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Red Pill Theoryxinhoj/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 03:54 PM
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Red Pill Theoryxinhoj/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 04:58 PM
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Field Reportxinhoj/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:19 AM
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xinhoj/r/askTRP27/02/15 09:07 PM
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Field Reportxinhoj/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 06:27 PM
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I'm very laid back and normally don't go way out of my way to get plates. I just meet people through work and friends, and if I'm super horny I'll hit up Tinder etc. Not speaking for every MGTOW out there, but that's exactly how I do. Minimal investment. I'm not actively looking for sex, but if it comes my way, hey great. I'm very up front about my limited physical/emotional availability.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 06:56 PM
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wat in New York health products aren't taxed. That means everything from shampoo to deodorant to tampons to condoms.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 05:03 AM
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I would actually posture that the true MGTOW has experienced multiple in depth relationships with females and now declares 'no more'. They look at the cost to benefit ratio of sex and decide it is not worth it. I think you mean "posit" instead of "posture," but that's a minor quibble with a fundamentally solid point. I won't speak for the entire MGTOW community. My teens and twenties were spent beta-gaming (supplemented by what in retrospect were more than a few unconsciously alpha moments) with…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 04:44 AM
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That's my understanding & implementation of it: TRP = lift, game, spin plates MGTOW = disregard females, acquire currency
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:50 AM
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Encouraging vulnerability is a labor-saving mechanism. FI convinces AFCs to show vulnerability so women can disqualify their potential as a sexual mate with minimal effort on their part.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 10:40 PM
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I saw her at Christmas. She was much better behaved this month. Might've just been the holiday season, but I had a nice private chuckle about it.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 07:01 AM
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On third thought, just go back and re-read the 48 laws of power.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 09:01 AM
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Once upon a time TRP was a trending subreddit. I clicked on it, read the sidebar, and since then I've been drifting back and forth between the various stages of unplugging, watching life unfold through a red lens. I am no longer ashamed of my masculinity. I have a vocabulary that explains my experiences and instincts. I understand my—and my parents'—past relationships' successes and failures. I hold frame much more readily than ever before. And I ain't even started lifting yet.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 08:59 AM
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Law 9: "Win through your actions, never through argument." At a recent Christmas party, the other guys there were your typical BP types, cowering before the wrath of their womenfolk. Hell, the one fellow even remarked "now I'm in the shit" because his wife had stopped responding to his text messages after he mentioned he'd be catching a ride home because too much to drink. The girlfriend of the guy who invited me to this party was being unreasonably bitchy about me passing her a bowl of chocolat…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 12:38 PM
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If the girl's interested in you, she's not going to act like a bitch. The point is to punish bad behavior.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 03:45 AM
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start punishing women who lack basic human kindness and respect. Indeed. At my family's Thanksgiving dinner, I was seated next to my bratty 21-year-old cousin. I had taken a dinner roll and passed the platter in the opposite direction. "You need to give me a dinner roll," she said. I turned, looked at her, and wordlessly bit into my dinner roll. "GIVE ME A DINNER ROLL NOW!" The platter came back to me. I immediately held it well beyond arm's length from her and started passing rolls to everyone …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 03:40 AM
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Nothing that hasn't been said/observed here on TRP previously. During student teaching, one kid frequently came in, sat at his desk, passed out for the period, then got up & went on to his next class. I'd seen my sponsor chew kids out for less, so I asked why this one got a pass. He spent his nights guarding his sister's bedroom door against the (surprise surprise) single mother's "boyfriends" after mom & flavor-of-the-night stumbled home from the bar. While subbing, post-wall hambeast grandmoth…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 12:13 AM
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Teachers too. Source: many shitty experiences in the classroom before discovering the pill
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 06:19 PM
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I've been depressed since my best friend killed himself due to my inaction. In brief, there is only one person responsible for committing suicide, and that's the person who decides to do it. Not you. Not his parents. Not his girlfriend (unless she's that psychopath who got caught pushing her bf to kill himself). Your brain gets trapped in a loop of overanalyzing your last few interactions, with a dreadful certainty that something you said or did (or didn't say or didn't do) pushed them to do it.…
/r/askTRP14/10/15 02:48 AM
