zedpapa Archive

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2	Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man? I told them I felt like they opened up to me more and even told some stories about my mishaps (e.g. going to a hooker on grandma's recommendation but not being able to get it up, etc.). I think if you own up to yourself and make lighthearted fun out of it, it just goes to show you are comfortable with yourself and confident enough to be able to share something that others might find sensitive, which in turn makes you attractive.	/r/seduction	31/03/22 02:36 PM
1	Kissless virgin at 20, might be until I’m 21. Do I have any hope of true redemption/becoming a confident man? I got my first kiss and had sex for the first time at 27. I didn't regret all the missed opportunities because when it finally happened it was under circumstances I wouldn't even dream about at 21 years old. Then I realized it isn't even such a grand thing as society makes you to believe. It's a blessing in disguise to be alone so long because you are forced to learn how to be happy on your own and once you achieve that nobody will be able to take it away from you.	/r/seduction	31/03/22 02:30 PM
1	How to deal with never being a first choice for girls? Try using a jawline trainer, it's like chewing on a big piece of hard rubber and it helps to tone the muscles of the face, it improved my facial structure for sure. It's more of a remedy against having an underbite but it can tone the edges of the chin too.	/r/askTRP	30/05/21 05:20 AM
2	How to stop thinking about ass? If you feel your passion taking over your mind, Imagine them how they would look at 80 years old. Imagine how their body would look dead and decomposing. Then imagine their bones being scattered and turning into dust. Before you start hating on me, this is an actual buddhist meditation technique to internalize the fact that everything is impermanent. Stop clinging to things that will soon pass, beauty is transient	/r/askTRP	01/04/21 05:27 AM
8	Feel like a loser Meditate, meditate, meditate. If you can, go to a 10 day Vipassana course and that will kickstart your practice, after that you can easily keep meditating one hour in the morning, one hour in the evening. I had similar problems when I was younger and meditation was the absolute most effective tool I used to get disciplined, clear my mind and feel better about myself. Once you reach the stage where you are comfortable with yourself and don't feel the need to impress others, your confidence will b…	/r/askTRP	31/03/21 02:32 PM
6	If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it? Go to a 10 day Vipassana retreat and meditate, you'll find the answers inside. They will never come from outside.	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 11:30 AM
1	If "nothing lasts forever" and "love" is just a temporary thing, then what's the point of pursuing relationships when it's all just illusion? Try going to a 10 day meditation retreat. A regular meditation practice will help you overcome depression and will make your peace impenetrable by outside circumstances	/r/askTRP	26/01/21 11:26 PM
1	How to thrive in your social discomfort (both in life and in the present moment) One thing I'd add that is such a small thing but has a huge impact on well-being: cold showers every day. It increases testosterone, makes the skin smoother, releases feel good hormones and the best of all: it pushes you out of your comfort zone. If one masters the art of taking cold showers whenever and wherever one wishes so, the "cold showers" of life won't be intimidating any more.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/18 09:50 AM