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wtjones/r/seduction22/01/12 01:49 AM
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“My wife has a college degree. She assures me she’s never had two cocks in her at the same time.”
/r/BlackPillScience19/09/25 01:22 AM
57

You’re gonna need it to take care of Chad’s kids.
/r/BlackPillScience17/09/25 06:39 PM
3

If you've ever played a tower defense game you know that you defined your troop generating items.
/r/BlackPillScience12/05/25 01:42 AM
1

Control your controllables. Are you in shape? How’s your fit? How’s your grooming? What is your financial situation look like? Are you a good conversationalist? Fix all of those things before you worry about things you can’t control.
/r/seduction13/11/24 06:28 PM
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Start by changing your mindset. Women like sex. Get comfortable touching people in day to day conversation. I started with high fiving people. I high five or fist bump everyone. I shake hands with every new man I meet and reach out to hug every new woman that I meet. If a woman, even women I’m not attracted to, has an interesting watch or piece of jewelry on her hands or wrists, I’ll reach my hand out and ask if I can see it. I’ll hold her hand while I do. I touch peoples’ arms or shoulders in c…
/r/seduction08/06/24 12:41 PM
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Changing your mindset is the key. Remember that women want to fuck just as much as you do. They just need someone to make it ok for them because of the social pressure they live with. Take the mindset that your time and energy are a gift that you’re sharing with women and not something you’re taking from them. Let go of the notion that women are disinterested in sex and you somehow have to trick them into it. Embrace the fact that plenty of women got dolled up and went to the club with the inten…
/r/seduction25/05/24 07:57 AM
3

Women like sex too.
/r/seduction07/04/23 10:45 PM
1

Listening.
/r/seduction16/09/22 11:51 AM
1

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:46 PM
1

Sex in your teenage years sucks.
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:50 PM
3

Women like sex as much as men do.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:25 PM
5

Take a walk outside.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:53 AM
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It’s mostly men who had difficult relationships with their mothers. Either too much attention or the wrong kind of attention. Those that are lucky figure it out in their 40s and move on.
/r/seduction30/04/22 09:11 PM
3

A shrink/therapist is great. For me the most gains came when I joined a process group. I don’t think it matters what type of group it is as long as it’s a group talking about feelings. Read Becoming The Kind Father.
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:26 PM
2

Makes perfect sense. Do you have someone you can talk to about it?
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:15 PM
1

You can’t pretend to be high value b
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:49 AM
5

Why don’t you care? Everyone has something interesting to say. It’s your job to find it by asking the right questions and pulling the thread. When you figure this out, the game gets a whole lot easier.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:48 AM
1

I’ve watched him work, up close. He’s not paying for it. He lives in a flop house with a bunch of other dudes.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:21 AM
1

It’s total self defeating bullshit. The most successful man I know with the ladies is an unattractive overweight dishwasher. He regularly smashes 8s. He approaches ladies with confidence, listens intently, and generally has a good time. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something.
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:05 AM
1

Assume attraction from the get go is the best way to build attraction. From reading this post, you seem kind of negative. Girls pick up on that.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:58 AM
1

The most unattractive dude I know KILLS it with the ladies. He has a good attitude, just listens and asks good questions. It’s that simple.
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:10 AM
3

If you’re an average 5’7” dude, go to college. 60/40 ratio will be good for you.
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:41 AM
3

Start talking to people that you’re not trying to pickup. Think about your time and attention as a gift you’re sharing with people. See how excited many people are to have someone pay real attention to them. Once you start to feel confident talking to the old lady in the grocery store you’ll be set for approaches.
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:52 AM
1

It doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is perceived value.
/r/seduction16/02/21 10:11 PM
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I didn't. Me not read so good.
/r/seduction07/01/21 08:14 PM
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The shortest ugliest dude I know nails it with the ladies. He's out there killing it every day. Get your personality together and learn to approach women and listen to them and you'll be swimming in tail. PS he's also broke.
/r/seduction07/01/21 07:30 PM
3

Dodged a bullet. Move on.
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:18 AM
2

If she’s got a ring, watch or bracelet on, take her hand and look at it. Say something interesting about it. Fans an appropriate time for a fist bump or high five. Make it like a secret with a wink. Slide your hand up her back and into her hair. If your a little more alone, give it a little tug.
/r/seduction26/10/19 11:09 PM
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Most guys don’t actually listen to women and that’s what they really want. If you want to spend the rest of your life swimming in vaginal fluid, learn to really listen.
/r/seduction07/09/19 01:32 AM
4

“You dirty girl.”
/r/seduction31/05/19 02:58 PM
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Learn to listen to what people are saying. Pretend women are people and talk to them. Really listen to what they have to say and you’re in. It’s really that simple.
/r/seduction09/02/19 05:58 AM
1

