like being treated like meat WAY less than most non-stripper women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 05:26 PM
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I read this and actually felt genuinely sorry for a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:52 PM
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Oh dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:43 PM
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She's attractive, imo, in a specific way. I.e. young, blonde, sort of waify. She's certainly not va-va-voom sexy but she's kind of high school popular girl hot. Looks like the non-Amazonian version of Cara Delevingne. Clearly an utter piece of shit human being, though. Has she ever apologized to the bf's family or expressed any remorse at all? Saw video footage of her crying in court, but it seemed to be about herself/being found guilty. Obvious psychopath. Oh, am woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 07:02 AM
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If anything is fake I bet it's the brows, not the hair. Those crazy thick brows are still kind of the thing in some places. It's actually kind of an interesting trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 06:58 AM
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You know what's weird? I never see this mistake off Reddit and am convinced it started with one or two Redditors and then went Reddit-viral and made people think it was the correct spelling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 11:46 PM
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Your sarcasm has been noted and, as such, this in no way counts as a heartfelt apology. /u/GinSmokeLies BRING ME THE NAILS
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 11:44 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/YGOcT6b.gifv Non Sequitur Cake, mmmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 11:44 PM
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You just straight up avoided the question. im amazed by the perceptions of the past i see here I asked a question, I didn't make any statements about my beliefs re: how people were in the past with regard to this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 11:33 PM
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A heartfelt apology will suffice!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 11:19 PM
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Love isn't always a Pokemon battle, no matter how desperately team INTJ wants to avoid dealing with complicated human emotions. Ah ha ha ha. I wouldn't blame this on INTJ so much as I'd blame it on Internet Hardass Syndrome (we have many victims here at PPD, it's sad and we should start a collection), but u right, u right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 10:44 PM
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men and wowen have obfuscated their natures from each other for centuries of western civilization This is your new thing isn't it? My question is, how much of this attempted obfuscation do you think was successful? Like, what percentage of women in the past were not aware that men wanted to bang 18 yr old hotties?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 10:43 PM
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weary wary wary wary wary it's 'wary' WARY
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 10:39 PM
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Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 10:37 PM
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Oooh you married one of us, well done! :) Thanks for the response, btw. Basically agreed, too, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:33 PM
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Interesting topic, yay. you realize how inherently antagonist the relationship between both sexes is. I'm not sure I buy this. Do you mean 'wholly' antagonistic? Probably not, but you seem to think that it's antagonism that characterizes the relationship between men and women, no? And it's not like I entirely disagree - it's easy, especially on an individual/small group level, that two people who fancy each other don't necessarily want to give the other person the things that person wants from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 10:27 PM
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I think a man's voice is fairly important. Borderline very important, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 08:18 PM
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Interesting. Not being sarcastic, either, you're comments in this thread struck me, esp. this one: High stress, high expectations, low security, low value on developing character/intellect/experience of the world. ...just thinking about the milieu in which I was raised. (not American either - Canadian/British parents) Can you go, if you don't mind (I realize I'm just some rando quizzing you now and you're under no obligation to indulge me!), into what you mean by 'low security?' I suspect you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 07:45 PM
1

