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| 1 | My friend's flourishing career looks like it's hurting her marriageI feel like programmers have it the easiest out of the bunch though, do you agree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | My friend's flourishing career looks like it's hurting her marriageProgrammer too? She probably sees him as a beta herb. He's not very dominant, is he | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | My friend's flourishing career looks like it's hurting her marriageWhat on earth do you do man? I need to jump ship asap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | My friend's flourishing career looks like it's hurting her marriageAnd him? Does he have the same earning potential? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | My friend's flourishing career looks like it's hurting her marriageIts understandable, no? 300k is a lot. I'd second doubt myself too - like I did something wrong with my time all these years. What does she do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 3 | I'm 27 and never asked out a girl, not because I'm a pussy, but because I don't know what to actually sayNonsense, you dont need to read anything. our ancestors didnt need "the game", and the internet has made it obvious that there is no magic to meeting women, it's all marketing. It will literally take you one approach, not a long time, that's ridiculous. Just go out and fucking get it over with. It's like getting punched in the face, it's really not a big deal. Also its not psychologically gruelling. Your relationships absolutely count and make you a much better lover and womanizer. | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 6 | I'm 27 and never asked out a girl, not because I'm a pussy, but because I don't know what to actually sayLiterally do just that. Walk down street. See a girl holding prolonged eye contact? Great, turn around, tap her on the shoulder and say i think you're absolutely beautiful, I want to meet you. What's your name and what are you up to? It IS that simple. Follow up with banter... Ask her about her school, work, whatever. Basic info exchange to ensure you're both normal. Tease her here and there if you can (a bit tough in your first approaches ever when your adrenaline is high). Often times they'll … | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Any tips for having great TINDER picsYes, dont be on tinder. | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How can I (21m) meet girls during these times?Word | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How can I (21m) meet girls during these times?This | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 03:26 AM |
| 0 | Where do we access old RSD Videos since they purged them all from youtube?I never liked them either. Haven't watched a whole length thing, but it was all marketing. I heard they had some really good guys back in the day though. | /r/seduction | 14/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Asking a co-worker to join you at a party.Only a big deal in america. Anywhere else in the world its fine. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | What to text after first date to get second date/ how to get her more investedSingle moms need love too, but dont get trapped. I hear ya, dating is challenging nowadays, but with the right approach and experiences, you should have that fixed in no time! | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Where to have sex. Age 17, living in SCParks, parties, her house, back alleys, abstinence | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girlsMoron | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girlsIm a virgin actually. Im saving it for the right girl. Are you salty my nigga? | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girlsA gentleman never tells. And a gentleman never asks. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girlsYou too | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | What to text after first date to get second date/ how to get her more investedU need to approach endlessly and travel and see beautiful women around the world. Scarcity will not be in your vocabulary. Also, if you're talking about tinder matches, delete the app right now that shit will destroy your dignity. Dont worry about fucking up. You need to fuck up fast. Fuck up 99 times, your 100th will be a success. The faster you get through the fuck ups, the faster you get to your prize. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to girlsNiga im a playa, ur an mpua nerd. Gtfoh | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:42 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys approach someone and go from stranger to intimate?Your approach works too. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:21 AM |
| 13 | How do you guys approach someone and go from stranger to intimate?Strangers are friends we havent met yet. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | First Cold ApproachNeither. I troll them till their panties drop. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | ISO: Dating ProfileYes daddy | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:06 AM |
