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| 0 | Massive blunder - asked for a woman's instagram, and her name was already in the search fieldI once when on a date and when she pulled up instagram, my whole profile was already on the screen. Don’t worry about it, everyone does it, and we know everyone does it. She’s probably done it to you already and just didn’t get caught. No big deal | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.My friend, you only want making out and casual stuff just because you don’t have it right now. Trust me, it gets boring and superficial very quickly. You probably won’t follow this advice because you’re simply a guy and that’s what guys think they want, but long term happiness will be achieved when you have someone that loves you back for who you are. For that you might have to lower your standards for their looks or just use the envy to become wealthy and high status | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.I don’t think so, he’s tall enough for a girl to not reject him due to height and attractive enough to not be immediately rejected due to looks. This is a case where he’s more just a combination of poor social skills and quite low IQ stopping him from learning and improving those social skills. Girls will make out with him in the club, but as soon as it comes to the talking and flirting stage he self-sabotages in so many ways and she flees. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 01:21 AM |
| 30 | Some guys have it and some just dont. Self assessment and finding validation as a man.I was in a similar circumstance, trying to bring my friend out with me every weekend who did not have much experience with women, but I always felt him comparing himself to me and getting jealous when a girl was into me. I always gave him tips on what he was doing wrong but he could never “get” it. Eventually his insecurities build up and up until they are affecting the mood of the night (he would continuously ask me to to take photos of him in the nightclub to post on his social media multiple … | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 12:47 PM |
| 1 | London bars and clubs full of men?I just went to B London last night at a ticketed event (I’m not a member). I ended up leaving after an hour because it was crammed so full of people that I couldn’t even reach the bar at the back of the venue to get a drink. I don’t mean to offend or hate on a place you frequent, but is it always like this? Not sure if I should give a second chance or not! | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Share a story of the best seducer you’ve come across IRL, I’ll go first.Funnily enough it’s not about what he said, it’s the way he said it; energetic tone, smiling, eye contact, confident; it’s just a vibe. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 03:44 PM |
| 6 | How to Talk to Women When You Have No Idea What to SayThe ping pong analogy at the end is so good | /r/seduction | 20/12/24 06:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you turn a “bored” girl excited or happy?An attractive candidate as in another person? | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 07:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you turn a “bored” girl excited or happy?That’s a good point you raise, and actually if both of us were engaging independently with each girl then that could have worked much better. Unfortunately the friend I was with is very shy with girls and doesn’t do much talking. We were actually at the bar just to meet eachother and didn’t have any intention on talking to girls so I don’t blame him. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 07:21 PM |
| – | Tip: Take Improv Comedy Acting Classes.*did | /r/seduction | 25/08/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | A good tip to know if she wants you to make a move...Then you have misunderstood my post. Tipsy by all means is not a way of saying “you don’t feel well”, and is actually a good feeling. Maybe you shouldn’t be writing... | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 05:25 AM |
| 1 | A good tip to know if she wants you to make a move...Thanks for the info. What do you mean “not on the up and up”? | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 11:37 PM |
| 3 | First date aproaches?No problem 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | First date aproaches?If u dm me your tinder account I’ll tell u what you can improve :) | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Scarcity mindset goes way further than datingWtf is this about 😂 | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to gain confidence with other girls and people in general, while still having a gf?Just finished my exams in high school, I don’t have a job lol, but good idea ! | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to gain confidence with other girls and people in general, while still having a gf?Yeah I thought so, thanks for the reply | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to gain confidence with other girls and people in general, while still having a gf?Thanks, I won’t do it then :) | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to gain confidence with other girls and people in general, while still having a gf?Thanks for your perspective, could you please suggest another mean to improve my social skills, similar to cold approaching ? | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 05:08 PM |
| 12 | Little tip on leading in a crowded area, escalating and B E L T L O O P SAmazingly written and very useful information, thank you !! | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do I lose interest straight away?That could be very well true, thank you for bringing it up | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 03:45 PM |
| 3 | If a girl tells me I’m not giving her enough attention, should I actually give her more?Well the aim is get her to be my gf, is this not worth the hassle? | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Just did a cold approach and got her number, how long until I text her?Did she reply?? | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 11:51 AM |
| 9 | How do you guys deal with a girl rudely telling you “fuck off” or “walk away?” Do you just awkwardly retreat? Seems it puts you in a weird predicament either wayDoctors tell you to fuck off? Why? | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 07:54 AM |
| 4 | Should i use the word ‘date’ with a best friend of 2 years?Dont say ‘haha jokes’ at the end; be confident. I’d say ‘Soo it’s a date then ;) see you at ____’ | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | I began meditating in order to move towards banging a ton of women all the time, but now after about 5 months of meditating I am more interested in just finding a girlfriendDidn’t know there were mountains on nipple | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 07:54 PM |
