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Get a dog, a big dog and a ring camera
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:32 AM
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Yeah hopefully she’s treating all this as a rebound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:25 PM
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Especially wealthy men! They are so identified with their finances and find almost a child like joy when they use your resources even though they have plenty of their own. Its a huge ego/power trip for them, after that they still call all women gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:56 PM
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That’s crazy! I hope you are okay! Can I ask you what is the FDS podcast?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:10 PM
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I thought this video from a male porn star perspective on what porn does to the mental state of a person was very illuminating, especially for any women or men who still think porn is harmless. Spoiler alert: it’s not. The channel Fight the New Drug is dedicated to fighting porn and sexual child abuse (and often ties them together). I recommend it to anyone who is on the fence about porn to check it out but please be warned that some videos may be triggering. Also the official website: https://f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:50 AM
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Not surprising. Dr. Swan states in her book that 26 percent of men who present with some degree of ED are now under the age forty. ED is now an all age problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:53 PM
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He sounds like a great guy. They don’t make them like that anymore. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:47 PM
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We can’t define ourselves by men that suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:43 AM
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It was a forum for dating over certain age but they are all the same 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:38 AM
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Girl, I used to be that way. I used to try to fix people now I am just me and I help anyone who asks regardless of their gender but I don’t over extend myself either. Women are raised in this fucked up co-dependent mentality that says saving others at the full expense of self is a holy act. No thank you, no more. Now, will I be an asshole sometimes? Sure, if you catch me on the wrong day, but generally though - nah, the world is full of assholes already, we can do better. So I see it as a balanc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:31 AM
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Reddit can catfish itself for all I care. 😂 We can’t change minds of the offenders, let them die their lonely deaths. We stand together as women for women and men who value healthy relationships. They are the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:06 AM
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I guess I equate gaslighting with manipulation but you certainly have a point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:02 AM
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All we can do is try. If you save just one woman from years of brainwashing and abuse or repeated discards, wouldn’t it be worth it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:48 PM
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That sub needs to be reported they basically went full red pill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:46 PM
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It’s a movement a few thousand years long in the making. According to Nag Hammadi gospels, Jesus was married and his wife was an ascended master, her name was Mary and she wrote her own gospels. All this erased from the Bible because you know - uppity women need to know their place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:36 PM
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They are a minority, we are not. We need to be proactive and tap other women on the shoulder before they become victims and these maniacal scrotes and their toxic attitudes will become a non issue. We just need to be proactive. This is an issue for both genders too - no mentally healthy man would want his future wife to be abused or belittled by a scrote. Men must play their part and speak up against scrote behavior in their environments. They should stand up for women and not enable abuse by si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:34 PM
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We should create subs for dating and gaslight men into normal human behavior. We can make posts about how guys who are respectful, considerate and equitable in all respects are actually happy, make their partners happy and find meaning in healthy pursuits. That one can find joy in a relationship where they support their partner and listen to them and obviously should expect that in return and that giving a damn doesn’t mean playing a zero sum game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:07 PM
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Until you do a reality check and look at the people you know and you realize literally no one is into that and it’s all just gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:37 PM
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We’ll start a political party and make every country into New Zealand - we’ll beat all societal ills like COVID and assault weapons. We’ll also create more female super heroes. Period products will be available like TP - period poverty or any other poverty will be completely abolished. We’ll have UBI this way any woman can just walk out of an abusive relationship and survive. Shall I go on? But seriously, FDS has a website, we shall persevere. And we’ll just start again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:29 PM
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When I get tired my brain begins to spell phonetically it really freaks me out sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:24 PM
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It’s appalling what’s going on there. I think I replied to your comment. That sub is crazy toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:03 PM
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I told the OP to join us before they make her apologize to that scrote or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:57 PM
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I say if they fight you that means you are actually impactful enough to enact change and that’s what they fear. There are 435 representatives in the US Congress and none are so reviled as AOC, they come for you when you get strong enough to get your voice heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:54 PM
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We must have just missed each other. 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:29 PM
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It’s funny I just started reading Count Down by Dr. Swan who talks about a significant drop in fertility, sexual hormones dysfunction and pervasive ED due to pollution. She says in 25 or so years most people will likely require fertility treatments, but even then she still acknowledges that porn is also a big contributor to men’s growing inability to enjoy regular sex and increasing ED levels. Science! 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:26 PM