Oh my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 07:32 PM
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Where are you from (just curious reading through your comments on this thread and seeing yr not American)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 07:18 PM
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I don't know about that - 'let it roll off you' - in this circumstance. The article is vague as hell, probably because it sounds like the position/policy itself is, but this has the potential to damage innocent young men's lives. compulsory accountability program for students accused of sexual misconduct under Title IX Compulsory accountability program? What's that then? And this can be forced on a male student who has simply been accused of 'sexual misconduct?' Haters gonna hate isn't good enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 08:45 PM
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OP, please jerk off before you post, OK? Also, you're hilariously (like, this is legit comedy sketch material) wrong about female friendships. Maybe when I was 12-13, and minus the fucking-each-other component.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 06:18 PM
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OK, since this is specifically a response to you (another poster, one you appeared to be agreeing with, mentioned jewel tones), replace 'jewel toned' in my previous comment with 'stark color contrasts on the walls and floor are the best kind of rooms.' It also appears from your flair that you like black licorice. You're lost, son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 03:01 AM
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it's hard for me to wrap my brain around because I can't conceive of the concept of gender outside the context of biological sex. You know how I do this? I think about how I feel. I.e. I feel like a female human. Then I think about what would it be like to take my clothes off and look in the mirror and see a man's body/a penis. That would be super weird and confusing, I reckon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 02:59 AM
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Not my choice of colours with which to decorate my living space, I can tell you jewel-toned bad-taste-havers that for damn sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 02:55 AM
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It's a grateful/happy tear. Someone who doesn't know a thing has, on PPD, just admitted that they do not know a thing! Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 02:54 AM
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I have no idea. wipes single tear
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 02:47 AM
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What the fuck is wrong with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 02:42 AM
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I've seriously studied Kate Upton's body and agree that, apart from the magnificent boobs, she's has a masculine-ly shaped body. She also, and I learned this from my extensive studies, has longbelly. It's a rare condition whereby a person has a weirdly long and oddly proportioned midsection, combined, in women, with not just an absence of hips but almost opposite-hips (she almost goes in where she should go out). The interesting thing is how her powerfully feminine breasts + face totally obliter…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 07:31 PM
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why am I telling him to get milk? Maybe you, like, need milk. And he's passing by the Milk Mart.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:11 AM
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I'm not your husband. You're right, you're not her husband, and that's specifically who she was talking about. Male solippitybipbop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:07 AM
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redneck takes over like a virus every once and a while Oh I hear that (see my flair). ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 03:47 PM
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skiddish It's skittish. Goddamnit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 01:11 AM
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women giving each other advice on how to "trick" their men into eating their vegetables Oh God, this reminds me of a friend of mine and her bf. She's constantly making jam because the bf "doesn't like fruit" and jam is literally the only way he'll eat it. She also seriously considered buying one of those cookbooks that show you how to incorporate veggies into regular dishes without your kids being able to tell (i.e. a cookbook full of recipes for finicky four year olds). And this guy, he really …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 10:36 PM
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What's with that name? Do you have a vitamin C deficiency? Did you know that bell peppers have way more vitamin C than oranges? USEFUL TIP ALERT. Oh and I mean the female PPD members. Not me, ofc, I am a gross and foul beast. But the rest of us are dainty and sweet, I can just tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 09:02 PM
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Oh well thank God for that. There are LADIES in this group, pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:58 PM
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I'm almost proud of you. Dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:57 PM
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Much bad faith, stoney! PPD's resident bullshitlord asked a question, the innocent ladies are simply answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:45 PM
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YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT A DICK, AREN'T YOU??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 08:41 PM
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The overall theme is that there's a significant number of incels subscribers who enjoy or participate in subreddits dedicated to focusing on other people's social failures. My thoughts on this are related to what my thoughts have been re: incels since they showed up at PPD and I became aware that they, as a group, were now a 'thing.' Why do you think they're hanging out at those subs? It took me awhile to get my head around this when it happened, because it just seems like such an alien way to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:08 AM
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OH MY GOD
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 09:57 PM
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No, Greeklady is right. If you have casual sex with someone sincerely believing, like the Xtian, that you're damning them to eternal torment, you are a psychopath. What others believe to be moral or not doesn't matter in this instance because the dude himself is doing something he apparently believes to be immoral, like the vegan eating meat. A big chunk of RPers have been very vocal here that casual sex is specifically damaging to women. It lowers their worth, it damages them, it makes them unw…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:51 AM
