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| 22 | Science, seduction, and you. Why some stuff is the way it is, and how you can work that to your advantage. | you_require_moar | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 09:35 PM | |
| 9 | High energy AMOG'ing versus not caring, or, how alpha is fairly context dependent. [some FR] | you_require_moar | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 09:24 PM |
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| 1 | 26(m) Non-Student living on a college Campus: How do I make the most of this?Think of a story about why you're there (researching, working for the uni, participating in something, there's plenty of possibilities, using the school gym ect ect), and then you can do regular approaches. I like to 'perch' (sit somewhere) with a friend in a high traffic zone and just get up and approach whenever my type of HB walks by. The friend is helpful, but not necessary. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 04:21 PM |
| 1 | It seems like RESPECT = FRIEND ZONEGood question. There are a few psychological theories about why this might be the case. I think the most plausible has to do with attachment patterns. Early on, and all through, in our development we learn our attachment patterns with our parents. Girls with absent or abusive father's learn to attach to those patterns of behaviour. These run pretty deep, to the point that consciously she may believe she wants a really 'nice' guy, but subconsciously she really just wants to be ignored/taken for g… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Friend zoned. Here's how I handled it.Good point. I should have said platonic. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 11:47 PM |
| 2 | 26(m) Non-Student living on a college Campus: How do I make the most of this?Young girls love older guys. 26 is prime, most (90%+?) will be more than down, the rest might have to think about it. If you're picking up on campus it's best to have a story about what you're doing there. But picking up at the local spots should be completely normal. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 10:59 PM |
| -1 | It seems like RESPECT = FRIEND ZONEDepends on the woman. If she has daddy issues, then respect is usually repulsive to her. Good girls (are there any left in the world?) have healthy attachment patterns and do appreciate chivalry. Just don't put her on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 10:50 PM |
| 2 | I need everyone's brutal honestyThe core problem here is that you're hung up on one girl. When you're working on 5 at one time you care a lot less, which is in turn, very attractive. Approach and open - develop an Abundance Mentality, and you won't be hurt at all when you don't get your desired response. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I escalate?ABE = Always Be Escalating | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Friend zoned. Here's how I handled it.If friendship is what's in order then I obviously won't be trying to bang you, will I? It's really you that's the problem here. You flirt, you tease, you make innuendo's and lead guys on, just to fuel your insatiable appetite for attention and validation, and then you get mad when guys actually want to act on your (malicious) advances. I love women. Go make me a sandwich. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Seddit, I know you guys are the only people who can make me feel betterSome science can be helpful here to let you know where you're at: Your dopamine reward system has attached itself to your ex-gf. When we lose our source of supply we can go crazy in trying to get it back. Depending on how you're wired it can take anywhere from 3mths-1yr for you to reset back to normal. The constant thinking about her will go away. It's your brain trying to get back the rewards it loved so much. There is nothing especially unique or special about her, you will find happiness with… | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 09:58 PM |
| 10 | Friend zoned. Here's how I handled it.(Assuming you're a girl). If we do our job right and make our intentions clear from the start, it is you who are fucking annoying. I know it's hard to believe, but people don't actually want to be your emotional tampon, they wish to bang you. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 09:53 PM |
| 11 | Friend zoned. Here's how I handled it.FZ is just another shit test. Laugh it off and keep on escalating. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Starting to get discouragedAt the very bottom pickup is a numbers game. Move into the city. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 01:12 AM |
| 11 | The glance, the look, the f*ck-me eyes. What do they actually look like?this | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Always open. Ugly girls have hot friends.Wow, stop caring. Ever seen how an HB9-10 treats the people in her life? People use people. | /r/seduction | 14/09/11 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Is the end-goal of seduction to acquire the best long-term partner?Personally, I will stop when I have a full fledged actual harem. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 10:37 PM |
| 10 | Women are attracted to who you are, not how you look.Women are attracted by a bunch of things. Work with what you have, develop what you don't. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 10:35 PM |
| 3 | A Common Blindspot to SuccessActor component to 'faking it till you make it' is key. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Why avoid her seeing you as a BF initially?What you're saying is definitely real man, but I have to disagree about some details. Girls definitely do play a holdout game if they're really into you. They'll do everything except for sex (for around 3-4 dates), as a means to keep you interested. Over-impressing a girl can create this, but over-impressing can also go another way - she doesn't think she can tame you, but she'll definitely hit it for a night or two. Edit: Of course I think any PUA worth his salt can overcome her objections, I'm… | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 02:07 PM |
