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Appreciate the advice man. Definitely need to convey that to her my time is valuable. I haven’t texted her, at some point we’ll probably meet up, but low priority. Lol damn bro looks like you’re in a win-situation for yourself.
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:36 PM
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Well short story - we lasted about 1 week with FWB. Reason she ended that was bc started talking to someone else (dude lives across the country wtf?). And now she’s dating him. She’s commented on a few IG stories of mine since then. Otherwise I’ve gone No contact. I’ve worked on myself and feel like 5x the man since then. I know my worth, I’m confident af. Started going on dates with other girls. Crazy thing is, I have a feeling we’ll link back up together at some point. Too good of chemistry be…
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:03 PM
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Bro a girl I was dating for 3mo (not serious relationship..but we were getting there), needed space but she was confused about something. Eventually she said that something was - she was falling in love with me. 2 weeks later she ends things but said I was perfect for her/ I had the qualities she wanted. Now we are temporarily FWB but she sees me as a friend. This happened cause we have high sexual chemistry. WTF lol. Bro I want this girl but her mindset on me is fucked up
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:34 PM
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yeah sucks man, that girl was great. She and I are temporarily FWB now but she says she cares about me as a friend and wants me to stick around after we go our separate ways. What would you do? I care about her but I know I couldn't see her as just a friend.
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:39 PM
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Wish I had read this 3 months ago..girl with great personality match. Equal effort and curiosity from both of us. Until one day I got absorbed into this fantasy future and she pulled away cause I liked her too much
/r/seduction03/11/21 01:23 PM
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I appreciate you taking the time to help me out, great advice. I think you’re right, it’ll make her realize my scarcity. And to your point, she 100% knows I want a relationship with her. Hence she broke it off. I need to convince her that I don’t care. For context, the day we met up she said, she saw no potential in this anymore (for a srs relationship). Which was jarring, we spent 3mo lots of time together and the feelings were mutual. She suggested FWB, since she’s physically attracted / has h…
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:03 PM
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Any advice for someone who suffocated a girl with bf vibes? I understand now and am coolheaded. She was really into me until one day she wasn’t and had to end things. Great chemistry/personality match. Somehow ended up being FWB with her but small part of me hopes she sees my new mindset and wants to try again one day
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:59 PM
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Hah bro I did the same after my chick ended things I posted IG stories showing me doing fun stuff. But I went no contact for 2 weeks, and called her. Her answer was still no but she could not resist…hence the FWB. Shoot her a text when you’re in town and see what happens. Got nothing to lose
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:06 AM
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Well if you like her and she still initiated texts she may be interested in seeing you since it’s been a while. Since you’ll be in town maybe it’s worth meeting up but keep expectations low
/r/seduction26/10/21 09:52 PM
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Sounds like she was afraid of opening up like that after she said she loved you. Same thing happened with my girl. Was very anxious and nervous but told me she was falling in love with me. Two weeks later she goes cold with texts and ends things. She was afraid of being vulnerable again (past trauma). I fucked up by being overly available for her. Acted serious when we weren’t. LDR is tough man. I think you’ve got the right mindset of “not giving a fuck” and playing it cool. The absence makes he…
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:46 PM
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I called her two weeks after no contact just to chat one last time. Her and I had insanely good sexual chemistry/tension. That’s one of the last things she told me when she ended things. She feels comfortable with me in that aspect, so that’s why she suggested it. What’s your situation like? If she’s young she’ll likely be open to that idea to keep things casual/low pressure
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:42 PM
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I wish I had read this a month ago. Was seeing a girl for 3 solid months but in that last month I started gushin hard with BF vibes. And that repelled her. She wasn’t ready to commit and now sees no potential in it. She and I are FWB now but god damn we fuck well together.
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:33 PM
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Nah man, girl I was seeing for 3mo ended things romantically but kept me around as FWB. Our sexual chemistry is too good. I gave off BF vibes and she didn’t want to commit lol.
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:30 PM
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True, it's just a personal level of confusion but I'm seeing the end of the tunnel. Lots of thoughts and processing. She said I used to intimidate her early on (which I take as a good sign). I've concluded that I let down my guard and became 'too nice.' But I'm starting to feel like my old self again. More time is all I need
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:58 PM
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You're right bro. That mindset is the way forward. This is a win for me to get over her and gather info on how to do better moving forward onto other girls and get back to an abundance mentality. She even suggested that she might have friends she could set me up with lol. And you're right, she was never exclusive (mostly though). She went on maybe ~4-5 dates with other people during that 3mo period. I made the mistake of only seeing her during that time and I got overly invested. Went too hard a…
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:17 PM
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This is quite eye-opening, I appreciate the insight man. This aligns with many of the conclusions I got to over the past few days. The two weeks where I didn't contact her, I analyzed what-ifs, etc. It fucking sucked, I would wake up at 3am unable to sleep cause of the anxiety. I finally got to a point where I was 85% moved on but wanted to talk to her one last time with transparency. That led to us as FWB. I realized weeks ago, she tried to spare my feelings but yesterday when I met her, she bl…
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:09 PM
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Sorry to hear you went through this too. What helped you to move on?
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:10 PM
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True, on many levels we are honest (emotionally and physically). She does care for me, and likewise. She knows I still really like her and said we shouldn’t do this if you have any feelings left for me. She wants me to actively find other people to date. She’s taking a break from dates for now. But we said we’ll be open about that to each other Just sucks man cause it was mutual for so long…ugh
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:06 PM
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Yeah I let my guard down and became a nice/perfect guy. Initial 3-5 dates I kept my cool and didn’t show a lot of interest. I’m not necessarily hoping that she changes her mind but there’s a small chance she could develop feelings again? It’s tough to move on, it’s hard to find someone so close to what you’re looking for
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:02 PM
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Described my situation to a T. Cute 23yr old won me over and I think I liked her too much. I wanted to get serious cause I saw strong potential. She did too until she didn’t…now we’re FWB lol
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:14 PM
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Wow, have you considered motivational speaking? I think you possess a knack for invoking a profoundly uplifting feeling. I'm similarly on a journey to help others as well.
/r/seduction03/04/20 01:47 PM
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