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Maybe you just caught the ghey?
/r/askTRP04/04/20 11:36 AM
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Yeah spent 10 years in Philippines and back to Europe this year, I feel you. I dont bother with local hoes anymore, I use my freetime to focus on my goals and don't waste any time chasing pussy. I think social media fucked things up a lot, now even the 3-4 get thousands of DMs after posting their butts on social media (seen that from coworkers); I leave it to others if they want to fuck trolls, and I travel back a few weeks per year to get some quality pussy.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 10:05 PM
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Don't pay for their drinks. Go see a dentist.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:25 AM
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If its anywhere is Asia (probably South America too) its one of the classic scam and she will soon ask for money to abort or some shit like that.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:22 AM
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So is she.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 11:14 AM
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Invite your roommate for an epic gang-bang. Thats what real homies do.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 02:55 PM
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I'd take it as work or gym, I never really want to go but I must do it to get what I want (money, strength/health). Going to BS dates and listening to the shit they spit is a must if you don't want to live a sexless life. I feel your pain. But as someone who was just buying sex for years, I can tell you, at some point, it gets boring.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:03 AM
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I'm worried I'll get shot down. That is because you place your ego over everything else. Much more comfortable to remain invisible than being rejected, isn't it? Now imagine, you have to approach random strangers, to tell them they won 100.000$, would you be scared? Nah. Now just imagine you worth that much to a woman.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 07:12 AM
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My guess is they would bring you to a bar. Give you good time. Order a few drinks. Then you ll get a bill of 800 euros and they ll swear they didnt know if was that expensive... You get the picture. I was approached IRL in Hungary and dodged the scam
/r/askTRP15/04/19 10:16 PM
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My guess is your are hanging out in the wrong places, and use the wrong apps.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:17 PM
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Get a restraining order or make a false rape claim. I guess that's what a woman would do #metoo # genderequality
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:15 PM
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I personally treat this information the same way as she would say 'I have a cat'. I don't care, at all. Actually I do, I am allergic so I'll never go to her place.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 11:08 PM
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I replaced texting with short voice messages, it conveys much more emotions than texting. Bitches love emotions. Might even add video, like 'hey bitch, look at the cool things I am doing while you watch Netflix and drink tea with your cat. '
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:48 PM
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And don't forget to read the holy sidebar, at least once a day
/r/askTRP07/04/19 03:52 PM
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but also want you to be obsessed with her Nope. Anyways, should I talk to her inside the bus or when we get out? Is staring at her and try to catch her eyes beforehand a good idea? Doesnt matter you are overthinking it. there are people Yeah and? Saying what? Doesnt matter much, keep it simple. 'hi I've seen you in that bus before, do you live in the area? You look cute in your [whatever shes wearing], I felt like I should introduce myself' ​
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:10 PM
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How can I meet her? You do meet her every Monday you said. Just be normal and engage a conversation. Ask her the questions you asked yourself about her. I really want her, she is one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen That's creepy tho I'm just a bit above average in terms of looks Do not self-depreciate. Fake confidence if you need too. 5f10 probably she is 5f9 No fuck given, seriously ​
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:26 PM
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Yeah, super weird to get a culture barrier on your own continent, I'll learn how to deal with this shit soon hopefully. I do whatever I can to keep this confidence I've accumulated while growing up. I've dated Asians who spent years in the West, it was fine, there must not be that much of a difference...
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:37 PM
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Yes I expected some kind of drop but I did not expect it to be day and night. I would stay in Asia forever if I could, but career and money-wise it's just not an option right now, if I ever get a long-term solution I won't ever come back to Europe. Interesting point about the game differences, I will meditate on it. But for now I just don't game at all, since I am stuck on level 1 on each interaction I had. I must do more volume also. I thought I was able to handle rejection, but that's just bec…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:32 PM
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Thanks for your input. Yeah definitely no SEA women will ever approach, but they are much easier to talk to once you did the first step. Understood that SMV is location dependent, but I won't change my career path because my SMV it too low in x or y city...
