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Congrats girl! You should be so proud of yourself for persevering long-term! Keep up the good work :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 08:51 PM
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I actually don’t mind fashionnova. I stay away from their jeans because they look cheap, and anything with too many cutouts or is too trendy tends to look a bit too tacky for me. However, their simple, knit, body con dresses are pretty decent if they’re not too revealing. Their turtlenecks are nice because they’re tight but still in a very flattering cut. Some of their blouses and bodysuits are not too bad either! Overall, I think it’s fine if you don’t mind sorting through trashier stuff to fin…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 02:23 AM
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No problem :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 10:45 AM
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This is perfect, tbh. Only thing I have to add: compliment the food! Unless it makes you completely nauseous, try your best to finish your plate. Who doesn’t swoon when the guests enjoy the meal they prepared?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 10:42 AM
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These things are natural to come up in relationships. It’s smart to want a partner who is capable of taking good care of you just as much as you nurture him. Talk to him and see how he takes it. If he really takes how you feel to heart, he’ll be more vocal about defending you from his nastier friends. Good luck with everything!
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 06:59 AM
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I can see why this is difficult for you then. Still, I would tell them that they’re being rude and disrespectful and leave his place in that moment if they make comments like that. There’s no reason for you to sit there and take the insults just because that’s where your friend group congregates. You’re removing yourself from a situation where you’re being bullied and belittled. Because this is your boyfriend’s place that he shares with his friends, I think the lion’s share of responsibility of …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 05:01 AM
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Totally agree. As your boyfriend, it’s his responsibility to create a safe and healthy environment for you just as you’ve created a soft place to land for him. The fact that they’re insulting you with vulgar and sexualized insults like “hop off my dick” shows their lack of respect for him as their friend and for you as a person. A good captain should definitely stand up for you if he sees this happening. Ultimately, it’s his choice on how he handles this, but in my opinion this is a prime vettin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 04:47 AM
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From what you said in the post and the comments, his friends sound incredibly rude. I would be appalled if my boyfriend’s friends told me to “hop off their dick” and I don’t think you’d be rude at all to ask them to leave in those situations. If you and your boyfriend are at their house, I think it’d be wise to stop coming there and excuse yourself if that’s how they’re treating you. You say that you’ve become somewhat of a house mother to them, and while that could be great if they admired and …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 04:31 AM
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I’m hesitant to use NFP as birth control as someone with somewhat irregular periods. Considering that OP is very young, she likely doesn’t have an amazing grasp on her cycle even if she uses a tracking app.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/20 02:18 AM
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I think your boyfriend is being smart and prudent. He knows that he is against abortion and does not want to do things against his values. Even if you have different values, if you want the relationship to work, you have to respect his boundaries and he has to respect yours. He is clearly uncomfortable with abortion and you should respect that. Certain birth control methods (namely the pill) have closer to a 90% chance of preventing pregnancy than 99% because users, especially inexperienced ones…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/20 02:00 AM
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While I don’t agree with her politically at all and I’m not so happy with the timing of her nomination into the Supreme Court, I find it refreshing to see a feminine wife and mother be able to balance family and wifehood with such a respectable career. I also agree that she looks great and I hate that people are picking on her for dressing “unprofessionally” even though a lot of her outfits are similar in color and cut to what Hillary Clinton wore during her presidential campaigns in 2012 and 20…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 07:08 PM
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Sounds great! Taking a whiff of the perfume on my wrists always cheers me up! I’m excited for you :-)
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 07:45 AM
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Again, I never told her she had to do ALL of the household chores herself and I don’t know why you keep seeing that from what I said. I even specifically asked her what chores she struggles with and what frustrates her fiancé so I could gauge whether or not he’s being reasonable and whether it’s even feasible for her to do these chores with her schedule. From what she told me, these chores are definitely feasible for her. If he was upset that she wasn’t cooking for him everyday after work and fo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 08:30 PM
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Sorry but how was my advice unsettling? I feel like you didn’t actually read my whole comment or OP’s post and are blowing things out of proportion for some unrelated agenda. Not once did I say she had to do this all on her own. She says herself that her fiancé “goes out of his way constantly in order to do little things to make [her] life easier and ensure that [she] feels safe, supported, and loved.” This sounds nothing like the situation you’re describing, where she’s not getting any help fro…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 10:20 AM
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No problem at all! I struggle with the exact same thing - mindfulness and time management were not my strengths either! However, it is definitely fixable and although it may take a bit of an adjustment period, I have faith that you can make it happen! Also, you will be finishing school in the near future - just get through these strange times and you’ll have much more time to get everything done once you graduate!
