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You're not becoming a PUA overnight. It takes time. You go on a journey with ups and downs. A journey that's never complete but you feel that you're live changing very slowly and in a beautiful way. Best feeling in the world
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:33 PM
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You're not becoming a PUA overnight. It takes time. You go on a journey with ups and downs. A journey that's never complete but you feel that you're live changing very slowly and in a beautiful way. Best feeling in the world
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:32 PM
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Don't really like the Alpha and Beta thing but this is really gold. You're just thinking how do act in such situation. And if Beta you will do it differently when a new situation like that comes around. Definitely a mind changer!
/r/seduction06/02/14 07:29 PM
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Hey thanks a lot man! I know what my problem is and I'm working on it since 4 or 5 months now, but recently I got a lot of rejection and things that weren't really going the right way. And I lost my confidence in myself a bit. I start having this weird thoughts that pull me down, like this one. I'm definitely motivated to start working on myself again! I got to be ready!
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:27 PM
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When a guy has a girlfriend, i see it as a guy who has his shit together and is interesting enough to hang out with or just a good guy. So i think i answered everything what i meant with this post by answering on this question. My previous relationship endured 6 months, was kind of a friend relationship. We understand each other quite well and get along quite well but there wasn't really any romance. It was kind of distanced because I never really was attracted to that girl, i wasn't really prou…
/r/seduction21/01/14 02:14 PM
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Other problem: I dont see myself dating people i would like to date.
/r/seduction21/01/14 12:15 PM
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Thing that worked for me to find my best self is thinking who am i when im at home on my own? And start to be that person, the way you think, the way you act. And add the good social skills and the confidence and youre close at who you really are.
/r/seduction24/11/13 05:41 PM
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I got some good comments on that from a friend of mine. We often are at ease with girls in relationships. We can be ourselves, do what we want because we know we dont have to impress her or look like an idiot in their eyes because they already have a boyfriend. With single girls its different, we constantly want to know if theres a change to hook up so we arent open about our feelings, we arent ourselves because we think they will not like We are afraid to fail.
/r/seduction24/11/13 05:07 PM
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What does it mean when a girl says ill ask a friend of mine if she wants to join (i know that friend) after I ask her out on a date?
/r/seduction22/11/13 10:23 PM
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Youre right. I did everything right ubtil I had to make a move like a man Another question, I asked her out, to go for drinks. She answeted she wants to but then says I will check with my friend if she wants to join (the one who lives at my apartment)
/r/seduction22/11/13 08:43 PM
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Do you think she sees me differently now, because i didnt close? I read a lot about it on this subreddit that when you dont close its almost impossible to do it again, because you didnt take the change the first time.
/r/seduction22/11/13 02:23 PM
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Can someone tell me how they made there first step on beating the anxiety of talking to women? Once I broke the ice it's easy; but thinking about what to say as an 'opener', just kills me and I flake.
/r/seduction12/10/13 01:04 PM
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Don't think about a relationship with her, not right now. Get to meet her, get her number; fix a date. And see what happens. But don't pursue a relationship with a girl you don't yet know.
/r/seduction08/10/13 05:00 PM
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There outside and inside. And there are things that are part of the outside, and there are things that are part of the inside. Reaching and trying to change the outside things is a never ending struggle that will result in getting depressed and nothing giving a fuck about yourself. What helps with me, and i recently found this out, is telling yourself, i'm not the only one who is insecure, i'm not the only one who might have a lack of confidence. As a matter of fact, many people are insecure, es…
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:06 PM
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I think it would be good for this subreddit to have some Europeans doing FR and such. Because euro girls are so much different from American girls.
/r/seduction07/10/13 07:23 PM
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Wow, well done man. But American girls look so damn easy. Here, over at Europe a girl would never ask to dance with you. They are just too insecure.
/r/seduction07/10/13 02:58 PM
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Ow okay. Welcome to Seddit then
/r/seduction06/10/13 06:48 PM
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Are you trolling? PUA = pick up artist
/r/seduction06/10/13 04:34 PM
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You could have been one of those guys who call themselves PUA.
/r/seduction06/10/13 03:56 PM
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Read the sidebar guide, when youre a beginner to begin with. Its better to do your own research by reading this guides or using the search function. But when that doesnt really answer your question and ask the question again. What I make up from youre post you havent really done any research. Am I right?
/r/seduction06/10/13 03:13 PM
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I never read no self help book, in the first place. I would never treat a girl like shit, never ever in my life. Don't look at it as black and white, there are shades of grey in between. I want to treat a girl like a normal person, look at her like a normal person, not like a princess as it did in the past. I'm just trying to change my life, I improved myself, but it's that one thing, being good with girls i try to fix the most, because I suck at it. And indeed I shouldn't take too much action, …
/r/seduction06/10/13 02:34 PM
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I was just kidding man, it sounded nice in my head. Let me tell you a little story about where I come from, it might change your point of view. I only had one girlfriend in my whole life that lasted longer then one week. I've never kissed a girl until I was 18 years old. I literally fucked up every communication I had with girls and never really believed in myself or thought: man, girls could be interested in me due to a thing that happened when I was a little boy I had a pretty bad rate of self…
/r/seduction06/10/13 02:23 PM
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Did you have good experiences with this? Hope this will happen to me soon.
/r/seduction06/10/13 02:16 PM
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What do you mean with visibme success?
/r/seduction05/10/13 05:40 PM
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Mmh okay. That made me think about it differently. I think the most important thing in this case is not being known as a creep.
/r/seduction05/10/13 05:18 PM
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Thank you. Its quite an awesome feeling to bring people together. What I want from girls? Just meeting interesting girls who I can hang out with. With the thought in the back of my mind that there is a big change I will meet new girls, I'm attracted to. But im not really looking for long term relationships. Not for now. I want to enjoy my college years. So I think indeed, the discretion is something I need to be aware off. So what is your suggestion in this situation?
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:12 PM
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You wille remember it when meeting another cute girl and will do better then. ;-)
/r/seduction05/10/13 03:46 PM
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No, it's not bad at all. but I want the reputation of being the guy who picks up women all the time. College social circles are connected with each others, especially those with a lot of girls in them. So after a couple of weeks, it's possible that i make a name of myself as being the guy who hits on women all the time. And it's downwards after that, i think.
/r/seduction05/10/13 03:45 PM
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Short story even shorter: don't drink too much on a night out and talk more
/r/seduction05/10/13 03:43 PM
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I tend to just evaluate the reason why I feel so bad about myself then I say to myself: "stop acting like a loser, learn from your mistake and go on, you're a better person now." Works like a charm for me.
/r/seduction05/10/13 10:22 AM
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I was 16 years old, at a local party. I walked up at the most gorgeous girl in the room and kissed her one hour later. Things were damn easy back then. It went all backwards from then.
/r/seduction23/02/13 11:31 AM
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Turn the What If in something positive and set yourself a challenge. Well writtin words of wisdom, so true.
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:13 PM
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You got a thing in common, It is easy to talk to each other then. But I still could have done it. You did! Well done!
/r/seduction13/02/13 02:09 PM
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Do you guys do this in the place where you live? Because the place where I live is kinda small, and it can become awkward if I do stuff like this.
/r/seduction12/02/13 10:45 AM
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