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:15 PM
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Yeah let's do it
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:00 PM
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Yeah, Im def. out of Tinder. It will be missed
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:57 PM
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Yeah I'm screwed. Tinder deleted already
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:56 PM
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Congratz bruh
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:56 PM
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Working online, I had the chance of living wherever I want whenever I want, only somewhat limited by visas
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:07 PM
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Yeah I might over-estimate the level of my game, due to the fact other males in Asia don't have any. Locals definitely don't have any from what I have seen hitting the 'local only' places. Expats are mostly all about flashing their cash. I'll browse through 60y of challenge, I had a first glance it looks good.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:06 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. I won't fuck chicks from work, I bring them to demonstrate value, plus they might bring friends etc
/r/askTRP01/04/19 10:01 PM
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I definitely don't have an attractive face (lips too thin, eyes too far in the holes, half of eyebrows missing). I can't grow a beard, apparently it's a big plus in Europe these days, while in Asia it's viewed as dirty. As for clubbing, I don't dance. I don't like it so I don't force myself. The way the clubs is setup is different, in Asia the dancefloor is like 10% of the surface, only hardcore thots and hiphop champion are on it, it's mostly tables of small group. I feel like dancing is an imp…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:58 PM
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Yeah, it feels like I've lost 3 points at least. I am 178 cm, which is the European average. There is also a market thing, many chicks are interested in attractive young white expat guys and there is a limited supply, so they need to pick lower I guess
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:52 PM
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Do not stick your dick in crazy man
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:59 PM
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I am swimming in an ocean of useless pussy
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:59 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BG8CvDMl0Mg you are not the only one
/r/askTRP16/10/18 08:23 AM
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Reply "Yeah alright". And let her do the conversation. I bet she is not able to, and she won't.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:33 PM
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Women dont pay for their drinks anyway
/r/PussyPass18/09/18 08:43 PM
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OMG It feels like everytime I visit this sub I see this BS again. Look there is NO difference about how the game works depending on your race, we are all on the same page. Brown skin is probably less attractive to most white women, so make an extra effort on the muscle and style department to compensate. Show some social proof, do not hangout with a group of 5 Indian friends and hope for good results. Then accept that some girls won't date Indian at all and move on. Just as some girls won't date…
/r/askTRP14/08/17 04:46 AM
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Women's opinion are not welcome in this sub. But since you are here and you are so smart you should understand the concept of "average". I am aware that there is attractive singles in the Philippines, it's just more rare than in the other countries I've been living in.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 03:03 AM
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Yeah do it, it's not like you have to pay a dollar everytime you get rejected or something
/r/askTRP21/04/17 05:25 AM
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On my first job (fast food) I had 6 female managers. 'nuff said
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:16 PM
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As someone who has been fat most of his adult life, I completly agree. For having a satisfying sexual life, that's the number 1 thing you should do, if not the only. Being fit is living life on the easy mode.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:42 PM
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I suggest you post a dick pic on craiglist with a title : WHO WANTS DICK ??? (caps lock, it's important). This has to work
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:08 AM
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As someone in the exact same situation I second that. I'm living between those two countries. Medellin, Colombia is the best alternative (but learn Spanish first). Fuck Europe, nothing to see there, unless you have a taste for fat feminist pale women
/r/askTRP12/04/17 09:03 AM
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I watched a lot of RSD (real social dynamics) I would recommend. Honest Signalz is good too. That being said, you will learn much more by doing 1 single approach than watching 10 hours of those
/r/askTRP09/04/17 10:07 AM
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We still chatted Why ? I said that she should introduce me to her cute friends Do you really need her for that ?
/r/askTRP05/04/17 05:52 AM
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Quality of women, food, cost of life... Medellin : got a few bros living there and sending me pics of their plates, seems like HB9 is the average there...