| 2 | A simple way to significantly amp up your confidence and sexualityI'm very skeptical about the supposed results of this, but from a practical standpoint it might force a lot of people to deal with their AA if they want to bust a nut. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Walked up to a girl who had gorgeous eyes and said? "Beautiful eyes."carry the interaction forward instead of ejecting/running away. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Got a night with nothing to loose, how do i approach a 3some.keep it light and funny. alcohol never hurts this situation, just don't get too drunk. the trick is to get them both alone and in your bed, so make sure you have solid logistics. there is some canned material out there (a backrub routine comes to mind - can't remember whose it is), but I don't think anything elaborate is necessary. just get them into bed and start going at it with one of them, if the other goes to leave "where you going?" and pounce on her too. everyone should get really excited… | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:21 AM |
| 6 | How to open when you have her number but she doesnt have yours?Always call. Whenever you are confronted with a choice of options, go with the one that makes you the most uncomfortable/requires more balls. She will probably not pick up (7/10, in my experience they don't pick up), leave a msg or send a txt saying 'hey its x met you x gimme a call back'. This is important as it establishes from the get-go that you're a caller, which is extremely useful for setting up day2's. | /r/seduction | 11/09/11 12:18 AM |
| 2 | What happened?HB: "Were not having sex tonight." Potential proper response: "Absolutely not, that would be a big mistake." Proceed to have sex. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 10:04 PM |
| 3 | What do you say?You pegged your own problem. Too much analysis. Just say "Hi" and ask a question or make an open ended comment. | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 09:47 PM |
| 4 | What's the best way to approach a cashier at the market?With your checkout items... | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 09:04 PM |
| 2 | F-closed on a Girl, Now She Doesn't Seem InterestedThis. Ping her again in 5-10 days. She will probably contact you before that. But also, like fungi was saying, chicks can have one night stands too. In the meantime, harvest more contacts! | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 08:55 PM |
| 4 | A plea for helpApproach, approach, and approach. And then approach some more. Knowing the theory is excellent, but this is what separates the men from the boys. Get in there champ! | /r/seduction | 10/09/11 01:28 AM |
| 11 | My answer to let's just be friends.Too serious. Just keep it light and fun. Laugh it off and throw your arm around her. Keep pushing to close until she relents or refuses to see you. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 02:27 PM |
| 3 | So Seddit,can I never be honest,or therefore myself?You tell me what the 'self' is, and I will agree with you. Just because you feel like doing something doesn't mean that it's the right way to go about doing things. We're all here for one thing: results. The reason we advise what we advise is to get results. It has nothing to do with being authentic or inauthentic. If I see a terribly unattractive woman walking down the street I may have the inclination to say out loud within hearing distance "woah, that's unfortunate", but I'm not going to do t… | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 06:03 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First try, first #close after subscribing to r/seduction"And by golly, it works." Only reason I play the game brother. Congrats! A little bit of positive criticism: you had it a little easy here ;), but that's okay, it provided an excellent opportunity for you to field test some of your new skills, and by golly, it worked! Making her wait was an excellent decision. The power of the loaft is incredible, it makes her keep thinking about you (which equals investment). Don't stop with this one, keep harvesting other contacts and numbers. Do cold approach… | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Science, seduction, and you. Why some stuff is the way it is, and how you can work that to your advantage.Yes, but its role is less understood and in much smaller amounts. Vasopressin seems the be the equivalent. | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Would just like to thank everyone in this subreddit.Excellent work mate, keep it up! Unless they're having a really bad or stressful day girls are flattered when a guy asks for their number. Be not afraid! Keep pushing yourself, you got this. Let us know about your progress! | /r/seduction | 08/09/11 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Science, seduction, and you. Why some stuff is the way it is, and how you can work that to your advantage.B.A., M.A., PUA? :) glad you liked it. I've got lots more to post, but I need some help with the formatting. Any feedback would be great. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 10:56 PM |
| 6 | [FR] How I got my first #close a story about confidence, LMR, playful banter and club gameAlso, bro, this was your FIRST #close? Are you serious?! You handled this like the best of pro's. Watch out ladies! | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Alright, what's next?Tragically she is in super high demand. Thankfully we know what we're doing! | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Alright, what's next?The three second rule is great for starting out, my problem is there is too many chicks that I would be DTF. So I whittled it down to one type that must be approached under any circumstance, just to help manage it. Whatever works! Oneitis is serious. The dopamine reward system is powerful, powerful, stuff. It causes oneitis for instance. Like breaking any dopamine reinforced habit the best and most effective way of getting rid of it is going cold turkey. Delete fucking everything. Pictures, her … | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 10:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How I got my first #close a story about confidence, LMR, playful banter and club gameSmells like Victory. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 09:56 PM |
