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Had a very similar revelation recently brought on by a picture on the cover of a queens of the stone age album. Yes women dont make sense logically a lot of the time but we wouldnt love them if they did. The polarity of the sexes is what gives you that energy and its a beautiful energy.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 07:53 PM
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This is precisely what TRP is about great in depth post looking at a really interesting way of using philosophy to solve the problems a lot of men have. Great work and I think seeing more stuff like this and fewer unreferenced and ungrounded posts would make this place even better
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:19 PM
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yeah man obviously mabye not your best performance but thats no reason not to enjoy the night! Sounds like you did some stuff right, such as leadership frame and staying open to the experience which while its not super technical is pretty good general game. Keep it up and continue the momentum great FR!
/r/seduction24/07/14 01:05 AM
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yeah big difference between high school and adult game i found was that some girls have busier schedules. Thus if they aren't super interested then they will flake on you for work etc. some people have good enough game that girls will be obsessed over them but im not really there yet. Don't take it personally, be patient and personally i think its better if you talk to more than one person at a time whereas thats a scumbag move in high school.
/r/seduction10/01/14 08:36 AM
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I believe in experiencing the full range of emotion. It is a core principle of mine htat a man must constantly seek to improve himself and throught this evolution he becomes a different and hopefully subjectively stonger version of himself in his own eyes. Consequently I started off applying TRP religiously but now i am more natural and I dip in and out sometimes using techniques from here to be the "bad boy narcissistic alpha" and sometimes making stuff up which results in instances where I do …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 02:53 PM
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I thought hip to waist ratio also played an important part in this and not just slimmer waists? obviously lower WHP is more attractive so slimmer women have lower WHPs and that makes them more attractive also important to remember cued interests! some guys are just into fat chicks personally i think "supermodel" skinny is not ideal but i wouldnt not whereas girls that are too overwieght are an absolute 0. source: http://psycnet.apa.org/journals/psp/65/2/293/
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 07:56 PM
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this sub is supposed to be about pickup but pickup is such a diverse and changing field with many ideologies so if you dont want to use the HB scale then thats fine. I personally find it quite usefulin assessing the difficulty of an interaction and consequently I keep using it but you do make a valid point when you say that its unquantifiable to that I think the answer should be that all of Pickup is subjective and so is attraction obviously we all have the same generic vectors such as youth and…
/r/seduction28/08/13 09:35 AM
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read the sex god method by daniel rose sexual arousal for women is much more about physchological arousal than physical technique and this book helped me get my head around it. Link
/r/seduction25/08/13 06:55 PM
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you cant just breed us hahahaha definitely say this
/r/seduction19/08/13 06:44 PM
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so does this mean any thirteen year old kid can choose to be a girl just to see other girls getting changed?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/13 01:05 AM
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sweet i think im gonna check that out after the game of thrones books
/r/becomeaman02/07/13 01:24 PM
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i live in glasgow but im away in france all summer
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 02:58 PM
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woop go scotland whereabouts in scotland you from man?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 10:19 PM
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erm actually my religion does not believe in commas we think they are a tool used by the devil to lure good men astray when i typed it i put them all in a vertical list but i guess the formatting fucked up haha you get the point though
/r/seduction30/06/13 01:38 PM
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i think dates should have movement to them as a general rule and i prefer it if there is an activity or something to do or see which sparks conversations good date ideas for me obviously adjust to suit the individual walk in the park rock climbing go karting drinks rowing( i do this a lot so its a pretty unique circumstance to be able to take a girl out in a boat definitely not something you do on a first date) museums or art galleries etc examples of bad date ideas in my opinion sitting down fo…
/r/seduction28/06/13 11:23 PM
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i was gonna say the exact same thing
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 11:18 PM
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hahaha
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 10:18 PM
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see all of the stuff you just said was a heavily distorted interpretation of her blog probably due to the fact that you yourself have a decent knowledge of social dynamics and game. Articles which have blue pill examples on this dont usually bother me but this one is poison and i feel like if more guys read and take action on stuff like this it is really gonna make the world a worse place
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 06:47 PM
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which parts did you think were decent?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:50 AM
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i think as shes said shes read the game and does have a couple of decent insights but the overwhelming majority of her advice and the overarching theme and message of it is basically that attraction is a mysterious and weird unexplainable thing that you have no power of which is a terrible philosophy to have if you want to take action and improve yourself. Yes she has legitimate game sprinkled in there but most of it is absolutely terrible and would really hurt if someone was to take it seriousl…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/13 11:49 AM
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Yeah he takes the leader frame very early on and doesnt really let it go, in addition to this he shows total abundance mentality and outcome independence when they try to criticise his appearance. He then DHVs by actually seriously explaining his show in a very short time using impressive vocabulary but in a genuine way he doesnt try to fit in big words he just prefers to explain it as such. Finally he then sort of negs the whole set by calling them out on not doing their job and then doing it f…
/r/seduction18/06/13 11:40 AM
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this is an incredible essay which encapsulates exactly what it is that i enjoy about game :D
/r/seduction17/06/13 02:09 AM
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haha ive just realised how true this is doesnt matter whether youre maxing out on deadlifts or studying for an exam you have to go all the way
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 11:01 AM
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well i highly doubt this is the case if he doesnt ever approach at night let alone in a coffee shop plus what works for him might not neccessarily work for you if you are having fun and enjoying yourself then by all means go for it but if not then reevaluate what you are doing.
/r/seduction15/06/13 11:10 AM
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yeah man and having an attitude like that will definitely help you especially if you stay open minded, you read everything and absorb what is useful and then you go out a lot to practice this stuff as for this specific interaction who knows she might have had a boyfriend or it was her time of the month or shes a lesbian or a million different things which could have happened regardless of how your game was so stick at it and keep a positive frame on this situation and i cannot stress how importa…
/r/seduction15/06/13 11:04 AM
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you may want to consider finding another group to go out with?
/r/seduction15/06/13 10:59 AM
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Nah you need to approach as much as you possibly can
/r/seduction15/06/13 10:55 AM
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tell me how you approached what your kino escalation was like did she drop IOIs is there a specific lesson you think you learned from this I dont think anyone ever reaches the top of their game, especially someone who titles their post "New to the game, need help" theres always something new to learn and another experience to have dont be so serious about it and have more fun with it.
/r/seduction15/06/13 10:53 AM
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ohh i love that film its so fucking beautiful when he says he never left anything for the swim back? beautiful line beautiful theme incredible movie
/r/TheRedPill15/06/13 10:46 AM
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you didnt give any clear details of the interaction so its difficult to judge what you did wrong I would say in general dont think about game as a means of getting one specific woman rather as a means of improving yourself to the point that girls will find you more attractive so start working out read some books read all the sidebarred content here and find some routines or outer game that you can use. either that or youre a troll who can piss aff
/r/seduction15/06/13 10:37 AM
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In addition to what everyone else is saying id add that since as a man we get to choose who interact with by approaching then youre physique and being muscular is something you should do for yourself and not to attract a certain type of girl. If you waanna choose a certain type of girl then start appraoching in bookshops as opposed to clubs or vice versa
/r/seduction14/06/13 08:47 PM
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i sometimes think about how it was that i discovered seddit and evolutionary phsychology and the fundamentals of attraction i cant really pinpoint a moment but i know it was around the end of 2012 and yeah i think about what it would be like to still have my old dating strategy of liking one girl and then never approaching haha
/r/seduction12/06/13 04:18 PM
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dude dont thinka bout what you did wrong too much think about what you learned from this it sounds like you had an experience and i think itll be positive for you in the long run just remember this and write it down so you wont let it happen again. Id invite you to reframe mabye send her a text along the lines of "well i tend to move heaven and hell for girls while im scoring" or something like that but just move onwards and forwards you cant win them all!
/r/seduction12/06/13 04:15 PM
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dont listen to what she says listen to what she does and youll get more sure of the actual meaning
/r/seduction09/06/13 06:31 PM
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i dunno say something like well i only have a pair of twos but i know when to fold and when to hold
/r/seduction09/06/13 06:30 PM
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great answer thanks for all the advice
/r/seduction09/06/13 06:25 PM
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i loved your post on logistics and i really think that this is my main issue i.e. living with my parents and not having a place to bring girls back to but on this note then whats the weirdest place youve ever had sex with a girl?
