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Yes I agree that would be the ideal scenario, he could probably keep in contact with her though. I think it's pretty FDS standard for them to stay in contact and stay keen to date, I see a lot of "block him" comments if they stop contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:01 AM
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That would be indeed HV if that's what he's doing! Just where I'm from I don't think there is a short course for people to take. Where I'm from it can take over a month to get qualifications similar to what is in the post. Perhaps it is different in other countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:15 AM
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Why did he stop contacting her though? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:07 AM
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There are people testing positive to covid still that are attending protests with thousands of people. There will no doubt be a huge wave of covid to come, it puts people's lives at risk, and continues to extend quarantine which is nothing but unfair and selfishness to people trapped inside that have no access to their families, have lost their job and living off rations and limited money. Not only that he accused you of asserting white privilege which is a disgusting thing to assume of someone.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:23 PM
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Sorry but you're just wasting everyone's time here. You're arguing against every point these nice ladies have taken the time to give you. If you're not willing to take anyone's advice then maybe you should have posted this on r/vent instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:42 PM
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Love isn't enough, it never is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:39 PM
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I promise you you'll feel amazing in a month when you've grieved and realise how much better off you are. Keep distance, no contact, and seek therapy. I promise you it gets better. It really really does. I'm sorry you went through all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:32 PM
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Block and delete and don't even explain anything to him, he doesn't deserve a second more of your precious time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:07 AM
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Literally 😂 like why is she so shocked?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:32 AM
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I can't believe I spent 12 months of my life begging my ex to talk to me, to see me, to call me once or text me once. For months and months he'd lie straight to my face and say he'd "try harder" but never did. Man what a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:18 PM
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Aww poor libfem finally realising her lifestyle doesn't make her the cool girl she wants everyone to think she is. Men view her as nothing but trash and have zero respect for her. Can you imagine what her male 'friends' would be saying behind her back? Wow can't say I'm envious of her life at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:08 PM
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Then that's what would happen. And it's possible. You have to weigh up whether or not you can emotionally deal with something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:05 PM
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It can be a long process, could take a year or probably more. If you're willing to go through that process and have a substantial amount of time and energy put into thinking and dealing with that then good on you! More need to do it. But I also completely understand why women don't go through the process. It's tiring and long and can feel like it goes on forever. It's emotionally draining, but worth it if you get a positive end result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:02 PM
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From your replies, it seems like you've come to this sub and not read the literature provided. Read the literature, and the come back and you'll understand what everyone is talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:53 PM
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If something as little as that felt wholesome then you're missing something important in yourself or your life, u/newsroom_buttslut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:04 AM
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It's deleted I can't view it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:59 PM
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He waited all week to see if something better would come up for his Saturday plans, since nothing did he last minute asked to hang out at a grocery store. So low effort 😂 raise your standards girl! Men are never endearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:52 PM
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Oh honey.. How can you feel hurt and insecure because of something so basic as a man? Change that mindset asap. Level up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:25 AM
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Go eat ya grandma's cooking then and stop trying to date a woman to replace ya grannie 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:21 AM
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Wow I'm glad I wasn't the only one. I told my ex that guys offered to buy me drinks at bars and I declined them, and he said I was a slut and that was a slutty thing to admit to him. The fuck is with men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:25 PM
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Teenage girls should never ever be alone with teenage boys. Whether a group of boys or one boy. I was sexually assaulted many times by boys grabbing my bum, my boobs, pulling my hair, asking for blowjobs, asking for a fuck, taking out their dicks and flashing. It's fucked up. Not to mention the pressures of having sex and losing virginities at that age because omg we have to lose it asap virgin's are weird. I don't recommend any girl having sex for the first time before they're in their 20's. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:24 PM
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I'm so sorry I reported your comment thinking you were a guy coming over here making fun of my original comment, then I saw your user flair! It took me a min to realise you weren't making fun of what I said haha. I'm sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:52 PM
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Find those things within yourself. You only ever have you. Outside validation will always fail you and won't ever nourish you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:23 AM
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Ugh men are so basic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:21 AM
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Oh those poor girls on that sub. So unfortunate. All their posts trying to reassure themselves. It's so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:14 AM
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This whole thread is exactly what happened to me. It's crazy how this same narrative happens to so many women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:56 AM
