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yurifca/r/seduction01/05/16 05:25 PM
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I love music and I always wondered how much work is being a DJ. Is it possible to learn something about eletro music with no special equipment, just a PC or a notebook?
/r/seduction07/03/22 05:25 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want bro. Stop bitching cause random woman have preferences, you don't need to follow shit if you're trully happy with your style
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:35 AM
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I kinda disagree, this is a falacy. No one needs to be something shiny or famous to get girls, we all know tall, rich, handsome, hot guys struggling with woman. You know man 'worse' than you with hot gals, man shorter, poorer, uglier. You don't need to reach a abstract point to be able to get girls, and if you think like this, you will always place the finish line further, and you will never reach it, you will always think 'when I get to A, B will happen', 'when I earn C money, D will happen for…
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:01 PM
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There is one falacy here that people don't understand. Improving your lifestyle, your aesthetics, your career, your social circle is great. It will make you happier and make your life more balanced in every aspect, and that's pretty attractive. BUT, this is absolutely useless if you don't approach woman, start convos with people, crack jokes, tease, all that. People want to skip the approach part, as if having money and a 6 pack will give you a free pass with chicks. IT WON'T. It will trap you i…
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:03 PM
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Did you tell them you're married or were you using your engagement ring? That changes everything. Also, I laughed so hard at the 'buy a sixpence'. This is absolutely arbitrary, even if it worked for you this time. Tho, I agree with hitting the gym and fitting clothes
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:15 PM
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move on
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:17 AM
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It's not if you make it so. You can make any topic interesting with the correct calibration and reading the room properly.
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:34 PM
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I’m not gonna come off as interesting, fun and charismatic by directly asking about family at the literal start Why not?
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:26 PM
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ikr ? And the dude is giving advice like he decoded the matrix, kinda pretentious to me..
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:53 PM
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I've had those too, but I also had girls approaching me and simply asking: 'can you dance with me?' after watching me from a distance
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:06 PM
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Well, I consider myself a decent dancer and I managed to attract girl like a magnet just by doing my stuff, so I think is legit
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:02 PM
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Go southeast capitals
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:43 PM
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Brasil. No competition, hottest woman in the planet. Every ig model copies our beauty standards.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:39 PM
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-Beard: man's makeup, it can really improve your appearance - Whiten your teeth: it's a great way to improve your confidence, and will actually make you smile more -Cologne or perfumes: self explanatory -Dress better: search for hot chicks, and copy what their bf or husbands use for dressing (obviously, find a dude that matches you style) - Gym: self explanatory
/r/seduction13/10/21 11:27 PM
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You can adress this with him, being direct. If he doesn't change, you just say to him that you won't be having him as wingman anymore, cause you don't wanna carry his reputation with him
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:27 PM
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Second picture is a lot better, just because of the jeans. First one doesn't fit you well, you gotta look for stuff that shape your body, without being too tight or too loose. Second jeans is a example of a good choice. As for your feet, just don't use jeans + running shoes if you're dressing to impress. Cologne is a nice touch, I suggest you look for some
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:02 PM
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Tell her you can't go cause you're kinda 'low on money', and see if you can bait anything. If you want to be more direct, maybe slip something about her paying her part or maybe for both of you, and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:18 PM
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You're thinking basically just about looks in this comparisson, and even by this point of view I think you're a little mistaken. Just having the balls to talk to a girl will put you miles ahead of anyone sending texts, cause boldness is attractive per se, and you're presenting yourself to her right here, right now, it's a lot more personal and 'real'. Besides, some people have terrible social media skills, and are actually a lot better in person, so maybe a shit history with online dating is not…
/r/seduction20/09/21 10:00 AM
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I agree, it really depends. When going out with your macho, promoter type male friends, you usually attract people interested in this persona. When I'm with my nerd friends, sometimes I attract woman that are 'ok' with my group of friends being goofy and not trying too hard to be a ladies man or whatever, it's more relaxing for them idk. So it really depends on the individual, really.
/r/seduction16/09/21 12:45 PM
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It's like learning to hunt in a butcher shop, you won't learn shit and you're paying to illude yourself
/r/seduction08/09/21 04:03 PM
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Online dating is the #1 way to meet people now, acording to studies. The future is now, old man
/r/seduction05/09/21 10:19 PM
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Pretty much this. To meet people you need to go out, and it's not something you will do on the first try either. Even good looking/social people don't succeed every night they go out, simply because that's not realistic, there are a lot of variables. People downplay how much effort you need to put to get yourself out there, in terms of how frequently you need to start going out/ meeting friends in public places. Even a male model can't date if he doesn't leave his motherfucking house.
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:02 PM
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True. When I'm not having sex, I'm thinking about sex all the time. When I'm having sex, I'm thinking: 'what am I doing with my life...'
/r/seduction28/08/21 04:20 PM
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I kinda disagree. You can stop your entire life and make self improvement your only reason to live and start earning more, do charity and whatever. Woman won't just go 'well, guess it's time to suck his dick amirite?' Obviously you need to be a secure guy in life, in general, but woman will not be at your disposal if you complete your personal life journey and start doing kung fu or cycling or whatever. Getting to know woman is more than this. It's a lot more about socializing and friendships/gr…
/r/seduction14/08/21 12:05 AM
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Sometimes, we're not even prepared to win. I'm always wired to be atleast unconfortable when talking to stranger woman, cause i'm already expecting the awkwardness or the dry responses. Eventually, talking to a pretty girl will be easy, and I am personally guilty of not noticing it and kept trying to game her until shes actually not interested anymore.
/r/seduction12/08/21 02:42 PM
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Dude, I turned down a girl cause I was shy too, and I'm 29, and a guy. Sometimes we're just not prepared
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:00 PM
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Gimme a break dude, guy just said it was his first approach. People here think that you need to plan 129381 scenarios before asking someone out. Just fuckin ask her and say whatever the hell you want, words are meaningless. GJ OP, you did everything right
/r/seduction03/08/21 05:33 PM
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I think it's a matter of quality. I'm not a professional, but I suppose good quality perfumes always last quite a bit, even in small doses. What makes a perfume good, tho, I can't explain, I just try a lot of brands and see what I like most.
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:17 PM
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Perfumes and colognes are my secret weapon. Sometimes I lend my coat to my dates or girlfriends, and they always notice the scent and they love it. It's wired to your brain to correlate a good smell to attractiveness, or at minimum people will perceive you as clean and well groomed, which is a win/win situation.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:25 PM
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I wish it had. The hard way is the only way. Go and introduce yourself. I would say that a woman approaching as woman is a little bit easier, cause removes lot of insecurities that woman have towards man approaching them, like man being agressive or not receiving the rejection well. So I suppose you got this little advantage over us man. Edit: Brasileira? Minha filha, vai na fé
/r/seduction27/07/21 08:47 PM
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Agreed. "I made this happen :) "
/r/seduction27/07/21 08:03 PM
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"Be less gorgeous online, or people will try to dm you" This is the online version of 'don't wear *insert clothes* or you will be catcalled and stalked'. Do whatever the fuck you want, OP. What this guy is saying is just plain retarded. Be ugly, cause mongoloids can't be normal around pretty woman, hahahahahaha some people are clueless, man.
/r/seduction26/07/21 02:30 PM
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I'm shy and introverted, and I consider myself a good people's person. Being social is something I can turn on when I need, even when is kinda awkward, I just own the feeling and go for it. Sometimes I even tell people that i'm a little shy, in a specific situation, and usually they understand it very well and can even be something positive in their eyes. But I had to engage in countless social interactions to be able to be 'confortable' as I am now, so even tho is not something that will happen…
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:17 PM