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:34 AM
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Thailand is my "home" so Ill probably come back there. It's better for everything except ridiculous visa regulations. English is a bit weak also. Vietnam seems nice also, especially if you want LTR. I am also thinking about staying in Medellin, Colombia, as several of my friends told me it's THE single man paradise
/r/askTRP03/04/17 05:56 PM
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Classic case of pussypass. Do your job well, don't think about others
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:04 PM
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I just moved to the Philipines, I am a white European. Im very into Asians, but find them unattractive on average. Most are fat. I am just looking for plates, but it doesn't work well. They speak English yeah, but their conversation is rarely interesting. Every girl over 25 seems to be a single mom. I'm not really happy here at the moment and look forward to move away.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 04:02 PM
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That sounds great but I can't legally work as a bartender where I live. Would't mind doing it for free tho, it must be a great way to improve social skills, also observe social dynamics
/r/askTRP15/02/17 02:10 AM
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Yeah or DJing sounds great, I know just nothing about music so maybe I should start. I've seen tons of uglyass guitar players or DJ dating 10's
/r/askTRP15/02/17 02:08 AM
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Funny, I was a pro player for like 5 years. I don't think it's very healthy as a hobby, it adds a lot of unnecessery stress to your life (variance, huge swings etc). But as long as you enjoy, and manage your bankroll well... GL GL !
/r/askTRP15/02/17 02:06 AM
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Whenever I am bored basically. Or sometimes they are too busy with the beta provider, and re-popup weeks or months later
/r/askTRP14/02/17 03:07 PM
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How the hell would that happen ???
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:02 AM
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It won't come in one day. Spine injury is NOT an excuse for not doing sport. There's shitload of videos on youtube of handicaped guys, people missing limbs, still hitting the gym hard. I used to be fat, trust me, life is easy when you look (and feel!) ripped.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:00 AM
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Interesting read, thanks :)
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:55 AM
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Nothing surprises me anymore. Wait and see
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:52 AM
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How did it go, did you meet her or was she just text-fantaising ?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:51 AM
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When I came I was as beta as you can be, overweight, no confidence, and still I was going to the club, staying still in the middle sipping on my jack coke, and 5s-6s were coming like magnets (that was good enough for me at that time). Also did a shitload of 7+ "escorts". Escorts here have nothing to do with those in the West, they are sweet, cuddly, nice to talk to, and often they can become plates (for free) if they like your company (have to be careful with this tho, I could write an essay on …
/r/askTRP30/01/17 04:32 AM
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I have been a white guy in Asia for years, if you can make the move I can not recommend it enough ! I do lift, but here every decent building has it's own gym. Planning to go Thai boxing also yeah.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:11 AM
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Good spot for a date is simple : wherever YOU enjoy going
/r/askTRP20/01/17 09:21 AM
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If you are too scared to approach, you are simply not happy about who you are, so work on it (lift etc). You probably feel not attractive enough. Also remember that it is not always your fault if it fails. No matter how good looking you are and how perfect your approach was, some women are not open to be approached
/r/askTRP20/01/17 09:20 AM
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You should not because you should avoid those places for your own health. Also it's not her role to decide what kind of date she wants. Do whatever you want to do, and bring her along
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:41 AM
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I don't have that much (yet) but most of the time they break because I get bored. The other times, because the find a beta provider that does the thing I never do, like bringing them shopping and stuff
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:32 AM
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I watched tons of them. I don't care much if they are fake or not, if some of the sh1t they do/say is valid, and match my style, I keep it in mind and try it
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:29 AM
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My bad, this is obviously a blueberry tart recipe
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:55 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5gmafv/how_to_open_and_close_a_guide_for_beginners_long/
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:30 AM
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You didn't read the sidebar enough, did you ?
/r/askTRP02/01/17 06:51 AM
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No, black women are unicorns.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 04:35 PM
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Nothing too serious for now
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:32 AM
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Californication
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:30 AM
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As long as you enjoy it why the f not
/r/askTRP26/12/16 06:01 AM
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"K". 100% effective. Not "Ok, okay, OK" just an upper case "K".
