y37 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
24	First cold approach	y37	/r/seduction	22/04/19 09:21 PM
6	We hooked up a couple days before for the first time. My texting game is terrible but I’ve only ever texted to schedule dates.	y37	/r/seduction	08/10/19 04:06 PM
3	Went on a first date already, got her number and tried to set up a second. Am I wasting my time here?	y37	/r/seduction	23/05/19 04:21 AM
1	She seems interested. Is this a potential booty call?	y37	/r/seduction	25/05/19 02:15 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	She seems interested. Is this a potential booty call? Thanks for your input. Well just have to see what happens	/r/seduction	25/05/19 02:22 PM
1	She seems interested. Is this a potential booty call? Thanks for your advice! I definitely see where you’re coming from	/r/seduction	25/05/19 02:22 PM
1	Went on a first date already, got her number and tried to set up a second. Am I wasting my time here? Gotcha yeah I definitely noticed the whole emoji thing was received poorly. I guess I’ll just wait. To be honest we’ve only gone on one date so far and I just don’t want to invest too much of my time/energy. If it doesn’t work, go next. Thanks for the advice	/r/seduction	23/05/19 07:10 PM
3	Went on a first date already, got her number and tried to set up a second. Am I wasting my time here? Thanks dude I tried to leave it kind of open but who knows	/r/seduction	23/05/19 04:28 AM
1	Its Sat night and you should want to go out Having a statement clothing piece is great. But don’t forget simplicity in style is also just as good. A basic solid colored shirt can work too. Good luck dude	/r/seduction	19/05/19 05:10 AM
1	Its Sat night and you should want to go out Nah man nothing wrong with a button up. I usually wear one with dark wash jeans and some decent shoes. Don’t try too hard but you can never go wrong with that	/r/seduction	19/05/19 04:40 AM
4	If you're Asian, you are not doomed Great post dude! Thanks for your words of wisdom	/r/seduction	13/05/19 06:16 PM
2	Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself. I recently got out of a relationship with the exact same issue. All I say is learn from it. Set boundaries for yourself and what you will tolerate. As well as possible bullshit from your S/O. Even if they’re pulling away you don’t need to waste your time with that person. And no problem dude best of luck and keep your head up!	/r/seduction	13/05/19 05:03 AM
6	Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself. Hey dude I totally get it. You had to vent out your frustrations. I think this sub gives great advice on how to build a foundation to socializing and getting with women as well as self improvement. It seems to me that you feel like you’re forcing and faking all of the things you studied. Fuck it then. Don’t forget what you’ve studied but fuck the fake bullshit that you hate. Be who you want to be. This sub can only do so much. Do what you want in your life and if the girl you’re with is moving o…	/r/seduction	13/05/19 04:51 AM
1	Could I of done anything else It would probably be healthier for the two of you to give each other space. Things becoming awkward can happen, but remember that its mostly just a mindset. If you feel that it will be awkward it will be. Look past it and move on. Life's too short to worry over the little things.	/r/seduction	12/05/19 05:04 PM
2	I made a horribly awkward approach to a stranger. I think everything was bad about it and I am pretty sure I creeped her out hard. Don’t be paranoid dude. If anything it’s normal to feel anxious. I think your direct approach can work on some girls but personally I’d open with a compliment or the cliche line “Hi I think you’re cute and had to come talk to you”. I’m new to this too but you can’t give up. Take baby steps. Ask for the time or directions. Just talk about anything really. It’ll breakdown that initial anxiety. Again, don’t give up! Good luck out there	/r/seduction	12/05/19 02:31 PM
1	Approaching a girl I've never met but apparently has a thing for me. Is socal media my only option? Online is convenient and easier. However, I’d give your cousin another shot in helping you out. Don’t over think it if you have to use social media either. You know she has some interest so it shouldn’t be too difficult to get ahold of her. Good luck!	/r/seduction	12/05/19 02:26 PM
4	what clothes to buy? /malefashionadvice would be my go to but ultimately it depends on your personal style. But I would definitely say go out of your comfort zone and ease into something similar to what you find on this sub. It’s helped me out a lot. You don’t need to go all out just learn the basics i.e shoes matching your belt, color pallets, matching, wardrobe staples. Again, take it with a grain of salt but I hope this helps!	/r/seduction	12/05/19 02:21 PM
2	Could I of done anything else Think about it, you seem to know your answer but might not want to accept it. She has to be ready for what you have to offer and I don’t think she is. Don’t force anything. The best thing you can do is give her some space. I know this sub loves to tell you there’s a lot more options out there but it’s true. Give her space and go on dates with different girls. It’ll clear your head and give her the time she needs. Best of luck friend	/r/seduction	12/05/19 02:17 PM
2	how do I pull off the impossible? Don’t latch onto this girl. She could just be pulling you along or she could mean it. Either way I think you should take a step back and see what other options you have. She isn’t the only girl out there. Also clinginess and neediness are definite no-go’s	/r/seduction	12/05/19 07:21 AM
2	"Are you busy?" How should I respond? Don’t over think it. Generally, when asked this they want your attention. Maybe it’s important or they just want to talk to you. Take it as a good sign she wants your attention.	/r/seduction	09/05/19 06:12 PM
3	I will never forgive my parents Maybe you should put all this blame on your parents past you. Realize that some of your problems are YOUR fault. I don’t know how you were raised or what kind of environment you were in but you can’t just blame your parents 100%. Self reflect and think about what you’re doing wrong with these women. Your parents aren’t trying to pick them up, you are.	/r/seduction	26/04/19 08:37 PM
1	First cold approach I’m going to try out indirect approaches and a gimmick one. I’ve looked into it but I felt like a direct one was the easiest and fastest way to get some experience. Thanks for the advice!	/r/seduction	23/04/19 06:00 PM
2	First cold approach Your videos actually motivated me in the first place Mark. Especially taking risks and getting over the initial approach anxiety! So thank you!	/r/seduction	23/04/19 10:24 AM
1	Need Advice Getting Clothes Off The best way to tell a girl that you want clothing off is to just show her by gradually taking yours off. Basically mirror each other. Once you take your shirt off have her take hers off or you help her. Then repeat	/r/seduction	22/04/19 10:03 PM
17	My Journey - A long and detailed story about how a boy became a man. What an excellent post. Thanks for sharing your journey with us dude. This was truly inspiring and genuine!	/r/seduction	22/04/19 09:47 PM
1	[SERIOUS] Asian dudes, has your dating life been as racially biased & difficult as mine? As shitty as this sounds people tend to gravitate towards stereotypes or assumptions when it comes to first impressions. So yeah I get the whole racial biases thing. However, I think you’re putting too much thought into it. Most girls actually like Asian guys. By telling yourself that other races have it better off is pretty hypocritical. Why not prove that Asian guys are not weak and have the desire and confidence as any other race. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter about race. Who cares?…	/r/seduction	21/04/19 01:53 AM
2	Relationship game: My girlfriend is getting too comfortable and I don't like it Although she’s acting strangely, take a step back and self reflect. Have you become needy? Have you avoided confrontation? It was said earlier, stand up for yourself. Show her that you shouldn’t have to deal with her attitude. Just be assertive and tell her what she’s doing is petty. From my experience, it’s almost like a test to see if you’re going to stand up for yourself or let her walk over you. And she’ll keep pushing those boundaries if you don’t. You know you have self respect. Just becau…	/r/seduction	20/04/19 02:07 PM