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I commented on there about love bombing. A huuuge manipulative strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:17 AM
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Please re read your replies to me productively and seek help, goodluck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:51 AM
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Look at how many people have disagreed with you by down voting. Don't be offended, learn from it. Your behaviour is completely unacceptable. Your reply is manipulative and gaslighting. Gross. Fix yourself before ever replying to me again. Your disgusting mentailty and excuses are tiring and not worth any more of my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:28 AM
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You need to sit down away from the internet for a while. Think really hard about what you just typed and posted right now. I want you to really think about it. There's no reason why we can't take a moment to remember a brave man protecting and saving the lives of his peers. Because he's a male? We cannot praise him? This is not a man-hating sub. We can and will praise men when they deserve it. You're attitude is disgusting. Get off the internet for a while. If you have issues with your father th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:11 AM
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Yeah read the replies though. Men everywhere saying "not all men"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:39 AM
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Absolute hero. Not many men can stand up and say they're this brave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:37 AM
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Pretty sure this guy is a hero and deserves to be remembered everywhere. He deserves breaking the posting rules on a subreddit if you ask me. Is this really all you have to say about this post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:37 AM
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Ugh same. I always pride myself on my loyalty, and I don't give up on commitments easily. Unfortunately men have used this against me and I've stayed with bad people for far too long because of it. Now I'm going to be more selfish and look after myself more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:33 AM
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My LVX would never contact me more no matter how much I begged him. For months and months I begged him to give me a call once a day, send me a message occasionally, it would make me feel wanted and like he cared. He never changed, and always blamed me because "well if you want to call just call". I explained that if I called it wouldn't fulfil my need of him contacting me and making me feel wanted and cared for. I would literally cry to him about it. And he never changed. The lack of care, or re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:30 AM
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She's not special in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:48 PM
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Sorry but I don't understand what you're trying to say? Edit: misread a couple things. 1) low value men will always be attracted to you. This sub will help you weed out the ones that aren't worth it. Sex and good looks isn't enough for you to be satisfied in a relationship. 2) men and women will get hit on throughout life by anyone that is attracted to them, regardless of gender. Why does it bother you that gay men find men you're attracted to attractive as well? Conventionally attractive men wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:17 AM
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Unfortunately I don't think anyone can begin to understand what on earth is going through the head of someone that leads a double life. Sometimes we'll never find answers, even if we crave to understand because it will give us closure. Just know that this man is nothing but a horrible liar, and isn't worth a single tear or a second thought from you. Although I know you're understandably upset, and you have every right to be. May I suggest seeking some ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:22 AM
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Good for you. How pathetic this poor excuse of a ballsack must be to think his insignificant message would convince you in some way to run back to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:50 AM
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Wait what? Why would you cat fish your ex instead of blocking all contact and moving on? I'm sorry OP but this is... not healthy behaviour. Edit: oh girl your post history... I'm shook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:59 AM
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This post isn't about praising onlyfans, it's pointing out the hypocrisy and double standards of men and women viewing or partaking in sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:55 PM
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Please God tell me this isn't real. Please tell me a woman out there is genuinely suffering through this. And if she is, God tell me how on earth I can help her, or at least give her the strength to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:53 PM
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"babes" that sounds incredibly rude and childish. If you want to educate people then I suggest doing it in a more humble way, people are more likely to listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:02 AM
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My granddad abandoned my father when he was 10 and my grandmother kicked my dad out of the house and he was homeless at the age of 12. He's been the most dedicated and amazing father and husband to my mother and I. He's incredibly successful and owns a multimillion dollar business. My father is emotionally stable and suffers no trauma from his childhood. He just got on with his life and met my mother at 16 and has been with her ever since. I think it's silly to lump everyone into the same catego…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:58 AM
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You've accomplished a lot and I think that you are a smart woman with a great drive, focus on that about yourself and the positive things you bring to not only other people's lives around you but your own as well. I'm sorry I misread about you calling her dumb, but yes it probably wasn't something to put in the post. But I think that's a clue and reflects something going on inside of you. Goodluck on your journey. May I suggest following subs like r/selflove r/selfimprovement to help you along t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:46 PM
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You really need to stop focusing on their lives and look at yourself. Re read this post to yourself. Really read it. Look at the things you said. You called a woman dumb, for no other reason than gossip and jealousy. Really think to yourself if this is the kind of person you want to be. Because all I'm seeing is a low value woman trying to drag other women down with her. You may be smart, but you're acting really stupid and immature. I think you know the right thing to do is to delete toast and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:27 PM
