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To be fair most of the civilized world gets paid maternity. In my country we get paid family leave for 3 years. It's not much money monthly but it's something. That said the OP's unionize sahms is pretty terminally online take.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 07:25 AM
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Who cares. You end up alone. That's it. You are not competing with 10/10 men. You are competing with being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:36 PM
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Western men =/= US. There's a big difference between even UK, French and Nordic men. Let alone those from US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:22 AM
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Have you seen US politicians recently? I don't even live there yet I've heard vice presidents comments about childless cat ladies. Spinsters were always looked down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:33 PM
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She is entitled to half of everything in divorce. There is no law that says he has to give her money during marriage. And many couples don't comingle their finances. There are also couples that are not married (yet have kids) The timer is opportunity cost - not wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:13 AM
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Shopping for kids has additional task of keeping track of their clothes and supplies as they grow out, use them up. The shopping part isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:06 AM
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Housework isn't hard there's just a lot of it. Which can make it overwhelming, especially when you add kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:52 AM
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If her husband earns an income, SHE IS BEING PAID. This is nonsensical. He is getting paid the same amount regardless of her labour or even marital status. The labour she is doing is literally not paid, even if she has access to family finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 12:13 AM
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There were no safety standards for jobs. Women did whatever was needed of them. And some types of work that seem trivial these days like laundry were hours of backbreaking hard work. And women were also doing all kinds of dangerous jobs - like mining - it was later even prohibited by laws across Europe during 19th and 20th century. Together with kids being banned from that kind of work. And while men fought wars - when there were ones to be fought - women had childbirth to deal with on regular b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:49 PM
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If you don't have height status and confidence then those things do matter. You can't just grow taller, or be a millionaire, but there are other things you can change. If you are handsome asshole sure you'll still get chicks. If you are ugly asshole you'll get squat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 06:10 PM
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It probably stems from lots of the manosphere's "solutions" to the relationship issues being rapey adjacent. Make loneliness is a legit issue that deserves attention. Pseudo alpha males who put into young guys' heads that females should be submissive to them and that they are entitled to their bodies is not it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:47 PM
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Meanwhile Europeans are panicking because our pension systems are based on at least sustained population. The ratio of taxpayer to pensioner is getting unsustainable. It IS a problem. A future problem, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:49 PM
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And I had a reaction to vaccine that almost sent me into kidney failure. I still vaccinate my kids because anecdotes are not statistics. And even with ugly episode of PPD after my first child it was still worth having them. Life sometimes happens and fucks you up regardless of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:55 AM
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Silly, you can't build shareholder value and consume goods with love. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:03 PM
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You are greatly underselling the benefits. Children are very meaningful and enrich your life with love like no one else. They are little assholes but if I had a do over with what I know now I would have the two of them anyway. In grand scheme of things stuff like breastfeeding or pregnancy are very temporary setbacks. And who even cares about last name? Some of those negatives are not given. And you're gonna get old and wrinkly anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:02 PM
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A is obvious. But...well what specific things do you think the current women are not taught in regards to their partners? I thought people are focusing on the boys because their education in that aspect is lacking in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:03 PM
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I hate the "what could they possibly have in common" thing and it is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Idk Sharon maybe they both like trains. Old and young people are allowed to share interests and values, we all live on the same planet. Me and my partner both played Dota and watched anime at the time we started dating. /rant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 08:37 AM
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Imo regular porn creators don't encroach into the normal spaces as much and therefore are not as annoying. Lots of OF creators do promo in no porn spaces and they basically spam the space. When I want to look at cosplay or fashion I don't want 80% of it being thirst trap. It's annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:40 PM
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That's just cheating and not related to postponing sex since sex isn't actually postponed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:23 AM
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You can plan for kids but you can't prepare for parenthood. Not really really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:33 AM
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Meanwhile any man that can't find ketchup in the fridge insisting it's NOT THERE.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:08 AM
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They choose to be mothers. That's about it. The circumstances of why they are single are varried.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:48 PM
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Nobody in their right mind is putting the most precious person in their life for adoption. You don't just decide to send a 4 year old with a suitcase and off you go to a new family. They are a human not a couch you sell on craigslist. How cruel would that be? Not to mention absolutely traumatizing for both and especially the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:39 PM
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That because general view in Europe is that 16 year old is an adolescent - closer to young adult. In my country we give 15 year olds ID card, age of consent and partial criminal liability. People talking about 16 year olds as children always sounds weird AF to me. And it's funny they think it's so obvious or something. It's not. This is very culture based.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:51 PM
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The brain not being fully developed is not relevant period because it's a pop science myth. Prefrontal cortex reaching peak around 25 is not the same as "fully developed brain".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:42 PM
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And they don't know that before they start trying. Lots of stupid teens get pregnant stupidly fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:54 PM
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Most of the time you have no idea when those days are so no it's not because of the uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:44 PM
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Well those guys exist and so want relationships, so... If you aren't Chad you aren't gonna get Chad result. So you gotta work with what you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:24 PM
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They probably tried it, found out they don't like it and that's why they aren't doing that anymore. I think certain things look hot in theory, then I try them and they suck. So I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:05 PM
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Men are upset when the woman is easy but then also upset when she's not easy (for him). Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 11:10 AM
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Bro my 7 year old started reading kiddie Marvel and she said she wants to marry Loki rather than Thor because Loki is funnier and Thor is too muscular. Doesn't get more honest than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 10:46 PM
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Why does it need to involve comparing humans to dogs? Because the basic assumption is that men obviously ought to behave better than an animal, and some of them fckin aren't. The comparison is pretty apt when it comes to rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:58 AM
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It's probably lot more work than people assume. Just like other content creators. You gotta get the setup and edit the videos and photos and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:39 PM
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Also housewives have a life outside of the house. Office drama isn't some ultimate conversation topic. I'm more likely to talk with my husband about some news article I read or a curious situation I encountered on reddit. It gets a good convo started just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:43 AM
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This is bad strategy because women overall will be even more vary of opening to intimacy when they've been burned by lying assholes who pump and dump them. And there will be more barriers before he proved his commitment. Also good chunk of women don't engage in hookups and are only looking for relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:45 AM
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If the guy meets the standard for hookup he would know. Nobody is lying to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:32 AM
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But women who want and like casual sex are from my understanding not as demanding when it comes to hookups since they don't matter. Meaning the opposite of OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:59 PM
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Men will tell you to choose better because that is really the only thing you can influence. You can't do anything about other people you can only change your own behaviour. They are just trying to problem solve in typical male fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:39 PM
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Most men I see on the street look at least decent. More often than not if they look ugly it's because they are unkempt rather than something wrong with their face per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:03 PM
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I have a relationship that on the surface level for your average redditor would be like a whole ass red banner. But I am perfectly happy and have respectful amazing marriage. Circumstances and small things can change these dynamics a lot. Age gap relationships certainly have bigger potential to be unhealthy, but that doesn't make them so by default. People just like to label things black and white and fail to see nuance. Nothing new on the internet. The discourse is also dominated by Westerners …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:49 AM
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Tell that to the passport bros on YouTube that make videos about how to "score" traditional Ukrainian women and how to meet Ukrainian refugee chicks in EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:50 AM
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I am Slavic and I just think passport bros are dumb if they think we're somehow all these traditional docile little flowers that are in awe of the ~civilized Western man~
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:30 AM
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At the point this happened they were not even a couple anymore. Nonverbal can work just fine but you gotta have the other party reciprocate and escalate step by step, not take an elevator straight down and them act all surprised it's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:44 AM
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They weren't even dating at that point anymore making it extra weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:40 AM
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People are bad at measuring. It's safer to overestimate than underestimate. Most women have never experienced significant range difference. They're guessing from what they've heard/been told.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:46 AM
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Have you never seen the Slavic couple meme? I've seen this dynamic countless of times IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 08:32 AM
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It's not about mother figures once the baby is born. It's all the other developmental stuff that happens while the baby is inside of the mom. They know her voice, her smell, her heartbeat etc. It's good for their psychological well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:57 AM
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Having gestated two little humans I can't imagine artificial being any good for development of kids even if they could sustain them on biological level. There is so much other stuff that goes with pregnancy that is important for kids bond with their mom. The way the baby is lulled as she walks, the sound of her heartbeat, her voice and that's just the basics. You can't just stick fetus into a pod.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:41 PM
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Lol no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 09:45 AM
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That's not really an alternative. Might as well ask for the paternity test with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:19 PM
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You could say the same thing about cheating without kids. "If they knew they would have divorced and not shared further marital assets" yet we don't treat cheating like 'marital fraud'.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:08 PM
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If they are married then that money legally belongs to both of them. So we can't say the non-dad lost money on the kid when it was the "couple's money" in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:54 PM
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she would be thinking twice before lying about it And how are you going to prove that she willingly lied to him? It's not like women that are cheating are getting paternity tests to be sure that it is in fact the other guy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:40 PM
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Okay but this is supposed to be your LIFE partner. Who are you supposed to be trusting but them? And the Verification part is to done be BEFORE kids. People are shitty I don't blame men for being doubtful. But it's understandable their partner gets upset over this. And the notion that their partner is not supposed to be upset is what is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:17 AM
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I'm not saying there isn't paternal fraud. I'm just saying you better be darn sure before throwing that accusation towards your presumably life partner because it's relationship altering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 08:46 AM
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Maybe = Doubt = Distrust Woman is putting herself in extremely vulnerable state for you and what she gets is an accusation of being a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:39 AM
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She's not Virgin Mary. That baby had to get there somehow and if you doubt it's you then it had to be someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 06:24 AM
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You look cute but you are not particularly cold since your core is still covered. Also oversized clothes are in fashion those tend to fall off shoulders. I have normal hoodies that sometimes fall like that, and sometimes it's I'm too hot with, but too cold without so this is middle of the road solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:18 PM
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They get convicted they just get low sentencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:22 PM
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Lots of the cases where people are upset it ends up with some kind of probation. Even when it is pretty clear that rape happened or when it happened to a minor. We have a popular saying that you get stricter sentencing for drugs than rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:40 PM
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There are often medialised cases where the sentencing doesn't seem to make sense. In my country we have ridiculously light sentencing for rape and it's often in news as wtf. I just read this morning that a dude abused and broken 43 bones and caused a brain bleed of his newborn twins. Dude got 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:47 AM
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The United States should be the closest thing to a feminist utopia You guys have excessive maternal mortality no parental leave and exorbitant childcare costs. Just cause women can work like a guy doesn't mean their problems are addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:17 AM
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Child exists. Child needs stuff and to eat. Option A) state raises taxes and helps support the destitute child Option B) state makes the man responsible pay for the child Option C) let the kid starve, increase negative externalities of child poverty (cause everybody loves that right?) Most people, MEN included, don't want to pay for stranger's kids. So the state makes the guy pay. The woman is usually already paying so they just equalize it between the parents. If you don't want the child to exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:27 AM
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I mean if he's unhappy with his relationship with her? That's why people get divorce all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:14 PM
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Well cheating =/= getting laid in a bar. He can have a long term side piece. Apparently something like 20% of men are cheating on their wives, so it's not that much of a reach. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:23 PM
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Why is the average man getting less? If he's in a relationship he gets regular sex from the woman he presumably desires. Men in relationship are the ones having most sex, not the ones who do ONS. And relationship and companionship is also something desired by men, so it's not like some burden. If he needs to woo her well that's to compensate being less attractive. Because he scores lower on her threshold scale. You're asking what the woman brings but If the guy wants a specific woman idk why she…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:10 PM
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Because when you make people live in destitution and poverty they'll be incentivised to come to your home shoot you and take your stuff. We have welfare to minimize crime. You guys never heard about French revolution or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:52 AM
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Well you're not the first guy and you'll never will be so either you find other way to market yourself or you'll end up alone that's up to you. This is kinda like my 6 year old complaining she can't be competing on TV like the professional ice skaters do. They have something she doesn't and people want to see them. Tough shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:44 AM
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The guys usually don't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:48 AM
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Good looking men are offering their looks. It's an asset like any other. And we're talking about ONS not lifelong commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:32 AM
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These unfuckable men shouldn't be providing for another man kids, shouldn't be paying dates when these other guys have sex without nothing provided or efforts. They are free not to. They want to have access to women tho, which is why they do it. Like seriously nobody is forcing them. As I said those "other guys" do bring other benefits that make the risk acceptable. If men don't have those specific benefits then they need to bring other type of reward to balance the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:54 PM
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It's not bullshitting. The reward is simply better making the risk more acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:19 PM
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There's lower barrier for relationship. Many women wouldn't just sleep with someone (out of principle) but might be willing to try dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:52 PM
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Perhaps you were the most interesting thing around and he was killing time while waiting for something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:19 PM
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Well as bears have no morals they also don't care whether you are alive or dead as they are chewing on you. Death by bear can be potentially very slow and painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:54 AM
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Random man is not as likely to kill you as random bear. You MIGHT have shit luck and meet a murderer but 99 times it's just a dude minding his own forest business. You are comparing worst man to worst bear but the question is random man or random bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:50 PM
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That pushes the question hypothetical further than it was supposed to. That's why it's a leading question.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:42 PM
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I am aware of ugly things some men do. Dude is still more likely to just be mushrooming. Everybody be mushrooming in the woods. It's actually not that unusual to meet a random guy in the woods in these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:36 PM
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Well we have mean brown bears in Central Europe so that's a big flippin nope from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:30 PM
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The bear is a knee jerk reaction because most people never even encountered one meanwhile many have experience with unpleasant men. It's also kinda leading question because the comparison with bear itself makes you think the man is dangerous (since we're comparing him to a bear) So yeah my first thought IS bear. But really it should be a Man because it's probably just random clueless dude picking up mushrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:20 PM
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Old maids are not a new thing. There have always been plenty of "women like her".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:35 AM
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Usually most women just want a man that's taller than them. That's not such a high bar. 6 freedom units is a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:14 AM
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mean I watch countless crime doc videos where the parents (namely mother) recounted the time that their son was manipulated by the women and the son was blinded by love to see it. Of course mom's are gonna think it was the woman's fault because they are obviously biased towards their sons. Because they were ~perfect~ till she came along and then he stopped listening to mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:39 AM
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You can go fishing with your buddies any time you want mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:25 PM
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It's hard to be childfree when you feel compelled and want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:14 PM
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Support network doesn't need to be male only.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:08 PM
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Depends on where you are using it. It definitely is a relationship app in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:06 PM
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Because women tend to build support networks for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:36 AM
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Women on relationship apps are looking for relationships. More news at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:28 AM
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Well the road is bit different but the end result is the same. There are way too many men that will never be paired making women more desirable. What doesn't help is prevalent chaivinism that makes women opt out on top of that. Korea is having this problem big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:21 AM
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Isn't this basically happening in China already?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:43 AM
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Yes it leaves you in vulnerable position which is why you need to take precautions with your partner to mitigate the risk. If they want you home they should accommodate. If they don't want to accommodate then that's a red flag. For example in my country you need to work to be able to pay social security/pension fund. And we set up our taxes so that we pay for me too and it counts into my pension fund and potential other government support. But many people don't even think about that and then the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:00 PM
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Because falling in live with a friend and befriending someone you are smitten with are different things and people are recommending the former not the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:07 PM
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Maybe warrants a discussion on whether a storefront should have more ways to validate age than an honor system dropdown, but it's pretty unfair to target this game about it when it's something you could blame any adult game for. Yeaaaah it showed on my Steam storefront and that was weird... I don't even mind "forced" category, I just don't want porn on my Steampage when looking for videogames.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:13 AM
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It's very obvious from relationship conversations on Reddit in general that people are missing the key ingredient: Love It's not about transactions, or what people have to offer, or what they have in common. Love is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:56 AM
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I am become MILF.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:16 AM
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Dating app doesn't have to spend resources on registration the same way matchmaker has to on the interviews. Matchmaker has limited time for their clients, if they think other clients are more profitable they will skip the ones who have proven not to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 07:13 AM
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Bro just because I can't buy Porche doesn't mean I don't like my Hyundai.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:38 AM
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Women are not entitled to 9/10 prince and men are not entitled to 9/10 princesses. Just because there's only one Henry Cavill doesn't mean everybody else settled. They can be very much compatible happy partners. If meh men are not satisfied with the leftover pick of meh women then that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:04 AM
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Is there an unspoken rule about masculinity of umbrellas? I'm confused what's bad about the umbrellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 09:22 PM
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But the women were also within the walking distance. Now you have more women therefore more pair options that might be compatible and 10/100 is the same ratio but ultimately more chances than 1/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:09 PM
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Having more opportunity to cheat doesn't make you a cheater. It just allows cheaters to act on their moral failings. Plenty of ugly guys would cheat if they could. You even could argue they are insecure and would do so for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:13 PM
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Majority of men don't cheat. Being more attractive doesn't make you more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:07 PM
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I mean if I liked them why not? If we got into relationship I'd probably offer he could crash at my place. My husband semi-lived at my place when we were students. Homelessness looks very different in Europe, it's much harder to get to that point, so this is pretty weird measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:55 AM
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Maybe when you are 20 but those 9/10 guys get selected out of market pretty fast and most desirable "good guys" are not cheating fuckbois spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:35 AM
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Unexceptional men that didn't stand a chance before because the pool was smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:58 AM
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It doesn't have to be easy in absolute terms. It's probably easier for meh men than formerly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:56 AM
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Guys is it cheating if I let Garrus calibrate my Shepard?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:07 PM
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If my current relationship is "nothing special" then I don't see the point in that relationship and wouldn't mind swapping. If my relationship with this less attractive, less successful man IS special then I don't care about rich guy flirting with me. At most I'd indulge him in banter but why would I leave a guy I love and have amazing relationship with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:13 PM
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Office Siren is not attire appropriate for the office. The backlash is in big chunk because clueless influencers will get even more clueless people in trouble when they roll into work dressed like that and then get sacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 02:07 PM
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Because it's weird to have desire for age gap relationship. I have started an age gap relationship when I was a teen but there was no aim to be in age gap relationship from either side. We just hit it off and happened to be different age. Now we're married and at the point where the age gap is irrelevant. When you are an older dude purposely aiming for young girls with some dubious intentions of course people are gonna think it's creepy. At the same time there are plenty of women that like havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:48 PM
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Yup, fell in love with my husband when I was 16. And still feel that way 17 years later. It's that little squeeeee I get from time to time when I look at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:17 AM
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Sure. It's only their CHILD. Lots of people would die for them but dude can't spend some money. Out of court arrangements can be set up 50/50 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:09 PM
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I agree that this is an issue and it's unfair. I don't have a good solution tho because there are conflicting rights since parental obligation isn't towards the woman who made that decision but towards the child who is totally clueless and blameless. Imo paper abortion could be viable with sturdy enough social net, but that would mean paying more taxes which I am told is very unamerican. AFAIK many people don't even want to give kids free school lunches, let alone financially support kids in oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:54 PM
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I am European and out abortion debate is pretty much over. I also don't see how banning abortion actually helps the men as they lose the option to not become fathers that way. I don't think abortion hinges on 'becoming parent', both parties consent to that possibility at sex point, but on question of bodily autonomy. Women have that option because it directly relates to their health. You can't force a guy to give blood, even if they caused somebody an injury, say in a car accident. Yet people wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:28 PM
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Most men who pay CS consented to the child being born and left relationships after it was born. You can't just traumatize all these kids by being adopted out, that's way more harmful than having absent parent pay some money for the kid they created but abandoned. All these laws are to the benefit of the most vulnerable party, that being the child. There ale plenty of dads taking care of child with absent mothers, it would be similarly bizare to say they should adopt these kids rather than get ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:39 PM
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It’s not too late to learn to code. It is. As wife of CS engineer the market is fucked right now. But nevermind that, single parent has big constrains because of the child and can't be as picky with work. You gotta do send offs, pick ups, sick days and all the other little parenting things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:23 AM
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Normal people share them. I decide some stuff he decides some stuff. We check with each other when it's relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:20 AM
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Cause for a lot of people every little helps to pay the bills, obviously. Last I noticed single moms are not exactly known for swimming in expendable cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:27 PM
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Yeah, people keep talking about how "courts fuck over dads" but most custody arrangements are mediated outside of court and dads don't fight for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:13 PM
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It's not for "women" it's for the kids. And it's a compensation for not doing your part...for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:02 PM
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My traditional role doesn't have to be "submissive". That is actually pretty different from the rest of the things mentioned. I birth kids, I cook meals, I take care of the household. All those things are "something in return". Those things have value outside of me being submissive. Which I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:43 PM
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You can challenge that in court no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:02 AM
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Is there any reasonable assumption that unless the child lives in abhorrent conditions that they parent is not spending the child support money to cover the expenses? Like if it costs 600 a month and you chip in 100 they should have to track all of that adding even more mental load onto the parent that is already busy parenting? 99/100 times the CS is a drop in a bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:58 AM
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Child supports is justified unless it is spent on the needs of other people instead of your kids. Lack of transparency can be a problem. Considering that the parent spends money on child anyway (and way more than the support covers) this becomes non issue. Just because those specific 20bucks they got on child support covered something else doesn't mean they didn't spend 20bucks on the child and then some. Also parental labour. AFAIK most folks get child support amount that is pretty laughable co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:44 AM
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I don't think you know what bodily autonomy means. Nobody can harvest your body parts to use for another person use your insides as life support. No. Working isn't infringing on your bodily autonomy just because you use your body for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:42 AM
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That just makes situation worse for men who are then forced to become fathers anyway and don't get an opt out via mother. My argument isn't about parental rights anyway. It's about bodily autonomy and use of organs. You don't die or are physically harmed from paying money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:21 AM
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You don't get to consent to every single thing that happens to you. State still puts tons of obligations on you like taxes, licences or paperwork. That's just life happening to you. Even if state strips you of parental rights you will never cease to be a father. If guys don't want to pay child support they should advocate for better allocation of their taxes towards child benefits so that ther isn't need for them to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:25 AM
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Nobody is legally forcing you to do a job that causes you harm. And you do have a RIGHT to find a job that doesn't put your health at risk. You can quit your dangerous job at any time. Ain't that great? State can't even force you to donate blood, yet wants the same from women that act as a life support for fetuses. I agree it's not fair that guys are forced to become parents but this money-body comparison sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:49 AM
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That's just capitalism and taxes. Not bodily autonomy. Your money is not your body. And we all need to pay money for things we don't want. It's not the same as someone taping into your kidney.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:18 AM
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You can rescind consent to give up your organs at any point even right before the surgery even if the other party dies. Women shouldn't be forced to have their body and organs used as an incubator when you wouldn't force it in any other circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:10 PM
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Yeah the problem here is the overuse. It happens to all these buzzwords and eventually it does hurt real victims. Like anyone in age gap, even legal and consensual gets called groomer, predator and whatnot. I think it's fine to be cautious when it comes to power imbalance but it's dumb to automatically assume abuse and harm. Cause sometimes it works out just fine and it's insulting to be discrediting experiences of those people. I approached the older party as minor of legal age of consent. I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:00 PM
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Imagining a scenario and wanting to do an act are different things. Sure I can imagine killing someone, for example if they harmed my children. I don't want to hurt anyone tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:26 PM
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I mean. Aren't women told all the time to make better choices with their partners? "Should have picked better..."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:33 PM
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Pretty significant chunk of women get abortion because they don't want to be parent to MORE kids and they already are parent and don't want to grow their family more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:52 PM
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Why not? It's how we explain big chunk of why kids to gay couples are doing so well. Because those people put quite a lot of effort to have those kids they end up being better parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:50 AM
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If we are going to end domestic violence then we need to focus on the abusers more and figure out how to stop children from becoming abusers once they reach adulthood. We aren't going to end abuse because people are fallible. Lots of the time abusers aren't some moustache twirling masterminds who chose to be like this. Many are not doing it on purpose but because they lack empathy, emotional control and self awareness, it's just the only way they know how to act. You don't fix abusers by telling…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:39 AM
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She also seems to be only one among those people that's tied and gagged? Addig to the effect. If it was tied and gagged young man it would be pretty horrible too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:54 AM
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The bar wouldn't be on in the hell if he kicked her in her backside and left. Why should she improve when she doesn't have to and gets enabled? This is a thing for people in general not just women. U sure he's not a feeder? Cause 600lbs people do need enablers to get that big.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:50 AM
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I don't think it would be theoretically that bad as long as it's within the timeframe that women are allowed abortion. So that woman is not strung along past the point of no return and then abandoned. But your premise is wrong. Pro-abortion argument isn't that women should opt-out of parenthood, but that women should be able to opt-out from the process of pregnancy which is something taxing and dangerous for their health and they are not obliged to let another person (baby) to use their body/org…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:33 AM
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These questions are pretty dumb, particularly irrelevant for my case, and they don't actually quantify love in any way but sure I would take this weird ass love detector, I don't see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:06 PM
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Mandating test of presumed father does diddly all to identify the father if he turns out to be a dud. And you can't just have women randomly pointing fingers at dudes and mandate that those be tested if they don't consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:26 PM
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Medical procedures always require consent so there would have to be an opt out, which puts you back to square one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:21 PM
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Lobbying is just done differently at an EU level. Irregardless, you don't need to lobby at EU level, you can still do that at national level. And outside of France you usually don't have issue with ordering them. And in case of France it's in big part because of regulations in regards to handling DNA information. It's illegal in general not just for paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:02 PM
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I've never met a guy IRL who outright hated it. I've been dyeing my hair various colors for years and my husband approves. I don't do full hair tho, only front. It's bit more subtle than full mop of color. But apparently anything is cute as long as I have a fringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:33 PM
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Man apparently never launders his underwear I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:58 AM
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14 year olds are not getting radicalized by " economic conditions and general misandry" man. They don't even know anything yet are getting influenced by these grifters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:32 PM
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Because they've usually articulated those needs several times but he just didn't bother to remember for the 2+ years they're been together. Like why do some men need to be reminded to buy Christmas presents for their wives? Or can't remember anniversaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:06 AM
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It should apply to both. If disproportionate part of your population commits big chunk of crimes that means there is an issue within the group. You shouldn't be sexist or racist towards individuals but you should look into systematic reasons why it happens and how to make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:01 PM
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There is a difference between virgins making you horny and ascribing them mythical qualities of virtue as some superior women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:26 AM
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And where are all these eligible rich men? Like I'm looking at you guys from across the pond, but tons of young Americans seem to be struggling to afford their avocado toasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:59 PM
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Women can't decide to be a tradwife when most of US barely scrapes by on 2 incomes. Being stay at home mom is exhausting as it is, let alone with that added submissive bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:59 AM
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Mine asks me to bake him pies. I also bring him other small treats I think he would enjoy. It's the small things...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:24 AM
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I don't engage with RP much, but I do encounter this issue of big women in feminist and body positivity spaces. They absolutely complain about not getting dates because of their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:19 PM
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The average man seems to expect literally nothing from women other than their existence. I thought the main criteria for a woman are 'Don't be obese'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:36 PM
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That's just being early 20's thing. It's normal to be naive and foolish at that time. And then get jaded by your 30s'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:20 PM
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And raise kids with. So many men seem fine for dating and marriage and then I read the saddest stories on mom subs about them having to take care of 2 babies instead of 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:39 PM
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Well do you want women to lower their standards or no? You guys can't complain that women are not lowering their standards and then complain again when they do lower them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:09 PM
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My husband said we don't need curtains for the living room window. The moment I put them up he was impressed and said how nice it looks. Environment you live in can influence your mood quite a lot. Even if you don't realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:55 AM
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In Czechia the price ranges between 30-150 bucks per hour. According to surveys most are single moms. The prices might be more now after corona and inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:49 AM
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Niche of the niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:31 AM
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Using negative language =/= moral outrage You don't have to be so desperate for a gotcha. Plenty of men want some slim Stacy, hating on fat women, while they be looking like trolls themselves. And again they are free to have those standards. Nobody owes anyone love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:08 AM
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Yeah this moral outrage isn't for me. I'm not puritan like Americans I don't care about age gaps. Dude can have his creepy standards. If he can pull 19 year with daddy fetish she can date whomever. If he can't he will stay alone. Idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:54 AM
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Which just means those standards were neither unrealistic or delusional. If she can do it, it's realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:32 PM
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And if she finds someone then those standards weren't as delusional as ppl thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:10 PM
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If she's too entitled she's gonna fail in finding meaningful relationship. At the end of the day that is her problem. Or not if she's happier alone than in unwanted relationship. The impact on the men is an externality but that doesn't mean she should date people she doesn't want to for their sake. Like seriously why? To fix society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:45 PM
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People are free to have whatever standards they want tho. If a woman has too high standards so what? Only thing she's hurting is her own dating pool. She's gonna either meet her standards, lower them or stay alone. The men complaining about high standards are criticized because it sounds entitled. And why would you want to date such arrogant picky woman in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:27 PM
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People are free to have whatever standards they want tho. If a woman has too high standards so what? Only thing she's hurting is her own dating pool. She's gonna either meet her standards, lower them or stay alone. The men complaining about high standards are criticized because it sounds entitled. And why would you want to date such arrogant picky woman in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:27 PM
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Lots of the discourse around dating online sounds pretty toxic and transactional in general. Everybody talking about icks and flags and must have meanwhile Where is the love? Maybe the guy isn't exactly fitting the checklist, he still might be the one. I think lots of people that complain about being unable to find proper partner are undermining themselves. (That said stuff like basic hygiene isn't exactly 'high standards')
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:07 PM
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Can Americans please stop infantilising adolescents? It's really creepy when you talk about older teenagers as if they are 5 year olds. They are capable human beings and infantilising them is only doing harm where they never get appropriate 'training to be an adults' period. No wonder millennials think of themselves as little babies despite being 3fucking5.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:56 AM
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There has to be some point people gain full legal rights. I don’t disagree with 15 being the driving permit age It's interesting how very cultural this is. In my country it's reverse. You can bang whoever you want as soon as you are 15 (which is a big social milestone tied to getting an ID and partial criminal responsibility) But at the same time we wouldn't entrust them with cars and you can only drive from 18. And since it can be deadly driving sounds like much bigger deal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:24 PM
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It's shocking how it's only the attractive serial killers that women love, and not the unattractive ones I would hardly call Columbine shooters attractive yet Columbiners are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:09 PM
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The embryo develops a brain within the first month of conception, as well as a heart. It doesn't 'develop' a brain, it begins to develop one, process of which is ongoing through the pregnancy. Calling brain tube "brain" is like calling stump an arm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:37 PM
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The embryo has not emotional attachment to the mother it doesn't even have a brain. That's totally different to abandoning a person who thought of you as dad, built memories with you and is emotionally dependent on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:51 PM
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You don't need to pull 25 year old to have kids. My dad is overweight and half bald and definitely no casanova yet I have a half brother that's 26 years younger than me. Guys simply can have kids much older than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:08 PM
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Men can have kids whenever they are not on a timer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:51 AM
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Yeah if a guy started questioning me on my body count as if it mattered it would be pretty weird and probably a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:12 PM
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"Please take out the trash" "Sure I'll do it later when I'm finished with this." Doesn't. The delivery is not the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:40 AM
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I have no idea why, it's just common it is. Why is laundry usually done by women? For me it's pretty heavy. And I have thing about trash bags. Other people might have it split more evenly but my husband has only one housechore and that is trash. We have resolved it by now and he just stopped procrastinating taking it out. The issue WAS him procrastinating it and then forgetting about it and then procrastinating it again. But if the trashcan can't be closed then yeah that's not a different standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:39 AM
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Idk, it's just common it is. Why is laundry dedicated to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:13 AM
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Also, if it’s his chore, it’s up to him to decide when he needs to to get done, as his domain If full trash is preventing me from cooking and cleaning then it is my problem and I can't wait for him to just decide to do it whenever. If trash is so full I have nowhere to put potato peels it's stopping the whole pipeline. And no woman shouldn't just 'do it herself' when she has her own bulk of chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:10 AM
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If the job is divided as his job then the simple information that the gutters are full should suffice. Trash is common and much more urgent chore dedicated to men. If wife informs her guy that trash is full she shouldn't have to plead with him to also do his task. If she adds that it's urgent it also shouldn't take 2-3 business days. I doubt the husband asks her to do the laundry every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:39 PM
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Yet when women voice exactly what they want and need suddenly they are ~nagging~
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 09:51 AM
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But women don't just randomly periodically have their partners tested for STDs just cause they MIGHT have cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:24 AM
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And while he does deserve that the state isn't going to make testing mandatory because they don't care who the father is only who pays and provides stable home for the child. But the don't do it to protect women only their social security budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:21 AM
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The father can be dead or unknown. Same difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:09 AM
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The state doesn't care about womens fee fees. They just don't want to pay for fatherless child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:47 AM
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Maybe he should alleviate it with therapy rather than accusing their partner of cheating? (Personally idc, I'd do paternity test np, but I'm an edge case)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:43 AM
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These high numbers usually have selection bias. It's out of the tested kids. Not all kids born.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:41 AM
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However, in most cases paternity test usually happens after kids are somewhat grown like 3 or 4 years old By then it's too late. You usually have only limited time to dispute paternity and the child has bonded to father.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:39 AM
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Some people rekindle their relationship even after infidelity, so it's not that clear cut. I think woman is justified when she gets pissed over paternity test. But I agree with OP that breaking up a family is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:36 AM
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What's the point then? The baby didn't just appear out of thin air?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:33 AM
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The decision to demand a paternity test from the partner who gave you no reason to doubt them sounds pretty emotional to me. If there is 0 evidence and it's only based on insecurity that is emotional decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:06 AM
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Society can't assign you a girlfriend tho. Which is why people will offer alternative paths that are actually actionable. It's easier to join a hobby group as a first step. And if you increase your social network it's easier to find a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:05 AM
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I don't know if het fiction is the same cause I mostly read slash but so many fucking coffee shop fluffs I gotta filter them out. Danielle Steel is one of the most popular romance author and her heroes aren't exactly dark triad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:08 AM
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Guys be playing CoD all day yet too lazy to join an army. Why don't you want to shoot people irl Bob? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:27 PM
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Please don't say stress or kids are the reasons for a lack of sex. Kids are relentless and absolutely exhausting. When you put them down at 8pm most people just wanna eat dinner and Netflix and chill. This includes lots of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:48 AM
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Uhh no. It is absolutely an existential threat for them. There is too much history of Russia absolutely fucking up their neighbour's shit that you can't trust Russia and it's still better to either flee far away or fight against that threat. All of Easter Europe is living with that memory, we're not neutral about Russia as if it's any other bad guy invading. Even being ~liberated~ by them from Germans sucked ass. If Ukraine loses it's people are going to suffer a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:01 PM
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Ukrainian women do face lots of discrimination in Czechia. Maybe not from passport bros but we had multiple news stories about Ukrainian women beaten just for their nationality. We also have a ton of male Ukrainian refugees for one reason or another. And tons of Ukrainian women are willingly staying with their partners when those can't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:20 PM
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Considering the danger that the bear poses I always assumed malicious intent when it comes to the "man". Since it's supposed to be a comparison the danger aspect of the man kinda invites itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:06 PM
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Okay but which one will peel an orange for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:44 PM
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People really do give bad advice for all aspects of like. The if you're homeless just buy a house kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:10 PM
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Imo it's the domination factor. It's hot when the guy is in control. That said I tried it and it's a pass from me, didn't enjoy it irl. Also it's dangerous, so that's another thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:39 AM
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Bro CP isn't any random photo taken of shirtless child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:37 AM
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I don't get why people insist on this "things in common" thing so much. You don't have to have things in common. My husband likes nature vacations I prefer urban, he likes drones I like crochet, we even disagree on politics, the debates are half the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:10 AM
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And these women end up in unhappy marriages, chronically burned out from housework and kids and wondering why their husband is cheating with his "work wife" Just because some do that doesn't mean it's smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:02 AM
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Because a man has already been vetted by a different woman and is thus desirable because he is seen as a capable partner. He actually becomes less desirable over time if he strays because that defeats the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:20 AM
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Many couples these days find themselves childfree because they feel they can't afford kids rather than choice to not have them, so it's probably talking about those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:04 AM
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Bro played wow and didn't care about girls at all untill I approached him. That's not aiming for anything. As a 32 year old I can assure you that it's irrelevant either way as he's 10/10 husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:51 PM
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I don't think age gaps are inherently a problem if you find yourself in one. I pursued my husband when I was 16, he was 22. He agreed to date me, another 16 years later we're happily married and I feel like a won a true love lottery. If a guy is purposefully looking to date 18 year olds then that's kinda creepy because they are specifically aiming for naive young girls. And then you kinda gotta ask yourself to what purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:24 AM
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Because she prioritizes a long trip you can't afford over spending time with significant other. Like she can still pick a trip that she could go with her partner on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:51 PM
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How old are you to not have yet discovered that different people want different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:20 AM
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Most of US is fat af, not making 6 figures and and not 6ft. When you watch what women do and not what they say, their standards are not THAT high. My husband was neither when we started dating, still married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:32 AM
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All kinds of BS gets views. sometimes you don't watch things because they are good or agreeable, you just want to watch a trainwreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:24 AM
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Trauma comes from abusive relationships not from sleeping with 3 year older bf. Most of Europe has lower AoC laws than US and we're doing okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 07:00 PM
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The age of consent law in my country is for sex. Such as inserting penis into vagina. Which is a temporary activity and said penis will end up being removed resulting in no lasting change to the body. Unlike permanent things like tattoos. Which is why those are only allowed after reaching age of majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:36 PM
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No I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:03 PM
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Unlike penis, all of those are kinda more permanent. Kid's gotta ask their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:01 PM
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Your coworkers are dumb and I personally don't have anything about passport bros. That said abuse and exploitation of people as part of sex tourism in less developed countries is a real problem. For context, I'm from CZ and while it's a "pasport bro" destination, it's not really that much of a problem here. Local women will drink wimpy Westerners under the table and kick them in the balls if they are annoying. I will side eye you extra hard if you are here to misuse our age of consent laws and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:15 AM
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Ye, made available by pregnancy, a special ability that men don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:39 PM
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On the other side of that coin is the fact that It's extremely unethical to force woman to abort the pregnancy, because again this is an issue of bodily autonomy. Which easily trumps people's desire not to pay money for their kids. We have rights when it comes to our bodies that are way more inherent than the rights to our money. Which is why it's way worse crime if I stab you than if I steal some of your money. If the child exists then both parents are financially responsible for it. If a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:53 PM
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If that's where I make my choice, how come she can kill my child without my consent? She's sustaining the child with her organs. And we generally don't force people to sustain others with their organs even if it means death. Pregnancy is damaging to the body and women should not be forced to incur that damage on behalf of another person. We can't force dads to give kidney to their kids either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:27 PM
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Europe varies a lot. We have 22 weeks but only for medical purposes. Otherwise it's 12. Which is imo plenty of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:22 PM
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There is a difference between specifically aiming for 18 year olds and just happening to date someone younger tho. People shouldn't get shit and assumed to be an abuser just because they fell in love with someone different age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:12 AM
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Ah yeas America the land of free. Where you can drive deadly machines at 16. Shoot deadly machines at 18. Drink alcohol at 21. And fuck at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:01 AM
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Another thing that particularly funny about this 25 thing is berating like 21 year old for dating 17 year old, if our brain is so incompetent untill 25 why is the 21 year old suddenly expected to make good decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 06:46 AM
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Because most women don't interact with lesbians on daily basis and therefore don't have to worry about them and their issues. They don't care because it doesn't concern them. It's not a rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:46 PM
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Giving out fake number isn't even the first line of defense. AFAIK women do it when the guy is way too insistent and won't take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:32 PM
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The fake number is outlier too. Most women will still just say no. Also just because you don't get murdered doesn't mean the response isn't hostile like being called names or shouted at.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 08:09 PM
2