If the assertion is there is a racial bias in sentencing, you're first source explicitly refutes that point. I quoted the section where they call it out. I've read the sources cited in the ACLU paper.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 02:27 PM
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This continues to be corollary evidence. "We call observed differences disparity, although based on the evidence we cannot attribute disparate decision-making to racial bias." From your first paper. When I have time I'll go through the sources in the ACLU paper and show you that they've cherry picked statistics from the sources to fit their narrative.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 04:33 AM
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Did you just post an opinion piece in the NYT that cites a "study" done by the Sarasota Herald-Tribune as a source? This "study" is purely corollary. I'm not saying you're wrong but this doesn't pass any sort of academic muster. Reddit, where everyone is a scientific atheist until confronted with facts that don't jibe with their religion.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 04:12 AM
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This is an advanced degree.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/17 03:23 PM
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I'm 38 and this is my first year as a software engineer and I'm amazed at how much input of mine people listen to.
/r/MensRights01/01/17 04:07 AM
8

New age spiritual stuff.
/r/seduction10/12/15 03:14 PM
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I watched the whole thing and I thought it was pretty fair depiction. Vince is a little on the woo woo side for me but he came off as a guy trying to help men be men.
/r/seduction10/12/15 01:48 PM
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I'd rather hear Wyagant talk about chasing the grapefruit.
/r/seduction01/08/15 07:10 PM
4

He was right about that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 09:24 PM
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You got it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 05:22 AM
0

Surprisingly enough, being civil is a good way to get laid. Occasionally you'll run into ladies trying to give you some shit to see if you've got a spine. If you give it right back to them they knock it off. I'm not sure why he's talking so fast, that might just be how he rolls. Being high energy is is something that PUA coaches push. He might be taking it a little too far. I'm more relaxed by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 03:04 AM
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I would be willing to bet you would never suspect I learned a lot of what I know from PUA. The best pickup is pickup that's genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 06:35 PM
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Too friendly?!? Do the people he's talking to seem put off by him? You should try what he's doing some time. You'll be blown away by how good you feel and how good the people you're talking to feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 06:34 PM
0

Talk to everyone. Be interested in what they're doing. Make eye contact. Be friendly. Ask situationally appropriate questions. Follow the threads people throw out. Touch her arm/hand/wrist when appropriate. Ask her for her number. These are PUA fundamentals. You could fuck 300 women a year just with this list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 06:29 PM
1

How about 60/40? --Montee Hall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/15 03:44 AM
4

Is 65% university enrollment indication of structural inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 03:04 PM
4

Satire requires humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 05:44 PM
1

I don't think that men are helpless, sex starved dog standing around waiting for a scrap of pussy to fall off the table. I know lots of not rich, not good looking guys, myself included, who've never struggled to attract desirable women. I would argue that ugly women have it a lot harder than ugly men when it comes to scoring some tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/15 05:27 AM
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why is mortification of the flesh one of Christianity's most basic tenets? What purpose does it serve? So having a husband was a serious advantage? It seems less like recovering from something and more like adjusting to a new norm set about by technological advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 06:03 PM
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To what end did the church perpetuate sexual shame? Is your implication that unwed mother didn't face hardships, other than shame, that we'd mothers would have faced? Wouldn't having a husband in a time where women couldn't work or own property be a serious advantage over not having a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 05:28 PM
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I have friends who have met their committed partners on Tinder. I'm not sure any of them are ever going to get married. I still haven't seen a reasonable argument why a modern man would find a high n number undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 04:47 PM
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This would be a bad economic decision. You wouldn't hire a pilot who's only flown one kind of plane or a mechanic who's only worked in one model of car, right? Why would you want an inexperienced sexual partner? I would argue that the highest valued men, the ultra wealthy and good looking, go out of their way to find women with the most sexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 03:36 PM
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It seems like your argument is rooted in the idea that only high quality men can be sluts. This is total BS. You don't have to be rich, good looking, or a rocket scientist to sleep with as many women as you want to. It sounds like you're afraid that a woman who's been with many partners is more likely to cuckold you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 03:31 PM
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I'd like to see a source for "preference most men have". I'm pretty sure all of my male friends who are hooking up with 15 chicks a month on Tinder are aware that that comes at the cost of those ladies hooking up with 15 dudes a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 03:24 PM
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The truth is that the vast majority of "the consequences" no longer exist. If the consequences mostly no longer exist why not take advantage and enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 03:21 PM
1

Religion has been the law for a great deal of our history. That sexual shame served a very important purpose. It's hard for us to imagine how costly sex outside of wedlock could have been in a time without birth control. If you've ever watched Teen Mom, imagine all of those hardships combined with living in a pre-industrial society. Doesn't sound awesome does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 03:18 PM
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OP stated that 95 percent of slut shaming came from men. If OP is going to state it like it's a fact, then it's relevance should be in play in a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 05:41 AM
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Isn't this a historical preference? If a woman had multiple partners when your title and inheritance were important you ran the risk of someone other than your offspring inheriting your tract. Also, the cost of pregnancy for women in pre-birth control days was extremely high. A social norm set to protect women from the high cost of child bearing doesn't seem that out of line. We've only lived in a world with safe, legal birth control for 50 years and a month and see how much has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 05:39 AM
2