| 1 | She didn't text you backNot even. It works. They're all virgin incarnates anyways. What do i know. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Remain steadfastOne more recommendation. Recommendation is spelled with one 'c' and two 'm's | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Remain steadfastI like you too baby | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Remain steadfastMany, read my comments. The ones before today when I was being a dick to everyone. Fastest way to confidence is running. Fast paced running. Crank out max pushups. Followed by ice cold shower. Meditation to crystalize the mind. You dont need any game after that. Just go somewhere and approach girls. Memorize a few openers. Learn how to listen and conversational deep dives. And tap into your sexual nature. Learn to escalate verbally and physically, kino and all that bullshit. Read lots, make mone… | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Remain steadfastAwe. Take a cold shower. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 5 | What to text after first date to get second date/ how to get her more investedBro im giving u golden lines and u validating yourself. Go out and conquer. Do you think your great great great great great great great great great great great great grandpa was worried about what to text some girl | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 01:41 AM |
| 4 | Remain steadfastTldr im a virgin | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 01:40 AM |
| 1 | ApproachesDont tease me | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 01:33 AM |
| 1 | ApproachesLmaooo idgaf | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 18 | Discouraged about dating in collegeWatch fight club. Then fap yourself to sleep. Then do 50 pushups. Run 5k. Take a cold shower. Then stop giving a fuck. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Got rejected again, this was probably the best rejection I’ve gottenBest rejection ever! High five! | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Glasgow/ScotlandTry cold approaches in Siberia. Makes approaches in Glasgow look like a vacation in Hawaii. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:23 AM |
| 3 | ApproachesStop calling women bitches. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I finally did a cold approachIts nice to hope | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Asking a co-worker to join you at a party.Whats the big deal? | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be beyond help?Just pretend you're a different person, inside someone else's body. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | This is one of the best parts I read in Models. It's about putting in the work over a long time to improve your lifestyle, job, hobbies, friends, and interests. This helps you do better in approaches. Just approaching without working on these will give you bad results.I smoke, I drink, I fuck. All vices and bad lifestyle choices. Kids, go to church, floss your teeth, and eat your fucking broccoli 🥦. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Do girls find dancing men hot?Do hot men find girls dancing? | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Wings are severely underrated in daygameRed bull gives you wings | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Asking a co-worker to join you at a party.And if she misbehaves you spank her. Then you report her to her dad. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | I finally did a cold approachBut srs text her that. She might laugh and swallow your babies | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:11 AM |
| 0 | I finally did a cold approachI mean you're getting pricked | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Asking a co-worker to join you at a party.And because you havent left your mother's basement for 6 months | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Asking a co-worker to join you at a party.Im not joking. Buy her some hubba bubba snd tell her to sit the fuck down on the childrens table. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Asking a co-worker to join you at a party.Because i said so | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 2 | I finally did a cold approachLol do it. Who gives a fuck. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | What are the reasons for flaking?Not interested. Get more money, muscles, status. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 4 | Follow up help needed for my first cold approachStop being so cold and be a hot Latino lover | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Getting numbers from girls you’re interested in or just getting as many numbers as you can?I dont ask for phone numbers. I ask for her address so I can order us an uber back to hers. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | What to text after first date to get second date/ how to get her more investedNice first date. Wanna go on a second date? | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Emergency! Complete beginner here.Start from a girl 2 points below your league. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Cold ReadingI like to hot read with a cup of tea. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Chatting with a quiet girl. Tips to help her open up?Use a can opener. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Beginners shouldn't use NegsNeg aka trolling bitchez since 1999 | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | How can I never be emotionally invested in women.Are you a fucking robot? Maybe a gay robot? Why would you want to never be emotionally invested? What is wrong with you, Alexa? | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to girlsLmfaooooooo, ya she will reply to that. Why are you here spreading misinformation confusing people. Stop recycling cliche advice. Op. How to talk? Ask questions. Listen. Ask more questions. Listen. Ask more questions. Listen. Let her do all the talking. She loves it. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone gotten rid of their relationship anxietyYa i dumped my girlfriend. I was anxious she was demanding my time and attention. Now i have more time to work, study, and hit on hot babes. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:55 PM |