| 3 | I began meditating in order to move towards banging a ton of women all the time, but now after about 5 months of meditating I am more interested in just finding a girlfriendHow do you meditate ? | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Would girls find fitness as a hobby interesting?Of course, girls Iove guys that work out and fitness, but don’t make it seem like your life is controlled by the gym. :) | /r/seduction | 24/07/18 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Met this girl (17), don’t know when to message herWe didn’t really make plans, I said the idea but we didn’t specify the location time and all that | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Met this girl (17), don’t know when to message herOh I’m 17 as well | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | I fucked upUpdate ? | /r/seduction | 22/07/18 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Anyone find themselves preferring canned game these days?Can you send me the tech too please ? | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Going to Poland soon. Any advice?Aren’t they racist towards Muslims? | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 02:27 PM |
| 0 | So this happenedIs this your fantasy or what? | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 11:10 PM |
| 4 | How can I find a social circle by talking to people in public?Hey, what video or channel did you get this information from, would like to watch it thanks | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 03:20 PM |
| 7 | How do you manage all the phone numbers when doing lots of approaching?Give them a serial number, e.g HB716272D, also stick a QR code to their forehead | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Girl on tinder wants to meet but do I look different on the tinder pics? U.K.Stop posting this !!! PLEASE ! | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 02:26 PM |
| 10 | How to open for sexYou don’t seem like a respectful friend, if your friend was using her as a fwb 4 years ago you think she is some kind of object that you can talk to for 1 minute and then go straight to fucking? If only it was that easy man this sub wouldn’t exist. Fwb always start out with you getting to know eachother as friends, build trust and chemistry. Then she will decide if your are the type of person she wants to have sex with. If you want to have any chance with her, don’t start your first Facebook mes… | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 02:03 PM |
| 13 | Most helpful tip I knowHey can you tell us some of the things that you did to build this self-sufficient life? | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 11:37 AM |
| -2 | Are there any site or courses that teach you how to dance in the club?. | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 12:49 PM |
| 3 | I’m going out with my crush tonightHaha at that age I used to wait till my parents were asleep and sneak out the house to see a girl, come back at like 3am and go to school the next day | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I’m going out with my crush tonightThe best time to go out is really late when there’s no people and she would be more chaud for a make out sesh in a park, that’s why I recommended it, there’s never any people at my park from 11 to 12 at night | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you use snapchat? And if so, how and what's your age?The main thing I think is it keeps you in their mind, whenever you send them a snap they get more used to communicating with you and therefore makes it easier to talk to them and get more comfortable. I’m 17 and always get the snapchat before asking for a girls number. Oh yeah, and nudes is also a positive | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 04:51 PM |
| 3 | I’m going out with my crush tonightI never spend a lot on the first date, and I’m 17. Just take her to a park at like 12am and get comfortable, works every time | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Socially awkward guy needs advice for second dateThink of what will happen if you don’t go for it, she might friendzone you for not being brave enough or even completely ghost you for not matching her expectations. If you don’t mind this, (and it looks like you do want some new friends) then play it safe and don’t try anything risky. Try some kino, light touching, and if she responds well to it then the door opens for you to go for the kiss later in the night; if she moves away or responds negatively then hold it off and save the kiss for anot… | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 10:49 PM |
| 2 | What to reply when...Can I ask you, how old are you ? | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 09:26 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle this?Are you interested in having a relationship with her? Usually I wouldn’t go for a long-term with a girl that let me hookup and have sex within an hour.. but it’s your choice. I’d DM her on Instagram and maybe get her number to set up a date, good luck ! | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | help for a shy goth guyOh that’s great, there’s is not much of a goth community where I’m from so I don’t know much about it haha. You say you’re not goth.. but the title says “help for a shy goth guy”..? | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How can I meet girls outside of school?Yeah my exact issue haha. I think I’ll try going to the gym more frequently because I see some girls there sometimes that glance at me :) Do you feel like in your school, because you have been there your whole life, that you have the reputation of just being a friend ? Like why would any girl decide to start dating me now since we’ve known each other for 10+ years on a friendly basis so it would be weird to get into a relationship. You did help, thanks ! | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 10:00 PM |
| 0 | How can I meet girls outside of school?I do go to the gym and I do sometimes see girls there my age, I just need to build the confidence to go and talk to them. Thanks ! | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 09:57 PM |
| 4 | How can I meet girls outside of school?I appreciate this, but at this age girls are doing whatever they like and are not known to be committed to relationship which is what I am afraid of. I also don’t want to get into a relationship in my school because it is small and everyone knows each other since we were very young so I’d rather start fresh with a girl that knows nothing about me, where do I start? | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Question for Advanced GuysHoly shit you’re a genius | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 08:14 PM |