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Okay, so how could I have dehumanized these women as per TRP's instruction? Alright. You're familiar with the whole 'oneitis' is bad thing, right? Women are just a series of holes, one no different from the other. If you disagree that this is a widespread belief in TRP then we can't have this convo. And I'm not saying YOU think this, you don't seem to be one who does, just asking if you're aware of it or not. That's dehumanizing. That's what the word means. This isn't a person in front of you, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:37 AM
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Yes, most men are, imo, sexually neutral to women. This is what a lot of men don't seem to get - we don't think like you, we don't do that immediate 'fuckable vs unfuckable' thing that men often do with women. The vast majority of men i run into/walk by on the street etc. do not register in any kind of sexual way with me. I see a random guy on the street and I'm just not thinking 'want to fuck' or 'don't want to fuck' unless he stands out in some way as exceptionally attractive or exceptionally …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:33 AM
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I actually have no issue with gingers at all. Don't know why ppl think they're unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:29 PM
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remember, all the "fun", "charismatic" behaviors are done mainly for your benefit. Men wouldnt bother developing those traits otherwise Omfg.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 07:02 PM
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Jack O'Connell - I like it when men make this face. I kind of want to chew his jawline. - the epitome of blue-eyed chav-hot. Young Paul Newman - he just has that 'good kind of trouble' look in his eyes. Prince Harry. Is losing his looks now but 18-25 was that specific kind of rangy/aristo hot. Also good with puppies and children. Dudes everyone else is into that I'm not into: Hiddlestone, Hemsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:43 PM
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It's definitely the vibe with Goldblum. There's something about him, he's got a good-natured, masculine ease going on that just...gah.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:07 PM
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I always say a thing, scroll down, and see that you've already said the exact same thing. If we were siblings, and children, I think there would be a lot of "STOP COPYING MEEEEE!" fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:06 PM
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Don't know who that Ricky Whittle is but goddamn, yes, he's sexy af. That thing where the jawline is as wide as the neck...hnnng.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:05 PM
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Omg, I never even thought about Grey Worm until I watched the recent trailers and had a 'holy shit, he's hot' moment. The actor who plays Robb Stark was very hot, too - his voice was part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 06:03 PM
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Oh God, what's happened to Russell Crowe is a fuckin' tragedy. He was as hot as it's possible for a man to be in his prime. Now he's like young Santa.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:58 PM
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female attraction is a crockpot Mmmm, Freudian. Right down to the warm liquids in the receptacle. Ha ha, ew, that's so gross. But yes, not wrong. You know what, though? I think men feel these things, too. I just don't think it's necessary in terms of willingness-to-fuck for them to feel them. I've seen men admiring traits in women, respecting and being into traits in their gfs. And I've seen their disappointment when they get let down/when she shows herself not to be the great person they though…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:55 PM
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Ha ha, I scrolled down to read after my post, saw yours and was like yep, yep, this. Your description of your bf helping out actually made me develop a fleeting crush on him. That shit is so hot. I sometimes wonder if a lot of the men here just don't get that starry-eyed 'omg, he's SOOOO GREAT' feeling that certain men inspire in us. It totally leads to men getting jumped on. And as always, this is more nuanced and complex than a lot of people will be willing to admit. I have been open here on P…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:48 PM
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Yep, I knew this was going to come up. Let's try a trait that seems to be less triggering. How about 'physical competence at building a small structure' - that ability, to know how to and to physically be capable of building/fixing things is another one of those 'attractive' traits. Does this mean that watching a 400 lb. neckbeard with terrible breath and a propensity to shriek when his dinner is late will make me want to fuck him? No. As /u/GinSmokeLies posted above, even being good-looking isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:40 PM
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Before scrolling to read any of the other replies (cuz I feel like I know what the general tenor of them is gonna be): YES. Moral upstandingness in general is an attractive trait to me. It's one of those that traits that causes the feelings of admiration and, well, just being impressed, and those feelings are very important to attraction in my case. And the less showy the gesture, the better. If I catch someone doing a 'good' thing, rather than them informing me of the good things they do, that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:25 PM
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That was a reference to the research in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:08 PM
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What I believe is that men definitely have a higher indiscriminate sex drive than women. Research and my own experience + listening to the experiences of others all back this up. OP, you fucked up a little in not really explaining the studies properly (I just Googled the Gangestad & Simpson, 2000 study and was only able to find a brief abstract, which didn't mention anything about higher sex drives). And how many of these studies were based on self-reports? If any of them were, you have no idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:29 AM
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All I hear is "women find me so un-threatening and non-masculine that they gossip with me about the juicy details so that I can validate them" Could it be any more obvious that you're not here to have a good faith discussion? Fucking hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 04:54 AM
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this was taken into account. In the OP, you seem to be talking about the 'strangers on the street propositioning for sex' study when you say 'x, y, z was taken into account' - how were those things, and especially risk aversion, taken into account specifically in that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 04:52 AM
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It would do a lot of the men here a service to take what you're saying on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:49 PM