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A lot of times I fall into trap thinking “oh well, I guess tonight is just a night of chilling with the boys” This happened to me a lot, aswell. If you give yourself a emergency exit to avoid approaching, you will use it 100%. That's why sometimes is a good thing to have someone force you to do something scary, just to move you out of your own inertia
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:03 PM
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I agree with asking help from your friends. Your friend probably will make you accountable for your promisses and will give you some kind of motivation to push forward. I can recon a lot of times I was in 0 mood (actually, a little timid) of approaching and my friend just grabbed me by the arms and forced me. When he puts you in the situation, you can't run, so you just do your thing. It's a little 'agressive', like the momma bird tossing the little birds off the nest so they can stop being bitc…
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:26 PM
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I know exactly how you feel, cause this feeling NEVER stops happening, even if you manage do date 100 girls. I'm just saying this cause I've felt this way a lot, and my worst regret is not trying. I've approached woman and talked a lot of shit, she gave me a mean look, she ignored me completely, she talked to me in a cold way, and many other 'bad' outcomes from approaching stranger woman. But I never felt bad for trying, never thought to myself 'well, I regret trying to talk to this woman', yet,…
/r/seduction22/07/21 09:10 PM
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your point?
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:43 PM
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Reading books expecting to become a james bond seductor is like trying to beat prime Mike Tyson just watching videos on 'how to jab'. Theory is already bad as it is without practice, seduction is even worse cause the theory is shit and has no scientific weight. You gotta do the hard way, the way you're avoiding by just reading and not acting
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:40 PM
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Never have a dinner or movie as a first date. Never go after a neighbor, classmate or colleague. Never chase. These are all too arbitrary to be considered. A lot of those 'rules' are absolutely case sensitive and are not rules by any means
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:47 PM
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There is so much I disagree with I can't even start
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:35 PM
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in this case I approached her and she rejected me, I took like a champ and we both went back to our friends (she was with my group too). Next time we met, 1 week later idk, she was being very 'friendly' with me and I played a little hard to get. She was trying to get my attention, touching me and stuff like this and I kept being as casual as I could, again, not giving her too much attention. Eventually I thought that enough is enough and I asked her to walk with me and kissed her a little furthe…
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:57 PM
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Not just this, but like in op's case, I have been rejected by a girl only to have her chase me like crazy the next time we saw each other. Take your shots always and move on
/r/seduction17/07/21 12:09 PM
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Idk why this is news for you, PUA has always been about lying to young man about game. Game in the real world is nothing more than being able to start, hold and close a conversation with woman anytime you want. If you're going to kiss her is very, very much out of you control and you can do nothing about it, you just move on to the next girl and hope this one likes what she sees. It's a numbers game the same way that getting a job is, you hand resumes everywhere and hope people give any shit abo…
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:53 PM
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I disagree. I've seen a lot of loud, extrovert and arrogant guys win over calm and controlled guys, it's definetly not a fact what you're saying here. Sure, being in control of your emotions is a good thing, but being a "centered chill" guy is just one of a thousand types of personality that can get girls
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:47 PM
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I not even sure this is a real solution. I mean, you will always see someone that earns a lot more than you everyday until you die (or any other positive trait besides money, actually), so chasing the money won't make you less insecure if you're always looking up. You need to be confortable with yourself in the present moment with what you have now, but never stop improving in areas you think you need improvement, so even if you're not where you want you know that you're doing your best and thin…
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:03 AM
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This sub doesn't like this, but focusing on your physical appearance is a straight line to improve your game, cause everyone likes beautiful people. Even if it sounds too much and kinda tryhard, making sure to be well groomed and fit/clean it's the most objective way to attract people in general, even in the professional market and will make people perceive you differently, it's the Halo Effect in action.
/r/seduction08/07/21 01:24 PM
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It was ok at first, but the post lost itself in the middle
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:08 PM
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Idk cause the examples op gave, in my experience, are already woman who will give you the benefit of doubth anyway. Game for me is moving that girl a little bit more attractive than you out of her confort zone and make her notice you in a positive way.
/r/seduction04/07/21 09:30 PM
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I'm not trying to attack you, i'll just try to give you my pov. You think you're above approaching woman cause you're scared to face a person not seeing you as you want to see yourself. If she rejects you, it's cause she can't see how incredible and successful you are and that hurts. Well, if it hurts, it's gotta be that her opinion on your life has actual weight to you, making you doubt yourself and your achievments. So, you should really be confident in your journey and everything you earned, …
/r/seduction03/07/21 03:41 PM
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Maybe hes bad at texting ( I know I am), and maybe he doesn't know how to progress further?
/r/seduction29/06/21 09:38 PM
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The best set of pics of my life I asked my mom to sometimes take some shots while we were both walking our dogs. She took 100 shots and like 3 or 4 were really cool, but it was pretty effortless for her and helped me so much
/r/seduction29/06/21 01:22 PM
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Tinder is very objective: - Your pics show that you are a good looking, with social validation and possibly wealthy = match - Your pics don't show any of this = no match It's pathetic, I know, but this is the name of the game. Woman have an endless menu of men they can swipe right, so just putting 'ok' pics of you with your dogs in your couch and a selfie mirror will not be enough, even if you're a decent looking guy.
/r/seduction19/06/21 01:55 PM
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Exactly. I'm 29 and a huge nerd, but I will never skip a bar with friends on a weekend to play WoW or binge watch netflix.
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:48 PM
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Dude, nothing is keeping you from having a social life OUTSIDE your work. You're using this as a excuse, is very convenient to tell yourself that people that work with other people are privileged in social interactions while you're bound to your home office life. Go to bars, sport events, geek conventions, whatever. Besides, people from work are far from perfect, and it's def not guaranteed that they are friendly or even reliable, so you can't count on them to fix your social problem for you.
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:16 PM
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I feel like conversations like this are two sided. You were friendly, she was friendly, you were both on the same page, awesome. ​ But I believe you can't force this into someone who isn't friendly towards you or even neutral, or is someone shy.
/r/seduction12/06/21 12:25 AM
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Dude, I'm happy for you but lemme give you a warning. Some weeks ago, a stunningly hot girl from my uni opened me in the gym, and started asking questions. Cut to the chase, we changed numbers and I felt like god. Eventually , I started talking to her and she didn't seem as interested, My point is, don't stop being awesome, don''t let this high of the immediate success stop you from closing this chick and move forward. I fucked up, but I'm trying to help you through my stupid decisions.
/r/seduction12/06/21 12:20 AM
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Make even more fun of yourself, with a big smile. Don't show weakness, play along. Ex: 'my friend here has a little dick' 'well, if you can't go deep, you play on the borders LOL'
/r/seduction21/05/21 12:39 AM
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Trying to make you jealous, maybe?
/r/seduction20/05/21 03:50 PM
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You don't get to the point you get confortable as a friend. Imo, you make your intentions clear from the start, while being friendly, but that doesn't mean you guys are bff's now. If the only outcome is friendship, you just make yourself clear, politely, and walk away
/r/seduction17/05/21 12:36 PM
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This is my regular morning and I still feel like shit eventually lol. You don't need to feel like a King to acomplish shit, you just need to act despite of not being in your best days.
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:09 PM
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Dated a girl that lived by herself and never told me until like, the 3rd date or something, cause she still wasn't sure about my intentions and how I was. So maybe, take her out and do your thing, and maybe she will ask you to come over or something
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:08 PM
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Movies, workout and good food. You already have the recipe to get a good date, just plan a way to show them that you enjoy those hobbies and bring them along
/r/seduction09/05/21 04:04 PM
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You gotta talk to woman and see what works for you. A lot of advice given is not necessarily right or wrong, some people try stuff that works for them but is impossible for others for a lot of reasons. Like, im very bad at romance but I'm pretty decent at joking and teasing, so I focus on my strong points. So, you gotta see for yourself what sticks
/r/seduction09/05/21 03:33 PM
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Very, very attracted to Angel Wings painted on a wall. I can add, too, birthday baloons with numbers. Very much attraction
