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Resourcesyallapapi/r/seduction06/06/20 04:25 PM
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Men's Rightsyallapapi/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 09:56 PM
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Fundamentalsyallapapi/r/seduction14/05/20 11:02 PM
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This image raped my eyes and brain, OP you are going down
/r/MensRights27/07/26 12:48 AM
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Become a club promoter
/r/seduction20/07/26 06:53 AM
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Bro what the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:16 AM
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there are no ugly women, only lazy women
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/26 02:27 AM
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Bro discovered ChatGPT
/r/seduction12/06/26 12:33 AM
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its over bro start taking estrogen and transition, esp if ppl on reddit say you're too late you'll never experience true love done forget about it. you're 1 year away from becoming a wizard, embrace it
/r/seduction02/06/26 05:28 AM
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Who cares what other guys do. Focus on yourself not endlessly comparing yourself to others. You cry too much, go work on yourself instead of posting on Reddit about your sob story.
/r/seduction29/05/26 05:05 AM
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Just quit bro if you’re not an expert by your 10th approach it’ll never happen. Take the black pill and keep posting on reddit about how sad you are
/r/seduction18/05/26 09:20 AM
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It’s the female version of keeping up with the joneses. Skip
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:56 PM
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Bro you need to print out little cards that say “ hi I find you attractive but I’m an autistic retard, please 1) nod if you would like me to stay and talk to you or 2) shake your head if you would like me to leave you alone. Thank you m’lady”
/r/seduction24/04/26 02:47 PM
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Well surely when they read this excellent post they will change their minds
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:42 PM
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2000 approaches per year, average 40 a week at that rate. Are you just doing hi bye can I get your insta and follow up later? Nightgame? Daytime? What city? How old are you? Do you peacock? Wear a watch? Top 3 go to lines? Best tip for text game? Do you drink? First date location? Social circle game? Active on IG? Thanks
/r/seduction14/04/26 01:32 AM
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Nobody is born knowing this shit
/r/seduction01/04/26 02:59 PM
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Yes, it will make you disgusted with yourself and inadvertently raise your standards
/r/seduction30/03/26 02:31 AM
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no offense brother, do what makes you happy. just try to see things through other's eyes. sorry for insulting you, good luck
/r/seduction24/11/25 08:04 AM
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Is this a serious question? If you could bang any girl you wanted why would you sign a legal document saying you could only be with one and would lose half your shit otherwise. Are you 13?
/r/seduction24/11/25 07:15 AM
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Tbh I think it can be a great idea but you will have to accept that you will face the same issue here as well. You essentially are saying that to women when you approach them, but in other parts of the world that’s just naturally how men are. In America there’s all this weird shame around it bc we’re all a little fucked in the head regarding sex and relationships. I moved to Thailand a month ago. Was living in miami before which was a very open city, but faced some insecurities because the compe…
/r/seduction19/10/25 12:27 AM
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I ask them all the time, it’s a great question. “Yeah same here, let’s get drinks/coffee sometime”
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:09 AM
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Wait till they find out about the true story it’s actually based on
/r/MensRights10/08/25 07:22 PM
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Been living in miami for two years, here are my thoughts on your post. Yes it is more transactional than other cities for sure. But it’s not always only like that. Yes you do have a subset of girls who are only looking to be “spoiled”. And yes your average girl here expects more than meeting for a drink at a bar. However, there are nice girls here. And by nice girls I mean hot ones that have a full time non influencer job that are in bed by 10pm and just want a cool guy to be with here and there…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/25 01:18 PM
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Do it brother, yolo
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:03 AM
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I can fix her
/r/MensRights08/03/25 05:04 AM
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So what, do it anyway. Just smile and be polite bro, don’t overthink it. Unironically touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:45 PM
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Go for it bro. Fuck all these people saying it’s a dumb idea, it’s a great idea
/r/seduction10/10/23 12:04 PM
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This made me want to move to Miami. Also post physique
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 12:35 AM
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I always just say I don’t count anymore. Usually they stop asking after that. Don’t try to avoid sounding like a player when you answer questions. It’s a shit test. They want to see if you’ll lie to make yourself sound better. Plus a lot of girls see fucking a player as a safe option because they know he at least won’t murder them
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:54 PM
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Start approaching girls in real life. They’re more attractive, less flaky, and you have more control over who you date. It’s awkward at first but so so so worth it
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:23 PM
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Take up photography. Almost all beautiful women want to have professional pictures taken. Definitely a plus if you have a camera and know how to use it. Also you can organize group photo shoots with businesses if you want.
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:01 PM
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Sounds like you live in vegas
/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:29 PM
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37 and have some grays. Still get the hair flips and looks from 18-22 year olds. Waiting nervously for the day it stops. So far so good though. As long as you keep fit and dress reasonably well, you’ll be ok.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:36 PM
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Lol imagine if the title was like “Fat women are hurting American men’s marriage prospects.”
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 12:12 PM
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Yo bro u should fuckin bang ur step sister
/r/askTRP09/07/20 11:57 PM
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You did the right thing but for the wrong reasons. Was 100% a shit test to see if you’d get butthurt. Technically you did, but you took away her power by leaving. She wanted to see if you’d get butthurt and stay. Next time anticipate something like this and do a false takeaway, ie pretend to leave or leave but don’t block her. Wait until she blows you up again and then call her out by speaking the truth. “I don’t like how you’re acting. You’re playing games and it’s insulting. I don’t want to wa…
/r/askTRP07/07/20 03:23 PM
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Bruh how is this even a question. You went to ER and she ignored you? Where is your self respect?
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:40 PM
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What women are asking you how much money you make? Isn't it more like "what do you do?"
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:23 PM
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bro come on he said he only used $450k. stop exaggerating
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 12:01 AM
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bro come on he said he only used $450k. stop exaggerating
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 12:00 AM
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Agreed. It’s a numbers game just like sales. And just like sales you have to understand that rejection is part of the game and not take it personal
/r/seduction04/03/20 03:00 PM
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Great info here!
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:56 PM
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Yeah true... tbh she was a 7 at best and I didn’t want to spend any more time with her. I live 30 mins from the club and didn’t want to be stuck with her for the entire drive back. Would have rather spent time doing more approaches. It could have gone either way. If she was hotter maybe I would have felt like investing more into the interaction.
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:54 PM
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Yeah I might be too hard on myself. There’s just so much to learn it seems a little overwhelming. Going out is fun, I just feel all over the place when I do. Just need to keep at it until it feels natural
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:57 PM
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Thanks man this is good advice. I need to make some go to push pulls that I can fire off for the first few mins to get the convo going
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:56 PM