/r/seduction08/06/13 11:16 PM
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from a scientific point of view its to do with the social conditioning and validation people get when they feel desired especially women. The reason it makes you stand out to not give them that validation is that they are used to recieving it so when you withold that from them you demonstrate a lack of demand for what they have. This then stops them from being overconfident when you do approach it works on the same principle as a neg its used to equalise the women to you yes you both find each o…
/r/seduction08/06/13 12:27 PM
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complimenting strangers helps you build confidence in approaching
/r/seduction07/06/13 03:05 PM
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yeah i think it depends on the type of woman i think it can be that they are looking for attention or orbiters but it can also be that they are trying to find rational interesting friends and they tend to find that in males also it can happen because of shared interests etc and they dont find the things that girls talk about to be very interesting in the end it can sometimes be a red flag but ive found that they are usually quite good people and enjoyable friends to have
/r/TheRedPill03/06/13 07:09 PM
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yeah people arent but my point was that if men want to maximise their utility( i.e. have the best possible life they can) they would and should not support feminism at all
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 12:35 AM
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the only other point to make here is that logically there is no reason why any man should ever support feminism if he is a rational economic agent unsubject to heuristics and biases
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 12:50 AM
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it depends on what you mean by treated equally, if you mean given the same oppurtunities to succeed and basic human rights then yeah its a great idea. If you mean being forced to illogically have to do everything men do even when its obviously not appropriate or men being constrained from fully achieving their potential due to biological differences between the two sexes and rules being set in order to make things "fair" then its obviously not the best of ideas. I believe in best utilising the n…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 12:36 AM
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im sorry if people slate you for having this point of view on this sub or if you are a troll with nothing better to do. If this is a genuine comment I would say firstly that feminism is a broad brush stroke of a term which encompasses a vast array of differing viewpoints just as Islam, Christianity and TRP are however all of feminism does have certain things in common. The problem I have with Feminism is that its main focus is to make women get treated better it doesnt have an agenda for "equali…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 12:19 AM
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haha true after explaining some social dynamics, economics and sexual phsychology to a feminist during a discourse she simply retorted with "yeah but i think were past that" the exact reason why some feminists will as you say go their whole lives not admitting they are wrong
/r/TheRedPill25/05/13 06:29 PM
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i think everyone can take at least a little piece from the philosophy and science behind game
/r/seduction12/05/13 04:48 PM
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i think youre practicing game for the wrong reason it should be fun not stressfull
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:33 PM
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I dunno seddit always explained the importance of body language and NVC i like yourself have done my own research into it and it is super fun to read people with a girl. Sidenote i usually lie about what i study to be something along the lines of "cetecean behavioural specialist" (dolphin trainer) and then i work in how dolphins are just like people and talk about body language, then phsychology, run the cube etc
/r/seduction11/05/13 08:32 PM
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I think redpill works because of the sexual phsychology of the majority of women and i think there is a lot more to "game" than just being an asshole version of yourself. As others have said its a balance betwwen push and pull which gives good results. I dont think you need to act bluepill to be in a relationship or play "the nice guy" you just have to understand that if you want a relationship then you are working against nature and youre gonna have to condition yourself out of the need to slee…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 01:51 PM
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this is what pickup is about having fun and doing whacky shit that most guys wont because "its not normal" or "im embarassed" im sure everyone else is giving technical advice so ill just say this what he did right is that hes living life to the full haha.
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:53 PM
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yeah the outcome independence is essential and it works both ways you obviously dealt with rejection correctly but be wary of success inflating your ego. My invitation to you is this, try to not be happy because you got an f close or number close or whatever but instead pat yourself on the back because you attempted it and opened a lot of sets that night. Good Luck and keep going!
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:46 PM
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I think my education in this will always be happening and i dont think it will ever end. I want to still be on my deathbed with shit left to tweak etc
/r/seduction09/05/13 06:39 PM
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i think that is incredibly difficult to get to because if he was the guy that you think you want i.e. the one that would make you feel comfortable then you wouldnt be as attracted to him and you might end up leaving him. My invitation to you is this, read some evolutionary phsychology specifically things about r/k ratio and mate selection or vectors of attractiveness, a lot of the sidebarred content will also be helpful and hopefully youll learn what I have from TRP which is that monogamy is not…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 10:36 PM
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yeah women need to be mentally attracted to someone as well as physically attracted to have sex with them whereas men will copulate with anything that even looks like a female. This obviously very useful trait for our evolution is what makes men and women different in this respect.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 06:13 PM
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"truth doesnt have emotion" beautiful quote
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 06:09 PM
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This is exactly my viewpoint on TRP ideology it gets a lot of hate and criticism like a lot of other viewpoints however as long as I continue to see it happening and it helps me best maximise my utility why would i not believe in it?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 05:55 PM
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yeah id suggest that you take some time to look at the situation objectively, you find the guy attractive and he obviously finds you attractive if hes banging you. If you want it to be exclusive and he doesnt then you need to move on because theres no point in continuing to try and get him to qualify when he keeps passing your shit test since he has good game. If he does want to be exclusive then he wont have sex with other women and this is just gonna be how your relationship goes, the fact tha…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 10:48 AM
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hahahaha good to know
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:50 PM
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bad and good are just subjective ideas which differ from person to person of course to them we are "bad" and to us we are "good" personally redpill ideology helps me best maximise my utility( i get what i want most from life) so Im gonna continue to follow it, thats all i really think matters when choosing what to believe in.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 10:27 PM
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yeah youre totally right training is everything for me and youre totally right i need to sort my diet and start trying harder to hit my macros for protein etc but i dont train for mass because I row crew and I have to pull every pound along so its mostly strength i have been doing and endurance as well but i am fairly big and tall and i have no problems in terms of seduction because of my looks or physique. I just enjoy sharing ideas and learning what others do thats all :D
/r/seduction02/05/13 10:18 PM
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yeah i know and its about 1.5g/kg and about 0.7g per pound and i have been lifting for a couple of years i was just asking what type of hypertrophy program he was using. For example I am not training for mass and using a 5 day split on 5x5 workout thats what i was looking for not just the general idea of working out but i appreciate the help anyway :D
/r/seduction02/05/13 09:01 AM
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this might be bad advice because i think the idea behind not pushing with text is that you know she doesnt want to engage with you and pushing further increases your sunk costs. it also makes you seem a bit needy and i dunno why id be spending time out of my day to send that text instead of opening a nice hn7 i see walking down the street. If I'm too busy looking down at my phone ill miss out on the opurtunities around me.
/r/seduction02/05/13 12:02 AM
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focus be mindful of your surroundings try to be all sherlock holmes and try to work out details, be present and enjoy the moment. Tomorrow meditate on the idea of a flowing river and how you will channel energy the same way it channels water, then when you start to feel self concious think again of the water flowing through and how this is you in the conversation, also you may start to piss more often
/r/seduction01/05/13 11:58 PM
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sexism isnt really sexy to some people im sure but keeping the leader frame is important women in general are attracted to alpha guys who take charge of the situation
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:44 PM
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sometimes getting the number etc is not about actually hooking up with the girl but useful training to increase confidence and gain experience. Its all about the process not the outcome
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:35 PM
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" I saw you looking at my arms, I caught you looking" absolute gold
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:31 PM
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see the body language corrected posture power stance the training and slickness and most of all the balls. this guy is the real deal. I am also impressed with his mass and form in terms of fitness what sort of training program do you use?