Rich people have prenups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:39 AM
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That's not how division of assets in marriage work in most countries. Both parties are entitled to MARITAL assets. Which are those gained DURING the marriage. You can marry cheaply if you want. Most people are not Elon Musk and their alimonies won't cover a 2 person household. Single moms work. And if all the dude is doing is paying alimony and not doing the work of parenting while the woman is taking care of the child she's worse off not him who skips all the actual childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:25 AM
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It doesn't have to be about the man slacking. We have 2 young kids and most days we're both totally wiped.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:21 PM
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After years of relationship even Chad needs to bathe. People can really put up with So much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:42 PM
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I get 12k. It ain't bad considering I'm staying at home and not economically active. Living standard will fall regardless since babies are gonna baby. And it definitely beats getting nothing and having to dish out my whole salary for daycare like they do in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:29 AM
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Stopped at 2 too. I thought we might have 3 initially but I'm already over the ducking sleep deprivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:15 PM
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Millennial lives won't be so much fun when the economy and pension system crumble under them from lacking next generation work force. People might not like the system but ~We live in a society~
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:12 PM
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The first one doesn't work. I live in a country where I get 3 years of paid parental leave, it's not amazing money but it's good enough. On top of that the employer has to guarantee you your job back during that time. People still don't have kids. The cost of living and housing crisis are really failing families at the moment but people still don't have that many kids regardless because your QOL will go down with kids, and you can't compensate that with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:06 AM
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Unfortunately for my husband he works from home so he can't escape me, only the kids. And I'm too busy with Baldur's Gate to nag him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 11:43 AM
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Got bad news for you. Even when you have a full time housewife that takes care of stuff as long as you have kids you should still engage and parent them so they actually grow up to be functioning human beings. Being home is opposite of relaxing, lol. My husband loves his chill time at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:16 AM
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Unless you are officially exclusive This seems to be pretty critical part of that sentence. Like until you are exclusive then you are not exclusive. Men get shamed for spinning plates when they are exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:23 AM
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Are women really shocked that their bf's watch porn? Like outside of Twitterati? I thought men watching porn was common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:24 PM
3