| 2 | How I rebuilt myselfWhile affirmations aren't as helpful as real success, they are scientifically proven to contribute to creating the kind of positive feedback helpful to generate success. It is a totally sound place to start out. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 09:45 PM |
| 4 | Science, seduction, and you. Why some stuff is the way it is, and how you can work that to your advantage.Acquire more resources. Tribal days and the wild are scary places. Having resources meant increased security, and security is a major concern for those who happen to carry the burden of carrying the children. Ever seen a women out on her own in the world before? She will work 10 jobs and save way more than necessary. She is terrified about security. Good news for us is that this can be worked to our advantage immensely without even needing to have any resources of your own (but if you do, god bl… | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 09:37 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went On Date, Didn't Go So Great But Fuck ItIn agreement with everyone else, this is the kind of girl who can either come straight over to my house, or can fuck right off. Didn't get enough attention as a kid/poor attachment. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 08:27 PM |
| 10 | How I rebuilt myselfI love seeing evolutions and hearing success stories. Your comments are always bang on, thanks for sharing! | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Fail HunterNot trying to hate, but that sounds pretty fail... Try something else brother. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Alright, what's next?Great to see you breaking out of your shell and just being social with those around you! Keep up the good work! Socializing is a positive feedback cycle (in the technical sense). The more you do it, the more rewarding it is and the more naturally it comes. Just be social with everyone. Talk to the cashier, comment on stuff as you go by (saw a guy walking a dog today, and his dog was sniffing everything, i commented saying "man, he's really gotta sniff everything huh?", started a conversation), t… | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 08:19 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Bad Ass Jerks vs Men with Inner GameExcellent fr bro. I'm so glad to see this next evolution in the game. Being BRO ALPHA has become ubiquitous to the point that there is now nothing Alpha about being "Alpha" as described the literature. As it evolves I think Alpha behaviour has become kind of beta :D My game right now just revolves around being very genuine and straightforward, exactly like your fr here. Going meta since many of the girls out partying now are familiar with some of the PUA community stuff. Things have never been b… | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 08:09 PM |
| 4 | Two Revelations: On sunglasses and being too availableWhich leads to another fundamental concept: being mysterious. But that's for the ladies, I'm happy to share. I wouldn't call myself that. My story is that in HS I was just an ordinary AFC. I dropped out (just graduated uni this year, doin my M.A. now, that's another story :), and long story short, ended up dating a sex worker for a few years. She pretty much taught me everything about handling a woman. After that I had plenty of game and life experience. But last summer I, for the first time eve… | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Two Revelations: On sunglasses and being too availableWhen it comes to giving people the very first basics I always say there are three fundamentals: 1 - Don't care. 2 - Don't care. 3 - Loaft. In context this boils down to not being outcome dependent on others, which is incredibly attractive. And loafting (waiting to respond) is bread and butter in getting/keeping girls (especially the high value ones) interested. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Socializing is incredibly exhausting.this is why seduction is a choice bro. it takes lots of effort in learning, training, practicing, and then once you do get it going for you, yes it can be exhausting keeping up with all the relationships you've made. you worked hard to get to this point don't be afraid of resting on your laurels for a bit. congrats! | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Is porn really affecting us?i could believe it but i think confirmation bias might also be a factor. | /r/seduction | 07/09/11 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Help me build an Achievements List for sedditorsnah man, best thing i ever did was get an apartment right smack downtown next to all the clubs. easiest pulls home ever. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 07:56 AM |
| 21 | Differences in the way a girl perceives a guy if she calls him 'cute' vs. 'hot'? (physically)no. no it doesn't. cute is datable, hot is fuckable. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do I get creep-ed out by this?wo ai ni | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Should I begin to move on?Definitely always be harvesting other contacts, but there is no reason to cut her off if you enjoy her company and your getting no strings attached sex. You don't have anything formalized and so there is nothing formal to break off. Always keep up abundance though, so keep approaching. Ignore her for a while and she'll come back around. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 04:23 AM |
| 3 | OverwhelmedI'm a bit of a skeptic about a lot of the more in depth and rigorous stuff put out by pick-up communities. I think the best thing this stuff does is with getting over AA. Just keep opening and learning from trial and error. Most of the "advanced techniques" will come naturally with experience, you will see what gets you the responses you desire. Here are some basics that are proven golden: i. Approach, approach, and approach. ii. "Law of least effort" - let her do as much work as possible. Apply… | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 04:20 AM |