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:31 PM
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I would not even mention im an OB/GYN till i was using my knowledge of the female anatomy when f closing. Usually even when directly asked what to do good technique would say to play off the question or say something ridiculous and made up like im a treasure hunter because its more fun. You shouldnt need to use your money or job to get with women because you have game which includes looking good being confident having that badass don draper stature, the money and knowledge of her erogenous zones…
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:14 PM
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i think you care too much about the results and note nough about the process you may still be a virgin but if youre having fun and enjoying yourself then it doesnt really matter thats what youre doing wrong is that youre using game and seduction to find self justification which when you dont get results just makes you depressed leading to you being sad and boring which makes you not get laid and so a vicious circle emerges. Try to be more thankful for what you have and live in the moment go righ…
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:05 PM
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using game to replace a stolen bottle of wine for free at our table during an awards ceremony.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:16 PM
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its not even that you "dont" care what she thinks its that you wont even need to. Because once you really get out there you will realise that every girl is unique special etc and you can fall in love with anyone if you try hard enough. Then you just pick the best ones ;)
/r/seduction27/04/13 05:21 PM
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i saw an FR where a guy handled this by bringing another female friend who sort of into him along and it totally worked out. I would definitely not have walked into the friend zone like that I do think having female friends is incredibly useful but not when they pressure you into it like that. I mean how is this German HB going to pivot you when she doesnt respect you enough to go on a date with you herself? In my opinion people who do this are toxic and I wouldnt want a girl like that in my fri…
/r/seduction21/04/13 10:58 AM
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dont go to a club? seriously if you approach the situation with the attitude fo not liking it youre framing yourself to have a bad time. Not just with HBs but actually in general. Instead try to tell yourself youre going out to somewhere new and even though you may not know what it holds you are going to have fun anyways because you are discovering something. personally i dont drink and i prefer conversation so clubs arent my strongest environment but i still dance have a ball and open a few set…
/r/seduction20/04/13 08:07 PM
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mabye you just need to take a step back its like ok i cant really flirt with single approachable girls how about i try complimenting them. Ok I cant compliment them mabye try saying hi. Ok i cant say hi but i can keep eye contact. Take small steps to increase your confidence gradually and eventually you will not even give a fuck about f closing because youve done it so often it becomes natural. Try to get out more and practice opening sets of girls you dont know at all i think the problem isnt r…
/r/seduction20/04/13 07:58 PM
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a very interesting viewpoint which was pretty well explained for the most part i think both redpill theory and what you have said about people being individuals are true to an extent and its up to everyone to decide how they will approach life to best maximise their utility with the information they have. Id like to see more posts like this talking about alternative viewpoints.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 04:56 PM
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i saw a chael sonnen speech up here about how action is what really matters not emotions. She can say whatever the fuck she wants and you can too but in the end all that matters is the actions you take.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 05:34 PM
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openers arent about what you say they are about what you convey. If you want to skip the small talk then you need to cut straight to something serious although i dunno i quite like small talk i think it helps to build rapport etc. However its important to make sure you escalate and bring in sexual stuff in a joking way. To answer your question then i guess id say you need to just use normal conversation but cut to serious issues, deep politics and philosiphy "whats your main goal in life?" "what…
/r/seduction13/04/13 11:08 PM
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Try some shock and awe direct openers? mabye like try making out with them or just super direct day game? this might not be a good idea since you could get fired from your job if you get a lot of complaints. mabye a good idea would be to do a quick opener or a joke and then go for the number close and set up a day 2?
/r/seduction11/04/13 07:20 PM
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Yes please more of this type of post
/r/seduction08/04/13 12:21 PM
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meditate on the idea of 7 billion. There are way too many people in the world to give a shit about what one of them thinks.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/13 04:51 PM
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everyone is giving some really good emotional advice so ill just list a few practical things. Spend more time opening sets go out to different place maybe you don't enjoy bars or clubs maybe you prefer a pool hall or the circus or a live action interactive play find what works for you try calling girls you number close or change how you take girls on first dates, it shouldnt be dinner always try do something different and interesting with movement: go on a walk, go horseriding, mabye even take a…
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:15 PM
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dont get too drunk in fact i dont usually drink at all, meet everyone to begin with open some all guy sets and make some friends parties are all about your social proof and if everyone thinks youre just trying to get into girls you look seedy but if you go out to have fun and youre the fun party guy people will want to hook up with you more. Also its important to be outcome independent. Just because you pull doesnt mean you did well that night and even if you didnt get any k closes it could stil…
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:05 PM
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this was written by a lesbian. And as a redpiller i hope you appreciate what a real life lesbian actually looks like.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/13 04:35 PM
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who want a hug goodnight, but not a kiss; who are excited about kissing, but uncomfortable with petting; who are enthusiastic about making out, but aren’t ready for sex. this from the same type of women who want to be passionately swept off their feet and taken. Im sure it would be really sexy for them to tell a guy exactly what they want and have him do it
/r/TheRedPill05/04/13 04:32 PM
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i dont think its so much about treating her like shit more like just not being fucking weak and letting her hae everything she wants for nothing. Taking the redpill makes you strong not an asshole and while there can be a lot of overlap you choose how you live your life and what moral boundaires you set yourself. after all that is the ultimate goal of being redpill, to be free from what society says is right or wrong.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/13 04:21 PM
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depends on how many he has to start with
/r/seduction05/04/13 12:18 AM
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apocalypse opener has worked for me before, direct game and direct openers are fun but there is a time and place for them you have to use them in a shock and awe fashion going balls to the wall and the rest of your body languade kino etc all has to be congruent. For example with the apocalypse opener when you deliver the "Do you want to come back to my place line" it has to be totally deadbeat neutral body language no kino strong eye contact and deadpan delivery so that you convey that you dont …
/r/seduction05/04/13 12:17 AM
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what a lot of guys seem to misunderstand is how women are attracted to men. For us guys its all about the physical if they look young and have big butts and boobies then thats all we need. For girls being attractive is way more than just the physical appearance sue it plays a large part but loads of other stuff comes into it too. Tone of voice, body language, being a leader, being well dressed, having money. Dont just work on your looks or damn yourself out of every girl because you werent the l…
/r/seduction04/04/13 08:39 PM
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good job man next time go for the number and try set up a day2 little steps will make you get better and better.
/r/seduction04/04/13 08:34 PM
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also begin self improvement for the right reasons not to attract girls but to achieve self actualisation. we lift weights to get stronger not to have muscles that impress girls, we dress well to present ourselves in a smart and together fashion not to impress girls. And we open sets and learn game to have more fun and be confident not to become more entertaining. to others.
/r/seduction04/04/13 08:28 PM
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read the sidebar, one of the first things i did to gain abundance mentality was to meditate on the idea of 7 billion. Such a large number, so many people and eventually i came to understand that no matter how long i went out or how often i sarged i could never meet them all or even come close! So dont waste your time on one girl who doesnt like you instead get out there and meet all the girls you can one of them is bound to be attracted to you.
/r/seduction04/04/13 08:23 PM
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yeah i think that its not always the goal to be the alpha but moer to be an alpha. In this way i can exercise being redpill in the context of becoming the strongest version of myself and not constantly assessing myself against others.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 08:21 PM
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this is such bullshit, there can be no justice in a land which does not accept equality.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 08:17 PM
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I like the part when they say they want men in their lives simply to have them not because they need them. I mean what guy is going to go for that? and the guys that will are all such pussies that those women would never even feel slightly turned on. If this shit had happened earlier humanity would be totally extinct by now.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/13 08:16 PM
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hold the eye contact and smile mabye raise your eyebrow and if they even 50% balls they will approach
/r/seduction04/04/13 08:07 PM
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like i said the best thing to do would be to move on, but if youre looking for the best play in this situation its to listen to her about the boyfriend not in a gay best friend way just be completely unphased when she talks about him and move on the conversation when shes done. But once again it is my experience that if i dont frame it romantically early on and quickly pull the trigger she loses all attraction to me so im not sure how well it will work if you have to wait around.
/r/seduction03/04/13 08:54 PM
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i dont generally go after girls who have boyfriends but if she is using it as a shit test i ask her about him whether she'll marry him etc. I think youre getting slightly oneitisy though if youre going after an HB even though she has a bf move one there are plenty other sets of hot single girls to open so id leave this one out if you know that she has a boyfriend and isnt just using it as a shit test.
/r/seduction03/04/13 08:12 PM
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i have already read the sidebar and if you read my comment i do agree that the majority of women do have negative value to men especially westernised women. So i wasnt trying to disprove what he said just offering a different point of view that came to me i mean is that not what separates us from the bitching feminazi hamster who doesnt stop to consider other arguments except what she sees or reads in front of her. Be less ignorant and youll learn a lot more dude
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 03:15 AM
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well the reason id say that women are better at that is because naturally they are more emotionally expressive and their brains are geared towards being better at raising children etc that's just evolutionary phsychology. Im sure there are men better than women at those things just like there are female bodybuilders and powerlifters wholl be able to lift much more than id ever want to but on the whole we are obviously different and consequently should play to our strengths.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 03:13 AM
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i think everyone thinks i am some fucking white knight dick sucking omega cunt i was just pointing out a different point of view is that such a fucking horrible thing to do. I understand your point and I guess its just a difference of opinion for me human value is the intrinsic value that we have of course if you want to justify it in the way that saying men are only valuable for their penises then i guess you are right and it depends on how you want to percieve the real world around us.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 03:10 AM
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a very coherent argument man good job your definitely showing everyone how much better we are than those ridiculous illogical SRS retards
/r/TheRedPill28/03/13 03:06 AM
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What about a female doctor who resuscitates you? I do agree that a LOT of women have negative value in your life and i think thats the main reason im avoiding LTRs in favour of FWBs for the moment. As a redpiller though I will accept that understanding how the world really works is very important and i think there are some instances in which a women is better at a certain job than men, such as childcare, nursing, fashion etc so in this way i believe if a woman wants to she can have value. Unfort…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/13 04:01 PM
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also if even one of your ancestors got oneitis over a chick and it didnt work out then you wouldnt be here right now so you owe it to future generations to move on
/r/seduction27/03/13 03:39 PM
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understanding that there are 3.5 billion women in the world and tht somewhere out there is one who looks talks and fucks exactly the same as the girl your crushing on. No one is special. I think theres actually a verse in the quran mentioning that god made 8 of every person or something along those lines and so if i ever feel myself getting disappointed or jealous over one girl then I just try to remind myself of that.
