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| 82 | Men Pretending To Be Women On Dating Apps Are Getting Humbled (PATREON EPISODE)I knew someone who did this because they were so pathetic, and surprise, we later found out they're also a manipulative psychopath. Probably not a coincidence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Today at the beachDude, this story needs ages. Otherwise.... | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Often the last thing that a woman at a bar on a Friday night wants to experience is a complete stranger asking her a list of standard boring interview questions about her life.Anytime you're trying to follow a recipe to create genuine connections with other human beings, you've already failed. To have interesting conversations be an interesting person. To be an interesting person live an interesting life. | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 09:42 AM |
| 6 | Stop trying to wriggle your way out of hard workThe more you do a hard thing the easier it gets. The more you put it off the harder it becomes. | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Sitting next to a crush on the couch.Are you different genders? | /r/seduction | 03/09/20 02:10 AM |
| -5 | Differences in Gaming Western girls vs Asian girlsGaming people? Like tricking them into liking you? | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 11:28 AM |
| 5 | Got denied for a kiss, feel great!Make her want you to kiss her before going for the kiss. Even in the moment you might make out, but girls might later look back and feel like you were pushing them to something they didn't want. Learn to speak body language and you'll never second guess what she wants. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 10:03 PM |
| 51 | Is it a good or bad thing that my women friends ask me about my dating life?My general experience has been girls don't usually talk about their current dating lives with people they view as potential interests. Unless it's in generalities and innuendo, like, "I love it when a guy..." | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 06:09 PM |
| 22 | Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyesI looked at your Ig. Being a 7-8 is more about mentality than working out. Thinking you're not ready is exactly the self defeatist mentality that keeps a person at 6. You're plenty fit enough physically. It's all mental game from here on out. God speed. | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 06:03 AM |
| 5 | How to get Laid Online with Bad LogisticsI have lived in my family's basement for the last few years while completing a degree. Rent is super expensive in my city and it made the most financial sense. That did not prevent me from having an active romantic and sex life. Usually girls that are really into you are really into you, regardless of where you live. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 04:12 AM |
| 10 | How to Give Less Fucks and Get More Girlsprotip: you don't need to get your eyebrows done, unless you want to. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 06:23 AM |
| 5 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyIt sounds like you improved your life a whole lot. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 10:05 AM |
| 3 | A total fuckin HagCan we get a followup on your hag date from hell? | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out, gave her a date and time, she said she can’t do it because of work and did not suggest an alternative. Now what?If you have friends in common, ideally you can work it behind the scenes, I. E. Suggest to some mutual friend to do something and then say something like "hey why don't you invite those girls X Y and Z too" and make it happen that way. If you directly invite the girls (call her A) friend to hangout (call the friend B) , and B is aware of your previous romantic interest, 100 percent guarantee the first thing B will do is tell A and implicitly find out if A is okay with that. And, likely B will do… | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 06:49 AM |
| – | Asked a girl out, gave her a date and time, she said she can’t do it because of work and did not suggest an alternative. Now what?Don't text her. At the party, walk up and say hi to her, and introduce yourself to her friends, then be charming and entertaining to the friends, focus on them for a bit, then politely excuse yourself and go party elsewhere. If she's into you, she'll want your attention and seek you out again at the party. If she was on the fence, her friends will turn and say "wow who was that handsome charming guy?" and she'll suddenly want you more. When your social circles overlap and it's not just a one-off… | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 07:58 AM |
| 2 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)I just talk to people in my surroundings. It's not that complicated. Quality girls usually see through "strategies" because it's apparent you're just trying to use them for sex. Games usually just work with insecure people who want validation | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 07:13 PM |
| 16 | How to Make Girls Chase You (With the Art of Hot and Cold)Whatever happened to, "be a person of value, someone who contributes to the enjoyment of everyone around then. One who isn't afraid to reveal vulnerabilities, or comfort others when they need it. To be proud and confident of yourself and the people you associate with. In effect, to be a man. " Or you could play games like a high school kid. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 12:43 AM |
| 3 | The same thing keeps happening to me. First or second date goes really well, then they ghost or say they’re not looking to date. I almost alway fuck/make out on the first date.To add to what others are saying: You're focused on getting what you want from these encounters - sex. You might not be paying enough attention to what women want, which is a more well rounded emotional and intellectual stimulation. Are you thinking right now, "what can I do to get these girls to sleep with me more?" I might suggest reframing it in your mind as, "am I giving these girls what theyre looking for enough to make them want to come back for more?" Of course, it's not about being a "pl… | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 11:56 AM |
| 2 | 5 Steps to Get Over a Girl You LoveAny chance you're willing to give a text based synopsis of the video? | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 02:17 AM |