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The night before I made out with three girls at the same club. In comparison it wasn’t good. Still worth going but not as good. You’re right I should have gotten the number but I wasn’t sure she was actually interested. Guess I just didn’t realize it until later. I felt so flat that I think I just wasn’t capable of believing that she was into me
/r/seduction17/02/20 04:15 AM
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Yeah bro for sure. I just started a 3 month remote coaching program for pickup so now I finally have accountability and leverage on myself
/r/seduction17/02/20 12:12 AM
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Yup for sure. I was beat from the night before but have committed to going out 3x a week minimum to game. Would have set a bad precedent if I bitched out on the second night. All in all I’m happy I went. It’s like working out when you’re out of shape. Don’t stay home because you are worried you won’t do it perfectly. Just go and do what you can and you’ll get better.
/r/seduction16/02/20 10:19 PM
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I didn’t say the turned away from me. Also didn’t say they were standing in a corner. And thanks for the tip about the VIP section. Don’t quit your day job
/r/seduction16/02/20 10:18 PM
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I get this all the time. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. In fact I take it as a compliment because gay men are more socially intelligent, good looking, well groomed and in great shape. So I intentionally misunderstand them as giving me a compliment. It’s a shit test brother
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:01 AM
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The bad reactions show me that the world didn’t end and I can do another approach. The good reactions remind me how this is a lot easier than I originally thought
/r/seduction30/10/19 05:38 AM
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Good idea bro. Go for it. I bought scb2 and loved it. Like is brilliant and his shit is next level
/r/seduction22/04/19 11:50 PM
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I’m not going to read it but I’ll take your word for it.
/r/seduction09/06/18 03:48 PM
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That means nothing. This study was about long term couples. Show me the study that says: “Science shows that telling a girl you like her will make her more likely to fuck you.” People see one article about a study and because it says science or study they throw all logic out the window. Cat string theory anyone? Telling her you like her is rarely the way to go.
/r/seduction09/06/18 11:13 AM
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At least the Matrix was entertaining
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 09:50 AM
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I was reading it and felt like plagarizing it into an ebook to sell on Amazon. EDIT: Because it's really fucking good. Great job OP
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 09:36 AM
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When I was in the army we would occasionally have kitchen duty. The head kitchen guy would always tell us that how we worked in the kitchen was how we would work outside of it. Can't say I disagreed.
/r/seduction05/01/18 08:33 AM
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Funny story. I felt bad for her until she had the meltdown
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 09:07 PM
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Nice report but damn that seems like a lot of work
/r/seduction28/12/17 10:41 AM
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Bottom line bro if she wanted you to come she would have invited you. That said just because she didn't doesn't mean she doesn't like you or that things aren't good anymore. It's good to do things apart sometimes as well. Look at the rest of your relationship. If there are other bad signs then maybe it's time to bail. If not then don't worry. My opinion is that it's time to bail and she's gonna bang some other dude on the trip.
/r/askTRP26/12/17 07:56 PM
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I lurk there just to read stories like this. It gives great perspective sometimes. I feel bad for a lot of those guys, kind of want to leave a link to TRP or something but I figure that's against the rules. There are a lot of stories of wives who want a lot of sex and their husbands never give it up. Wonder what's up with that?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:29 AM
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Damn. Good stuff. How are you meeting all these women?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 03:02 AM
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Lol actually I just skimmed it. Just read the part about being Muslim and a virgin. Don't listen to me
/r/seduction29/11/17 11:14 PM
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Ignore him you don't need a therapist. I know a lot of girls in your situation as I work in an area with a very high Muslim population. You have to think about what you want. Do you want to get married? Do you want to start having sex? Do you just want to do it once to say you did it? Once you figure that out then you can decide what to do. I've noticed that the biggest thing stopping Muslim girls from having sex is that they normally still live at home with their parents. Kind of makes it diffi…
/r/seduction29/11/17 08:12 PM
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Sounds like a good business opportunity for you
/r/MensRights27/11/17 07:15 AM
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Not sure why you guys are hating on her. She's honest with what she likes. Her husband is cool with it. What's the problem here?
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 11:51 PM
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Just tell her you're a virgin next time and she'll probably fuck you just so she can be your first
/r/seduction25/11/17 06:19 AM
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You have a few options. The best is to always joke them down. Possible responses to the "this one?" "Yeah, we actually broke up before coming here but didn't want to cause a scene." "Yeah she has at least 10 boyfriends, and that's just the ones I know about." "I'm 27. Why, so you think I should get a younger hotter girlfriend?" This shows you have balls. Plus humor is literally the best thing ever. If you get a laugh out of people at the table you automatically score points. Your value goes up, …
/r/askTRP24/11/17 09:26 PM
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Wellbutrin
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:18 PM
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This is a nice story and all but your grandma was in her 70s 80s when this happened and it's not like she's going to start over with someone else at that age. Also she comes from a different generation of people with more conservative morals. Still nice to have that in your family I guess.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 07:51 PM
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I dunno bro don't blame yourself. Sounds like it was just a bad blowjob. Also were you lying down on your back? I've noticed that if I'm lying down it's harder to enjoy a bad blowjob as opposed to if I'm standing and the girl is on her knees.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 09:08 AM
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She was being a bitch for no reason and you got butt hurt. Now she thinks you're an actual bitch. The correct move would have been to play it off and be like, "oh snap i hope we can still be friends even after you realize i swiped left on you." That said your REAL fuckup was not making a move in the three months that you have been platonic friends. You're an orbiter. She was just putting you in your place. All good brother we've all been there.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 02:57 AM
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If you want to lock her down then go all the way and lock her down. If not then tell her bye bye. No half mesures or deals
/r/askTRP13/11/17 02:52 AM
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Would totally let her sexually assault me
/r/PussyPass12/11/17 03:48 AM
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Depends what you wanted from the experience. Are you trying to bang this chick or what? Good for you for standing your ground regardless. Any particular reason why you decided to ask for separate checks?
/r/askTRP11/11/17 03:25 AM
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As a casual lurker here, I have to say that even before r/incels was banned there was a lot of anti-women hate going on here. Just a lot of, "here's why women suck" memes. In theory the MGTOW movement has something noble about it but in practice it seems like people use it as an excuse to rage about women. Not criticizing just giving my opinion. Happy moderating!
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 09:24 PM
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Money Game Looks Pick 2. Three is best. Sounds like your friend has 3. How many do you have?
/r/askTRP04/11/17 11:04 PM
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My experience it's the opposite. The lower on the attractiveness scale they are then the more issues they have. The hotter ones have more confidence and are more open to everything. Also it takes just as much effort to game a 6.5 as it does a 10. Generally you still have to open, talk to them, grab a drink and convince her to come back to your place for sex all over the course of 1-3 dates. Might as well go for the hotter ones. Also do you really want to be the guy who is seen in public with an …
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:59 PM
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She was testing you to see your reaction to her basically telling you she was going to replace you. You got butt hurt and ended the call instead of handling it like you don't give a fuck, aka making a joke about it. Also the fact that you mention that you're planning on making it official implies that you've put her on a pedestal or are too lazy/insecure to play the field while you have this girl as well. That in turn implies that you have made more mistakes than just this one and that your thin…