| 4 | help for a shy goth guyI don’t think many girls go for the ‘goth-look guys’ to be completely honest with you, and the goth girls don’t go out as much as you’d probably like. It will be hard to find a girl that suits you unfortunately. Good luck though | /r/seduction | 18/02/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Drunk sex stories?:) ;) ;) :) | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Does she like me?You’re fucking welcome | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Does she like me?Yeah she wants you to come over, it couldn’t be more blatantly obvious. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 11:10 PM |
| 9 | Is this too aggressive?Just to say in advance, the chances of her replying are very low... I once saw a female friend’s Instagram account and her DMs are full of guys trying to ask her out. You can try but don’t take it personally if you get ignored. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Gym Infield pull pf day 2Wow that’s what I call a whale | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Field report.Nice! | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Few girls complimented my hair in the clubCan you tell us what the hairstyle is? | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 09:55 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on "liking" social media posts from the girl you are trying to get?It’s not gonna mean anything to her unfortunately, most girls get ~100 likes on their Instagram pictures etc. You’d have more of a chance messaging them to be honest. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Where to Bang??In the friend’s bedroom ? | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Tinder is a GOLDMINE for finding girls:I browse this board because there is obviously more to seduction than good looks. Yeah, I can get a date but then it is up to my personality and social skills to actually get her to like me. | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Tinder is a GOLDMINE for finding girls:If you want you can DM me a link to your tinder bio and I could give you advice ? | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 01:08 PM |
| -3 | Changed my Tinder bio from a clever one to a normal one and am getting more matchesI downloaded Tinder yesterday, I have 20 matches | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Some help.Where did you read this bio? It seems like she is one of these girls that get u to text her and then ask you to pay for nudes or smth | /r/seduction | 03/01/18 10:47 AM |
| 3 | A beautiful girl with a bf gave me her number...Whatever happens ,just realise how good this experience was to bring your confidence up: a girl asked for your number, which means you’re probably a desirable person. Good luck bro | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 10:33 PM |
| 5 | First date went terribly wrong haha (awkward)If you apologise to her I’m gonna give u a slap | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 11:09 PM |
| 2 | 3 "Delusional" Mindsets to Build Unshakable ConfidenceThis is a good video, thanks. | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 11:08 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of your platonic friends are women?Are you gay? | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 10:47 PM |
| 5 | First date went terribly wrong haha (awkward)Bruv, you have the wrong mindset completely. You don’t owe her an apology, you brought her out to have a good time, she wasn’t feeling it at that time, so she left. Fuck it, she’s not worthy of you. How can someone not even say goodbye after coming to the party with you? It’s just common courtesy. I’d leave her to it, only text her if she texts you first. Don’t apologise for anything, you have done nothing wrong. Have fun bruv | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Good opener for ErikaWhat is it with the dental floss line? I hear lots of people saying it but I find it kind of a weird question to ask | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate see when you bring her to the bedroom?Lie next to her on the bed, make out, slowly take off her clothes, she’ll take yours off, then fuck. | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 05:09 PM |
| 0 | I’m 16 and she’s 14 - Could it work?Yeah it think so, age of consent where I live is 15 😬 | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 08:29 PM |
| 10 | Keep eye contact?Keep looking, don’t stop | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 10:38 AM |
| 7 | Female Seduction Game“Ladies, we hold all the power when it comes to sex and relationships”... if a guy doesn’t like you, then he will fuck off and dump you, how do you have all the power over him then? | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 10:37 AM |
| 1 | [M17] How to Initiate Relationships with Momen in High School.How to initiate relationships with more men? | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What happened to Mystery and Style?Thanks ! | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What happened to Mystery and Style?Hi, what’s mystery’s instagram called? Thanks | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Is texting this girl even worth it?Try and meet her, if she’s not up for it then let her go. If she’s hot then you should try another chance | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 10:54 PM |
| 1 | First date in a weekYou seem to think the only way of getting a girlfriend is through learning structured game. Tell me this; is your father a pick up artist or a man who has learnt game through using methods he read on the internet? Probably not, and yet, he still found a wife. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 08:41 AM |
| -1 | First date in a weekNo he doesn’t... don’t waste your time on these methods bro. You’re young and you have a life; these “mystery methods” are for ppl who have no hope left in their life. My advice would be to let her know that your are talking to her to be MORE than friends, and that if she can’t give that to you, then you will not settle for friendship and will stop talking to her. Good luck 👌🏼 | /r/seduction | 25/11/17 05:45 PM |
| 21 | Girls invited me to one of their houses to watch a movie, how do I read this scenario?Just make sure that they know you’re there as a real guy, and not as ‘one of the girls’. Many girls love to have that one gay best friend so don’t fall into this trap. | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Small conversation I had. I thought I was hilarious..« Tomorrow I own your dad »?? What were you thinking bro... | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 11:04 PM |