/r/seduction05/05/21 04:43 PM
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Complaining that people are asking for advice about seduction in a sub made for asking advice about seduction, then give the same "advice" every other post here gives.
/r/seduction27/04/21 10:30 AM
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Its the hard truth, but it is true. You can compensate looks with other stuff and manage to get some dates, but appearance has a lot more weight than any other trait individually.
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:09 AM
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Appearance is the most important aspect of seduction, for both genders. If a guy can date any woman he talks to, he's someone that is privileged in various aspects that must include being very good looking and more great traits that attract woman. That being said, you can't learn shit from someone like this. It's someone that always had validation from woman, which means he obviously has a easy time talking/interacting with them. It's someone that is built for this activity, like a 2,20 meter du…
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:41 PM
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Low self esteem can manifest in a lot of ways. But generally, I would say yea, it's pretty hard to like a girl that doesn't like herself, or if it's someone very insecure or clingy.
/r/seduction24/04/21 04:56 PM
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If you want to be approached, I'm afraid we guys only care about appearance on the initial phase. If you want to take action tho, we guys appreciate directness from woman, cause we suck so much to recognize suble signs woman throw at us. This approach requires a bit more courage/confidence from you, but is actually something you can work on, and imo is directly related to your self-esteem
/r/seduction24/04/21 03:49 PM
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Ask everyone in a mile around you if it is ok to talk to people. ...... Just fucking do it man
/r/seduction23/04/21 10:39 PM
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I'll wait for the movie
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:47 PM
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tl;dr Basically, train, eat, sleep, don't quit.
/r/seduction22/04/21 02:14 PM
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I have been approached by woman sometimes in my life and I just want you to be aware when it happens next time. It's very good being approached as a man and gives you so much validation, but don't let this oportunity pass the next time some girl you like starts talking to you. Just the high from being approached won't be enough from now on, so be smart and take your chances when a similar situation happens in the future
/r/seduction22/04/21 10:26 AM
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r/dating_advice I'm just telling you cause idk if this sub's rules are going to allow your post, since it talks more about nurturing the relation instead of starting it
/r/seduction22/04/21 12:04 AM
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delete
/r/seduction21/04/21 11:55 PM
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this should be in dating advice
/r/seduction21/04/21 11:53 PM
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Well, I thought the natural evolution of good cuddling is sex? You starting kissing, things get hotter, then you both are over each other, no?
/r/seduction21/04/21 02:37 PM
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Rejection is part of the process, like taking punches in boxing. It sucks, but that's why you're here for, init? Every single man in existence has been rejected, that's intrinsic to dating. If you're not willing to take 'no's' and move on, you're not ready to take 'yes's', you can't expect to play only if you're going to win for sure, that's not how this works
/r/seduction21/04/21 02:32 PM
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I agree. Seduction is nothing more to me than communicating your intentions clearly and in a polite way (not in a boring way, but in a way you don't offend someone). So, stuff like singing (you train your voice and you learn to talk more loudly and more clearly), talking in public, speaking to your therapist, basically anything that makes you talk more or use your voice in differerent ways improves your communication, which is a way to improve your interactions with woman, for sure
/r/seduction21/04/21 02:13 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Maybe is being too negative, but i would say this is the first sign that things are going from this to worse
/r/seduction18/04/21 01:36 PM
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Dude, you need to act acordingly, stop this pathetic self loathing. This little rant will be worthless if you just keep bashing yourself for hours until you think you acomplished something being very very mad and insulting yourself. This won't change the fact that you're not doing what you should, and to do the this stuff you will need a lot more than this bitch ass tantrum. Start by accepting were you are right now and evaluate the next little steps you will take, cause, honestly, if you're so …
/r/seduction17/04/21 05:10 PM
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I agree with master. If the girl is 'too pretty', she has the benefit of not making a move at all. She gets so much attention that, if she is not getting from you, she will get approached in 7 minutes for sure and get it from someone else. So, again, you just need to ask, that's the only way you can change something.
/r/seduction15/04/21 11:21 PM
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My point is being honest about how far can skills take you. Imo, sure, you can improve stuff that makes you more confortable being yourself, but that doesn't change the outcome of an approach. Shooting your shot is always more important
/r/seduction15/04/21 10:11 PM
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Idk if it's the same for both. We man are horny asf, and sometimes we can change our minds more easily.
/r/seduction15/04/21 09:54 PM
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a what?
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:38 AM
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Dude, maybe even more than just hygiene for yourself, but keep your place tidy too. You don't want people in your house/bedroom witnessing nasty stuff, is a deal breaker sometimes.
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:34 AM
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Alpha /Beta bullshit is like a pretty word to grab attention in youtube, it doesn't have any scientific weight, it's just too simple for human interactions.
/r/seduction03/04/21 11:51 AM
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It's like finding a job. You NEED to get through scary and boring stuff to land a good job, and even if you get rejected 10 times, you need the damn job, so no stopping for you. Btw, you learn a lot from rejection
/r/seduction02/04/21 12:01 AM
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This is what I do too! I reframed approaching in my mind, thinking to myself: I want to date more, and dates with girls that I'm really really attracted too. Approaching is a direct line to that objective, even if it seems weird or awkward, it will eventually be easier if I keep doing it. And everytime I approach and get rejected, I feel a little sad, but the feeling that I did what it had to be done always wins in the end, ALWAYS. And sometimes I get what I want, which is a positive reinforceme…
/r/seduction01/04/21 11:42 PM
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"WhAt yoU GoNnA dO wHeN you'Re NoT MeETiNg PeoPlE? drink beer by yourself?" Don't listen to this op. If you feel like it, go out and talk to girls, don't mind people saying otherwise
/r/seduction01/04/21 08:25 PM
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Confidence is when you know you're good enough. Arrogance is when you need other people to know you're good enough
/r/seduction31/03/21 09:10 PM
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I mean, we all know that we man are the chasers and woman love to be chased. If shes giving you positive signs, you're supposed to be the initiator and push a little even if shes being a little hard to get. But, if she's being too stubborn in your opinion, you should just let it go and move on to other girls. So, it's a personal answer, how far you want to go without making a fool of yourself
/r/seduction31/03/21 08:45 PM
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idk if "the" phenomenon exists, but one thing that I can assure you that is a green flag is being seen with other womans, specially pretty ones, even if it is just as friends. It's a pre-selection kinda, where you've been already "approved" by a female counterpart, so you give the impression that you know how to talk/interact with woman without being a creep
/r/seduction31/03/21 08:29 PM
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You're trying with logic, didn't work. Try instinct next time: - Her: No, I am from ****. - You: well, i wasn't really prepared for this right now, but I couldn't lose this chance to talk to you. Maybe you're down for dinner and we get to talk more in a better place ? (or something like this) And that's it. Leave the interview for dinner or get rejected and move on. And stop this "i'm so boring blablabla bullshit", respect yourself
/r/seduction31/03/21 08:12 PM
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alcohol. next question
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:12 PM
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You can't. Fight doubt and insecurity with dedication and hardwork, better times will come
/r/seduction28/03/21 08:49 PM
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Happens to the best of us. Use this as a reminder to not pussy out next time, or you will regret it. Approaching can be scary, but is a lot more exciting and rewarding (even in failure) than not doing anything and feeling like a loser after.
/r/seduction17/03/21 02:59 PM
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Dude, I'm gonna be real here, I've had the same insecurities you're having because I judged people with mask and without them. Met one of my teachers only during the corona period, so we had masks all the time. Eventually the guy took his mask off and, I mean I didn't do it consciously, I thought he was pretty ugly im not gonna lie, I was kinda surprised how I reframed his personality and his image from that point forward.
/r/seduction28/02/21 02:01 PM
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Nah, I treat woman ok, with due respect, and that automaticaly doesn't make them flock to me just like that. I agree that being a people pleaser is bad, but shit's not that simple.
/r/seduction17/02/21 10:12 AM
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Maybe to manipulate you, like, making you chase or to feel wanted? If you told her how you feel when she does that and she keeps doing it, maybe it's time to be more assertive or to move on
/r/seduction16/02/21 01:21 PM
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brasil
/r/seduction31/01/21 01:05 PM
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No shame on it. I'm my country is very frequent to lose with a hooker
/r/seduction31/01/21 11:37 AM
1

