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I want to say that this method works for me. I started doing it with family members that will try to put me down or highlight insecurities. I used to stay quiet and just ignore it, but I got sick of the constant unwarranted comments, and began taking this approach. Turning the criticism around or putting pressure on them instead, “oh, you’re right I don’t know what I’m doing. Why don’t you just take care of it?” Once, you throw it back in their face they learn not to mess with you. I stopped get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:21 PM
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I think what’s important to focus on isn’t his red flags, but what you want. You’re working towards your goals and you want someone present, supportive, and willing to build with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:16 PM
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When it comes to military/ government guys that travel a lot, they tend to put their career and travel first. In my experience, they’ll get married but with the expectation that their wife will follow them from assignment to assignment. It comes down to what you see your future like. Are you okay with leaving your friends/family/ home behind to follow a man around the world? It is an enriching experience and it can be a lot of fun. On the other hand, if you’re looking to buy a house and put down…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:11 PM
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Love this in-depth analysis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 10:52 PM
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I have heard season 2 has much more drama and a more diverse cast! I started season 1 and was like, everyone is conveniently attractive here???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:12 PM
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I just began season 1! It’s soooo wild to see how guys manage to manipulate some of these women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:02 PM
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Mine is a little different— The Autobiography of Malcom X. It’s my absolute favorite book because it’s about identity and living a life thats true to you. It has a lot in it but the message I took from it is that you have to really think about who you are and the life you live. How much of what you do is for other people and because of other people. How much of it is good for you? Why are you trying to be a certain way? I think it’s a very raw and powerful read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:02 PM
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I love these tips! I never really thought about it but yes. The state of a man’s car is so important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:35 AM
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I agree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:45 AM
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I think it’s best to not reveal those things at first. I let the man push for exclusivity because I want to see him make that initial decision. I feel like it gives us more power to be the ones to say “yes” or “no”. It also shows you that he’s decided that he wants to be with you, rather than just giving in to you. From there, the questions I asked about were where do you see yourself living/buying a house in the next few years? And then bring up casually that I may have to go somewhere else and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:32 PM
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Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:00 PM
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He was definitely surprised and hurt. He tried to tell me that I “couldn’t go back on what I said”, that I ended things before they had to, and I should have waited like 3 months before having the conversations I was having with him. He also tried to say that he was just telling me his opinions, he was open to change but I ended it before he could consider change. But he is a 29 year old man, he’s not going to change. He really expected me to just stay and wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:37 PM
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Yes! Time would have passed anyways whether I was with him or not. The future completely depends on what we make of it. I’ve learnt a valuable lesson from this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:33 PM
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I don’t try to keep my feelings in check, but I keep going on dates I’m not really interested in until we’re “exclusive”. I feel like feelings are important to lead things. If I had denied how I felt about him, I might still be dating him exclusively but rather “casually”. I think it’s important to let yourself fall for someone if it happens because it’s the foundation for what’s to come. We’re looking for love and we’ve got to be able to express it. A heartbreak after 6 months is still manageab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:31 PM
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Exactly! It is an excuse to be a placeholder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:31 PM
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Just to add real quick. Men like to ask “EVEN IF…?” The answer is still no. The answer is always no. There’s no “IF…” there’s only what you have in that moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:17 PM
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It’s good to have a cut off point! If they like it casual, they can have casual with someone else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:13 PM
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Thank you! Yes. Someone that plans ahead with me is definitely something I am going to keep an eye out for in the future. We live and learn. And dodge bullets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:10 PM
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Yes! We deserve true commitment, and the only thing worse than heartbreak is being a forever gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:07 PM
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It was a process. It took about 2 weeks. I started off with questions about where it was heading. How he felt that I might have to move out of the area for a job, how he felt about our religious differences, and general things that I thought were a basis for making this a long term commitment. Having gone through each topic, one conversation at a time, as if they were casual discussions, I was able to gather exactly how he felt. I think it’s important to have them as casual conversations because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 05:04 PM
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That’s how it felt when he said those things. We have lives of our own. We can be out having fun and doing our own thing. If I’m gonna be alone in the end, I’ll be alone right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:59 PM
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Exactly! Can’t wait around for it to implode! Being together is an ACTIVE process
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:57 PM
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I’ll look it up! I have finals coming up but I’ll add it to my summer reading list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:04 AM
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IKR, it’s really a cursed word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:01 AM
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I completely agree. Guys who act soft like this end up being disgusting human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 04:54 PM
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This is such good advice for weekends at home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:50 PM
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I have always found it creepy coming from a grown man! It’s also super condescending. I always feel as if they’re trying to appeal to some soft side of me, or as if they are trying to seem innocent with their request. But I always find it predatory because “awkwardly giggling while rubbing his boner through his pants against a woman” is exactly what they mean by it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:48 PM
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No! We haven’t even been on a date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 02:43 PM
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The key good traits! #6, #7, and #9 really make all the difference! RESPECT is imperative! I recently had a guy trying to push my boundaries and it was such a turn off. Every time he leaned in for a kiss, I would tell him no but he would keep trying! I couldn’t overlook or forgive that blatant disrespect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:02 AM
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Hahahahaha love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:09 AM
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Some of them tagging their boyfriends like it's going to convince them to propose and others are bragging about how long they've been a girlfriend. Terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:16 PM
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I saw some of their posts and really don't get the appeal. One woman commented that it was exhausting keeping up multiple relationships. One man is already a huge waste of time, imagine having 2 or 3 around!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:11 PM
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This is exactly what ended my relationship. Apparently, “effort” was taking the time to see me when he could have been doing something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 12:13 PM
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Romantic comedies too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:35 AM
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Yesssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:34 AM
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Ugh, what a gross asshole. I hate that he dangled his other “options” in front of you. All those bullshit excuses are infuriating “getting caught up with a board game”? WTF. Don’t cry, you dodged a huge bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 01:52 AM
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You’re going to feel great! Stay strong and don’t look back no matter what!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:07 AM
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FDS helped me see the patterns. I convinced myself that he was different and that being on the pill was good for US because I trusted him. I took the whole burden on myself, paid for it all on my own. When it came down to my health, he had the audacity to throw a tantrum about his pleasure. I was going to switch to the mini-pill too, he just had to use condoms for 1 cycle. I’m glad that I threw him and my birth control out. Never going back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:47 AM
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Hahahahaha, he did SOMETHING right by picking up what I liked. Too bad that it was too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:37 AM
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Thank you! His girl friends (well all his friends) love talking shit about him! I don’t even like them though, so I took the liberty of purging my contacts of everyone I put up with for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:37 AM
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Thank you! Ugh, he’s not even worth having as a friend. It’s sad to lose him but keeping him would be even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:31 AM
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