| 10 | Why is this so hard?You know why? Because everything you do, you do it for women. It will start working out for you when you learn to enjoy rejection. Yes, you read that right. When you stop giving absolutely zero fucks. And you're giving way too many right now. Rejection? No. Dodging bullets. The last thing you want is an incompatible woman in your life eating your fucking soul piece by piece. If she's rejecting you, she wasnt compatible and that saved you a bunch of fucking time. Now straighten up. 50 pushups. 5k… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Got a first date with a hot one - should I, or should I not do this on the date....?Am i the only one that found this funny? | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:45 PM |
| 7 | She didn't text you backBro just spam her. Works. Every. Time. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Keep getting mistaken for a fuckboiSay fuckboi one more time and you might be mistaken for a battiboy next time | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Where could I have improved? Thoughts on situation?U could have been a winner. But if you were you wouldnt be here in the first place. Welcome to the crab bucket son. See you back here in 10 years. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Asking a co-worker to join you at a party.Give her bubble gum and hard dick. Alcohol is for adults you criminal. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Asking a co-worker to join you at a party.U need therapy | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 1 | ISO: Dating ProfileVirgin 4 life | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | A psycho woman is caging me!Weird kink | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:36 PM |
| -5 | How to maintain conversation with girls at a bar?Roofies | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Roissy in DCGoogle chateau heartiste. I think heartiste.net or something like that There's a mirror server. I never found his content to be that good however. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 05:19 PM |
| -3 | Dating: you are inviting her to join you on an epic adventureI hate these kinds of stupid posts and articles. Delusional, pointless, and neurotic. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | I’ve still yet to see the benefits of being a jerkI wrote about this to someone yester day: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/i804yh/is_it_worth_to_read_seduction_books/g157nor?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth to read seduction books?If you're in a big city you can actually learn to approach. Just do it outside of your campus - you dont want some girl to point you out to her friend and say "that guy approached me, he said so and soz so creepy." Because everyone around you will find out and it will affect you negatively. Nonetheless, it is definitely a skill worth learning if you can practice outside of your university bubble. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth to read seduction books?This. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth to read seduction books?Also, what will you be studying? | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth to read seduction books?Yeah, dont try to pull a Tucker Max in uni. It might sound cool on paper, but its not. I went through the whole thing, so you get an idea. A lot of people end up in relationships. Yeah, a gf will give you experience for sure, in all areas, and you'll meet other girls too. When you say you have a gf, girl's radars will be off. You're instantly recognized as safe to be around. | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth to read seduction books?Dont worry, i dont care for reddit rep, but thanks. Ask away if you need tips. | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 7 | Is it worth to read seduction books?I agree, reading is everything. But read widely. Pua books wont develop your intelligence, classics will. Read all the classics in uni. From hemingway through dostoevsky, Steinbeck, bradbury, fleming, asimov, twain, etc google 100 most important books for men and read them. Also read evo biology/science. Books like red queen (ridley), sperm warms, sapiens (harari), cosmos (sagan). They'll really open your eyes. If you want to get an idea of the pick up/social process, read the mystery method (wo… | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 7 | Is it worth to read seduction books?My 2 cents. Uni is about social game. Make as many friends as you can. More friends, more parties, more girls. Be a nice dude, treat people well and respectfully, be fun, be friendly. Do well in school. Use your time to the max. Develop something on the side, dive into your hobbies, try to do something unique, try to learn new things. Keep an open mind and toss the pua stuff to the curb for now. That applies into your mid twenties when you start approaching girls out in the wild, after you get a… | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Approaching a girl when she's with friendsI commented on thus last week. Go through my comments | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex.Its evolutionary biology | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I make more male friendsSign up for sports clubs and learn to play. Soccer/hockey/basketball/boxing/mma/juijitsu | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 7 | REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex.Well you know you are right you probably know better about my experiences with women than I do and how my interactions have gone. What I'm simply trying to convey is that you are projecting your own complexes and insecurities and blaming ALL men for it. There are a of things going on through a man's mind when a man approaches a woman. Sometimes those things dont have anything to do with the girl and sometimes it has to do with butthurt women like you who want to make it about something adversari… | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 11:52 PM |