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:55 PM
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"It's not working out. You're a great person and I had so much fun with you. But I need to focus on myself for a while. I'm really sorry."
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:25 PM
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Solid 6.5. Fat and 35+... got some high standards there. We all have to start somewhere I guess. Just go try something.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:23 PM
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I.e. He's out for more tendies and dew
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:20 PM
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Agree and amplify. You already fucked up tho.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 10:16 PM
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Yes. Strengthen your back/neck/shoulder muscles
/r/askTRP02/11/17 03:45 AM
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Bounce bro. If your family has money/health problems and you need to help then stay. If they are just guilt tripping you then you have to stand up to them. My parents did the same to me and I was always scared to go toe to toe with them. It wasn't until I had enough and stood my ground that they backed down. It's not easy and will be uncomfortable but the alternative is not worth it. Get a job, rip the bandaid off and start living your life.
/r/askTRP28/10/17 05:04 AM
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It will be like this everywhere you go unless you find a company with 100% men. Not all women operate like this but a lot of them do. Nothing you can do about that. Find a way to deal with it or get another job.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 08:50 PM
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Yeah for sure. Actually I didn't read that too fucking long but props for using paragraphs
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 10:11 AM
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Young men are increasingly having trouble with paragraph indentation and in serious need of guidance
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 09:31 AM
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You're allowed to complain. But nobody likes to listen to a complainer, man or woman
/r/MGTOW15/10/17 06:01 AM
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The point is that you just rocked her world and she is scrambling to regain control by whatever means necessary. Guilt tripping you about cheating, crying, making you cuddle her without sex and giving you a hard no 3 times a day. Does that seem like she is cooperating with you? You are doing what she wants you to do. No disrespect brother, you handled it like a master up until she caught you. And it's hard to watch a woman cry and not soften up a bit. But still, you are losing control of the sit…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 08:47 PM
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Think you handled it well, but I can't help thinking that it's too soon to initiate. She's going to hard no you on the sex for a while in an attempt to regain control. Also with the crying. Don't let up on the dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 08:50 AM
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Can't put a price on the military experience
/r/askTRP10/10/17 07:32 AM
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Military
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:23 AM
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This. Be happy you had those college years. Some people don't get them. Debt doesn't sound too bad either. At least it's not 100k. Law school is a good choice. I am a fan of the military experience but I am biased. Got your whole life ahead of you bro
/r/askTRP08/10/17 05:40 AM
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Get some new friends or get busier so you enjoy their way of blowing off steam
/r/askTRP03/10/17 10:07 AM
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So.. the problem here is that you are going to get sucked in for being there for her. For sure sucks that her dad died. But a natural byproduct of being nice and gooey is developing feelings. On the flip side it's hard to distance yourself after something so terrible. This is similar to when a SO has a disfiguring accident but you're not particularly invested in the relationship. No easy answer.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:35 AM
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If this isn't on the sidebar it definitely should be. Possibly even the first thing people read. I've been here a while and even for me it was a great refreshing read. Regardless of whether or not op let's it sink in, thanks for posting
/r/askTRP02/10/17 07:28 AM
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Great story op. You are one smooth mofo!
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 02:45 AM
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Join the military
/r/askTRP30/09/17 04:15 AM
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Best way to get someone to stop doing something inappropriate is to call them out on it
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:06 AM
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I like this
/r/MensRights28/09/17 05:06 AM
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Yeah man I don't know about this. But like other people said you can't be sure from just this comment. Maybe some kind of test, or planting a seed for a potential future manipulation. Other than that though seems like she's a decent chick so just file it away in the back of your mind for now.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:51 AM
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Damn where were all these hot female teachers sexing up students when I was in school?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/17 10:55 PM
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Translation: this applies only if you have fucked her at least twice
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:01 PM
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Damn that is hardcore
/r/askMRP19/09/17 03:03 AM
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I'm kind of an impulsive person. I travel a lot, move locations frequently and change jobs often. Picking one place/person to settle down is a bit scary, not gonna lie. Plus I'm worried that my mom will do some crazy shit like move next door and drive me nuts. Especially if I have kids.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:44 PM
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Once a month or so. I don't masturbate either. Maybe once a month or so
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:34 PM
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I didn't say I'm not interested in it. I'm not a robot. Thought process is like this: Hot girls walks by My brain, "DAMN" Also my brain, "yeah, but do you really want to spend 2-3 hours talking to her for sex?" Pretty sure my t levels are good.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:32 PM
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I don't have to work "exceedingly hard" to pull girls. As it stands now "exceedingly hard" is getting their number, talking to them, getting a date, talking some more, bringing them back to my place for sex... that is not hard as in difficult, but it seems like too much effort for what is essentially a bit of sex. This is something I've done many times, I just don't have the motivation to do it right now and haven't for months.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:20 PM
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Choose not to. I subbed to MGTOW but that place is just pure unbridled rage. Not my cup of tea really.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:17 PM
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Trp is a sexual strategy. That's all. Not a cultural revolution. I believe in everything with trp but I think that many of its members use the truths as an excuse to act like unrefined assholes.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 09:04 AM
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A better way to state this would be that af/Bb is not an attribute but a state. It's temporary and can be gained and lost in an instant, like being hot or cold
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 07:55 AM
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It's possible to make the point about AWALT for example without making it an ugly statement. Sure you are free to use whatever words you like, but the message is lost on some people because the delivery is ridden with profanity and negative emotions. Why do you think rollo and the other greats only sparsely include it in their writing? And only then like a bit of seasoning.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 07:04 AM
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Actually you don't really need to hide your identity if you're not being a toxic asshole. Try making a post/comment without saying shit like, "omg this girl is a huge whore fuck all women dirty bitches" and you'll be alright. This sub gets in trouble because it's seen as an okay thing to vent and yell about how unfair the dating game is. Yeah I agree it is too but that doesn't mean you need to use profanity and slander people. Try delivering your message with a little tact and see how far you ge…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 04:41 AM
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Great post. Very interesting. But you forgot to post a link to your blog and YouTube channel! /s No seriously, very good post. 10/10
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 10:20 PM
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Agree with this. Also I don't think you necessarily need to break it off or change anything if things are going well. "You don't change your horse if it's winning."
/r/askTRP12/09/17 11:40 PM
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Came here to say this. Was thinking it immediately after reading that he felt bad about his dog being alone.
/r/MGTOW11/09/17 11:18 AM
1