Find a quiet romantic spot to park your car. Have a blanket in the back seat. "I'm having a really nice time, wanna go look at the stars/lake/park/whatever?" When you get there find a secluded spot and escalate per usual.
/r/seduction24/06/15 02:20 PM
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Shit test don't exist in the wild? Everywhere you go and every person that you meet is going to size you up in some way. If people are disgusted by helping these guys navigate those waters and feel more confident that's on them.
/r/seduction04/04/15 03:21 PM
3

If you're closing 76% you're not opening enough and not being honest.
/r/seduction23/03/15 12:40 AM
1

You just need to think about how much value you're adding to this other person's life by kissing her. This kiss you're giving her is the greatest gift, other than your penis, that could be bestowed upon her. It's not something you should feel ashamed for taking.
/r/seduction25/06/14 09:06 AM
5

TL;DR: Squats and deadlifts.
/r/seduction10/06/14 03:22 AM
2

Feeling Good by David Burns is the book that you need.
/r/seduction09/04/14 03:53 AM
1

I think you have it backwards.
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:14 PM
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Fake it 'til you make it.
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:17 AM
1

I'd like to see these.
/r/seduction26/12/13 11:28 PM
2

I'm guessing you're looking for too much. Don't over think your interactions. Approach confidently, open, assume attraction, then listen. People are most interested by themselves. Maintain strong eye contact and smile while you're listening. Find a reason (nice ring, who does your manicure, nice bangles, etc.) to touch their hand or elbow to further the rapport building. Don't invest your time unless they seem interested.
/r/seduction26/11/13 04:05 AM
2

Get your heads closer together as you're talking. Move the conversation towards the things she's really passionate about. I like to ask something along the lines of "What gets you up in the morning?" Keep eye contact strong as she's talking. I like to start to ramp up the sexy thoughts as the eye contact is intensifying. At some point if you're feeling it and she's feeling, it just go for it. Don't interview and don't over think it.
/r/seduction26/11/13 02:25 AM
56

This one amazing trick works wonders: build rapport then lean in and kiss her.
/r/seduction25/11/13 04:45 PM
0

Yeah, they're just people. Treat them like you would any other person and they'll get wet.
/r/seduction11/11/13 05:55 AM
1

Stay calm and carry on.
/r/seduction19/10/13 10:14 PM
3

Maybe we're soulmates...
/r/seduction03/09/13 09:34 PM
5

That's about your ego where "I wrote this song for you" is about the other person.
/r/seduction03/09/13 04:04 PM
50

She stole that line from me.
/r/seduction02/09/13 04:48 PM
1

I'm a finger blaster.
/r/seduction11/06/13 11:24 PM
1

Most of the guys we think of as confident action stars are short. Stop worrying about the things you can't change and focus on the things you can.
/r/seduction03/06/13 04:52 PM
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There's a certain vulnerability in taking the initiative. Make decisions and stand by them. Hold eye contact a little longer. You wanna make a move, take the risk that you'll get shot down. Tell her what you really like and want out of life even if you think it's not her thing. In doing these things you create a space for her to reciprocate. Everyone wants that.
/r/seduction03/06/13 04:50 PM
1

Why aren't posts like this ever posted when SRS goes on about negging?
/r/seduction02/06/13 04:46 PM
24

This part?: You don’t want your frigid ex, you want 2 girls that are open-minded, liberal and who are also bi-curios or sexually adventurous.
/r/seduction31/05/13 05:17 PM
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TL;DR find girls that are into threesomes.
/r/seduction31/05/13 04:17 PM
1

This guy is asking about the tuna on rye in Blockbuster. Listen to the David Wygant MP3s in the sidebar for a way better description of banter. Watch any of the rom coms from the 40s and 50s with Katherine Hepburn for more inspiration.
/r/seduction30/05/13 07:00 PM
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Try something like, "what's going on with you tonight?"
/r/seduction18/05/13 03:37 PM
2

TL;DR: Technique used: OkCupid Stop thinking women don't want to fuck you and they won't.
/r/seduction16/03/13 04:17 AM
3

I see the downvotes but no one brave enough to pipe up with a counter-argument?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/13 06:33 AM
2

Well, you're braver than the rest of the downvote brigade for admitting it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/13 05:02 AM
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Or he pretends to be what he's not in real life as a way of not dealing with being a lonely old codependent who relies on the praise of others to fulfill the hole in himself.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 07:57 PM
-1

I don't trust a sixty year old, four time divorcee, codependent's advice on much and definitely not when it comes to women.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 07:32 PM
-2

People tend to lash out when they're afraid.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 07:29 PM
-1

