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This is SO cool thank you for the insights, amazing
/r/seduction17/03/25 04:50 PM
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Bro just fucking ask her out. Give her a time and place and just get this to a yes/no already. i.e stop wasting your time and pull the trigger to find out if she wants anything to happen between you two
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:19 PM
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I only do day game and it's pretty normal just like in other places in the US. Good because there are lots of university students especially if you're in that demographic as well.
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:15 PM
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I only do daygame and it's roughly like this - for me around 50 to 75 approaches for one lay
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:13 PM
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I haven't done an AB test to see which is better but I always just do a specific day
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:12 PM
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thank you deleted! I should think about what else I should dedicate my effort towards where I should keep going at it even in the face of adversity/rejection etc
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:04 PM
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Thats what I did, but other than that I'd go out for a few hours with a friend on the weekends. It's taken years of practice to get better at it though (in my case, most of the time was spent/wasted trying to get over AA)
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:55 PM
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Approach to and from work if you're not a virgin car commuter xD
/r/seduction14/07/24 05:22 PM
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Darn building it into my lifestyle is a good point, particularly if its being social with new people instead of just a familiar group. Have you thought of ideas for this?
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:58 AM
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im not attractive
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:46 AM
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That's a good point regarding community as an emotional need
/r/seduction14/07/24 03:46 AM
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Thank you for sharing your insights - I think having another objective such as brightening people's days or bouncing stuff off of them is a great way to go about it. I also think that asking people some questions related to my line of work is quite a cool idea!
/r/seduction13/07/24 04:36 PM
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Thank you, that's a very good point that I hadn't realized. I should focus on some longer term things!
/r/seduction13/07/24 02:58 PM
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Keep at it my man, all normal
/r/seduction13/07/24 02:38 PM
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I was in your situation and I kinda regret not sticking with the girl. On the other hand, I've gotten with a lot more girls since! (But none of them have become serious relationships)
/r/seduction22/01/19 05:46 AM
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"The moment I say hi, I already won" is really what I needed to hear
/r/seduction13/10/18 03:24 AM
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Keep doing what you're doing!
/r/seduction30/06/18 05:12 PM
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I feel like things go better when I stop the girl. Maybe stop initially but walk with her if you sense that she's in a hurry trying to get somewhere? This video (day game, Natural Lifestyles) devotes a section at around 11:00 to stopping the girl, so perhaps there is value in stopping as opposed to just walking with the girl.
/r/seduction30/06/18 05:07 PM
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Great advice! Also take me with you haha!
/r/seduction23/06/18 04:03 AM
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Nice stuff dude, I see greatness in your future! I'm just starting to get over AA I think.probably still stuck in it. Really scared of groups but you give me inspiration!
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:02 PM
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Running or jogging towards the girl (and maybe switching to walking right before you get to her) somehow short circuits my AA, like it doesn't give me enough time to think and psyche myself out
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:22 PM
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I think you should just move on (I.e not say happy birthday), maybe she'll want your attention again later on
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:19 PM
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LOL
/r/MensRights27/01/15 08:14 AM
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UCSD 8-)
/r/seduction25/01/15 10:02 AM
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explains her slight tan ;)
/r/seduction10/08/14 03:23 PM
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Thank you for such a comprehensive reply!! I feel that the ideas in your post are great - definitely going to try and remember doing them!
/r/seduction27/09/13 04:24 AM
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Cool story!
/r/seduction10/09/13 10:31 AM
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Thanks, I think you're right about the concern over being able to handle what might come up.
/r/seduction10/07/13 05:31 PM
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Do you have dialogue in the dark in your city? It's an exhibition in complete darkness that allows you to experience what it is like to be blind. I haven't gone to one yet, but it's my #1 date idea atm! Being in the dark may give some good kino opportunities :p http://www.dialogue-in-the-dark.com/
/r/seduction10/07/13 04:45 AM
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Wow excellent idea! I'm glad I posted here :D I've always thought "omg I'm not with someone, now I have to do it alone"
/r/seduction10/07/13 04:41 AM
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:o Replied to by puaCurveBall! /starstruck Thanks very much for this, I had not thought about decisions at all regarding approach and it feels like a big part of the approach that I haven't considered. Maybe because I've just been focusing on how nervous I get lol. Definitely something I'm going to think about the next time I go sarging!
/r/seduction10/07/13 04:40 AM
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Awesome
/r/seduction04/07/13 02:39 AM
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Apart from improving other areas of my life, which I'm actively working on, are there any other ways of building up confidence? :D
/r/seduction04/07/13 02:39 AM
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Thanks for the advice :) By warm up do you mean just approach another set with the intention of warming up?
/r/seduction04/07/13 02:38 AM
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I will definitely accept it for now and just try and plow through it in the future, but I feel like there must be some way to make it better!
/r/seduction04/07/13 02:37 AM
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Got my second number ever!
/r/seduction16/06/13 05:24 PM
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yay!
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:22 AM
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Thanks, I guess I'll go with that if that situation ever comes up :)
/r/seduction26/12/12 12:50 AM
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What would you say if she asks "why" to your withdrawal?
/r/seduction25/12/12 04:34 PM
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I only went for a couple of months tbh. I didn't feel like a very changed person though :( The psychologist did help by giving me the concept of scheduling my life in an (relatively) more organized fashion, with a calendar and start/end times for different activities and stuff.
/r/seduction27/08/12 02:14 PM
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Yeah went to a psychologist, not for social anxiety, but got CBT :3
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:02 PM
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Thanks for saying this, I feel that I've been too affected by how it's not considered PC to speak negatively about fat
/r/seduction27/07/12 03:29 AM
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No offense but fat really turns me off
/r/seduction26/07/12 04:55 PM
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I actually just picture the person as the dump itself.
/r/seduction26/07/12 04:52 PM
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Just handshake and then kiss? :O
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:49 PM
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