Don't worry man it's not the first time it's happened to her. Not to sound callous but if she's fat and much heavier than her pics give her credit for then she probably knows she'll never see you again.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 09:11 PM
29

Ghost brother. Won't be the first time it's happened to her Edit: normally what happens is this: when you don't send her a message after a few days she'll send you something to take your temperature. If you don't respond then she'll get the hint. No need to have a formal conversation with her about it, that would just hurt her feelings. Better to just disappear and let her move onto the next one
/r/askTRP10/09/17 03:45 AM
1

My opinion is that you are headed for trouble. For one thing you are bound to get found out eventually when one of these girls asks you to hook her friend up with something. Second, you need to consider that they will set you up to get jumped as well. Tie you up and torture you until you tell them where the stash/money is, etc. Rival dealers warning you not to step on their turf.. Sure you aren't doing any of that but if people think you are then that's all that matters. Not trying to pop your b…
/r/askTRP10/09/17 02:42 AM
1

I feel bad for this guy. Also tell him I need to borrow some money.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 11:27 PM
9

Don't try to rationalize your feelings. Accept the fact that you are putting her on a pedestal and that it will cloud your judgement. She does coke and parties? Come on man.. Call it what it is. You caught the feels. It's ok it happens to the best of us. Anyway, you're headed for trouble. Don't look for support here. Do what you want of course but it doesn't take a genius to see where this is going.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 08:21 AM
54

Do it. If anything you'll realize that sex isn't as big of a deal that you're making it out to be. Obviously it's better to go the organic route. That said I know plenty of guys who lost their virginity to a hooker and turned out ok. My first time was when I was 17 with my half-sisters best friend at my half sisters wedding. Can't say that it helped shape my psyche in any particular way.
/r/seduction29/08/17 06:17 AM
261

You're absolutely right. Check out my YouTube channel where I expose the top five myths of red pill theory
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 11:39 AM
1

Join a boxing gym
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:51 PM
5

I think what you really want is a woman who will be loyal and you think the odds are best with a virgin. This probably is coming from a form of laziness because you are sick of chasing tail and want to find a girl you can trust not to mess around behind your back while you work on your professional goals. You're looking for a kind of shortcut. That is, you think that because she's a virgin she will be pure and innocent and be a perfect little wife from day one. Not so. You always have to game yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 11:15 AM
2

Call it a men's club and don't explicitly mention trp. The first rule of trp is...
/r/askTRP26/08/17 10:00 AM
2

She'll be back bro don't worry. Great story by the way. You're kind of my hero
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 10:32 AM
2

The manipulated man was the last nail in the coffin for me. Read it six months ago and still haven't recovered. Looking forward to reading the next two books!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 12:20 AM
2

Normally it's not "any guy." It's a guy that you can tell gives tingles to your girl, even when you're standing right there. Could be anyone. Looks, money etc don't matter per se. I think you're confusing the archetypal Chad (big muscles, confident etc) with any random guy who made a good enough impression on some girl that she's mentally open to banging him.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 06:45 AM
1

Just do it. Selling gets easier, but that anxiety never goes away completely. But you need to learn to deal with it. I was very shy as well. Always good looking and fit but terrible anxiety. Still have it. But I love people. The thing about sales is that you are essentially getting paid to talk to people. And the amount of money you make is correlated to how much they like you and how you make them feel. Make them feel good by being an upbeat, likable person who is good looking and resilient. So…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 06:56 AM
2

Muscles, money and confidence. Not necessarily in that order.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 04:00 AM
1

Get a sales job. They'll hire anyone
/r/askTRP22/08/17 01:44 AM
7

Going to disagree with the people here and say don't accept the reschedule. First of all, if she really wanted to see you she wouldn't go to the party and would keep her plans with you. That's the bottom line. Second, if you accept her counteroffer it shows that 1) your social life isn't busy at all, which makes you look like a loser and 2) you are totally fine with her flaking on you and 3) you want to see her so badly that you will accept her counteroffer on the spot. Without knowing too much …
/r/askTRP22/08/17 01:42 AM
1

If she's with friends say things like, "Don't be such a hater." "Put down the haterade" To her friends, "your friend hates everything, doesn't she?" This is actually more about when she's using a bitch shield and not playing hard to get. Which is what I assumed you meant
/r/seduction20/08/17 10:47 PM
1

No way of salvaging this. Cut your losses and move on
/r/askTRP20/08/17 10:37 PM
2

The novelty wears off after a while. Once you realize you can actually get laid somewhat regularly it loses its appeal and isn't worth all of the effort of talking to them, taking them out, etc just for a bang.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 07:29 AM
6

Yes it does get boring. I wouldn't say it's a number per se, I would say it has to do with the quality of the girl and how much you have in common. Why? Because it takes a lot of work to have sex with a girl, even if it's on the first date. All the talking, banter, flirting.. taking them for a drink, bringing them back to your place. Sounds fun but if it's just for another notch on the belt it gets old. Especially since the first time you have sex with a new girl isn't that great. Of course ther…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 07:28 AM
7

Gonna call bullshit then. Assuming this isn't a shitpost, my advice would be to build an impressive body. Take up acting or sales or some other activity that will boost your confidence. Confidence and muscles will solve a lot of problems.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:49 AM
3

Make some shit up about how someone slipped you some drugs or something. Say that you don't remember anything. Had a lawyer friend who used to say, "admit nothing, deny everything and demand proof." Also, if you have no experience with drugs then don't fuck with them. Google is your friend.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:43 AM
13

Post a pic.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 02:31 AM
22

This right here. You never know what kind of drama someone else has going on in your life that will prevent you from being open to meeting new people. Happens to all of us. Chalk it up to bad luck and move on
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 10:25 PM
1

I like this post. Very interesting
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 10:50 PM
1

I am not married and don't know if I'd be able to go through with something like this if I was. But I'll be damned if that's not a fantastic guide! 10/10
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 03:01 AM
1