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 02:00 AM
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The good news is that it seems his frustration is less with you both having fundamentally different ideas of what constitutes clean and more to do with you not managing your time correctly. This means that you could fix some habits with better planning and mindfulness rather than you having to change your entire outlook/lifestyle. From the examples you gave me, the things you are unable to do are some of the easiest tasks you can do. Running the dishes through the washer or starting the laundry …
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 01:17 AM
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What exactly does he feel frustrated with what you do at home? If you let us know maybe we can help you find ways to manage this and communicate with him :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/20 11:48 PM
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I think it’s fine given that he’s also friends with your husband. If he comes down to visit, invite your husband to hang out with you both. You can stay in contact with him, but be mindful that talking to a man all day everyday can easily lead to emotional cheating. Checking in every now and then is totally fine and healthy for a friendship though!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 08:18 PM
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I think this is fine for the first date. IMO telling him that your standard is a dinner date (which I’m assuming you expect him to pay for) might be a red flag FOR HIM because it seems entitled of you and like you expect to be wined and dined from the get go for no given reason. Because he has yet to even meet you, he doesn’t know that you’re a high value woman, so demanding that he takes you out or else may leave a weird aftertaste in his mouth. Even if being taken out to dinner is your standar…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 08:10 PM
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Glad I could offer my two cents! You should have no trouble finding men who are willing to commit without sex in your religious community :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 11:06 PM
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Thanks! I totally forgot about this thing!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 09:25 PM
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I think men who you can easily obtain commitment with before you have sex are either 1) religious, 2) conservative/traditional, or 3) have less options. In the first case, the reason these men are willing to forgo sex for commitment is a morality- and value-based one. In my opinion, this rule doesn’t necessarily apply to these men. In the third case, the reason these men forgo sex for commitment is because they have a hard time inspiring sex in most women. I can’t speak for conservative cultures…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 09:04 PM
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I’m happy for you that you have a healthy relationship with a good man! I too got my first serious relationship thanks to RPW, and I had the same fears as you did. What really helped me was the RPW Sidebar/Wiki. It’s the closest thing to an encyclopedia of all things RPW and helped me convert my “getting a man” strategy to “keeping a man” strategy. Though the posts in the wiki are said a lot more eloquently than I can, my two main takeaways are that 1) men feel our love through our respect and f…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 08:32 PM
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No problem girl! As long as you’re wearing sunscreen, you’ll be saving yourself a lot more damage than if you didn’t! Hahaha I can only picture Snape with the pearly whites, hair and nails did, and micropenned brows 😂 you know your body best, just wanted you to know about how retinols make sun damage worse! I’m glad you’ve been on the marathon life! If you know you won’t get a resentful attitude about it, your man will be very lucky to have someone so put together. We’re all a bit vain anyways, …
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 03:03 AM
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Yes! So many derms say the one skincare item they could not live without is sunscreen :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 01:59 AM
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Love all that you’re doing to look great! I also use retinoids + an AHA/BHA peel to keep my skin soft and to prevent wrinkles. It’s done wonders for my skin and I hope it does the same for you! The only thing I wanna make sure you know is that if you’re suntanning (which I advise against anyways - it causes premature aging, sun spots/sun damage, and can lead to skin cancer and melanoma) while on retinol, you MUST use a sunscreen that’s preferably SPF 50 and up, and you must NEVER use retinol dur…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/20 01:46 AM
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Perfect advice! I would do the exact same thing :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 03:42 AM
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In the video it says to ask the cute guy at the bar/coffeeshop for a favor: could he please watch your jacket while you get these drinks to your friends? When you come back, you thank him profusely and ask him how his day’s going. My own “drop the handkerchief” move: ask a somewhat silly question about the environment you’re in. If you’re at the grocery store, ask him where he picked up those beans! When he shows you, thank him and ask about his day. If you’re at the gym, say you can’t help but …
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 03:38 AM
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Hehe I love this video so much!
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 03:32 AM
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I don’t think tattoos correlate with character on men. There are surgeons, lawyers, businessmen, and teachers/professors who are hiding full sleeves under their work clothes. Judge the man for how he treats you and who he is rather than letting his tattoos be a red flag. I’m not that attracted to tattoos. I just really like the look of smooth male skin with muscle definition. But this is more of a physical preference and if I met an outstanding guy with a bunch of tattoos, I wouldn’t think it’s …
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/20 03:29 AM
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I totally feel for you because my parents were very similar to yours in how much effort and sacrifices they put into providing for me. However, to make my parents truly happy that they raised a good daughter, they would want me to get married one day and have a family of my own. If I want to have a successful marriage and be a good mother and wife, I have to accept my husband as my own blood. If you have children with him, you have literally entered into a blood pact (hehe sounds spooky) with yo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 10:59 PM
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Same here :) I’m an only child and it was easy for me to rely on their full attention throughout my childhood. I don’t blame you at all for still feeling attached to your family at age 20! Super mature of you to realize that your husband should be the captain and not your parents when you got married at such a young age. Thanks for sharing your wisdom :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 10:49 PM
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Not married yet, but I definitely see myself having this problem when I get married! I’m super close with my parents and rely on them for a lot. You don’t have to lose how close you are with your family but you definitely should acknowledge that your husband is your family and priority as well. This is great advice for those who grew up in healthy households and with tight-knit families :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/20 08:55 PM
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I don’t have any experience in a conservative culture like that, so what I said was more applicable to a super liberal Western culture. Here, virginity or a low N-count makes you a bit more unique than your peers who follow the general cultural consensus that women should experiment sexually to be liberated and modern. While most women and even some men are vocally supportive of female sexual liberation, the fact remains that many men still have a visceral gut reaction to be turned off by sexual…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 08:41 PM
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Could you clarify what you mean? I’m not sure I understand.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 06:48 PM
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I love this! I truly don’t think RPW is only for conservative women and trad-wives. It’s a study in human nature, not morality and values. It’s sexual strategy for women at its core and it can be applicable in relationships on both ends of the political spectrum. I especially liked what you said about being child-like and not childish. Having a wide-eyed demeanor, being free-spirited, and being happy to follow someone’s lead is miles apart from constant shit-testing and passive-aggressive behavi…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 11:31 PM
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I don’t disagree with your sentiments - you’re free to make any conclusion you’d like about who you’re dating. But I don’t agree at all that all women are lying about their number. I told my SO I was a virgin and it was the truth. It was an important thing he needed to know about why I took things slow or why I was a bad kisser, bad at flirting, etc. I imagine there are many women my age who have an N-count of 1 or 2 out there who aren’t lying as well. Considering that the average Gen Z woman ha…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 11:04 PM