| -3 | REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex.Well maybe you should not look back. | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | REMINDER: It is natural to want and to have sex.Yep, its about suppressing the competition - a social check and balance. A slut in the tribe is a threat of losing her resource provider for the her children, so she needs to be deterred at all costs. That's why you see women becoming so passive agressive towards other women, the sudden change in character can be jaw dropping. | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | I feel like a virgin againBeen there your age, you'll bounce back | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Are my legs too skinny for a 6ft tall male? Get stared down often and a virginStop posting about your legs every day | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 11:59 AM |
| 4 | Too late to startYou're not late, you have a confidence problem. I can tell you are a modest person. Are you part of a church or community? You can start by dating women who are below your standards. You will see that those women are also beautiful in their own ways. Perhaps as your confidence grows, you may find you like different kinds of women. But you have to start somewhere - and you never started. The only way to lose the anxiety is to act despite of it. It is difficult, but the only way. No words will cha… | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | What is an appropriate amount of time to wait before I start flirting with the girl?Flirting is an extension of your personality. Read a book called la seduction: how the french play the game of life. Its a mode, not so much a "when". You flirt when the situation calls for it. The french flirt at all times. I flirt when I feel like it. Sometimes you do it from the get go, other times you feel out the counterparty's persona and you gauge, you measure your approach. Also look into jordan peterson, he talks about complex socialization and its dimensions of sophistication. Good fli… | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 5 | Women like when you have hoesI cant help an autistic man, but I can tell you chasing females is a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 08:08 AM |
| 4 | How many of you lift? Do you think that getting to 10% bf is worthwhile from perspective of seducing girls?I used to be really fit and strong, amazing physique. Im not the type to walk around with a shirt off. Only time girls would see my body was in the bedroom. If youre gonna do it just for girls, not worth it. And it doesnt help your game... Maybe only your self perception | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | If you plan to spend the next few years getting ripped or getting rich or reading books before you start approaching women, you don’t have a plan; you have an obstacle.Stop using the word bigot like you know what it means. Yes, but your argument is flawed. What's to suggest they are not gay men commiting gay acts? Why must they be straight men doing things? I'm not disagreeing with you, I'm saying your argument is just invalid. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | If you plan to spend the next few years getting ripped or getting rich or reading books before you start approaching women, you don’t have a plan; you have an obstacle.Agreed. I drive uber, the other day I drove a transexual person. Intelligent and friendly, but couldnt stop giving me compliments and asking me about my relationships and if I had ever dated a trans person (as if it is the norm). Completely inappropriate and unwanted. I didnt make a big fuss because I care about my rating, but it was fucking disgusting. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | If you plan to spend the next few years getting ripped or getting rich or reading books before you start approaching women, you don’t have a plan; you have an obstacle.100% And you're right. Gays get away with shit straight men couldnt possibly imagine - not hating on their no privilege, but its the furthest thing from equality. And its hillarious how people think you should change your opinion without having an ounce of understanding. You dont owe anyone an explanation for what you think. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 10:47 PM |
| -2 | If you plan to spend the next few years getting ripped or getting rich or reading books before you start approaching women, you don’t have a plan; you have an obstacle.I was friends with a gay dude in uni. Im a friendly person and he seemed chill and I didnt want to be discriminatory. Big mistake. Also a very big snake. Harassed me a few times and turned out to be a piece of shit. Banished him straight to hell. Never let gay people close to me after that, and in my experience they've always been pushy. Nothing against gay folks but stay away from me, once is enough. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Question for girls regarding guys opening upLook, you can talk about absolutely anything. The only limits are within our minds. You could talk about politics, sex, religion, murder, and all sorts of other inappropriate crap the first five minutes you meet someone, and still end up getting laid or falling in love. The question here is statistically how will it be received. It will either be received well or not received well. Whether it is received well or not depends on the situation, the context, how you communicate it, how it comes off,… | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 09:10 PM |
