ytho4 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"You're a nice guy but...		ytho4	/r/seduction	06/05/18 07:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"You're a nice guy but... You have to remember, at the beginning youre essentially a nobody You're right and I'm sure I get attached too quickly due to loneliness. It has somewhat improved through all these dates though, before that I had only dated one person and I was WAY to invested in her eventhough it was clear as daylight that she wasn't interested in me. Don't by into the "low value" shit man...but if you have confidence and project yourself well I don't see myself as low value but I can act rather shy and timid w…	/r/seduction	10/05/18 10:42 PM
1	"You're a nice guy but... I know what you mean but I'm not sure how to get close when you only see each other every 3 - 4 weeks. Doesn't have to be multiple times a week either but at least 1/week on average would be nice. Not saying it HAS to be this way but it's what I'd personally like... Overall I'm not sure if it's the main problem as most dates either ended right after the first where I didn't even really have a chance to ask for a second one or right after the second date by telling me they don't feel anything or …	/r/seduction	08/05/18 08:50 PM
1	"You're a nice guy but... sounds like a headfuck that doesn't know what she wants and got spooked when she realised she was into you Exactly what I and pretty much all good friends I talked to think. Just for future - Don't let a chick wind you up to the point you call them out or play into their stupid power games, always keep your composure. It'll eat her up inside ;) Agreed and I think I did keep my composure, the first reply was just something like "why even care?" and the rest simply being honest about how I felt ab…	/r/seduction	08/05/18 08:29 PM
1	"You're a nice guy but... you may be coming on way too strong, way too quick with these girls. To also adress this in general, apart from valentines girl: I don't escalate hard on these dates but when I've had a great date I want to meet again and not just sometime but preferably within a week or so. I'm not sure if this is coming on too strong but isn't it normal to want to meet a good date again after a week or so? I guess I'm needy and while I don't act out on it, if mark manson is to be belived girls still notice thi…	/r/seduction	07/05/18 07:56 PM
1	"You're a nice guy but... Alright, this is gonna be long: I first met her in december where we had a great date but she didn't want to meet again. Later found out that the reason for that was that she thought it was weird that I wanted to kiss her on the first date although I wasn't pushy about it at all. Sucked but no big harm after a first date. In January she suddenly texted me and we started dating again. I think we've met about 7 times in that timespan and things felt like they we're going pretty good. On a friday s…	/r/seduction	07/05/18 07:43 PM
1	"You're a nice guy but... Or no escalating? Might be the bigger problem. For as many dates I've been on, I'm still rather reserved in that regard although I atleast go for a kiss by the second date.	/r/seduction	07/05/18 06:59 PM
1	"You're a nice guy but... Thanks but I doubt I would act the same. Also, I managed to get a second date most of the time so I don't think my inital impression is that bad.	/r/seduction	07/05/18 06:48 PM