yungslum_56 Archive

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1	What is the one common seduction theme or trick that has not played out in your experience? Would also agree about the friend zone. It’s not a thing. Group spaces and spending time with people without any type of expectation is the best opportunity to vibe with people and show your personality, be charismatic, interesting, etc. It’s also way a much more enjoyable way to spend your time. If that’s not working for you, something is off.	/r/seduction	09/12/21 05:25 AM
4	Control Your Emotions, Because Women Feel What You Feel What if she simply isn’t interested? Women can have other feelings and emotions than simply being a mirror of your own self esteem... This “theory” just sounds like a repackaging of the most basic relationship advice, but then adds this part that reduces women to an empty vessel that manifests how you feel about yourself.	/r/seduction	11/09/20 01:24 PM
1	How to change the focus when a girl starts opening up to you about past trauma on a FIRST date? This might be an unpopular opinion, but I recommend avoiding any girls who bring up trauma stories very early on; it’s a major red flag. Those of us who have suffered some type of trauma usually only open up to people who are extremely close to us; it’s only natural because sharing this information makes you vulnerable. Generally speaking, people who bring up trauma very early out of nowhere are trying to manipulate your emotions to get a sympathetic response. They might do it for a variety of r…	/r/seduction	04/09/20 12:34 PM
5	How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me? I think this depends on what you mean by “exciting” which is different for every person. For example: someone else’s exciting might be getting shit faced at a night club, but I would rather go to a ballet or an art exhibit. Honestly, the girls that always want to party and have a massive amount of people around them are morbidly vapid and boring. Just keep doing what feeds your soul and try to discover some new interests along the way.	/r/seduction	02/09/20 01:17 PM
1	Guys some advice pls I’m saying you shouldn’t approach any woman like this. It makes you look desperate. There is a time and place but this definitely was not the time or place. And I’m saying you overstepped boundaries. Just reading the story made me uncomfortable.	/r/seduction	28/08/20 07:01 PM
2	Cold approach: Incremental changes vs. numbers game? I think now there’s definitely a higher value placed on men who not only look like an adult (dressing well, being groomed, etc.) but also have a somewhat developed intelligence and understanding of the world. And honestly I think it helps separate you more during an in-person encounter than online. Anybody can fake being smart online. If you can develop your style of offering good insights without sounding like you’re being condescending (we all know those people who act like they’re never wrong…	/r/seduction	27/08/20 11:00 PM
2	Cold approach: Incremental changes vs. numbers game? Honestly intellectual depth is probably the best one. Expand your mind and interests. Read all the classic novels and the major works in a few different disciplines. Go to the ballets, art museums, etc. This one with an authentic style that fits your personality is the best combination. All the others are just so common and do little to separate yourself from the herd.	/r/seduction	27/08/20 10:05 PM
0	Which book do I go for next after NMMNG? The second sex by Simone de Beauvoir. 1) it will teach you how to act better as a man 2) it helps you see the world from a female perspective 3) it’s a good mental exercise. It’s fairly long and a little dated but Beauvoir is a great writer. It’s also the most iconic feminist treatise of the 20th century.	/r/seduction	27/08/20 09:52 PM
0	Guys some advice pls This is easy. Don’t approach people you don’t know in the street and ask for their number. 1) it’s weird 2) you need to have an awareness of the dating culture surrounding this type of behaviour from a female’s perspective. I’m a male and I’m more than aware you were major overstepping personal boundaries.	/r/seduction	27/08/20 12:11 AM