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Honestly a lot of men do cheat (hell a lot of women cheat but obviously this is a subreddit primarily for heterosexual women so it isn't relevant). I'm married and my husband is wonderful and spends all his free time with me and even I don't think I am immune to it. I think it is important to marry for love but also not marry a bum. Since I fundamentally believe all men can cheat (not that they all will) and that men will cheat on the best, beautiful, loyal women it is important to marry well ou…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/24 04:49 PM
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It's really not a modern thing, it has been normal for men to have extramarital affairs throughout the entirety of history. Even in traditional relationships men cheat. Doesn't mean every man cheats but I don't think it has anything to do with modern times besides that it is easier probably to do so now with apps and whatnot (though it is also easier to get caught). Things just weren't broadcasted as much perhaps so it feels like it is more common now. If anything I think it is less acceptable f…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/24 04:33 PM
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I think this is an amazing change and I personally hope that the RPW subreddit one day follows suit, especially as it is a larger more active sub. There was a time when men offered some decent input but that time has long passed and it is generally just not useful nor woman centric. Even some of the "endorsed" men have clearly strayed away from giving good advice and just inject their personal preferences and pet unicorns now. Women need their own spaces so even if RPW doesn't follow suit right …
/r/RedPillWives13/04/24 12:46 AM
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Excellent work! Thanks for doing this
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/24 11:53 PM
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My husband and I did live together before marriage but as soon we moved in together he financially took care of everything. Utilities, rent, groceries, fun/going out money, etc. I wouldn't advise someone move in before marriage with a man splitting bills.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/24 07:49 PM
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I always find it kind of interesting when some women in these spaces describe having all male friends and it's because women are not traditional nowadays. When I had a good amount male friends I was not a traditional woman. Traditional women don't have all/mostly male friends, especially not when they are in serious relationships or married. I think some introspection from any woman who claims this is necessary because nobody is looking at a woman with only male friends thinking she is tradition…
/r/RedPillWives08/04/24 01:42 PM
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A lot of people here give advice, even if well meaning, that will end up with you with a cheap, feminine, manipulator of a man. I think you held strong to your values and are vetting well so props to you. I actually think a lot of women here could learn something from your post!
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/24 02:35 PM
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Several of your posts talk about your violent outbursts and that your theoretical children would likely end up in a foster home. I don't think it is ethical for people with several mental health issues to have children. I have worked with a lot of children with parents similar to you and it has really disadvantaged and traumatized them in life. I'm not even saying their parents are evil people, but they 100% should have never had children.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 03:45 AM
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To be frank it would be unethical and irresponsible of you to have children due to your severe mental instability and violence. It is also nearly impossible for you to attract someone who is a good man because a man with good qualities does not want to be with a woman like you, generally. Sometimes being very attractive, young, or rich can make people look past behaviors like that, but if you are none of the above then it is harder to near impossible honestly. Your best course of action would be…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/24 03:37 AM
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The difference is you have kids as well. A woman without kids nor wants them should not strive to settle for/date a man with kids.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 07:35 PM
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It does limit but there are plenty of child free men who never want children and are hoping to find child free women. Most of them are also good income earners from what I have witnessed. I don't think OP needs to settle for someone who has children, baby mama drama, etc when she is probably a child free man's dream woman. And honestly if OP has no desire to have children of her own I don't understand why anyone would encourage her to be a step mother to children who aren't hers. That's even wor…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/24 05:37 PM
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My husband! :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/24 12:24 AM
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Women and men in these spheres tend to have different goals, it isn't unusual to not want a man who makes blogposts about "guy game". I would have never married a RP man for example nor would I recommend a woman do so since goals are different. I think it really does depend on what the content is on his blog though whether it is a red flag or not
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 10:39 PM
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This isn't even a flex. I somehow think it is even weirder to not even use your IG but just for the purpose of following women you don't know lol. Either way what does this comment do to address OP's situation
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 07:10 PM