/r/seduction27/03/13 03:38 PM
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i think its around 10% the rest being NVC, kino, tone and appearance
/r/seduction25/03/13 10:07 PM
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The ladder should be considered more a suggestion of basic technique than a set of rigid rock hard rules you have to follow to the letter there is a lot of physchological evidence which confirms that different parts work in turning on a girl (for example the stomach to stomach contact is pretty legit) but nothing is less sexy than having to check off a list of shit youre doing in your head. Men like to rationalise and quantify things because we are logical women want passion and spontaneousness …
/r/seduction25/03/13 10:01 PM
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now alfred on the other hand he definitely fucked some batbitches
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:02 AM
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dude bruce wayne had 0 game he totally got oneitis for rachel in the nolan movies and even though his social proof is through the roof he only f closed once in three movies?
/r/seduction21/03/13 12:45 AM
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hahaha this is exactly what happened to me when i got my black belt id been doing taekwondo for about five or six years but the moment they hang a symbolic piece of cloth around my waist everyone suddenly thinks im a badass or a ninja or some shit. I agree though that the confidence it gives you and the recognition you get are very helpful in attracting women
/r/seduction21/03/13 12:25 AM
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a little cockiness might help your game but dont pick fights as lao tzu says in the tao te ching "weapons are the tools of the foolish man a wise man does not use them and when he does he does so with complete restraint and a heavy heart"
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:31 PM
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Read the sidebarred content about shit tests. Youve not really given an example of a specific interactionso its difficult to see what youre doing wrong but I would give the general advice that you should be very confident in yourself before approaching take up a hobby or start boxing these things will make you feel almost better than everyone else and so you wont need to qualify yourself. Also always keep abundance mentality next time you feel yourself qualifying yourself to a girl just stop and…
/r/seduction20/03/13 09:11 AM
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well you are a boss and its important you recognise that dude :D
/r/TheRedPill20/03/13 09:06 AM
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thats good that youre doing all that start with some basicatuff read a couple of books on game id recommend the game by neil strauss its a fairly widely used text and i found it a good starting point. Just try to think of getting girls as a game it really doesnt matter and thats why you should always go for it. So what if a girl rejects you? youre still a badass motherfucker who knows systema (can you do the punch thing where the guy winds you by barely moving his fist btw?) and a guy whos gonna…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/13 11:24 PM
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Id say first of all just take some time to get to know you. It sounds like youve been spending so much time caring for these bitches that you have neglected to invest in yourself. So go travel, read a book learn a martial or do something that improves yourself. When your life has a little more meaning you can begin to change your philosophy there is a lot of good sidebarred content to read here and a few good redpill books you can read that will enlighten you further. Train hard and Grow stronge…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/13 04:35 PM
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what are you not worthy of finding a good girl or something? come on man just because youre a virgin or desperate doesnt mean you need to lower yourself so much i mean if your happy fucking HB4s all day then by all means go and do it but its important to remember that you have value and as such dont take shit from nobody. Be the best version of yourself that you can possibly be every single day and never forget that you have a unique blend of skills and competencies never before seen in the worl…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:30 PM
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exactly you shouldnt define yourself by who you sleep with but it can be important to have some standards i mean #yolo right?
/r/seduction18/03/13 11:56 PM
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yeah most people here have the right idea id also add that meditation and self actualisation can help you cant love other people until you love yourself. In the end its all about just not giving a fuck
/r/seduction18/03/13 05:41 PM
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you might wanna try reading the bhanganavitam or the hindu holy book it has a lot of philosophical points about self actualisation and happiness. meditation will help you feel more relaxed and perhaps get some perspective on life by thinking about those who are less well off than you. In the end you just have to remember that happiness is subjective and comes from within. The commercialised feminized society we live in makes it seem like only other people or having stuff can make you happy but t…
/r/seduction17/03/13 02:07 PM
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this works for not pedestalizing girls but you shouldnt take this to mean "just be yourself" or that you dont neede game or techniques outer game is very important and i would say more important than inner game because it has to actually be learned ande practiced so dont treat them like you would everyone else learn technique and use it to make them attracted to you.
/r/seduction14/03/13 11:49 PM
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if you understand when a girl is shit testing you and realise what and why she is doing... If youve stopped using sex as a method of self validation... If youve realised that attraction is a technical and scientifically understood process which you can build through technique and practice ... If you think feminism is just an attack on all men and an over-correction which is based on circumlocutive thought and irrationality...
/r/TheRedPill13/03/13 11:14 PM
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haha yeah i love the fish analogy whenever i say it to girls im friends with giving me "advice" like just be yourself or whatever they always fail to understand it
/r/seduction12/03/13 05:55 PM
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my main point for this is in the general idea to just always say what you want and not give zero fucks. Its creepy if you make it but if you have rock solid balls and go out and say it then it wont be. So hold that eye contact keep that back straight and just go for it you are a lion :D
/r/seduction11/03/13 08:21 PM
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guys actually dont care in fact they want women that less guys want as long as they are still hot because it means less competition. Women want desired men because it means that another woman has already vetted him and decided he is "good enough"
/r/seduction09/03/13 11:36 AM
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my one sentence would be: "I cant sum it all up in one sentence, its a whole different way of life."
/r/seduction09/03/13 11:33 AM
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its easy to not need to prepare but its not easy to look back on your life and wish youd learned more than you did
/r/seduction07/03/13 05:30 PM
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yeah seddit is a decent starting point and it was through it that i found TRP but i have found that lately the content has been lacking and it seems the mods are not being as active as before. I go on there most days and i dont really think its as bad as you guys think its just a bit basic and could use a little more advanced stuff but what it did do was give me a basic understandign of things like shit tests which i could then go on to research further in sexual phsychology books. If you have g…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/13 11:37 PM
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the cube from neil strauss is another good one and the game where you flick a matchbox is also pretty funny, one i found pretty cool but have yet to properly field test is that you get a pen tell her that there are three mice one thats deaf on thats dumb and one thats blind. Then you draw on her arm telling her its the blind mouse and ask her to say stop whenever she wants. when she says it you stop and then do the same for the dumb mouse but when its the deaf mouse you dont stop because the mou…
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:27 PM
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its just as simple as recognising the fear, thanking it for showing you the way and pushing forward despite what you feel outside. There are a number of challenges you can do such as trying to hi5 people in the street or one that helped me was asking to borrow a cigarette. You just have to realise that no matter how bad it goes when you open a set or how akward it is to talk to someone in half an hour youll have forgotten it and be moving on with your life and youll never see that person again. …
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:09 PM
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you definitely should never rely on alcohol to make you confident that is something that should happen from within you.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:07 PM
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yeah i am still highschool age and its pretty tough i remember there were a whole group of girls i thought were "too attractive" for me its pretty silly. Id say the best thing you can do is use the most valuable commodity you have wisely. Your time. Dont spend it with girls who dont wanna fuck you and are gonna exploit you like you are their bitch. Spend it on yourself get stronger smarter faster better dressed earn more money and study hard to go to a good college. Take up some hobbies that wil…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/13 06:46 PM
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yeah you might not need to get with girls in your friend group and if they have already framed you in a certain way it can be difficult to change this. You havent given an example of an interaction in real detail so its hard to give any solid advice but if youre hanging around these chicks too much and putting them on the pussy pedestal then that wont help your attractiveness. You should also look at bodybuilding or bulking up as this will help your physical appearance and mindset if you can pic…
/r/seduction03/03/13 10:00 PM
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yeah it works only as well as you better yourself from it. Guitar players have confidence rythm creativity and are interesting because they spend their time learning and writing songs instead of watching tv or playing video games. This is what attracts HBs and helps you to DHV not the actual act of playing a guitar. Consequently you can do anything you like that gets you out there. Personally I row and am an avid martial artist and these both help me to DHV because i am exciting and try new thin…
/r/seduction03/03/13 09:56 PM
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cool now get outside and live it bro
/r/seduction03/03/13 06:26 PM
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youre overthinking this and missing the point firstly the target doesnt know how many girls youve kissed so if you convey the "player" attitude youll be fine. Secondly the whole point of this is that you arent answering her question directly like a beta would because you dont need to cater to her shit test, you dont need to honestly answer every question she throws at you you dont give a fuck Hope this helps :D
/r/seduction03/03/13 06:20 PM
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i think in many ways they are one and the same thing we try to understand the way that the world works that we might best maximise our utility
/r/TheRedPill03/03/13 06:18 PM
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how is this philosophy sophistrical at all? the idea is that outcome independence helps you to pull tail because you dont telegraph desperation. It does work and id say you should try it. This is basic female sexual phsychology a man who is confident and alpha enough to not need her for validation is much more attractive
/r/TheRedPill03/03/13 04:00 PM
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why then do a lot of PUAs preach outcome independence and not looking for validation by hooking up with many females. Ive never came across a real PUA who said that if i wasnt getting laid that i was a loser, in fact being a loser is what happens when you take the mindset of not approaching because you are scared so i dont really think your assessment is a valid one and i think you can aim to be both PUA and redpill
/r/TheRedPill03/03/13 01:54 PM
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yeah i read it and i do understand that theres no point highlighting the boring stuff but this FR didnt really explain too much of what happened that was interesting and i did say it only seems like this i mean i wasnt there. My point is that i feel a more constructive FR would have highlighted other aspects of your in field action
/r/seduction03/03/13 01:51 PM
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always agree and amplify if she says are you a virgin you say yeah ive never even kissed a girl they are gross and have cooties or something along those lines
/r/seduction03/03/13 01:23 PM
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yeah i think you might have been reading into these interactions a little too much it seems as if you spent the whole night fending off "chodes" when it might have been better in some cases to relax have a better time or mabye bounce to a different spot?