Russia is special ugly child in context of Europe but not globally. There are still many countries where this is normal today.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:37 PM
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women didn't necessarily have a choice Some did some didn't but my point was that it was not given right. And the OP said that women always had choice about pregnancy which is simply not true when you are obligated to fuck your husband and when being raped and impregnated could force you into marriage too since you lost your value without being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 08:16 PM
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Bro women back the olden days didn't have microwaves, washing machines and disposable diapers. Even when they were taking care of the household it was quite hard work. I washed laundry on washboard once and it's a whole ass workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:57 PM
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Serfdom in Austria-Hungary one of the big Empires od Europe was abolished in 1781. Untill then you were not even allowed to marry without the consent of your lord. And lots of those decision were based on who had farm land available and what the dowry was. Nobility were not only people to make marital decisions based upon economics. And if you were very poor oftentimes you would not be allowed to marry by the lord. Married people also had special status as opposed to the unmarried ones who were …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:32 PM
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What the f? That a joke? Martial rape has been legal till very recently. And women didn't necessarily have a choice when and who they married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:44 PM
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Also one person is totally plenty. I'm not even worried about fidelity. Apparently keeping his wife happy takes enough out of my husband's time and if he were to get a mistress he'd have no time for programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:19 AM
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These are probably the same type of girl that don't want their bf to play videogames or have life outside of their relationship. And they are ~toxic~ AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:19 PM
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Maybe, but that’s not what you’re arguing. She’s withholding sex as a form of punishment. But she isn't witholding sex in order to punish him. She's just pissed and therefore not in mood for sex anyway. Being angry with your partner isn't exactly setting up for romantic mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:58 PM
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Just because 50 Shades of Grey sold 150 million copies doesn't mean women get excited by the thought of a creepy billionaire guy prowling on a virginal college girl, okay? Am I supposed to assume that men actually want to join space marines and die for their space God-emperor? Like my husband reads whacky LitRPGs about farming and weird fantasy with mages sniffing gunpowder like crack but he just wants to be left alone and code. Women aren't really denying that their smut is objectifying, that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:28 PM
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This. When I go out drinking I ask my husband too, because there might be prior plans I was just unaware of, or maybe he's too tired to deal with the kids. When he goes out to fly his drones he asks and I tell him when we can carve time out of the weekend family schedule. Another factor is that men in relationships and particularly with kids just don't want to do these decisions because that's work and put the mental load on the woman. So yes she makes the decisions because he"doesn't care, what…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:55 PM
1

The ick is not real. It's exaggerated by social media, if the woman doesn't want you because of an 'ick' she didn't want you in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 10:52 AM
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Men: We're much more rational, we're not swayed by emotion and hormones. Also men: Gotta nut in bitches it's just my biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:23 AM
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I can't speak for the other two as I don't visit them but "Feminism" sub is only twice the size of PPD, it's not that big considering it's topic and lots of the users moved on from there so I wouldn't consider it major. There are other friendlier and more relevant subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:47 PM
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Even most feminists get banned from subs like r / feminism. They have been notoriously taken over by bad narrow minded actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:53 AM
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I am from socialist European country tho. And the fathers generally pay quite a pittance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:22 AM
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It's just the system being set up on the balance of risk/benefit to the patient when it comes to health results. It's not done on purpose with the birth control specifically, all medication is tested this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:21 PM
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That's because women have different risks associated with pregnancy therefore the way the tests are set up there is more benefit. Male "health" is not impacted by woman being pregnant therefore the medication has stricter requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:07 PM
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Eh, we have it pretty okay when it comes to welfare and have low child poverty but guys still have to pay child support. If you don't want to pay child support then take care of your kid? Problem is that when abortion happens then there is no child, but if it doesn't then the child exists and it has its own rights as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:05 PM
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It's 10-22 percent but those numbers are usually from babies that are tested (meaning there was doubt to begin with) not all babies. And the reason testing is banned in France is numerous and more to do with the way France criminalized handling and testing of genetic material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:57 PM
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they can also bail anytime they want. If they suddenly change their mind about pregnancy, they can drive to an abortion clinic Bro you can't change your mind and bail anytime you want when the baby is already out and you are 1 sleep deprived individual doing 2 full time jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:15 PM
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I was under the impression tinder and these kinds of dating apps in the US are still very much for hookups rather than searching for partner. In Czechia my impression is that people are usually looking for a more permanent partner so they are presenting as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:02 AM
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I mean. Why don't men at large not remember anniversaries even when the wife obviously cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:26 AM
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Just because you haven't been doesn't mean you won't be. It's called preemption. Just like you should preemptively build relationships so you don't get lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:28 PM
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There's literal research about pheromones and how they work in máte selection. The spark is just the guy smelling right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:17 PM
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Because women are gatekeepers of procreation and have only limited resources to do so, so they are looking for the best partner. Meanwhile men don't care because they can bang around to achieve procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:13 PM
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Depends on how and why they express those emotion. For example man crying after seeing their newborn child is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:38 AM
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Why? Kyle Rittenhouse isn't even remotely ugly. He's not some adonis but he looks ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:33 AM
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Yes but those are all advancements of civilisation, they don't override thousands of years of evolution underneath. Rationally the costs are not the same, but instincts acknowledge things like birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:37 PM
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If it's bad when you move in together then the relationship isn't that great in the first place. It just seems good because it's shallow and unchallenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:29 PM
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It does for women because they put themselves in vulnerable position with childrearing so they need stability with their 'provider' partner. Lots of choices women make are imo still instinctually based on the higher costs for women when it comes to mating. Leading to more careful selectiveness in regards to who they have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:25 PM
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This is just plain beauty privilege that concerns both ugly men and women. RP BP isn't going to do anything about it because relationships can't be forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:17 AM
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There aren't that many rich men to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:35 PM
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I kinda have this. My partner earns enough I'm currently on maternity and will probably stay at home. When women are saying that they "Are not his mom" it's usually because those men don't do the very basic life things that make her life harder. They don't put the plate in the dishwasher and leave it who knows where, they throw their clothes on the floor for her to pick up. Basically they are making her already big load of housework harder. I don't expect my husband to do the laundry, but I do e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:04 PM
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Well they don't help
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:22 AM
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The same reason you are at your kids football match even if you don't give shit about football. To support a loved one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:02 PM
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It only makes OP's point if you ignore everything else in the response. Do you think you can't love a woman if you aren't into make up and horses and knitting and whatever else she loves? That's dumb. I care about HIS hobbies, those being stocks, so I listen and offer my opinions but I don't care about stocks themselves without my husband attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:53 AM
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Well I don't particularly care about stocks. But I do care that my husband cares. He has this beautiful gleam in his eyes whether he talks about things he's excited about and I want to nurture and support him in that. I love listening to him being all giddy about stuff. And I honestly know fuck all about math so I don't get that part of stocks but I do like psychology so I took pretty active part in helping him with managing his trading psychology. Leaning into my strengths to support him. He's …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:12 AM
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they don't care about their hobbies or desires Me listening to my husband go on about stock market for the 5th time that day for the past 3 years I'd never listen to anyone else go on about candles and momentums all day every day bruh, this is love. I even look at graphs!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:12 AM
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Sometimes things just look great but don't fit in your interior. Could be incompatible lifestyle, values or maybe you just don't smell compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:35 PM
1

Then people would complain that they get no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:23 AM
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Ye this. It's pretty obvious that all the good men have been picked over and already taken by the time they are 40 they have families and everything. They are def not waiting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:09 AM
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Everything I hear about Cavill makes me think adorable nerdy puppy. He is super charming in The Man from UNCLE. I blame failures of Superman squarely on DC and Snyder ad they completely neutered anything interesting about the character.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:42 PM
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Ye, it's not that it's not necessary or completely unimportant. It's just that it's terribly overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:37 AM
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The bar is so low for women Well and who put that bar there?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:19 PM
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Women face higher risks in "mating" therefore they need to be pickier. Having high standards is not bad. And if your standards are unrealistic then only person it's hurting is yourself. So I don't really see a problem there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:42 PM
2

Idk. Baking a pie never fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:37 PM
0

I mean, 70% of Americans ARE fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:38 PM
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God forbid guys were bit active and didn't stuff their face with cheetos all day. It's not like guys lust for fatlard women either and women have much lower caloric needs so less room for error.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:26 PM
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PewDiePie is a basic bitch ass influencer and he's got muscles without being Olympic level swimmer. The truth is that women/people can't tell between normal muscles and sport muscles they just don't mean super buff bro and they don't want a tub of lard. https://www.reddit.com/r/pewdiepie/comments/1243x4c/has_pewdiepie_talked_about_what_his_current/ My hubby had very nice pecs with just super basic gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:02 PM
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Women are attracted to wide variety of men from top g to average. Most women are also not interested in casual sex but a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:49 PM
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If school shooters were predominantly women pretty sure they would be called that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:18 AM
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Something something Stacy fucks Becky cooks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:00 AM
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Because stable and harmonious relationships are not the kind of tea people talk about. You hear about one girl going back to douchebags and ignore the 9 boring functioning relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:55 PM
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Are you gonna lust for Becky that's a 6 the same as for Lucy that's a 9? Hot people get benefits that's just the way it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:49 PM
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I mean if all you care about is fucking bunch of psycho bitches then I guess so. The rest of us have normal relationships with normal nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:38 PM
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Ye, I understand the necessity because American urban design is something else. Cities that are not properly walkable are honestly something I can't really imagine. It's just the sex no, car yes attitude I find bizarre. It's the opposite here because cars are much more dangerous than penises. Europe goes hard and early with the sex ed, so with the expectations that girls are going to have sex we equip them as best we can so they can protect themselves. My dad pretty much assumed I was not virgin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:26 PM
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Because he's a good actor and most people don't give a shit about his "love life". Also he's a celebrity and therefore afforded more benevolence than normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:38 PM
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A) they misunderstand the 25 brain science thing B) Honestly I find it just awful and bad for mental health of adolescents how infantilised they are in the US. Teenagers will never be able to morph into adults if they are treated as kids. It's pretty common to expect some level of responsibility and reason at around age 15-16 in Europe. Which is where our attitudes towards AoC come from. Yet Americans bemoan how those are just little babies and then give them 2 tons of mental capable of killing …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:29 PM
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We are able to override nature via birth control and guns. Women have been physically weaker and vulnerable during pregnancy and birth for thousands of years. I don't think those instincts just go away in 50. At societal level we still follow gender roles remix. Women do most chores in relationships, men tend to be breadwinners, women take on nurturing roles, men on physically demanding ones etc. You are never going to see complete homogenity but the trends are still there in smaller and bigger …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:29 AM
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They are both providing services for each other. They are just different services. I am SHAM not because I'm incapable of providing for myself but because the utility of my skills is better used in homemaking and we don't need the extra cash. My husband doesn't see me as a dumb child but as a partner who is providing to our family something he can't. Ability, need, and want are not the same. Most women in the west are pretty self sufficient, if you don't want to date wannabe housewife just don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:24 PM
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Men are providers, women are caretakers. Just because the roles are different doesn't mean they as people are not equals. Your value as a person does not revolve around the money you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:57 PM
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I dare to say I'm conventionally attractive or at least okay but I have never been regularly approached by men. Idk I don't even get harassed so maybe it's just an aura.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:13 PM
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Those men have value to them therefore the sex is not 'free'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:13 AM
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Men are not obligated to date anyone they don't want either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:43 AM
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I mean. I got my husband to use moisturizer with SPF. That counts no? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:36 AM
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Ye, lots of guys here imagine EE women like these shy wallflowers. Meanwhile they can drink them under the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:32 PM
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Well that's not how government sees the money tho. All marital assets are considered comingled. And if you want to introduce similar tax reducing policy then it makes sense to set it up for the person that has the burden of childbearing AND most of childcare. Hungary already has tax cuts for families as a whole. This is on top of that so that women prioritize kids over career (which will additionaly burden them)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:25 PM
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Honestly US could just so with basic maternity leave at least. I live in CZ. Got 6 months of maternity and paid parental leave till my kids are 3 (available till 4 but imo unnecessary) All mom's here are basically SAHM for at least 3 years. After that there's state provided kindergarten available. (issue with space currently but that's on our stupid government these past 10 years) But it still brings disadvantages in future employment even if we try to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:22 PM
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Hungary is a good Christian country so they want kids people have as a married couple. And since you share finances as a married couple then it's benefit for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:15 PM
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If you lift and are educated you don't need to flee overseas to find a good partner. Sounds like some wild fantasies and fetishization.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:43 AM
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I am Czech and idk. Local women are pretty fierce and take no shit. Also Euro men are much more attractive than fatso Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:01 AM
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She's just gonna be thinner not more submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:12 PM
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"We have nothing in common" I find this notion utterly bizarre as I move in anime and videogame circles. My WoW guild members were of vastly different ages and I spent a lot of time chatting with them and we had regular guild meetups. I was like 17 at the time? Most of them had jobs and whatnot. I met my husband at an anime meet group and I was still in hs and he was uni student. We had shitton in common. So we decided to try dating ended up married 10 years later. That said I'm from Europe wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:04 PM
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Hemsworth is pretty household name when the topic of steroids in Hollywood is mentioned. His physique is not normal. Not to mention all the crazy shit lots of fitness folks do to look "peak" prior to photoshoots or competitions and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:37 PM
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They are not achieved by being "gym bro" tho. They are just achieved by going to gym (or other physical activity). Guys who go to gym are not same as 'gym bros' which is why you get the resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:27 PM
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They don't look like that in real life. That kind of physique is unsustainable and very unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:09 PM
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I remember my husband going to gym and he just went 3 times a week did his 1,5h set and other than protein shake didn't do anything special. Did he have Henry Cavill abs? Nope. Did he look great and had trouble fitting his pecs in his old shirt? Yup. The thing is. Since he has a desk job it was pretty much the bare minimum for having healthy physique. And imo that's what women appreciate over jacked dude bro. Problem is that social media is giving unrealistic image of what muscles look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:45 PM
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I get what you mean but at the same time it's not like many men were able to self determine their life during lots of the history either. For example in my country Serfdom Patent happened only in 1781 and until then the regular folks of Austria-Hungary had very little control over the larger aspects of their lives, both men and women. They couldn't freely move, get married or put their children to school etc. The patriarch was the Lord, not John the Potter from next door. US is very young countr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:23 PM
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Everyone's lives were shit just in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:50 AM
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You do realize that women regularly worked hard labor in the fields and then in factories? Most of history is not 50's America and most women were poor and had to work. Your carrots don't care about gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:41 AM
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It's not like it's only women that are mostly fat. The distribution of obese people is fairly even between the genders. So your chances probably remain consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:24 PM
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I've been with my SO for 15 years. Last week he burned out from overworking and stress. His brain straight up shut down, couldn't do anything with all the brain fog. We troubleshooted his feelings, health troubles, work life balance. I'm here to support him in whatever he needs, he's doing the same. No decrease in attraction. The threads on reddit suffer from self selection bias. Happy people that communicate with their partners properly won't respond to complain as often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:51 PM
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There's plenty of people who eat the same thing everyday. If it works for them it works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:48 PM
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Yes. But I'd want an STD test. Edit: Sex work is not illegal here, if that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:44 PM
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And everyone was laughing at how ridiculous she was being.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:59 PM
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Iiiiiii don't know about that. All the crazy fans thirsting over their fave actor or boy bands, heck there's even RPF fanfics with sportsmen. Ya know typical Tumblr user.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:55 PM
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I don't think the sexualization is as much of an issue as being rude as fuck about it. It's fine you find woman attractive just don't send her dick pics and call her whore for not appreciating them????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:51 PM
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r/Feminism is not really good representation of your regular feminist. Only thing they are liberal with is their bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:48 PM
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Ye this came to mind too. To her they are dating but to him they are not that serious (so he's single) Also the data above also shows that while the specific category of men is ~single~ it evens out across the age groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:51 PM
1

Don't people in marriages also have...you know...kids...the extreme drain on your energy and therefore libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:17 PM
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Situationship isn't really relevant when you want to settle down. If a guy doesn't want to settle down and only want to bang that's his perogative but then it's him lowering his changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 06:12 PM
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But many women do eventually pair up and they can't all do that with the same guy. So there's some other guy that she's banging now and he gets paired up as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:27 PM
4

Being toxic pos in LoL isn't s being competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:40 PM
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His character has lots of good themes around him. People who think he's boring just never read his comic books.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:34 PM
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state of conflict between nations I know my ass is big but not that big. There's much more IR theory that comes into play with cold wars. The term is not applicable to nonstate actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:09 AM
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A woman. I don't think women should insist men pay for dates. But it's not fair comparison to equal pay for equal job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:16 PM
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People doing same job should get equal pay. Man and woman on a date have different social roles ("jobs").
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:04 PM
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That's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:08 PM
2

I'm guessing you're a wombat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:43 PM
0

The most macho presenting men are deeply insecure. And if a good looking guy is shy that's considered adorable and more of a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:56 AM
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Today at 'men's dating standards are too low' Only way to fix it is to not date unstable bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:54 AM
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I never said they don't. I just said it's not universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:59 PM
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I have a friend who is pretty hot and gets dates and he's like 5'3-4 or something (shorter than me) My husband is 5'8 which is bellow average height here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:40 PM
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They do, but it's not universal thing. Short men are not all loveless. Personally I prefer short men over tall ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:34 PM
2

Most men in the West are also fat as hell. Yet they too end up with partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:12 PM
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You are not born incel dum dum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:13 PM
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Yeeee, that's what they all think. But Romania has been working their ass off cause they wanna into Schengen so they are not gonna be slacking on high profile international criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:38 PM
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I just wanted a cooler name thoooo. Idk it's not that bad, I take it more as a joining of clans into a new family unit. It's becoming more common for guys to take woman's name too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:29 PM
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He was arrested by Romanian special unit for organized crime. Those guys were involved with pretty significant high profile cases and don't fuck around. They were investigating him for months before the arrest. Dude is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:26 PM
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So he felt in love with a specific girl and chose to move across the world to be with her? People are not interchangeable, the women in the US are no good because they are not her, not because they are from the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:19 PM
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Not sure about this one but labia can change after birth. There can be some additional things hanging from your birth canal going whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:55 PM
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I think she should see a doctor for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:51 PM
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Chad pussy slayer. RIP Kitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:43 PM
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Bruh. There's no point making nuanced arguments for shitposts. Purge is there for people to have fun not to go full Peterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:09 PM
5

They had to eat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:48 AM
6

Bruh, hlodomor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:32 AM
6

They have only been expected to register since this October.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:30 AM
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There are lots of Ukrainian guys driving those SUV's around. It's not all women drinking cocktails.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:29 AM
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FEMEN is extremely fringe. But you don't have to have one extreme or another. Being traditional is not mutually exclusive with wanting less sexual exploitation (and sex tourism) or less religious bullshit shoved up your vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:28 AM
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Depends. Lots of Ukraine is safe-ish. My cleaning lady is going back to central Ukraine for Christmas (Jan 6) for a month. My friends co-worker stayed in Lviv with her fiance since he can't leave. Construction workers that did my flat pretty sure relocated here, not sure if they can go back and forth with work visa. But most are from Western Ukraine so it's whatever for them. Anyway, if they are refugees they can't stay in EU indefinitely, currently the protection is for 3 years. Lots of people …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:17 AM
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Well my dad is 5'5 and he made it. Even married twice. Women generally just want the guy to be taller than them they don't need to be WTC high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:52 AM
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Awww man, give poor Brendan a break. His life was stressful as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:48 AM
0

That blond ok sign guy is pretty cute. I doubt it's his looks that repel women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:43 AM
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That has zero reflection on female loyalty. I know guys in my social circle I COULD date but have no plans to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:25 AM
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But then they are just cute? Which is also good? Girls don't thirst for the K-pop idols because they are masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:18 AM
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My husband is 5'8. Super giant guys are a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:48 AM
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Men abandon their child. Wow such horrible mom!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:09 AM
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My husband is 5'8 there's hope for you yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:04 AM
0

That's because happy people don't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:54 PM
2

significantly larger than human penis So dragon dildos?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:54 PM
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Even if the kids stop you from doing those things it's only for like first 2 years. You still have the rest of your life when they don't hang on you like monkeys all day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:50 PM
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Why have a kid as a woman? Kids be cute. It's the big heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:46 PM
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There's shitton of popular influencers that are not trash. PewDiePie inspires lots of youth to lift and read all while not being a pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:37 PM
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He might not be average, but that boy don't look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:33 PM
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Ye they are. Also anything above 6' is too tall!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:13 PM
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Well the question I would pose is, would this privilege only apply to western white women? Cause Eastern European women are fetishized in very similar way. And face xenophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:49 PM
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People don't mock incels for being virgins they they mock them for being trash people. Being virgin is just symptom of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:00 AM
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For a bit I thought this was r/im14andthisisdeep.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:58 AM
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Unless she has an IQ of freezing water she knows what he meant. The friends thing is just a cop out cause she didn't want to outright reject him. (Assuming they are strangers meeting for a date, not preestablished friends where hang out assumption is normal unless specified it's romantic date but not what OP is talking about)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:27 PM
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People don't usually go on dates with friends. If they are on a date it's enough of an indication of interest. She just didn't like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:44 PM
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Mostly because they are still very dependent on men. Lol. Sure dream on with your fetish dreams. While EE women are very pretty indeed we aren't bunch of trophy wives. Communism shaped the countries to be much more egalitarian expecting women to pull as much weight as the guys. Majority on EE women are your regular working folks not the TLC golddiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:38 PM
2