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Is that a nauseous smiley? So cute!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 05:29 AM
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I wonder if it has occurred to any of you that your perspective is not the only one? It genuinely hasn't to that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 05:05 AM
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Yeah i've had this thought before. That 'shit testing' is pretty much 'getting to know someone.' I mean, i do this with women I'm getting to know, too. And dogs/cats. How do they act in situation X etc. Maybe shit-testing is when you've personally poked someone to see how they react, rather than just watching how they react to other ppl/comments/situations etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 04:45 AM
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They have, like, opposite problems. Girl 1 has trouble getting into relationships but when she does they're usually pretty good/stable. Girl 2 has no trouble getting dudes because she's hot, but they usually realize she's a maniac pretty quick and split.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 04:39 AM
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Well good for you. Not being sarcastic, either, it's kind of refreshing to see a RP-er who isn't just swallowing the laughable shit in this thread. 'Smashing phones is alpha,' jesus fucking christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 04:29 AM
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Or the ultimate alphas will like her dressing ultra sexy as a display of property and dominance over the whole scene This. I mean, the way you describe it is still barfy, but this. That whole 'don't dress sexy cuz i get buttmad when other guys look at you' stuff is weak. as. fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 03:50 AM
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but because he doesn't want you attracting attention from other males. Vom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 03:48 AM
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Being a jerk/annoying is the "path of least resistance". Vice is easier, not necessarily better. Holy fk do I ever agree with this. Even if you are a horrid beast red piller.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 03:39 AM
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So were you the poet? Was that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 03:36 AM
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The only ones who rape in this society do it because they got a kink for it. I don't know about that. Edit: to be clear, I'm talking about a desire to rape, not actual raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 01:55 AM
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You're ruining everything. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 01:52 AM
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I want 22 yr. old not-gay Tim Tebow-bot. Or 18 yr. old Wayne Rooney-bot. And I will pay top fucking dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 01:46 AM
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You seem to think that men in general have no desire to rape which is clearly untrue. Someone asked this a few weeks ago on here, if any of the men had the desire to rape (not if they were rapists, if they sometimes had the desire) and it was a strong, across-the-board 'no' - from all pills. I still don't know what to think of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 01:39 AM
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"strangely feminine" Pretty sure I've used this exact phrase to describe this kind of dude on here. But nothing about that body flips the "man" switch in my brain. It doesn't even read as "strong" to me (even though, intellectually, I know he must be strong.) Completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:59 PM
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She does - she's not even bad looking at all, she just looks more like a handsome man than a pretty woman. Holy shit this is mean af. But she's way richer and more talented than I will ever be so it's cool, right? Oh dear. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:56 PM
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I love her and want her to be happy, but it's like... the dudes she typically dates are shit, and whenever she does date a non-shitty guy I feel bad for him because she's so shitty Dude I FEEL this. My friend isn't even a bad person - she can be incredibly kind and socially intuitive when she's not angry and always sticks up for the underdog (imo to a pathological degree but...). I want her to be happy, but it's totally what you said - the guys she dates either suck hard and I want to get them a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:54 PM
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lesbian Well thank Christ for that. That's cruel, I know, but really, how shit would her life have been if she was straight? She is one of the manliest biological women I have ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:51 PM
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can't sit still through a movie, will loudly complain something is boring despite the other person trying to entertain her Oh, this has me triggered. I hate people like this. Oh god.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:49 PM
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She goes for absolutely shit dudes Sounds just like the INFJ friend of mine from my post. Just constant barrel-scraping - and as I said, she's pretty so these guys are usually super happy to get her attention...until she goes psycho and they run away. You can almost count on her homing in on the male fuck-up in any group, though, and almost instantly hounding all of us about how misunderstooooood he is and he's not a bad guy! his ex was a bitch! It's fucking infuriating. But that said, no one wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:44 PM
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Whenever I was dealing with her, I couldn't shake off the feeling that I was talking to a dude, and this nipped every attraction I might have felt in the bud. I see this with my friend a lot, to the point where I can almost pinpoint the moment when a man's brain clicks over from 'possible hook-up' to 'nah, just talking to a friendly person.' She has boobs, but her shoulders are wider than her hips, so that also doesn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:41 PM
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Is that Amelie Mauresmo? Jesus I feel sorry for her (or whoever it is if it's not AM). My friend is not quite that manly (i.e. she is facially recognizably female) but she does have a big jaw like that woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:39 PM
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such validation seeking b's Do you really see no possibility that that poster's post is an honest reflection of what s/he actually thinks? It's not something super out-there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 09:31 PM
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Agreed. I generally find blue collar types much more masculine than white collar and am def. more physically attracted to the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:20 PM