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When I take a gal out socially, I inform her straight up that she is there as my arm candy/jewelry and if she doesn't like it she's uninvited. You magnificent bastard. I got invited to a wedding coming up in a few weeks, and my original +1 had to back out due to a non-negotiable work commitment. I know of a few women who could fill his shoes and this will be their guideline for coming with me.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 03:27 AM
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Single. Had a long string of blue pill relationships and the last one fucked me up pretty severely to the point that I swore off any kind of involvement with women for almost three damn years. Took the red pill back in January and started acting upon it. I successfully engineered some one night stands at first, but realized I have a long way to go. The depression I battled since early adolescence is pretty much gone now. When the time comes I'll be ready to go forth and slay pussy. Right now I'v…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 11:17 PM
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"Gay Lube Oil Chicken" The synergies practically leverage themselves
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 05:01 PM
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Paste this in your browser: a.trp.red/terms
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:18 PM
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abdada already said everything you need to know. While you're reading, listen to "Domestic Dog" by Atmosphere on youtube for your next clue.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 03:59 AM
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at what point does love come back into the picture? When they earn it and not a minute sooner.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 03:49 AM
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slash r slash redpillbooks I know the parent sub bans linking to other subs, I assume the same rules apply here
/r/askTRP03/10/15 03:43 AM
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"You don't love me, you just love riding my emotional rollercoaster."
/r/askTRP03/10/15 03:42 AM
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It's frequently recommended in most book-suggestion threads, and the red pill books subreddit had it as a 2015 reading club title for March.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:31 AM
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Thank you for your contributions! This and your previous article on serotonin are by far the most fascinating topics posted on TRP this month. You touched on oxytocin briefly in one of your footnotes here, but dismissed it as less important. Is it less important compared to dopamine? Or neuropharmacology in general? Oxytocin release turns me pretty stupid. My TRP-aware conscious mind knows it's counterproductive but something on a baser level craves female physical affection and gets clingy if i…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 08:23 PM
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When I say smile, I don't mean have some goofy supplicating beta smile. In the past this was my smile. I can see the difference the red pill has made in recent pictures. Nowadays it looks like I'm laughing at a secret punchline.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:34 PM
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Or they could just read the sidebar before posting. That would be a nice change of pace.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 04:40 AM
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Don't post the punchline in the title
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 06:29 PM
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What do you think about keto?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 11:56 PM
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Short answer: No. The last two women I was with even passed similar comments the morning after: Them (paraphrased): "Are you one of those guys who's only dominant in the bedroom but lets the woman call the shots elsewhere?" "No, I just think you're reasonably intelligent enough to handle this situation without me having to tell you what to do." Obvious shit tests that I fumbled because I was all doped up on oxytocin after waking up to a blowjob. In retrospect a slap on the ass and a "shut up" mi…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 05:22 PM
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Oh god yes this. I had an internet journal on a site years ago. I never talk(ed) about it in front of meatspace friends for obvious reasons. Recently read through some old entries from my deeply-plugged-in blue pill days. It's downright nauseating to read, but on the other hand it's comforting to see how far I've come since the bad old days. There's no going back now.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:17 PM
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Sprinting, jumping....what else counts as a "sustained high powered activity?" The article referenced here is behind a paywall.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:52 AM
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This is brilliant, OmLaLa. I now understand, with greater clarity, exactly why every relationship I've ever been in has fallen apart.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 04:10 PM
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Reddit has never posted a profit.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 06:29 PM
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"So what you're saying, officer, is that these two women filed a false police report?"
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:25 PM
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Excessive pair bonding is excessive pair bonding, whether it's via her mouth or vagina.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:04 PM
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The first rule of tautology club is the first rule of tautology club. Is stormfront leaking? Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 06:54 AM
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"When" conveys unnecessary certainty. I humbly offer a minor correction: "if I do propose, YOU will be the first to know!!!!"