Males have also lower chance of assured procreation, so more likely that your genetic information would end with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:41 PM
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It's a bad thing because he wants the woman to go through invasive and shitty procedure because he's a sexist. You find the gender in 2nd trimester, that's way too far along for casual abortion. It's not about the fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:34 PM
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Do you think ugly girls don't get told by their fathers they are their prettiest princesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 02:30 PM
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If you hookup once a week for a year that's 52 partners. Put like that it doesn't sound as that significant. Maybe person just wants sex every friday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:35 AM
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That's only because you are quite ridiculously assuming that they are sex striking against their pro-choice relationship partners rather than unknown stance rando hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:20 AM
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Well they can't exactly sex strike the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 09:27 PM
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The thing is. If you were aborted you wouldn't have been born to have that opinion. So the point is moot. Good to hear you're doing good now tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:14 AM
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It's only logical not to have sex when you don't want to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:38 AM
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It's not regulated in Canada but good luck finding a provider that would do the procedure after 24 week viability line. And 9 out of 10 abortions are done by week 12. Imo if at least those 12 weeks were guaranteed then there wouldn't be as much of an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:36 PM
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You didn’t cause the organ failure of the born child and donating an organ is unreasonable. You could. Let's say you cause an accident and they lose a kidney as a result. State still can't compel you to give up yours for them. And funny thing about donations, even if you consent to them, you can always change your mind and revoke that consent right up to the point of the actual procedure. That's how much state normally respects bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:27 PM
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Being alive is not the criteria here though. We have no qualms with killing things that have way more sentience. Your bacon has more feelings on the matter than a fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:03 PM
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You are creating one specifically for it's use and you are loaning it another one. Proces of which can lead to irreparable damage to your body or even death.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:46 PM
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It doesn't have a brain. It literally can't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:43 PM
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No? That would be weird? Like it would be pretty bad ass if he did, but it's not something I'd expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:37 PM
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My mom was very pretty up into her 50s so here's hoping those genes kick up. It depends on the woman, some just age more gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:34 PM
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Proactive. I like making my husband happy so I'm keep stepping up my cooking game and try to look cute. Stuff has been hard with kids and we have our routine we are happy with, but we encourage each other to do stuff we enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:32 PM
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Except they can quit that dangerous job. Can't quit that pregnancy now anymore can they.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:38 PM
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Rich IT guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:41 PM
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Depends. It's 12 weeks here for any reason, which I think is appropriate. And second trimester interruptions are for medical reasons and defects. 93% of abortions in the US are first trimester anyway so 12 weeks are sufficient. It is the hearbeat bills and low access to care that are bullshit. I'm pro-choice as they come, but disposing of fetus without brain and a viable healthy baby are not the same. When they can survive without uterus it's not really about bodily autonomy anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:49 AM
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But most people unable to access abortion through other means will be those of low socioeconomic standing, which will affect predominantly minorities. Ya really think conservatives want more black babies to replace them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:40 AM
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guys perspective though, nothing has changed If women will be less willing to have sex then that means less sex for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:20 AM
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Some damage from pregnancy in birth is permanent. It's not just about the discomfort during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:41 AM
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Ye but that's the thing. For women it's aestheticaly more important to be lean rather than gainz. Do I really need to keep pushing my limits if I'm achieving my goals? At least for me it's nah. Work smart not hard and all that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:49 PM
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I would assume most women don't care about the numbers. They want to achieve fitness but whether they lift 5 kilo weights or 8 kilo weights is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:23 PM
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Not all relationships work out. Imo people are more focused on this with successful people who are later able to get hotter gfs as if it's a switcheroo. But I would assume the original relationship would have fallen out either way and they got together with someone else. Plenty of people stick to their original partner, plenty of people leave the 'upgrade' partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:08 AM
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wanting things to go back to the way they were in the 1930s-50s They want to fight in wars and push women to work in factories? Do they not realize that "traditional" 50's housewife is a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:00 AM
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In Fatmurica? Yo kids so fat they already zeppelins at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:42 PM
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Dude mainstream society likes Squid Game and nobody thinks it's a great idea to murder people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 10:18 AM
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He said he faced constant rejection. That's what the people are basing their opinion that he has no game on. What makes you think it will suddenly be better? He has perfectly fine relationship, he even says his GF is great, breaking it up to get laid is stupid. Everybody in the sub is judging him because that is literally the point of the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:38 AM
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Tbh, if a woman in her 30's has problem with dates she probably had problem with dates in her 20's too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:41 AM
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Well the average IQ of an American is about 98 so I'm not really surprised that many are lacking said "ounce of brain"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:43 AM
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If you don't marry but live as married you will be common law married anyway. If you want to stay with that person forever you might as well get married. If the guy doesn't want to get married it just seems like he's one leg outta door already. That's not a strong commited relationship. The marriage is a symbolic gesture. Kids. I would never have kids without being married. That would just be dumb on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:21 AM
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That is literally the court case I'm referring to. There is no direct law that you have to have marital sex. No fine, no jail. At most she was deemed "at fault" for the divorce because of archaic interpretation but there is ultimately no difference whether you're at fault for divorce or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:44 PM
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from France who told me that in his country, by law sex is a marital duty. Which is bullshit in the first place lol. There is no law. There is a divorce case where a French woman lost and has been found "at fault" for the divorce in part because she failed at her 'marital duty' sex but that isn't the same as a law and the case is being brought to European Court of Human Rights because it's stupid in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:25 PM
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It still remains that most people that ask for sources aren't really interested in sources. It is infinitely faster to just fact check google it yourself than ask for a source if you are actually invested in the question at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:23 PM
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Which is why if she rejects you you should do the sensible think of leaving her alone. Women shouldn't have to run away from random suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:32 PM
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If you want to approach random women then bars or coffee shops would be more appropriate cause at least she's chilling there and not on her way somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 06:17 PM
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In our local restaurant they have dish called my wife is on a diet and not hungry. It's extra portion of chicken strips and fries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 01:15 AM
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With standardized EQ test. How well you read people and would behave in certain situations. You could just Google them ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:48 AM
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No, women have places to be at, usually they don't wanna talk to randos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:35 PM
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You can test for EQ or emotional intelligence so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 06:33 PM
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So women get bitched at for not vetting the guy but when they realize that's a bad idea and then they vet the guy it's wrong too, ok lol. And tbh I didn't. And I wouldn't. But if it bothers the guy so much it's would be deal breaker anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 05:40 PM
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99% of the time especially with online dating they have no way of knowing how fast she fucked the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:32 AM
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This has often been noted as a demographic trend in Europe that's gonna fck us up eventually. It's not some wild news.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:04 PM
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Maybe you need to spend less time on Kerbal then. /s No but really, most programmers in my peer group are married, including my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:50 PM
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vet the guys properly personality wise But then they get bitched at that they are ~withholding sex~ until they 'vet' the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:37 PM
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Women don't want nice doormat simps. They want chivalrous knights. That's the type of sweet kind man that will fuck up a dragon for them that they mean. Basically they want Doctor Mike.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:18 AM
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That just selection bias. People that are happy are less likely to participate. I don't even know any "chad asshole" and the couples in my peer group are full of sweet guys even if they are not an epitome of romance (like they don't buy random flowers or whatever)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:03 AM
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2020 must have killed many marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 07:33 PM
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Well, there are such a thing as hand jobs. Cool, men have hands then. Go for it. Woman after birth or C-section has hard time even going to the toilet, sitting or bending and guys expect her to please them. Ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:40 AM
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There is jo law saying you have to pay your wife money. If you mean child support then that's for the child, and woefully inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:32 AM
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It's 3:44 AM as I am reading this while breastfeeding my infant. This stuff is seriously exhausting and last thing on my mind is wohoo time. I just want to sleep as much as possible. Which is not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:49 AM
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Going by my peer group I find 80% of them attractive rather than other way around. It's bunch of IT geeks. I'm sure normal populace is similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 12:09 PM
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Now take the guy on the left and have his photo taken by the same person as on the right. The poor guy's selfie isn't even focused right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:48 AM
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She looks more attractive cause she's smiling. Dude looks ok. His face looks bit too long for my taste. I would like to see a better photo where he's smiling. Either way he's dateable. But my husband's resting bitch face is about this level imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:03 AM
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Dating apps have more men than women so women can be picky since there is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:34 AM
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Any man with an IQ above room temp And here I was thinking that IQ of 30 is tad low. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:12 AM
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It's not necessarily a double standard because women don't care about not being the best lay of your life. She is the one who got the man in the end so she's winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:08 AM
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What's with this hate on Prius? Toyota Prius is absolutely stunning. I want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:03 AM
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The whole red pill is mostly bitching about how women not wanting to have sex with these guys is societal issue. That's why we are on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 09:30 PM
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Wouldn't touch that with 10ft pole. I doubt that's a wet dream of many attractive UMC women, only trash hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:39 AM
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The actual alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:07 AM
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You can be crazy about someone sexually and then hit a slump. After 15 years of relationship the energy is just not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 09:06 AM
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Well, where's the lie tho. If he's getting some, and they enjoy each other is it really a loss for him that she's not 'thirsting' for him like she would for Chris Hemsworth? Also I can't imagine a guy being an ~Alpha~ when he's socially quite a looser/broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 06:38 AM
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Why would they know that? My parents assumed I was sleeping with my BF long before we actually did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:34 AM
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How tf would they even know that info tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:30 AM
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Because eventually the girls you have fwb with will leave you for the husband. Humans in general crave emotional intimacy. Even men want someone to share their life with. Cause otherwise they end up old and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 12:07 PM
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It is called 80/20 rule because of Pareto principle. The actual numbers aren't as relevant as they are fluid over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 10:01 AM
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You can't be best at everything. The past partners are bound to be better at something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 07:49 AM
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I am a SAHM and for the past several years my husband has had literally ONE permanent chore. Just take out the trash. Still waiting for the time when he doesn't need several reminders. Men probably self sustain off nagging or smt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:21 AM
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Most of the complaints I hear are the minor stuff. Like she doesn't need him to clean the counters. Just don't leave bloody marmelade smudges on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:52 PM
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The funniest thing is that my husband considers all the stuff I buy useless but then appreciates the result with 90% of those things. I bought etagere for our fruit on the kitchen isle. He saw it and said: "This is the most useless thing ever. Why did you buy it?" "Because you never notice the stuff in the fridge. It's going to be useful cause you'll have it right infront of you." "No this is super useless." "You can tell me I told you so if you won't use it." A week later he admitted it was an …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:45 PM
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I think one part is cleaning and the other is small stuff that makes the upkeep harder for the other party. Say you clean the shower glass but then the guy will not use the squeegee for the 1 minute and thus you need to clean the shower glass more often with more effort. Or they hoard dishes, leave clothes on the floor instead of laundry basket, don't use coaster so you gotta clean the water marks...again. It's not like you want them to do the dishes/laundry/wiping, just help a bit with the prer…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:17 PM
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In all fairness I am absolutely positive he is not malicious or doing this stuff on purpose. He took very good care of me and the baby. And I absolutely believe that he didn't notice because I know his spacial awareness is shit be it cleaning or video games (I literally have to help him find super obvious stuff in video games sometimes) I just find it baffling how he could not notice and then be annoyed cause 'I was supposed to tell him'. It's such weird excuse when they're just embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:43 PM
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Vaccuming once a week is not deep cleaning man. Especially later on when you have kids. I'm getting a bloody roomba just cause my floor is a mess after 3 days with kid now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:13 PM
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And meanwhile I have nowhere to put foodscraps and all my pans are in the dishwasher. I guess I can't make lunch now. ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:54 PM
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I don't think it's subjective whether trash can be closed or no. Whether laundry basket is full or not, or whether soap dispenser has more soap or no. Dishwasher finished, it needs to be taken out so you can put new stuff in. That's an objective fact. Some chores are binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 08:43 AM
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My husband took over basic cleaning during my postpartum and he let some green stuff grow in our sink drain. Apparently I didn't tell him that the WHOLE sink needs to be cleaned. How even was he supposed to know!? Lol. C'mon, there's 'it's not sparkly clean' level and then there's 'building a new form of life'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:15 AM
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You know there's a whole meme about attractiveness of Benedict Buttnerhopscotch with some people saying he's super attractive and some comparing him to a terrifying mangled alien. I think only universal rule out there is don't be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:29 PM
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Not who you asked but my husband started lifting because he didn't want to be potato not really for my benefit. He wanted to be stronger and more fit not more attractive. I did appreciate the toned chest and arms and stuff. He did look better but not by a significant margin. He's back to potato after an injury. RIP hot chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:26 PM
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Ye, I don't see why career and LTR would be incompatible. Your marriage has much larger chance of succeeding if you're already been with the person for some time. When you are in your 30's you are rushing into building family so you marry fast and have kids fast. That doesn't sound wise. Sure I married in my 20's, but it was after 10 years of LTR. 2 years, which is common for older couples, seems like such a short time when you are supposed to spend the rest of your life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 09:08 PM
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Maybe that might be the big mismatch here. From what I read here most women on this sub would say they are married to kind men and are more LTR oriented. And we are not the demo a frustrated college guy who's looking for ONS or a Squeeze matches with relationship goal wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:09 PM
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Since when are husbandos best GIRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:02 PM
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Is this not a sub for jaded old men? :D I was thinking of stuff that would fit into age group of guys who watched it while young(15+) and who are having troubles in dating pool today (30+) Idk it's not like harem anime changed THAT much and there's still dime a dozen of them. Specific titles are irrelevant. Don't matter whether it's School Days or In Another World with my Smartphone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:31 PM
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Women absolutely do have husbandos. You just dont know about it because you’ve never interacted with the subculture Me: Is literally yaoi fangirl for the past 15 years. >____> Uh, sure man. Keep yapping in your little corner. Maybe re-watch those Re:Zero episodes where Emilia kicks Subaru away because and he his little brain has a meltdown cause he feels entitled to her because he was sooooo nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:15 PM
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Just because you don't like them or are too young to know how influential they were doesn't mean they are not staple of the genre. Or which is the main point, that their target demographic of those romcoms is indeed MALE. There's miles of difference between Love Hina and something like Ouran. Clannad is a classic. Made for men. Based on a VN. Made for MEN. Just like shitton of harem anime. That GUYS watch. Women don't argue over mother flipping 'best girl'. Re:Zero, which most people would go fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:49 PM
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Shield Hero came out super recently, it's good and popular but it's not something I would qualify as most popular, it's also deconstructing the tropes somewhat so it's atypical of the norm. And Konosuba IS poking fun of the best girl waifu thing. The most popular isekai is Sword Art Online with it's bajilion series. Back in the day stuff like Love Hina, Onegai Teacher, heck mother flipping Clannad were 'guys anime'. If you dont watch anime, why even talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:15 PM
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Considering young guys are the main demographic of harem genre I'd take a wild guess that a lot of them watch it. Every isekai has harem included too. And the hero gets the girl in male oriented shows is basically the same thing. Case in point Peter Parker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:56 PM
3

Here we don't say 'I love you' we say "Yes dear you can buy Prusa 3D printer." and I think that's beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 09:58 AM
3

women don’t want to date men whose only hobbies are video games, listening to music, going on the computer Phew I was worried there for a bit, thank god my man also builds drones....oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:45 AM
1

Our short asses solved this by only having daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 05:41 AM
4

Yeee shorter than me and taller than me is the only measurement I've ever seen anyone care about. My BIL is 6 foot and he's like, too tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 11:34 AM
7

don´t you have a libido yourself? Having a libido and having a libido comparable to a man is different. From what I hear about from some of my friends men want their wohoo time much more often. So women are obviously oversaturated. You can like sex and not feel like having it. You can have some hormonal shifts that switch you from wow amazing to okay whatever. All completely within norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:12 PM
4

My BIL is kinda like that. He seems to not want to bother with mating since he has his calm and quiet and he can read all the history books and play world of tanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 10:49 AM
1

You can't cook and clean when in zoo. It takes them about 3 minutes to be entertained by drawing a picture after which they want to do stuff with you so you can't clean or cook properly even if you get them to help and they obviously should not be watching Disney chanel for hours. My husband WFHs so he knows how our day is every day and he'd much rather work and tells me so regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 06:05 PM
1

Cleaning is easy, I enjoy cooking, and fucking is rather obviously going to be fine. Fun. Now add a toddler or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 05:11 PM
5

And which of those is Bezos lacking? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:36 PM
7

There is a whole phenomenon call foodie dates where a lot of women do this. Wow this is weird. I didn't hear about it over here. I know some women might give a guy a chance if he's persistent but it is normal to just say no to a date. But pretty sure dinner dates also aren't a norm for a first date here unless you know the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:50 PM
4

Was tough Bruce Willis considered a heartthrob in comparison to petty boy Hugh Grant tho? Out of lanky Tom Hiddleston vs buff Chris Hemsworth it is Loki who is more popular in female fandom. (Of course they swoon for both but Hiddleston is deff more of a soyboy out of the two yet gets more thirst)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:38 PM
6

ofcorase women dont want an old man Sean Connery and George Clooney tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:34 PM
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Is it the same women tho? Most women that are casual about sex will be casual with any guy taking them out too. While the ones that make the guy wait make all the guys wait and want to get to know someone better before banging. Not just virgins. The assumption that all women will bang Chad on first date are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:18 PM
0

If you have to tell the guy to buy you flowers then the flowers are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 01:22 PM
1

Especially if they expect sex. Yeee nothing gets you hot as full stomach that is splooching with every thrust. Thanks but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 04:39 AM
1

I don't think the approach itself in any of those cases is bad. It's how you deal with rejection. If she's obviously not interested in talking to you then just go on your merry way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 09:17 PM
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This. I can fully appreciate a hot guy. But I wouldn't jump to bed with Tom Hiddleston right away. I find the idea being touched by someone I don't really know that well even if they are very attractive really icky. I also see no point dating someone without intention of longer relationship, so there's no rush for the maid cosplay from my side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 04:56 PM
1

Ye, but lots of people don't have that luxury as far as I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:45 PM
1

They take those naps while most people are at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 08:17 PM
1

Ye, he does know I mention him on reddit. I read him reddit threads I post to from time to time. He does not particularly care. Especially not about reddit. I do think he is pretty, but saying he's not super stud is an objective fact he would agree with. I am not some super hottie either. Edit: I mentioned this convo he said he doesn't give a flip about randos on the Internet and kept building his drone. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:00 PM
1

He has a mirror and a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 03:46 PM
1

I mean my husband ain't Chris Hemsworth but doesn't mean he's outright ugly. But I wouldn't say he's super stud either. Imo it's to emphasise that they would rather have less attractive guy with good personality than Chad with bad personality. At least I would. Chad isn't gonna last as Chad forever, just like my prettiness is gonna fade but I hope but man would still be into me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:32 PM
8

Do boys between ages 10-14 get pregnant now or is there something I missed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:48 AM
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I have a second child on the way but if I was an expat in US I might skip on kids too. You pay to give birth? You get no maternity or parental leave? No child care? And you have to pay for them to go to Uni? Like what kind of hell hole is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 09:54 AM
1

You are looking at it in meaning of what he can provide instead of it what his unemployment status says about his character. If a guy is long term unemployed it's not so much about the money as about the fact that he seems unreliable and unstable. Those are pretty bad traits for partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:51 AM
1

Can confirm. My husband gets immediate hotness boost the moment he just touches piano.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:41 AM
2

Pretty sure women in his age group aren't the same as the Kpop stans looking for cute Asians in their area.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:34 AM
1

Broke students grow up to be stable adults. And with that comes financial disparity as they start their respective fields. Many women also sacrifice part of their career to take care of children. Personally we both started broke. Then I became a housewife while my husband is programmer, even if I worked my earning would dwarfed by him, so that disparity is clear. I think many women make mistake by not having any backdoor though, while we discussed and made plans so I could feel more secure with …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:29 PM
1

This is why I keep my husband locked away in his tower with his PC. Can't spare time for any mistresses when you spend it all programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:19 PM
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Ye, 3 hours in the gym means he's not spending any time on me :'D No wonder she then runs to the caring guy with dad bod.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 05:35 AM
3

How did you miss romance novels until now lol? All of those movies adapted from Danielle Steel? :D Women and girls of all kinds read them honestly. It ranges from teens to your mom's age group. I prefer slash fanfics myself but that's still romance I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 05:46 AM
14

Ye this. Gay people aren't all hot studs. Just because it's easy to hook up as MLM doesn't mean everyone in that group gets those hook ups. Also demand might be bigger than supply sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:27 PM
2

Aggressive behaviour can be a sign of male depression. Maybe everyone is going bonkers from all the social isolation. At the same time, wow such pigs. That is honestly disgusting. Like no man I'm dry as Sahara desert from that comment alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:50 AM
2

That's literally the end point of nihilism. ;
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:16 AM
1

Maybe if they want kids? While you can have kids after 30 you have higher risk pregnancies and defects so maybe there's some avoidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 07:04 AM
11

Andrea Dworkin was an extreme whacko.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 04:32 PM
10

Rubens does not represent all of renesance. When you look at his contemporaries it's fit women all over. If you wanna look at idealized beauty over the ages you just gotta check the Venus paintings, as she was pretty much the ideal of female beauty. (And no Paleolitic "Venus" statuettes are not representation of obese women)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 04:30 PM
5

I already pay YouTube premium even though it's perfectly usable free :D Tinder ain't that different if I had a lot of use for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 07:14 PM
5

I would pay for it if I was using Tinder regularly. Don't want to end up on a date with a psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:32 PM
2

In my country employer can legally demand criminal record registry only when relevant to the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 05:29 PM
11

Well one of the reason that comes to mind is that many times that violence itself is not gendered for men. When you get mugged and shot by another man he didn't target you for your gender. When you get kidnapped, raped and murdered as a woman the guy kind of did. People don't really warn women about muggers and whatnot because of the mugging itself, but more because of the risk of sexual violence. And women on women crime is pretty rare. While male on male crime is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 06:35 AM
1