I say this with love: stop being a little bitch
/r/askTRP15/08/17 09:06 AM
1

Just remember: "it's not stupid if it works"
/r/askTRP12/08/17 11:05 PM
8

Don't waste your time. Find a girl with fewer mental problems. A girl who starts crying on the first date.. imagine what she'll do once she actually gets comfortable around you.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 11:04 PM
1

Do it. Everyone hooks up at restaurants.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 10:57 PM
1

I posted below without reading your comments. Here's a bit more info: You have a few ways you could play this: Stick it out for another few years under their rule. This is not advised. It's likely your parents know you are dependent on them and the only reason she is treating you like this is because she knows you will put up with it. Sure you can finish college, but then again who cares? Your degree is meaningless in sales anyway. Join the military. Seems extreme but fuck them. You won't exactl…
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:40 AM
3

You are very lucky to have a mother like that because she will inadvertently train you to be clever as fuck. I grew up in a similar situation and feel like life is on easy mode. You will also be smooth as silk during a crisis where other people will fall apart. No it's not normal, but one day when you're out of the house you'll appreciate all the crazy shit she did because it made you who you will become. For now though I'd focus on getting some independence. Get a job, move out, etc. The milita…
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:32 AM
2

Will try this and report back. When you say all the time, do you mean all the time?
/r/askTRP09/08/17 09:18 AM
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Find some sort of couples bodybuilding or something similar you can do together. Crossfit maybe?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/17 09:32 AM
2

Women don't really know what to do when a guy goes soft in the middle of sex. They take it as sort of an insult/blow to their ego because they are under the impression that guys are always horny and ready to fuck. They think if you go soft then there is something wrong with them, not you.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 07:28 AM
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Yep gonna agree with this. Happens quite a bit on first dates where the girl has some stupid rule in her head about not having sex. She will let herself do other things but not sex. Subconsciously you think that if you get her horny enough she will just say fuck it and let you fuck her. She knows this. That's why she had the body shaping safeguard in place. Sometimes it's just a tight pair of jeans that don't come off without a little cooperation. It's tempting to rise to the challenge because h…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 07:18 AM
5

This right here. Tell her to put down the haterade
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 10:50 PM
1

Nothing you can do about it really. If you like her and things are good then fuck it. If she acts differently when she comes back then you know what to do.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 08:59 AM
1

That's a fantastic and well written post. Ty for sharing
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 11:31 PM
2

Wonderful quality post. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 09:04 PM
1

This is all true, but I think the real reason comes from laziness / desire to focus on your professional life instead of chasing tail. A man gets married because he thinks to himself, "this one is probably better than anything else I could ever get" and thinks that when he gives her the ring he doesn't have to put as much effort into getting laid or being intimate with a woman. I've never been married but I noticed that in my professional life I am more stable if I am in a relationship. If it's …
/r/askTRP26/07/17 10:10 PM
9

Audio boooooooooook
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/17 10:02 PM
1

Normally if you go out with a girl and she's treating you like this girl did it means one of two things: 1) she wants a beta provider and is trying to push you in that direction. I.e. Trying to train you 2) you already displayed some beta characteristics towards her and she's recognized you as not being a caveman Chad and is treating you like a beta While yes sometimes you do get girls who are so burned that they will act like #1, most of the time they'll still fuck an alpha if he flips their sw…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 09:17 PM
1

The military sucks bro. Just try and get as much out of it in the time you have left and when you are done don't look back. Learn a skill, a language, take a course or whatever. Be productive and ask yourself: "what's good about this situation?" Good luck
/r/askTRP24/07/17 05:07 AM
3

Willing to bet you messed this up before the date even began. My exp with single moms (the hot ones) is that they're super cool and down to earth people but generally not looking to just bang even if you're a stud. That's probably what made them a single mom in the first place and she's not likely trying to do that again. Most of the time they're looking for a provider type unless they're on the rebound or are one of those wild child single moms which are generally younger. My two c
/r/askTRP24/07/17 04:49 AM
2

Do it. Most of the girls you get from tinder will be below your attractiveness level.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:08 AM
1

If you can go and have a good time despite the fact that they are there then go. Mack some girls and show them that you can have fun without them. If you fear a meltdown if they hook up with someone in front of you then don't go.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:07 AM
6

Excellent post. If you wrote a book I would pay money for it instead of downloading it illegally
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/17 04:44 AM
11

Best post I've read on here in a while. Hope to see more. Definitely interested to hear from the perspective of a divorce lawyer. Would love to read more about that. 5/5
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 11:08 PM
4

Post as much as you want as long as you have something to say that adds to the community. Some people will like your content but there will always be haters that try to take a shit on you for saying anything other than "awalt" and "lift" I think your posts add a bit of perspective from an older guy who does trp. Haven't watched your videos but it seems like you know your shit. Decent writer as well. Honestly I think that may intimidate some people here. Might consider talking about a time where …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 05:05 AM
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9/10 posts on here: Start with an anecdotal story about a time some girl broke your heart End with tldr: AWALT and lift Enjoy circle jerk Bonus points if you manage to use 2000 words Nice to see more well written content
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 05:01 AM
5

Great post. So nice to read insightful things in this forum other than the often repeated: "1) AWALT, 2) Lift" garbage that passes for content here. What do you think of women born and raised in other western countries like U.K., australia, and parts of Europe?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 10:54 PM
11

Something that helped me once was heading, "who said you are entitled to comfort?"
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 09:57 PM
1

This is good, but I think you should replace "faggot" with "little bitch"
/r/askTRP23/05/17 09:37 AM
2

Great list but I feel like you just browsed the nytimes best seller list and picked fifteen books from the business and self improvement categories. How about some more obscure titles?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:40 AM
2

Hmm these sounds two extreme options for such a mild comment from the girl. She's obviously just fishing for compliments and trying to be playful. Don't think OP should read too much into this that she's some sort of whack job. That said I would use the "because I like you" reply that everyone here is recommending either. Keep some mystery. Don't give the cat the string remember? Joke her off with some bullshit like, "well I feel bad that you aren't as popular as me so when people see us in publ…
/r/askTRP20/05/17 10:21 PM
1

Sounds like fishing for compliments to me. Not all is as it seems
/r/askTRP14/05/17 07:08 AM
1

Agree with this. Sounds crazy on here I'm sure, but the best way to get what you want is actually to be nice to people. At least if you are a customer trying to get something from an employee. If you're a dick or trying to be macho, people will only help you out of coercion. If you smile, are friendly and make small talk then people will go out of their way to give you what you're asking for. Fwiw.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 08:00 AM
4