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Some guys definitely don’t have the patience for virgins, but this works as a nice vetting tool because those guys probably didn’t want you for more than sex anyways and probably have different goals when it comes to dating. However, the guys that do have the patience for virgins are so much more understanding of your pace and will treat you with a lot of respect. Me opening up to my SO that I was a virgin added to my vulnerability, and in turn it played even more into his protector instincts.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 10:41 PM
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I think it was more of an example of taking a definitive measure to improve your SMV. Sure, SMV is what men instinctively look for because their lizard brain subconsciously tells them that it’ll make for healthier offspring, but the conscious mind doesn’t think like that at all. Your instant, visual attraction to someone is not gonna take into consideration that the nose may be fake. If you were born with a conventionally unattractive nose, you’d realistically open up your options to so many mor…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 07:17 AM
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While past relationships and experiences came up in my relationship, it had a lot more to do with me being an oversharer and liking to talk about my past. My SO never was the one to pressure that info out of me lol. I think talking about these things really depends on the individuals and the couple.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 06:01 AM
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I found a good man in an equally liberal, metropolitan area. I also found him at university, and we met in class, so it’s definitely not hopeless. However, I think it’s a great idea to join religious clubs and conservative extracurriculars if that’s what you’re into. If you’re not, don’t force it and just join clubs that you’re actually into (although fashion club probably doesn’t have that many men XD). In general, extracurriculars, whether they’re conservative or not, are where I’ve seen most …
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 05:49 AM
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I can understand that men make estimates for their GF’s N-count based on little things that their GF tells them, but just pitching in to say going to frat parties and drinking definitely does not mean she got ran through lol. I went to plenty of frat parties as a freshman in college and maintained my virginity despite it. I’m not that religious but I was friends with a lot of the girls in a catholic club and they all went to frat parties and drank too. Knowing their character AND going to frat p…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 04:47 AM
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This sounds so sweet (and is definitely making me crave some pesto pasta lol)! Sounds like a blissful afternoon to me! Your SO is lucky to have someone who’s still considerate 4.5 years in :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 02:36 AM
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Hmm, it seems like he’s very sensitive about his space and having control over his kitchen. If you’ve brought it up and he acknowledged it but doesn’t seem to be able to help it, I’d accept that it’s a touchy subject for him and let him adjust at his own pace. Preparing a picnic for him would be a great idea if it’s inconvenient for you guys to spend time at your place! You can show him just how good you are at cooking and maybe he’ll like the food so much he’ll let you cook more at his place ;)…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 01:47 AM
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Interesting thanks for the insight!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 04:22 AM
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Thanks for the suggestion! However, I’m 22 now so I’ve had my fair share of time spent developing myself AND vetting my SO since I decided to re-strategize. The reason why I framed it as a surprise was because it actually was to me haha. I literally was in the talking stage with soooo many guys (I’m talkin’ 25+), and most of them were very eager to get to know me and hit on me, but not eager at all to make a lasting relationship. As for the few (probably 2 or 3 out of that 25+) that wanted a rel…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 03:49 AM
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Glad you liked it. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/20 03:30 AM
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Thanks for sharing! It must have felt great when your wife finally began to trust you wholeheartedly. Though I don’t blame women who are extra-cautious because they’ve been burned in the past, cautiousness can definitely be overdone and cause a whole set of different problems. It’s smart to vet but once he’s proven he’s trustworthy, opening up and being vulnerable can do wonders in advancing a relationship. My SO has mentioned that he treats me so gently and kindly because he just wants to prote…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 10:34 PM
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😂😂😂 much easier to expose your underbelly when you have emrata’s six pack LOL
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/20 09:37 PM
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Hmm maybe he was cutting then? lol I really don’t keep track and TBH man changes his eating habits a lot. He’s 6’0, I forgot his weight but his last DEXA scan said he was 9 or 10% body fat. So you can gain more muscle if you’re gaining fat at the same time? Sorry, this stuff is a little confusing but I find it fascinating! I’d ask my BF but he has a very convoluted eating schedule and seemingly conflicting goals but he trusts his dietitian and trainer and if it works for him, then I’m happy too …
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 03:22 AM
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Does this work? I don’t know much about this and I’m just curious lol. My bf is a gym rat but when he bulks he either goes keto or high protein low carb.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 03:06 AM
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Most of the women I know, especially the conventionally attractive ones, who are also in their early twenties are not looking for significantly older men. Although most young women would strive for a man a few years older than her, few would actively lust for a man in his 40s like the manosphere hypes up, unless he has fame, wealth, status, and charm. It’s like how men say they like hot women with short hair not because of it, but despite having short hair because she’s so hot that it doesn’t ma…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 01:00 AM
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I’m sorry that I’ve upset you by calling out what I found problematic about your post. I didn’t get offended by the words - I’d be dead if I felt offense every time someone said something mean on the internet of all places. It’s that the way you use them aligns with an incel mentality and that can wreck havoc on your own journey to become a better woman and influence other women here to do the same. I felt for your post the other day about hitting the wall, and I loved that you generated a heart…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 07:08 PM
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RedPillWomen has a very different culture than TheRedPill, seeing as the former was built as a community for women who accept that femininity should be prioritized for female sexual strategy and the latter as a community for men to discuss ways to get laid first and foremost using the most productive means necessary. Both communities recognize that men and women are different, so it’s no surprise that the posts on RedPillWomen are mostly by women who are eager to improve their femininity, gentle…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 06:45 PM
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Just as you find it unattractive for “manlets” to “cringesimp” for height, many people are turned off by your use of incel terminology as well. You say men use these terms as well, but no one finds those men attractive or likable either. This could have been a productive post discussing potential differences in men of different heights, but instead I feel like you just did this to tear certain men down.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 06:13 PM
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That’s fair. You don’t deserve to be judged for wanting to pursue a career just as they don’t deserve to be judged for wanting to be a SAHM. However, if your culture is one that rejects women who have masculine aspirations, which is different from the US where women are actively encouraged to be more masculine and femininity is shamed, then it will probably be harder for you to find a long term partner if you want to prioritize your career. Again, not saying that this is fair, but if your passio…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 08:14 AM
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It seems you have plenty of traditionally feminine hobbies and habits but are unwilling to allow yourself to truly feel feminine. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I sense that you still hold some residual fear or resentment of femininity because a big chunk of your self identity comes from being a self-made, responsible, and independent woman and you see that as superior to a stereotypically feminine woman who stays home, raises her kids, and caters to her husband. At the end of the day, there are m…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 06:54 AM
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If you don’t feel comfortable with therapy, there are still many other resources for you to consider. You can find a plethora of scientific databases online that will have articles, research papers, and other material on codependency. Look up a few books on the subject and learn more about how to recover from codependent tendencies as well. It’s great that you are self-aware of your problems because that means you can look for solutions to fix it. You say that you have hobbies and friends that y…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 06:42 PM
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Beautifully put!