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Red flag. Do not waste your time with this man, you are just another trophy for him to acquire. Do not let yourself be embarassed or feel used by a used up man. I am a big sister and I would never allow my sister to engage with a man like this, you can do much better.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/24 05:58 PM
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It's not maturity or responsibility, it is money. Men who are financially well off are more attractive to women. Not targeting specifically you, but "mature/responsible" is just a sugar coated, more palatable way to say women prefer men who are financially well off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:23 PM
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Glancing at your post history was incredibly sad. My heart goes out to you. While I am a huge proponent of fighting for your marriage it seems like you have been desperately trying. Unfortunately, your husband is an abusive alcoholic and serial cheater. A marriage takes two committed people and often you can't force the other half to do what they need to do. I'm not saying that divorce is the only option, but I do believe you need to at least be getting your ducks in a row to make the divorce pr…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/24 04:48 PM
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lol I have a dress with oranges on them and my husband loves it. I bet your lemon dress is very cute! I might need a link. My husband does have clothing he does not like. He isn't a fan of the color green and tends to prefer me in light colors with some type of feminine pattern on it. He just doesn't like green in general it seems though, he owns nothing in green. I do like how green looks on me personally but I tend to just wear it when I am out without him. I don't think any husband should mak…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/24 02:19 PM
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What a nonsensical rant. Sure, some women do overrate themselves but I trust studies more than I trust some random feminine man using feminine lingo, respectfully.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/24 06:51 PM
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Honestly I think you need to treat him with more grace. Yes he has flaws because everyone does, but you obviously have some pretty glaring red flags like being a former drug addict and getting knocked up without being married. How would you feel if he came on here bashing you calling you insults? Not trying to hurt you but I think you need to be kinder to your partner who stuck by you and is providing.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 06:33 PM
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At one point in my life I did utilize them for my benefit during high school and college. It was always very one sided, they didn't even get a hug or much attention from me if I am being perfectly honest. However I never had to pay for a meal during college. One time I was brought Starbucks from two students in the same class and it was pretty awkward and I think might have been a wake up call that I was entertaining way too much simp behavior. Lol My husband sort of started as a simp and was th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/24 09:10 PM
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This 100%. It is insane what a confidence booster it is (and makes you super toned as well).
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 11:10 AM
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Is there anyway he may find out? Controversial take but I don't think you necessarily need to tell him (or anyone for that matter), but I only advise this is if you know the only way he would know about your past is if you disclosed it. There are plenty of ex-OF/sex workers who have turned to God/traditional lifestyle and have been successful in marriages. Their husbands/partners obviously know and accept them and their past. It's hard to say if your boyfriend would leave or not. However, it def…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 04:14 AM
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He is not your soulmate. Honestly the fact that he got back with his ex so fast after you broke up and he married her indicates that he is probably with his soulmate and he may have eventually left you for her anyways. Perhaps you made a mistake, perhaps you had a gut feeling that something was off. It really doesn't matter because he is married and it has been 4 years. You should really stop stalking his social media. There is no way for your partner to be appreciated for what sounds like the g…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 12:53 PM
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From what you describe, it seems like there is little room for confusion and he is communicating openly and honestly about his feelings in regard to engagements/marriage. Check out the waiting to wed subreddit if you want a cautionary tale. There are women still waiting for a ring despite being in over decade long relationships. Ultimately you can't pressure a man into these things and get a good outcome. He seems to feel extremely negative about marriage and I think you should listen to him and…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 01:04 AM
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Yes, men who sexualize and fetishize submissive women/traditional relationships are gross and generally lack the qualities a leader should have. However, a man desiring a traditional relationship doesn't mean he is fetishizing it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 02:11 PM
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It's not a bad idea if he is great in every other way in my opinion. I live in city known for having beautiful women and provider men and it is common to see beautiful women with ugly men. I find it pretty rare in general to see a couple where I think the man is better looking or his partner's equal counterpart. I don't think you need to let go of all your looks preferences though, if at all. You are 23 and can still be selective, even if it requires leveling up yourself. I'm married but I had 0…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 02:00 PM