/r/askTRP05/07/15 05:19 AM
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if she was riding the CC in college? She belonged to a sorority then the answer is yes, yes she was. Can you accept that? If not, what are you going to do about it?
/r/askTRP05/07/15 05:12 AM
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Then you're not desperate enough. Perhaps your father needs to lose his house first?
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:29 AM
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Screen shots or at least transcripts. After some beginner's luck on Tinder it's been a long series of radio silence and I'm wondering if this is why
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 03:50 PM
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Head over to the main sub & look up "Gatsby's Tinder Game." I followed his pointers when setting mine up. tldr: "About Me": Blatantly suggestive: "Your words say that you don't want to use my beard for its first-class seating, but be honest with yourself, that's exactly why you're swiping right. It's cool though, a proper gentleman never tells." Main pic: me flanked by two female travel companions who are clearly enjoying themselves. Second: Action shot of some sort. Mine shows me whitewater raf…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 01:22 PM
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The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago. The second best time is right now.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:54 PM
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Back into the bucket with you, Sebastian.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:53 PM
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Reminds me of a (possibly apocryphal) quote by Picasso: "Learn the rules like a pro (us filthy unendorsed peasants), so you can break them like an artist (ECs)."
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:19 PM
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The sensation of going in for a hug, picking her up off the floor and squeezing her tight enough that her boobs press into your chest is quite enjoyable. They seem to like it too.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:16 PM
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"read the sidebar" tldr: red pill hand book dot com
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:27 PM
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Picked up a weekend job working as a bouncer at a college bar. If you can hold frame and keep up a halfway decent conversation, they'll be throwing themselves at you every night.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 04:32 AM
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losing his career over. FTFY - pensions are untouchable under the NYS constitution
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 03:38 AM
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That's the difference between a casual high school SJW and the college variety. The trick is to drift into a Ben Stein style voice and start droning on in monotone while peppering your speech with labor econ jargon like "compensating wage differentials."
/r/ThankTRP13/06/15 02:00 AM
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It's even trickling down into high school. I'm a substitute teacher, and recently I was placed in a study hall where a (hilariously stereotypical) SJW student and a dudebro got into an impromptu debate about the wage gap. I pointed out the standard flaws in the argument: the macroeconomic "problem" falls apart under microeconomic analysis due to labor market segmentation, women choosing lower-skill/part-time/lower-stress jobs, maternity leave resulting in less time on-the-job, etc. Nothing bring…
/r/ThankTRP13/06/15 01:27 AM
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Atmosphere's "Domestic Dog" is dedicated entirely to this proposition.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 12:41 AM
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An old roommate got married recently and took his wife's surname. Fit, driven, highly intelligent, the man is a living red pill exemplar. His father was never really in the picture which makes it all the more impressive that he ended up the way he did. The wife is one of two sisters. "Plenty of my cousins have kept [his premarital surname] alive. I have too much respect for [FIL] to let [married last name] die. So my sons/daughters will have his last name." Certainly an atypical case though.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:18 PM
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Yup. Winner right here.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:13 PM
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Yeah, the 90s Alternative station on Pandora is pretty much ruined at this point. Holy blue pill programming!
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:09 PM
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Assets: Found TRP in January and began unplugging immediately I now understand that my previous sexual successes were not dumb luck but the result of attractive behaviors on my part; and that my previous sexual/relationship failures were the result of unattractive behaviors on my part; which led to Recognizing the oneitis I'd had for my ex and the extremely logical reasons why our relationship collapsed, which led to Hooking up with 2 girls after recovering from oneitis Lost 10 pounds by resumin…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 07:03 PM
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I think if you were ultra dominant despite your penis size, the confidence and the tingles it gives them would make up for the size penalty. You're damn right here. Social suicide only if you derive a sense of shame from swinging small pipe. Sex is a primarily emotional experience for women. If you let on that you can get hung up on something insignificant like penis size, it signals that you can't keep it together when the shit really hits the fan and she will dry up faster than a summer day in…
/r/askTRP06/06/15 02:36 PM
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And that traditional men are from Mars, considering how cold and distant it is
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:01 AM
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Remember, Chris, if she smokes she pokes!