| 3 | I just realised that I only approached one woman in my life and it was amazingly successful!Oh bro haha, she could have said something like ‘let’s go somewhere quieter’ or something. Anyway good job on your success. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Need advice from anyone willing, FRNow that you say it, it does seem like the easy option but I guess I wasn’t thinking rationally at the time. I’m glad I found this subreddit though because I use a lot of the things that people have mention. Thanks mate. | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 09:36 PM |
| 3 | This Girl, My Social Life, and Crashing a QuinceaneraOk bro, at the moment it seems a tiny bit needy and if she is not replying to your texts you should probably give it a break unfortunately. One of the biggest signs of attraction is when the two of you lock eye contact, even from the other side of a room, and if she is not looking at you it’s probably because she isn’t interested. Look for body language signs and how she acts when you are around. If she leaves you on ‘read’, don’t pursue her any further because she doesn’t value you. | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Need advice from anyone willing, FRUnfortunately not, I couldn’t get her alone because the host didn’t rly want us walking around his house on our own and it would be kinda awkward asking her for it around a group of people | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Being good looking Vs. Being rich Vs. having good game, which is better?You need a good balance of all 3. A woman is not gonna date a rich goblin with no game, nor a struggling hobo, and especially not a attractive rich guy who is less interesting than a mosquito net. | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Teen small house partyAs a sidenote, could it be wise to add her on Instagram or snapchat so I have the chance to maybe see or invite her out again? | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Oklahoma Just Repealed a Law That Outlawed the Seduction of 'Unmarried Females'TLDR? | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl who was going to come over tonight had a friend dieJust comfort her and don’t put her under pressure. When she calms down then arrange to meet up. If she is psychologically unstable at the moment then you don’t want her being sad around you. Wait it out basically. | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Gaming at a young ageThanks! I will do this, just needed to hear it from you bro. | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 02:52 AM |
| 4 | How to cure approach anxiety and talk to your crush or HB9/10 without freaking outCan it be done like before going to bed, or it has to be done during the day when your mind is active ? | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 07:21 PM |
| 3 | What is the best way to approach girls in class who are with their friends?Just don’t. Wait for the moment after class when people are packing up or another situation outside of class. You have a high chance of making a fool of yourself if they’re not interested and surrounded by people you know | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Picking Up Hot Latina Girl + Daygame InfieldDid you get her number in the end? | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t my hairline receding and no girls ever like me...Holy shit dude stop reposting this, you’re paranoid mate. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 09:26 PM |
| 10 | Halloween [FR]Unlucky mate. At least you gained experience from it | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Is it very strange or abnormal if a 20 year old guy has never masturbated in his entire life?Very abnormal. At this age and earlier ages you should normally be very horny because it is the natural way your body reacts when the species needs to mate. Get it checked out before it’s too late | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How can I pick up girls in a foreign country if I can’t speak their language fluently?Thanks for the reply. I live in Monte-Carlo so there is quite a good night life around here. Lots of middle aged rich Russians and lots of people going out at night on the weekends. I think it helps that Monaco is quite a more international country compared to other parts of France so I will go out tonight and see what happens :) | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 04:16 PM |
| 4 | How do I get over my girlfriend's past?Start working out and go to the gym. Also try to be seen walking around with a big group of friends to seem intimidating . He seems jealous that you have his ex-gf, but is only becoming violent because he knows you won't react to him (because he is bigger and stronger). | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Are you short? Wear soles in your shoes.If anything, it will make you shorter. Lifting heavy weights above the head compresses the substance in the spine so you will become shorter. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Are you short? Wear soles in your shoes.No, it doesnt, but a muscular short guy will be much more attractive than a chubby/skinny short guy. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Why does talking like a serial killer on tinder work so well?Because girls think you're trying too hard when you write very well | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 11:45 AM |
| 21 | I decided to quit being a fuckboiCringe... | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone got any tips for European girls, and more specifically French girls?I live in a french city although I'm English, I can tell you a lot of them prefer guys that are older than them, usually with a stubble and unbuttoned shirt. I don't have any experience with them sorry | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Can someone talk to this girl i like instead of me?Why not :'/ | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Can someone talk to this girl i like instead of me?I will do it !! PM me | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you don't get a responseShe might be in a different time zone, or is busy doing some activity. If she doesn't reply by the next morning, consider the issues. | /r/seduction | 13/08/17 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Why dont girls ever return eye contact?Girls can be just as nervous or socially awkward to not keep eye contact as men. We're all humans in the end | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How old are you and what do you want ?Same cuz except I'm 16. Need a good bj tbh | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 11:05 PM |
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