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:03 PM
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TLDR ; the only two feelings a man should have are horny and hungry
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:33 AM
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Read him the side bar before bedtime and make him lift
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:32 AM
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Hook up with her hottest friend right in front of her to help her realise she's out of your league.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 05:27 AM
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I worked in the online dating industry. On any site there is at least 10 times more men than women. To this add the fact than most women are just there to be entertained, or find a beta provider, most of them have no plans to meet anyone... While 99% of men are super horny and ready to do anything to get laid. You have no idea how low your chances are to get an actual date, let alone getting laid, if you are not at least in the top 10%. If you are average looking, just go out and don't waste you…
/r/askTRP16/12/16 04:58 AM
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Totally agree with you and post it all the time, the RP man playground is the big city. Villages are for grandpas and frustrated BP hippies. After all seduction is a number game. My personal experience is going from a small-ish island to a huge city. When there is 5 millions women living in a 10 miles radius, even if you are BPish there is still at least 5000 ready to fuck you
/r/askTRP15/12/16 04:52 AM
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I hire people for my business. When I post an opening, I sometimes get 100+ mails in my inbox. I don't bother opening them all (yeah I am a dick) So if the name list goes like - John Jack George John Paul Korabliov Jack Henry John... - I tend to click on Korabliov to checkout the CV, just because this name attracted my eyes more than the other. The same way red attracts it more than black. Then if the CV is good it goes in the "to call" list. Nobody gives a flying f*** about your name or origin.…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 02:41 PM
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My standard answer is to nod, and proudly show "2" with the hands. That's alpha as fuck
/r/askTRP14/12/16 02:04 PM
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It's because you forgot that motto : a girl is never yours, it's just your turn
/r/askTRP14/12/16 02:02 PM
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Loool that doesn't make any sense. If it's hard to remember just pick a nick, and if you feel like it tell your real name later when it's worth wasting time. I have a friend who LTR a girl and took 2 month to tell her his real name, not because it was weird, but because he fucked around like a rabbit in the city so he changed name for every girl he met, as a way to protect himself. Doesn't make much sense either actually
/r/askTRP14/12/16 02:01 PM
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What do you mean cheesy ass location ? Girls go there to shop, eat, have a good time, most of the time they are not really in a hurry, i dont see what can possibly go wrong. Hitting on chicks on their workplace is wrong and annoying imo, every other spot is a good spot
/r/askTRP13/12/16 05:36 AM
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The pill is quick to take but takes a long time to digest. The sidebar is your new Bible, read it, learn it, respect it and live by it.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:47 AM
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I think you can reverse it, and also you can store your precious liquid and use it years later when you decide to have children (don't know how it works, I guess it requires one month of daily wanking or somenthing). Ask for informations to your doctor, and keep your willy safe
/r/askTRP13/12/16 02:57 AM
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Street Mall Starbucks Gym Park Public Transport Library Museum Restaurants Social events Yoga class Salsa class Every class that attracts more women than men Basically wherever you enjoy going You should not go out to meet women, you should meet women because you go out
/r/askTRP13/12/16 02:54 AM
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TRP is not about blaming women for being what they are, but about accepting and dealing with it. Basically they are like us, they like to bang as much partners as possible with the highest SMV possible. Wouldn't be proud to bang 5 women at the same time ? I bet you would. So why can't you accept a woman could enjoyed it ? You probably swallowed the pill recently and it might still taste bitter in your mouth, but hopefully you will accept and adapt. If you ever go LTR/babys and stuff, keep your S…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 02:48 AM
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I think the magical answer "K" might be appropriate here, what do you guys think ?
/r/askTRP13/12/16 02:10 AM
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Nah bro you should probably lock yourself in your basement and never go out again, because some guys out there are better looking than you...