| 1 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Np. Anytime bro, anytime. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 04:13 AM |
| 2 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Idk if phen is related to oxytocin. The male equivalent is called vasopressin. It's a little less understood, but the famous study was with the prairie vole. It's a strictly monogamous little mammal (unusual for males in the animal kingdom) but when scientists cut off its supply of vasopressin it went wild and forgot all about monogamy. Vasopressin is released during orgasm and is thought to induce that feeling of satisfaction that you have that makes you not want anymore seks. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 04:06 AM |
| 2 | what to do in a libraryI usually read in the library, but to each his own. Next time ask her out. Very simple. Ask her name, talk for like thirty seconds, ask her if she'd like to hang out/grab coffee. Get info. ?. Profit. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 01:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when multiple girls are into you and you have a genuine interest in all of them?Oh, options, gotta love em'. Depends what you want bro. If they're cool and open-minded girls you might be able to maneuver multiple LTR's. Two is usually plenty. I think it would be a waste if you didn't try to sleep with all of them together. Some details would be helpful if you want some specific advice on swinging that. Otherwise, go with the one that you're most attracted to and have the easiest time being real with. Hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Followup to Old flameWhat's your question? | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 10:08 PM |
| 7 | [FR1] Daygame OpenerMy absolute favourite way to plow through the boyfriend objection is: HB: I have a BF Me: I bet you do. (with a smile and a head to toe look) And continue. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Disabling an annoying girl?Because she likes you. Hence the cockblocking and the teasing... | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Girl's game?Of course. It's raining outside today and I'm not doing anything if you'd like to skype for some one-on-one. Just msg. Happy hunting! :) | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?LOL baby powder and cucumbers?! Science I love thee. Got a link for that by any chance? | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Have the potential to leave the friend-zone. But how?BananaPhone101's advice is solid. Push it. It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal. Avoid any drawn out convo's with her, get her in person, ideally just get her to come over. She trusts you, this is huge, use it your advantage. Brainwise she's bonded with you, you saw the thing about oxytocin, this is great. Once you couple that with some dopamine it's a done deal, she will rationalize that she has liked you since the first moment she laid eyes on you and can't believe she didn't come to… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:30 PM |
| 5 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?It's raining outside today and I've got nothing to do. I'd be happy to skype coach you 1 on 1 if you'd like? Msg me. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Guy grabs 1000 pairs of boobs before shaking hands with Putin. [x-post from r/Videos]God of the internet. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:12 PM |
| 28 | Girl's game?As promised! Lots of ground to cover here, we can break it down into attracting and bonding. Attraction: Smoking hot will get you lots of attention, obviously, but lets not forget the power of presentation. The girl getting the most attention in the club may, or may not, be the hottest one there, but I can guarantee you she has the hottest outfit on (or lack thereof). TL;DR skank it up. If you happen to be chubby (like actually chubby, not "I'm so fat :("), this may not be the best strat, your b… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Apparently some fellow gamers disagree with me on this one, but it's, personally, my favourite role to take on. Science seems to say it should be a-okay. You're fucking so you're giving her dopamine and oxytocin, and you're deeply connecting with her giving her more sweet, sweet, oxytocin. If you want to play it safe, only play the therapist role when you're in bed with her. The only danger I find, the opposite of killing attraction, is that they get too attracted and yearn for an LTR. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:34 PM |
| 1 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Imma reply in your new bread. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:28 PM |
| 3 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?usaga is completely correct. Madison Avenue got wind of the chocolate + phen thing in the 90's and chocolate was marketed as a major aphrodisiac. There is no scientific backing for any of it though. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:19 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Conversion from LJBF to a k-close not so much of a conversion after allStop caring. HB: "Can we still be friends" You: "Duh, come over!" Proceed to bang your friend. There could be so many things going on with her that made her do that (an ex, another guy, PMS, bad hair day, didn't like the way her bra and panties mismatched, whatever), the point is just to ignore everything and keep going until you get what you want. Toss aside all obstacles, if she's still talking to you when you keep ignoring her barriers to entry, you're on your way to winning. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Disabling an annoying girl?Sounds like she likes you... Always have bigger balls than she does. If you have to see her regularly, befriend her by making a genuine connection and get her to work for you. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:08 PM |