People are always fronting when they sound as constantly upset as Leykis does. That upset comes from a fearful place. Always remember, mastery of self is the goal it's not mastery of others.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 06:40 PM
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Tom Leykis is full of shit. He's afraid of women and is over compensating. Alpha men don't have to be assholes because they aren't afraid of women.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 05:47 PM
5

I have this framed over my toilet.
/r/becomeaman04/03/13 05:29 PM
3

Squats and oatz, BRO!!
/r/becomeaman04/03/13 05:21 PM
4

But lots of young girls don't show interest in me in person. They only return my texts (calling is so passé and make me feel like a creep). Skype is definitely a much better way for me not to feel uncomfortable. Women love a man who doesn't worry about challenging his fear of discomfort. /S
/r/seduction03/03/13 06:29 AM
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That's what I meant about her being interested.
/r/seduction01/03/13 10:57 PM
4

If a girl is interested she'll pick up the phone.
/r/seduction01/03/13 09:16 PM
11

How is that you can't even close imaginary girls in a made up story?
/r/seduction25/01/13 08:48 AM
11

This sub has filled up with white knights, such is life.
/r/seduction25/01/13 08:44 AM
2

Jealousy is typically related to a deficiency mindset. Your brain thinks there are a finite number of women I can connect with, if I lose this one all hope is lost. This is the way we're conditioned to think, it raises the perceived value of women. The truth is we live in abundance of available beautiful women. If this one's not into you, there are 20 more just like her, better probably. This is one of the key tenants Seddit. There are an abundance of women looking for whatever you're looking fo…
/r/seduction03/01/13 08:14 PM
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This post reeks of neediness. I'd want to bring another dude on the date. Have you read anything that's ever been posted in this subreddit? It makes me especially cringe because it reminds me of me when I was younger. If I could give younger self some advice it would be: You need to go back and grasp the fundamentals, work on your inner game, and maybe take some time off from the ladies. In that time I want you to personify an abundance mentality. Actively look at all of the woman around you and…
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:39 AM
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The bigger issue is did she get naked and the answer is yes. The whole should you pay or not pay issue is contextual. The end results are what matter.
/r/seduction17/12/12 06:51 PM
2

Buy one chambray shirt that fits well. You can wear it with almost anything.
/r/seduction17/12/12 06:49 PM
3

7 year relationship with a girl I picked up on the street.
/r/seduction07/12/12 05:18 PM
2

I spent years listening to tapes and practicing exercises to no avail. What works is to sit with your eyes closed for 20 minutes everyday. Let the thoughts come and observe them. That's it.
/r/seduction02/12/12 09:40 AM
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This is a great way to pickup women if you plan on having an LTR. I'm not opposed to that but casual readers should be aware, if you drop 20 hints about being together as a couple and use the word love don't show up in r/relationshipadvice and cry about a stage 9 clinger.
/r/seduction30/11/12 04:10 PM
1

You can do this with fingernail polish, bracelets, tattoos, etc.
/r/seduction18/11/12 12:13 AM
1

Spin them around/pick them up.
/r/seduction13/11/12 03:07 PM
2

You want to think that when she uses her vibrator she thinks about you, calls out your name as she's cumming. Keep that thought in your head and say to yourself "You dirty girl". See if that doesn't strengthen your frame. Listen to the David Wygant stuff in the side bar.
/r/seduction03/11/12 12:54 PM
2

Sounds like lacking common sense and taking it too far. The implicit belief in attraction in no way condones ignoring explicit messages.
/r/seduction25/10/12 06:04 PM
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Assume attraction. You want motivation to go out? Assume that women are going to be attracted to you. You want motivation to approach? Assume that you're approaching is going to enhance that woman's life and that's gonna make her wet. Motivation to kino? Assume she wants you to touch her. Think of your touch as a gift that is going to make her day. Assume attraction is the first step.
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:55 PM
0

Couldn't part of the "self-fulfilling circle) be that women are repeatedly told that they are only going to earn $.77 for every man's $1? If the gap were reported closer to what it really is, roughly 5-7%, wouldn't it be less of deterrent?
/r/MensRights17/10/12 09:15 PM
1

There is no 'perfect' woman. Learn to be intimate with people. Learn to accept the flaws in yourself. Learn to accept the flaws in others and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction06/10/12 02:43 PM
1

The best text is the one where you take her phone to put your number in and text yourself "hey, do you want to get out of here?"
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:24 PM
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Living in abundance is the key to overcoming jealousy. Start paying attention to all of the awesome things that you have and stop worrying so much about what you might not have. Write down 6 things everyday that you're grateful for. I know this sounds corny but try it for six weeks and see what the results are.
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:32 PM
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Make a list of 25 things that you want in a woman (adventurous, sexy, etc.). Use this list as a cheat sheet for things to do or talk about on a date. Don't turn it into an interview. This list should act as things to be interested about.
/r/seduction15/09/12 12:10 PM
4

The point, you're missing it.
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:27 PM
10

Don't ever do things for women. Find things that YOU like to do and do them.
/r/seduction06/09/12 07:47 AM
1

Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden, it is your new bible. Read it.
/r/seduction29/08/12 06:00 AM
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"You should invite me back to your place for a night cap."
/r/seduction11/08/12 06:36 PM
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Scarcity is not the answer, abundance is!! That adage about plenty of fish in the sea? That shit is true. Get out there and find out for yourself.
/r/seduction11/08/12 06:35 PM
1

Imagine if you were an oil producer and I invented a free source of energy and went around giving them out to your customers. How would you feel about it? The idea of sex as a commodity produced by women and consumed by men is one that we're socialized to believe. Seddit and the PUA community teach you that you can flip that model on it's head.
/r/seduction01/08/12 05:39 PM
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I watched the whole season and I can tell you he's got some PUa in him. He mind fucked her hard.
/r/seduction25/07/12 04:55 AM
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R/fitness r/fitmeals r/malehairadvice r/malefashionadvice
/r/seduction22/07/12 12:03 AM
18

Be confident. Be confident. Be confident. Be confident. Be confident.
/r/seduction21/07/12 06:49 PM
1

All of them.
/r/seduction13/07/12 12:29 AM
0

I'm putting together a cooking for AFCs video collection. Is anyone interested?
/r/seduction11/07/12 11:10 PM
7

Seriously, WTF fuck is with all of the upvotes for women encouraging men not to approach and reinforcing the stereotype of a man approaching as some sort of perverted criminal. These posts belong in a different subreddit. This is the new "Hey guys I have oneitis, what do?"
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:07 AM
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It is. The problem is some of the AFCs in this reddit are hyper-sensitive to discomfort and may misread it as disinterest. Having a girl poster tell them that they're fucking creepy for showing interest isn't going to help them with approach anxiety.
/r/seduction07/07/12 12:03 AM
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The only thing good in her post is "offer her your hand". That advice is everywhere in this forum. Realize that everyone is a little uncomfortable in social situations and it almost never has anything to do with you. Approaching with confidence and the intent of adding value to someone's day/night is a way to alleviate some of this discomfort. To get rid of the feeling of being creepy that many men are socialized to feel, remember that you're adding value to peoples' lives by interacting with th…
/r/seduction06/07/12 11:46 PM
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Why the fuck are you guys upvoting this? The last paragraph is the least helpful advice I've ever seen in this reddit. Telling guys who have a heightened sense of discomfort to eject if they sense discomfort then reinforcing the stigma of them being a creepy stalker dude for attempting to get out of their comfort zone? This is why fisherman don't learn to fish from trout. There are hundred of good posts on Seddit on how to approach in a club. Search YouTube for dancing in a club with ladies and …
/r/seduction06/07/12 04:33 PM
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Possessiveness is about scarcity. Men are socialized with the idea that sex is a commodity and the supply is short--We can talk more about the reasons why later if you're interested. The most important thing that you can learn in PUA is that relationships (sexual or otherwise) are available in abundance. Sex is free and easy when you understand the game. When you start to live in this state of abundance you stop with the posessessiveness. You're no longer plagued with the idea that there's only …
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:53 PM
3

I've been working on a cooking for AFCs web show.
/r/seduction30/06/12 02:36 PM
-5

How is this not the top comment? OPs post reads like a high school teacher assigned his students to write a Penthouse Forums article.
/r/seduction28/06/12 02:55 PM
5

I think a lot of it comes from misunderstanding what it is that women want. AFCs think women want you to fawn over them and put them on a sex proof pedestal. The truth is women want to be challenged. Assholes challenge them. The thing a lot of AFCs don't understand is you don't have to be an asshole to challenge them. You have to change your mindset about what it is women want.
/r/seduction22/06/12 08:59 PM
1

You should checkout Irreversible. It'll get her in the perfect mood.
/r/seduction16/06/12 08:35 PM
4

Being good at conversation isn't about telling someone all the thing you know. Being good at conversation is about listening and drawing the other person out. You should learn to ask pertinent questions and how to be fully engaged in what the other party is saying on different levels. I find that asking myself what's interesting about this person helps a lot. Stop thinking about what you're going to say and just listen to the other person. Stop trying to impress them with how much stuff you know…
/r/seduction16/06/12 04:05 PM
33

Unacceptable.
/r/seduction14/06/12 02:41 PM
1

What I'm trying to say is they're both violations of people's personal space and are not intended to create value for the other party. If you stop acting like a retarded troll I'll stop treating you like one.
/r/seduction09/06/12 11:30 PM
0

Holy shit, are you fucking retarded or have I fallen into a parallel troll universe? There are situationally appropriate times for things. Walking up to a girl you don't know and saying "Fine I'll have sex with you" isn't situationally appropriate. It's not cocky funny, it's just inappropriate. Now, if you knew this girl and were bantering with her and she said "you're really funny" and his reply was "fine I'll have sex with you" that would be cocky funny. Same thing goes for tit grabbing. If yo…
/r/seduction09/06/12 09:42 PM
1