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 01:04 AM
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I think the older you get, the more reasonable it is to date a man a few years younger than you. There’s likely a negligible gap in maturity and goals when you’re both in your thirties, and it would be a shame to limit your dating pool for something like age if you’re both competent adults looking for marriage. However, if you’re still young, dating a younger man might present some difficulties. I went on a few dates with an 18 year old college freshman as a 20 year old college junior, and we ju…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 09:00 PM
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If they’re see-through then definitely cover up that bum! A lot of higher-end leggings specifically made for being worn on their own, such as the Lululemon or Outdoor Voices ones, are so thick and specifically designed to prevent your cheeks peeking through! They essentially look like jeggings without the pockets or faux-denim look, so I think it’s okay to wear them with a shorter shirt IMO but I understand why some people wouldn’t.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 08:15 PM
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Even if leggings are skin-tight, I think many people don’t see them as immodest simply because they’ve been normalized and worn by most people. I have no qualms about wearing leggings but modesty is also not really one of my concerns. Men love them but I think few would think women are “sending the wrong message” for wearing them. I don’t think a t-shirt and leggings is frumpy at all! It’s quite a common combo and perfectly fine for the gym. Tees and leggings are only frumpy when worn on dates o…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/20 07:24 PM
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Has anyone made anything fun or exotic recently? Been feeling like I’m in a cooking slump and I’m out of ideas for new and exciting recipes to experiment on!
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 09:10 PM
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I suggest planning a nice picnic for the two of you! If you can’t cook, you can still order some takeout and set it up on a cute picnic blanket. If you’re being extra cautious of restaurants and don’t feel comfortable ordering take out, you can still throw quite an elaborate snacks picnic! Pick up chips (or crisps for you hehe) and dip, slice up some fresh fruit, set up a conservative cheese board with what you can find last minute, make a small assortment of sandwiches, and buy some cookies or …
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 09:05 PM
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In terms of vetting, the main thing I look for is consistency. If they keep their word, are reliable, and put in the effort to see you, that’s a good green flag. It’s important for them to be a good communicator as well. They are not passively or actively aggressive when they encounter a problem with me or in general. They are understanding listeners who can communicate in a productive way. I look for those with healthy lifestyles and bodies (they don’t have to be ripped, but being in general go…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 01:12 AM
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You’ve lost a good amount of weight and you lost it at a healthy pace. Listen to your body - getting a bald spot because you’re eating 1200 calories AND doing cardio workouts means that you’re not fueling your body enough. Try upping it to 1400-1500 calories on the days you work out, but stick to 1200 on rest days. Consider doing weight training! [r/strongcurves](reddit.com/r/strongcurves) comes to mind. I’m not saying you are near your goal weight, but losing weight fast comes with a plethora o…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 05:28 PM
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Short pink skirt and option 1 blouse is my favorite! I don’t think it looks too girlish at all, but you’re young anyways so it wouldn’t be inappropriate regardless. If you’re really attached to the white pleated option 2 skirt, I’d suggest looking for a different style top to go with it. All of those floral blouses would be a bit too frumpy and pilgrimish when paired with the long skirt IMO. Perhaps a fitted sweater or cropped tank top would work a bit better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 08:12 AM
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Everyone else who’s commented has made great points and I 100% agree with them. He’s made you into a complicit criminal and is using the ends to justify the means of an conniving and untrustworthy act. I just want to point out to you one more hole in his argument. He says this is his way of sticking it to the man, but in terms of net effects, the damage he’s doing to these corporations he hates so much is very negligible. Like everyone else has mentioned, he’s instead putting employees at risk o…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 10:47 PM
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Thank you for listening to our feedback! The updated rule makes a lot of sense and I like how its multi-part list covers a lot of possible ground. I really appreciate the thought, time, and effort you guys put into this :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 06:07 AM
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No worries if you don’t want to disclose. I only asked because if you did go through something traumatic, it would be largely insensitive on his part to talk about it so callously if he knew about it. It would be very inconsiderate of any partner to talk dismissively about hypotheticals about intimate partner violence knowing that his/her partner has gone through it or has experience with it. Any rationalization may well be understood as victim shaming and it’s quite rude to do that when talking…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 03:29 AM
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I love this! I think this is partially why Aubrey Hepburn was such a timeless icon, no matter how young or old she was. Even when she was much older, people still found her to be one of the most beautiful women alive. I think it’s because of her gamine energy in her roles and personal life. It was child-like (but not in a creepy way) and full of bright optimism, which made her radiate femininity throughout her life.
