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For example, she likes to dress tomboyish and doesn't see why she has to dress more girly. At that age, this seems like a pretty good thing. It makes sense that an interest in feminine clothing/makeup/grooming (beyond basic good health and hygiene) only needs to ramp up alongside the search for a mate. She’s still so young. To be frank, it seems like a lot of girls behaving hyper-feminine at that age are on the hunt for trouble and getting used by horny teen boys. I was pretty tomboyish too, and…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 03:50 PM
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Thanks for this well thought out post. If you go forward you better know yourself down to your bones and even then marriage will still surprise you. Ask yourself if you're settling, or proceeding because of how much time you've already put into this man. Something that concerns me is that we've all seen marriages where people "knew in their bones" that their spouse was "The One," and yet those people end up divorced or unhappily married (assuming the were being truthful about their feelings). My…
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 03:26 AM
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>What color butterfly’s are you looking for? Haha I do really want to please him sexually. He's very dominant. I am responsive. However, he's been a LOT more emotionally vulnerable and nonsexually affectionate since we got engaged, which has thrown me for a loop. I'm glad he's getting comfortable, but the vibe is much more "old married couple" than "hot slutty (but monogamous) sex." We need to get back to the latter. >Does your mind wander? Is there another man that you find yourself thinking ab…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 07:26 PM
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>It assumes you're actively and possibly wondering about someone better, but that's NOT the case - right? Not actively, but in the weeks before getting engaged and after, I've had a few dreams about being pursued by other men I know (NOT close friends, more acquaintances that give off alpha vibes). So something is going on deep in my brain. I don't think 25 is particularly young, but we're in a hyperliberal Ivy League crowd that acts like we're engaged and underaged. People are just SHOCKED that…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 07:21 PM
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This was actually precisely what I WANTED to hear. So thank you. It’s reassuring. He’s actually pretty naturally dominant sexually and otherwise, but he’s been a lot more nonsexually affectionate/emotionally vulnerable since we got engaged... which has been a rather abrupt departure from his previous demeanor. It really threw me for a loop. Maybe that’s part of this.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 07:10 PM
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The relationship is a happy one generally, and there is love; I can't see myself ending up like that divorcee, as I'm not faking the relationship or the commitment that I feel. I just don't know how much of my expectations regarding "being in love" are completely false (i.e., other couples gushing all over social media, but it's all for show), or if I won't really "fall in love" with anyone (since this is my first serious relationship). I've just had crushes, and high school boyfriends that were…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 06:06 PM
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I love him in the sense that I can see us growing old together and raising a family together, but there's no butterflies. Maybe that's a meaningless distinction.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 05:31 PM
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r/DebateAltRight is that way
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 05:03 PM
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you need to track your calories The point was that sometimes you don't.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 01:51 AM
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Not necessarily—programs like Whole30 cut out so many sources of dairy, sugar, carbs, etc. and emphasize vegetables, fruit, healthy fats and protein that one can lose weight by eating to satisfy, as long as food isn’t an emotional crutch.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 09:57 PM
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Re: the sex frequency thing—I can relate to this. My fiancé and I went through a period of college when we were each training for our sports teams 30 hours a week, and my libido went through the roof while his testosterone tanked from exhaustion, and I would also cry next to him in bed after being rejected. The first step is just thinking outside yourself. What are some possible reasons he is tired 93 less interested? Be empathetic. If you’re physically together and he’s stressed/exhausted, offe…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 09:49 AM
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I just got rid of that info because I was talking about myself too much. I will repeat that there are some pretty insufferable, beta libertarians on college campuses though.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 01:42 AM
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Do you think ‘red pilled’ obviously means ‘conservative’ or ‘libertarian?’ My now-fiancée comes from a family of midwestern ‘worker Democrats,’ i.e. people who value workers’ rights, government aid for the less fortunate, and strong families. These are the folks who are ‘purple’ in a presidential election voting map (they’ll swing for the candidate who ‘speaks’ to the working class—B. Clinton back in the day, Trump recently). Nevertheless, my fiancé, like his dad, is still a captain and our rela…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 12:48 AM
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For now, just stop talking as much as possible Yeah, I ended up reiterating that, but it doesn't kill us to offer a side of empathy. Her boyfriend is putting her in limbo if he's telling her to start planning and then getting upset when she talks about it, imo.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 05:04 AM
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You're probably going to get a lot of posts saying "STFU!", but I'm gona take a moment to empathize here! I'm only 24, but up until I got engaged recently I was already anxious about not wasting my prime years if the relationship wasn't ending in marriage, even when I had every reassurance that it would. Even if we need to fight the urge to freak out about it, we all feel our ovaries shriveling as our most attractive years slip by. The feelings are natural, but the reactions are controllable. A …
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 08:52 PM
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We already set a date (suggested by him for sentimental versions) and locked down a venue. Probably will do a similar thing with him choosing # of groomsmen and I'll pick bridesmaids accordingly (I'm not picky about #). It seems like seeing each other before the ceremony for "first look" ceremonies is the new trend, but I love the idea of seeing each other for the first time like you did.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 07:14 PM
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? Late to the party here, but is there a stat supporting the idea that men rape because they were abused? Men have natural predatory instincts and many are willing to throw out their moral code after a few beers (esp. during the college years), and will gladly attempt to have sex with anyone—even if she is drunk enough to be past the point of consent. Women need to be cautious and take practical steps, but men should be taught to be more careful to for everyone’s benefit. This is coming off my e…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 01:43 PM
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Hey there. First of all, I'm so sorry you were sexually assaulted. It sounds like you're taking care of yourself, so good job! I was raped at 18 as a virgin, and started dating my now-fiance six months after the assault; even with therapy and the right person, it took me almost a year of dating to feel comfortable with penetrative sex. Your mileage may vary, but... I trained myself to want PiV by using Pavlovian mind tricks, basically. From foreplay onward, I would run a mental loop of, "You're …
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 06:19 AM
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Perhaps controversial, but after five years together, the fiancee definitely keeps tracks at least subconsciously because he knows shark week is a week where he's getting a bj or two... and two weeks after that during ovulation, we need to be at our most careful with condoms. It's less about him walking on eggshells during PMS and more about him knowing how my status effects our sex life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 03:05 AM
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