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Entirely non-physical. Bill Gates is clearly not physically masculine (neither is Trump, but Trump is bigger so if I had to pick I'd say he takes it, fat ass and all). Masculinity, as I perceive it, is about who a man is as much as it is about shoulder breadth and strong jawlines. Bill Gates has never, not publicly anyway, and not that I've seen, betrayed neediness (need for approval, need for admiration, need for validation) in the pathologically intense way Trump does. Gates doesn't give a fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:17 PM
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This is where we start disagreeing (in general) on who and what is and is not masculine. I genuinely find Bill Gates WAY more masculine than Trump, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:07 PM
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Ha ha ha, I LOVE that album! As for the 80s stuff, man, all sorts. No hair metal, although I do like GnR. Lots of pop and new romantics. It's been The Smiths and Yazoo this month.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:05 PM
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I've had the thought before that what we (in the west in the modern world) consider 'masculine' is more of a performance of masculinity or a mimic of it, of traits that used to be useful but are now in some cases actually detrimental (note: some cases). I always have this thought when i hang out with my muscled-up male friends. Where did they get these muscles? An air-conditioned gym. What use are these muscles? Looking nice in fitted t-shirts and shirtless in the summer. They're aesthetically u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 06:01 PM
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Just so you know, I'm not using 'creepy' in the way we use it here. I'm also joking in my self-deprecating anglo-y way and not sure you realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:53 PM
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Is she stocky? What's her hair like? She's tall (5 foot 7 or 8) and yeah, a little stocky. Not fat, just body type. Great hair, long strawberry blonde (and bright blue-green eyes). She comes from a pretty traditional and very tight Irish-Canadian family. Parents together, dad worked as a higher-up at the local sawmill, mom stayed home and looked after the kids. One physical negative is she's quite lantern-lawed. Which...yeah, not good for a woman. ridiculously manipulative, while not self aware …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:48 PM
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Pls. don't make me listen to that. What music do you think I, as a female, be listening to for my happiness? Been listening to a lot of 80s music lately due to watching The Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:42 PM
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I said physically masculine. That's not something I've ever thought men find attractive, and I've not really seen a lot of evidence to the contrary. It is kind of funny in a sad way, though, because she really is a good gf when she's in a relationship, a natural 'cool girl.' Second one is an INFJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:25 PM
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Maybe that's why they're happy? They get all their bad feels out via death metal? FWIW I've never met a Norwegian (or a Dane) who didn't come off as creepily psychologically balanced. Fuckers. Looks like death metal is the key to all human happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:23 PM
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I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:18 PM
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The only two people in my life who I would describe as routinely unsuccessful are both women. One is physical - if I posted a pic people might argue with me that she's a little above average, but it's not her face/body it's her presentation - she has a manly voice and masculine body language, masculine walk (she lumbers more than she walks), just doesn't come across as feminine. I don't know if she knows that this is her issue, but since it's not really changeable (I've known her since I was 11-…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:15 PM
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He posted another '10' above and I don't find any of his 10's better looking than his 'above averages' in the OP. Girl #1 in the post you're responding to is actually not even pretty (face, not body).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:06 PM
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I find this girl less hot, especially in the body, than the women you posted in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 05:01 PM
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The horrible red piller is actually correct here. Shitty people exist. I'd agree that men who disdain high n-count women and spend their time having casual sex are kinda shitty. But the point is, it's no one's job but your own to look out for yourself, and foisting the role of protecting your own n-count (if you care about it) onto these shitty men just seems like a bad plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 07:43 PM
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First of all, OP, and as ever: there is NO ARGUMENT here. If you feel that women with high n-counts are less valuable for relationships, then that's how you feel. That's fine. You are probably going to run into people who feel that you're an ass for this belief. That's also fine. People believe different things and have different values. But as to n-count itself, it's (to me) basically a proxy. Ask me who I would be more impressed with - a guy who fucks a succession of totally uninteresting, bas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 07:38 PM
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I'd argue that many current societal issues stem from both men and women lacking in this department. Was there ever a time when everyone had a thorough understanding of themselves and was totally comfortable/happy with themselves/their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 07:14 PM
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Ummmm. Doesn't just have sex in one way all the time. Not just the same physical acts/positions etc., but the feeling of it, the mood, the energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 05:06 PM
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If a dude I've been with for 5 years is like this, doesn't that mean he's not beta bucks? I.e. I am obvs. attracted to him/not simply using him for his ice-creamy provisioning skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 05:05 PM
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I cant think of a woman that wouldn't want this. Yeah, I pretty much agree, although there are always gonna be outliers. Masculinity is attractive to women. Who knew? How often do you run into this kind of masculinity these days? While I wouldn't say "often" I would say "often enough." They tend to come in two varieties - clueless (in that they don't have any idea what it is about them that makes them attractive, it's not something they think about) and the 'can't help themselves' type - the one…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 05:03 PM
3