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I think attractive men just don't have to try hard. If you are a HVM women will easily fall into your lap. Regular men have to try a little harder. I'll say one thing, when I looksmaxxed I ended up receiving less attention from unattractive/LVM so being hit on less. However, the quality of men was MUCH higher. Some men will always have the audacity and be delusional. I have seen fat, broke, scruffy looking men with no degree and zero prospects think they deserve a beautiful woman. So I am not sa…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/24 01:48 AM
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Outside of really creepy/rude/unpleasant behavior (and frankly even then), I suspect this may be in your head partially. You are very attractive and that is generally enough for men to want to interact with you, even if you are awkward.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/24 07:06 PM
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I agree that just being without a father in general is detrimental for both genders, however the fatherless woman is mentioned a lot as a red flag already in male spaces. I don't think fatherless men are talked about enough here in a female space that focuses heavily on women finding good men to marry.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 11:59 AM
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This is an opinion that really upsets a lot of people but I heavily agree with you that women should avoid dating men who grew up fatherless. Also still don't understand why any woman with no kids is settling for men who have children, especially when the woman is relatively young and the man had them out of wedlock. Like he already abandoned one family? Why on earth would you want that type of man in your life?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 02:15 AM
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Her mother is clearly a light skin black woman, and her grandparents have dark skin. Cardi looks a lot like her grandparents.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/24 02:03 AM
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Cardi B is black. She is Afro Latina. I'm not sure if you are aware that you can be Hispanic and black lol
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 09:56 PM
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Ironically you picked a black woman to pick on who had her children within her marriage. While I don't think she is a role model, she has never had a child out of wedlock. There are a lot of white women who are famous now that started off in sex work. Tbh at least Cardi B is candid about it and doesn't lie about her past.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/24 09:12 PM
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If your husband is truly a provider and you are working full time, you should have enough money to hire a regular babysitter or nanny, housekeepers, and meal plans. That way you can also enjoy hobbies and a break for yourself, it might lessen the resentment you have towards your husband. Then your weekends and the time you do have together will probably be a lot sweeter because there isn't frustration . Women (nor men) can do it all. The working full time plus being responsible for all childcare…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/24 03:03 AM
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It is extremely rare. Porn addiction is largely a male issue. Even female porn addicts simply won't suffer the same level of sexual dysfunction. Women don't need to "get it up" to perform.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 05:42 PM
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Pornsick is a term used to describe men who are obsessed with porn to the point that alters their brain and also causes sexual dysfunctions. It usually manifests in the form of having erectile dysfunction. It's just another way to say porn addict usually. Usually porn-sick refers to men though who will follow a lot of sexual accounts of women, have ED, and have a warped perception of sex and intimacy with women. It causes a lot of issues in relationships and marriages, can be incredibly emotiona…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 05:24 PM
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Women and men are different. Definitely my fault and silly of me for assuming you were talking about male friends/a unisex group! I think there are very few porn sick women out there. I don't think anime is a red or yellow flag when it comes to women tbh. Just with men. Women tend to not consume the weird side of anime. Most women I have met who like anime are just a bit awkward.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 05:18 PM
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To be fair it is hard to know if friends are porn sick, that is something normally just revealed within a relationship. Embarrassing that OP was able to figure it out just by looking at his Instagram which shows that he is off the deep end if he has literally 0 shame. I do like Studio Ghibli films, they are better than anything American studios put out imo, but I also don't get the appeal outside of that. I enjoyed Sailor Moon as a little girl but found other anime weird and uncomfortable to wat…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 03:58 PM
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I find that most adult men who really enjoy anime tend to also be porn sick. It was a huge ick for me in college too. Being openly a hentai enjoyer is even more of a red flag and is a definite sign of porn sickness Obviously if he is following several porn accounts on his public social medias his brain is rotted enough to not even care that potential future partners like yourself would see that. If you think about it, it is pretty pathetic and embarrassing. I would just drop him. It was 1 date a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/24 11:45 AM
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I think couples therapy when you aren't married is a little silly. This is also a on and off relationship so the commitment already isn't good, plus the cheating. I'm not saying to necessarily leave, but I do think you need to be carefully considering your future with this man. A lot of women waste years on a boyfriend who will never become their husband. I also see women who marry a man they probably should not have. I don't know how old you two are and I think that is important in this situati…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 07:14 PM