It's not unpleasant it's just boring and we'd both prefer to spend our time more productively. I go through times of high and low want. Completely random. I wish I would be more into it but I'm just not. I won't necessarily say no. But usually if I don't remind my husband he'll just keep programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:39 PM
3

My husband does not even like superheroes. Now I feel silly collecting the whole Batfamily figure set that serves no procreation purpose! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 10:21 PM
1

Yet, people hate salads and vegetables these days. Because easy palatable processed food is accessible even when it's worse for them. Quite a lot of people these days are fat yet malnourished.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:14 PM
1

I can eat a shitty McDonald's burger just to survive yet I'd much prefer the one from hipster burger place with 5 times the price. It's pleasure not survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 07:01 PM
1

No. And for sure no with people smarter than your average Joe. The whole premise sounds really wrong. Procreation is pretty important to your "success" as a human species but as we evolved there are many things from survival to self realisation that are just as important. Did I learn to cook to attract a man? No not really, I just like to eat good food. And the man wanted me anyway, so why would I put in the effort in cooking for the sake of procreation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:57 PM
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Ye, it's the typical "Men don't talk about their feelings" issue. It's pretty hard to work on a relationship when you are not willing to talk about the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 06:40 AM
4

Income is irrelevant when things cost alot. Our household has okay income by US standards but stuff is cheap so we're pretty well off here. Sometimes dollar can buy you wastly different stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:39 AM
3

Honestly I don't have super high opinion of Americans in general be they men or women. The whole culture is just way too off for me, somehow less genuine. The way people talk about relationships and dating online is just off putting. It's probably not that bad IRL. But at the same time I come from country of no fucks given. So it's just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:35 AM
4

So their GFs didn't really love them anyway. And they were desperate and got married for all the wrong reasons. Not surprising that didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:44 AM
1

There are many happily monogamous couples and I don't think an open relationship needs to be an option for many if not most people. My husband says all the time that if he had any spare time for a mistress he would spend it on stonks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:47 PM
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Yup, there's a good reason why monogamy is the predominant system in majority of successful civilizations. Even in polygamic societies like with Arabs you have men dedicating their resources to few selected women, and they are obligated to treat them equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:43 PM
7

Bill Gates is probably the most successful man in the world and he's been with Melinda for 33 years. Each celeb is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:41 PM
2

Idk man, the difference between my husband before and after a haircut and shave is quite big. With his overgrown hair he looks pretty shaggy, but looks much sleeker after. And he does not have a lot of hair in the first place. A huge chunk of my guy friends had a Oh wow effect when they started grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:37 PM
2

Then get a haircut that's flattering for your face shape? If hair didn't matter then guys wouldn't be so bothered by baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:17 PM
2

Nobody's asking you to paint your nails. Lots of male grooming helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:13 PM
0

People have been shaming whores for thousands of years. It obviously doesn't work. The 'whores' as you put it are not the issue. The resulting cycle of suboptimal citizens is. Resulting poverty is not beneficial for society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:39 PM
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Yes, and the state has to pay for it losing taxpayer money and losing future taxpayer money on the less stable kids. It's not in the state's best interest. Which is why it's not happening. I'm not making a morality based argument here, just practical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:40 PM
2

You would need to resolve the issue of financial abortion within the time window of the abortion terms. It would be pretty harmful if you have guys stringing woman along beyond the abortion deadline and then bailed without any responsibility. At the same time you would need for woman to inform the guy within the same window.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:36 PM
2

The problem with the deterrent is it might not be very effective creating more negative externalities along the way. It's the same with the mandatory paternity test. It's good morally, but ultimately it just creates single family household whose kids do worse meaning worse results from future taxpayers and more strain on the social system.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:14 PM
2

Lol gal, I'm a SAHM from Czechia and I seriously doubt that. Women here are loose as heck. Feminism was part of the whole post-war Communism package. Where all women were required to work and everyone had equally shitty life. You don't need to be cray cray SJW. Other EE women are no exception. At least from the amount of 'teen' Russian porn, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:29 PM
2

I have married my first boyfriend. I was his first partner too. I was 16 when we started dating and we're still together 12 years later. Engaged after 8 married after 10. We have the cutest 1 year old and it all just works. I am not really tempted to look elsewhere. So it can work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 08:45 AM
3

This is why I don't wear make up. When people are used to my normal face I look prettier with makeup. But if they are used to makeup face then I look horrible without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:05 AM
1

Hmm, let's flip it tho. Many men are outright repulsed by obese women yet they don't go for the change and keep overconsuming. It's probably the effort necessary that influences this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 11:02 AM
1

Even the creepy poke your eyes crazy sharp nails? Cause those things look like bloody talons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:56 AM
2

That was not really a high priority for a high school me tho. Good thing in my case!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:26 PM
2

Depends on the guy really. My husband is an IT guy and I was his first girlfriend (at 16, over age of consent). Apparently he didn't really care about girls over gaming till 22ish. Thus age gap... I think he was just pretty immature for his age and I was more mature for my age. We met at local anime group so that says alot imo :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 02:23 PM
4

It's very loud silence cause I run around toddler all day, having no time for news, and I heard about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 09:02 PM
2

I betcha Johnny Depp's Tumblr fanclub is more active in backing him and spreading the word than any of the guys bading together against this bs he's gone through. Idk why they always outrage against Nay things but no push for Yay things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:57 PM
8

Macarons. His favorite flavors. I got flowers yo!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 02:53 PM
2

You must have paternity leave for either parent no? In Czechia my husband could have my 6 months of paternity leave if he wanted. Heck he could have the 3 years parental leave too. It's just that only one parent gets the leave so usually women take it. Cause boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:55 PM
3

Git gud.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:01 PM
12

Women aren't as obvious about their non normie status so they just can't tell. I look just like regular mom to anyone seeing me on the street. They can't tell I'm really into comics, video games, anime and crochet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:57 PM
1

There's plenty of geeky girls that are not fat. They just aren't American/British.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:46 PM
3

She can't starve her kids and not have them taken away. Groceries go way up with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:58 PM
1

Yet many men don't. And I find the argument that they wouldn't even try because they think court favours women dubious. It's their kid, if they cared and loved them they would fight for them. If the court does actually screw them over then fuck that unfair noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:55 PM
1

They are overtaken because many stop their careers to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:52 PM
8

It works like that in my country. My old hairdresser had her ex-husband do that, he wanted 50% custody so he wouldn't have to pay CS. It lasted few months till he noped out and pays now. Cause taking care of his own son was too much work and not enough fun I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:49 PM
2

Maybe you just have way too many single parent households.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:46 PM
2

After 12 years together my husband just keeps geting cuter and cuter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 10:27 PM
1

You can be both feminist (in the strictest term not the rainbow haired crazy SJW) and want equality overall and still be "traditional woman" that takes care of kids and home and embraces the feminine. Acknowledging the systems of gender roles does not really necessitates going against the gender norms as long as the woman enjoys it and chooses it. Unless you mean full blown tradcon in that case good luck lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 09:35 PM
1

No, not right. Women are not immune to idiocy. They certainly don't do it because it's oh so great idea. They usually have no other (less miserable) choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 09:54 PM
1

Are you guys seriously missing the point that taking care of kids alone is not fun? I could get millions and I wouldn't wanna do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 08:43 PM
7

No. Chadvengers just make good examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:53 AM
2

I think he's OK? He is attractive in general but I don't get the hype.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:38 AM
3

And she's gonna chub down over time if she doesn't lay down the pumpkin latte loosing all the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:21 AM
8

Chris Hemsworth is just the purest Chadiest Chad out there. But that don't make RDJ charismatic as fuck and Tom Holland cute as a button. And honestly just compare Chris Pratt ripped vs Chris Pratt chubby, it's night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:20 AM
1

The two are not mutualy exclusive. And you can marry the wrong man when you follow just attraction too, and then you end up as single mom of 2. Oh yay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 08:36 AM
3

This. It's not just about the woman. Having kids with a guy who ditches you with kids on your neck 'cuz it is not fun anymore' suuuucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:38 AM
2

That sounds like a grandma who had a marriage where she just laid back and thought of England every time they... I don't get why you people think women will suddenly not sex well just cause they are married. Women enjoy sex too. It is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:29 AM
1

Just because they fcked the player doesn't have to mean she loved the player.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 01:09 AM
5

Pretty sure RP doesn't really acknowledge the concept of love. It's all game theory srz bzns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:47 PM
0

I'm not sure if Lewis is much of a knitting fan. I kinda miss his crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 09:01 PM
2

If a woman assaults an adult man - not a minor child, not elderly, not handicapped - a capable adult man, she needs a gun. Or you know, drugs, alcohol, blackmail material. Rape doesn't have to be violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:08 PM
1

Yes. It should be just as serious. In fact I was shocked to find out that it's not so in the US. In Czech penal code rape/sexual assault is any form of forced/coerced intercourse. I don't see why it should not be. ​ If there was a girl like that I would be quite disturbed. ​ I don't think men really wish to be coerced to sex. Most of the times those "yay lucky hi5" cases are when there was "consensual" sex but not legally so. Like with minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:03 PM
2

Only when they shoot porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 02:00 AM
1

Oh lol Pirates came out over 10 years ago. I'm old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 12:05 PM
1

I mean, Stoya is pretty popular and I find her totally meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 09:02 AM
4

There's men who don't care. "Who gives a fuck you gave birth 3 weeks ago and had abdominal surgery dear, come suck my dick."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:58 AM
2

Okay that's enough Dworkin for you mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:55 AM
7

And then they complain that Belle Delphine is exploiting men by selling bathwater.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:28 AM
5

look how much she is loving that She's loving the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:26 AM
1

They just have on crazy amounts of makeup To be fair you need to apply loot of makeup for shoots. I do TFP and it looks nice and decent on the photos but sometimes I look straight out of whorehouse. Could go straight for the black couch. Bonus points: I am Czech :P
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:12 AM
3

That and that delicious slow buuuurn of circling around each other will they won't they.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 08:08 AM
6

I don't fuck my friends. That's why they are FRIENDS. If I have to fuck you to keep you around then you are not a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 09:22 PM
1

Frequenting subs like AITA (or JNMIL or RaisedbyaNarcisist) I see men getting empathy quite often. One particual comes to mind when woman was asking AITA for moving to another state and wanting to take kids with her. She lost custody and kids hate her for wanting to take them away from dad. Everybody was saying she's awful and were sympathetic to the dad, that she wanted to mess him up for another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 08:12 AM
7

Me and my husband are each others N-count. We started dating when we were 16/22 so I didn't have any other opportunities and he had video games so didn't chase skirts. Neither of us really minds. I guess we kinda wonder how it might be with different people but I don't think it would be better (cause it's pretty damn good) Idk about the quote it probably varies. Can't say I greet him on my knees, I usually greet him by shoving baby in his face lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:22 PM
10

She's making semi-erotic content. Maybe some teenagers are into her but they are not her target audience. Logan Paul's audience is tweens and under. He himself acknowledged this. And he was putting merch plug into all his videos in obnoxious way. Which is why people didn't like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 12:07 PM
8

I'd say both are entitled. Nobody owes you sex and nobody owes you a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 04:06 PM
1

And not once is the question here how to get girlfriend just how to get laid. And then they wonder why they can't get advice from women whose goal is to get boyfriend and not just laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:39 PM
0

Trouble is when they (women not necessarily feminists) tell men they say "nuh uh I don't believe you women lie" based on some crazy Stacy chasing Chad's dick scenarios. Meanwhile I know shitton of couples with perfectly nice respectful guys. Dunno any asshole Chads that treats women like trash and gets all the pussy. Because most normal people don't live like that. Idk maybe it's just neurotic US women and Slavic women don't take no shit. Or I live in one hell of otaku bubble. What I do know for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:32 PM
3

We don't because that's a fantasy. No amount of feminism can change the fact that women have babies and men don't and all our mating behaviour circles around that premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:05 PM
1

Blowjobs are not worth less than a diner. Even in monetary value. Either US has cheap hookers or expensive diners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 07:38 PM
4

Tom Hiddleston himself could send me a dickpick and I wouldn't consider it flirting. It's fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:16 PM
0

Well that's on him to decide whether it's worth it. He's the courting male. I'd say don't date any girl that's not willing to split the bill. Make an agreement beforehand. But if he decides otherwise then that's on him to take that risk. Since he wants to show off his peacock feathers through dinner hoping maybe she'll take.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:38 AM
1

That's a good default. But then again if she wouldn't have gone otherwise it's an incentive to get a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 09:19 AM
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How is she supposed to know whether she likes him when they never met? She's just giving I chance and at worst she gets a meal for her time and giving the shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 02:42 AM
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It's also much more comfortable to fuck after an ice cream than with a full heavy stomach sloshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 11:08 PM
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Because as long as he didn't talk to her and minded his own businesses he wasn't as big a threat. When he noticed her, turned to her and talked it means she caught his attention which she obviously didn't want and now she has no idea what he wants from her, why he is talking to her and whether he is gonna do anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:23 PM
1

Alone at night? Yes. It's not like I regard random men on the street as dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:00 PM
2

Men who think big men are not dangerous and shouldn't make women wary sound like someone that thinks featherweight fighting heavyweight is fair and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 06:38 AM
1

Again, the point made above is that your brain doesn't differentiate so you subconsciously pick up the ideas from the sitcoms despite them being unrealistic. I don't see how that's difficult. It's all "tales".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:55 PM
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Younger me would wonder what Little Red Ridding Hood could offer besides entertainment. Old cynical me knows it's a story about rapist in the woods for little girls to beware. There's always some kind of underlying messaging for your brain to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:42 PM
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Ye olde brain subconsciously doesn't know that because it's so used to storytelling is what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 07:27 PM
1

Poly isn't normalized to the point where we have the tools to explain it to kids. Even in the last generation, explaining gay relationships to kids was hard. Obviously it's going to face a lot of resistance when curious kids are in the picture Now even when I was kid I didn't find concept of gay that hard. People just like each other. Now that I think about it I have no idea how I'd explain to kids that aunt and uncle who are married like and kiss and hug each other are suddenly kissing and hugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 02:49 PM
3

True but I'd still have to find a desk job and whatnot and that prospect sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 05:46 PM
1

Depends on how well the baby is napping. It's really stressful when the baby is awake because you never know when it will start crying for you and that kills the mood. OTOH when you just put them to nap you got at least 30 minutes before their sleep cycle finishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:15 AM
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This. I've been fucking my bf/fiance/husband for 12 years now. I don't really plan to stop anytime soon. We often say to each other that our relationship depends on the oxytocin from the cuddles. And co-habitation didn't kill this at all, on the other hand it made it better. He works from home and I leave him mostly alone but anytime I want I can get a cuddle or a kiss or whatever. He tells me I'm pretty and that motivates me to to be pretty for him. Sure things are busy now with the baby, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 09:59 AM
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While I would get half my husband's shit in divorce I would be utterly screwed in future. So even though he has the money, I, as a SHAM, am in the vulnerable position. He'd have to completely flip out and beat me or something for it to be worth it. I have super chill life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:55 AM
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OP is supposedly from Italy that has one of the stick ones so that might explain alot. Meanwhile Italy has highest childhood obesity rates in Europe. Fun times ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 08:38 AM
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None of the men in that thread said they want skinny size 0 women that starve themselves. Its main responses go along the lines of it's not hard to not overeat so you're not fat. I don't think it proves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 03:46 AM
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Using app doesn't mean much if you are eyeballing I only got calories properly when weighting. Anyho...why the hell would you need to be a size 0? What's wrong with being size 4 or something? Being thin doesn't mean the MOST thin you can be? American size 6-8 is thin too. That's an M size here so it's what, an S over there?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 11:14 PM
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AND go hungry between meals Just how much do you have to eat between meals?? o_O Have an apple and glass of water gosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 06:05 PM
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It's withing normal BMI range by 1lbs. You can fluctuate that withing half a day. I'm considered slim and I'm 135 and inch taller than you. And that is in Europe not the fatland of US. Heck I do TFP as a model so pretty sure I'm not a chub. You might want to check with your doctor if you struggle with body image. Surely 5-10 pounds wouldn't hurt. I really wonder what kind of people would tell you you are not thin at 120.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:33 PM
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If you are 5'3 and 105lbs you are borderline underweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 05:04 PM
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Because you know for sure they all weight their food and count calories properly. Somehow. This thread is full of throwing around super low kcal numbers with quite high heights yet I guess I'm defying some - women laws - cause I am not fat or tall and when I eat around my 1600-1700 TDEE I don't gain. And I had a flipping baby. So sorry but I'm pretty sceptical because I hear this all the time from people who just keep "dieting" without meaningful lifestyle change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 04:09 PM
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I'm 5' 9" and nursing a baby ATM and trying to lose the baby weight. You do realise that nursing is extra 400-500 calories right? You can't nurse on 1200 calories. At 5'9" 1200 calories is probably pretty unhealthy anyway. I'm 4-5kg above my pre-baby weight but there's time for that after I'm done with this little pirranha sucking the life out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 02:43 PM
1

Maybe you just have bad disposition. I'm shorter with 135lbs and I look smashing af.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 02:10 PM
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Because when your body needs more calories to live you crave more calories than when it needs less calories to live. When I started breastfeeding I suddenly felt hungry like never before simply because I was expending extra 500ish calories to make milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 02:07 PM
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Shitton of people miscount their calories or forget liquid calories or forget BLTs. Pretty sure women over at fatlogic wouldn't agree with women here, and the "I EaT oNLy 800 cAloRIes anD aM sTiLL 300lbs" is pretty much bread and butter (chuckle) of that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 01:47 PM
1

"Arpeggios."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:04 PM
1

This kind of advertisement wasn't exactly on the pages of the financial times or sport papers was it? How much attention are you paying to fabric softener or tampon adverts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:03 PM
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No never. Going hungry and dieting is not sustainable. It needs to be a lifestyle change. I used to overeat got as high as 68 kg. I stopped overeating, lowered my portions to satiated instead of making myself eat the whole plate and my weight dropped off. I didn't even gain that much during pregnancy, I had to actively eat more calories at one point (so I had 2 grilled cheeses instead of 1) because I was on the low end of weight gain. I eat more now because I'm hungry from breastfeeding (extra c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:30 PM
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I'm 27, 5'4" 135 lbs, pretty slim and even your calculator is giving me TDEE of 1600. And before baby I was 127 lbs, and I never suffered from hunger or had to go through some crazy loops to maintain. Edit: Ye I get 1300 when I pick my activity as PARALYSED.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:11 PM
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I'm average woman with TDEE of 1800. I just don't overeat. I don't think I eat super little and I don't go hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:55 PM
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Pack half of it to go. Bring your own box. Congratulations you don't have to buy lunch tomorrow. Save money. Profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:48 PM
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The highest my BMI ever was was 25 and I never did any of that BS. Americans just pig out on their calories having these huge meals and syrupy coffees and then whine that they are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:45 PM
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God, you don't have to eat all of it. Before I was pregnant/breastfeeding I couldn't even eat the full EUROPEAN portion so I'd bring a lunchbox with me and pack a half of it to go. It's not that hard to not overeat. I didn't do it because I was suffering from hunger I was just super full because my body adjusted to eating properly. Those portions are made for big guys not petite ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:42 PM
4

I'm sure the fine connoisseurs of PPD are looking to catch the eye of their 300 pound coworkers with caked on makeup when they talk about game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:40 AM
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Is that why they all pass perfectly nice girls in favour of pinning after 10s out of their league? Oh god forbid if she'd be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 02:36 AM
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OTOH Men desperately want to believe that attractive female faces are "natural."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 01:54 AM
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Just how many men that exist fit the second bill even? What about all the chubby contently married office pals? There's tons of normal ass people that simply don't fit in this paradigm. This is a fantasy propagated by culture and media that doesn't actually fit the real life. Ohhh the bad boy that all the party girls like. The crazy ditzy hot 10s. The gym obsessed dude bro. Meanwhile majority of the Western world is fat as fuck and they still pair off. Now that I think about the media picture it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 08:51 PM
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despise doormats. All of the legit nice guys that do nice things for girls are their own worst enemy. I'd say there is a difference between being a doormat and being nice. Kindness and gentleness are hot. It's just that being a puppy in a leash is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 04:19 PM
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Maybe if you jump in with them fast. I doubt men would play a long con for 5 years of LTR or smt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 09:46 PM
3

Except for the divorce you still risk all of those even without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 09:44 PM
0

I'd learn to sew, cosplay as their favourite daddy, and go on a convention adventure. Idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 07:04 AM
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People who think their dogs are equal to kids are delusional. You can't put toddler in a kennel and go out drinking for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 10:11 PM
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10 years LTR +2 married. 9 month old tiny. I don't particularly envy single people. I find our relationship really fulfilling and it's honestly been getting better every year. We've been having something of short fuse recently and it's pretty much mainly the baby and the move because it's exhausting, but we're working on that, it's still pretty idyllic. I would not want to be single sounds like lot of work navigating that marketplace. (Edit for clarity.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 10:05 PM
1

Your wife sounds like she sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 09:57 PM
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Foreplay is the win. Pretty much any thing she's into. Seriously any dumbo can stick their meat scepter into a jelly donut it's all the faff around that matters. If the girls isn't turned on in the first place she's not gonna orgasm anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:52 PM
2

It's not suspect. Women are just not morons and know what's in their best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 06:23 PM
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Depends if kids are involved. I'd never have a child without marriage. It's at least a semblance of stability even if simply symbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:40 PM
4