| 8 | Women like when you have hoesSo women should be the last of your concern. Trust me, even if you had a girl who loved you, your other problems wouldn't go away. Try to solve them first. Its not that simple. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 13 | Women like when you have hoesThere are worse problems to have out there. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Women like when you have hoesWhen you have options it naturally manifests in your speech and mannerisms. You dont even have to voice it explicitly like OP did. Just taking that normal pause a little too long (instinctive) before you try to answer will signal your status. If you're out of options your tone and everything else will change and it'll be obvious - even if you lie. She's just checking for your SMV. Is she too hot for you? If yes, she's selling her eggs not to the highest bidder. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Question for girls regarding guys opening upAbsolutely not. Too much information. Otherwise you sound whiny and like you have a lot of baggage. Unless she seems really caring understanding, which generally means she's been through something similar. A few dates in, start to open up. But by no means blurt this shit out to everyone you meet. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Need help approaching a girl with a dog. It's not the girl I'm afraid of, it's the dog, please help.What, you think the dog is gonna politely excuse itself and go outside while you fuck her? Ots gonna be all up your ass going like, "who's this mf tryina fuck my bitxh" Joking aside, a big part of the pua community is overcoming your fears. If dogs dont like you, they either sense you are timid or an asshole. If you're an asshole, I cant help you. If you're just timid, tell her you're afraid of dogs and you want to become more comfortable around them... There's no other way to overcome your limi… | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Does money actually help you get laid? Well it depends on how you use it to better yourself.You're always gonna find fish that bite your bait (assuming you have some bait), but the truth is not having money will leave you out of a social class and certain girls will always be outside of your reach. Case in point, even homeless crackhead dudes impregnate homeless crackhead chicks (you know, the ones with the signs saying homeless and pregnant?), but you wont ever see a rich girl fucking a homeless man unless she is completely twisted. If you have money, you live a better life. Better li… | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Does money actually help you get laid? Well it depends on how you use it to better yourself.I hate it when people say money doesn't matter. That is horseshit. Of course money matters Money helps in every aspect of life, a lot. Money = freedom. You are able to do have a better lifestyle which makes you feel better about yourself. You're more fun and interesting to be around when you do cool things, and you cant do cool things without money. You can dress better which will give you access to higher social circles - you cant dress like shit in higher society. Etc. I can go on for days. Th… | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approachAaaand she texted me back, for the record. And I gave her no social media or anything else that could have superficially tipped the scale. Verdict: compliments are fine. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | How much self improvement is needed before women see you as dateable?To theatre? Sure i have | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approachCheers man, takes one to know one. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approachExample. Today some girl was walking to her car parked next to mine. We locked eyes. I said hey, whats up, how are you? She seemed receptive. I followed up, you're so pretty i couldnt take my eyes off you, you're really beautiful. Nothing witty, nothing unique, and against all pua dogma. Turned out she was modelling, she worked at bar/night club near by, and that she had a boyfriend. She gave me her number after I asked for it a second time. I just told her we'll hang out as friends and that I'l… | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approachI dont know, i compliment all the time and it's taken well. She knows you're hitting on her regardless. Its how you do it that counts. If youre a creep she doesnt want a compliment. If youre a happy attractive dude, she wants it. Compliments disarm. pua science is backwards and is bullshit imo. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approachFor sure dude, I know its intimidating but you have a positive mindset! Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approachThe high from working out does not compare to the high from running. Cold showers jist make your pain receptors more numb, so emotions are turned down. You end up holding eye contact more, you're calmer, and you speak more assertively. They're hard to do but work wonders! Easy after a run while your body is still hot and your adrenaline is still pumping. | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approachTry something more of the sort of "you look good in those shoes/clothes" Compliment her more so than the shoes lol. Try to make your compliments more genuine, your entire flow will be more genuine afterwards. So find something that you really like/caught your eye, and go in with it. It doesnt matter what you say, its your energy like you pointed out. So try to put yourself in a good mood or go out when you're in a good mood. If it helps, go on a run in the morning, take a cold shower, whatever i… | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 05:05 AM |
