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Yes, I've heard this too. Is there a statistic somewhere out there about the percentage of pre-nups that don't hold up in court?
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/22 03:17 PM
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Thank you for this insightful response
/r/TheRedPill21/10/21 09:01 PM
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You had a coward father who didn't teach you what was right and wrong, so you created a better one for yourself. Can someone provide an explanation/opinion on the psychology of the father in the reported situation?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/21 06:15 PM
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Certainly not his ex-wife who would have taken half his net worth, drained him of his resources through alimony and child support, and lead him to said death bed.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 12:47 AM
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A very strong indicator of LVF is if she is controlling or jealous. If the woman is restricting you from socializing with friends, family, coworkers, and even strangers, it's often driven by her internal insecurities. If she has little to offer you in terms of value to your life, she will often attempt to command your attention by cutting your social ties with the people in your circle. What she doesn't understand is that a large part of her attraction to you was a result of your social proof, a…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 08:16 PM
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Where's the rest of this?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/20 11:33 PM
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So the dating in Vietnam has traditional values in this modern era?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 12:38 AM
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You'll find out if you read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 04:59 PM
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What does objectification have to do with this post? Your comment is off-topic.
/r/MensRights16/05/20 01:10 AM
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She shouldn't have gotten married if she wasn't ready to face the consequences. This is what is said to men when they are forced to pay alimony, or child support. Where are you when that happens to men?
/r/MensRights10/04/20 10:09 PM
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She shouldn't have gotten married if she wasn't ready to face the consequences.
/r/MensRights10/04/20 08:22 PM
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Some states hold a "no-fault divorce" policy, implying that the reason for the divorce is irrelevant. You should read up on that.
/r/MensRights10/04/20 08:20 PM
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Good on you for realizing it. Best of luck to you
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 05:47 PM
3

Oh shit another good point.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 05:10 PM
3

Oh shit. I didn't even think of that. Good looking out. Is there potential for litigation though?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 05:08 PM
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Some people learn through humor, and she's funny. I think it's a net positive. Also, it bears mentioning that she has/had a penis.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:01 PM
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Fair enough. I agree.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:32 PM
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That's a good honest answer. In that same token, I wonder how Asian males will fair in the South American countries. Any opinion?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:20 PM
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Same tips but for shorter Asian guys?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:04 PM
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She wants closure. But while that may sound innocent enough, what that means is she desires a story to tell her friends so that they can complain about it, blame you for being judgmental, hate on you, then absolve herself from any wrongdoing (at the advice and support of her social circle). While it may seem honorable to grant her the gift of closure, the end result is a woman who dodged any responsibility from reflecting upon her actions and thus dismantling any opportunity for her to grow as a…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:16 AM
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Long term, women will realize that less and less men will marry, so in order to circumvent this system, women will advocate increases on taxes specifically allocated to subsidize their lives; and they'll do it under the guise of freedom from oppression. Let's face it. System's rigged with no end in sight.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 12:59 AM
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A hivemind of sociopathic, solipsistic women who advocate for their own well-being with no regard to the consequences; and a society that eagerly hands them everything they ever asked for at the slightest whim or complaint? No, I don't feel too choked up about it. And what do you mean by "too late?" If ever the modern feminist were to realize that her own choices led her to an undesirable place in her life, the commonly accepted tactic is to complain about it, blame it on someone/something else,…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 06:58 PM
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If she likes rougher sex, you can fuck her a little harder than normal. If it's missionary, hold her wrists down with a little pressure to restrain her; it doesn't have to be violent, and if she wants to get up or move then let her. You can even use one hand to hold both her wrists above her head, and use your free hand however you want. Her words are confusing, but she probably doesn't actually want to be raped. She just wants more passion in the lovin', and I wouldn't recommend asking her abou…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 10:11 PM
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In the perspective of not the OP, but of someone else other than the OP, who is looking for more plates: she's now fucking a baldheaded, overweight guy with shitty style and a face straight out of ww2 anti-slav propaganda. You or I could be that guy. So yeah. It's a good question because I want to know the pattern too. Is that overweight, baldheaded guy RP? Is she branch-swinging to someone with more perceived SMV? Or does that principle even apply in this situation? As OP stated, she got option…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:29 PM
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Yeah, but this is a good question, for those guys who want to be the rebound. ​
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:07 PM
1