You can have any type of guy fit that category. Google engineer or finance guy, lawyer whatever. It helps if you're ridiculously good looking or have solid game. Can't be gossiped about if you don't have a social circle, so keep that in mind. There is no magic bullet or career or hobby that will get you girls or popularity. You have to go after that proactively when you get into your 30s. You don't have the built in social circle of college or the few years after. Everyone shifts their focus to …
/r/askTRP29/04/17 10:13 PM
2

Threads like these make me never want to get married. Good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/17 09:42 PM
1

All good. Read the side bar a while back, time for a refresher looks like
/r/askTRP25/04/17 09:01 PM
1

Random question. Is she Asian?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/17 10:18 PM
1

Okay.. I would have thought that by acknowledging that you noticed it would imply that you are jealous. And if she knows you're jealous then that is bad? Regarding the shit testing, wasn't she under the impression that he would meet her at the second club after? She knew he would be there eventually and see her talking to some random guy. Could she possibly have played up the indicators i.e. Hair flips, etc knowing that he was probably watching somewhere? Am I just reading too much into this?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/17 09:17 PM
5

Wouldn't teasing her about her attraction to this guy just make things worse? Also isn't it possible she was shit testing him?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/17 09:56 AM
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I agree. If she really wanted to see this guy behind your back she wouldn't have told you about it. That said, I'm sure she knew what she was doing but then decided against it later on. I doubt she "realized she made a mistake." Could be that she realized the chances of her getting caught were high or that she just didn't want to risk It. Also could be a form of a shit test to see how you would react. I.e. Get jealous and throw a fit or something. I mean at the end of the day you can only trust …
/r/askTRP21/04/17 11:10 PM
2

Had a similar situation. Often wondered, "what am I doing here?" Found it extremely difficult to leave but felt 1000x better when I finally did.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 09:42 PM
1

Don't do it
/r/seduction19/04/17 07:21 AM
2

Red flag. Get rid of her
/r/askTRP18/04/17 09:29 PM
1

IMO this applies to all women not just black women. I ask the same question all the time to girls and they never give a good answer. I don't do it quite as directly as OP, more like what are they in addition to just a pretty face. The fact is that most women don't have much to "offer" and pointing this out by asking them directly is kind of a dick move. It was nice at first, you get a little ego boost but then after the tenth time you realize that very few of them have anything to offer. I think…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:09 AM
1

Yeah read the sidebar and google this thing called paragraphs
/r/askTRP09/04/17 09:00 PM
1

Don't make excuses by saying "it's not true they were all lying." You can have the life you want. Go out and get it
/r/askTRP08/04/17 10:38 PM
2

Good work. Good post
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/17 08:56 PM
2

You've got yourself a good little slave there
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 08:46 PM
2

Have fun and use a condom
/r/askTRP31/03/17 08:44 PM
1

This isn't dread. It's you showing your insecurity. Not that it's undeserved. But let's call it what it is. Some quote I read on here comes to mind. Goes something like: "Any guy could have her. She's just mine for now." If you hinted that you'll next her if she goes then keep your word. Otherwise any time something happens like this you're in for the same situation.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 08:41 PM
0

You might be coming on too strong
/r/askTRP31/03/17 08:29 PM
1

You don't need to necessarily ghost her. I understand the logic of ghosting, but ideally you would be able to talk to her without slipping into your old ways. The question is, are you ready/able to do something like that? If you feel like testing yourself, go ahead. You will definitely learn something. If not, ghost away
/r/askTRP31/03/17 08:28 PM
1

Not saying I disagree, but what's your opinion on what to do if you want children?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:32 PM
2

Famous old school PUA advice: give yourself permission to be creepy. Not be an actual creep, but to do things that could be seen as creepy if you don't pull them off
/r/seduction19/03/17 03:05 PM
0

Excellent post. "Fuck sandwich" is the best factoid in there. Keep up the good work
/r/seduction19/03/17 03:03 PM
5

That's an excellent link
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/17 04:29 AM
6

By far one of the best posts I've ever read on here. Well written and do the point. Valuable information and lots of it. 10/10. Ignore the haters who are focusing on your bf and height. This is a hundred times better than most posts on here which essentially amount to: "I encountered a girl who acted like a slur, therefore AWALT". I wish every post on here was as well written and bullshit free as this one. Hope you post more or start a blog.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 02:04 PM
2

I would like some perspective on this as well from someone who is married
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:27 PM
1

The only way to conquer your fears is to face them. Ghosting is the easy solution, but ultimately will not solve your problem. Go see her again. If you find yourself seeking her validation, then you know you haven't improved yourself enough. It's that simple. There is nothing you can "do" in her presence that will allow you to overcome this. The only way to stop seeking her validation is to have such a higher self-perception than the previous you who sought her validation, that no longer give a …
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:13 PM
1

Next!
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:12 PM
9

Seriously though how often do people actually get in fights these days? I would say the benefits to learning how to fight are more about all around confidence building than actually having to fight another human being
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:44 PM
0

Afaik you can have a female friend who is not a stripper with a deranged pimp
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:22 AM
0

Great sorry. You're an excellent writer
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 03:49 PM
1

Damn bro, out of all of these responses I don't think there's 1 that's not a hater. Much props. Thanks for the info.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 01:03 AM
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Can we have a TLDR? 18 minutes is too long
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/17 05:19 AM
10

Say what you want about hardcore Muslims, they know how to keep their women in line. Not condoning it by any means, but strictly from a societal standpoint I find it interesting, to say the least. That said, I lived in the Middle East for several years and always admired how much more manly the men over there were than your average American man. Even the secular ones. EDIT: Also, ignore everyone jumping down your throat for trying to say something good about Islam. So much for keeping an open mi…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 11:20 PM
2

You're sad because you feel you have no options other than her. Scarcity thinking. If you had a bunch of hot girls who wanted to fuck you then you wouldn't give a shit about her. Your problem is you got too reliant on one girl to fulfill your emotional needs. She took that away from you, and now you don't know what to do with yourself. There is no easy solution for the pain you're feeling. It's like hits you in the spine with a hammer and you're like, FUCK, I CAN'T WALK. WHAT DO I DO? Guess what…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 11:16 PM
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Pool is great. Lots of "stick" and "ball" and "hole" innuendo possible there. Not to mention being able to help her line up her shots, aka teaching her how to "hold the stick." Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:24 PM
0