I was trying to make the point that violating someone's boundaries is violating someone's boundaries. I was trying to make the violation bigger so people would understand that many people see a verbal assault like this in the same light as you might see a physical assault.
/r/seduction09/06/12 09:33 PM
-4

This is why this sub gets a bad rap. This isn't cocky funny. He has admitted to knowing he's out of line but continuing. That's an asshole thing to do. There's a cocky funny time to grab someone's tit but it's a situational thing.
/r/seduction09/06/12 09:10 PM
-2

Approaching someone with the premeditated intention of violating their boundaries is clearly manipulation. That's not a catch phrase it's a douche thing to do. Imagine if a dude a lot bigger than you approached you from behind, grabbed a hold of your hips, bent you over and simulated sex with you. How would you feel?
/r/seduction09/06/12 08:57 PM
-4

There's a difference between having the courage to approach someone and engage them and walking up and violating their boundaries intentionally. This isn't sexual playfulness, that comes later once you've established some level of comfort. It would be like walking up and grabbing a woman's tit. Would you call that courageous? I'd hope you'd think the guy is a douche.
/r/seduction09/06/12 08:46 PM
0

Being a douche for science is still being a douche. Coming here to brag about it makes the community look immature and plays into the stereotypes some of us work hard to avoid.
/r/seduction09/06/12 08:06 PM
-3

It's just being an immature douche and saying "oh, it's for science no harm no foul". Being a douche is being a douche.
/r/seduction09/06/12 08:03 PM
12

Why is this post getting upvoted? The reason this isn't going to work is because it's not adding value to anyones' experience. This is the kind of post that gets this subreddit pigeonholed as manipulative assholes.
/r/seduction09/06/12 07:07 PM
7

I like "I'm really turned on by a wet, sloppy blowjob". Just be honest with the girl. It won't work every time, but more often than not. Put yourself out there and you'll get way more of what you want.
/r/seduction09/06/12 01:15 PM
3

She's stringing you along to feel better about herself. She had sex with this other guy because he was fun. From the way you wrote this I can almost guarantee she's not that into you. For your own sense of self respect you have to cut her loose and work on getting to know you. When you have a better sense of who you are the game becomes a whole lot easier. Remember that we live in fucking abundance. Women are everywhere and they're drawn to a strong sense of self understanding. You have to cut t…
/r/seduction05/06/12 12:34 PM
1

Buy The SiX Pillars of Self-Esteem. Do the exercises. Profit.
/r/seduction18/05/12 03:26 PM
4

You might be doing it wrong.
/r/seduction17/05/12 03:21 PM
2

Thanks for posting this.
/r/seduction11/05/12 08:58 PM
10

This post and all "slut shaming" post should be downvoted into oblivion. A girl who has sucked off the entire football team probably knows a lot more about pleasing you than you do.
/r/seduction11/05/12 12:44 PM
1

Keep it up and they'll give you their numbers.
/r/seduction04/05/12 05:00 PM
7

But, but, but, women are the power holders and any interaction with them is something to be taken and not shared. /S
/r/seduction04/05/12 04:59 PM
1

Glad to help.
/r/seduction03/05/12 08:11 PM
3

They always look away first, now. I've learned to internalize the uncomfortable feeling and ride the exchange of energy. I use it to help remind myself that I'm having this interaction to create value for both of us. You're giving people something by approaching, you're making their lives better. It helps to take away some of the slimy feeling men are socialized to have. You don't have to feel like your interaction is taking something from someone.
/r/seduction03/05/12 06:37 AM
8

Its as much about how you approach as what you say. Head up, shoulders back, strong connfident voice and you'll be alright. If you're worried girls will think you're creepy make ten approaches tomorrow and write down how many seemed put off by it and how many seemed stoked. My guess is you'll get about 9 stokes and one crabby one. Try to remember by approaching you're adding value to someone's day. You're not there to take something but to give something.
/r/seduction03/05/12 04:33 AM
1

Hey, I really like those earrings. Is that Flowerbomb you're wearing? Are you in my Econ class?
/r/seduction03/05/12 04:12 AM
9

Try to take the nervous energy and FEEL it as it's happening. Then pretend it's a wave or a bull you're trying to ride. When you feel like you're gonna fall off (break eye contact) try to hold it for another second. Make a game out of it, think of the hotter girls as the bigger bulls (waves) and try to ride the shit out of them. Protip: Think of what the girl looks like when she's about to orgasm. I like to use David Wygant's trick of thinking of her using her vibrator and calling my name out as…
/r/seduction03/05/12 03:50 AM
2

Checkout r/fitness the FAQ has everything you need.
/r/seduction30/04/12 01:48 PM
3

You can't rape the willing.
/r/seduction21/04/12 02:35 AM
3

Your biggest screw up was posting this here and not in r/relationship advice. Tell us how you ran game on the girl or something relevant to this sub.
/r/seduction12/04/12 06:36 AM
1

