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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 26 | Do I come off too strong while flirting? | Outer Game | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Approaching mixed groups directly? | Fundamentals | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 06:14 PM |
| 4 | I kinda feel uncomfortable cold approachikg when my friends are around...does anyone of you do too? | Inner Game | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Super challenging for me: Gym approach when she's with a male gym buddy. | Fundamentals | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Taking a break? Or will I lose out on opportunities? | Inner Game | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Save from overinvestment blunder? | Fundamentals | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Response to: "Do we go as friends?" | Conversation | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | How not to get frustrated, when it's not working out | Inner Game | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | New to game. Confused about some stuff. | Conversation | zack_snack | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 06:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Taking a break? Or will I lose out on opportunities?I chase 8 and above, but anyways....hmm, if you have experience enough, when is the time, I am "ready" again? When I look forward to it? Because right now, I feel kinda pressure thinking about dating... | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Taking a break? Or will I lose out on opportunities?Well, currently I am in exam phase, so kinda hard to move somewhere else, haha. I thought about 2-3 months. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 08:00 PM |
| 13 | Best way to flirt with a coworker as a woman? Plus he’s the boss’s son!?Go to some event and ask him, if he wants to join you. If you prefer to be indirect just say "I go to xyz, btw it's at xyz time, if you want to join" | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Save from overinvestment blunder?Tbh, I am not searching to settle down, just trying to improve my game and communication. As mentioned, I run into desinterest after initial high interest often and am wondering what happens. | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Save from overinvestment blunder?Actually no, I am more experienced than that, but get into the same situations over and over again, where initial high interest fades out. Also: what plan of action do you recommend? | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Save from overinvestment blunder?What? | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Super challenging for me: Gym approach when she's with a male gym buddy.True, but it feels so awkward. Doesn't it feel like an elephant in the room to you doing it? | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys keep going?I mean he mentioned he does approach irl. That's not his problem, is it? | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Girls tell me I’m very attractive but don’t wanna go outgive out compliments to strangers. Hold a conversation for 1 minute. Wish them a good day and go your way. This really helps with approaching random people and could easily turn into flirting with people you want to later. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Hookup texting help?Awesome man, appreciated | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Hookup texting help?I can dive into more details on HOW to respond to each of these texts later please dude, help us | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 08:21 PM |
| 0 | When did women gain so much leverage?Not at all. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 06:54 PM |
| 0 | How do I attract my female friend?Honestly, just give it a shot. Tell her "Hey, why don't we grab a coffee sometime (or any activity)...but as a date" with a smirk. Be upfront, but don't confess or anything, just straightforward suggest a DATE and say the word, otherwise she might interpret it as a friends activity. If she doesn't accept, it's ok. Cut her off, respect yourself, spare yourself pain. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | I attract a lot of women but it never goes anywherehow did you learn the talking on an emotional and physical level then? | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | I attract a lot of women but it never goes anywhereIf you have practised and somewhat mastered the skill of approaching, do you believe it is still necessary to do it every day, even if you get tired of it? | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 06:03 PM |
| 6 | The importance of warming up. Newbie storyHey, first of all good job! Great that you could overcome your initial resistance and now have a blueprint how to do it the next times. As for what to do now: Don't overthink it, you already implanted the idea of a date into the conversation, now just write "Hey it's ... Any plans on Friday?" or depending on what kind of meetup you suggested in the convo you say "So I wanted to check out xyz coffeeplace. Friday works for you?" and go from there. Also you don't need to wait for 3 days to text her… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Getting Coaching"Wanna grab a drink sometime?" | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRLhave you done coaching? | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I have absolutely nothing to get choosing signals from women. What must I do to get women?You already got a good answer, you can do an instant date. But if she's not avaible right then, you can either go "You know what, you have a cool vibe....wanna go for coffee sometime?" or just plain "Do you like coffee... *smirk* let's grab one sometime then". You can watch tons of this in action from tristansocial on instagram, I don't like everything he does, but you can use it as blueprint | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Do I come off too strong while flirting?Thanks man! But I am sure how to interpret the "I was polite" thing, sounds kinda like a rejection a bit | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?Is that to say, getting them to laugh, being somewhat romantic on a first date is a bad idea? | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Who else here loves casual sex?I wanna know too | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 07:33 AM |
| 0 | Should I tell a woman I’m dating my body count if it’s low?"You know, I'm a virgin. But I learn pretty quickly... ;)" | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Approaching mixed groups directly?Sure, it's difficult, that is, why this subreddit exists. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Approaching mixed groups directly?All a question of vibe I guess. And sure, not everyone will receive your approach positively, just like not every single girl out there will receive your approach positively. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Approaching mixed groups directly?Sure, but sometimes someone you find attractive might be in a group setting🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Approaching mixed groups directly?Cool, appreciate the answer man! What about bigger groups? I once heard the opener "Hey guys, is any of you handsome men coupled up with this beautiful person here?" or sth along that line.... And yes, the nerves, haha, seems more like a potentially awkward setting than an all girl group to me. Any mindset tips? | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Ex cheated on me and now wants to get back. Im scared. Please HelpAnd she will hinder you from getting it. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 06:10 PM |
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