/r/seduction03/03/13 12:46 AM
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haha well then theyll be your goals too the idea is just that you shouldnt always compare yourself to other people to judge your success its more important in my mind to become the one unique badass that only my individual set of skills and aptitudes can create :D
/r/seduction02/03/13 05:29 PM
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yeah its important to become the best version of yourself not chase after someone elses goals
/r/seduction01/03/13 09:52 AM
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yeah this guy is following the basic idea of agreeing and amplifying which usually works for every shit test in this case there may be better ways to play it off but this should work just fine provided the delivery is reasonable.
/r/seduction28/02/13 11:49 PM
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that is a great line i definitiely will add this to the old repertoire as it was, this is what seddit posts should be more often good job man :D
/r/seduction28/02/13 11:47 PM
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yeah dont worry about this bro i mean yeah you kinda slipped up at the end but it doesnt really matter. Id say just drop her a one line text like: hey hitting up motown tonight at ten, meet you at x text me if you wanna come if she replies and comes then great ! if not then move on youre still a top lad and it shouldnt be akward just be polite and respectful and work together. have fun!
/r/seduction27/02/13 08:21 PM
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yeah the trick is to just hand it to her what he did wrong was follow her
/r/seduction27/02/13 07:13 PM
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yeah man you have to laugh at shit like this i mean i find the whole thing totally fucking hilarious dont worry about falling "out of state" and if you have a headache thats really bothering you then go home its really nothing to worry about and i feel like you should have way more fun than it seems you had. Next time just relax and enjoy it i mean who even gives a fuck? and if a girl ever eggs you on like that again you should use it to your advantage i remember a girl i knew and worked with st…
/r/seduction27/02/13 02:39 PM
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yeah im not totally sure whether this ugy is a genious or an idiot, on one hand it might have been a little akward however on the other hand he did end up laying this chick and if it wasnt for OP she would still be "idealising" this guy. One thing is for certain though OP is CBing i have actually done this a couple of times with female friends but im trying to cut back on it and i find it way more rewarding to help my friends boyfriend than talk about how much of a supplicating beta he is with h…
/r/seduction26/02/13 03:54 PM
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yeah this sounds fucking hilarious but you really dont need to do it why would you not just act the way you want to? I dont need to say im on meds because people accept that im a crazy fucker who does what he wants. It helps me become the life of the party and build social proof why not focus more on building rapport by talking to her instead of using gimmicks like this?
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:47 PM
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i agree
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:34 PM
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yeah we usually agree and amplify with shit tests but im sure you already know this if you dont wanna hook up with her then move on if you do then its either too late since shell just wanna play around and shit test you more or you can just escalate easily and do it regardless i dont think you should call her out because even though you are aware of what she does its probably just who she is. If it was me id friendzone her and be civil possibly turn her into a pivot and utilise preselection? hav…
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:33 PM
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this is almost the same as a dorian yates quote (very famous bodybuilder) when he says that what he does in the gym is only about 23% of his job not exactly scientific evidence but i agree with it you cant expect to be sub 15% body fat if you dont control the fat you take and if you are cutting to look "ripped" then you should be at a caloric deficit
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:23 PM
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yeah i sort of agree with the sentiment obviously you should have it if you want to but dont hold yourself back from interqactions because "i dont really want to get laid today"
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:13 PM
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so you just give a time constraint and ask her to put it in your phone then?
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:53 PM
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i dunno i think you can be manly and well dressed at the same time a lot of those guys look fairly dapper and i try to take their advice and knowledge and apply it to myself without losing my masculinity
/r/becomeaman24/02/13 01:17 AM
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yeah man it can be hard and i think practicing pickup has to come from a happy place where you are self confident and happy with your life for it to seem genuine and to actually work. So my advice would be the same as that of your therapist stop doing it now, work on yourself mabye take up a hobby learn a language or travel? then come back to this and take it from there but you shouldnt view getting girls as a way to make yourself feel good you should look at it from the point of view that you g…
/r/seduction24/02/13 01:15 AM
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why? those guys are stylish as fuck
/r/becomeaman23/02/13 05:43 PM
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why do you hate that you have to learn game to have sex? I know it would be cool to just get girls just for turning up but i enjoy the whole process and id like to think im working towards becoming one of those 20% Yes Feminism may be responsible for some of those things but so what? bitching about it like this wont help. I understand that you were just replying to a womans post but for me this type of rant post about how much we hate feminism shouldnt really be a big thing i mean its the sort o…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/13 09:20 AM
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what do you do on weekends? or is it a 7 day job
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:54 PM
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I think the basic science applies to all situations no matter where you are we brits have the whole stiff upper lip victorian repression thing going so id say that that mabye makes day game a tiny miniscule teensy bit harder because you have to be a lot more warm and really focus on your NVC i.e. soft eye contact smile etc but to say that no girl will like you or that its way harder and impossible here is 1) an excuse for having bad game and 2) loser talk
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:47 PM
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yeah thats a good point diffrent people learn in different ways the only thing thats the same for us all is if you dont put the work in then youll never get betterahh well im off out now (UK time) keep at it bruh.
/r/seduction18/02/13 06:30 PM
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but to learn from a social situation you still have to analyse it regardless of how in depth you go yeah i do go out and have fun but when i get home or the next morning if im at hers i do try o write an FR to consolidate the knowledge and it helps me to actually learn from the experience
/r/seduction18/02/13 06:27 PM
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yeah this is social proof at its finest we generate it by being outgoing and funny etc celebrities have it because of what they do for a living
/r/seduction17/02/13 11:08 PM
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I understand the sentiment behind your post i.e. go out and do stuff but i dont think you need to stop reading seddit for this. I row for my uni team work out the days im not on the water and have got my black belt in taekwondo for this I consider myself to be fairly "sporty" yet I still enjoy and learn things from the community because there is still theory and other tricks I have yet to read. An important part of taekwondo is the idea that no one ever really learns it all and I want to be on m…
/r/seduction17/02/13 11:05 PM
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that is actually quite an interesting perspective thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction14/02/13 12:02 AM
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mine is a big rowing race I have in four weeks Im becoming stronger and fitter for it every day every second even having goals is important having a campaign which is basically a set of goals is essential
/r/becomeaman13/02/13 11:56 PM
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Previously I was of the midset that marriage was impossible from a biological and physchological viewpoint however hearing your story has reinspired my belief in it. How well do you think your marriage is going because you accept the red pill ideology and do you think there is any hope of having a succesfull fulfilling marriage if your lady does not accept red pill or asks you to not act in that way? Thanks and keep up the interesting Blog!