/r/askTRP13/12/16 02:02 AM
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Just do body weight exercises, buy a few dumbells and a bar for chin ups if you can. Or street workout. To generate income maybe try to find some freelance jobs online on sites like Fiverr. Don't feel bad about not being good enough for food industry, been there for 2 years, I know how hard it suck. If you judge a fish by the ability to climb a tree, you will think it's stupid
/r/askTRP11/12/16 03:03 PM
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If you live in a small town/rural environment, move to a big city. Dunno how a single RP man can possibly find happiness in a 500 ppl town with mostly grandpas and grandmas. In a big city there is always tons of things to do
/r/askTRP09/12/16 12:34 PM
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Unfollow her on social media and move on. RP Men should not have feelings. The only acceptable feelings are : horny and hungry
/r/askTRP09/12/16 03:37 AM
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Read the sidebar, 3 times per week. And lift
/r/askTRP09/12/16 03:35 AM
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There's nothing wrong fucking a slut in a relationship, no matter what every BP guys would say. Fuck more girls, as much as you can, enjoy yourself, eventually you will find a better one to play with, then another one, then another one, and at the end you will laugh at yourself thinking that you even liked the first one
/r/askTRP06/12/16 06:01 AM
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So you want to let a bunch of Chad going through her pussy before you become good enough to try to LTR her ? Act now, if it doesn't work, next
/r/askTRP06/12/16 05:53 AM
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Solid post OP thanks. Bit of an off-topic question, but I noticed you are (living?) in Japan, how do you deal with language barrier ? Do you speak fluent Japanese, do you approach girls speaking English only, or do you use a mix of both language like I do ? One of my biggest struggle is to apply my "sophisticated" kind of humor with girls I approach when they have a very limited understanding of English. Most of the time it ends up by boring interview style conversations that are not going anywh…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 05:32 AM
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and that's why son you never ever choose restaurant as a first date spot. with coffee you can order and leave after 30 seconds if she behaves like that kind of basic bitch
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:44 PM
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You are stressed because you are too result oriented, no other reason. Try to imagine you fucked her many times already and talk like you know her since forever
/r/askTRP04/12/16 06:43 AM
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Sounds like she wants to fuck you. So if you want to fuck her too go ahead. The only issue here is We work together. It could lead to different kind of issues. If you don't care much about this job and can change easy, no reason to worry, have fun
/r/askTRP04/12/16 06:39 AM
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Am I right when I imagine an unattractive/fat guy with the same bio, he would be categorized as a complete creep by women browsing through ?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 06:17 AM
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Get money fuck bitches
/r/askTRP23/11/16 10:37 AM
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Eating out most of the time, not having time/energy to hit the gym, not caring because the have other positive traits than their bodies...
/r/askTRP20/11/16 02:11 PM
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I am sure you parents won't get mad if you bring a girl home. If they do, move out ASAP
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:28 AM
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"yeah im looking for a sugar mommy is that cool? When are you free?" is an acceptable response to me.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 09:31 AM
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Not giving a fuck is the best way to deal with it. How does it matters what those people think about you ?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:22 AM
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I am not looking for anything too serious atm
/r/askTRP22/10/16 02:17 PM
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AA comes mostly from not thinking you are good enough to open the set. So work on your confidence. Also, go out with a wingman, give him $100 (or whatever amount is significant for you) and tell him to give you back 10 for every open you do. If you don't he keeps the money
/r/askTRP22/10/16 02:09 PM
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I'm a nice guy I stopped reading here
/r/askTRP22/10/16 02:04 PM
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If you don't like to do it, just do it as if it was a job, salary would be feeling better about yourself and bang hotter babes more often. HB must spend 1hr/day in the bathroom making up and stuff to look good, men must spend 1hr lifting, that's it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 06:01 AM
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If you go restaurant/get drunk once a week but keep healthy habits all other times, you can still be in a good calorie deficit. Also, genetics. We all know that handsome motherfucker who eats only burgers and kebabs and do do shit
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:30 AM
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My 2 cents on legalizing prostitution : it doesn't change anything. Where I live men fly from all over the world with banging hookers for cheap as a main purpose. You can get a decent looking one for all night for $30. Stunner for $100. Still thousands blue pilled losers end up broke by getting into a LTR/married, like this poor fella The cherry on the cake being that the "tradition" for men getting married is to pay a huge ass dowry to the family of the bride, so not only they are making a stup…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 09:34 AM