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There are surgeries available to increase height. It is really expensive though.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/24 04:17 PM
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The fact of the matter is that your ex boyfriend does not want to contact you so no contact is the only thing you can do. Constantly messaging and making attempts at this point can possibly get you in trouble with the law. This is not a man who wants to provide for you or be with you. Someone who ghosts their partner and has their family and friend to communicate is a coward and not someone you want to be with. However it does seem like he knew you would not respect his decision. Do you believe …
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 12:35 PM
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It is nonsensical. Attractiveness level has nothing to do with promiscuity, especially when most men have extremely low standards on who they will sleep with. And while this is purely anecdotal, the women who had a reputation for getting around a lot in my life have always been conventionally unattractive/slightly below average. A 10/10 doesn't need to sleep with anyone to get or keep them interested
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/24 02:50 AM
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Breast lifts are basically the only way outside of lucky genetics. Also avoiding extreme weight fluctuations. Many women get breast lifts after breastfeeding or just as they age, there is 0 shame in it. There are no creams or pills that defy gravity.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 02:12 PM
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You are 35 years old so your timeframe to have biological children is starting to run out. Not to worry you or stress you out as I am sure you are aware of that, but it is worth mentioning because to divorce would mean you would have to spend time seeking out a suitable partner who wants to get married quickly. It is likely that your husband probably does feel depressed or emasculated because his wife is financially supporting him completely and you are clearly unhappy with it and showing that y…
/r/RedPillWives14/02/24 04:43 AM
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Red Pill strategies can work for everyone and RP does not equal trad dynamic. While a lot of the RPW community have more traditional relationships/marriages, anyone can benefit from RP advice.
/r/RedPillWives14/02/24 04:29 AM
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It depends on your constitution I guess. I don't think "anyone". I have gotten gifts for my husband when we first started dating that he didn't totally love and while he was never rude and was appreciative, he felt comfortable telling me the shoes/shirt/etc weren't his thing. He also got me things I didn't love. We don't believe in punishing someone for their honesty. Obviously if someone is always complaining and being rude that is one thing. However if someone doesn't jump up and down for a ge…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 08:57 PM
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She didn't react the best and there is a graceful and feminine way to go about dealing with gifts that aren't your taste. However, many men aren't that sensitive and won't take it personally if you don't like a gift they got if you are tactful about it
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 07:51 PM
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You can always reach out to explain, but understand he may not want that drama or has vetted you out because you were dishonest. I think personally might be better for you to move on as it sounds like he lost interest in you completely. Also, block your ex and if he continues to harass you can always take legal avenues to get him to stop.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/24 11:23 PM
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Exactly. If they got together when they are 15 that is one thing and absolutely should be waiting years to get married. There is no excuse. This is a man taking advantage of OP to pay off his own assets while she will be left with nothing when the relationship ends. I feel sad that she did not have anyone in her life to steer her away from this scam. :(
/r/RedPillWives12/02/24 06:08 PM
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I think even once is too much then. Whatever you choose to do, even if with another partner, you must practice better emotional regulation yourself. Telling someone you will go to others for fulfillment is threatening to cheat is incredibly disrespectful and emasculating. I don't imagine men with self-respect would ever tolerate that and would probably want to end the relationship/marriage upon hearing that. It's verbally abusive and manipulative in nature to say things like that to a partner. N…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 03:09 PM
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Abuse at this level is above the subreddit's pay grade. It's not ethical for any of us to try and help a woman save her marriage if it involves a husband choking his wife and hitting her on a regular basis. While I can tell you definitely make a lot of mistakes and have a lot to work on yourself (For example, saying you will seek fulfillment somewhere else IS threatening to cheat), there is no excuse for him being physically violent with you. Normal, good men will simply divorce you if you tell …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/24 02:54 PM
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It's a term coined from SheraSeven who basically makes content for women that is RP in nature but less male centric than this subreddit is and more inherently selfish. She basically pushes for women to only date provider men and date and marry for stability/money over love. She sometimes encourages "unethical" strategies that mimic Red Pill Men strategies but for women to use to their advantage.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/24 05:20 PM