/r/TheRedPill13/02/13 08:24 PM
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try taking up a new sport or hobby? youll meet new people new oppurtunities to expand your social life and get a new skill
/r/seduction12/02/13 10:47 PM
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yeah dude this isnt really a sad ending you got laid she had her rebound thats that you did well and now its time to move onwards and upwards
/r/seduction11/02/13 05:57 PM
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yeah i guess this is a bit extreme but sort of the right idea. Im guessing the guy has just let his guard down no more game and its boring and comfortable for her
/r/TheRedPill11/02/13 05:16 PM
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yeah i think it just depends how jokingly they are saying it. If they would really fuck you then go ahead and do it without spending any money/ as little as possible. If they are just joking then who gives a fuck I really dont enjoy talking to women like that so unless they are my colleagues or I have another shared activity with them then I just wouldnt talk to her.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/13 10:32 PM
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Yeah i guess if she is really "unhappy" in her relationship so much so that she is fucking other guys then the dude is doing something wrong. As you said if you didnt then another guy would have. However that being said it is still immoral and i wouldnt have done it if it can be helped because I want to be a good man. Its not totally your responsibility but part of the blame is on you.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/13 10:28 PM
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YES thank you brother i saw it a while back but yeah this is the one
/r/seduction10/02/13 10:12 PM
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ok well if you prefer her as a friend then just put her in the friendzone and dont fuck her. I think its a technique to be able to fuck a woman and then just be friends with her the next day and if you dont have that down then obviously sex can mess up the social dynamics of the relationship. So my advice is to be her friend youll probably still get your dick wet by meeting her friends and now you have the benefit of DHV and social proof from her.
/r/seduction10/02/13 05:50 PM
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Yeah I reckon you probably should ask her for her number or on a date because its obvious she likes you and now you just need to build a bit more rapport before you go in for the kill.
/r/seduction10/02/13 05:42 PM
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there was a really good article I read on a forum about getting friends with benefits and how to frame the relationship but i cant fucking find it for the life of me sorry man hopefully another sedditor might see it and know the one im talking about. Regardless it might help if you approach women in a different way if youre sarging in bars or clubs then the girls there might only want a ONS however if you use day game or social networking you might have more chance of building up a friendship an…
/r/seduction10/02/13 05:40 PM
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some guys use the spin method where you ask for a girls hand then spin her around and start dancing personally ive not had huge success with it but mabye thats just me. A good thing to do would be to establish a non verbal connection before dancing i.e. make eye contact, a little wave or point etc then walk over keeping eye contact. while grinding turn her around to face you hold her chin gently look at her eyes then lips then eyes again and move in with conviction. Some general feedback is that…
/r/seduction09/02/13 06:15 PM
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I guess it opened my eyes to how manipulative a lot of women are and helped to be able to dodge that shit. I found that relationships arent really possible and it helped me to become more self aware and work on myself more.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/13 05:41 PM
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so the james bond books then? World War Z is a really good book also pretty much anything by George Orwell definitely 1984. In addition to that I'd say read A Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy and also mabye some Agatha Christie Like Poirot Murder on the Orient Express if youre wanting some mystery I could never in a million years guess the answers.
/r/becomeaman09/02/13 10:21 AM
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Yeah I think being redpill means only you get to define what honour and integrity are to yourself we dont play by other peoples rules anymore. That being said i still think they are important qualities. For me Honour is being true to your word and doing what you believe is right not what he/she tells you is right. A samurai believes it is honorable to commit hari kiri but i think it weakens your military power and id prefer to be a POW in the hope of escaping and being able to serve again so its…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/13 10:15 AM
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this guy is right I cant tell you how many times i tried to explain PU or redpill methodology to people but then got smoked out then one night out with me when they see my "success" around women and how I handle situations that make them shit themselves and their jaws drop they start asking me for advice. Live out redpill in all aspects of your life and your friends will want to follow your methodology.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/13 10:11 AM
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yeah you should still open sets with girls you might not necessary want to f close itll give you social proof and help you warm up just dont escalate with them
/r/seduction08/02/13 09:55 PM
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wait so the 5s fwb turned gay? interesting and yeah its a pretty hilarious story which is what this is all about I love the randomn stories the best like how i opened a girl after doing circuit training for rowing just because she was on my shuttle run team and i didnt know her name so i couldnt cheer her on its funny shit like that which seddit has made me do more
/r/seduction07/02/13 11:28 PM
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this was a pretty funny story cheers for sharing and i think its a good thing that you were confident enough to go through with this a lot of guys wouldve got dejected and went home however this kinda seems to me like it was a bit of a setup and her roomate and her planned it all along hmm mabye im just paranoid regardless though well done !
/r/seduction07/02/13 11:08 PM
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cheers bruh you too enjoy learning a new style :D Im joining a judo class next semester i think
/r/becomeaman06/02/13 08:58 PM
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yeah im not really sure how i feel about our gun laws on one hand it does stop gun crime in a way the US will probably never achieve but on the other hand it takes away another freedom from me and id prefer if they just backed the fuck off. But fuckit as the Tao Te Ching says "weapons are instruments of fear, they are not a wise mans tools and he uses them only when he has no choice". Not saying yall shouldnt have guns just that the lack of them does not affect my life too much. Even if i had th…
/r/becomeaman06/02/13 08:01 PM
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so which martial arts are people looking to try? /r/martialarts have some good threads and you can find all the individual subreddits in the sidebar there as well. I got my black belt in taekwondo and thats my main style however I have also particularly enjoyed muay thai and brazilian jiu jitsu training. Silat training is also really fun and in future im looking to learn some form of ninjitsu system perhaps with a katana or some other sword style
/r/becomeaman06/02/13 07:44 PM
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yeah so i am a black belt and i enjoy martial arts and self defence incredibly. Id love to learn how to shoot but there are very few firearms ranges or shooting clubs in the U.K unless youre looking at target shooting and even then its not a huge sport. So in this case i think while I will try and seek out firearms/archery etc training in the future if something isnt practically possible then it might be better to devote time to a more worthy pursuit of manliness.
/r/becomeaman06/02/13 07:42 PM
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whoops terribly sorry for any offense i genuinely find this stuff interesting and wasnt taking the piss i just got it a bit wrong
/r/seduction06/02/13 07:21 PM
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this should be done
/r/seduction06/02/13 05:39 PM
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yeah so i ran into this problem with a couple of girls i am close friends/ colleagues with i guess the thing is that it is kind of my fault for talking about game but they were so unsupportive and overly critical. So my solution is im simply not gonna talk about it with them. I study pickup for me and i drink their haterade with gusto. I relish every last drop and having told them i dont practice game anymore im free from their hating so now i just go out and do my thing for me and i talk about …
/r/seduction06/02/13 05:37 PM
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hare krishna hare krishna hare shiva hare shiva hinduswag love a bit of bhagavagita
/r/seduction06/02/13 04:55 PM
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i saw on here a few people having LMR troubles usually say something like were not gonna have sex or something to that effect then continually try to escalate while repeating this never had to try it myself but i dunno mabye this is a good way to navigate LMR?
/r/seduction05/02/13 11:06 PM
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haha all i see here is a night of learning and a k close many guys wouldnt be able to even make out with a girl. Id say study some more outer game it can be hard to find good things to say so try and have a few routines or phrases you can use as "openers". Finally dont sweat the rejection i mean if anything its a good thing because it means you tried some guys at the club you were at didnt even approach a girl and so what if you got knocked back its not like youre having any less sex with the gi…
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:19 AM
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you should read the sidebarred stuff that can help a lot but more than that id say you need to sort out your mental state meditate come to terms with your "loss" and understand that it has little to no bearing on your future success with women only you can affect that
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:13 AM
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I started as semi natural with a lot of confidence and virtually no AA. The problem I had was that I couldnt escalate kino properly and I dropped way too many IOIs and often supplicated heavily. This led to me not getting a lot of high level girls and so i just shut myself off from ever approaching or gaming anything above HB6 or 7. When I discovered seddit id been on a fairly long dry streak and after a couple of weeks reading PUA material i got quite a few k closes an f close and number closes…
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:13 PM
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i see a threesome on the horizon haha but for real clubs are pretty big you could probably have both of them there without the other one knowing.
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:35 PM
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this might inspire you and give you some ideas alternatively ill tell you that you really need to start working out take up a sport volunteer and get a job all of this is in the sidebarred stuff.
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:18 PM
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This is quite a vague problem so i dunno how I could give you game advice because you havent detailed an interaction so theres not much to go on. I'd definitely advise you to hit the gym though itll make you feel way better and when you build properly it can help you to feel competitive and aggressive. Take up boxing or a similar combat sport this will further your ambitious and competitive drive which will help you set a more alpha and dominating frame. I have to say that I had exactly the same…
/r/seduction02/02/13 10:09 PM
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i think just openly tell her that you are not down to be her emotional fluffer if you like this girl tell her youd like to be with her if she didnt have a boyfriend. Other than that i think you should just move on if this chick doesnt choose you.