I'd ask if you're high, OP, but I know you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:55 AM
4

What do I want in a sexual partner? As in, a sexual partner alone, absent any other non-sexual criteria? That's how I've understood the question. And the answer is: masculinity. Maleness. To get a testosterone-induced contact high (I know, just go with it) when I stand next to him. A high, demanding, insistent sex drive. I want to be a little scared when I push him - of what might happen. Iron-clad self-control so I can test its limits. The ability to fuck in different moods. Someone who knows h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 01:39 AM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 12:33 AM
2

That's odd, i found the young women easier and the old men with eye wrinkles and crazy eyebrows the hardest (in general).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:30 PM
1

32, whoopedy-do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 08:14 PM
4

Yeah but my desire is to have unprotected sex. And if I fully indulged that desire I would be riddled with STDs and neglected children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:58 AM
1

Lol. Admitting that red pillers are morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:45 AM
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What is "best" at least in my opinion is amicably and fully fulfilling our desires. If I fully fulfilled my desires I would be 400 lbs. (from eating ice-cream all day), riddled with STDs (from having unprotected sex with Chads all day) and homeless (from not having any time to do anything outside of the ice-cream, Chads and sleeping).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:39 AM
3

women are scared of TRP because it works Intellectual standards, OP. Get them. Why are you listening to these people? They're idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:32 AM
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I have a specific and surprisingly strong dislike for David Beckham and thus very much enjoyed the fact that his shitty, character-revealing e-mails have probably put a stop on his pathetically longed-for knighthood forever. Calling the Honours Committee 'cunts' - ah ha ha ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:58 PM
5

Honestly, you seem weird af. Not that that's super unusual 'round these parts. It's not that you ask questions, either, it's what you ask, how you ask them and how you respond. I see you getting specific with others in this thread, talking to Ercole about but totally repulsively beta as soon as I open my mouth. What are the key nonphysical things that matter? and I just wanna say - are you sure it's that you're 'beta'? Because I'm not calling you 'weird' to insult you. You just come off in a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 06:57 AM
3

OP, are you like this irl? jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:59 AM
3

You fancy JAMES CORDEN?! Ugh, you're lucky I'm not in charge, I'd have you shipped off to some island for People With Defective Taste. Omg. James Corden. Wtf. I'm actually slightly angry that some random woman on the internet fancies this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 01:09 AM
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Ha ha, that's actually a good example of what a lot of the women here are talking about. He walks out and I'm like 'damn, he is hot' (forgive me, I have am inexplicable weakness for this type). He opens his mouth and I'm instantly like 'oooooh, god, noooo...'
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 01:04 AM
2

No, it's too late now, guy! Meet me outside in the parking lot right now! Rawr.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:54 AM
6

I only fancy Momoa as Drogo, but I really fancy Momoa as Drogo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:52 AM
5

Wtf? Hostile!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:50 AM
5

OK, OP, a few things. First, it's very important to establish what we're talking about when we say 'looks.' It could be 'looks' as in a still photo of a random good-looking dude. But ti could be 'looks' irl, and if we do mean irl then it's never just looks in a vacuum. You're not just seeing a guy's eyes or hands, you're seeing his body language, you're hearing his voice, seeing how he sits/stands/holds himself, all of that. And that is a LOT more information than a still photo. Sometimes I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:49 AM
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someone who was 100% feminine would have the sexual mores of a deeply religious 16 year old girl and never have sex with a guy unless they were they were gonna marry him I don't believe this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:30 AM
3

Sorry, I'm going to have to bow out of this. It's like talking to a koala bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 06:55 PM
3

Yes, opinions can be logically wrong. Imo, 2+2=5. That's wrong. Imo, men with scars on their eyebrows are more attractive to me than those without. Good luck proving that wrong with your unfathomable masculine logicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 06:50 PM
3

I don't think that's what space_boobs was saying, and it definitely isn't what I was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 06:28 PM
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It's not 'logically false,' it's her opinion. One I happen to disagree with (I don't think intelligence on it's own means 'nothing') - but my disagreement is just an opinion, too, based on personal preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 06:22 PM
2