Dude, failing is just one more step to get what you want. I'm not a lifecoach or some bullshit like that, but I see failure in my life as a lesson to get to a point that I want to be, not as a life sentence that I'm "a failure". You can never succeed if you quit, you can try 1000 times, but you just need to win once
/r/seduction28/01/21 12:54 AM
1

I don't believe in talent, nothing comes for free when you achieve a certain personal point that you just can't improve anymore unless you dedicate time and true effort doing that specific thing. If you fail, you do it again, if you keep failing, you keep trying until you get it done. Confidence is not easy, you gotta earn it with a lot of pain and sweat. Like I said, nothing is free, even if it seems easier for other people, you gotta give something back.
/r/seduction28/01/21 12:41 AM
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Confidence comes from within, not necessarily from validation from other people. You get confidence when you do something hard, something that you worked your ass of to achieve and is meaningful for you, even if no one cares or even knows about it. Only being confident if someone is praising you is extremely insecure, since you depend on other peoples opinions to get that false confidence.
/r/seduction28/01/21 12:29 AM
1

Well, then you're making this about you, not her anymore
/r/seduction27/01/21 09:48 PM
1

She's telling you already what turns her on, why overthink?
/r/seduction27/01/21 09:34 PM
33

It's all about the delivery and not giving a fuck about the outcome. You approach someone with the intention to know the girl better and make out, so you gotta be clear that that's exactly what you're doing and that's it. You're not approaching her to be her friend or to talk about the weather, so being direct about your intentions is confident and, in most cases, attractive per se, since the first impression you're giving is that you're someone who's not afraid of woman's reactions or a possibl…
/r/seduction27/01/21 12:22 PM
1

No. If you're a funny guy, you will see whats generally funny for everyone, if you're a romantic, you will eventually figure out romantic stuff without sounding corny. I'm not talking about pua bs
/r/seduction26/01/21 08:07 PM
4

Different strokes for different folks. It's completely valid to have a specific type of approach that matches your style, so you use it a lot, but don't expect it will work with every girl you see just because you mastered it. It's like trying to sell a specific product, some people will love it, some won't, some already have it and some just want you to fuck off
/r/seduction26/01/21 01:19 PM
8

Let me give you a tip that helped me, not online but in person. I always notice when a girl i'm attracted to is ignoring me, but is giving signs to my friends or other man. I always notice the suble hints of attention she gives them, maybe because I'm comparing the way she treats them with more intimacy. Maybe putting yourself in other people's perspective may be useful to notice if she's treating you differently
/r/seduction25/01/21 11:25 PM
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You're admiting that you're kinda awkward, so maybe you already have your answer. Maybe work on the reasons that make you awkward, like not being very social (you mentioned you don't go out much), by finding more people to just chat and talk about whatever and improve your social skills that way
/r/seduction22/01/21 12:38 AM
3

Pretty much, yes. Because, to "focus on one girl" you actually need her to be invested in you as much as you are in her, so lets say you're giving up a lot of oportunities for this one girl, but she's not really into you, or she's seeing some other guys (having other options), you're gonna get hurt in the process and maybe left with nothing. So, imo, you need to have more options, even if you do like her, cause it doesn't depend on your feelings alone, so you gotta be ready for any outcome
/r/seduction19/01/21 12:45 PM
6

Imo the only way to fight neediness is actively trying to find new dates. Lets suppose this girl you got now doesn't reply anymore, it's a bummer but what the hell can you do? Just keep yourself busy and try to know other people in the process, it's not always simple or easy but it's like finding a new job, you will get rejected but you need the money, so what more can you do instead of being out there trying your best
/r/seduction19/01/21 12:33 PM
1

Wait a day or two and just be polite, like: "It was great knowing you better, I'm looking forward to try it again some other time", wait for her answer and don't push too much after that. If she reciprocates, don't get over excited and try to set up another date in the future, but don't overload her with msg's and keep it cool until you both meet again.
/r/seduction19/01/21 12:28 PM
2

That's what I thought lol. It's a normal question brah
/r/seduction18/01/21 01:43 PM
6

When I think I need someone in my life, I jerk off. Suddenly, I don't need anymore
/r/seduction15/01/21 01:25 AM
15

Sex without spending money? This mf trying to bend reality
/r/seduction14/01/21 01:28 PM
6

No amount of money spent in PUA advice or books will be as effective as going out and doing the only stuff that matters, asking girls out face to face. That's how they make money, they pretend you need this """"science"""" behind seduction (you don't). I've read all kind of books on the topic and I guarantee no amount of study will give you true knowledge on how to speak to a girl you find attractive. The only way is the hard way
/r/seduction14/01/21 01:35 AM
3

You ain't getting fucking responses because Tinder is a scam for man, don't blame guys for this, it's just plain stupid. More than 70% of users are man, so every single woman will get tons of matches with dudes that are waay above their league in real life. If some girl doesn't reply after you asked her legit questions, stop wasting this much energy in an app that is made to make you pay for boosts and other stupid stuff just to get a single girl to say hi to you. Don't blame these dry responses…
/r/seduction05/01/21 12:59 PM
3

A good % of guys here are dudes that just want quick tips to learn how to get pussy in 5 easy steps. I mean, a lot of them don't even try to apply the stuff they read, so it's kinda hard when people try to share cool stuff. How am I supposed to trust some advice from people who can't even say hi to a girl, much less be successful with many
/r/seduction04/01/21 10:54 PM
65

Dude, i'm no expert, but imo game is being able to be a guy that works his way with woman with words and actions, excluding looks from the equation. To be able to make yourself interesting enough to be considered a date in a short period (one convo, a couple Tinder msgs) with confidence and with great social skills, regardless of what you work with or how much you earn.
/r/seduction03/01/21 01:34 AM
5

but you can be "less" handsome than someone else too, or less social. You will be evaluated by how good you are regardless of what trait you're bringing to the table
/r/seduction03/01/21 12:48 AM
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TL;dr: being good looking is important, but if you know you're not (you probably felt it already), there are many other solution to get a decent date, which are: having game, having money, and having social status
/r/seduction03/01/21 12:38 AM
6

"Stop following guides! So, here's a guide to do that..."
/r/seduction30/12/20 12:32 PM
1

This is a manifestation of neediness. Just get a gf
/r/seduction28/12/20 11:45 PM
3

Do the basic stuff to improve a bit (hygiene, gym, cologne), but if you really wanna tryhard being handsome you need to spend some cash. I would say getting a new smile with a good dentist (very expensive), buying brand clothes that fit and that are a little show off, if you have problems with hair loss you do implants, you can do plastic surgery to improve some imperfections in your face. "There is no ugly people, only poor people"
/r/seduction23/12/20 12:37 PM
3

I can't say that you will find what you want. But if you give up at any point, I guarantee that you will not find what you want. Keep doing what you're supposed to be doing, even if it doesn't seem worth, or if it is painful. We only got this one life to achieve our goals, man, or you're gonna like, give up? And do what else instead?
/r/seduction16/12/20 08:08 PM
1

I puked a little
/r/seduction09/12/20 01:57 AM
7

Ikr?? People praising her for this shit, if it were a guy instead people would call him 911 for harrassing his ex
/r/seduction08/12/20 10:47 AM
11

