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This a lot of people on this sub tends to get confused with “not being phased by anything” or “emotionless and not reacting to woman’s bs” while its partly true and u can interpret its use case in this scenario, it really drives away from the self help portion of this sub and again make everything about women. When the focus should be about improving your everyday mental state If u actually look up and read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius there is actually much more about stoicism than just women…
/r/askTRP28/05/18 05:28 PM
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Youre just scared, just do it, wait long enough and she'll go hop on some other dude. When she comes over, keep your mind off "omg im finally gonna lose my virginity" and think about how u can continue to escalate instead. Be dominant, pull her onto your bed or pick herup and put her on ur bed. Don't worry about being bad, just focus on enjoying yourself. Worst case scenario, shes not satisfied, its really not that big of a deal. Just think of it as practice, you live and you learn my friend. An…
/r/askTRP18/03/17 09:58 AM
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Interesting... This might be it, but at the same time i don't feel sad necessarily, it just feels... Normal? I still have fun but its a lack of fulfillment or what one of the other red piller said "not magical". Ive been self improving for like 4 years now, I was once at that theory sponge stage (before trp) and breaking out of that was how i first found my ex, so for me after breaking up it was mainly just focusing on regaining the motivation and accepting my loss and moving on
/r/askTRP18/03/17 06:02 AM
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I would like to clarify that I've never really "put on a fake" to attract a certain type of women. Ive always felt that staying true to myself will put me at the highest level of confidence. The redpill just opened my eyes mainly to why my relationship failed, finding the mentality of playing the numbers game , and understanding nature of women. For me it was more the realization of how simple and almost cookie cutter recipe for attracting women. It doesn't make it less fun, just a lot less fulf…
/r/askTRP18/03/17 05:58 AM
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I like this, it does give me a bit of hope and a good explanation of whats happening, thank you for that input, ive never looked at the situation that way.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 05:49 AM
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Indifferent =\= agression, hatred or ignoring people Let me put our a scenario, say ur friend saids "dude that shirt looks ridiculous on you" Option 1: "well fuck you i dont give a shit about what u think" Option 2: "i do what i want back off" Option 3: "thanks for your input man" All 3 options are indifference, you dont care what ur friend thinks, but option 1 is autism, option 2 is aggressive, and option 3 is still being nice to people It isnt as black or white as u think it is, you can be ind…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:00 PM
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Heres a shot of reality: YOU ARE MAKING WAYY TOO MANY EXCUSES rain+midterm = no gym? There are people who work 60hours a week and wake up at 5am in the morning for the gym Not in a frat so can't join parties? Be the person who hosts kickbacks and invite close friends and girls. Frat parties are honestly extremely overrated anyways People doing their own thing or have headphones in so u can't talk to them? Tap them on the shoulder and be like "hey you are listening to that new taylor swift album …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 10:25 AM
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Honestly, i dont think anyone on this sub can give u sound advice without knowing the full context, the issue is that there are a lot of factors thats at play: What major are u studying How fast is your channel growing What is your motivation level in becoming an entrepreneur What are your financial status And many many many more School may or may not help u, honestly if ure not doing stem i'd say screw college, but thats just my 2 cents(also kinda biased in this) But if your channel is actually…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 10:15 AM
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Losing my oneitis girlfriend and reflecting on my actions, especially towards the end. I realized the more i tried to make it work, the more it fell apart and the faster it drove her away... I realized i sacrificed way too many things and got content with the situation (relaxed on gym schedule, stopping talking to new people, stopped trying to game other girls) So that was step 0: acknowledging my problem Then it was picking myself back up, realizing how much success I have had in my life outsid…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 10:01 AM
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Its hard to give u full advice as im not sure your relationship with your dad is but you don't need to live on campus to get the "full experience", you just need to work slightly harder, most of my closest friends in college never lived with or even near me, but heres my advice: Golden rules of college: Dont go into debt for a business degree or something, if its free then sure, but otherwise u better have a stem major coming out if you're going into debt for it Make sure ur life goal isn't the …
/r/askTRP21/02/17 10:19 PM
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Escalating comes with practice, in the beginning you might feel weird about it but just remember to have fun. Fuck all filters and just say what you want, she'll have fun if youre having fun
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:47 AM
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Dread implies you are in a LTR, which you aren't from what I understand(even if you consider it, she doesnt) The correct course of action is to continue working to raise your smv and sleep with other women aka spin more plates. Dread just invokes jealousy, without really "cheating" or so to say. But since you arent in a committed relationship you might as well just keep gaming other girls
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:43 AM
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I dont know how to put this but i don't think you're aware of what flirting is... Flirting implies that you are being playful and escalating through sexual tone, push pull or just teasing, either way you imply interest and your intentions are stated at some point. What you are doing here is just being nice to them and they will see you as the "beta provider" of just offering them food but they don't really need to do anything. It isn't really being mysterious. If it were me, next time they ask f…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 05:15 AM
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It means that it literally doesnt matter where or what she is looking at, you havent even initiated contact yet so no signs can be considered an IOI... She may look down because shes shy, or she likes u, or she hates u, or she doesn't want u to look at her, either way, you won't find out until u ask You even said it yourself, why are you asking these simple questions, if u find one of them attractive, just stop them and say hi, worst case scenario she saids im busy or im not interested and walks…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:13 AM
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Heres some splash of truth: Chances are, in this stage she knows she has a higher SMV than you, and probably thinks that she can do better than you Why? Because you are letting her leading this relationship, she has other guys around, you dont have other girls around, she has the power because you need her more than she needs you Go meet other girls, stop giving this one girl all your attention, and watch how this plays out
/r/askTRP29/01/17 07:56 PM
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Having fun in whatever way you like to have fun, being social, talking to people, being interested in them (people love talking about themselves). Its just that whenever i tell people to be the life of the party they automatically assume they need to be the "hype man" and just scream every time anything happens. You are welcome to do that if thats who you are, but for me im just constantly talking to people and bringing people in together to have fun, thats how u become interesting
/r/askTRP28/01/17 11:30 PM
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Eyyy, a post that I actually have a lot of experience in!!! So I have a serious case of asian glow, and low tolerance, and typically after a few drinks even though I don't feel drunk I just always want to go to sleep when I drink, so I've basically spent the last few years figuring out how to not drink and still be extremely social, and its work for me very well, here are my general tips Have a fucking awesome personality This means you are the life of the party, AT EVERY PARTY, I'm sorry, but i…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:19 AM
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The most important thing is learning to love yourself and love the journey that you have taken to get to where you are today Heres a bit of my story, last year, i was at what I thought was the peak of my life. I was a project lead for two very tough engineering projects, and was in a leadership position for a social club. I had everything going for me, to top it off, i started going out with the "girl of my dreams"(bp, i know) Flash Forward to now, I am extremely overwhelmed with the amount of t…
/r/askTRP27/01/17 09:16 AM
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I cant tell if this is just a brag or are you actually that thick... she was basically telling you "hey, you cute, i want to go home with you and have you fuck me silly" but u didnt do anything... What other signs did you need?