/r/seduction02/02/13 09:59 PM
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an idea might be to open som all male sets beforehand it can let you slip into frame and warm up while simultaneously generating social proof and if they know more of the girls than you then you can ask them whos single or not this way even if you hit on a girl and shes taken the fact that youve opened a few guy sets will make you seem cool and social and not just a "creep" trying to get laid
/r/seduction02/02/13 08:38 PM
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stupid question what is a bati and switch woman ive yet to encounter the terminology
/r/TheRedPill02/02/13 11:08 AM
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love a bit of the YOLO mentality especially in the chickas but yeah this article is kinda bullshit yes the guy is a bit of a jackass but that chick who flaked last minute was a ginourmous bitch and while i wouldve probably just moved on i dont think its completely morally wrong of him to be a bit pissed and if thats how he chooses to express it then hey ho. I think being redpill is about understanding that other people's opinions especially womens dont really matter all that much and if this guy…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/13 10:49 AM
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yeah all mmovies depicting "love" these days are 99% totally bullshit because they are aimed at women. Hollywood gives the people what it wants and so if the women and AFC betas who go see this film are entertained then thats what happens. This is exactly the same as when i watch remember the titans and cry because its a beautiful sports story where they overcome racism so yeah dont get too hung up on this just remember that you are better than these beta movie nice guys
/r/TheRedPill01/02/13 06:12 PM
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yeah exactly thats a very good point the only reason i wouldnt do that is if i was trying to set up an FWB or i was getting numbers on a vanity trip and i didnt really wanna commit to a day 2
/r/seduction01/02/13 12:54 PM
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i usually just hand her my phone on the keypad screen and say "you know what to do" or some other cheesy thing like that but i think it should be stressed that a number close is only really valid or worth anything if you build a rapport first typically ill get the number after the k close because if a girl didnt feel a connection with you she probably wont wanna answer or get a day 2 set up. However i definitely think this is a great post and i really like your thought on rejection its importanc…
/r/seduction31/01/13 08:17 PM
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there are a few sidebarred posts on text game and you might wanna check them out. The basic rules id follow is keep text game short and use it mostly as a means to arrange a face to face interaction.
/r/seduction29/01/13 12:58 AM
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Its not hit where I am yet but i think any way in which you can practice game is a good idea. So using technology as another platform to meet new people can only really be a good thing as it means more oppurtunities.
/r/seduction29/01/13 12:57 AM
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yeah theres a lot of people who dont believe in gym gaming i think you just gotta treat it as like a hard mode of day game because the target is usually gonna be busy or stressed or sweaty. In my mind its best to use a pivot or preselection at least for example ill go to the gym with a girl i know and then she might open a two set and ill go and join them. This works reasonably well but i think its still pretty difficult. as for the other parts to your question id say you should consider volunte…
/r/seduction29/01/13 12:54 AM
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actually using a hypercaloric diet in addition to HIIT can actually trigger an anabolic effect and help you get those delicious gains but im not sure a 5000 kcal a day diet is entirely reasonable with this i think the idea of getting people to think about gaining weight and trying to work out is the real idea behind this subreddit and im sure the benefits of reading will outweigh the costs
/r/becomeaman27/01/13 11:30 PM
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yeah HIIT training is ridiculously tough first time i did it i pretty much passed out its the hardest of the hard but the health benefits are seriously worth it
/r/becomeaman27/01/13 11:26 PM
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indicator of interest it might help if you read the sidebarred content first there are a lot of basic handy tricks that will really help you out a lot and the glossary will make it easier to communicate :D
/r/seduction27/01/13 05:36 PM
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yeah that is awesome you did alright to start off with as others here have said pursue the facebook thing check for an IOI and go for it. Try using the three second rule you have to talk to a girl you see within three seconds of seeing her. Finally accept the fear you feel thank it for showing you what you are meant to do and then just do it anyway. Perhaps learn an easy magic trick i find they work pretty well as openers.
/r/seduction27/01/13 05:10 PM
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Yeah I agree that some points are a bit extreme i think as with anything you need to take it with a pinch of salt research deeply and form your own opinions. If you havent already you should read the sidebarred posts they are quite interesting and might give you a better idea of the opinions and their origins contained in this thread. Good luck and I hope you can learn at least a few things from this community :D
/r/TheRedPill27/01/13 02:29 AM
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read books and listen to lots of different music because youll be more culturally aware and have better references to make. I like to always try and be sober when sarging i feel like youll be quicker witted without alcohol. Finally I would say that wit just happens you shouldnt try and force it and if you focus on the here an now instead of trying to remember some crazy joke a standup guy said youll come off as a lot more funny and definetly more original. As with anything else it comes with pra…
/r/seduction27/01/13 02:26 AM
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definitely for men like you and me this is the case my point was that for other people they still follow the "cultural indoctrination"
/r/TheRedPill25/01/13 09:38 AM
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youre talking about the scientific and logical view and im talking about sociological ideology and societal pressures affecting male and female rationale. you are making a very good point and i agree but i think there are two sides to every 'fact' and i feel like even when science totally understands something peoples ignorance can still overcome rational logic for example the idea of centrifugal force which doesnt exist but people's belief that it does makes it partly a 'fact'
/r/TheRedPill24/01/13 11:05 PM
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yeah i really agree with the martial art thing as a black belt in taekwondo who trains and reads about many other styles i cannot express how much a martial art can give you confidence and help you improve physically and mentally
/r/TheRedPill24/01/13 10:31 PM
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I agree we cant change them we shouldnt need to they can be as sexist and anti male as they want and Im not gonna counter protest them im just gonna go on living my life whats important is to understand why they are so wrong and to ensure that we dont fall into the same traps or behaviour I think being redpill is about gender equality and in many ways we are the real "feminists" assuming you are using that word to describe people who want women and men to be treated fairly and to synergetically …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/13 10:25 PM
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yeah finding out that they ban men automatically really sums up the difference in the two movements we are willing to talk with women and promote equality between the sexes and fairness for all they simply want women to remain completely dominant in society and i feel like thats a bit shitty
/r/TheRedPill24/01/13 10:16 PM
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yeah i feel like that would be fair however there are obviously differences in each genders view of masculinity/femininity they define it for them and we define it for us and this is why i feel like long term relationships and marriages are sort of doomed from the start because each side wants different things from themselves and the others
/r/TheRedPill24/01/13 10:13 PM
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Usually it happens when i see examples of my platonic female friends engaging in hypergamy and wheras before I didnt understand what they were doing or why now i get it also when you see guys fail a shit test or go totally beta you cringe because you know what they should have done
/r/TheRedPill23/01/13 10:23 PM
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I dont think its ever too much and too fast going in for the kill very early was awesome you might have hung around a bit too much without escalating but i think other than that you really noticed what you did wrong and thats the first positive step to improving any mistakes you made well done!
/r/seduction23/01/13 08:26 PM
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Yeah I have the FR section in my "playbook" it does help to look back and see what you can improve on and it stops me from keeping negative experiences in my head. Plus if you ever get a really great one that you think could help others then you can post it up on here.
/r/seduction23/01/13 08:23 PM
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I guess you just got to get to know the people and if they are the sort of person you want to have a relationship with then you should tell them
/r/TheRedPill23/01/13 04:56 PM
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I'd say you should be happy regardless of men so the usual shit like help others and take up a hobby and do something youre passionate about etc. If youre talking about guys then i guess you should focus on trying to find an LTR where you can both enhance each others lives let the guy do the things he enjoys and pursue your own interests as well. Above all though just keep in mind that happiness is subjective and can be achieved effectively internally. You shouldnt need advice on how to be happy…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/13 12:54 PM
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there are a few common ones in the sidebar but past that i would say they are just any question or statement from a girl which is intended to make you qualify yourself Try to determine if she expects you to give an impressive answer or an answer that would tell her how much you are worth socially financially etc. If she does then its most likely a shit test.
/r/seduction22/01/13 11:00 PM
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yeah following into the room probably would not have been a good idea at this particular time because i think you need to build a little bit more rapport first before you try that. However that is some pretty good day game and if you nail the day 2 im sure youll get laid well done and keep at it bro
/r/seduction22/01/13 10:50 PM
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I never started drinking and i totally get what you mean about feeling morally shifty about it for me there have been a couple of times when i turned sex down because they were too drunk you just have to ddecide in the moment i guess
/r/seduction22/01/13 10:32 PM
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martial arts are an excellent way to accomplish fitness and discipline goals in addition to having a new hobby they are also a major panty wetter and allow you to escalate kino by showing a girl some "moves". There are loads of really good subreddits and id really recommend taking up a martial art as your hobby because youll learn to push your limits which in turn will help your journey of self actualisation. I myself am considering taking up sky diving or climbing.