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Guys know what they want, he knows he wants the benefits of a beautiful a girl with no strings attached, and he knows if he said that it would turn girls away. Yeah i saw about the girl getting railed thing, super strange and full on, just made me think he was crude and I don't like crude men. Definitely a hard pass on this one I'm sorry. If you're looking for a relationship, the guy you start to date should also be looking for a relationship. If you're looking for a no strings attached deal, we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:54 AM
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"cool girl to hang out with without drama" Guys that say this are the ones causing the drama. I'm willing to bet he says all his exes are "crazy". He's also straight up said he's not going to commit. And I always think discussing sex in anyway that early is a huge turn off but that's just my opinion. I mean, if you want to get attached to a guy that won't commit, but keeps you around to have sex and use as emotional support, well that is your decision. But that's all I'm getting from this short …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:38 AM
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I mean.. Do you actually have to ask if that's a red flag?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:41 AM
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I knew a girl like this a long time ago. She had serious mental and emotional issues and she hypersexualised everything, even tried to sexualise me and our friendship when she was drunk to get boys attention (I obviously never allowed that to happen), she was so unhealthy mentally and fucked any guy that would give her attention, even seriously unattractive completely low value men, then get attached to them then cry to me about it. My life improved when I stopped being around her and her friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:48 AM
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I'm willing to bet he'd be out of there before her first surgery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:45 AM
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Yep, made the whole post worthless imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:31 AM
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Well she can enjoy changing her shit bag when she's 35 and no longer has any functioning bowel and intestines due to infection or cancer caused by anal sex. Even a huge amount of the male gay community don't have anal sex because of the extreme dangers of it, and they're the ones that actually find enjoyment from it unlike the women lying to impress their boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:26 AM
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Maybe it's worth giving dating a break for a while? If this is having an effect on your self esteem then I'd definitely suggest a break. Honestly online dating is so tedious and not really authentic enough in my opinion, going out and naturally meeting people may suit you better (once the virus is over).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:02 PM
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Oh yeah I'm not so much relating to your post, it just reminded me that I see a lot of comments on this sub encouraging ghosting, so I thought I'd ask everyone. Didn't mean to aim it at you! I'm sorry you're feeling let down, just know it'll get better and at least you wasted no time on them :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:52 AM
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I am genuinely curious about this, because a majority of comments I see on this sub are "block and delete him" "he doesn't deserve an explanation or reply", and I'm wondering if we receive this treatment in return if it's viewed as okay or fair? I guess at the end of the day it doesn't matter, either way the lvm's aren't apart of their lives so that's what counts. Please don't bite my head off, I'm just asking a question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:43 AM
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I have no idea why guys think pick up lines on online dating are so good and attractive. They may be funny if you're in person and they've had the confidence to come and say something funny to you, and proceed to buy you a drink or ask you out. But online dating is so much different. How many times did he copy and paste that pick up line? Probably to each of his matches thinking he's so clever and will weed out the ones that don't like it. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:27 AM
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Of course he calls women "females"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:13 AM
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He's obviously going to feel hurt any way you paint it. Just break up with him so he can start moving on, that's the kindest thing if you care about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:52 AM
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Now I'm ashamed that my birthday is April 16th.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:11 AM
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Men have it so easy. Imagine being able to turn off your brain whenever you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 05:17 AM
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That's because it is unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:12 PM
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You sound like an amazing woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:19 AM
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You can tell the whole time she's with him she's thinking of her kid and the better life she can have after all this is over. It's actually disgusting that the show allows this kind of situation to even happen, she's essentially a sex slave waiting for freedom. I'm rooting for her and the better life she'll have once she's got that green card!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:03 AM
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I've heard of many stories to do with PH, the one I mentioned took over 24 hours to be taken down, after 60k+ people viewed and saved the video. PH released a statement saying they always do their best to keep CP off their platform. That's just not true Many women have come forward and asked for their r*pe, CP videos to be taken off PH, but PH ignores them. They finally get lawyers involved, or even have to pretend to be a lawyer to get videos taken down. PH needs to be held accountable for blat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:03 PM
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Except there are pornhub employees (women employees as well) saying "we're quick to take down child exploitive material in 24 hours or less" Like wow.. You're seriously proud of that number? It takes you a whole 24 hours to take down a video of a toddler being r*ped after being saved and viewed over 60 thousand times. Yeah definitely be proud of that. Sick fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:01 AM
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Another typical male response: "you're really emotional and triggered" are we sure this user isn't a male in disguise to troll us on FDS? I will not message you as again you've completely disrespected and ignored the clear boundaries I've put forth saying take yourself away from me. That's so inappropriate of you to even suggest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:26 PM