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When I joined FDS I thought some of the mentality here was a little extreme but then I started paying attention and it’s all really there - all the mass gaslighting, abuse, and PUAs. I don’t hate men and never will, I don’t think most of them are damaged, but there are some really deprived individuals who spread and normalize insanely toxic and unhealthy attitudes and they should be held accountable and as we can’t change them, all we can do is reach the women and warn them. And we will win beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:21 PM
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I don’t think we are allowed to do that, but go to my comments and you’ll see me commenting on the relevant sub. I also love metaphysics and spirituality so don’t judge me for those subs please! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:13 PM
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Well funnily I thought in my vaccinated brain haze that I spelled it right and so maybe it was a second language for you and I was like oh let me help you out with this word, I love how women just help others. I am just glad today is a Sunday and I don’t have to work. 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:11 PM
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Yes! And they banned me for 15 days after I recommended FDS to a woman dealing with a scrote. I just recommend it in DMs now. We won’t be stopped. 👑🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:50 PM
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Oh this is just a forum for discussion. I can’t name them because we don’t do that here. It can be interesting to read but a lot of it is women with horrible experiences and men telling them they need to communicate when what they really need is to GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:44 PM
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Oh I see, I’ll correct, I just got my Pfizer shot yesterday and I am not feeling very clear headed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:41 PM
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Her throat was squeezed so she couldn’t breath https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/choke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:39 PM
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This is why I have Noonlight app, you can press the button if you feel unsafe and if you let go of it and don’t enter a password a police unit is sent to your GPS location immediately, it’s perfect for a sketchy Uber or if you think you feel uncomfortable but not exactly sure you should call the police yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:42 AM
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Socio-economic dynamics certainly contribute to this change but in addition to them there’s a significant drop in fertility in men, driven by pollution, as well as decrease of testosterone and the resulting early onset of ED (26% of men with some form of ED are now under the age of 40 according to her book, she does cite porn as a contributing factor to ED, in addition to pollution and other factors). There are also higher than historically rates of miscarriages. This is largely due to pollution…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:16 PM
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A random guy told me once I was pretty and I just flatly said thanks and he broke into a rant how I should smile more when people compliment me. I told him I don’t value other people’s opinions about my appearance. I am not just a body for you to ogle at. He was so confused. Argh. Scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:39 AM
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Yes, not only because men benefit, a lot of women are programmed by the society into the Stockholm syndrome and internalized misogyny. The backlash is fine though, the louder the noise, more unsuspecting pickmes will see the light. So many women never realize there’s another way to think about relationships and their worth outside of being an unappreciated service provider for men in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:00 PM
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You go girl! You got it! I just came across this video of a queen leveling up and I hope it further cements your resolve: https://youtu.be/Otud1qZz3Hg great things are ahead! 👑✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:23 PM
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Honestly, if you look at the way the climate change science is pointing, brining a child into this dying world would be an incredibly cruel thing to do. The future is not bright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:25 PM
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One good thing from these posts is that hopefully each one saves many overly hopeful and naive women who otherwise would ignore red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:19 PM
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Here FDS goes again teaching lurkers that it’s important to be considerate and respectful of women in relationships, something their parents should have done but likely didn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:09 PM
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Could you get some stick on paper that lets you see outside but blocks the view from outside? You don’t need to live in a cave because of this pervert. KESPEN One Way Mirror Window Film Daytime Privacy, Non-Adhesive Anti UV Heat Control Reflective Window Tint for Home Office Static Cling Vinyl, Black-Silver, 35.4 Inch X 8.2 Feet https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QNQFY51/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_i_JJF57NM2DTZ0S71APRRR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:31 PM
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All women die alone because men die a few years before them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:17 AM
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It’s all projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:28 AM
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Men over 40 have a huge risk of fathering autistics kids. I can’t imagine the risk at 70. Poor Katherine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:34 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:26 AM
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There’s a great book on this called Straight Wives, Shattered Lives by Bonnie Kaye unfortunately it happens. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:32 PM
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Plus, they wrote out of the Bible Yeshua’s wife Mary who herself was an ascended master.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 03:42 PM
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I honestly support UBI simply for the fact that so many women will be able to leave their abusers. So many.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:02 PM
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My LVM actually said he didn’t want kids so I would love only him, cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:13 PM
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Beautiful response 🙌🏼 Dating s/r are just as toxic as the apps themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:01 PM