| 2 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?I won't sugarcoat it. Attractiveness has a lot to do (almost everything?) with who I am going to go hit on. But that has very little to do with who I am going to choose to keep interacting with. Looks bring people together, but they are not the glue that keeps them there. Ladies can have very tight game, and when they do, it's a massive turn on. My favourite game is meta-game - when you know she's a player - and you just blatantly say what's up, turn it into a joke. Loads of fun. Girl game is di… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:58 PM |
| 2 | What do I do now??Ask my bitches, they all love me. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:25 PM |
| 6 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Guy, have you ever been in a relationship with a pretty face and a nice body? OP wants an LTR, and that's fine. You and I want something different, and that's fine. I like your bit about OP embracing his masculine side, he does need to get a bit more aggressive and assertive about what he wants. On the other hand, just because he doesn't want to run around acting like ape doesn't mean he's gay. I don't fight. I don't go to the gym (often). I don't kill things (ooh but I totally would if I didn't… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:19 PM |
| 4 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?If you've already got some rapport call her up and ask her out - movie, coffee, whatever. Don't worry about explaining yourself, just act as if whatever your doing is perfectly normal. Be informal and playful. This is supposed to be fun! :) If there is something you think of that seems risky, but also gets you excited, try it! Risking blowouts helps: i. learn new things. ii. expand our horizons. iii. keeps this whole process fun. iv. show a girl that you have titanium encased testicles. v. gener… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:11 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Need advice to number close/date!Which of those two options causes you the most anxiety? Go with that one. Pushing boundaries is not only effective, it helps you sharpen your game. Go see the lass. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:00 PM |
| 5 | When should you stop trying to pursue a girl?I usually stop after they've swallowed my cum. Initiate contact every 5-10 days until you get an acceptable response. If, after 3 attempts (my magic number, what's yours?), she refuses to see you, I usually deliver an ultimatum. "Listen, everyone is busy, but we can make time to see each other for an hour, do you want to get together or not?" When in doubt, go balls deep. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:56 PM |
| 2 | What do I do now??Do you know why you're not a mystic Casanova? Because you insist that you're not. I know guys, who by current social norms, should not ever get any of the sweet, sweet, tang, and yet they pull with the best of em'. Will becoming a mystic Casanova take work? Yes. Is it worth it? You decide. Can you do it? I know you can. Is the situation irreparable? Assume for a second it isn't. Let's say you recontact, and let's say you even get a date set up. What next? You go in with no idea what you're doing… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:49 PM |
| 10 | [mini FR] More proof that you can open with ANYTHINGIt's not what you do it's how you do it. Sounds like a fun night! | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:41 PM |
| 11 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Sure. Non-verbal signs are the most effective in my, and others, experience. Make sure you get touchy. If you've got a good deal of personality you can do it with a cheeky smile or even the right look in the eyes. What it really comes down to is what has been mentioned elsewhere here: the magic of framing. When you first meet someone, (and really this happens very quickly, when I say three interactions, I'm pushing it, expectations can be fully established in the first five minutes) think of it … | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:39 PM |
| 3 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Yea, okay, I'll concede. Unless you know what you're doing with this it can go wrong easily. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:28 PM |
| 2 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Okay. These situations are always a little trickier since the Initial Expectations are already laid down (Manage Initial Expectations!!!). I think the major problem I can extract from your post is that you might be a little hung up on formalities. Be playful with her, hang out with her and touch her, show that you're interested. When you see her in person and she looks sexy, tell her she looks sexy! If you go to put your arm around her as your walking (for example), and she says something like "… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:26 PM |
| 3 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?I realize the language seems a bit misogynistic, but it's really not about that. I'm not saying women are empty, vapid, blow up dolls. Of course women have their own opinions, thoughts, dreams, hopes, fears, etcetera, and being genuinely interested in them is a great way of forging a strong connection. What I'm doing is pointing out that nature has a way of getting people together, and once you know a little bit about how that works, it's easy to adjust the process into fitting with your goals. … | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Got drunk with DTF HB9 I've been seeing and accidentally agreed to be her boyfriend. What's a good way to roll back on this without hurting her?Time machine. Build a time machine. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:35 AM |