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Find something you enjoy doing, and work on being the best at it. Having sex in one of them I bet, so work on becoming Alpha (lift and stuff) go out and get laid.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:55 AM
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Approaching girls is a skill. Some people are good at it, some other needs to practice it. You need to practice it. You will fail, I guarantee it. 100 times at least, maybe more. What's important is to learn from your mistakes a improve each time. Don't be afraid of failure, it's part of the process. The reason they look away is simple : they look at you, you look back, you don't talk, you don't smile... Why would they keep looking ?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 07:44 AM
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HIMYM (not sure it's on netflix tho)
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:31 PM
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I don't give a shit about other guys feeling. If she's fucking with me, the guy did not gave her what she needs. If I ever get cheated on, I accept that I did not do good enough for the girl, that's about it. Also where I live, tons of guys seduce women by just throwing their (family's) money at their feet, they get what they deserve.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 04:09 PM
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Actually I am really curious to know how a typical feminist would answer that question : why do you fight for gender parity for corporate boards, governments, and every kind of "clean" jobs, and why don't you care about parity when it comes to picking up the trash, going down the mines and lifting bricks ? Anyone tried having that discussion ?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 09:12 AM
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The Game, Neil Strauss is a must read, even if you are not interested in seduction
/r/seduction27/12/15 08:08 PM
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Malls? And well, any place where you actually enjoy going
/r/seduction16/11/15 09:33 AM
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I went from poor to "rich-ish" to "back to poor" and no, not really. I sucked with women during my wealthy few years, and having a nice car and a great penthouse did not help at all, nor did buying champagne bottles by 5 at the club. But having money gives confidence to some people (not to me), also it gives you a better lifestyle with more activities, more travels and more parties, and you get more opportunities to meet more women this way. Anyway, money is awesome, and seducing women is awesom…
/r/seduction24/09/15 09:04 AM
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Rule number one for picking-up Taiwanese girls : don't call them Chinese.
/r/seduction31/08/15 05:38 AM
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Well since there is not much to do/talk about the banging happens pretty fast. Last experience was like she shows up at 10pm, I asked her if she is hungry and if she likes Western food, she said yes so I put her in front of the TV, and cooked some pastas. She didn't seem to like it that much lol, she was playing with her phone while I was eating. She was looking at her pictures so I looked too, then she asks for each picture (mostly selfies) "beautiful? you like?" I showed her some of mine (trav…
/r/seduction31/08/15 03:37 AM
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That's because you haven't seen how the average white woman is in Asia. Usually hippie/feminist/annoying fatty with an attitude.
/r/seduction31/08/15 02:43 AM
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Same situation here (Thailand). I don't do much street/public places pickup, but if I notice a cutie eyeing me I would go for a random open in English, and if I realise that she knows 0 English, I know a handful of goofy words/sentences to show interests (you are cute, I love you...), and that would most likely make her laugh. Then I'll proceed to open Line (it's like to whatsapp of Asia, get it if you haven't already), hand my phone over and get her to add herself in it. Then go for texting lik…
/r/seduction31/08/15 02:38 AM
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Yeah agreed, I like to set up a good vibe before meeting the person IRL, with some converstation topics to be discussed further, and some private jokes kind of thing.
/r/seduction19/08/15 09:12 PM
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Agreed, and I had a decent sucess in club situations, but communicating with our bodies online is not that easy lol.
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:39 PM
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Also I kinda need to distinguish myself from the hundreds of guys sending "Hi how are you you are so beautiful" kind of stuff
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:21 PM
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I'm curious how is the 3-4 messages interaction working, would you mind giving examples? To be honest, as an introvert, Id rather get to know the person a bit online, and figure out if I could get along with her or not, instead of going a date with a random girl that might turn silent and awkward. But hey, why not going out of my confort zone?
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:18 PM
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I don't know if you have those close to where you live (I didn't when I was 19) but places with arcade games, pool, flippers etc seems like a great idea for me. You can have various activities and take a snack/coffee break at some point. But where I am from we can go to the bar and drink at 16, so we have that going for us which is nice. Taking her to several places is a great way to improve a first date, because she will feel like it's been several dates already.