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 06:46 PM
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Don't talk about TRP in comment threads. That's what private messages are for.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 03:41 AM
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The joy of mandatory American History general-education credits
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 05:46 PM
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Whereabouts? The programs I've looked at involve cash-up-front and I'm a bit wary about giving money to strangers over the internet for job placement.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:37 PM
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The second article is far more substantive and actually makes good points: Countries with successful vocational systems such as Germany have done a better job than Anglo-Saxon countries of motivating non-academic boys and guiding them into jobs, but policymakers need to reinvent vocational education for an age when trainees are more likely to get jobs in hospitals than factories. More generally, schools need to become more boy-friendly. They should recognise that boys like to rush around more th…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:32 PM
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Similar story. I failed my first student teaching placement. My sponsor was, quite literally, a screaming bitch. That was her primary classroom management technique: yell until the kids broke down. Never mind that getting yelled at spikes stress hormones and basically shuts down the prefrontal cortex, learning always took a back seat to obedience. Being relatively unflappable and pleasant worked remarkably well in my favor (at first) as the kids hardly ever gave me any trouble. Little did I real…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 01:59 PM
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"A girlfriend? No." - this one requires a 2+ SMV point spread to execute effectively. "Currently accepting applications from qualified parties" - I pulled this line out of my moderately drunken ass once in college, while living in a notorious party house, and five resumes were left on my desk chair over the course of the following week, applicants ranging between 5 and 7½. But I was young and foolish, and did not exploit this opportunity as fully as I could have.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:04 PM
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Easy mode: Do not meddle in the affairs of feminists, for you are crunchy and pair well with ketchup. Hard mode: Remember that you are the prize and she must prove her worth to you. Therefore your frame must be built of titanium and concrete. Be as cocky, absurd, blatantly sexual, and over-the-top as possible in any conversation with her. Escalate kino once you get her laughing.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:48 PM
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tldr: spermicidal lubricant softens your dick. During my first LTR in college I would pick up condoms from the health services office. They had two varieties, Lifestyles purple (spermicidal) and Lifestyles green (unlubricated, but mint-flavored). The purple ones softened me up like hamburger without fail and I couldn't feel a damn thing, apparently His Majesty doesn't like nonoxynol-9. Never had a problem with the green ones, so long as she moistened the outside with her mouth first.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 07:21 PM
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Also, cooking. Turning blood, sweat, time, and raw material into something beautiful and delicious has a similar appeal. This is why I've always enjoyed working in restaurant kitchens more than the offices and classrooms of previous jobs. Most kitchens I've worked in have had majority-male staff, and success is measured by how well you can do your job under pressure, whether that be the dinner rush, standard ball busting (quick, run down to storage, I need a tub of elbow grease and a 10# can of …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:54 PM
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Better late than never, brother. Take heart. Your sons will have sharper teeth.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 03:35 PM
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People who find chopping wood fun and exciting never sacrificed entire childhood summers to the activity.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 11:03 PM
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probably better suited for /r/asktrp but since you asked.... She's locked down her beta bucks and discovered how dull that can be. You weren't (and probably still aren't) looking for much more than some casual fucking, and she knows from past experience that you're good for it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:14 AM
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Yeah I have no intentions of plating her. She's a good wingman though.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:04 AM
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Suicide following a cancer diagnosis. His previous wife had died after a very ugly battle and he didn't want to put himself through that.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:59 AM
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Man. So many wasted frustrated years in high school and college because I was just like B. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 07:03 PM
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If I were trying to fuck her, then yeah, I'd be worried about looking too try-hard. But she's not on my radar.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 07:01 PM
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I found /r/faimprovement a while back, which was a good primer. As someone else said here, RP is the advanced class. I find the red pill's lessons increasingly manifest in my everyday life. I used to go through days or even weeks of depressive episodes; not anymore. I used to feel like I was faking my way through life; not anymore. I used to be intimidated by girls and would aim low so as not to get rejected; not anymore. Since subscribing a little over a month ago, I've gotten laid more than in…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 06:14 PM
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Only if you make it inappropriate or tacky by getting all weird about it. They hear much worse and tackier in the course of an average shift.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 05:05 AM
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Gonna require some ironclad frame. And you can't touch them until they graduate, otherwise kiss your cert goodbye.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 02:50 AM
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You work your thing, I'll work mine.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 05:21 AM
