My tinder dates always seem bored and uninterested with me. Here's the setup:

My profile just has mediocre selfies of myself so no deception there. I don't lie about my height or brag about having money. We meet up for coffee. I talk to them before hand on the phone so they know what I sound like and get a taste of my personality.

So that should be enough to make sure they're interested, right?

Nope, they're totally uninterested, bored, and we end up parting ways after like 20 minutes. My last date was a chubby 23 year old who waddled around and had an attitude of "I'm a princess who is better than you". She looked way hotter in her pics which I guess were very old.

The two dates before that were pretty hot but they interrogated me on the length of my relationships and what I was looking for. (Why do some girls do this? Was I pegged as beta bucks? I made no claims to having money.)

But in a bar I get more interest for girls hotter than them with minimal effort. How does that make any sense?