So youre saying Oh lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:05 AM
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He does lot of polemics that are actually not his personal opinions. Tons of my professors did that, since they want the students to deconstruct the issue into pieces see where each of them lead regardless of normative morals and then find strong and weak points to argue better for their positions. Other than his self help book advice you actually don't see him make normative statements of how things should be that much. Alt right likes him cause they like anyone who pisses off SJW crowd. Try Ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 12:38 AM
1

Sure they exist, they just dgaf about women over say video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 01:51 AM
1

If by new you mean for over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 11:36 PM
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entire thread from parent comment Sure, that makes sense. But I'm just confused about wth is OP about. I was the one to bring up the hypothetical about virgins. The guys even disagreed. But SOMEHOW it's men's obsession? Like...how? Even NinjaPancake517 was talking about experiences of other women with the non-con sex thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 07:22 PM
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Most women experiencing some pain (or discomfort) the first time and most women not being eager to have sex again are two different statements. You are making assumption from the former, but you have not provided any evidence of the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 07:05 PM
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stayed a reality of the female sexual experience Well maybe you stated YOUR reality of female sexual experience perhaps. My female sexual experience has been just fine, so was that of most of my friends'.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:54 PM
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Literally not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:46 PM
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Do a Twitter poll So where can I find such Twitter poll? Not to mention rating first time experience lower than men doesn't mean they aren't excited about having sex again. That's not how data works. ​ Just cause my friend rated cake 8/10 and I rated it 6/10 doesn't mean I don't want more cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:43 PM
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The entire thread you linked to is nothing but a bunch of men DISAGREEING WITH EACH OTHER, MOSTLY about definitions and wordings. Basing it on that thread is ridiculous. I'm not even a man. My flair literally says I'm not a man :/ And I never even said raped virgins are damaged, I just said they had sexual eNcounter. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:34 PM
0

Well someone here had just shitty sex it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 06:29 PM
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Sure I was jesting due to the wording. But still I personally wouldn't consider that sexual experience as invalid even thought it was a fucked up one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:36 AM
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Well...I mean...there is a litteral freshness seal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 11:13 PM
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Well as fucked up as this is gonna sound imagine a virgin, she gets raped, well she can't really say she's a virgin anymore right? That wouldn't be true. But at the same time she legit didn't have a proper partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 08:04 PM
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Reading articles rather than just headline?! On Reddit?!!! You must jest fine sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 04:46 PM
3

How about those 9/10 that have kid with the presumed father? They just didn't get caught or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 04:42 PM
1

Ikea is a great place to find out about your date/GF. How she reacts to things So what's the appropriate reaction? Cause we got IKEA 10 minutes away from our flat and I just want to buy everything there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 06:19 PM
1

Hey to encourage you, I married my first boyfriend! Been together 12 years now. Not bored of his dick yet. ​ Who knows how you'll end up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 06:16 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 11:44 AM
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Oh ye, I bet you got them mature adult hobbies XD
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 11:03 AM
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Woman: *breathes* MMDT: AWALT!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:44 AM
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why a GTX1070 is better than a 980. Honestly I don't give a shit cause I'm not into hardware but I've been gaming since 94' and know lot of my female peers who are 90's gamers too. The guys who are just into the movies but dgaf about the comics are plenty too, and just as obnoxious ("muh real fans" who don't know shit but are outraged about "pandering" with stuff that's been in comics since forever. Oh god the amount of normies upset about Miles Morales movie.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:36 AM
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I mean we were chatting about boys and relationships too. Sure it was between Batman's sidekicks but I think the chatting part is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 10:29 AM
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If they both want a baby but the dude changes his mind when the baby is done then she's stuck with the baby. She has no control over that. It's not like she is gonna be putting 6 m/o up for adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:09 PM
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Women only have that control for very limited amount of time. If the dude bails after she doesn't really have many choices left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 03:19 AM
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Plenty of men get cold feet when it's waaay too late. First they are all 'I can do it let's have baby' and they are all like 'you know what I'm not ready' 5 months into the pregnancy. I guess lady has an option of adoption but gosh when you were already looking forward to baby and love it that's so friggin cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 03:12 AM
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Most people don't do the thing they studied at Uni anyways. I certainly consider higher ed criticality important to me despite not working. But working would simply bring less utility to our family unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/19 03:07 AM
1

My husband says things like that along with comments about "kitchen chains" and "quarterly sex quota". He just thinks he's funny, it's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 10:58 PM
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To some people it seems weird. Like penis and baby in the same place weird. I didn't mind but it was still a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 06:39 PM
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To be fair having have had sex at some point and regularly having sex are 2 different things. So that number of have nots has to be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 05:22 AM
2

she's seen me have it. Well that's kinky? Do you have like a training camp? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 04:11 PM
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I don't think super low n count is a win either. Neither me or SO have past experience, doesn't bother us much but we probably missed out a bit. Hey maybe there's a threesome in our future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 04:09 PM
1

YES BECAUSE BIG PENISES ARE AWFUL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 04:05 PM
1

I think we just have different definitions of build up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 10:27 PM
1

Yeaaa my husband would say otherwise. He is literally that shy guy I approached. Be a girl and play videogames, pick a nice IT guy. Since those are coveted traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 09:27 PM
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They want women to be easy but just for them not for the other guys :D ​ Tbh not that I'm looking to get back on the market but if I'm not worth for the guy the effort to do the whole social mating dance thing then that would likely be a turn off because I want a guy for whom I'd be worth it. (That and I'm uncomfortable about intimacy with strangers.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:27 PM
2

Well my flair says SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 08:03 PM
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And here I thought the build up is the fun part. Seems reasonable to first get to know the person I'm supposed to get naked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:50 PM
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Perhaps. I lost few kg and I certainly look better now than I did when 20 if my peers are to be believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 05:38 PM
1

I wasn't forced but I never expected the option. It was my husband who brought it up though. I fully expected to just drone away in work and waste away in office. It's generally risky for me but we agreed on possible precautions we find fair. I enjoy it alot but some women aren't build for it, some of my mom friends can't wait to get back to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 10:18 PM
1

Tbh not sure what to put there? I'd get halvsies anyways and our prenup is basically each keeping our own debt responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 10:05 PM
1

Well hard to be SHAM without the Mom part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 10:01 PM
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He is aiming to be a millionaire. I believe that he’ll achieve it one day. Haha my husband was telling me that for years...always in 1 year when the next game comes out! Well we ain't milionares but life is still good so being SHAM like that is definitely achievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 09:58 PM
1

Parents retuning from work 6ish sucks. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 09:42 PM
2

Yeee I saw the flat my BIL lives in. He literally owns one pot. Dude doesn't even have a pan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 09:33 PM
1

The NZ study you mention in other post can be possibly skewed. In Europe I receive welfare for my kid as part of parental leave. I don't need the money but hey it is nice to have. And 100% get it here since it's money that's supposed to incentive people to start families. Now technically that money is for whole family, (imho it's basically baby reward from state), but statistic data wise women are the predominant receivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 09:29 PM
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Don't be a SHAM without getting married. It's the only safety net you have really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:20 PM
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Depending on the photo I get 49-69% match with Felicity Jones. And yup I can see that Since I cut it my hair is actually exactly same as in this photo just my fringe is reddish. Got higher match with makeup obviously though I generally don't wear it. Oh yea my eyes are tired as fck since the baby. The other site gave me partial match with her too. Although that one also matched me with Zac Effron...oh well. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 09:53 PM
2

Ye I wonder too, he's not all that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:09 PM
1

I've got lab ruby and zircones. Pretty ring > expensive ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:36 AM
1

TRP is sex advice not LTR advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:33 AM
1

How would he know she gave better sex to Chad in High School?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 12:09 PM
2

We're good here. No immigrants want to go to PoorYurop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:42 PM
1

Did you somehow miss the huge hate-on UK has for Poles?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:29 PM
1

That cause we don't have Christian conservatives and terrible sex ed to the degree US does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:24 PM
5

Yeah. Am I annoyed that my 5 m/o feverish potato won't sleep? Yes. Does my heart melt every time she looks at me with those big blue eyes? Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:19 PM
5

When you have just one kid you have to be its source of entertainment. Multiple kids can play with each other. And kids are annoying but also super precious. Government's desire for 2+ kids is economical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:04 PM
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Yeah, you are old enough to sign up for war and get blow up by an IED but yur too retarded to read the terms of the prenup when you signed? Wtf kind of excuse is that. America is the kind of state where you are considered mature and responsible enough to drive a car but not to have sex so I'm not even surprised gaiz.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 04:56 PM
1

Pot - kettle. I doubt TRPers or the 'nice guys' are adonises themselves otherwise they wouldn't need 'game'. And then they are upset that a 9 is banging Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 11:15 AM
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Those girls tend to be damaged goods. There is plenty of average gals that date average nice dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:43 AM
6

Maybe. Fortunately I have the best male repelent ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 11:02 AM
6

I mean, how could ANY maiden resist that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:34 AM
6

You mean Indian bots that want to see my vegana? How charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:07 AM
5

I'm not even ugly and I never had tones of guys fighting over me. Where are all these Romeos?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:57 AM
1

My MIL is terrible cook and she hates cooking so my husband used to be like that. Just eat for sustenance. Then one day he was like: You know since you started cooking for me food actually became joyful activity I look forward to. So IMO if you don't care about what you eat it usually means that you don't eat good food.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:36 PM
1

We say what's yours is mine but what's mine is none of your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 08:35 AM
1

Unloved children? As in abandoned by paternal figure when she is not sure who the dad is and if it's an oppsie from disinterested partner she can choose not to keep the child early enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 10:38 PM
1

Paternity testing can be done as early as 8 weeks pregnant. There is no need for unloved children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:08 PM
-1

So what have you done this week to improve humanity? Netflix and chill?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 06:57 AM
4

Don't you know that Chad's head is full of semen making him unable to think long term and in want of companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:24 PM
1

he would have to like her more than he loves himself, to put away his own values for the sake of a woman We don't know his values. He could just be petty or jelly, feel inadequate or whatever. Men can have values and not care about n-count. I actually don't even know a man that really cares about n-count that much. How do you think he should have behaved? Talk with her and actually properly breakup with her. Tell her sorry this is a dealbreaker. Not just ghost her without real contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:04 PM
1

Tbh I wouldn't have an issue if he was so bothered and didn't like her enough to not mind. People can break for whatever reason. But he's being such a bloody drama queen in the way he did. And with the way he pushed it he sounds super insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:15 PM
1

Well he didn't obviously mind her values until the magic number.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:32 PM
7

Are you sure you're RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:32 PM
2

Women want wide variety of options to pick the best mate. Men want low competition to ensure that the progeny is theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:28 PM
1

Well that's my reaction anytime I see Americans discuss anything sex related too, lol. Czechia is like a porn capital of Europe. People are pretty laid back about it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:20 PM
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He said "It's better than working at Microsoft." So basically he said that he wouldn't be thrilled but what's he gonna do. And that he's prostituting his brains for some overlord and it's not that much different. He'd reccomend her to have a plan B for when she's too old to shoot porn. Tbh his stance so far has been that as long as she's in school, not taking drugs and not listening to hip hop he's good with whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:53 PM
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I didn't say I'd encourage it 'Yay you go girl.' I said if she's gonna do it anyway I'd prefer her to not contract debilitating disease. My dad encouraged me to go be a cam girl to earn some of my own money I said no thanks and turned out fine as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:17 PM
1

So if your 23 year old decides he loves football how are you going to stop him? Ultimately they will one day be adults and do whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 11:38 AM
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Well if she is not happy then it doesn't matter whether it's alpha or beta or a kangaroo, I'd encourage her to be with a guy that makes her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:03 AM
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Purple but I would mainly want her to be safe as not to contract any STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:02 AM
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Bezoz is not morally justified to have all that money because of his shit business practices. Amazon is not nice company. Ya guys must not be married to someone with business. Wifes don't just ignore the husband's business. She likely offered a support structure emotional and material for him to pursue whatever. You can't build a house without pillars to stand on. Heck I always joke about our 'bathtub conferences' where we talk ideas for whatever project husband is working on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:27 AM
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Lol the "cons" 'he's a beta' Can't even really say what's so terrible about that. So what if he's beta if she's happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:01 AM
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Maybe they don't like the guys that approach them but think Tim from accounting is cute?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:18 PM
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Idk, I think that is the crux of the issue. Yes I think it is fair to say that women search for best potential mate preferably one that can uplift her offspring. But that is not the same as what RP means when they use hypergamy. Which is something like always leaving good mate for better one when presented with the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:34 AM
1

Charisma is about charming people. You can be smooth and dick at the same time. It's a popular villain trope like Hans from Frozen. Has charisma but terrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:10 AM
2

Not having casual sex is not some unicorn achievement. One could also have had casual sex with beta virgins and not date them. Heck one could have had casual sex with other women. Who I assume are not exactly AF. Not having casual sex doesn't mean you're alpha or beta either. You could possess alpha qualities and just not care about sex that much. There's so many holes in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:59 AM
1

1) No I have not. 2) Yes I have and still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:49 PM
1

I had some on our wedding day, he was floored XD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:42 PM
1

Enhancement vs caking This is basically why I don't like wearing makeup. I don't like how I look after I take it down. Meanwhile when everybody is used to seeing me w/o I just look 'naturally' pretty. It was also my must have on wedding day. Least amount of photomakeup possible so I look nice in the pics but not like different person I'm pretty happy how that turned out. Nowadays I only wear lot of makeup only when doing a photoshoot. It's always so weird though man. Bonus point: It's so much pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:30 PM
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And then they call us unicorns when we don't fit it or try to do mental gymnastics trying to fit square in a triangle. 🙄🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 11:11 PM
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broke guy who was working towards a well paying career That can be said about every guy student ever. Not to mention that when you're 16 it's not exactly a priority because you don't count on it working long term anyway. And why spend 10 years with a guy that's not rich when I could have (easily) landed a guy that had money and job already? He's freelancer not like he had super stable sure career lined infront of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:37 PM
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It's been 8 years since he's out of school of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:54 PM
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Noooppeeee it cannot be! Don't you know there has to be something. She felt your future success potential she's playing to long game! (What TRPers told me when I talk about my broke boyfriend, cause I must have known! Even back then!)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 11:21 AM
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You probably just have fucked up social bubble then, I know plenty of guys that are fun and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 10:02 PM
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Yea I don't think I would want him to physically fight him, I'd be worried about him and feel bit bad we caused a scene. Just verbally berating the douche and protectively hug me would be fine. I asked my SO, he joked he would slap the guy's ass back. I said he wouldn't but now he promised that if that ever happens he's gonna remember to do that. I'm still doubtful :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:58 PM
2

Cause one infant is enough emotional rollercoaster for of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 12:37 PM
2

Just cause one has penis and other vagina doesn't mean we all don't have feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 12:23 PM
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A guy doesn't need to be a psycho to be fun. And surprise flowers totally make you feel feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 12:10 PM
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GL. I found SO (22) at 16 and got married at 25. Good deal. Around year 4 he started with something along the lines of "If I'll stay with you for 8 years I might as well marry you."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 07:37 PM
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discuss it more of an academic level than anything else "I fucked ur mom." Much academic, such mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:05 PM
3

Riiiight because LOL gas been known as such pleasant game full of rational mature gentlemen. Among other popular rage machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:02 PM
4

If I wanted an emotionless dick I'd use my vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:45 AM
2

Ye sounds ridiculous. AF/BB only works for youngsters but are Alphas just supposed to run around forever alone till geriatric age? Alphas likely want companionship and to settle down too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 05:39 AM
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As with literally everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:35 PM
3

I'm sure WSJ articles "PewDiePie is a Nazi" are so much more enriching than Batman /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:27 PM
3

When I was young I used to have crush on Sean Connery. I think ever since I saw Entrapment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:01 PM
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Oh yeah this. I was told that even though my SO was poor when we started dating I 'smelled' his potential to be rich/successful in the future. :D I couldn't have possibly just LIKED him. I mean that is indeed our in joke with my husband but it is not really true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:56 AM
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Ye, good luck. My sis was trying for 4 years before they managed and she wasn't even 30. If you start at 32 it's a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 08:38 PM
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Why not wait until you’re 32 and have a baby? Down syndrome and other disabilities and fertility issues. Your fucking back. Srsly hit the gym before they come. You'll feel so tired the older you are the worse it gets. Also don't buy new sht for baby, there are perfectly great things on Facebook marketplace that are 1/4 the price. I'm not even poor and shop used cause there are more cuter options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 07:31 AM
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I was thinking more like videochat. Hey maybe eventually a Twitch thot. I actually know how to play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 07:18 AM
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You're talkin' outta your buttocks. Bitches love cuddling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 11:35 PM
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If you cuddle she will lose attraction. TIL past 11 years of my cuddly relationship have been a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 07:59 PM
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No wonder you're Salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 06:38 PM
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Give and you shall receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 10:56 AM
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Cheaters come up with all sorts of idiotic rationalizations My dad outright told my mom that he deserved a mistress and that it was his right as a 'man' of the family. He was also complaining about his mistress to my mom. Like wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:23 AM
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Look for shy nerdy guy? They won't won't pester you for sex if you won't pester them about video games. Idk my SO always had lower drive than I do, nowadays we're bit more matched cause there's less time for that with an infant, at this point we're both grateful for the time we find. So it certainly is possible to find a guy like that. For us it was often that cuddles > sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:19 AM
2

Eh this place isn't so bad all things considered. It's certainly much nicer that your regular Internet space about this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 06:21 AM
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Cause they want long term companionship and kids. Many women will not have kid without the security of marriage. I would certainly be uncomfortable having a child out of wedlock.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 04:35 PM
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Well tbh I don't think they are necessarily wrong about some things. We look at Western Europe just next door and think those guys are crazy with all the diversity concessions and self-flagellation. That said these types are imho wrong about it being some huge conspiracy. Imo people are just incompetent and naive. We somehow think that we're better as human race now and immune to the mistakes of the past. We're not. The rise of xenophobia and anti-EU sentiment makes that very clear. This whole t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:46 AM
1

MILFs can be as young as 25... TIL that I am apparently A MILF.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:30 PM
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That assumes bi women watch lot of lesbian porn. Most queer women find lesbian porn terribly unrealistic and super awkward/bad. Personaly lesbian porn is super meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 09:04 PM
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I don't think you can do much, either you got a sleeper or a colicky beast. But you need that restriction to be only temporary one. That kid WILL eventually nap in their bed. Imho husband helping rather than bitching that the exhausted wife won't give him any does wonders for morale. Say you'll do the dishes so she can spend those 30 minutes LO naps in crib on you rather than on chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 01:40 PM
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I fail to see the benefit. You get children for the same reason you get a wife. You love them. My husband is over the moon with our daughter. Tells me how cute she is only 53846 bazzilion times everyday. And kids are fun, even the little potato ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 01:18 PM
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Really? Is it that hard to smooch the nape of her neck for a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 10:47 PM
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Uhhh, unlike the cardboard that's actually painful. If he threw cardboard back at her it's fair game but not physically hitting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 08:13 PM
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To be fair he's a streamer. It's his job. But he should probably have dedicated work schedule in that case, for both their sakes. ​ Edit: Nevermind it's not his actual job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:45 PM
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Oh the vicious cardboard attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 07:36 PM
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He should have eaten dinner with his family an hour ago like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 04:44 PM
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True however if a woman dedicates her life to her career resulting in less or no children it is even worse return for government since it is less future taxpayers. And university educated parents are more likely to produce university educated kids thus better quality tax payers. There are likely enough positive externalities to make it worth it in the long run rather than baring them from higher education. (not like that's what you are saying just possible conclusions to the problem)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 09:48 AM
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While I guess it's sort of brain drain but just because they become housewife later doesn't mean that the whole endeavour was worthless. Education itself is fulfilling. I'm never gonna use my degree but I find it very enriching that I have it and think those were years well spent. Lot of people don't use their degree anyway since many often switch to different field after school. There is certainly more than fair share of microbiologists working in ad agencies and whatnot. Although I don't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 11:23 PM
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Idk, I've been committed for 11 years (thought I admit just 1 married) with whooping n count of 1 and it seems like ridiculous idea anyway. Open relationship is one thing but a cheating pass sounds eeeeh...somehow mucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:53 PM
2