| 7 | What do I do now??You're doing this deadly little thing called "caring". Do none of that. I shall bestow on thee the advice given to every man before he sets out on the journey that will completely change his outlook on life: Go Fuck Ten Other Women. Plenty of solid advice around here on how to do that. After you've done that, then you can go back to this girl and wonder at how is easy it is and how you've been doing it all wrong. I love you bro and only want the best for you. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Old flame...how to avoid Oneitis?Your friend was ready. You were not. She's a big girl and can think for herself. If she wants to know where its going, she will ask. Unless you overtly lie to her and manipulate her into believing your situation is something its not, you're not an asshole. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Old flame...how to avoid Oneitis?Trust me ;) | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:22 AM |
| 3 | Answers to "What is your major/what do you study?"No shortage of witty banter available, but in all honesty this kind of micro calibrating is, I think, what sends the newbies off the wall in attempting to learn how to hit teh pussay. It's not an important question. The best advice has been given: whatever the answer; own it. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:13 AM |
| 3 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?They call it Chemistry for a reason ;) Here's a decent little lecture if you're interested in some of the science behind pairing up: http://fora.tv/2011/03/29/Glenn_WIlson_What_Is_This_Thing_Called_Love | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:09 AM |
| 2 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?I agree with everything except the therapist thing. I love being the therapist who also happens to make her squeal with pleasure and have her make me a sandwich. If you're a good therapist I don't see it as a barrier at all. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:06 AM |
| 5 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?They're so cute with their games. I love them. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 08:04 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with me?It's not you, it's your amygdala. Getting rejected back in the tribal days could be a death sentence. It is no surprise we fear rejection so much. The good news is you have enough agency to overcome the fear. Your own suggestion isn't a bad one, get a friend in there to slap you silly, or whatever, until you balls up and get in there. Also. Reading the PUA material can be very helpful, but it can also be extremely overwhelming, and thus unproductive, if you're trying to calculate everything that… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Suggestions on keeping an awesome fling from going coldPoor thing. She was probably abused :/ or too much Ke$ha, which is probably the same.. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Negging: Do women really like guys who treat them like crap?Sort of what frogma said. This article is convoluted. There is a great deal of difference between playfully knocking a women off her high horse (and really, only the hottest/most attention getting women are up there), and being a dick. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:40 AM |
| 1 | I'm making progress...Great attitude man! On the realistic side though, most women default into the passive/submissive role. Until you've reached 'conversion' it's unlikely that she will initiate contact. So, unless you're pretty sure that she's a dominant personality (and boy do we all love the Dom's!), you might have to re-engage if you want to give it another go. It has nothing to do with her liking you or not liking you. :) | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 07:36 AM |
| 9 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Girls also do this silly and ironic thing: i. if they are attracted to a guy physically, but don't see much in relationship prospects (typical hot+fit but, unfortunately, dumb bloke), they will bang right away. ii. if they are really into a guy they usually try and slam on the brakes because they don't want to give it all away right away and want to have some leverage and really give it their all. Sadly, you can over-impress a girl and lose your opportunity for a one night stand. Overcoming LMR … | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:45 AM |
| 2 | I'm making progress...Excellent work mate. Keep approaching and harvesting numbers/contacts so that you always have an attitude of abundance. Also, just ignore her for 5-10 days and call/txt her acting as if nothing had happened. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:37 AM |
| 3 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?Game goes a lot further than some bullshit book you can find on the shelves at your local Chapters or Barnes & Noble. That's one avenue, and it does cover some responsible basics like the stuff Bobsutan mentions in his other comment (hygene, a goal, matching socks), but Game applies everywhere. If you're an evolved mammal with a brain, then you're operating in social dynamics, and if you're operating in social dynamics, there are certain behaviors, traits, and attitudes that are either going to … | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 06:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Failed to remember one of Seddit's lessons, paid the price.Go with the flow. Nothing wrong with a mean amount of drink in you. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 05:31 AM |
| 102 | I hate "The Game" but (seemingly) have to play it to get what I want. Any advice?This is easy bro. I've been running 'game' for a few years now, and by far my favourite aspect of knowing what to do is that you can pretty much control (manipulate?) whatever outcome you desire. You want an LTR. No problem. The amazing thing about biology/nature is that it does most of the work for us, if we're willing to let mother nature take care of it and not try to fuck it up with our own preconceived ideas about what we think needs to be done/not done. There are going to be two key compon… | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Chick coming over tomorrow morning for day drinking. What to do?Bang. | /r/seduction | 05/09/11 04:48 AM |
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