Agree 100% with this phrase and used it myself a lot. I've been single for a long time since my last ltr and I got a little lonely recently, so I kinda started craving for another relationship, and I'm here only thinking about the positives aspects of the ltr. But eventually I remembered that, with a new girlfriend, you lose a lot of precious time that you used to spend with yourself or maybe with friends or family. My point is, you will spend time with your girl, your life will change in differ…
/r/seduction17/11/20 10:42 AM
2

I agree. But I will add that hardwork and drive can also bring great results
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:16 AM
3

I'm telling you just fucking try to talk to her. Forget about looks, you can't change it, but act on you desires dispite this
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:04 AM
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Dude, I'm sorry, but this was the worst metaphor i've ever seen. ​ I get your point, but geez...
/r/seduction23/10/20 01:01 AM
5

Why not you? Some guys here are so entitled to appearance they don't even believe in game anymore
/r/seduction23/10/20 12:56 AM
4

Dude, even if you're in a party with Chris Hemsworth, this motherfucker is only one dude. It's not like he's going home with all 47 girls in the party, so why even fucking bother with how he looks? He left with the hottest bitch around, so what? Go after the girls left, be bold and do your thing. You can't change your appearance, despite from grooming and taking care of your health blablabla, so you must be fucking BOLD and fight with what you have, don't bother with other guys. You should only …
/r/seduction22/10/20 11:32 PM
1

Don't follow any "statistics" regarding seduction, I guarantee is bullshit. I'm sure nightgame is easier because is a scenario where pretty much every person is there to have fun (clubs, bars, malls..), so people are a lot more open to small talk and socializing in general. Just keep your dedication and change your approach, i'm sure you will be fine.
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:33 PM
3

Imo, daygame is really hard to pull of if you're not above average in appearance. I'm not telling it's impossible, but maybe switch you efforts to other types of approach, like bars and clubs at night. Girl at night are much more approachable and are probably more willing to give you attention. So, maybe daygame is not for you (it's not for me either), so maybe try to find something that works best for you, because apparently you're very dedicated and are willing to make an effort to improve. Ch…
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:08 PM
1

This is a common phrase to dump people. Don't try to understand this line specifically, it's just a way to shift the blame to her without actually having something to blame. ​ You got rejected
/r/seduction12/10/20 01:39 AM
1

Absolutely yes. Imo, appearance is measured with a scale, where you need to seduce/game efficiently girls that are your "level" and above. On the other hand, girls that are below your perceived appearance will be a lot easier to date, requiring much less effort. So, if a guy is really good looking, pretty much all he needs to do is introduce himself and be direct to the girl hes interested. But if the girl is equaly attractive, even handsome guys will need to waste some saliva
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:51 AM
2

Do it. Fast and decisive, like ripping off a band aid Personally, when a couple fights this much even before something serious, is destined to fail imo
/r/seduction11/10/20 09:59 PM
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Dude, gaming in a strip club is like hunting in a supermarket
/r/seduction10/10/20 09:03 PM
9

if you feel that shes enjoying something that you're doing, don't change it or try to improve the movement. Just stick with it and let her enjoy some moments of pleasure
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:55 PM
2

This post is all over the place
/r/seduction08/10/20 07:04 PM
18

Maybe a little more boldness to talk a little more before walking away. Just be honest with your intentions with her and don't be ashamed to show interest, even if she doesn't reciprocate
/r/seduction08/10/20 02:05 PM
183

When you get successful, it's pure luck. But when things don't go your way, do you think is bad luck too? Or do you blame yourself ? Give yourself some credit, you did what you had to do, stop bashing yourself. Even if you think you didn't make enough effort or whatever, you did the bare minimum and that's a lot more than most guys. By the way, I thought it was a great move to give her the swan, I've seen it work with a friend and it was awesome.
/r/seduction08/10/20 11:36 AM
25

Leg sweep
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:07 AM
8

I'm telling you this because some time ago I used to bash myself over rejection. Like, "you idiot, you were so awkward there" or "you were so boring", and I kept thinking like this. The thing is, this kind of thinking made me wire approaching with rejection with pain/sadness. Rewire this thought process, repeat for yourself that even if you feel a little pain, this is the way, this is the right thing to do, this will lead to something you want. Good luck friend.
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:19 PM
69

Stop focusing on rejection. Focus on the fact that you took your shot and be proud of it. Say it loud: i'm glad I tried because I'm one rejection closer to a fine date in the future. Every approach is a little tough, we all know how hard can it be to talk to a beautiful girl you never saw out of nothing. You are fighting your fights, don't give up
/r/seduction06/10/20 11:07 PM
25

To everyone here that needs to listen to this: STOP WASTING YOUR FUCKING TIME. A "no" is 100000x times better than not doing shit, stop wasting youth and money doubting yourself. Take the fucking risks, quit your excuses
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:16 PM
15

Idk man. His case doesn't seem like pua's fault, I mean, the dude is kinda slow and has a speech impairment. Imo this man is focusing on the wrong problem, he should seek a phonoaudiologist, not a dating coach.
/r/seduction05/10/20 05:51 PM
1

This is actually good. You're just a little wrong thinking that you must make everyone like you, thats impossible. Keep being a fun guy, even if some people think you're cringey, you will filter good and bad people from your social circle much much faster
/r/seduction01/10/20 04:00 PM
1

It's pretty pathetic, but I can see it working. I mean, some woman are shallow and really enjoy the fact that they're invading boundaries of another relationship
/r/seduction29/09/20 01:40 PM
1

When I started cutting my hair with a specific barber who knew a cool style for me, I got more confident and i'm sure it improved my looks. So, if you're willing to try, maybe it's a way to raise your confidence
/r/seduction23/09/20 08:45 PM
2

Be friendly but don't put too much pressure in this first conversation. After you both finish what you guys were talking in this first moment, just go do something else and or talk to other people. Later, you can go back to her and start a second conversation, this time you can be more flirty and start asking more personal questions to build more intimacy
/r/seduction16/09/20 02:56 PM
0

It's good
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:04 AM
1

Even better, just ask if she wants to sleep there. She will probably guess your intentions but it's a legit way to invite her
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:16 PM
2

Just go to the date and have fun. When both of you are drunk and high, ask her if she wants to go home with you, but don't put too much pressure on the answer
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:10 PM
1

I'm gonna be honest. She probably noticed something odd about you, but telling her you're a virgin it's just going to be a turn off. You better keep it secret, you get nothing from it
/r/seduction10/09/20 07:19 PM
1

Female Dating Strategy hmmmmm....
/r/seduction15/08/20 07:50 PM
3

What kind of comments?
/r/seduction14/08/20 05:33 PM
1

hahaha great story dude, a little bit of oversharing but it's ok. Just stop overcompensating and you will be fine
/r/seduction11/08/20 03:12 PM
6

if you're so successful in the other aspects of your life, you will find easier to focus on just the seduction part, because you're already a full developed and satisfied adult. What comes now is basically just start being a little bold and asking girls out, even if it feels weird or if it feels that you're not prepared enough. Then it's pure repetition and practice, which i'm sure you're very used to in your career and general learning.
/r/seduction08/08/20 10:34 PM
2

Sounds like extreme bullshit
/r/seduction06/08/20 09:30 PM
5

This is a form of neediness. You need a gf
/r/seduction06/08/20 03:42 PM
12

Dude go for it. It's not immoral or anything like this (unless you're doing it illegally) and it's something almost every guy did atleast once.
/r/seduction06/08/20 03:35 PM
1

Spain is not latin.
/r/seduction05/08/20 11:25 PM
5

Embrace awkwardness. Failure is your teacher and should motivate you to reach further. Laugh at your noob mistakes, because that's what they are, not a life sentence
/r/seduction04/08/20 01:40 AM
1

This post is all over the place. Are you asking something or you're telling something?
/r/seduction02/08/20 09:22 PM
2