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Again accusing someone of something you have absolutely no idea about. Realise you've done the wrong thing, you're acting like a man and trying to blame me for your own mistakes, and worst of all completely ignoring and disrespecting the clear boundaries I set to you saying take yourself away from me. Learn from your mistake, admit you're wrong and grow from it. Stop accusing people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:18 PM
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No I'm not. You know nothing about me or my history. You know nothing of my knowledge or education. You know nothing about the experiences of abuse I've been through and the trauma I've experienced. Or how long it took for me to get to the healthy place and person I am today. How dare you accuse me of being ignorant to women suffering. I joined this sub because of dating strategies, not to be lectured about what I do and don't know about sexual abuse. Take yourself elsewhere and away from me. Ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:11 AM
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Very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:11 AM
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I have no idea why she would bring that into it.. I'm replying to a post about having casual sex with men, not girls being kidnapped and raped?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:53 PM
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I never said anything about women being sex trafficked or anything similar so I'm not sure why you brought that into it. I also said casual sex, not forced rape, don't turn my comment into something I'm supposed to feel shitty about. If you'd like to make your own thread about sex trafficking go ahead, but my comment has nothing to do with it. I read in the sub rules that derailing isn't allowed, which is what you've done here going completely off topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:50 PM
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I love hearing people bragging about their high value partners. Good for them, I won't ever be bitter about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:56 AM
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I'm glad you're okay. I swear this should be common knowledge though? I've never had a one night stand, or slept with any person that hasn't fully committed to me. Because the thought of a stranger/someone I don't know well putting their body parts inside me is absolutely horrific and terrible. Giving someone I barely know complete access to my body is my worst nightmare, I really hope more women start to have this mentality too for their own safety. Casual sex isn't safe or healthy for your min…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:48 AM
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I agree with you, it's always so depressing and bleak to see women putting all men in one basket. Where is the positivity in these particularly depressing times? There is good in the world and we know it. I see what real love and devotion is in my parents every single day. I see it in my brother and his boyfriend and how committed they are to each other. It's nice to hear some positivity. Thanks for writing this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:35 AM
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Favourite colours? Sorry but how old are you? Video games and anime? Both inherently sexist and filled with misogynistic ideals. You're at a loss for words because you can't think of anything worthwhile. Liking the same movies doesn't make "boo of a few weeks" high value, or the love of your life. You're coming off as infatuated rather than logical and clear-minded. It's worth thinking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 11:10 AM
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You sure can :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:05 AM
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Oh well please feel free to message me on here any time. I know we're all busy so don't worry too much about time limits or getting back to me. Pen pals is fine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:40 PM
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Yes I know that, I know the site very well as I actually work as a listener and have done so for years. As I said I'm not looking to vent. Thank you for the recommendation. I'm looking for friendships, mainly in person, but pen pals are welcome too. Edit: I've said thank you in all my comments. I'm not sure why you're down voting me, I'm definitely not trying to be rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:33 PM
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I actually work with 7cups as a listener, and you cannot be personal or give advice or make friendships with people venting. It's against policy. I don't need to vent about anything. I'm looking for genuine friendships and connections with fellow women. Thanks though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:26 PM
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I would like that very much too. Please feel free to message me and we can talk about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:27 PM
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I've joined a few making friends/pen pal subs. Requested women only reply, or I reply to the women posting. I get 0 messages, or no one replies. I loved the idea of having a woman I could message or write letters to, but it almost seems impossible to find someone interested. I understand that internet friendships are not the same as in person friendships, but it'd still be nice to be able to have contact with women somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:01 PM
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Character has everything to do with it. I actively avoid body builders/gym fitness freaks because of how low value their mentality is. They're mostly shallow, insecure, and their priorities are mostly always backwards. Often having very minimal personalities. These are my experiences with gym junkies, I always go for character regardless because I need an emotional and intellectual connection to feel intimate or sexual with another person. A physically fit man does not equal a mentally stable ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 01:51 PM
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I wish I could do this.. I don't have any female friends. I'm trying very hard to meet some and get closer to the women I know. This virus makes it extremely difficult though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 01:46 PM
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What the fuck this scared me how accurate this is???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 01:11 PM
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Sorry but ew. Insecure men ain't it girl. Either you're a really shit girlfriend (which I'm assuming you're definitely not since you care enough to post on here for advice) or he has serious issues which he needs to address and fix himself. Not push onto you and act like you're doing something wrong. It's manipulative and I've seen it so many times before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:43 AM