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Most masculine men probably don't want flowers, but would still appreciate them if given to them by a woman they love. I think there are probably better things to gift them though. I find the whole "men only get flowers when they die" crowd to consist of more sassy, feminine men or bitter males who hate women. My version of "flowers" for my husband is cooking him his favorite meals, or picking up snacks he enjoys at the grocery store.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 08:44 PM
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Honestly I suspect you may have a mental health issue if you genuinely believe you are going to be injected with drugs for having RPW beliefs. The way you write comes off as erratic and unstable. Also, your beliefs are your own and other people have the right to their beliefs. It's not feminine to hound your mother about her actions and beliefs while you live under her roof as an adult. You sound extremely pushy and nobody likes that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 06:15 PM
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There is a reason marriage and birth rates are down. Marriage is not a good deal for most women whatsoever and I say that as a happily married woman. I got lucky and vetted very well, but the reality is that more women are getting stuck in unfair marriages Many men watched their mothers work a full time job and do majority of the childcare and domestic labor so they expect that from their wives. Women in my generation and younger are waking up to see that it isn't fair and are prioritizing thems…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/24 05:55 PM
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I don't think anyone is saying that but it takes a lot of mental gymnastics to think a divorced man is more likely to be someone who is committed. Statistics for second marriages are abysmal. If you have never been married you should not be aiming to marry a divorcee unless you have something that is terribly harming your RMV/SMV (like maybe being older in age/unattractive). Generally I see not-so-conventionally attractive women getting into relationships with men who have been married/have chil…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/24 03:59 PM
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I did not perceive it that way. My mother is a wonderful woman who has the flaw of being very opinionated on everything herself which can admittedly be very aggravating. Amazing homemaker, a good cook, and does a lot of outreach in the community, but her biggest flaw is she can be pretty naggy at times (in a well-meaning way). I also find myself doing the same with my husband and have been trying to get a handle on it so I really appreciate this post.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 12:53 PM
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He had told you that he does not view you as a serious partner he would commit to. If you can accept that, then it is your right but what you are describing is pretty desperate and displays a lack of respect for yourself. Everything you have told us indicates he doesn't really like you much outside of the potential of using you for sex. Do you not feel like you can do better than this?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 07:36 PM
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I'm married but it was a big priority for me. My husband makes extremely good money and is a natural provider. I love him for many reasons outside of that, but I would have never dated him had he not been an ambitious and well-educated person. I think if you don't ever want children you can date less practically, but if you do want a family you should be a lot more selective with your partner when it comes to financial matters. You owe it to your future children and self. Too many women give chi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/24 05:21 AM
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Literally, everyone always just suggests "dating an older man" like she can't just meet an age appropriate man getting a college education like her. Every other corner of Reddit will immediately suggest "just leave him" and I think this subreddit's version of it is "date an older man" like that is the solution to everything. In my opinion, dating an older man is good if you are lacking in certain attributes and are honest about your lower SMV/RMV. I hate that it is suggested to everyone, especia…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/24 06:57 PM
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Messaging this man is pretty disrespectful to your husband. Remove and block him. There is nothing wrong with reminiscing about your young self, but you are crossing the line when you continually contact your ex behind your husband's back. Don't blow up your marriage and family for a fling that happened years ago
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 09:41 PM
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This sounds like a legitimately terrible situation to be raising a baby in. One thing you will need to prepare for is the fact that there is a real possibility that the only support you will receive from him is court ordered child support. He is being honest about the fact that he does not want this child, he does not want to marry you, and he does intend to financially provide for you in all ways you and child require.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 08:20 PM
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To be honest, I tend to find many women who use those terms fall into the PickMe category or like the complete validation they get from orbiters. Not all. The truth is probably most women just find it easier to befriend men because men will instantly become friends with you if they are even slightly attracted to you whereas it is much more effort to befriend other women meaningfully. I used to be the shy girl with nerdy interests that had mostly male friends (still had girl friends). However you…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 01:49 PM