When you start, just respect yourself and your noobiness, so don't stress too much if you are not carrying huge weights and shit. I'm not that strong and I still can't carry big numbers, but dedication is key and I'm better than 90% of guys trying hard to be a strongman and leaving after 1 week. Eat like a motherfucker (healthy meals) and don't expect to be Schwarzenegger in 1 month. Ask your gym teacher to give you a hypertrophy workout and start from there.
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:28 PM
3

I was really skinny and never liked it, and I'm in decent shape now. Started working out at 17 (28 now) and never stopped. Solution: work your ass off, there is no other way (don't use steroids tho, it's stupid)
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:14 PM
7

Confidence comes from hard work and dedication, so i'm afraid there is no fast solution for this. Be patient and keep improving
/r/seduction02/08/20 06:18 PM
2

Something I like to do is ask her if I can see her rings or her bracelets, then I ask her for her hand gently. Always worked for me and it's pretty non invasive. If you're feeling bold, you can do the same with earrings and lightly touch her ears, which is super sexual
/r/seduction02/08/20 04:21 PM
5

You guys got clubs open already? God damn I'm envious, can't stand staying home anymore
/r/seduction02/08/20 12:43 PM
17

Ad's are getting smarter
/r/seduction01/08/20 05:05 PM
1

News Flash: is easier to have sex when you're a woman
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:20 PM
1

Grow up dude
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:02 PM
2

wtf is happening to this sub...
/r/seduction31/07/20 02:58 PM
3

No. Just accept the compliment
/r/seduction30/07/20 12:30 AM
52

I've never regreted an approach, even if it went completely terrible. But I have a clear memory of the day I didn't try my luck with a gorgeous girl that was into me (her friend told me later) and I left empty handed and never saw her again. I will never forget that day, it was a tough lesson and still kinda hurts when I think about it.
/r/seduction28/07/20 04:03 PM
3

nothing to worry about
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:21 PM
1

Hahahaha dude, why did you say that! Maybe there is a chance but I don't know how to help you, I would accept defeat at this point. hahahahahahaha this is hilarious
/r/seduction27/07/20 02:43 PM
4

There's some salty motherfucker here downvoting every comment in this post. Which mean you lost your virginity and pissed of a incel at the same time, OP. Huge success!
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:23 PM
1

Feels really good the first time, it's like removing a huge weight from your shoulders. Don't stop now tho, unless you gf this girl, there is a lot more to learn and you're still young
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:17 PM
8

Sort of. Imo, they know what you're trying to do (sex), but they need to convince themselves too, you know. Like, "well, we were going to watch The Office but we had sex" , something like this.
/r/seduction26/07/20 06:02 PM
15

You can add some excuses, like: "are you hungry, maybe we can eat something at my place" or " maybe we can keep drinking at home" or " do you wanna go watch a movie.. But I only ask them to go home after I had the first kiss, or it would sound weird
/r/seduction26/07/20 05:51 PM
1

holy hell, you again? go do some squats if you're so insecure, stop posting this every day
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:37 PM
34

Btw, if someone has the curiosity to find out, OP has posted very recently about her affair with her current boyfriend. It was pointed from the beggining that she was into him even before he opened his mouth. Imo, you had good intentions with this post, but we really can't learn shit from this, you were just mesmerized with his good looks and this is not useful info here
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:27 PM
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News flash: Being tall, handsome, polite and inteligent will get you a date
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:10 PM
5

Dude, if you weren't doing all the stuff you're already doing (gym, grooming, etc) I would suggest you to do it, because it's a way to improve your life, regardless of seduction. Since you're already doing it all, you're only left with facing your insecurities and start doing everything you said you "can't", leading, approaching, joking. It's like trying to be a soccer player, but only going to the gym and running and training, never playing the game. If you never play matches against other play…
/r/seduction25/07/20 04:16 PM
2

I know exactly what you feel, and I'm not sure I have the correct answer but i'll try to give you my two cents. Relationships are not a saving balm that will cure your loneliness, I know several people that feel lonely even during a marriage with kids. For some time I thought that finding a gf was my solution, but eventually I realised that it wasn't. So I asked my self: "Lets suppose I have that great girl at my side, what would be my next move in life? What am I chasing now?" and started to do…
/r/seduction25/07/20 02:13 PM
7

I think you're ok dude. We are facing a pandemic and it's ok to not be in a ideal situation right now. Just focus on being healthy and try to not overthink stuff, no one is happy right now, corona is draining us dry
/r/seduction25/07/20 01:19 PM
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The pain of regret, to look at your past and see that you lost chances and oportunities (and youth) with doubts and insecurities, is a lot more painful than the pain of rejection
/r/seduction25/07/20 02:19 AM
2

it's a shit topic, tho. "Whats you % of success in dates?" "hmmm idk, 30%" "...... nice"
/r/seduction24/07/20 04:32 PM
2

Hmm... yeah, I didn't consider that. Maybe use this in the future, when things are back to normal. I'm not a social media fan, so I can't help you with that
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:37 PM
2

I suggest you just try to talk to her, be friendly and know her better. If that works out, great! If it doesn't, if the conversation didn't go well and was kinda awkward, you just learned a lesson and you can now move on without regretting nothing.
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:26 PM
1

It's normal fo you to be a little "in love" considering you just had your first kiss (good job). But another normal thing in relationships is "one night stands', where you guys get close for a night or whatever, and in the next day your date doesn't seem so much interested anymore. I suggest you forget her, but with no remorse or insecurities, this stuff happens with everyone, and keep on trying to meet other girls just as cool as this first one.
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:21 PM
2

I don't wanna be pessimistic, but knowing that she likes you doesn't mean shit. I'm saying this because i've been victim of myself several times during my life, where I knew that girls were into me but I never approached, even knowing that beforehand. So I suggest you learn from this experience, where next time you feel a conection, don't be a pussy and go talk to the person. After all, you're not getting younger and opportunities like this are going stop happening eventually.
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:17 PM
3

Rlx, this guys is clearly trolling. You're ok dude, I believe that at 42 you have more responsabilities than free time, which means you need to choose how you spend it, and it's completely normal and healthy to focus on other hobbies and forgetting about woman for now.
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:09 PM
1

Relax, shit like this always happens
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:21 PM
3

I would say grooming yourself in every possible way (hygiene and fashion and others) and boldness, my dude.
/r/seduction19/07/20 08:33 PM
8

Absolutely, yes. But that doesn't mean it's easy, if you consider that shes so pretty, you gotta agree with me that 99% of guys will find it too and everyone will try to know her. Which means, if you can't rely solely on your looks (like most of us) you gotta show her many other qualities that makes you more attractive that those other dudes trying to get into her pants
/r/seduction19/07/20 08:00 PM
9

Don't buy this bs that appearance doesn't matter, it's the main reason of attraction and that's a fact. On the other hand, you can be more attractive if you're good socially and know your way with words and speech, so my advice is to focus on being a good speaker (while grooming yourself, obviously). One time this weird looking dude started to talk to me in a bar, I had a bad first impression of him (based on his looks and the fact that he was alone) but he was talking to me so naturally and it …
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:47 PM
1

You already have you answer in the title, initiate. You're losing chances with pretty girls you like because you're not even trying. Those kind of girls won't initiate you because they don't need to, or they are kinda occupied with other 30 man trying to make her laugh. Be more assertive.
/r/seduction17/07/20 01:16 AM
1

I apreciate your effort to act, but imo approaching in a bus is a really shitty situation, because you guys are probably in a hurry/going somewhere and eventually you will part ways with little time to get to know each other. You don't NEED to approach every cute girl in every place you go, you can have a little bit of common sense to judge if this place is good or not, and your results will be a lot better in good places.
/r/seduction17/07/20 01:10 AM
1

He probably loves her, which isn't reciprocate apparently and he's trying to show he's ok with it, but I don't really think he is.
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:47 PM
7

PUA sells the idea that you can have any girl you want if you study hard enough, which is false but gives hope to young and anxious man
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:06 PM
2