/r/RedPillWives22/09/20 02:21 AM
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May I ask what exactly he said that made you upset? You also mention that it was triggering, so was it something that you have gone through yourself? I think these details are important to figure out who is or isn’t being reasonable here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/20 02:17 AM
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I wouldn’t lie on things truly important to my man or for things where the truth would benefit his growth. The only lie I’ve told my guy was when he went all out and cooked me a surprise meal for a special day. It was definitely not the best thing I ever ate, but seeing as he has no real interest in learning to cook and only did it as a way to show me how much he cares for me, I saw no need to take a dump on his hard work to make me feel loved. I told him that it was delicious and enjoyed the me…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 04:23 AM
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Happy cake day! I agree 100%.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 04:17 AM
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No worries. The new rule says that we cannot suggest leaving a relationship without first suggesting other advice to fix the relationship. I think the intention of the new rule was to mitigate the increasing amount of hasty calls to end a relationship over sometimes frivolous concerns, which is a good intention in my book. However, many (regular contributors, some EC, and former mods) brought up the valid point there are certain scenarios where the only good option is to leave. In my opinion thi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 11:58 PM
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And to add, in the immediate aftermath of this, I strongly suggest you stay at a friend or family’s house while you sort things out. You need to be in a safe place where you can plan and execute your plan safely. I’m sure the hotline and resources will guide you, but it may be helpful for you if you need to talk to law enforcement or the judicial system if you take pictures of your injuries.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 08:19 PM
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I agree with you that the pitfalls of the new rules are clearly shown in scenarios like this, but if OP is going through something like this, now is not the time to make a political statement. She could be very distressed and take your words as stated, especially if she is new to RPW or didn’t update herself on the recent controversy.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 07:59 PM
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I’m so sorry. That sounds so terrifying and like one of the worst betrayals of trust anyone could ever experience. I’m deeply disturbed by his behavior and am fearful for your safety. Even if he truly means his apology (if he actually apologized), he has shown he has the potential and willingness to hurt you and put you in danger. Please call this hotline and let them know in detail what happened to you as you did to us. I’m not an expert on domestic abuse but here are some resources I’ve found …
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 07:56 PM
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I’m so sorry you feel that way! I can definitely relate as I usually wear 32a but even then it’s just a bit big for me. Please don’t think of yourself as lesser than or unfeminine. There’s plenty of men who find women with smaller boobs beautiful, and there’s many others who don’t care either way. There are so many celebrities who are heavily lusted after by men and women who have smaller boobs (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9). Look on any runway and you’ll find loads of flat-chested models. Hell, ev…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 07:03 PM
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I agree! I think girl-game can be wildly successful but only IF the guy is high value AND husband material. Otherwise it’s like spending all your savings on a lemon car. You can’t expect to self improve yourself and have your junk car magically improve alongside you. You can and should put yourself in the position to have bountiful savings (improving your SMV, RMV, and overall mental health) so you can afford a stellar car that will last you for the long term from the get-go.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 04:44 AM
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That’s fair. I’m no sage when it comes to life wisdom at all. I don’t expect or want to be the only one to guide women who are very lost. However, a lot of times these women look for responses before the ECs and mods can set things straight, and they delete their post in frustration or humiliation before any certifiable advice can be given. It may be incredibly confusing if the comments couldn’t say what they needed to in those red-flag situations because they were fearful of a perma-ban. This c…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 11:38 PM
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I agree that the “leave him” rhetoric has been excessive lately, especially when the OP sounds unstable, biased and basically just says “BF is a big meanie, right?” May I suggest we have some mod- and EC-verified red flags that may illicit an immediate “leave him” response? Though you guys should have the final say on what these red flags are, some examples could be domestic abuse, addiction, or serial infidelity. For example, even though it sounds intuitive to us, a mother of 3 who has been wit…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 10:43 AM
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When I first read this post I was about to go off on you OP for being so judgmental, but then I read this comment and think you’re definitely in the right. Those kinds of jokes are scary and I wouldn’t give anyone who makes them the benefit of the doubt, especially when it comes to your own kids. She’s shown you that she doesn’t have the right temperament to deal with kids lovingly, and your kids deserve the best! Next time, I’d suggest being a bit more soft with your wording. You were polite, b…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 05:35 AM
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Yes I agree! You’re much less prone to grinding your teeth and TMJ when your bite is correctly aligned.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 05:25 AM
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What’s with the snark? OP asked about procedures and SMV, and I answered with my two cents. You said braces are high maintenance but cost-wise, it really isn’t. You pay for the braces once and you’re done. You say the priority should be on health when OP is literally asking about SMV and appearances. Maybe you’re the one who didn’t read OP’s original question.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 05:23 AM
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I disagree. I think 80% of lash extensions looks obviously fake, even if they’re not the thick caterpillar ones. It looks weird when the top lashes are super long and the bottom lashes are nonexistent in comparison.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 12:32 AM
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I don’t see surgery in the near future for me, but I’ve seen people who look incredible after a conservative nose job. I literally had no idea my friend got one and thought she was just born with a perfect ski slope princess nose. I think it’s hard to tell because she didn’t do much else to her face. She had thin lips but left them alone and never tried to use fillers to make her cheeks or jawline more prominent. She did her research and found a surgeon who she could trust to do a natural lookin…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 12:19 AM
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I kinda disagree. Braces doesn’t require much upkeep if you’re good with wearing your retainers. It’s not like botox or luxe facials where you have to constantly get it redone. It is a privilege to be able to afford them, but I got mine for relatively cheap ($2K) when I was a teen. You can also get payment plans for it with certain dentists. I believe they were one of the biggest changes I made to my SMV. I couldn’t even talk to boys because I was so insecure about my teeth (bad overbite and hug…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 12:15 AM
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I’m sorry you’re going through a tough break up. My heart goes out to you! From his words, it seems like he’s not leading you on but trying to find a nice way to tell you that he doesn’t want you to continue to pursue your relationship with him. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I interpreted the “I don’t know what the future holds maybe universe brings us together” bit as just a platitude that lets him rip the bandaid off slowly and gently instead of hurting you by being upfront. I wouldn’t want to …
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 10:50 AM
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I have a pretty decent collection of designer and niche fragrances, but surprisingly, J’adore by Dior is the only one that makes my man go insane. I ask him all the time what he thinks about my different perfumes and he always says it’s nice, but J’adore is the only one that makes him pop his head in the room and run to bury his nose into my neck unsolicited lol.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 10:39 AM
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I try my best to be mindful of being poised even when I’m doing daily monotonous tasks. I struggle most with this when I’m on my phone and multi-tasking.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 02:48 AM
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Totally agree. Gotta respect women who aren’t a giant bundle of anxiety and overthinking like I am lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/20 01:21 AM
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I agree! Making the first move is terrifying and feels super risky! But when I started just saying hi and smiling at attractive strangers, I really opened myself up to a higher calibre of men that I once thought were out of my league. I probably wouldn’t randomly approach someone at a party or bar, but I’ve gotten great results from chatting up the cute guy in my class or the handsome guy sitting next to me on a plane!