Post links to literature please?
/r/askTRP20/03/19 04:48 PM
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How much in savings? What was your educational/skills background? What's your current job?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 09:20 PM
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wtf?
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:29 AM
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Lucky fuckin' bastard hah
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:06 AM
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Dude. How are you South Asian AND 6' 3"?! Not doubting you, just incredibly amazed by the statistical improbability.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 11:04 PM
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Am sad :(
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:34 PM
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It is indeed hard to do both. But yes, it is learned through time and experience.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 03:42 AM
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My only hope is that trp.red will be as accessible to men who want to improve themselves as much as theredpill subreddit was.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:41 PM
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Compliments are a good way to start small talk.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:54 PM
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You're right! I can upvote this post right now!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 01:52 AM
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Awwwww yeah boiiiiii This is more of a field report than a legit question.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 10:31 PM
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Masturbation while standing became difficult after streaming video became more popular. ​
/r/askTRP24/10/18 04:19 PM
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Sounds fair to me.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 06:12 PM
1

Great!
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:11 PM
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Say yes.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:56 PM
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I'm curious as to the things she has said. Care to provide examples?
/r/askTRP21/09/18 06:16 PM
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Can you explain a little more?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 02:50 AM
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Replace "nice" with "compliant." Suddenly things make sense.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 10:23 PM
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Improving your finances makes you a better man. This post belongs here.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:57 PM
2

Maybe smile more to appear more approachable and less threatening.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:55 PM
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r/MurderedByWords
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:13 PM
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Yes, I agree completely. Those insecurities are unfounded, although perhaps not completely irrational. It's reasonable that people change, and that comes with a change in attitude, and sometimes also a change in friends. It sounds as if in order to keep your old friends, you may adopt a strategy to be considerate that those insecurities might exist. Or, as all the other red-piller comments would suggest, take this as an opportunity to create a new social network that values your upward growth. A…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:44 AM
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Some might be jealous for sure, but maybe some might feel self conscious about your sudden success and associate it with a change in your lifestyle that may affect them negatively. For example, they might be thinking, "If Iceberg112 is making more money now and is more attractive looking, is he going to start talking down to me when I hang out with him?"
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:09 PM
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Fandangling
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:26 AM
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A lot of the other advice on this post is going to be: "Read the sidebar," "Go lift," and "Don't be a bitch." All that stuff is true, and in addition to all that, here are some supplementary perspectives. 43% of US children live without their father [US Department of Census] Your situation is not special because nearly half of men experience similar upbringings, and must overcome the same challenges that you face. This means the solution to your problem is by no means rare or uncommon, and is mo…
/r/askTRP10/07/18 06:00 PM
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Can you go into more detail about what things in your life that you feel like you're lacking?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:33 PM
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I wouldn't say "tons," though I understand the tone of your message.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 05:55 PM
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While I wish that I could help you substantiate your theory, I only have this piece of evidence to disprove it. In his interview with Joe Rogan, Jordan Peterson explains how female humans differ from females of other species in the primate genus, in that they are particularly selective in the choosing of their breeding partners. His specific example is that of chimpanzees, and how female chimpanzees are more than willing to mate with subordinate males given the opportunity, but such an occasion …
/r/askTRP24/05/18 12:49 AM
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Keep fucking her until she gets stretched out. Then she won't be the best pussy you've ever had; it'll just be average pussy. Then it's time to go out and get new pussy.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:46 PM
2

It's like throwing a hotdog into a hallway.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:39 PM
1

The point of a shit test is to test your frame. If you answer her question the way that she asks it, you are compromising your frame by entering hers. If you feel that this is a shit test, the answer should be: "Who cares? My hair is better than yours anyways." Smile like it's a joke and don't actually answer the question.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 04:31 PM
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Sounds like you got a good plan going!
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:44 PM
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What worked for me was to change my diet and sleep habits. Get some exercise in every day, even a 10 minute walk outside helps. The weed and the porn isn't bad, but instead of jumping straight to it when the urge arises, use it as a self-reward for practicing good habits. Happiness is progress. Even though you may not feel like your life is on track at the moment, every little step in the right direction brings you closer to a better tomorrow.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:59 PM
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Document the incident and send it to HR, but request that no action be taken at the moment. Document all incidents in this manner, until it escalates to a tipping point. Detach yourself from the potential of personal liability by being honest with HR in case he decides to incites workplace drama/violence and then tries to shift the blame onto you. Otherwise, distance yourself from him and don't let his bullshit bother you. Focus on your work and carry on as usual.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:46 PM
1

Make some soap.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:29 PM
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Sounds like she wants attention.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 05:14 PM
1

If she's changed her mind and decided to date you without her friends, then I don't see a problem. That may be a sign that she has changed her view of you, but I wouldn't invest much emotional attachment to interactions with her. You did the right thing by making your intentions clear, and I would move forward with her only if they are on your terms; don't compromise. Otherwise, keep chatting up other girls. Keep it up, red pill.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 09:12 PM
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Kendrick Lamar is 5' 6".
/r/askTRP20/11/17 07:42 PM
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