/r/askTRP26/01/17 09:08 PM
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Just remember to smile and have fun, otherwise you can come across as creepy or threatening haha
/r/askTRP26/01/17 02:14 AM
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You said it yourself, you need make yourself busy. If you are doing things, you won't be obsessing over a text... Make new friends, pick up a hobby, go out and meet people, start a personal project, go to the gym. As for the idgaf mentality, the best way to achieve that is to purposefully put yourself in awkward/weird/uncomfortable situation. Then you'll realize that noone actually cares that much about what you do
/r/askTRP26/01/17 02:11 AM
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So location still irrelevant haha, but why overthink this? Just keep on having fun and enjoying yourself until red flags come up The general advice here in trp will be AWALT and that there is no unicorn. Just keep that in the back of your mind to avoid making her ur oneitis.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 02:06 AM
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This 1s tough, a leader is someone people look to when they aren't sure of what to do, from my experience, a good leader have all the red pill traits that are taught in this community 1.Confidence This 1s obvious, but confidence here is at the extreme, you will never see a great leader that isn't confident. This means believing in your self, but more importantly, believing that YOU can make the right decisions and BE WILLING to take responsibility for the consequences of these decisions 2.Abilit…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 01:53 AM
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Why does it matter? What are you looking for? Hows this a valid question about trp? Lol
/r/askTRP26/01/17 01:32 AM
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Lack of true confidence, theres the surface level of confidence where you have your life in order, then there is the deeper level of confidence that stems from loving yourself and knowing who you are I play this game where I attempt to make eye contact with EVERYONE whenever I am walking around, the first person to look away loses, i win every time ;) One time i stared down this girl and she just would not look away, i bursted out laughing and she gave me a smirk, we then passed by each other an…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 01:27 AM
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Step 1: figure out what you enjoy doing Step 2: ask the girl to join you doing that thing Step 3: make an adventure out of it, move to different locations, walk and lead her, usual game stuff Step 4: thats it, learn to have fun As a general rule avoid dinners and movies, you can't physically escalate in those cases, and for the movie case u cant even talk to her, so definitely a no. But generally make sure u do have a backup plan in case date bails. This could mean like having a drink, getting c…
/r/askTRP20/01/17 09:34 AM
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What roseillus has listed out is basically the advice you need, im on mobile so im not gonna do too much formatting Escalation By starting now, he literally means the next time you see her, go up to her and tell her your intentions, you think shes cute or awesome, and want to ask her to hangout (aka date). If you get rejected, oh wellz, better to live with rejection than regret. Plus you will walk out of there with more balls and people(her included) will have more respect for u to even ask The …
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:35 AM
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Thanks for the input, see update
/r/askTRP22/12/16 08:31 AM
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Thank you for the whip of reality, I really needed that, I realized that I made a mistake talking to her, but for me I really wanted to push my limits to see whether or not I have truly moved on, I guess that backfired And strangely enough, I dont think I made much of a reaction, because at the time I didn't even know what I was feeling, i still don't know what I am feeling. Which is why I'm kinda looking for help. Maybe its the feeling that I got cheated on in a way? But its not anger either, b…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:49 AM
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I would like to agree with you, and that is the mentality that I was in before that last bit of truth. But I just cant shake off this feeling, even went to the gym (which usually cures me of all negative feelings) and I come back and I can feel it creeping back up again
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:37 AM
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The answer you're not looking for: you can't do it without destroying him. And i mean this sincerely. The first step to any problem is realizing that there is a problem, from what you've described it appears he hasn't figured it out yet. He is happy being in the relationship with you, and being content with his situation makes him lose the mentality to improve himself. So in my opinion, you have 2 options : 1. As everyone said, leave him, let him figure it out why you left him, and for him to im…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:40 AM
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I usually dont post here but this hits too close to home... I am the exact same way, since highschool Ive been striving and overworking myself to go to the gym, work extra hard, and try my best to improve my confidence. It has gotten to the point where I didn't know what to do except working... But what changed for me was learning how to DJ and play the guitar. Music is my hobby, its something that I look to when I am too stressed out. Through DJing I met tons of new people, and my social game i…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 03:45 AM
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