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So many neckbeards and obvious incels in those photos, well FBI is looking to ID them. There’s also now an account on IG dedicated to identifying them and then tagging their employers and a few already have been fired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:52 PM
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My narc read this and said hell yes. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:43 AM
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I was actually banned from a dating s/r for simply recommending someone check out FDS. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:56 PM
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It was a fight too! He was convinced his mother would not like flowers. We bought her flowers and fruit and she was very grateful. She had effen cancer too. Makes me angry to even type this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:24 AM
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Yeah he had melt downs when I gave homeless people money or would give my gently used designer bags I wasn’t carrying anymore (that I bought) to friends who couldn’t afford expensive things. It was astounding. I eventually just stopped telling him about my business. I had to convince him once to stop by a store to buy flowers when his mother was in the hospital. He is a pure typical narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:05 AM
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Men manipulate and they do use women for money, very wealthy men do this as well. Don’t assume because he is a self made man he won’t ask you to go 50/50 for expenses when he makes five times more, or that he won’t fight child support. My ex used to tell me it was his dream to marry a wealthy woman he would even hang out in expensive bars trying to pick one up, he himself had millions. But he wanted her to have fuck your money, no other attributes even mattered. Naturally he thought all regular …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 03:20 PM
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It sounds like 100% of your energy goes into selling yourself to a man, instead try to balance that with opportunities for him to show you he is truly interested, respectful and caring. Be willing to walk away full stop when you begin to see his conversation, compliments and behaviors are primarily about your looks, body and sex. Before you even consider him make sure he respects you, flattery is not respect. Does he appreciate your mind? Does he respect your boundaries? If you don’t know if he …
/r/askFDS01/12/20 02:51 AM
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People think marriage is a magical pill that solves everything, people stay who they are and they don’t suddenly make you happier, just because ya’ll had an expensive party and signed some legal papers. Another one is couples thinking having a kid will improve their relationship - kids create so much stress adding them to a strained marriage is the worst thing you can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:16 PM
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I also like: ewww what’s wrong with it? Have you seen a doctor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:05 AM
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Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:01 AM
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Yes, and let’s keep up the story of dicks getting thinner from having sex with multiple partners! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:53 PM
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It was a hard lesson in self love, in setting and enforcing boundaries and gaining better understanding of self including any co-dependency. That’s how I see it.
/r/askFDS23/11/20 09:20 PM
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There’s actually one in Los Angeles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:55 PM
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Google phone number with fake identity Google email with the same fake identity Facebook account with the same identity Research HIM. Don’t admit anything until date number five.
/r/askFDS22/11/20 02:30 AM
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Eating sushi with a live worm on it. Saw a video of one last week and now can’t eat fish. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:43 PM
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🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:44 AM
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Read or listen on Audible to Should I Stay or Should I Go, Surviving Narcissistic Relationships by Dirvasula Ramani - great for healing yourself after abusive relationships and teaches how to recognize narcissists in the future. Also look up trauma bonding. 💖
/r/askFDS17/11/20 04:42 AM
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Distinguish clearly between the baseless hope for what you want this man to be and what he actually is.
/r/askFDS17/11/20 04:26 AM
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Hot and cold means two things to me: trauma bonding and commitment issues. Don’t waste your time.
/r/askFDS15/11/20 08:28 AM
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🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:18 AM
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This is sooo crazy!!! I ended my 6 year relationship with my boyfriend today, and then I got added to this sub and this is the first post I see!!! Dear, only good things are ahead, I feel it!!! We are going to do better than it ever was! 🤗💖🙌🏼✨👍🙏🏼🥰 For when things get tough I recommend reading the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, that book really helps to stop ruminating on what if’s and fears and stay present. I recommend it! 💖
/r/askFDS14/11/20 11:44 PM
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Does that work like that for dicks too? Like do they get smaller if someone has a tight pussy? Oh, they don’t? How odd! 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:22 PM
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Hopefully “identified” as in the past! “We are just roommates” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:45 AM
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I would love to date a woman, unfortunately really not attracted to my own gender. We are soooo much nicer! 😂 To the bi-ladies who are still blocked, I see your messages for like a second - absolutely there are no absolutes. But in general women are more compassionate and sensitive. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:10 PM
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Wow something to look forward to! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:57 PM
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Yes, I now have a PhD in narc behavior thanks to one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:36 PM
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Narcs gonna narc PS ladies when you gonna let me comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:19 AM
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Yup somehow the parent who stayed is the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:52 PM
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Well yes, why would men want to lose a therapist, a house cleaner, a cook and a sex partner all in one? And all the women are losing is emotional neglect if not outright abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:20 PM
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Forgiveness doesn’t mean staying in a bad situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:51 AM
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