I like to get things set up when calling someone, like setting up some music clips on the tv (both sound and video, to have a little distraction), some wine or beer (depends on you and her) and maybe some small things to eat (it's not a good idea to eat too much on a date with possibilities of sex). And clean your bathroom or hide shit you don't want to be seen
/r/seduction16/07/20 01:53 PM
4

Tell them no means no
/r/seduction16/07/20 12:50 AM
1

But does it make any sense to have a ig account without managing it? I guess it would be weird adding woman on a account with like 4 pictures and 100 followers, right?
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:15 PM
2

I beg to differ, I actually hate social medias a lot too. I don't have problem matching with girls on Tinder without IG tho because I have a set of good photos and that is enough to get some swipes. My problem with starting IG is having like less than 300 followers/following and very few photos, so what would be the point to even start a IG account if I don't pretend to be an active user? Does that make any sense or is the ig is just a way to keep in touch?
/r/seduction14/07/20 11:07 PM
1

the 10, obviously. Woman care about looks just as much as man, they just don't like to admit
/r/seduction11/07/20 04:56 PM
7

"Woman do not care about looks..." I'm sorry, what?? Your post is exactly the opposite of what you're saying in this phrase
/r/seduction11/07/20 03:04 PM
2

Scoring is always nice, but the aftermath is not that great. Lets suppose you had a date, you both had sex and a great time and nothing more happened. Next day you're left the same way you were before it, just a little bit more confident (but this buff doesn't last forever). So, it is satisfying, but it doesn't matter so much if it's just a booty call or w/e
/r/seduction07/07/20 05:06 PM
3

Maybe just keep this to yourself, aye?
/r/seduction01/07/20 06:03 PM
70

r/thanksimcured
/r/seduction25/06/20 07:20 PM
3

Sound like bs
/r/seduction25/06/20 12:42 AM
2

Yes, it is
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:43 PM
94

Driving a Lamborghini
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:42 PM
3

This sub is actually one of the only places i've seen that rarely promotes PUA shit in the posts. People here preffer to talk about inner game and confidence issues, instead of robotic conversations and pick up lines
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:45 PM
54

Something people never understand is that you can't put all your hopes in a relationship. Yeah, being lonely sucks and sometimes you just want to spend time with someone you like, but relationships are not a definitive solution. I mean, sometimes they can be even worse than being alone, so you gotta learn to be satisfied with yourself, because, like I said, you can't expect that other person is going to fulfill your emotional needs. It's a matter of finding stuff that you really enjoy doing, eve…
/r/seduction21/06/20 03:15 PM
5

You need to be assertive. ​ If you don't want to drink, you can't let anyone tell you otherwise. Yet, if you don't want to be abandoned by your buddies, make sure to keep interested in their plans even if you're not drinking, and when they're getting a little drowzy, don't be a downer and try to keep up with their vibe. As with woman, no one "expects you to be drunk". I've never heard anything like it in my life. By the way, I heard from woman that when they see that the dude is drunk or with a …
/r/seduction16/06/20 07:57 PM
35

Don't be ashamed of yourself in front of them, because just like the boring dudes, who cares if you're acting weird. It's even better because you select people that enjoy your funny side and are attractive with the same attitude
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:38 PM
10

Wtf
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:36 PM
1

Imo you're overthinking the pedo part, but maybe move on because you feel weird around this chick as a couple
/r/seduction13/06/20 10:21 PM
7

Is not horrible but it will probably be useless. Even if she has been approached her entire life, I bet she can't properly understand how it feels to be on the man's role
/r/seduction13/06/20 10:18 PM
13

Yeah, lifting is nice and all, status and shit, but everything else in this post is just confirmation bias and weirdness
/r/seduction13/06/20 04:36 AM
8

Don't tell. You get nothing good from admiting.
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:07 PM
21

This post sounds so desperate. If you're a newbie don't listen to this, this is very insecure and doesn't teach you self respect
/r/seduction03/06/20 01:07 PM
2

This sub has gone to shit
/r/seduction01/06/20 01:04 AM
3

All of them, if you're attractive. Btw, terrible post
/r/seduction26/05/20 03:56 PM
6

"Be annoyed"??? Make yourself at home at her place?? Dude, this is a lot of bs from my perspective. You're trying to impress someone with this fake macho pua shit, it's pure fantasy and people will notice easily. Some tips are legit and helpful, but this posts core is completely nonsense.
/r/seduction26/05/20 01:23 AM
2

Exactly. You don't need to be professional or very good at what you love doing, but it needs to be something you enjoy spending time doing
/r/seduction13/05/20 07:32 PM
3

I have a friend that is a professional videogame player (World of Warcraft) and he had great success with woman because, in his words: "doesn't matter if you're the world's best fidget spinner player or whatever, people will notice your efforts to be great, specially woman". And I agree with that, I think that having a passion is a lot more than just saying you like something very much, is more about showing your passion. If you really love gardening, you would show people your beautiful garden,…
/r/seduction13/05/20 12:43 PM
21

It's an irony towards the fact that op is questioning the reason why he's not a seductive man, considering that he doesn't even have enough experience in the field
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:40 PM
8

I'm kind like him when it comes to flirting since I like to tease and banter. But this is something that takes practise and it doesn't work for everyone, it's very tied to your personality and it won't come off as natural if it doesn't suit your style. I have a friend that almost never jokes but he got his way with flirting and has great success (he's not super attractive too, he just knows how to talk confidently). Take this as a lesson to find the way you socialize and improve it until you're …
/r/seduction09/05/20 04:41 PM
8

Wtf...
/r/seduction04/05/20 02:55 AM
2

Of course they do. Man try to convince themselves that looks are not important, but they never realise that all their female crushes are gorgeous and hot. What makes you think woman don't feel the same? Woman are way ahead in this matter. Why do you think 99% of the beauty industry only cares about woman? They got this figured out a long time ago
/r/seduction04/05/20 02:51 AM
1

Dude, you're really asking about approaching girls during a world pandemic crysis? Jeez, just think about it, really.
/r/seduction04/05/20 02:46 AM
10

If you keep doing this, eventually you will score a babe. Imagine that every time you had a "crush", you had the balls to ask her out or be seductive, you probably would get one of them after so many attempts. Keep this as a habit, and I'm sure you will date a beautiful girl that you chose
/r/seduction03/05/20 05:34 PM
14

Simply approach. It's not the solution you want to hear, but it's the only way. You need to learn how to talk to woman in a confident way (aka seduce) and you will fail in the first attempts. Be willing to endure those initial failures, because they will teach you what you will need to do better in the next conversations. You can't become a boxer without taking punches and you will not get into a relationship without approaching and talking to strangers, specially attractive woman , and failing …
/r/seduction28/04/20 11:56 PM
1

You again? Fucking move on bro, stop spaming this shit
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:04 PM
69

Imo, treating waiters, cashiers, pizza guy, basically "low wage workers", like human beings and with politeness. And animals (not like human beings, but with respect).
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:11 PM
7

Wtf is this post. This sub is losing the purpose
/r/seduction23/04/20 07:06 PM
6

Girls share pretty much everything. Every girl friend of your dates probably knows your dick size, how well you did in bed and so much more.
/r/seduction23/04/20 02:21 PM
1

She sent you her picture and you ran away scared and left her hanging? Wtf kid, act like a man
/r/seduction22/04/20 04:00 PM
0

They should be more careful with this mentality because, imo, they will get older and they will feel it. Man will stop worshipping them, finding new young goddesses, and she will notice how her looks now can't get her what she wants, because (again, imo) ageing is a lot harder for woman. So, eventually, they will notice that her appearance was momentarily and, from now on, she needs to rely on her personality and social skills.
/r/seduction20/04/20 04:01 PM
4