Oh noes my SO buys me fancy jewellery, woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:42 PM
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This. Gave it a shot, all the prep was not worth it. Takes too long. Felt good once and then twice it sucked. So we tried and dropped it. Not doing choking again either, SO is way too gentle so he's not into it and I though the idea was good but it doesn't do anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 12:54 PM
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Oh heavens, how horrible! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 12:40 PM
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Imo those ppl aren't repulsive because they are virgins but rather are virgins becase they are repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 10:06 PM
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She has 4 kids with abusive guy that is in prison. She isn't exactly sharpest tool in the shed obviously. Even if I tried to hook her up with my BIL, who is super single Mr. Engineer (read incel but without the bad attitude) I'm 100% he would not want her. Even if she miraculously was into airships I don't think he would want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 12:20 PM
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Do you want to see heads on pikes? Cause that's how you get heads on pikes. Starving people are usually very desperate and very angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 06:12 PM
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I have 3month old and I still don't think I'm ready XD I also counted on that long time, it was more like 3 months :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:56 PM
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She's ready. You think you wanna marry her? If not you might be wasting her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:36 PM
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Do you want to be dad or a grandpa? 30ish is great for a guy. Imagine dragging kid around in your forties. Your back's gonna break.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:34 PM
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If I giggle and tell you about my day will that mean anything to you? You are not cute baby dude. Also men are not these noble knights that protect their women at the drop of the hat. They also love the attributes women bring to their lives and leave for random reasons. And women don't just love the attributes, their love also means they want to devote their life to care for his wellbeing be a good companion. I don't cook my man delicious meals for shits and giggles. My cooking makes him happy, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 09:10 AM
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Ya know, I'm a SHAM and all. But you do know that women work and are able to provide for themselves and fulfill their own dreams regardless of their men? Majority of them do just that. Love for children is just different. It doesn't have to be contest. Or am I to think my husband doesn't love me just cause he adores out daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:39 AM
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In that case you can also account for all the forgotten and missed pills. BC ain't foolproof either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:42 PM
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This. Tbh being from yay welfare Europe I could see financial abortion to be a thing. But in the US it sounds like a joke, all want to be absolved of personal responsibility but not willing to support tax system that would allow for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 05:14 PM
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Cause there is a precedent with the right to bodily autonomy. What existing principle would this change be based upon?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:53 PM
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unless you're gay In my country we got a saying loosely translated: "Better than woman's betrayal, your friend's warm anal." Imo all these guys should follow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:23 PM
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The data is also pretty insufficient because while he has output response there is no input data. He's not logging how he tried to initiate the sex. I find it surprising but not really that he didn't measure for that. Probably cause he's thinking he's doing everything correctly and it's just woman that is faulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 02:32 PM
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tries to solve problem by talking and voicing the issues (despite it is the first advice ever on /r/relationships) Honestly I think the spreadsheet is totally fine. Sending it via email too. All that jazz. But doing so while she's away and refusing to communicate is where he's lost me and behaves like petulant child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:03 AM
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So he tried just once a day? How abut shower together dear? Something like that. Idk when my husband says he's not feeling well I just try later. I don't want him to feel like shit. Edit: This is however pretty low blow from him when she's away. I'd be distressed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 09:53 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I apologise for prying but I looked at your posts and just wanna say good luck with the baby! Sometimes it can be frustratingly long time, my sis was trying for 4 years (!) but now she has lil boy and she's over 30. Also hi5 crochet I'm working on a giraffe now too :D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:50 AM
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The baby existing or not is irrelevant to the legal construct that has been created that is family law That makes no sense. As one poster here pointed out all that matters legally are rights of the child. Father does not have legal obligation to the mother. He has the legal obligation to the child. Because it is the child (living breathing human being) that has rights. If it doesn't exist it has no rights. Which is why even if there is paper abortion it should only have timeframe of normal abort…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:22 AM
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Ideally US would grow up and get maternity like the rest of us. It's great guys, really, that's why everybody else does it. We have maternity then parental leave that is directly followed by kindergarden 10/10 would reccomend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:09 AM
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No not really because in case of abortion there is no human being to be responsible for and they are both absolved. Equivalent would be giving up baby for adoption. The baby existing or not existing IS the crux of the issue. Imo paper abortion could work but it would have to be limited by the same timeframe as real abortion. Which still leaves bunch of issues unresolved if she wants to entrap/hide it (which even if illegal would be unprosecutable)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 07:54 AM
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That's pretty big bloody difference ^^;
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 07:38 AM
0

Well why do you spend it on bombing the Middle East?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 11:34 PM
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Well I'm pretty sure I ain't getting one now that I TIL'd. Maybe the hormonal one \<sup>\</sup><sup>;</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 09:27 PM
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Now that I think about it still doesn't make the issue wholy equal. Imo paper abortion is ethicaly fair towards the guy but let's entertain the notion. Q: Who does abortion benefit? A: Obviously the woman. But also the man who is benefiting via externality. The state doesn't have to worry about the non-existent child, and there's no child to suffer. Q: Who does the paper abortion benefit? A: Just the man. The woman picked her own fate so whatever but now the state has to deal with and often pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 08:58 PM
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That would be reasonable argument to make. Unfortunately OP's argument amounts to condomsex sucks women get to bareback and that's not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 07:46 PM
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Even best of contraceptives fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:32 PM
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Pretty sure postpartum hemorrhoids, incontinence, vaginal/perineal pain, joint aches and plethora of other issues are not just about 'self perception'. I just had a baby so I'd know, my body looks just as flawless as before my insides do not. This stuff ain't about superficial saggy boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:43 PM
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Because parental responsibilities are only half of that equation. Pro choice argument is supported by the bodily autonomy principle. If government doesn't have right to give someone your kidney to save someone's life, it shouldn't force you to save/support someone's life via your uterus. I'm not for late term terminations this argument opens, but it's pretty consistent argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 03:19 PM
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Well even with that definition that chick that threatened a guy with MACHETE sounded pretty forcible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 01:41 PM
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Paper abortion is not equivalent to female abortion either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 01:31 PM
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They've tested one, but men complained about mood swings and such. Haha Tbh if I remember correctly on it it seems it was much worse than your regular mood swings. Few guys were outright suicidal. Imo that's fair pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 01:27 PM
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Male contraceptive pill should come with the benefit of peeing blood and ball cramps 7 days a month. Hey equality! I think they'd be happy to opt for condom. Gosh I've been period free for almost a year and it's such a blessing. It's gonna be such a pain after I stop breastfeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:46 PM
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Saying "oh, an unplanned pregnancy is NBD for a woman, because she can get an abortion" is, like, STUNNINGLY ignorant. Whaaaaat you don't love getting unnecessary, psychologically draining, painful medical procedures?? I'M SHOCKED! Like srsly during certain period I was 100% that I would get abortion in case of an accident but it still friggin terrified me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:35 PM
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The woman has to sit in the chair. Sure enough. If your idea of toll of unwanted pregnancy and termination is 'has to sit in a chair' then you are simply clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:29 PM
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I do think that paper abortion with proper checks and balances (like female abortion) is fair. I simply object to the idea of equating it to birth control "cuz baggless banging feels better maaaan". I don't opose the idea just OP's argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 12:03 PM
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Many others are idiots with chlamydia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 11:57 AM
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Sure and women who think they should get BC handed for free are delusional too. There's nothing wrong with wanting to bang without consequence. But if there is a pregnancy there is already consequence. Abortion is supposed to be last resort for when "shit happens" it's not birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 10:18 AM
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I don't know if every guy would agree but as far as I'm concerned sex with a condom is tantamount to abstinence. Well I asked... "Hey husband is sex without condom more pleasurable?" husband walks around a bit "Eeeeeeeh.......I guess?" Yeah he didn't sound so confident about that terrible abstinence effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 09:51 AM
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extremely elevated pleasure of condomless sex LOL, I would hardly describe it as extremely elevated. Sex without condom is convenient because of all the faffing around condom before the sex but I sure don't have it for 'extremely elevated pleasure'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 09:26 AM
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Men have reproductive choices too, you just don't like them. I'm ethically for paper abortion given conditions that women have, but your reasoning around birth control is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 09:15 AM
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Depends. With my long term SO yeah, and he paid for half. But short term condoms are more convenient. I would always insist on condom with some rando cause hello STI.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 09:04 AM
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Hormonal birth control is protected sex (from babies). Your 'implied' is BS. You just wanna bang chicks w/o gum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 08:48 AM
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They did not own their fields. These people were serfs for their Lord. They were not free to do whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:12 AM
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Lol those peasant women didn't just sit home while her husband toiled the fields. This kind of housewifing is a myth, she was on the bloody field with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 03:35 AM
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God I hate imperial system, so imprecise. But my husband is 5'7-8 (172cm) and for me that's pretty much ideal height for hugs. Not so much for high heels but they fucked up my back anyways so I ditched them few years back. But imho small thin works better than stocky squarish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:24 PM
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Tbh when you are not planning a relationship with the person all you have to select for the ONS are the looks and somewhat pleasant company. That's not so hard to pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 04:02 PM
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I'm not Red and I'm not particularly inclined to change my views or convince others. I am however interested in what other ppl think about stuff. It broadens my knowledge of how folks think and live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 06:29 PM
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Well that is good too. I understand that it can be discouraging when you lack success. But imho it's worth it. Even geeks and otakus around me are mostly paired off, some with regular normie gals too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 01:02 PM
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I sadly agree. It seems to come so naturally to everyone else. You know sometimes people try to have a baby for so long that it takes giving up a just living their life for it to work out. Maybe focusing more on yourself and living your life you'll meet someone on random.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 12:35 PM
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True, but being rich and buffed isn't gonna bring you relationship unless you socialise and look for one. I know confident buffed dudes that aren't in a relationship. I know very well of dudes that aren't in a relationship. Sometimes the girl is somewhere and hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 12:32 PM
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You don't romantically pursue any of those people though. It still sounds like a date to me tbh. The purpose of date is to spend time with and get to know the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 09:23 PM
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What's coffee and walk if not a date? That sounds like date to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 08:42 PM
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Both are ridiculous anyway because neither guarantees that the other party will actually LIKE you. Which is kinda necessary for functional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 08:36 PM
1

I mean. It would be enough if they read OP's post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 08:08 PM
3

She knows what she wants We all failed right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 02:42 PM
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Sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 02:41 PM
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26 - 164cm 64kg (omw to get back to pre-baby 58), long brown hair with reddish fringe, blue eyes. I got round face, am happy with my skin and feel cute enough so I don't really wear makeup. Idk how to describe rest other than normal eeeh I got chubby tights I guess? Boobs keep changing sizes idk how they are gonna end up looking after I stop feeding the tiny one. I do TFP so I guess I'm not ugly? I'd share some that are publicly available but nobody else did :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 06:49 AM
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Sky isn't always blue it switches various tones and colors. Blue is among them but sky is also red, violet, yellow, grey or dark blue and black depending on time of day. During some environmental events such as aurora sky can also be green. . In short. This is what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 05:18 AM
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She still needs the guy to protect and provide for her and her child later.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 09:54 AM
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I did that for about 2 years before the baby was born. (not counting years before as student) My "work" was to make lunch and clean house - which I would do anyways. I helped my husband with game development but time spent on that was minimal (3 days a month) and I offered cause I wanted to be useful, didn't have to do it. I spent most my time gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 02:22 AM
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There never was anything like "days of romance".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 10:20 PM
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It is disaster if you are only interested in being her friend for the purpose of getting in relationship with her. Otherwise it's fair game and you might just be friends or something more might happen. Also there is a difference in being someone's friend and being her doggie. Friends are equals, pet slaves are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 07:24 PM
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Yea what else is she to do when he goes out with them? Stay home and practice embroidery?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:06 PM
1

That Tinder is irrelevant because only specific type of people use Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 09:02 AM
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They are cynical about such simple things like feelings or, god forbid, love.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 08:29 PM
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The argument is also that there are not enough alphas to go around to marry. So..did all the girls bang the same 10 dudes? Cause that's unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:35 AM
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Cause not all of us care for meeting strangers from the Internet to let them touch our hoohas.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:28 AM
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On the other hand to quote my IT husband on why he never had another girlfriend. "I was busy with video games I didn't care about girls."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:25 AM
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Idk when there were some pics floating around lot of the guys RP described as low looked like fairly normal guys to me or the type that could easily be attractive with lil bit of grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 05:07 AM
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Because it is non issue without the anger. People don't complain about guy who just asked and said 'OK nevermind' when rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:28 AM
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I wasn't joking when I said he gives the best cuddles. We hugged in a friendly manner and it just was the right kind of squishy. Love at first hug I call it. (I am seriously not kidding) And in my country it is not that weird for a girl to approach a guy if she's interested. Ya know flirting and letting him know she's available so let's go get coffee and chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 01:24 AM
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Ask my hormones? Idk I fell in love I wasn't making conscious decision base on some metric. Why does TRP think everything has to be about specific quantifiable things in relationships. Love is magic man. It's black box at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 12:56 AM
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You can do everything right and still fail. Thinking that if you just follow the recipe you will get subject of your desire just because you followed the right order of inputs and being angry when it doesn't happen can be seen as feeling entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 09:45 PM
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What others? I wasn't picking and choosing like in buffet :D He just happened to be my type I approached him and we happened to hit it off. Also he gives the most amazing cuddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 09:35 PM
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It's bad comparison too because it's not like they are entitled to any job they wish. If you have a literature degree you have no chance being accepted to work as microbiologist. If you approach women out of your 'qualification' it will be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 08:17 PM
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Ye one doesn't have to be some adonis like TRP seems to think just look reasonably ok and not slimey. My SO is prototype thin IT guy and he is my whole n count. No Chads required.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 08:07 PM
4

You like the guy well enough to bang?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 04:19 PM
3

Science does not need to be bad when it's the extrapolation of science that is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 06:58 AM
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The amount of that maternity is laughable. We have 6 months of maternity and parental leave until kid is 3 y/o. 12 weeks is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:29 PM
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Older kids? Perhaps. Young babies though? Idk, I think it's very good for mom to take care of the baby at least as long as she's breastfeeding. Of course the crazy US system where you don't really have maternity doesn't help the situation and women are either forced to pump at work or go for formula. Idealy baby should exclusively breastfeed for 6 months (WHO reccomendation) and majority of women can breastfeed although lot give up for number of reasons. After that sure why not switch. I don't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 12:35 PM
1

Sure now tell me the other one about the gingerbread house.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 09:41 PM
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Because guy can pump and dump as many chicks as he wants risk free to himself and some of those kids are likely to survive. It's a shotgun approach. Ppl used to have like 10+ kids some of those are gonna make it. Girl can't afford that because pregnancy/childbirth makes her vulnerable. She can die procreating the guy will be fine regardless of how many kids he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 06:09 PM
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Because historicaly pregnancy is life threatening condition and you don't want to die bleeding out giving birth? JFC ppl got way too laid back about childbirth as if it's easy. Women always pass their genes maximising strategy is ensuring those genes survive until adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 04:09 AM
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Personally I never understood why feminists are so desperate to push women into the same soul crushing office cubicle farms that men were pushed into by social pressure. This. Between working a mind numbing office job with hour-ish commute and not having to work being able to spend that time on myself/family I sure know which one I prefer. Majority of people work so they don't starve it's not some super achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 03:46 AM
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So you can cook better than her? Sew better than her? Color coordinate better than her? Draw better than her? There's 100% something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:45 PM
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Whoooo I should open fortune telling business. "Oooooo I see a money man in your life in 10 years time Oooooo".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:34 PM
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Lol I guess he was playing the long con.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:45 PM
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It doesn't have to be necessarily about financial status, it can be any aspect in which he is above her. That's nonsensical. Every person excels at different things it is inevitable that a guy will be superior in SOME aspects while she will be superior in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:35 PM
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That doesn't have anything to do with the financial status and hypergamy. Why can't woman just like a guy that's about the same level as her? We shared social group, played some DotA, talked anime. He only got to high financial status years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:02 PM
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How the hell would I know I though he looked cute that's why I dated him. I was 16 and in High school I wasn't exactly thinking about inferiority or superiority of my future husband he was just a regular IT student :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:48 PM
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So if I started dating a guy while he was poor but now has great financial status what then? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:36 PM
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Idk, by the time 9th month is rolling over and you can't even roll over the childbirth is freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 09:19 AM
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Czechia. With my comfy universal health care, free education and maternity leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:34 AM
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Idk man, I read babybumps and the female experience in the US sounds anything but first class. I'd good here in PoorYurop at least I have maternity and don't have to pay 12k just to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:31 AM
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Tbh I wouldn't want to be a woman in the US and that's as West as they go. Although I wouldn't want to be anyone in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:26 AM
2

Not just Western, it is by the book UMC complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:08 AM
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Now that you are done analysing the latest Sex in the City episode perhaps it's time to go out and meet some real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 04:03 AM
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While I find great value in EQ that's not what feel over realz refers to. FoR is literally making shit up where there is none it's not about perception of nuanced or hidden social cues. Just cause you FEEL men oppress you with their balls on a subway doesn't mean they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:38 AM
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They are all "calm and rational" until someone snipes them in Counter Strike. Amazing how some men can rage so much over petty bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 02:23 AM
1

So where is the ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 05:09 AM
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I think catcalling is very much an Anglosphere thing. I have never been catcalled by a countryman. I can remember being catcalled once and that was by some black tourists. Got stalked once by weird foreigner, imho from Balkans. And randomly approached on a street and hit on by an old British guy. But a Czech guy just randomly shouting at woman on a street? Sounds unlikely unless he is drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 12:34 AM
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Just to note on the CDC stats they are bit BS because they for some, to me unfathomable, reason don't count 'made to penetrate' as rape. The way they overall collect data is somewhat iffy too so imo not appropriate to base arguments on their stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:30 AM
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30s DiCaprio is much hotter than when he was a young twink. Young DiCaprio was cuteish. Those are two different measurements of male attractiveness. There's smouldering hot and babyface cute. What you are describing is the second one. Heck George Clooney and Sean Connery both looked better the older they got, same with Robert Downey Jr. Oposite of that you got someone like Tom Holland or Dylan O'brien who are that cute ditzy hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:21 AM
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In my experience guys I know did get hotter close to 30. Mainly because as they enter the work environment (people here finish Masters at Uni around 25ish) they will eventuality start getting more interested in grooming and will actually have money to look good. Most the guys I know looked like messy potato in their 20s, few years ago they all started to get in shape, lose weight, visit barber shops, buy nicer suits AND accessories etc. They indeed look very fine. 95% of those are IT so the samp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 03:10 AM
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My husband would have to have 15x the amount of money he has so that I could take half and live comfortably the way I do now spending normally. The guy would have to be really wealthy for that to work, and those are quite few.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 03:30 PM
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If the payout is big then so is the continual trickle. Imo the payout is unlikely to be big enough to feed me for the next 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 01:57 PM
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I have trouble with the divorce part really. Like if I marry a guy for money and stay with him he will continue to provide for me. If I divorce him I might get one time payout but that feels kinda like eating a duck that lays golden eggs and frying those to make breakfast. Sure great breakfast but what about lunch?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:04 AM
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Sounds like that. 4 kids is way too much and I'm pretty happy as a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:45 AM
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Nonsense, they didn't have attack helicopters back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 08:42 AM
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Meanwhile Vienna was a hub of European inteligence. Srsly the problems of A-H are quite unrelated to the way its peasants got basic education.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 02:57 PM
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I think they still couldn't go to Universities. But elementary education was compulsory for both girls and boys so it was quite fair. Tbh idk, we don't really play the patriarchy blame game since our equality reforms are result of WWI and Socialism, we didn't have real suffragette movement or stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 02:52 PM
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No, I'm Czech. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 02:42 PM
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Which is pretty untrue. (Also the reform was established by Maria Theresa but the system itself was created by Johann Ignaz Felbiger, a dude. Check mate manosphere?)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 02:40 PM
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Modern school system in my country was established by Maria Theresa. Check mate manosphere!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 06:19 AM
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Yeah well I'm not the one who produced a list of qualities for wife material that makes having a husband pointless endeavour. :P Also the grand idea of directing woman appears to be 'big picture' of "do stuff to keep the house running". Gee, thanks for your wisdom master. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:02 AM
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Sure but I got enough cash to call a repairman once in a while meanwhile most guys don't have enough money for daily services of a maid that will give them BJ with their toast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:41 AM
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Mowing lawn is not rocket science man. Doesn't make you a superior being lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 12:36 AM
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You don't do repairs or mown the lawn daily. The "male jobs" are occasional things. They don't even open jars that often. Apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:26 PM
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Not that expensive to make trip to Venice on this side of ocean. But don't. I hear Venice smells.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:22 PM
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That kind of direction is basically feed me, pet me, praise me. Such wow much leadership. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:11 PM
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Directed by a guy that is completely clueless about how to run a household? I have to instruct my husband on how to put laundry detergent in the wash he couldn't direct anything for the life of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 08:35 PM
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what exactly the fuck they want when they know it Yea, but only when we know it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:54 PM
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Submissive. Eastern European. Haha...pick one. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:52 PM
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Women should be self sufficient managers of my home. Women should be obedient and hang on my every word, also not bother me much. Yeah, lol. One cannot be obedient and accomplished manager of home simultaneously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:44 PM
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Yea but those people are weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 08:14 AM
1

He gives awesome cuddles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:42 AM
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That sounds terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:39 AM
2