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Cardi B does cook and clean, as evidenced in multiple videos Offset has posted to his socials. It's just a song and even if she did not cook/clean most women of her social class have maids and chefs. Cheating is a character flaw. A woman can drive her good man to leave her, but a good man won't cheat.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 01:36 PM
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If you aren't extremely attractive and willing to marry someone older, it's unlikely to near impossible that it would happen. Most women will not date down
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 01:30 PM
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I feel like female meanness is at least discussed a lot more now than ever before. Especially now with "PickMe" criticism being so popular, and how female dominated professions often eat their young. So it's good that people are finally talking about it more!!! Women can be mean, because this subreddit alone constantly has female (and male who are enabled by some of the women) bullies.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 01:22 PM
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You can be the best woman on the planet and you will still get cheated on. Plenty of doting housewives get cheated on by their husbands I don't really think there is anything funny or amusing in a woman who clearly loves her husband being done dirty by him over and over. It's just sad.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/24 05:37 PM
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Having multiple children out of wedlock is 100% not a flex nor does it exemplify RP or conservative values. It comes off as you telling OP that if she's unattractive she can at least settle to be a forever babymama until babydaddy finds his dream girl to actually marry. Having children out of wedlock is a terrible idea for regular women and is nothing to strive for or praise
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/24 05:44 PM
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OP can't believe anything he says when he shows a pattern of lying. I doubt he even broke up with his ex, a lot of men will lie about that to protect their ego or make their ex look bad.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/24 05:32 PM
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I won't tell you to break up with him because that is such a deeply personal decision. However all those traits do not indicate a man with good, loyal qualities. You are 27 so if your goal is to be married you need to be vetting very diligently to not end up with a pornsick creep.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/24 05:31 PM
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Yep. She can give some awful advice to women in situations that are just beyond worth fighting for. Just because she gives some good advice in her book (which is definitely a great book) doesn't mean she is a role model to follow blindly. To be fair, I think her content was much better like a decade ago. I think the more recent years have contained the problematic stuff like excusing abuse, abandonment, repeated infidelity, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/24 05:11 AM
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An unpopular opinion but I really am not a fan of Laura Doyle's content. Her podcast is especially insufferable. The last episode I listened to her had her describing her "success" story of a woman who already seemed pretty submissive cooking and cleaning for her husband, taking care of their children. He literally got up one day and left with no warning for a woman he had been having an affair with for months. Woman dumps him, he crawls back to wife and now that she has fixed all her issues the…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 06:59 PM
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I'm just going to pray for you and your children. I will pray your husband stops exposing the mother of his child to diseases that can render her infertile, make her have a stench, and give her cancer and kill her. If you divorce having a STD will kill your SMV/RMV so please at least take care of yourself to prevent that from happening. It is really depressing how every woman who has your situation projects the insecurity of "husband leaving for another woman". It's textbook in all of you. It is…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/23 11:15 AM
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Yeah, you do you. Anyways ladies, be cautious about women who advocate to cuck yourself willingly. If you look with even one eye, you will see the deep cracks in her life.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/23 09:52 AM
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Generally marriages with "hallpass" situations like this are in shambles. It is a sign of dying marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 11:26 PM
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Again, you are consuming RPM media with attention seeking PickMes who will say anything for views and money. This subreddit is different and you should probably just read the sidebar
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 11:25 PM
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Pearl is RPM-minded, not so much RPW minded. I guess the argument could be made that obviously if someone is married to a wealthy millionaire/billionaire they might turn a blind eye to it more if you can live your life in extreme luxury, spending your days traveling, shopping, and probably getting it on with other wealthy men or buff pool boys.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 11:21 PM
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This is a pretty interesting way to look at it that I never considered before. I think you're right by RPM logic.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 11:11 PM
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No RPW is saying this. Lol RP Men does not equal RP women.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 11:05 PM
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No, and if he did cheat then we would be getting a divorce. I respect my body and my health too much to accept that behavior that can bring you diseases like AIDS. I think a lot of women will put up with it to grasp onto a mediocre/bad relationship/marriage, but don't realize you are risking infertility, cancer, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 10:59 PM