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 10:19 PM
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I was in an extracurricular club at uni, and was trying to get a position on their executive board. One of the board members basically took me under her wing, and she was literally the most charming person I ever met! I can’t really explain it, but she just radiated feminine energy. She didn’t do this by dressing super girly and put together either! She looked good, but was overall pretty casual. Yet somehow, you could feel her warmth and femininity just by talking to her. She was always kind wh…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 08:59 PM
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If it’s early days, you need to calm down. You spent 9 hours(!) with this guy, so there’s no need for you to text him again later that night and expect a full conversation! At the most, the only good thing that could have been said over text after the date was a “thanks for a great night! I had loads of fun.” That kind of message doesn’t really need much of a response. I feel like you overwhelmed him. You guys spent all day together, then you texted him right after the date to talk, AND immediat…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 07:09 PM
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I think many parts of his comment is biased and ignorant, but as an Asian girl who’s been to Korea and China, I gotta say he’s not wrong when it comes to too much makeup. Girls in Asia have a different kind of heavy makeup look - it’s not heavy contour and gigantic falsies/extensions like it is in the West. Instead, it’s caking on foundation that’s 3 times lighter than their natural shade because sadly, colorism is a huge problem. It’s having badly blended under eye creases to maximize cuteness.…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 07:04 PM
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Yes I agree! Way better to take the risk to vet than to settle.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 06:23 AM
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I definitely agree that a fear of being plated is part of the reason why girls avoid masculine and high value men. I think overcoming that fear begins with seeing men as individuals and not as generalizations. If you see guys as either scary bad boys with 5 different side chicks or as weak and lazy beta males who won’t be able to lead you, you’ll be resentful of the nice men who treat you right and extra paranoid and insecure with the HVM that you might land. Instead, I think it’s best to cast a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 04:34 AM
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I can see a meetcute happening while you’re in your cute everlane dress!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 01:50 AM
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Sounds super cute! Good luck girl 🤩 also suggesting that you wear those clothes on a more day to day basis to get those dates!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 01:11 AM
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I used to have this problem too, even though I always dressed super girly and had pretty feminine hobbies. I think it was because I was intimidated by masculine guys and I was so shy that I couldn’t properly connect with them. Even though I was attracted to them, I basically did nothing to show them I was interested. Feminine guys were a lot less intimidating and easier to talk to, so it was way more natural for me to be friends with them and see them as potential partners (only to find out they…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 11:59 PM
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Ooh that’s a great idea!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 05:19 PM
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I did this and it worked for a while for me, but also made me have PTSD whenever someone called me 😅
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 04:52 PM
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This video really explains the benefits of having long vs. short hair! Basically, in most studies and surveys, they found that men prefer long hair, but short hair does work if you have the facial features for it. They found that for average women, long hair made men rate them as more attractive, which is why many people suggest it here. It has the greatest chance of improving your SMV if you are a normal woman. However, if you have exceptional bone structure, having short hair or being bald a l…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 04:45 PM
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I don’t think it’s bad that he never noticed you. One of the main reasons RPW suggests improving your appearance is because it simply is the easiest way to improve your chances with men. He is attracted to your new and improved self more than he was to you in the past. I’m sure there are guys out there who you are not currently interested in for reasons such as body weight, hygiene, style, and ambition that you may find yourself way more attracted to if they get their life together. People like …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 03:49 AM
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Congrats to an unforgettable trip!
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 02:33 AM
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Also super flat-chested, so I can get away with wide-scoop necklines and even super plunging deep Vs without any insulting stares. I stopped wearing plunge necklines so much in the past year, not because I’m trying to dress more modestly but because I got into Kibbe types and realized that as a gamine/ingenue, those just don’t flatter me as much. Now I wear a lot more boat or halter necklines that show off my collarbone and shoulders! If I did have the body type that would look super sexy in a l…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 10:12 AM
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That sounds amazing! I’d totally love to open doors for my future husband like that in a way that’s as fun as throwing dinner parties!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 06:53 AM
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Haha yes she’s such a ball of goofy energy! No wonder she makes cooking so fun!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 08:34 PM
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Thank you! It was a huge realization that I made these past few years!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 08:27 PM
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Thanks for the rec! I’ll check her book out :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 01:23 PM
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No problem! As for changing your mindset, I think it becomes easier to receive when you have a good grasp on your own self worth. When I had particularly low self esteem, I always questioned people’s motives when they complimented me or when guys who dated me wanted to pay for our date because I felt like they must have wanted something from me to be doing nice things for me. Why would they want to be kind to me when I felt like didn’t deserve it? They must be trying to gain something, and it’s …
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 01:16 PM
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No problem :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 01:04 PM
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I make these Asian fusion garlic noodles and add whatever protein I have around. I usually just sauté it before I make the noodles and add it in. Then I steam some bok choy or spinach with some garlic on the side and boom! Balanced meal with protein, greens, and filling carbs in about 30 minutes!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 11:52 AM
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I’ve had no issues with men showing discomfort when I asked if they wanted to split the meal/dessert/coffee, but I never tried to pay for everything unless I was picking up coffee or some burgers for us. Personally, I’m totally fine with splitting but I can’t see myself ever wanting to pay for my date’s meal as well, so I naturally never offered to. Perhaps they feel uncomfortable that you’d be ending the evening with them in the receiving position. I can sorta see why it leaves a sour note in t…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 11:42 AM
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I disagree about asking to split being awkward! I find that it’s a happy medium where you don’t have to sit there and smile expectantly while he picks up the bill, and less masculine than pulling out your own wallet and potentially haggling over who’s getting this round. For me, asking to split is fine if you only ask once and accept whatever outcome he responds with. If he says yes, you gladly pay your portion, but if he says he’s got it, you kindly thank him. The situation resolves itself quic…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 11:40 AM
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Haha they’re so addicting!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 08:26 AM
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No problem! Love her zany and playful sense of humor too!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 06:51 AM
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No problem :) Her channel is a hidden gem for sure! I can’t think of anything else like it unfortunately. The YouTube algorithm that led me to her works in mysterious ways haha
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 06:49 AM
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Oh I’m glad you liked it :) I agree - there’s nothing like showing the people you love that you care about them like cooking for them for an evening! I like how she streamlines the process for you and makes it much less daunting.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/20 02:14 AM
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Haha those sound so cute as pjs! No problem! Sounds like you guys are happy and just have a tiny thing to quickly solve. Good luck :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/20 04:01 AM
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That makes sense! You should definitely only do what makes you comfortable and feels right in your relationship. If he’s acknowledging that you’re open to having sex but won’t pursue it further, then he’s likely not in the mood then. I agree with u/marceqan that you should try appealing to the senses then! If you know what outfits/hairstyles/perfumes particularly turn him on, try putting those on! I don’t know what your man likes, but mine and many other guys (according to askmen threads lol) lo…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 09:29 PM
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Although I think that having a talk with him would be best, you don’t seem very comfortable with that option. You don’t have to say it like “we’re having X amount sex but I really want Y amount.” That sounds very mechanical and not inspiring for sexy times. If you tell him how badly you want him or how much you think about what he could do to you all day, that’s more likely the type of imagery that would get him going. I understand that you prefer not to initiate, but if he is initiating every t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 07:47 PM
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Very sweet of you to realize that he’s spending a lot of energy focusing on you and you want to spoil him as well once in a while! I didn’t understand that from your post and I thought you meant that you didn’t want him to care about your pleasure at all, so I was like oh no you deserve that too! Thanks for clarifying, wishing you both the best :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 06:49 PM
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Super happy for you that you’re feeling loved and cherished in your relationship! Sounds like you guys are living the dream! I wonder what your reasoning is for saying that he doesn’t have to worry about your pleasure during sex though. Could you clarify?