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Just wait, the next shit test is <5 minutes away
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 08:49 PM
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This is what's worked well for me thus far: -main pic of me standing between a 7 and an 8, which provides social proof that women enjoy my company and also makes me look 100 pounds lighter & is inspiring me to work out more -pic of me engaged in a moderately dangerous outdoor activity (whitewater rafting through class 4 rapids) -pic or two from weddings I've attended where I was particularly well-dressed -pic of me holding my nieces & making funny faces at the camera -and finally what /u/whative…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 08:11 PM
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A++++ can confirm, Tinder match frequency tripled after I got a plate to take a decent picture of the ol' poop chute.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 08:04 PM
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I really don't understand the instinct to keep to one's race. According to my racist alpha-widow grandma's inner hamster, it's because "neither side of the family will fully accept a half-breed child."
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 08:00 PM
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When you talk about TRP in comment threads you're gonna have a bad time. That's what private messages are for.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 07:49 PM
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You handled that masterfully. Don't doubt yourself. When interacting with girls I perform a mental exercise that is rapidly becoming habitual. I ask myself "Would I tolerate this behavior in my 4-year-old niece?" If the answer is yes, they get a smile, a chuckle, playful/positive verbal feedback and/or some kino depending on the mood of the moment. If the answer is no, they get a frown/Look-Of-Disapproval, or even a sternly direct "Behave yourself" with cessation of any kino. Condescending? Yes.…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 07:36 PM
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Everything must run its course. In the meantime just keep doing what you do. Build up that SMV.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:58 PM
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Mondale lost because he was trying to run against a popular incumbent presiding over an economy that was finally beginning to shake off the torpor of the early 80s. Picking Ferraro was just a lame gimmick that didn't pay off. No analysis of the 1984 election attributes the loss to picking a female VP candidate. McCain was too damn old to be running for president in the first place, and then sabotaged his already-slim chances by picking an unvetted idiot who was fishing for TV celebrity. It reall…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:55 PM
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All caveats about taking advice from strangers on the internet apply to what I am about to say. I am but one man who needed this advice at your age. If possible, start working right now and start saving 20-50% of each paycheck. As you are 18 and probably still in school, you might not have much work experience, but everybody's gotta start somewhere. I started in food service as a dishwasher. Retail is another easy-entry industry. Shit pay, but learn to live lean now and the habit will stick with…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 06:42 PM
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Simple. Precise. Effective. You da real MVP brother.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 06:21 PM
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I'm reminded of a scene from the Howard Stern movie Private Parts, not sure of the exact dialogue but the gist of it was that every time some feminist ranted against his show, his ratings increased.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:27 PM
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Agreed, I still have a long ways to go, and much to learn and improve upon. I'm in a relatively isolated rural area, so tinder & social media are currently my only practical options aside from macking on the hogs that come into the local convenience store.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:20 PM
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Straight to the point! I'll try that with future matches.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:44 AM
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Red Pill Handbook clarified a lot of concepts I understood at an instinctual level. Many of the mental adjustments were easy to make. Still got a long ways to go, especially in the workout/physical activity department.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:41 AM
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Lift. Get some kind of exercise routine going. Practice power poses between reps. This will make your body build testosterone. Work on your classes, projects, internships. Derive happiness from working towards and meeting personal goals. What pleases and energizes you? What drives you to do your very best? Dedicate your energy to that. This will build your frame. Get in touch with your inner smartass. Allow it to take voice when/if you choose to answer women's questions. This is called "amused m…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 05:23 AM
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Another good one is "What Every BODY Is Saying" by Joe Navarro
/r/askTRP02/03/15 04:41 AM
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Actually had a dropped plate (Still not sure exactly how I setup that situation in the first place) tell me straight up "you're too nice for your own good" during our last hookup because I thought things like slapping/scratching/nutting on the face/pulling hair were "disrespectful." She was decidedly submissive and wanted it hard & violent. She later ended up with someone who could give her that.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 04:35 AM
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Amused mastery. You give her a smartass answer and change the subject.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:12 AM
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I put this as the last pic in my tinder profile and wait for the matches to pile up
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:04 AM
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Vive le différence
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:24 PM
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Good show, brother. May your daughter recover swiftly and raise the next generation of red pill men.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:16 AM
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IT'S DANGEROUS TO GO ALONE! Take this
/r/askTRP01/03/15 06:06 AM
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Good on ya, mate. Bring a few 7/8 plates home and he won't take much convincing. Especially at that age!
