zeninfinity Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	Do women know when a guy is horny as they are dancing on him in the club? Seriously. I think we need a /r/seductionOver30 subreddit.	/r/seduction	17/11/21 10:58 PM
1	Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out? Alright, alright, alright - David Wooderson	/r/seduction	18/10/21 06:47 AM
1	[deleted by user] I mean this in the nicest way, but do you have some sexual hangups you need to work through (obviously answer this for yourself, not here) but there could be a point where you're still trying to connect/sell hooking up when you might be creating blockers for yourself. One friend I had growing up got more women because...honestly...he asked. He talked about it, see how they responded, and then had fun with it no matter the answer. And when it's time to get down you don't have to say shit, you j…	/r/seduction	08/10/21 04:52 PM
75	There is nothing more attractive than a person who still has a zest for life. Life is hard. REALLY f'n hard for some. Transcending this when real trauma has been inflicted upon someone is a difficult battle, sometimes a lifetime battle. But don't let the bastards drag you down. F'm. Period. Live your own life, write your own book. Do what YOU want in life, not what your parents want, not what society wants, but what you want. You got this. Get weird with it.	/r/seduction	06/10/21 10:45 PM
1	Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday? Go about your business....	/r/seduction	03/10/21 03:25 PM
1	[deleted by user] Probably the best answer for me is a sense of "positive soulfulness", a deep sense of oneself, without being melancholy.	/r/seduction	30/09/21 11:44 AM
1	I feel like I’m too comfortable with my girlfriend My honest advice? Take a trip for the weekend, or longer with an old friend. Take some time apart and see what happens. She should do the same. Send her out to see an old friend. Spring for a hotel/spa/whatever if you can afford it. Give time/space to miss each other. This will help you each grow individually and, hopefully, reignite the spark.	/r/seduction	30/09/21 11:41 AM
3	Anybody meeting any ok girls lately? Is it just me? Yes, as you get older the odds get....odder. For the record I've been dealing with these same situations. I am not impressed with most women out there. There are many reasons. One is we've gone to online dating, which is more of a menu of people to choose from, that can be disposed of for any and all reasons, and expectations are ridiculously high. How to fix this? I'm still trying to figure that out...but mostly up your game to the point where you get good at meeting people IRL, not on the …	/r/seduction	23/09/21 10:45 PM
2	Why do people here recommend going out over online dating? Old guy here - Back in the day, just getting out there and meeting people was step 1. Now there are insane amounts of steps to just get to step 1, being in front of someone and see if something's there. Overall, you can tell almost instantly if there is something there with someone...something pretty much impossible on dating apps.	/r/seduction	20/09/21 03:40 PM
4	How do you guys approach a woman you've made eye contact with outside/in the club? Start with 'Hi, I'm <insert name here>'?	/r/seduction	09/09/21 03:11 PM
50	I can’t stress enough how important this is! Are you not listening!? It's - Eye, cap'n.	/r/seduction	06/09/21 02:45 PM
4	PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works” I agree. I have a mother, sisters, nieces, female friends, etc, that I love and adore. I want a partner who is as lovely as all of them. But this is in no way easy. "The Game" works. Why? It preys on women's insecurities, and feeds the male ego. "Nice guy" mindset doesn't work because you get this idea in your head that if you act a certain way and do a set of tasks you'll get to the prize (learned from rom-coms IMO). You will throw everything about yourself away to pretend to be this perfec…	/r/seduction	06/09/21 02:07 PM
2	PSA Don’t be tempted to start treating people like shit, even if it “works” I agree with both the OP AND this comment. Loneliness / touch-starvation can be torturous. Ultimately I guess it all depends on where we are in the journey. Are we just looking to get touched? To conquer a woman? To be a PUA? Or are you looking for your partner in life?	/r/seduction	06/09/21 02:01 PM
3	For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you? Relax, don't do it, when you want to go to it. Relax, don't do it, when you want to come. --- Frankie	/r/seduction	05/09/21 01:12 AM
1	How to ACTUALLY attract a woman Soooooo a drunk humble brag post is all you got in ya you old wise seducer you?!	/r/seduction	28/08/21 03:46 AM
-1	How to get out the friend zone Wow dude. This comment says so much more about you than her.	/r/seduction	24/08/21 01:34 AM
1	Got scammed thr online girls An expensive lesson, one I hope you've learned for life. What exactly were you paying for?	/r/seduction	12/08/21 04:17 PM
119	I FINALLY did it! Created chemistry with a girl and set up a date. The Insights I learned: I look at it like this: “Master your instrument, Master the music, and then forget all that bullshit and just play.” -- Charlie Parker	/r/seduction	08/08/21 06:44 PM
4	How can you avoid getting overly exited (obsessed) when you are dating a girl that has everything you are looking for? Exercise	/r/seduction	07/08/21 12:30 PM
6	I KNOW I CAN DO IT, I JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO START... "But I'm scared." "Well, then you'll just have to do it scared." I honestly think you should keep your eyes OFF the prize for awhile and work on being open and social with everyone you meet, male or female, old or young. You need social practice. Work on your own self worth. If you don't think you're worthy of a woman, you're right....so how do you change/grow into a person worthy of the woman you want? What exactly do you need to change? Then start doing the work so you believe, truly and not f…	/r/seduction	06/08/21 04:37 PM
2	The single most effective way to improve your overall confidence is to take on a leadership role, no matter how small. Stepping outside of your comfort zone and leading others will yield results in other areas of your life This might be the best advice I've seen on this subreddit. To be an active member/leader, engaging with people, will help you start carrying the torch of your life. This will echo into SO many other parts of your life.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 04:29 PM
3	Please stop with this “be yourself” bullshit. Respectfully, I'd be careful taking this as blanket advice. It depends on what you're currently looking for. If you are seducing to get laid, I couldn't agree more. Your end goal is to score, so understanding what the other wants, and portraying exactly that, is the best path to success. But if you're seducing to find love, a companion, this is horrible advice. If you are NOT yourself and are faking who you are, you will end up with someone who loves this fake you that you've pretended to be and…	/r/seduction	02/07/21 04:53 PM
121	Can anyone share their experience from the 90s? Honestly I feel the apps have made matching easier but connecting harder. Before online dating and after a breakup, you'd be sad as shit, playing video games on your couch and doing nothing. But the real difference is...when you were finally ready to meet someone new, your ONLY option was to kick your own ass and get your shit together. You had to get a haircut, new clothes, new style, new confidence, and get yourself out there and talk to women. You had to do a lot of self-talk, stay positi…	/r/seduction	13/06/21 02:18 PM
1	Scared to make moves even when I’m drunk Counter-thought: Then you might not be ready to make moves? Maybe there's something(s) within you which need work before you truly feel ready to put yourself out there? I'm not saying stop trying, but asking the question to maybe refocus on what you CAN change and to see your situation clearer. And as I get older I continue to come to the conclusion that overall, alcohol kinda sucks.	/r/seduction	03/04/21 02:17 PM
2	Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men. Now THIS is a great post...	/r/seduction	17/12/20 01:57 PM
2	Why do I get a lot of number but only few dates ? Lol. Your logic is absolutely sound good sir.	/r/seduction	15/12/20 10:25 PM
2	Why do I get a lot of number but only few dates ? I see you're getting downvoted...but you're not wrong. To all the men who treat women like a game, like an ends to your own personal needs and desires, I wish for you daughters.	/r/seduction	15/12/20 06:03 PM