/r/seduction06/08/15 08:04 AM
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I don't know if that will help you, but I was in a similar state when I was your age. No close friends, unable to find a decent job mostly because of my depressive state and social anxiety, I didn't even think about having any kind of relationship with a women. Somehow I started a buisness that worked well, I moved to a different country, met new people, got friends, made money, built an interesting lifestyle, improved my image, worked out... And eventually started seeing women. I am 26 now and …
/r/seduction24/07/15 01:05 AM
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Wasn't your first dance lesson like super awkward? I had a neighbour who was a salsa teacher (he confirmed salsa is the best thing ever to get laid easy), he offered me to come and try but I didn't dare.
/r/seduction16/07/15 12:48 AM
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Aren't you interested in dating other expats? Tourists? I haven't been to Turkey but a few countries with girls being either married or virgins, I know how frustrating it can be. I guess you could get some number and date but have to be super discreet when you do so.
/r/seduction18/06/15 12:51 AM
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Sounds a lot like kleptomania, or a weird fetish.
/r/seduction16/05/15 02:01 AM
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You are a programmer, so I guess you spent a few years learning how to code. I bet it wasn't that easy, it was sometimes boring, and sometimes you hated it and felt like giving up at some point. But you made it, congratz! Now you have to learn another skill, it might be hard if you start from 0, you will fail A LOT, you will hate it sometimes, but once you get better you will fucking love it! Do you have any friends? If not, get some. If yes, go out with them, do stuff, be busy as much as you ca…
/r/seduction16/05/15 01:53 AM
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How to continue the "Where are you from" conversation? I am an expat and I also travel quite often, so I get this question 95% of the time when I approach. It's a bit of an IOI but I have hard time keeping the conversation fun and energetic after I answer. Most of the time it goes like -"Whele u flooom" (Imagine it with a chinese accent) -country, and you are you from here? -"yes flom heel" -... I tried to ask them to guess (in order to keep it entertaining), but everytime they had no clue and d…
/r/seduction16/05/15 01:43 AM
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When you move to college, before focusing specifically on meeting girls and getting laid, make your best to build a solid social circle. You won't meet girls if you don't have any friends. Just be social, invite people to do activities, share your hobbies, go to meeting, parties.. Be the YES guy, never decline any invitation! I am not from the US, but college over there sounds freaking awesome, I wish I could do it!
/r/seduction16/05/15 12:31 AM
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Very interesting read, I have to plead guilty for most of it. I read The Game like 2 or 3 years ago, and shitload of videos, articles, forum, everything hoping to get better with the ladies. And I still suck so bad, because I don't practice enough. I'd approach only in situation I am 100% comfortable with (familiar venue, girls "in my league", logistics ready, being tipsy helps me a lot also..) With the knowledge I accumulated I should approach and get laid every single day. I am even quite good…
/r/seduction16/05/15 12:15 AM
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I kinda have the same problem when I go home (one month a year), and I am usually craving for sex when I finally go back to my own place. But, if you can afford it, why don't you pay your family a weekend somewhere, so you can have the house for yourself for one or two nights, and plan your dates on those days? If I had no choice but bringing her home in front of the family, I'd just try to make fun of the situation as much as I can. Little brother : see that girl? you'll never bring home a girl…
/r/seduction14/04/15 02:07 AM
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Oh thanks I fucking love compliments! You are trying to flirt with me aren't you? That's soooo cute!
/r/seduction14/04/15 01:45 AM
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I'd start by asking what they find hot in men. Let them debate it for a minute, then repeat slowly what they say and be like. "So you guys like tall (stand on my toes) muscular (flex my arm), guys with great abs (rub my fat belly)? You guys must want me so bad! But I don't know which one of you I'll choose, so I will arrange a fight in the mold and the winner will have the chance to spend a night with me!" This would be great if you are the exact opposite of what they say. Be confident and cocky…
/r/seduction14/04/15 01:42 AM
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Congratz on trying! But you should not try to approach only girls you are into, just practice by starting a conversation with as much people as you can. There is no obligation of going further once you approached the girl, she will not be like "heyy, but you approached me, I like you, have sex with me right now!". Just walk around, enjoy yourself and try to make people enjoy themselves. Talk to everyone, really. Find a better approach than "Hi, how are you?". It's random, it's low energy, it's b…
/r/seduction14/04/15 01:18 AM
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