It's a sexual turn-off for me, yes. In a visceral/non-logical way. I need to be able to view a man as 'masculine' in order to be attracted to him and maintain that attraction. Sleeping with men reads as non-masculine on a lizard brain level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 06:11 PM
7

So basically minor everyday annoyances. Jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:26 AM
4

You're def. in the wrong city if you want to chat with strangers, guy. Montreal's less uptight - if you avoid the anglos, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:21 AM
7

You reckon that guy rubbed her back and leg for non-sexual reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:17 AM
3

Oooh this reminds me of a quote from Heat: Have no attachments, have nothing in your life that you can't walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner. Lack of attachment to anything or anyone is a real kind of freedom, and I can see why this might appeal to a certain kind of masculinity (not that I admire it - the difference between spouting this kind of belief as an edgy adolescent boy vs actually living it as a grown man is massive). Luckily I lack both the ability and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 05:43 PM
8

How about a 4 who wants to drink starbucks and talk about herself all day? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 07:21 AM
3

bites tongue
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:50 PM
3

American, though? Is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:48 PM
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It's more about the kind of tongue/mouth dexterity you need to get the seeds out of a pomegranate, but your reason is cool, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:47 PM
3

Sir, what is your nationality? I refuse to believe anyone can be down on French cuisine without an ulterior/non-related-to-deliciousness motive. We've got some Frenchies here, don't we? /u/louplop ? /u/Eastuss ? Boys, your national honour - an anglo is defending it rn and this can't continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:45 PM
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So what you're saying is making something delicious with delicious butter and cream is bad somehow? I'm actually intrigued by how vehement you are about this - did a French chef steal you gf? And 'unremarkable and disgusting'??? Dude. Dude, no. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:41 PM
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Real talk no it isn't. Jfc PPD just made me defend something French. UGH.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:37 PM
7

Pomegranate - without hands or utensils.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 09:17 PM
3

Humble scum!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 11:19 PM
3

Elitist scum!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 07:42 PM
2

What the hell is wrong with you!? PB and J 4lyfe!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 06:52 PM
4

You are (to me), like, the example of a guy (OK there's 2 but you're one of them) here who doesn't understand that he played a probably-equal role in the demise of his relationships. You seem to understand on some level that these women lost attraction for you, but you don't seem to get that you're responsible, too. And the longer you keep believing that this is 100% about female shallowness/inability to feel deep attachment and love, the longer you're going to be fucked in relationships. Now, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 06:49 PM
5

I worked for a surgeon once (two of them, actually) and I remember watching him cut a birthday cake and just going through a thought process of 'huh, ofc he's a surgeon so he's gonna cut this cake really exactly...oh yeah that's interesting, he's really cutting this cake well...hmmm, I feel a bit funny...OH MY GOD...' Also got a small sliver in my finger once and was sort of flapping around wondering what to do and he sat me down/told me to calm down. Thought he was going to get a tissue to stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 06:34 PM
2

In my country, we have an equivalent of gordon ramsey in moar bulldozzer like but moar politically correct. Totally fuckable. Don't know who the guy is, but that's my first impression. Seriously. And from his collar, he is a MOF?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:15 PM
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Shoulders. This + chest. I can appreciate a nice ass on a man (also on a woman) or nice legs or nice muscular thighs, but nothing makes my lizard brain take over like male shoulders/chest. That's the part of a man that'll make me double-take/lose 10 IQ points in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 05:08 PM
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Ha ha, was it? I used hashtags first and nothing showed up. I edited and it was just one long paragraph. I edited again and got this. Reddit formatting hurts my laydeebrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:51 AM
1

Wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:48 AM
1

1 - 5 2 - 8 3 - 8 (but if you're into this sort of thing, a 10) 4 - 4.5 5 - 9.5 6 - 7 (body doesn't look very feminine, but if you're into skinny Asians then she's be higher than a 7) 7 - 3.5 (issue is entirely her body, not her face) 8 - 9 9 - 7.5, maybe an 8, if you're into this body type
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:43 AM
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I responded to a thread you posted about this (iirc) but, actually, I think your best bet is to not listen to a single fucking thing anyone here tells you about 'how to find a man.'
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:17 PM
1

Something is wrong with you and you should do something about it.
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