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 11:45 AM
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Thank you - I’m glad you enjoyed it :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/20 09:36 AM
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I think you have become a bit disillusioned with the dating market and as a result, you might be influencing your dating life with selection bias and self fulfilling prophecies. I don’t blame you for starting to lose hope with how prevalent casual dating is, but your mindset might be amplifying the exact effects you’re so against. While I agree with you that casual dating and sex have gotten out of hand and provide no real benefits to women, I think your view that allowing men to pay for dinner …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 08:54 PM
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No problem, good luck with everything :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 01:01 AM
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Being animated and energetic is great! Many men would love to have a woman who is bright and beaming with excitement while life gets monotonous. I wouldn’t want you to force yourself out of a good trait. Just keep in mind that there’s always a time and a place - it’s great to be jovial and unrestrained if you’re on a date in a park or on the beach, but if your date took you to a fancy restaurant or to meet his parents then you should remember your etiquette and keep your voice down. You don’t ha…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 10:07 PM
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Oof I love that feeling when he leans and and takes a sniff! Bonus points when he does it while I’m cooking lol that’s like reaching a bonus level in a video game 😂
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 08:26 PM
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I learned to love cooking! It makes me feel so feminine and nurturing when I can feed my parents or my LTR. Also, I feel so much more put together if I always have my nails neat. My nails are painted 95% of the time and in an almond shape and it makes me feel so girly! You don’t necessarily have to keep them painted though - chipped nails look terrible IMO and I’d much rather have beautifully filed natural nails. For an extra touch, a spritz of perfume on my wrists and behind my ears makes me fe…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 08:01 AM
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Instead of focusing on how much she has crossed a line, you should see how your BF crossed the line. This girl doesn’t owe you anything and barely knows you. You have no reason to have expectations that she should be considerate of your feelings. However, your BF is your partner, and you’ve already expressed how you’re not comfortable with him and her being so close, her sleeping over, and their history, yet he does things like deliberately kiss her in front of you. Your boundaries are reasonabl…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 07:51 AM
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I’ve used Loreal’s True Match compact powder for about a decade! With a brush it’s super buildable and I use the sponge attached for spot coverage (most concealers look either too oily or too cakey on me). It’s crazy affordable and keeps my oily skin matte, even with my SPF 50 sunscreen, moisturizer, and serums underneath the powder. I’ve tried switching to more expensive formulas like Bare Minerals or Armani, but none of them suit my skin as well as the Loreal True Match! My wallet isn’t compla…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 07:43 PM
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Fun fact: I have, twice in my life, had the surreal experience of listening a Miss Universe contestant cry because I wouldn't leave FunSize for her. That’s crazy! To regular girls who grew up watching that stuff, the Miss Universe ladies seemed like the epitome of high-caliber women on a level that was probably unattainable for most. The fact that FunSize was the most special keeper out of the women you’ve dated means that her qualities really shine through. I’m happy for both of you for finding…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/20 03:22 AM
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Ahh I’m excited for you! I love that French girl summer look! Sooo natural and fresh
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 09:19 AM
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If you love the comfort of sweats and leggings, I suggest looking for those cuts in more refined fabrics. For example, a pair of high waisted linen pants and a plain tank top, when styled with a sleek jacket and beautiful flats, gives you an outfit that looks super put together with the comfort of sweats! The pants are super flowy and light, and you can pair it with any basic tee or tank top. Don’t let this price point scare you - there are plenty of linen pants just like these sold at Target an…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 10:51 PM
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Not at all! I met my current LTR when I was purple-pilled, and when things got a little hot and heavy in the early days HE was the one to say he wanted to stop and take things slower. I had the same thought in my head but I didn’t know how to bring it up, so I lucked out because I met someone with very similar values. I’m glad that he felt serious enough about me to do that, even if he had hookups in the past. There’s men out there like this, so don’t let the ones who aren’t convince you otherwi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 11:10 PM
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Curling your lashes is such a godsend! It opens up your eyes and just makes you look as cute as a button imo! I have lashes that grow straight down, and it makes all the difference even without mascara.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 11:03 PM
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I love how feminine blush can make you look! As long as you keep it natural, it can give you such a warm and sweet glow.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 11:00 PM
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You win not by defeating men, but constructing "mutual win" scenarios so that men will work with you, not against you. Beautifully put! What’s the point of scoring against someone on your own team? What they didn't understand is that she had played the game a different way. Instead of trying to push buttons to get me to do something she wanted, she simply made having her around fun and pleasurable. So each day or week, I made the decision to spend time with her instead of hitting up Tinder or wh…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 08:33 PM
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Thank you so much :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/20 02:24 AM
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I agree! Shein and zaful can be a mixed bag, but I love that they have a super detailed reviews section where customers post the piece they bought! It can be really helpful to see the piece without studio lighting and on a normal person, not a 5’10 model who’s posing and likely doesn’t fit the garment perfectly either! They also have a super wide variety of options from classy to sexy to basics so you can pick what suits you most. Though supporting fast fashion isn’t super ethical, I think it’s …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 05:34 AM
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Whoa didn’t expect this! Thank you so much!!