| 2 | I don't have any friends. Should I even bother trying to date?Girls are unlikely to want to date someone that hates half the people they meet before they meet them. Sounds like you know the underlying issue yourself and are asking "how can I avoid dealing with this underlying issue while coming across like I don't have underlying issues?" | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 03:42 AM |
| – | Best ways for maximising hookup chances while travellingYou could pay for Tinder plus and set your location to the next city ahead, and set up dates for when you arrive. This isn't a great plan though because you'll end up missing where you actually are, and likely won't end up with a great success rate. Also, girls in major European cities get sick as hell of the Tinder Tourist scene and usually don't care for it. Unless you're super hot, maybe. In Prague it'll be easy as hell - just go to the 5 story super-nightclub right by the river and historic … | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 07:43 AM |
| 2 | How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick?This puts her in the driver seat and let's her know you'll be around and available if she ever gets bored, and at her beck and call. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 08:41 AM |
| 1 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)I subscribed for the cringeworthy and douchey egotism of people flaunting their not-that-impressive accomplishments, like talking to a girl in public, or working at a strip club. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)I'd be embarrassed to say I work in a strip club, even more embarrassed to be found getting my kicks insulting people who I claim to be superior to. | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Is tinder dying?Tinder has become more mainstream, certainly, and so the specific demographic it appealed to initially (looking for a lay) has been flooded with more conventionally minded folk. Normalization of online dating yields a unique advantage to those willing to approach others in person. You stand out far and above their reference point of expectations on forwardness and interest. Even still, to say you "met on tinder" is often ubiquitously mumbled under ones breath before the topic is quickly changed.… | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Openers on Tinder that induce conversationGo meta. If they have a name like "nailome" make a comment about how many guys must make a pun on their name as an opener. Or, "on a scale from 0 to 10, how cheesy would you like this opening line to be? " If it's a 0 you know they'd like some actual conversation. If it's 11 then google some shitty pickup line. However, the real problem is youre assuming generic one size fits all approaches work. The better success strategy is to leverage some detail about their bio, photos or anything to make a… | /r/seduction | 15/08/16 07:35 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she has/makes plans after your date?I can't imagine any self-respecting woman would continue dating a man who used an implied insult that she's a whore to defend his own cheapness. Maybe there's a more tactful way to handle that. Then again, I wouldn't enjoy being around a girl who actually had a 'men pay for everything and women just look pretty' kind of mindset. | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 09:32 PM |
| 5 | What does it mean when she has/makes plans after your date?To recap: -probably made time for you when she already had plans -made her friend wait outside in a car for an hour just to meet you -told you multiple times she sorry for having something planned for right after the date And you're still thinking about "calling her out on it". Don't do that, it'll just reveal that your feathers are ruffled easily. It also may have been she was excited to meet you, then felt disappointed during the date and chose to end it early by saying she had plans for after… | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 04:02 PM |
| -1 | What does it mean when she has/makes plans after your date?How's that working out for you | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How to prevent 'seeing someone' from escalating into a relationship?You can be up front about your intentions through honest and clear communication when you start to hook up, as opposed to leading her on and letting her think what she wants by not talking about it. E. G. 'hey before we go any further, I thought I should tell you I'm not looking to get involved in anything serious right now' | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 03:48 PM |
| 15 | [FR]Lost my virginity through TinderTry my new audio tapes, Think Your Way to Success. | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 06:11 PM |
| 3 | 3 Natural, Playful Ways to EscalateI genuinely thought this was satire when I read it, along the lines of the "nice dress, grandma" post. But, I guess not :( | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 08:44 AM |
| 3 | 24 hours in the day?You can't put aside variables like wealth and status, because apart from inherited wealth those things come from hard work, ambition, intelligence and etcetera. Stop trying to "figure out the game" as though meeting quality people was a matter of pulling the right levers. Instead, focus on making yourself into a person of value. For starters: - Workout everyday - Eat healthily everyday - Talk to strangers if you're uncomfortable with it - set career goals, work hard to reach them. You're doing y… | /r/seduction | 15/03/16 08:21 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach girls walking down the street? I'm completely frustrated, and in need of a different way of approaching them the way I did.Try leveraging your surroundings a bit more in your approaches, so it's not just a literal "hey what's up" or "hey do i you know you?" Those only really work if you're incredibly charming with the follow up or very good looking. It's best if you can make it feel like a natural occurrence, like if your standing in a lineup at Starbucks and you ask a girl to hold something while you tie your shoe, then say "thanks for that, I'd offer to take you out for coffee in return but I see we're already in … | /r/seduction | 12/12/15 10:23 PM |
| 13 | Followed my friend's advice!!!Couldn't disagree more. What's more beta, being afraid of acting out of turn and getting shot down, or going after what you want? | /r/seduction | 06/12/15 12:06 AM |
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