/r/becomeaman21/01/13 10:30 PM
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Yeah i watched that film and saw him as being awesome he stopped his shitty annoying life and became happy enough to be the person he wanted to be
/r/TheRedPill20/01/13 09:15 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-unuqF4uklE this video might help it has a few good techniques for non verbal communication
/r/seduction20/01/13 10:29 AM
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as a previous semi natural who started reading seddit i feel like natural game is important but what "game" and "theory" have done for me is reaffirm the things i was doing right and stop those things i was doing wrong. Now when I get a k/f/# close i understand why and how i was able to logically progress the interaction. Seddit has also given me more of an abundance mentality and taught me to be a bit more aggressive and alpha all in all I find the phsychology and theory fascinating and i think…
/r/seduction19/01/13 11:51 PM
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Yeah I think you did a lot of things right and your interaction with the HB5.5 was awesome she just didnt wanna hook up that night dont let out of state friends get you down i always like to set my friends challenges we make it a game and they work on their approach skills while i do mine its fun and we always have a good night so in short keep at it and remember that youll miss 100% of the shots you dont take just like wayne getsky said
/r/seduction19/01/13 11:43 PM
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cheerfull misogny should have some place in society so should slight feminism this way we all get the sort of things we want and this interaction is an excellent example Ill bet his fiance is much happier with herself now and this relationship is probably more fulfilling than ever for both parties
/r/TheRedPill19/01/13 11:20 PM
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I feel like if the bars manager does shit like that then its not a fun bar to go to why not find somewhere better i know you say that it has the best calibre of girls but im sure there are other places that are just as god no city ive ever lived in has only had one good bar. Still if everything you said is true the CB manager is a total douche and i wouldnt wanna spend my money paying his wages
/r/seduction19/01/13 11:09 PM
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yeah you have a point and i guess hes just doing what he thinks is right but the fact that we live in a world where he would feel he needs to use his intellect to educate people on this and not more important stuff kind of makes me a little annoyed
/r/TheRedPill19/01/13 12:55 PM
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The fact that videos like this even need to be made makes me kinda fucking sick with the way we live today i mean seriously? you are now having to tell people to distinguish between rape and legitimate courting? Its as if men and women are now some sort of different fucking species and we have to have all these rules for approaching each other and how to interact and i guess thats just social convention and having game but i think its a bit fucking ridiculous when people have to be toldwhat is a…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/13 04:03 AM
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yeah i would also like to add dont ever instigate any kind of sexual conversation with a woman talking about sex makes you a creep and unless its women talking with their girlfriends sex talk is not ok ever. also you can never shit again that whole is for her and her only i mean come on give me a fucking break with this bullshit
/r/TheRedPill19/01/13 03:56 AM
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yeah id really like to read that I always enjoy any new material and I feel like this would really help
/r/seduction17/01/13 12:16 AM
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Am I the only one who feels like this debate should be about more than just the way certain people on certain sides look? I feel like this post just gives creedence to all the hamsters who say redpill are total girl hating douchebags.
/r/askTRP16/01/13 11:39 PM
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I think its true that men and women are not equal and we never will be equal to women thats just basic biology. I also agree with your point about the fact that we men have no more natural predators and i feel like this is the reason that we now work cushy desk jobs and buy our meat in a packet and in this way women are just as good at functioning in society because our physical advantages are not as important in a modern western civilised society. As for the whole arab dog thing i think you hav…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/13 10:25 PM
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yeah i totally agree and im working on my game presently and i feel like that works also own your mistakes theres nothing better than joking about how hardcore i am when im drinking lemonade and everyone else is on hard liquor haha
/r/seduction16/01/13 09:33 PM
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A lot of material i have read suggests not actually drinking when you try to go out and meet girl as someone who doesnt drink for sporting/religious reasons i feel this is a better game plan and has always worked better for me. On the other hand though thanks for taking the time to write this a lot of the advice is pretty reasonable and even though it might not be masterPUA shit i think its a good basic starting point.
/r/seduction16/01/13 06:39 PM
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in my view i think the abundance mentality relaxedness of this guy is awesome and as long as he isnt getting hardcore friendzoned then itll help to just remain calm and not give a fuck. I mean its sure as hell better than the alternative of being an AFC and constantly getting butthurt every time you get rejected or flaked on. In the end just do what makes you happy if a girl keeps flaking then its no big deal you just move onto the next.
/r/seduction15/01/13 08:25 PM
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you have my axe
/r/TheRedPill15/01/13 12:48 AM
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i feel like being redpill is about understanding the way things are in the world and modifying our behaviour to achieve optimal results in this way i dont really give a shit how incoherent the lovely people at /askwomen are this is just 1) another weakness we can use to our advantage and 2) another fact of life that we must learn to exploit. I mean Neo and morpheus never complained about how agents sometimes fucked up and lacked imagination
/r/TheRedPill15/01/13 12:35 AM
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Properly Interpreting Social Situations first letter from each word spells PISS
/r/seduction14/01/13 10:41 PM
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i wholeheartedly agree with you but i can also realise that that argument can sometimes be slightly hypocritical in that these women say that its cool for both sides but they will still educate their children in one way and so it comes off as yeah let other people's kids decide but im gonna teach my kids my stuff. Having said that i think redpill has taught me to question the societal framework i rigidly followed and although i probably wont teach my kids to do the same (whether by choice or by …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/13 11:20 PM
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i think the host also made a really good point when she picked up on the fact that its a largely cultural problem too
/r/TheRedPill13/01/13 10:46 PM
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melanie klein really does make some very good points here but the other chick daugherty saying that there is a lack of "communication" i feel like she doesnt really understand the problem and is talking out of her arse "communication" is often blamed for the fact that two different groups feel differently and i feel like its a weak excuse on her part instead of acknowledging the underlying problem of the differences between men and womens conceptual ideas of healthy relationships
/r/TheRedPill13/01/13 10:42 PM
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shit i love bill burr his podcast is incredible and its insane how much i can sympathise with his observational comedy he should be so much more famous
/r/TheRedPill13/01/13 08:18 PM
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a really interesting perspective on seddit thanks for sharing
/r/seduction13/01/13 12:10 PM
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yeah i think what you do is pretty good and if you focus on holding conversations for longer and spending more time and attention on a girl you want to f-close then youll do alright but well done and good luck!
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:11 PM
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well Im not an expert by any means but from what Ive read and experienced as long as you are upfront with your intentions then i think it should just be a part of you that girls are attracted to
/r/seduction08/01/13 05:43 PM
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dude i think its more about congruence in this situation you need to be yourself as a man if you like crying at the end of bambi then fucking go ahed but own that shit youll be a pussy if you try to hide it but at the same time dont just feel emotion and cry because you think a woman would like it. At the same time it might also help to calibrate to the situation slightly be yourself but if a girl just wants to have fun you dont need to get emotional and serious and vice versa TLDR be yourself b…
/r/seduction08/01/13 04:27 PM
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i think youre beating yourself up too much i mean you did quite well with approaching a few different girls and for me the fact that you went back in with that girl was quite impressive i think at that point if you'd not shown her too much interest when she was talking to the other guy she wouldve respected you a bit more next time try just going out and enjoying yourself no reason to beat yourself up it sounds like you had a good night
/r/seduction06/01/13 04:20 PM
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sorry man i honestly cant find any trace of it at all mabye i just dreamed it but the basic point was meet as many girls as possible then try to fuck the ones you like dont just fixate on one girl then get disappointed when nothing happens
/r/seduction05/01/13 05:08 PM
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why not try on some stuff and ask her opinion? i think if you overthink something like that you get bogged down in details so next time just try initiating a randomn conversation and keep it goingremark on stuff in the store to begin with then mabye ask her about her life thats the sort of thing id do
/r/seduction05/01/13 04:58 PM
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itd be an awesome how did you meet story "oh i just hit her in the face a few times and asked her to dance" but yeah awesome FR and good job not pussying away when your friends had to leave
/r/seduction05/01/13 04:54 PM
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yeah really good escalation and its awesome to see that its really just the small stuff that helps eg body language keeping the leader frame and laughing at your own mistakes good job and im sure youll easily full close that chick
/r/seduction05/01/13 01:15 AM
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yeah i think one of the first things i read by a sedditor was an awesome comment about dating strategy and instead of going for one girl he argued you should meet as many people as possible so what if one girl flakes by meeting new people you get invited to more social events more chances to sarge etc let your life be the river through which good things and good relationships flow
/r/seduction05/01/13 12:59 AM
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good job bruh the opener you used was quite wordy but the fact you still went with it shows commitment and confidence thats not to say you shouldnt adjust your game but i commend your bravery keep playin
/r/seduction04/01/13 11:48 PM
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I feel like this is true and it makes you a more exciting entity in her eyes. Girls dont always want to be put on a pedestal and made to feel great or conversely negged all the time i think its by mixing the two together and making her laugh and think that you really develop an emotional connection with a girl
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:38 AM
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