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 05:19 AM
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The first is some visible milestone that a woman can easily quantify, and presumably brag about to hear friends. The second is the actual male state of mind that makes these things happen. That’s true! I never thought about it that way. To me, the most important aspect of the commitment is that it seems the most ironclad option in the long term. Sure, everyone’s entitled to a divorce, but it’s much more difficult to divorce your once perky, now-menopausal wife for young tail than it is to simply…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 03:18 AM
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I agree with you, but do you think there’s a difference when the commitment/settling down is specifically marriage? I can see men of all ages committing to a woman who’s a catch, but not many early twenties men (outside of religious/abstinent circles) would be interested in marriage in a 1-3 year time frame. I also believe that there are two camps of men: those who are open to marriage and those who are opposed to it. Both are valid and reasonable desires but men who don’t want marriage will lik…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/20 08:34 PM
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I’ve struggled with this as well. I’m sorry you were targeted because of your race - that kind of negativity is so hurtful and lingers in your mind for so long. In situations like that, I’ve tried to stand my ground and if they brush me off, I keep politely telling them that it isn’t okay until they’ll at least address me. What helps is creating a consensus with those around you. For example, if someone cuts me in line, the people behind me would be upset as well, so I’d turn around and say, “th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/20 03:57 AM
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I actually agree with you! I commented that people used to comment/tease me on my makeup but have stopped now, and I think at least some part of it is that I’m much better with makeup now in my 20s than I was as a teenager with overdrawn eye brows and badly blended eye shadow! Some people still teased me when I had more natural days, but nowadays my goal is that “is she even wearing makeup?” look that took me 10 minutes just to carefully draw individual brow hairs alone on top of so many more st…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 05:36 AM
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Haha definitely guilty of stealing decor and fashion ideas for inspo as well :P
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 05:29 AM
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Good guess actually! She’s from a different communist country :P
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 05:28 AM
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I agree! If I go to someone’s house and it’s super neat and beautifully decorated, I’m inspired by them and taking a mental note of all the cool decor! Could never get why people would bring someone down for working on their appearance or home!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 02:06 AM
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Aw thank you! I’ve definitely been guilty of pouring my heart out in a huge paragraph text essay explaining why I’d rather him call or not flake so I’m glad I’ve learned to just keep things short, sweet, and playful haha. I agree with you that women shouldn’t just hold back and wait for the guy to do everything! I love to reciprocate interest if the guy shows it, but what I mean by believing in men chasing is that I think it’s nice when he makes the first move. In my personal experience I’ve tri…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 02:02 AM
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No problem! Yes clothes that fit right will always look good! I noticed you like some oversized clothes which can look great too if paired with a more fitting complimentary item. Like baggy tshirt tucked into tight pants or jeans to balance it out!
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 01:55 AM
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When I was younger I would get teased for putting in effort with clothes and makeup, but that went away as I got older. However, my mom has told me a couple times about when a lot of women in her college days and her female work colleagues would be shocked, disgusted, and literally called her a bitch for saying that she cooked every day for my dad and I. They even implied she was unamerican (she legally immigrated here in the 90s but got her citizenship soon after) for doing so. She understood t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 01:33 AM
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I think you can definitely look feminine in all of these! Although I love wearing dresses, I would get bored wearing the same type of clothes all the time. I think the way you style clothes is what makes them feminine. I take a lot of inspiration from models off duty - they wear really casual items like jeans and sweats but style it in a way that makes them feminine, sexy, and fashion forward while still being casual enough for daily wear! I think Kendall Jenner (1 , 2 ) and Emily Ratajkowski’s …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 08:57 PM
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When I was still single, I would playfully tease the men I was dating if they only texted me and never called. Funnily enough, I even used the word penpal! I’d say something along the lines of “Sooo I think we may be in danger of being penpals right now :P Are you free for a quick call tomorrow?” I would only do this if we’ve had a playful banter for a few days and it seems like he understands your sense of humor (emojis and “cutesy” words like sooo give him some context clues that you’re just m…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 02:42 AM
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Yeah I def don’t think not masturbating = promiscuity either. It’s more of a correlational thing for some people, but surely not all. My friends that ended up with regretted one night stands mostly didn’t masturbate, but I also have some friends who don’t masturbate and haven’t had any sexual experience at all. It all depends on the individual girl’s sex drive, values, extraversion, and prob a lot more.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/19 12:01 AM
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I think taking care of yourself when you’re single is not only beneficial, but almost necessary if you view sex as something special that you want to save for committed relationships. A lot of my friends that end up in random hookups that they don’t feel great about afterwards tend to avoid it altogether, and I think their promiscuity, for lack of a better word, is because of all the pent-up frustration. I’ve been doing it since I was in high school, and it’s kept my n-count quite low because I’…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/19 06:27 AM
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Retail and food service jobs in high school did wonders for me! I could barely make eye contact and speak to strangers before I started working, but dealing with customer service really taught me how to do basic human interactions haha! I learned how to be friendly even if people seem initially rude (they may just be preoccupied or shy), and most of the time, people become more open around you after you show your friendliness towards them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 05:59 PM
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