I'm not trying to protect this mentality, because it's really bs, really. But, if we consider this woman deals, daily, with 100 average guys drooling all over her social media pictures, telling her how gorgeous she is and validating her so much, it's really easy to understand why they think so highly of themselves. She doesn't care about average anymore, because the average man is just there to give her the dopamine hits that social media likes provides her, not for dating or being a partner
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:36 PM
9

Never persue. Don't let anyone else be more important than yourself. This is the better move for yourself (self love) and will translate into a better relationship with woman, because they hate man that fall for her too easily (lower value partner). YOU are giving her the oportunity of a great relationship, not the opposite.
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:31 PM
11

This is common sense since like, forever. Pretty woman always look for partners that are the same level or higher than she is, never lower. So, you will always see hot chicks with high status man (pretty, muscular, rich, funny) because she thinks he is the same level or above her, while ignoring other 100 man that don't match her standards. Man are a lot more open to this "level" difference, since it's the man's job to approach and set up the date, meaning his dating success depends on his capab…
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:26 PM
3

This is a good strategy. Every time I want to approach or cold approach, I take some time to put myself in the other person's perspective and try to emulate how would I feel "approaching" myself, saying what I'm trying to say. Being direct is really tough, because you need to be: very good looking or know exactly how handle the conversation after the initial compliment, which is very hard and takes a lot of practise.
/r/seduction20/04/20 02:36 PM
97

I have a different problem with friends. My favorite group of friends is very shy and everytime we go out to clubs or bars, they get very silent and don't talk or approach and this kills the mood. I wanted to have a different group of male friends to go out partying, without leaving my old friends jealous
/r/seduction15/04/20 03:09 PM
6

This sub should change it's name from "seduction" to "said hi to my crush and got rejected but I'm happy I did it"
/r/seduction14/03/20 05:03 PM
21

I consider myself a late bloomer. I'm now 28, never felt so desired in my life, doing a good uni and got a nice shape going on, maybe even my face got a little more masculine due to my age. Getting attention and dates from woman I never thought I had a chance, feeling very nice right now (still got room for improvement, tho).
/r/seduction14/03/20 11:26 AM
1

Health subjects are usually more female than male
/r/seduction13/03/20 02:12 PM
2

Are you going out and approaching woman you find attractive? I mean, everything you're doing is fine, but you need to be more assertive and try to get some numbers in real life
/r/seduction11/03/20 08:15 PM
1

Well, I guess you can make a move and, if it doesn't work, you can just be playful and act like it didn't happened at all
/r/seduction11/03/20 06:48 PM
1

Hmm, talking and laughing with girls is pretty common. I mean, I'm happy you're making progress, but wait a little bit more and get some dates before getting so excited with this new mindset
/r/seduction10/03/20 06:51 PM
5

Live your life like you already have everything you're fighting for. See how you will act diferently
/r/seduction10/03/20 05:06 PM
1

Quit then. Case closed
/r/seduction06/03/20 09:46 PM
3

I agree that being direct works sometimes, but you need to be very handsome/confident to deal with the initial response from the girl, like in OP's example. Either way, being good at small talk and leading the dialogue is a massive tool to get numbers, so you kinda need to work on those skills too, imo
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:47 PM
6

You were too direct, you gotta build some trust between you both to ask her out by talking to her and being friendly/interested. Think of it as if someone you never met asked YOU to go out so directly, it would be kinda awkward or weird, amirite? Take this as a lesson to not be so direct, maybe get to chat a little bit more next time.
/r/seduction02/03/20 03:31 PM
2

Laugh at the thing he says and ask him questions
/r/seduction13/01/20 10:34 PM
-4

Be rich and funny Edit: how the fuck are you going to read the replies???
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:46 PM
2

r/thanksimcured
/r/seduction12/01/20 12:35 AM
122

There is no bad news my dude, only great news! Don't expect the outcome, be happy for the experience and acknowledge your effort to control your emotions
/r/seduction12/01/20 12:23 AM
3

It's really acceptable were I live to hug people when you greet them, even people that are usually awkward generally accept the hugs because everyone is already used to it, followed by a kiss in the cheek (man to woman). Probably is a cultural thing, I've heard that it's kinda intrusive in some parts of the world (and for some entitled people too)
/r/seduction10/01/20 05:16 PM
2

Dating is a social skill and you can learn it through practice. I guess you're afraid of the practice, because you already think you don't have any chances because you're so self conscious about your weight. Let me tell you this, everyone can be sucessful with woman (fat, poor, short, bald...) the same way everyone can be rejected (rich, attractive, tall muscular, famous...). Ok, you don't like your body now, but you're working on it, so leave it aside for a second. What do you do well? Don't pl…
/r/seduction08/01/20 04:37 PM
5

Stop delaying the reality. You can't get a gf unless you go talk to them, you won't be able to predict every possible outcome in your future and you will never be ready to do something like talking to a girl you never saw before. You are projecting insecurities in the people you are attracted because they remember you what you think you lack, and you think they are better than you because of that. That is not true! If you were Brad Pitt at a party, and you had everything you think you need to ge…
/r/seduction10/12/19 10:26 AM
6

Act now, while you can. ​ Oportunities come and go, and they will always be different from past ones. You must learn to recognise your chances in the present,or else you will always be living waiting for a unreachable point in the future where you're "ready", a point where you predicted every outcome and is 100% failproof. Start acting like you had everything you think you need in order to be interesting, because you already do, or you don't! Fuck it! Act anyway.
/r/seduction09/12/19 04:36 PM
17

Help, sure! Did it make the absolute difference, hell no! ​ I'm almost 10 years going regularly to the gym, and I have a really decent shape (get compliments and shit). But, when I started, I thought it could be a substitute to other aspects of gaming, like approaching or investing in the conversation, because I had this failed concept that being fit/hot works for man like it does for woman . It will make you happier with yourself, because its something you did, for you, that reflects your in he…
/r/seduction08/12/19 10:27 AM
82

Yes, you're right, leaving your comfort zone is a great step, but that doesn't mean you can't try some bigger objectives. I suggest you keep looking for opportunities to meet people even if you don't feel like it, because I'm feeling that you are already setting yourself for failure and it's demotivating you to even act. You can't be a boxer without taking some punches dude, it's just like Yoda's quote: " the greatest teacher, failure is".
/r/seduction07/12/19 10:55 AM
1

Always two there are. No more, no less
/r/seduction07/12/19 10:20 AM
1

I'll insist just a little, because it's something really common. Yet, if shes trying too hard i'll just leave it, there is no point in chasing her, it will just reinforce this behaviour.
/r/seduction27/11/19 01:27 PM
3

Great article, thanks man!
/r/seduction04/05/16 05:26 AM
2

I used to think a lot about "the right time". After some self reflection and overthinking, I realized that there is no such thing. You gotta live the present and take every shot you can, whether you are (or not) completely prepared for it, specially if a huge opportunity just popped in front of you
/r/seduction04/05/16 05:12 AM
5

Imagine like this. You're playing videogames with your bros (CS, LoL, DotA, w/e) and you just fuck up really, really hard, so hard it is hilarious for everyone. Just take a good laugh and keep playing and having fun, you're not supposed to be at 100% performance all the time... inhale your mistakes and grow from them
/r/seduction04/05/16 05:08 AM
1

TY for the answer. Apparently, ramping up with dancing is a common opinion in this case. Even though I'm massively frustrated, I learned something from this. Well, gotta keep trying
/r/seduction02/05/16 05:13 AM
1

It was club dancing, like trying to be sexy. Like I said, I tried to talk to her, but she was refusing. Yet, she kept close and kept provoking me
/r/seduction01/05/16 08:10 PM
1

Dance with her? And then try to get a conversation going?
/r/seduction01/05/16 07:15 PM
1

This was my first thought, but she was giving me constant IDI and her girlfriends were poiting at me while talking to her. I'm very convinced she had interest in me, but had no clue of my next move :(
/r/seduction01/05/16 07:14 PM
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