You're just gunna end up looking like a faggot, or at best cover up a few pimples and eye bags without anyone knowing. Dude nobody is telling you to wear eye shadow. But guy specific makeup and more importantly contouring can totally change the way your face looks and make you look more handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:41 PM
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You can wear a fake beard. Heck you can make a pretty convincing fake stubble with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 01:37 PM
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If you need to scam old grandma's for their credit cards go for it. You gotta do what you gotta do to get that prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:41 PM
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100 men will want to bang her not date her. That's why dating is hard. (Tbh I don't think dating is that hard.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:27 PM
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When you are used to living in a country with reasonable welfare system then single moms on government aid are really least of your problem. I don't think many would consider it issue or burden on their taxes. We got pretty good maternity system, kindergardens and such and I do not really hear about impoverished moms sucking on welfare. They work and live pretty a-ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 06:42 AM
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I'd say he's fairly good looking. If he was...well... normal, he wouldn't have any trouble picking up girls imho. But yeaaa if your mum still pays for all yer stuff and you got no job and spend your time shut in your room you can't really expect much can you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 10:47 PM
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That might be the problem. For lot of guys any sex will do, they get to come anyway. But for women only good sex is the sex that's 'worth' it. So not having any might be preferable to wasting time with bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 06:40 PM
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Sounds like she has a very specific type and you're right in her niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:27 PM
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Submissive is a green flag? Dread game is a must? That just gives me passive sex bot vibes not long term partner vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 12:28 PM
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But I also know having sex for a woman that isn’t aroused is painful. It can cause tearing and bleeding which burns and itches for days when you piss. Ok while I get the larger point you are making in the OP this is really very minor problem/excuse in the world where we have this amazing thing called Lube. I don't think she has to if she doesn't want to but it's not impossible or unavoidably painful. Edit:. There's also other ways, even if she really hates oral and such then Intercrural sex for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 02:08 PM
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Curious. Seems to be two RP stances I see. This thread is pretty much jaded 'It's her obligation to bang me.' Meanwhile in other threads I also saw 'It's your responsibility to be a man she wants to bang.' Tbh no wonder some ppl get starfish sex if their wife only sees it as her job. Why would she give a guy high quality sex if he doesn't care about her pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:32 PM
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To a friend? Sure. To bunch of Internet strangers? I don't mind sharing random harmless info. But editorialisation is important because sharing deeper stuff about husband seems invasive to me, I respect his privacy and I have no business telling strangers about his feelings or penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:36 PM
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Christ on a cracker, all I was trying to find out was "does your husband have any things about him you don't like, and if so, what are they?" Shit like "he drinks whiskey when I like beer" or "he leaves the toothpaste cap off" or "he leaves his underwear on the floor" or "he likes vanilla ice cream". I missed it at the time but looking at it now it doesn't look like that was the question really. Especially with the long triade at the start :D But it's an interesting topic perhaps it should be re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:41 PM
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Orgasms are fun. Why DB your husband when the activity is fun for you? Would make sense she's not enjoying the sex then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:48 PM
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Well we can't really tell without knowing her supposed reason now can we? Only thing you said is their sex life is inadequate but not how.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 03:11 PM
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Well that's a weirdly specific thing to worry about. Nobody at r/science really mentioned that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 05:58 AM
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One year sounds way too short. We normally got 3 years of parental leave after which people put kids into kindergarden. Parents ought to actually parent their kids not leave that to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 11:02 PM
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While I wasn't virgin that long the rest would apply. Met my first boyfriend while in high school (16/22). Married 10 years later. It was unexpected, but not unachievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 07:40 AM
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I just saw this on r/science and I wouldn't put much weight on the study. I'd recommend reading the discussion there First off is 21 participants. Secondly it deals with objectification in very neutral manner and not as if we were talking about 'sexual objectification.' They mainly got hits when they placed them very strangely like upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 06:23 AM
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because widows are not to blame in any way for their cicumstances Assuming she didn't kill him :D But would a woman that divorced the husband because she went all psycho on her be much more to blame for her circumstances? Lot of circumstances where she ended up divorced through no fault of her own come to kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 09:03 PM
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I'm highly doubtful women make more decisions about spending on cars beyond what color she wants. Maybe it's silly stereotype but my own input on car is basically 'I like the way this one looks.' 'I like the X color.' and 'Does it have good crash test grade?'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 05:03 PM
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I never though of it in terms of initial attraction. Idk about that. But in relationship I do prefer my partner to be emotionally open with me and I actively encourage him to share. Sometimes you gotta drag it out a bit but ultimately I feel it deepens our bond. We're a team after all. And his emotional openness doesn't mean he can't be a strong support for me as well. Those two qualities are not exclusive to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:21 AM
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Guess I'll have to deal. It's too late for me, I'm 37weeks in. I can't turn back :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 02:31 PM
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Ye, but those women still could use preschool centres for the above reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 02:04 PM
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They are all the joy! And cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:10 PM
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As little shrieking tyrants that are all the work and none of the joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 06:25 AM
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We can take up to 4 years of maternity and lot of women chain it with 2nd kid but we still do preschool education. I'm SAHM but I want my kid to socialise properly in orderly environment and get some early language education.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 06:22 AM
3

That moment when my boyfriend from when I was 16 actually did marry me. :D Took him 10 years. Worth it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/18 07:55 PM
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Not if they touch your geek stuff it isn't. Good partner buys me comic book statues not throws them away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 03:34 AM
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Somehow this attractiveness = sexual adventuresness does not translate well for me. Just cause he looks good doesn't mean he provides her with more satisfying sex. The jock who every girl wants but finishes way too fast and only cares about his own pleasure is a known archetype. Why should he care anyway he can slay any 'pussy' right? Lot of those assumptions seem to hinge on that the woman is ambivalent to the quality of sex SHE is getting. Any time I see complain about starfish sex it reads to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 02:53 AM
1

Unless you're Sean Connery or George Clooney. They slay with that grey in their hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 06:20 AM
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I'm Bioware gal. I remember how my husband found it hilarious when I kept dreamily sighing over Cullen :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 06:20 PM
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I am content with my harem of virtual imaginary boyfriends from videogames and that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 09:11 AM
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They are clearly neuro-atypical. It's pretty sad that they are marginalised probably to even bigger degree than your regular mentally unwell person. Men seem to really have it worse when it comes to mental health. Or maybe I'm just naive, with the way I see 'normal' people behave on the Internet I don't frigging know anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:42 AM
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Idk, I only ever dated my husband and I was his first GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 07:16 AM
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You know people complain how PPD women act like they are such unique unicorns but with the way people here describe their concept of "normal" relationship it is pretty hard not to. Cause going on date with no sex seems the normal way to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 09:02 PM
3

Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 07:07 PM
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Isn't the causality where wrong? The BP claim is that they are loose because they are low quality. Not that they are low quality because they are loose. The second one sounds like degrading because of n count. The first one just assumes low quality results in high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 02:59 PM
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Hmm, I can't think of particular face type that would be my favourite. Sure guys like Chris Pratt look hot but then there's guys like Ben Whishaw who got that cute. I do have preference for shorter guys. I don't like guy hovering over me from above. Muscle is always nice but lean/lanky as I don't like very bulky mountain guys. No, but I only dated my husband. Idk. The build has probably something to do with hanging around geeks and gamers. I noticed I found the short guys among us appealing in l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 07:13 AM
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My guess would be around the reliable provider: Guy who gives up fast or isn't willing to put in effort for you will not make a good provider in the future. Leaving you and your young vulnerable. If you are not worth some basic effort then you cannot rely on him. That goes hand in hand with not being easy. Imho men want to feel special that they have been chosen and that their achievement has made them worthy (reliable for offspring) which is why there's negativity around easy women who will giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 12:24 PM
1

I don't have any specific one but I also don't think there's one that would smell good on anyone. It's got to be handpicked for that specific guy so it fits him and meshes well with his chemistry. Say my uncle always smells pretty good, but I couldn't put the same cologne on my husband cause it would smell weird on him and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 07:13 AM
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But, as an example, shit testing me is one I NEVER see. I can go where I want when I want, spend money at any time, have sex pretty much whenever I want (she's way hornier than me), etc. Honey is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:13 PM
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Central Europe Czechia. Tbh I don't know how more one could mingle. I treat my male friends pretty much same as my female ones apart from not talking the "girl stuff" like PMS moods or pregnancy issues with them. But I could go to see a movie or go out drinking with either. I will hug them or touch then equally. Like do Americans do something more special with their friends? A secret handshake perhaps? The confusion isn't really much of a thing depending on whether you simply use "mine" or no. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 09:30 PM
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They don't tho. I'm from Slavic part of Europe and platonic male/female relationships are totally normal here. I never heard about men and women maintaining distance and avoiding close friendships. We even have overlapping terms for romantic partner and friend. It's a same word just used differently according to context.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 08:07 PM
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I would probably chuckle then mock the guy with a sentence or two and then just block him. Sending dick pics is the stupidest thing ever nobody wants to see your silly dongle and hairy balls, shot with low quality camera on top. You'd honestly have more chance with a topless pic provided you have some nice definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:10 AM
2

It's a minor thing but young elementary kids here often have a brunch food, like a simple sandwich or something for the 30 min break. And I always wanted those and even asked mom but my parents didn't have time or whatever to prepare those, so I was snacking on pretty unhealthy food from shop. But the thing I minded the most was that I didn't have that homemade sandwich. This have led me to be determined to want to really spend time on my kids and make them homecooked meals and just be a mom (an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:43 PM
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I think it gives us women much more enticing threesome options :D more hot men the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 05:12 PM
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What really that long? My country has 12 and 24 only in case of health complications and I thought that's plenty reasonable. 20-24 just like that cause you wanna sounds like doing it pretty late. It feels weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 11:08 PM
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I LoL at the 'especially the first one' Brody looks pretty ugly to me especially in that pic. Just look at his nose his nose is total opposite of top 20% Driver is an acquired taste certainly, I was so meh about him originally, his face is not conventionaly attractive one. And ton of ppl can't stand Cumberbatch's face. And these three are all in the photos that are designed to make them look good. So Idk what that guy is about. Tbh, I saw ton of improvement when my male friends started grooming …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 10:50 PM
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I would say that if she was I intentionally leading him on then she's the asshole. At worst I might take exeption to the use of "by being ambiguous", cause it's entirely possible she might just be trying to let him down gently /with subtlety but doesn't realise he doesn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 10:47 PM
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Life in general maybe. But the specific life that carries on the guy's DNA forward is inherently valuable to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 04:39 PM
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You don't start complaining about how society creates cars with bad gas mileage Well that would be dumb of of course :D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 01:47 PM
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Of course I don't. I am woman I pick car by its color. Edit: but really if the car is great at the 99% other stuff other than mileage it's still great car. But the mileage is still shit and reason to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 01:37 PM
2

I'm doubtful that anyone pulls off curves with BMI that high. It's just plain fat rolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 01:35 PM
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Tbh guys' ability to put dishes in the dishwasher isn't exactly a metric according to which one chooses their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 01:25 PM
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Second, it's not a woman's job to have sex with you. It's the man's job to be attractive enough that the woman wants to have sex with him. If she's not attracted to him it's his problem, not hers. While this is consistent with what I understand as the good parts of the RP theory, it is contradictory to what I usually read from RP's on this sub. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:53 AM
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Well there's only so many ways I can ask my husband to put the dishes into dishwasher without sounding condescending. :D I just tell him the dishwasher is sad he hates it so much nowadays. At least it's funnier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:35 AM
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You mean that most people would truly believe in the concept of 'the one'? I would think that's just a thing people are saying but are subconsciously aware that they could have easily ended up with someone else and still been just as happy. It's also an access thing. Sure somewhere in the world I probably could find someone better than my husband but it would be incredibly inefficient and I am secure in that I really don't need to optimalise my partner to such degree as to waste my time and effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 02:47 PM
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You can be fun and not be an asshole the point is not being a doormat. The archetype of suave gentleman is slaying pussy too. There is a very big difference between being confident and taking lead and being domineering. One is attractive the other tells me they guy has issues and is toxic. The aggressive petty asshole was certainly not the popular guy in our class. Maybe it's different in Europe but I think there's a lot of misattributed characteristics, kinda like difference between girl who is…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 07:42 AM
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I'll take nerds over hardcore TRP any day. Nerds are just shy and I hope they'll find a nice girl one day. But lot of the TRP's Ferengi-style attitudes towards women are just turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 10:30 PM
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Your average American woman is poorly dressed and fat too tho. And men marry them despite them not being their bouncy dreamt up hot model. Everyone has to settle. It is not like it's unbalanced for just one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:59 PM
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Uhhh if by party hard you mean stay at home all day and play videogames?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:31 PM
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We were 16/22 when we started dating with my husband. It's fairly whatever here but I'm shocked at number of Americans who'd claim he's a predator. It's doubly hilarious cause I was the one to pick up that shy IT boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:20 PM
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None of the 30 y/o women I know look significantly different from when they were 26. Tbh I've only looked better since 24 and now at 26 I doubt I'll look that different in 3 years either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 06:16 PM
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Nah, being hot is what will make her moist. Sexy nice guy > mediocre to fugly asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:59 PM
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1 month isn’t really that long when you are looking for a relationship. Guys who think inputting nice things into a woman = will bang are not really nice guys. Cause genuinely nice guy will give her space.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:33 PM
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Because he’s an edgy emo that’s there for the girl to ‘fix’ It’s the factor of being special in the fantasy where she’s the only one to melt his frozen heart. Idk I’m more of a Lupin girl myself. The fixing broken toys principle is similar with him, even tho he’s ‘nice guy’.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:22 PM
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Mine too, he’s is such a puppy. And especially when he tries to be manly and tough looking it’s too cute. Really there’s being nice/adorkable and being a creepy doormat. Cause doormats are boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:13 PM
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“He was really nice and took me out to a fancy place so I banged him.” would be a more accurate scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 10:09 PM
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Not OP but in our case - we married now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 07:24 AM
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Not having experience doesn't mean you are sexual prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 07:22 AM
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I think that if you were planning to break up but are prolonging it for some reason like pity or not wanting to be alone etc and you know that eventually you are not planning to stay. At that point you are just stringing them along and wasting the time they could be looking for a different partner. Not sure I it's outright immoral tho. I think it's different when you both decide you want to keep trying and make it work tho, wouldn't apply to that cause you both know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 07:27 AM
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Preferably, just not too much :P But my sample of shorter than me guys I know is 1 so that's pretty limited although he's pretty cute too :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 08:58 PM
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That's not the type of nice guys feminists are upset over. The nice guys they mean will tell woman she looks nice and when she says sorry not interested he will call her an ugly bitch a dog wouldn't shag. Nobody is really upset over nice pleasant timid men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 01:05 PM
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Well OP started with "Lets assume a guy is not overweight." But depending on how ugly No Guy might be better than Fit Ugly Guy. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 08:49 PM
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Me and hubby both started the gym because we're bloody potatoes and both had to do physical rehabilitation cause of fcked posture from sitting at PC all day. I guess we're the exceptions lol :D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 06:32 PM
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Well I can pretty clearly outline what I want. :D Sorry women aren't a monolith, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:39 PM
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Well I wouldn't want an ugly boyfriend even if he won a gold medal, so that was simply my perspective :P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 01:03 PM
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If you got ugly face I don't think gym will help you but they's not that many guys that ugly. But if you are average it might. Other than fit shape the presentation of the other guys could also give you some inspiration for grooming. Complimentary features such as nice facial hair or stylish haircut can do wonders. I see lot of sharp looking guys at the gym and you can tell they care about their looks even w/o fancy clothes. Gym will also help a lot with the posture, slouching is pretty unatract…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 11:00 AM
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To illustrate I'm 164cm. My husband is 172cm (guys here are tall, national average is 180cm) Personally I am into shorter guys, though I would like my partner to be at least my height (this was funny when I was buying wedding shoes, I had to get really short heels :D) for comfort so I guess that would be a cut off. On the other hand I actually do have 'too tall' cut off I don't like men being significantly taller than I am. That image of hugging him and not being able to put my head on his shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 11:22 PM
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It's kind of curious really. I somehow reason like maybe I SHOULD be offended or hurt by the idea but I kind of find myself in the mindset of I wouldn't care. So I'm bit surprised the answers aren't bit more even. Maybe it's cultural. Nothing is 100% If it was cheap (idk what the price is) it would also be for the best benefit of the child to do it for the medical history of the father. Maybe there could be some hidden genetic defect or predisposition towards some illnesess and they wouldn't kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 10:52 PM
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No the original teaches women in loveless marriage that they can change their husband from the beast into someone normal through love. It's the original mold the man into what you want female power fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 09:41 AM
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You know I'm not surprised they are bitching about TRP if TRP lead you to conclusion that abuse is a good way to keep a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 09:33 AM
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One where you don't consistently physically or emotionally suffer because of the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 09:22 AM
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Sex is best with empathy left at the bedroom door. Hmm interesting approach, I understand that's something people do but personally I couldn't or wouldn't want to have sex with someone I wasn't emotionally attached to. But yeah coffee sounds like more reasonable shortcut to sex. Diner is quite romantic gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 06:10 PM
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Well JP is also the one who keeps telling everyone to clean their room as form of self improvement :D To explain better hubby is willing that's not issue, I don't want him to do chores I just want him to put the 1 plate he used hours ago in dishwasher but he's just totally oblivious to the fact he keeps leaving plates all over the place. So it's not the willingness but rather the lack of realisation that's symptomatic of lack of attention to the aforementioned small things. It feels similar to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 08:03 AM
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I lift, my husband lifts it's not that super hard and I haven't seen much other examples in this topic. I'm not saying men don't put in effort sometime they do a lot, but I think there's underestimation of all the little things women do because they seem like something normal, meanwhile when man takes effort to improve himself it's more socially unusual. And I think the little things women do overall stack up more. Or maybe it's just my perspective cause my husband might lift but I think I'll ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 12:42 AM
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Depends on the pair? I don't think age matters that much in this. We've got 6 years age gap and husband still not rich as he would like and even the attractiveness isn't necessarily determined by the age. For example my husband has been praising my looks more when I lost few kilos at around bit before 25. And basically it goes 'You were cute back then (16-24) too but now you are much hotter and more attractive' To note I was not overweight but higher end of normal weight. But a marriage with 10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 11:33 PM
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Working women would wish guys would do 50% housework. Teeny tiny number of them do, and even then they sometimes do it in such a way you gotta fix it after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 10:12 PM
1

They are in Vegas perhaps they have money? California is weird hole of alt universe even here we know they are weird by the US standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 10:10 PM
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Hmm tbh I think skinny is nice enough. When my husband started gym I was quite worried he would get too buff cause I like the slim shape of him. He looks fine now as lean but well defined but if he buffed up too large I would complain. Muscles don't hurt but I don't think it's something women focus on if the guy has an attractive face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:59 PM
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Hmm on the other hand I do like doing my hair. Fun quick hairstyles and braids are nice. But screw putting any product on that I would have to brush it out and that's work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:52 PM
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Hmm very rarely if it's been some time I haven't been in the mood I do either initiate (or just go for BJ) or let him initiate it not cause I feel obligated but more like I feel bit bad for neglecting him and I want to make him feel good even if I'm kinda whatever about the act itself at the moment. But if I'm not into it at all and then I just say so and that's that I don't force myself. At the same time he's the same if he's not feeling it that's it I gotta suck it up. No fake orgasms, I find …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:44 PM
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I don't think a man will specifically notice the nails or the hair but it adds points to the overall picture which is something he will notice. It's like all the little details that make the whole artwork great but you wouldn't necessarily look at each of the details themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 09:02 PM
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We exist. European SAHM! Married to the cutest IT guy. 10/10 would recommend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 03:34 PM
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I go to the gym and lift weights. I don't do makeup. Makeup and more importantly removing makeup is 1000% more annoying busywork. Gym is fun in comparison :D I'm half joking but I just hate removing makeup man. D:
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 03:32 PM
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Choking as a play is also really bloody dangerous. It's bad idea to do a/o setting the rules first. I also found out that for example I am into the idea of it in theory but in practice it does nothing for me even though I still like the idea of it. :/ You also put it well with the dinner. If a guy invites me to dinner I would expect he's interested in relationship rather than casual sex on the first date. It's considered much more romantic gesture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 03:19 PM
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I find the idea of diner and sex riddiculous in the first place. I stuffed myself with all this food and they expect me to be into sex on a full stomach? And also they expect to perform on a full stomach?! I don't want to listen to the sloshing sounds of your stomach above me man. Bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 03:10 PM
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Lol nope. Like my preferred position can switch from day to day just depending on the mood. This stuff is not set especially with women. Just cause something is awesome one day doesn't mean it can't suddenly be unpleasant under different circumstances. Edit: corrected the autocorrect mess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 02:52 PM
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Pretty sure Jezebel is widely riddiculed online like a swamp it is. Just cause more people read it doesn't mean it's respected or anything. People read all kinds of dumb rags like The Sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 12:24 AM
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The RoK is intellectually insulting any day of year regardless of gender. It's about as 'on point' as Jezebel's articles. I could just as well say that the toxicity in League of Legends proves that men are fueled mainly by emotions. Would be about as accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 12:03 AM
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One word. Castles. :D A beautiful baroque castle of Austerlitz with its Napoleonic legacy. I was a princess yo!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 06:55 PM
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Right this. No marriage no kids, that kind of environment seems way too unstable to bring a child into and it's protection for both the mother and the kids. Tbh I like being married but I wanted the wedding itself more than marriage, could be fine to do it symbolically without the legal documents, but since we did the one we might as well do the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 06:15 PM
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It could just be youthful rebellion. I didn't get or like girly things and preferred to play with boys. Only at high school I started wearing skirts and heels and all that jazz. I love girly things now tho and fell in love with pink :D. So she can still get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:43 AM
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That's what you get for reading Polygon and Kotaku.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 03:06 PM
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Well funnily enough, I am 26 and thinking back ten years ago I started dating my now husband who was 22 at the time (I approached him) so it's somewhat of a personal experience for me. We both liked anime, video games, metal you can have plenty of common interests and romantic chemistry. There is not really a social stigma around it in my country, my parents didn't bat an eye and I only met with disapproval when talking about it with people from US. Which is why I posed the question about the cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 07:16 PM
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I don't see how maturity and experience would be barrier to a healthy relationship provided the older party is not manipulating the younger. Which would make it creepy. High schoolers and uni students aren't that drastically different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 10:34 AM
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