That feeling is sexual tension. You'll learn to bask in it once you get used to it. My advice is to push forward once you feel it. If you pay attention you'll learn to control it. Remember that she feels it too and it feels good for her, especially if you maintain it and control it.
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:42 PM
11

He'll probably get herpes. That'll have to do.
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:09 PM
6

Ask her if she's read the FAQ.
/r/seduction06/04/12 12:05 PM
6

If her temperature wasn't up she wouldn't be trying to rationalize it down. Escalate, then beat those guts up.
/r/seduction06/04/12 11:50 AM
2

Have you even read the FAQ? Don't be the cancer.
/r/seduction05/04/12 05:25 PM
3

Then post in r/askseddit from the mobile app.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:39 PM
1

Use your mobile browser.
/r/seduction02/04/12 02:33 PM
0

Wygant says use that elevator game.
/r/seduction01/04/12 12:30 AM
6

How is it respectful not to get down with a young woman who came back to your place? Sounds like putting her on an unnecessary pedestal. If ladies wanna get their pussies smashed you're being far more respectful to smash the pussy.
/r/seduction31/03/12 08:32 PM
14

One of my goals is to ask you what some of your goals look like. Thank you.
/r/seduction29/03/12 10:51 PM
1

You should experiment with alpha GPC if you liked the choline.
/r/seduction28/03/12 01:31 PM
1

Try adding theanine to your caffeine stack. My experience was you keep the focus but lose the jitters.
/r/seduction28/03/12 01:31 PM
2

Hardrhino.com.
/r/seduction28/03/12 01:30 PM
2

Six Pillars of Self-Esteem will help.
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:27 AM
1

I can't suggest getting into a process group strongly enough. I've been where you're at and it gets better. If you're still in school they usually offer them for free. I seconds Intimate Connections by Robert Burns is good as is The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem. Therapy and group will help.
/r/seduction26/03/12 03:23 AM
-3

The FAQ is full of "this is so damn easy, MTFU" we don't need to clog the front page with these karmawhoring FRs. This is like someone posting "hey guise my friend turned on my PS3, videogames are so easy" on the front page of r/videogames or "hey guyz, I slipped on the stairs and my dick fell into a girl (PS not really the truth), upboats to the left.
/r/seduction25/03/12 10:56 PM
2

"Come outside with me to get some air, I think my balls are about to drop." is a good move for isolating. Stand next to her. Keep eye contact (that nervous feeling is those balls trying to drop). Then you bring those kino games: Enthusiatsic high five Look for something interesting on her hands, take one of them in your hand and comment on whatever it was. Pause for a second as you hold it. Eye contact. If she's receptive (doesn't pull away or make unnecessary awkwardness with the eye contact) l…
/r/seduction25/03/12 04:43 PM
0

Why is this posted here? This isn't a field report, it's rambling about getting drunk and not having any game. I'm glad you're in this subreddit trying to work on your game but I don't see how posting this is helping you or the community.
/r/seduction25/03/12 07:15 AM
15

I read it as if I had written a Penthouse forum when I was 14.
/r/seduction25/03/12 12:04 AM
-9

If there's ever been proof that alcohol and the slightest amount of confidence work it's this post. We should start r/noskillfclose for these posts.
/r/seduction24/03/12 09:38 PM
99

When did this subreddit become hornyneckbeardfantasies.com?
/r/seduction24/03/12 08:49 PM
2

May as well tape your dick to you asshole and walk around like a woman. Take those nervous feelings you're feeling and channel them into confidence. Set a mental alarm and when these feelings trigger the alarm remember that this nervous feeling is supposed to be motivating. Do it once or twice and every time the alarm goes off you'll turn that nervousness into it's more natural excitement. Then you can take the tape off your dick and walk around like a man.
/r/seduction23/03/12 05:21 PM
2

It's like he stumbled into r/lesbian and said "hey guys, I loves teh cock."
/r/seduction22/03/12 04:03 PM
4

Players live in abundance. So, I got a pussy wet as I walked in the club. The night is young and I'm just getting warmed up.
/r/seduction21/03/12 05:47 PM
6

Have I stumbled into some kind of a damn subwarp? Seduction is the process of enticing a person to engage in sexual behavior. We live in a time with a myriad of options for safe sex. Exercise those options and protect yourself. This hysterical idea that tofu's gonna get the clap from fingering a girl belongs on r/sedditcirclejerk not in here.
/r/seduction21/03/12 03:25 AM
10

Are you gonna get finger crabs? If you're this afraid of vaginas you might want to think about switching to twox. On a serious note you may want to look into how STIs are transmitted. Checkout r/sex for some info.
/r/seduction21/03/12 02:32 AM
1

This is true.
/r/seduction21/03/12 02:14 AM
22

Slut shaming in Seddit? I think this is even worse than "what do?"
/r/seduction21/03/12 01:21 AM
-5