I think mgtow is a phase some people choose to go through as they adjust to the new reality. speaking from personal experience here, there were times after I swallowed the pill where I just lost interest in pursuing women. Didn't seem worth it when you see the machinery underneath. But then eventually your need for human contact comes around and you strike a balance
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 04:30 PM
10

Great post. I signed up. Your site is unreadable on mobile, FYI.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 02:52 PM
1

Great breakdown of everything.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:36 PM
2

Honestly dude there is no magic potion. Just go for it. You'll find that the older you get and the more times you go for it, the easier it gets. When you guys are sitting/standing close just lean in and do it. Trust me they're more afraid of you than you are of them
/r/seduction26/10/16 11:35 PM
1

Yes. One thing I've learned is that some girls are down to chat endlessly and never commit anything more than just blathering on about god knows what. Take that away from her and see if she's really interested or if she just wants another chat buddy. And another thing.. don't feel like you always need to keep the conversation going. When you try too hard to keep it going it makes you look desperate and uncomfortable with silence. Makes you look weak. She might be testing you to see how much effo…
/r/seduction25/10/16 02:33 AM
1

Play the frosty game a little bit and back off. Don't call her for 2 weeks. If she pokes her head in, reel her in and she should be ready to go
/r/seduction24/10/16 08:20 PM
2

If a girl agrees to come back to your place to see your dog or whatever, she already knows there's a 99% chance you're going to fuck. Girls won't put themselves in a situation to be alone with a guy in his house because they know they're probably horny and will end up having sex with them. Just play it cool during the cab and act like you've been acting the entire night. Don't get too handsy too quick. Play it cool and keep talking. She'll admire your self control and begin to wonder, "Does he a…
/r/seduction23/10/16 05:37 PM
4

Wenches ain't poop lol this bot
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 01:27 PM
1

Stealing this. Thanks
/r/seduction26/09/16 06:16 PM
2

Jesus man where's your dignity? Next her and move on
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 07:09 PM
0

Def wasn't a good thing what she did, but I think it takes guts to come out and admit it. I kind of feel bad for her after reading that
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 05:20 PM
2

actually what I should have said is that I find myself around lots of married women and ones with bfs. It's not like they wander into my house and ask for sex. That said I feel like they're waiting for me to make it happen. Make plans, get their number, etc. but the fact that they're with some guy, blue pill or not, kind of turns me off. Does that make sense? How do you guys get around that?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:02 AM
1

Where do you work? And can I send you my resume?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 03:18 PM
-1

This post gave me a craving for a burger
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 01:18 AM
1

Was this written by an article spinner? Pretty good
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 01:15 AM
2

This is always a test. "Fuck no I'm not gonna hold your bag"
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:01 PM
1

He didn't say his wife was French. He said his wife was skinny as a French girl or something. She could be but he doesn't explicitly state it. Also, French women are scandalous.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 06:10 PM
1

Sticky or sidebar this please! Excellent post and not a single appearance of profanity in the whole thing. 10/10 would read again.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 06:05 PM
1

For some reason this post made me miss my ex girlfriend for like 5 seconds. Well played
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 05:48 PM
1

Or as prodigy from mobb deep said so many years ago: "Real niggas don't scream it" Rap is full of good stuff
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 10:50 PM
3

This part stuck out to me as well, but for different reasons. She broke up with you because you put her on a pedestal and took away the challenge. Gaining ten pounds doesn't help either. I say this with love: don't be so easy on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 10:47 PM
0

This should be top comment
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 10:33 PM
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Hey brother.. First of all props for posting this. I think what happened is that you were basically the cocky new guy in a place you'd never been before. Sounds like you tried to skip ahead in the social hierarchy of the place without paying your dues. Doesn't sound like that place is a big city, whereas when you go out in your hometown you're more known and can get away with being cocky. Or maybe that place just sucks to go out, or could just be a string of bad luck from bitchy girls.
/r/seduction25/06/16 03:49 PM
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Someone give this man some gold!
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:58 AM
1

Very interesting concept. Never thought of "giving value" in those terms. Will definitely give it a shot!
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:19 AM
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Alright.. so I think I just need to coin a new term here other than "friendzone" because that has too many bad connotations. People think "friendzone" means you're basically a beta orbiter who is hoping that being nice and picking up her dry cleaning is going to get you laid. That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that for potential plates, girls that you want to fuck because they have an acceptable placement on the crazy/hot matrix, you intentionally delay the vaginal penetration and verbally a…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 02:04 AM
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"Peer" is closer to what I'm getting at.. but is a little to asexual. Holding yourself back from fucking a fugly girl is not what I'm talking about. If she was hot, or at least fuckable, and you still didn't fuck her and chose instead to be her friend (at least for the time being), then that's different.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 01:49 AM
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Well, to be fair, Briffault was studying animals who don't really have any control over their animal urges. We are human beings and can control ours. In addition to that, we live in a complex world where we have more to worry about than food, shelter, and the biggest alpha male of the group trying to kill us. If any of them think they are lower SMV than me, that's their problem. I think that concept is fluid, not static. But anyway, like I said before there are benefits to having a female "ally"…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 01:47 AM
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So.. I am a full on believer in RP theory and it has helped me a lot. I think it's possible to have female friends and still be red pill. I flirt with all my female friends and set the proper boundaries. You don't need to only be fucking women or ignoring them in order to keep your masculinity. There are more options than that. I am not in love with these girls, don't want a relationship with them and really can't say that I have a burning desire to have sex with them, beyond some temporary urge…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 01:44 AM
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I hear what you're saying.. but here's the thing. I don't actually want to have sex that often. I don't like the "hangover" of orgasm, something I realized after weening myself off porn a long time ago. I think what's causing the confusion here is that we're using the word "friend." A female is not going to be a friend in the true sense of the word, because men make better friends. I think it's similar to the whole male/female bluepill-esque dynamic, i.e. she won't love you like you love her. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 01:39 AM
1

This post is hilarious. Have an upvote
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 09:49 PM
1

I want to be like you when I grow up!
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 03:24 PM
1

Bro she did you a favor by being honest with you and giving you that exit route. In my experience the best antidote is to date more women for a shorter period of time so they feel "disposable" to you and you won't get attached to any single one and develop feelings.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 03:47 PM
1

I'm poor and have no ambition. Maybe that's why this has never happened to me
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 02:46 PM
2

Great post. So nice to see intelligent well thought out posts on the Internet. I devoured the entire sidebar when I found this sub. Would recommend
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 09:43 PM
2