/r/askTRP01/03/15 05:33 AM
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The good news is that it gets easier with practice!
/r/askTRP01/03/15 04:33 AM
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That could very well be the case. Gauge her interest in another date. If she responds favorably, now you know to escalate further.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 04:22 AM
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My experience isn't perfectly analogous, but here goes. My alpha "grandfather" (grandmother's nth husband, she married him in my infancy) committed suicide when I was 10 years old. Doubly devastating—I lost my primary male role model at the dawn of my adolescence, and my bitchy, passive-aggressive, moderately abusive wannabe-red beta father was not up to the task: his typical response to challenging behavior was physical violence. During my teenage years and my 20s I revolted against his example…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 03:56 AM
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That's a shit test, gentlemen, and you flubbed it. Pressure flip accordingly: "Sure, let's have a conversation then. (pick a time) (bar somewhere convenient to the both of you). Wear something cute." Don't give her suggestions. Give her directions. Get there a little bit early and wait. If she doesn't show within half an hour, finish your beer and leave.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 01:24 AM
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/r/TRPofftopic is thataway ->
/r/askTRP28/02/15 10:45 PM
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You were on incidental class 2 of the escalation ladder. Breast touching doesn't come until much later, once you've climed the ladder and are pretty far up on the ramp. Read that PDF. Set up another movie date. Climb the ladder. Run up the ramp.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 10:42 PM
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What do you want? Do you want to fuck a bunch of strange? Don't waste any more of your or her time. Dump her now so you can get out and practice your day/bar game. Worst case scenario she's alpha-widowed twice over, but it won't take her long to find another cock if she's as great as you think she is. Do you want to keep this unicorn? Questions to consider: Have you met her kid yet? How did that go? Has she met yours? How did that go? Can you envision a positive future with all of you under one …
/r/askTRP28/02/15 10:18 PM
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Amused mastery, young padawan. Just imagine everything they say as coming out of your 4-year-old niece if you have one, and respond accordingly. If it's agreeable or pleasant, smile and lightly praise. If it's disagreeable or bitchy, just give her the People's Eyebrow and a sharp "Behave yourself, little girl." If she corrects herself, keep the eyebrow but temper it with the faintest of smirks. I didn't believe it—at first I thought it was outrageously condescending—but after a few trials it is …
/r/askTRP28/02/15 08:37 PM
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I'm happy for ya, and I'ma let you finish, but at the rate this sub is growing, there are literally dozens of us who hadn't seen it before now.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 07:31 AM
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what are negative pushups?