Or "I can't believe this girl is letting him finger her." WTF? This is exactly the kind of behavior we want to promote.
/r/seduction21/03/12 01:20 AM
7

I think Tolle's point is you have to find self-fulfillment before you find fulfillment from others. Edit: There's no answer that comes from without, only from within.
/r/seduction20/03/12 06:25 PM
-1

What's to resolve? Just start ban hammering the teenagers who ask "what do"? Put something in the sidebar that says "Take it to r/askseddit".
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:46 AM
1

I agree.
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:43 AM
6

I think there's something to be said for having a strong sense of self-worth. I think the real slide started with the "what do" bullshit. The answer is always the same, MTFU and stop living in scarcity mode.
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:40 AM
48

This Subreddit has really gone down hill recently. It's gone from a community dedicated to bettering ourselves and learning some tricks of the trade to a nonstop barrage of "I'm an AFC with oneitis, how do I convince the girl who cheated on me to love me?" Most of the stuff on the front page belongs on r/askseddit or r/highschool and the mods aren't doing anything about it. As communities grow mods have to work diligently to keep the sub on track. I think that this sub has lost its way. Mods, pl…
/r/seduction18/03/12 03:56 AM
2

Read the six pillars of Self-Esteem. Come back when done.
/r/seduction17/03/12 10:47 PM
-10

There's a place to get advice for these kinds of posts and this isn't it. I don't mean to sound heartless but if we let this nonsense slide this subreddit may as well just become r/sedditcirclejerk.
/r/seduction14/03/12 04:06 PM
2

"She's really beautiful and the sex was almost, kind of amazing. I think she's my soulmate. PS she cheated on me like at least three times that I know of. But now she wants to get back together, what do?" I think it's time to start r/sedditcirclejerk and r/trueseddit.
/r/seduction14/03/12 03:57 PM
6

Let's start a new subreddit called r/afcrelationshipadvice for this type of post. We could create a bot that just replies to every post with "MTFU, this is not the only woman for you. Stop living in scarcity mode and start living in abundance."
/r/seduction14/03/12 03:06 PM
-13

When did this become r/relationship advice? Mods, can we get something in the sidebar advising against this kind of post?
/r/seduction14/03/12 02:30 PM
42

Makes you look her in the eyes and think.
/r/seduction08/03/12 04:52 PM
6

The use of "always usually pretty great" is suspect. Also take this shit to r/relationshipadvice.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:40 PM
1

Watch Tyler work and you'll see that he's 5'6", kinda goofy looking and has a weird personality, he pulls chicks because he's decided that's what he's gonna do.
/r/seduction22/02/12 03:41 AM
5

Narcissism isn't about loving yourself.
/r/seduction21/02/12 08:06 PM
1

Six healing sound and the Inner Smile are a good place to start. http://www.universal-tao.com/article/six_healing.htm
/r/seduction20/02/12 07:35 AM
7

You'd have better luck with "How about some Dick?" than no opener.
/r/seduction19/02/12 12:23 AM
4

The more things you can see as a sign of interest the better. If you've approached a lady and she hasn't shot you down you should assume she's intersted.
/r/seduction09/02/12 04:58 AM
2

I nominate this for best description of how to overcome AA.
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:19 AM
3

I wanna poo in YO mouf
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:05 AM
1

It's like they're bitching about chefs taking cooking classes. We all gotta eat, the food may as well taste good.
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:01 AM
1

Seddit is about way more than just "the game", in fact I see very little Mystery worship in here. I think that's because Mystery's Method isn't the end all be all method. I personally think Wygant has a much better idea about how to connect with and be honest with women to get what you want.
/r/seduction27/01/12 03:00 AM
2

I see what you did there. I think they're just shit testing us.
/r/seduction27/01/12 02:57 AM
1

approach and eye contact are not problems at all for me. I'm just super uncomfortable with touch. I'll just give it a go.
/r/seduction22/01/12 09:57 AM
2

Go out and talk to everyone. Don't worry about being alpha. Pay attention to what people are doing and converse with them about something relevant. WATCH the response you get. You're going to see you're adding value to people's lives, making them better. If this is all you do you'll see increased action from people. You may come to find that if you don't spend so much time trying to treat women as 'equals' you'll add value to their lives as well.
/r/seduction18/01/12 02:20 AM
1

Use David Wygant's tip about thinking of them as a " naughty little girl" who vibrates to you and calls your name out while she does it. Say "you naughty little" in your head before approaching. Has the added benefit of creating a perfectly natural smile.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:30 AM
6

Use David Wygant's tip about thinking of them as a " naughty little girl" who vibrates to you and calls your name out while she does it. Say "you naughty little" in your head before approaching. Has the added benefit of creating a perfectly natural smile.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:24 AM
1

This or make a point of writing down the color of everyone you meet's eyes. AFTER the interaction.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:23 AM
2

Tell her " you know what's emasculating? Being in a relationship with a woman who's unwilling to work with me to get my rocks all the way off".
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:20 AM
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