We hooked up a couple days before for the first time. My texting game is terrible but I’ve only ever texted to schedule dates.

DruZi5280 · 2019-10-08T16:10:37+00:00

That’s actually pretty solid and I’d recommend to keep doing what you’re doing. The goal is the leave them wanting more so I’d leave texting at a minimum. Only respond if absolutely needed.

Ice666White · 2019-10-08T17:48:16+00:00

Here are some resources for message game.

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1_WDDWbBBd5qf5OOI1sfwViMlpGb03-hkfBTmR5DHjjw/edit?usp=sharing

www.Facebook.com/groups/MessageGame

Workamaholic · 2019-10-09T06:08:52+00:00

I think you’re good keeping it light on messages. It’s hard but smart. I just wouldn’t ask. I would tell. I think you’ll have better results. So instead of “what are you doing Sunday?”

It’s

“I’m doing (this cool fucking thing) Sunday at (time) here (some address). Meet me there.”

If she doesn’t respond with a yes or no and an alternate date she’s probably not that into you.

Good luck.

Boggob15 · 2019-10-09T09:48:23+00:00

Never text first after a lay. Never text twice. Progress to logistics with the first reply.

O2BMeee · 2019-10-08T17:20:34+00:00

I think your text are fine, I do see the time gap. But then again, you were in the field! Don’t respond quickly, make them want you, but don’t go to long without contact. A simple, “Thinking of you!” Is fine.

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