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As you are Christian, I think you can find a likeminded Christian man depending on where you live. However your pool might be small so prepare to compromise in some ways to prioritize the important qualities.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 12:34 PM
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What led you to even accept this situation in the first place, if you don't mind sharing? I'm so proud and happy that you left because I see so many women in your situation that end up never leaving, looking absolutely drained and dead inside. You did what so many never do. However I always wonder how women, many of them with incredible qualities, end up with such losers of men
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/23 10:34 PM
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I strongly agree with this. Without feminism none of us would even be on this subreddit discussing how to vet for a good man, most of us would probably be in really one-sided marriages completely powerless to cheating and potentially abusive husbands. While I disagree with a lot of more modern Western feminist takes like sex work being an empowering thing to strive for or 50/50 relationships, feminism is absolutely needed in many parts of the world and was needed back in the day. As I don't need…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/23 10:22 PM
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The double standards in some men are ridiculous. Shaking their fist trying to peer pressure women into having low standards just so that they don't have to put any effort into existing themselves but still have a bangmaid who will do 50/50 with them til the woman bleeds herself dry working FT and taking care of children. It's a loud minority but I really dislike seeing them in feminine spaces. Picking a good father is the greatest gift you can give to your children. Don't let anyone try to make …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 12:36 AM
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Women shouldn't settle for unambitious men. It's not enough for a man to just skate by in life unless he's set up by his parents. If a woman wants a good life for herself and her future children, she needs to pick a hardworking and successful man. Most men aren't going out of their way to marry "ugly" women even if they're amazing in every other way. Which is their right.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 07:20 PM
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Women will always have a stronger advantage in tech sales when it comes to a hiring process. I worked in tech as a software engineer and know that even though I was 100% competent and good at what I did, I also had a competitive edge in being a woman. I get wanting a provider, and you would be 100% valid to end the relationship because your wants and concerns are valid. However, I think it's also important to stay humble and kind. Either you accept him or leave, but it's not okay to treat him li…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 07:16 PM
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If something happened to my husband God forbid, I would take care of him until one of us died. As far as him losing his job, I know he would find another one because he is a skilled engineer who worked at very well known companies. We are both practical people who both went into stable careers and hold Master's degrees. We also own our fully paid off home and are currently seeking to purchase properties to rent. I wouldn't leave my husband outside of infidelity, addiction, or physical abuse. Mar…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 09:00 PM
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I wanted a kind, funny, and intellectual man who is a natural provider. I am married to him now :) it often feels like a dream. My life has been enriched in many, many ways. He loves taking care of me, supports my dreams, does romantic gestures constantly, and we spend quality time together everyday. I was a more "girl boss" woman working in a competitive male dominated feel that has completely transitioned to a more feminine field that is my dream job, gives me much more free time, and allows m…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 03:08 PM
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Literally her whole post history indicates that she is a low value woman. An obsession with married men, financial issues, abortions, untreated mental health issues, spiteful nature. No decent man will want a loose and drama hungry woman. Plenty of good men out there, but OP needs to do some serious work on herself.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 03:12 AM
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You can spend your time being angry at a boogeyman, it's your right. I just would not suggest it. Much better ways to spend your time and energy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 04:02 AM
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This just seems like drama seeking. Honestly I think the whole "angry feminist" thing is a huge boogeyman in RP circles as most feminists are just normal people who just have different worldviews from us. Most people in the real world want to just not offend and be agreeable, and aren't going to be aggressive about your situation. I'm friends with more traditionally feminine women and feminists alike. I get along well with everyone I meet irl and am pleasant. My husband would probably not want m…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/23 07:57 PM
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Yeah, I have gone on a date with man that was a pervert but that was a one off thing and never saw him again when he insulted me by asking me to go back to his place. A lot of women have terrible vetting skills and they can't admit it. If there is a problematic pattern in the men you date you need to look inward and think about why you are attracting and are attracted to these types of men.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/23 10:05 PM
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