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:34 AM
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Run it past your friend first. Especially if you value his friendship.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:26 AM
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Sell pot. Offer the alpha-group members a discount. If you're over 21 and they're under, you could always offer to buy kegs/booze for them. A couple of my old college friends became the top dogs in town for a while by doing that. Unfortunately for them they weren't exactly discreet and eventually got busted. Or just read the TRP sidebar and brush up on the social skills listed below.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 06:24 AM
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Craigslist in my area is pretty cyclical. "Spring cleaning" season is still a month or two away yet, but I'll keep my eye on it. Thanks for the tip. I've been giving into excuses for almost 30 years. It's gotten me nowhere but fat and miserable. Reading TRP's sidebar was eye-opening and kicked me in the ass, made me realize the injustices I've done myself over the years.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 05:59 AM
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I did keto for a short while last year... trying to eat up all the carby food left in my house before going back to it.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 05:52 AM
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Heavy chunks of ice sliding off my roof, perhaps. For many localities in the Northeast this is the coldest February on record. Sustained physical activity in below-freezing temperatures fucks up the lungs and would be counterproductive. I don't need to get big. I'm already huge (>350lbs). I need to get less fat.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 12:16 AM
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Thank you for the suggestion! I'll keep this in mind for when it gets a little warmer outside.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 10:50 PM
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Nearest park is the elementary school playground, 5 miles away, complete with "No adults unless you brought your own kids" signage. I have no sprogs. The local geography is pretty flat, no hills to speak of. Burpees....I think I vaguely recall these being called "squat-thrusts" in school? I'll give them a try! What are prison squats? Alas, my last successful push-up was in 3rd grade I think. I'd like to work my way back up to that.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 10:49 PM
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Buying weights is not fitting my financial picture at the moment
/r/askTRP27/02/15 10:45 PM
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Not safe when it's below-zero before windchill midday.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 10:43 PM
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I've seen it. My brother died over a summer break when I was in college. A cute girl I'd mildly flirted with in a class the previous spring came up to me at a party the first week of the following fall semester and asked how my summer was. 'My girlfriend dumped me and my brother killed himself' got me nexted in record time.
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Not missing something, but giving too much away. 'yeah, I'm letting him crash at my place right now after we lost our mom, he's cool, don't worry' Sad feels turn vaginas into the Sahara.
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Hard to get around, but not impossible. If that question comes up in the future, dismiss it with a smartassed response followed by a change in subject. Props to you for taking care of your little brother like that. Seriously. How's he handling the loss? Losing a parent is shitty at any age, especially in teenage years. Not to put so crass a point on it but you've got a golden opportunity to spare him years of sexually frustrating angst by setting a red pill example.
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That's need-to-know-basis information, and your plates don't need to know that.
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Mentally? Read the hand book. it'll give you more to think about. Physically? Take your pain/anger out on the iron. Weight lifting helps.
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You're here. That's a good start. First, cut off all contact with the LTR for the weekend. That means no calls, no texts, no snapchats, no tweets, none of the things You Kids These Days do to keep in touch with each other. red pill hand book dot com is your next stop. Read it in its entirety. Then re-read it. Armed with a deeper understanding of life, the universe, and everything, you are now ready to dump her, move on to college, and conquer.
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Back off and wait until summer vacations then. Do your own thing in the meantime. Walk your dog around town and approach every girl that crosses your path.
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That's not how this works. That's not how any of this works. First step is the "soft next": ignore her and pretend she doesn't exist. Second step is to point your favorite browser to red pill hand book dot com Third step is to read what you find there, then sleep on it. Fourth step is to re-read it.
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I'm half thinking to spend the next 3+ years worshipping at the temple of the Iron God, and getting my education complete (I can get a 100k.year sallary when finished). You already know what you need to do. It won't be easy, but you'll be better for it.
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You're 18, so you've got a decent head start. Life: "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover "Mastery" by Robert Greene red pill hand book dot com "Models" by Mark Manson as mentioned previously Pussy: red pill hand book dot com "50 Shades of Red" by illimitableman (currently on the front page of TRP) "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene "Sex God Method" by Daniel Rose Oh, and start lifting too
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On having a "small" penis No throwaway because embarrassment is an expression of shame and I am no longer ashamed of my equipment. For years I thought I was freakishly small, even though the mean is just slightly over 5 inches fully erect. It took my first girlfriend (a seasoned veteran of the CC at the age of 19) to explain the difference between "showers" (full length visible at all times) and "growers" (full length visible only when erect). Coping Emotionally I take refuge in audacity a la Ho…
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