Wow that's some crazy shit for sure. Just out of curiosity, did this take place in the USA or elsewhere?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 03:21 PM
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Wow, that's some fucked up shit. Hard to read that from your SO. Just out of curiosity, how did you "find" the letter? Were you snooping or did she slip up? Not judging, just honestly curious. Do you think it's possible she "accidentally" left it there because she wanted to get a reaction from you?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:43 AM
1

When in doubt, whip it out
/r/seduction04/06/16 02:30 AM
1

LOL I have some tattoos but all of them are covered with clothing (and not long sleeves). As for a motorcycle.. does that really work?
/r/seduction03/05/16 05:39 PM
1

I remember when I read the game and had a eureka moment. The first thing I thought was, "my dad needs to read this!" I hounded him until he bought it and started reading. He didn't have an epiphany. He couldn't understand why I asked him to read it. It was like i asked him to read something in Chinese. Some people just don't want to know
/r/seduction18/04/16 03:08 PM
1

Just go for it
/r/seduction18/04/16 03:04 PM
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This is a great question, but the question you should be asking is: Which part of the country is designed so that men are able to develop their game easily? Vegas for example will allow you to go out 7 nights a week and spit game to tourists who you'll never see again. If you live in a hotel on the strip and go to the clubs, pulling every night is a possibility. New York City also has a very social culture. Lots of walking, public transportation, and the fact that apartments are super small mean…
/r/seduction17/04/16 02:31 PM
2

Happens man. I moved to LA a year ago and didn't know anyone. Didn't even have a job for 6 months. Now I have some friends and am constantly meeting new ones. How did I do it? First of all, I joined a nice gym and went literally 7 days a week. Not always to train, but I made sure to show my face there every day and do something, even if it was just a little cardio and stretching. At first I talked to the trainers, since they're essentially "hired guns" so to speak and have to be nice to you, kin…
/r/seduction15/04/16 07:19 PM
1

Yeah, I do stuff I enjoy. It's not that. The problem is that I'll meet a girl, we'll hit it off and everything is great. Exchange numbers, make plans and we see each other. If I don't get laid on the first date, then I generally have absolutely no interest in seeing the girl ever again. I don't enjoy their company enough to want to see them more than once. Hmm.. Maybe this is the anger phase?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 06:42 PM
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I thought about that too, but i figured that after six months I would be out of the anger phase already no? Besides I don't feel angry, just more like.. Disillusioned? Is that the right word? Is it the same thing?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 02:43 PM
1

Shit maybe I have aspergers too. I fucking hate people and am awkward as fuck
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 02:05 PM
3

Yes. Here's a tip I learned from an old school guy named Gary Brodsky. If you have BitTorrent see if you can download some of his stuff from the Pirate Bay, I believe he still has some audio books up there. Very good, but very old school. Essentially, he says that a lot of the time we'll look at girls and go, "Oh she's too tall/short/whatever," and you'll tell yourself you're not really interested, when what you really are is scared of going for it. But you probably have something good going for…
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:02 AM
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How to take a backpacker home in 10 minutes: "Hey beautiful, I have hot water in my apartment." "Hey baby, want to eat something other than ramen?" "Hey girl, want to have sex in a room that doesn't have other people in it?" LOL j/k man well played, well played.
/r/seduction14/01/16 07:48 PM
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I liked this post, always good to learn from FRs. Will check out the Charisma Myth later.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 05:50 PM
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When a girl says something like, "We are not having sex tonight," I wouldn't even call that a shit test as much as I would call it her basically tell you you're getting laid tonight. Every time that's been said to me it's like a green light for getting laid. Just make sure that you don't bring that to her attention!
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 05:48 PM
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The link is bad, brother. FYI
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 12:06 AM
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Just read the entire article. Good stuff. I'll check out your blog, looks like you have some good info there. +5 pts for the American flag in the weightroom as well, is that yours?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:32 PM
1

That's true, but I have to say, UK men and American men are very different. UK men are much more manly, have a better time at pubs and are generally more fun to be around. Women want to go there because they want to fuck those guys!
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:54 PM
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I agree it's not fair, and that's mainly the reason I wanted to start the group. It was hard for me to find people in my peer group who have the same ideas as I do. So now we have to get creative ;) Maybe I should make it mandatory that to be a member of the group you have to be clean shaven? (half serious)
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:49 PM
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Yep.. speaking as someone who is from LA, I can confirm this. In my opinion, as long as someone has the desire to be upwardly mobile then that's good enough for me to have them come to the group. Toxic people can get lost, but if you're a nerd or neckbeard or whatever and actually want to change, then I don't mind if you come.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:48 PM
1

Group is open to anyone who wants to come at this point. I'm 32.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:46 PM
2

Interesting points. Well, to be fair, the reason I branded it as an "all purpose" group was because I assumed that's what TRP is all about. Yeah it has a lot to do with making sure you don't get taken advantage of by women. The way I see it, that's really step one. Steps 2 and above are making yourself better. Making money and being in shape are part of those as far as I'm concerned. I've been out of the game for a while, and didn't want to brand the group as pickup-centric for a few reasons. On…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:10 AM
2

Thanks for the ideas, PM incoming..
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:22 AM
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I find it hard to believe that people would actually come to an event like this in a public place and try to give us a hard time like that. Maybe in a small town or something, but LA? You could have someone get run over in the middle of the street, robbed, raped and then shit on and you probably wouldn't have anyone lift a finger to help. I'm exaggerating, but I really have a hard time believing someone would come to this event, ask me if I'm the reddit organizer, and then proceed to berate me i…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:21 AM
2

Yeah... Well it is called a "Men's Club," so unless we appear to really be having fun, women probably won't want to join anyway.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:19 AM
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Yeah I hear you. I chose this place because it's down the street from my house and I wasn't even sure if anyone would come anyway. But people are responding, so I'm hopeful people will actually show up. Future meetings can be at other places
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:18 AM
4

Um, thanks? Am I doing this the wrong way? Is the world not ready for a group like this yet?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:36 PM
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Hahaha Trump.. I love this guy. Crushed it.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 04:38 AM
1

That's a bit on the paranoid side, but I suppose I understand. Personally IDGAF who knows. Offer still stands to those brave enough!
/r/askTRP23/12/15 03:14 PM
1

I think the OP is just pissed that he lost a chick that he should have had because of something that blindsided him. Happens to all of us. Just get back on the horse, forget about those skanks and move on. "Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one."
/r/askTRP23/12/15 12:21 AM
1

Move to a different city
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:31 PM
1

Excellent video
/r/seduction09/09/15 09:30 PM
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