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It's disgusting and awful. As a child I was accidentally exposed to pornographic content too young (sharing an older brothers computer), I became reclused and disconnected from my family, thinking I'd done the wrong thing accidentally seeing those videos saved on my brothers computer. It took therapy as an adult to deal with the images I saw as a child. It's not healthy, it's not funny. It's not safe, and it scarred a whole section of my childhood. Someone point out to me the humour in this plea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:16 PM
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Why did a literal child that looked around 7 years old look up and laugh though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:55 AM
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My city isn't even under quarantine, there are places in the world where this is only just starting out to become a problem. Say if they lived here where I do, then they could have made the plan 2 or 3 days ago, bars and restaurants only just shut yesterday with all shopping centres still open and shops running.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:33 AM
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You took my reply to heart so hard, and over analysed it to the point of seeing things in my reply that aren't even there. I suggest you should stop caring so much about what people think of you and your relationship, take some time for yourself and focus on you and your relationship, and not get so worked up over what people on the internet are saying. No one is against you here, we're all on the same team. Try not to take things so personally. It'll improve your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 12:49 AM
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Why are you on a female dating strategy sub if you're just going to ignore everyone and the rules of FDS? Doesn't make sense but anyway. Goodluck with your relationship I do genuinely wish you all the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:48 AM
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If there is no legal sex work, there is no "cloak" for traffickers to hide under. Yes it will still happen, it will happen until the end of time probably, but at least it will greatly limit the amount that happens because a lot will no longer be able to hide behind legal sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:41 AM
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I'm not doubting that some love their line of work, they may very well live and breath it. But I do hope they educate themselves and realise they're also paving the way for illegal trafficking of women and minors. Bad people use the sex industry as a cloak to shadow underage women and trafficked women to sell porn or prostitution. As I thought, people are downvoting my reply, I just hope they realise that with my reply I'm trying to spread awareness of terrible things that happen in the world. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:18 PM
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Why are you trying to control his finances? You're not engaged or married. It's up to him what he wants to spend on you, not you. Place holder? Why are you not only putting yourself down but him? HVM want to, and most of the time are able to buy luxuries for their partners if they want. Why emasculate your partner if he's offering to buy you a beautiful ring in sentiment to his love for you? It's his money not yours. If you're so worried about him providing for you then maybe he, or you aren't t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:16 AM
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Girl why do you want ex boyfriends/fuckboys messaging you. Get along with your life and be happy. Never be jealous of girls ex's that are trying to fuck up their life all over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:07 AM
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Some officers may take more interest than others. Some officers are more dismissive than others. As a woman I want to take particular interest in women and their cases to make sure women in my community feel safe and looked after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:19 AM
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She was taking sleep medication and said it knocked her out every night. She did wake up briefly and tried to push him off and he held her down and raped her. Just a suggestion but maybe try to be more sympathetic/more informed with your replies when it comes to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:05 AM
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🖐️ Police officer in training here and definitely would be on her side 🖐️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:02 AM
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Y'all why are you even taking the time to respond to this nonsense? I didn't even read the damn comment and why should you? You're giving your precious time to an incel and his poor pickme wife. Yuck. Don't waste your time any further
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:59 AM
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He didn't cry because he is sorry. He cried because his ass is getting thrown in jail. I believe her story in general. But when she posted "to my rapist I...." and continued to say she wishes him the best and he's strong and will get through his jail sentence 🤮 Fake shit. IF she said that stuff, shes either trying to convince herself and feel better, or she's genuinely insane. That whole post made my stomach turn. Disgusting. Imagine COMFORTING the man that ruined your life. Being as vulnerable …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:27 AM
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Sorry but these shows aren't real and 90% of the time they're scripted. Plus misogynist as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:47 AM
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My ex was jealous of my cat. So much so he would "tease" my cat and annoy him on purpose to make him run away from us, or jump off my lap. I would always tell my ex off and tell him to stop. One day without me knowing, my ex tied one of my hair ties around my cats foot. I had no idea of this happening until I noticed I hadn't seen my cat in over 24 hours, and he always comes for meals twice a day so it was very unusual. Anyway, I eventually found my cat under my bed! I called him to come to me (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:05 AM
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Can we make it younger than 50. And make it castration not a vasectomy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 09:39 AM
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Literally vomit... I can't believe men sometimes. I don't even follow that sub but I couldn't help but go over there and leave a comment calling them out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:41 AM
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Unfortunately I know many gay men that actually hate women and are disgusted by them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:30 PM
18

This is really excellent advice. Thanks for the ideas. I recently cut out a bunch of toxic "friends" with awful drug and alcohol problems (as I've become sober myself) from my life and I'm looking a decent group of women, or nice men for companionship. I'll definitely look into volunteering and maybe a martial arts group since I'm interested in those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:39 PM
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