| 7 | My first ever cold approachIts difficult to approach when all eyes are on you, but yea, u gotta do your thing and show em how its done. | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 04:54 AM |
| 9 | My first ever cold approachI was 21 I think. First cold approach on the street. "hey, I like your outfit." Then I froze up and tried to bullshit my way through. She could tell I was anxious af. I got lucky - beginners luck. She was pretty (motivating me to approach in the first place), but also down to Earth. She was single and probably looking. So yeah, she carried the rest of the interaction until I came to my senses and recovered. I didnt sleep with her though. I had a stomach ache and literally turned her down at her … | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Any books or content on overcoming limiting beliefs? Especially in regards to where game and meeting women are concerned?Read Meditation for Dummies. The pua stuff won't help much, but dissolving your ego will. Try writing out your beliefs and counter arguing them by finding the logical holes. Find contrary evidence from your experience to discredit your false belief. Then reinforce. Every time your fear/belief comes up, challenge it and remind yourself of the opposite. Also, acting in spite of your beliefs will change the beliefs. Your actions will force a change in mindset. | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 04:48 AM |
| 5 | My first ever cold approachFirst time my mouth dried up - and its happened again since. She sensed my fear but encouraged me. The next date she invited me back over. Its very normal what you feel. Even after having done many approaches, when you stop for some time - say you get bored or you feel you've plateaued -, your fear increases and so do the symptoms. | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 04:43 AM |
| 31 | My first ever cold approachYeah buddy! So proud of you lol. Welcome to the club. Its a thrill and you should be proud you overcame one of the biggest fears people have. Not only that, but you did something literally 99% guys don't and won't ever do. Eventually your anxiety will drop and you will have more control over the approaches, giving you far more latitude to manouvre in conversations, overcome obstacles, and close to ultimately have happy and fulfilling relationships with women. You took your first and biggest step… | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Are my legs and body too slim and hideous for a 6ft tall male? Get stared down often and a virginYes | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Are my legs and body too slim and hideous for a 6ft tall male? Get stared down often and a virginYou sound insecure af. Why do you have so much self doubt? Not chubby, more skinny fat. And your 2nd pic kind of looked like a beer belly | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | WEALTHY WOMANYep, this, and see my reply on the other sub | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Helping out sick girl[21] even before first date ?That sounds perfectly fine, don't over think it. If anything, just try to diversify your options (or your perceived options) if she's your only one. | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Helping out sick girl[21] even before first date ?That said, it depends how you offer to help and where it comes from. Are you offering help unconditionally or because you are desperate for some pussy. Your frame will speak for itself. "Let me know if you need help" vs ""I'll do anything for you for you to just like me pretty pretty please!" That's the difference and the dynamic will reveal the truth. | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Helping out sick girl[21] even before first date ?Worrying about being needy is the same amount of needy as being needy. They're just masked differently and girls can smell that. Dont worry about how you come off, be your best genuine self. If you fuck up, so what? There's value in fucking up. | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Helping out sick girl[21] even before first date ?Why dont you try it and find out. Either way, you'll learn something. You'll see if she's a worthwhile chick, or you'll find out you're a tool. Then you'll learn and adapt accordingly. Win win. | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 01:40 PM |
| 6 | How much self improvement is needed before women see you as dateable?Your stats are high. For most guys you would tell them to work on themselves. For you thats already taken care of, you need to learn how to talk to girls. Only way, like someone pointed out, is experience. Experience is also "self improvement". Experience means travel, it means being in different situations, it means getting punched in the face, cheated on, betrayed, liked, getting rejected, getting laid on a park bench, getting drunk with your boss or prof, almost drowning, breaking your ribs i… | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Approaching a girl that's in a mixed group of guys and girls.True, but to an inexperienced guy, "choosing signals" is too abstract. When you dont rise above the approach and you're anxious or nervous in the midst of it, you dont consciously detect these signals. On the flip side, when your "magic" is working, you still don't detect them per se, you subconsciously act out through them. You either have to be in a really clear state of mind to intuitively recognize behavioural changes, or you reflect on these things after the fact to figure out what these ch… | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 12:06 PM |
| 6 | Approaching a girl that's in a mixed group of guys and girls.People gave some good tips here, I like to focus more on the meta. These approaches are difficult and honestly its best to approach girls who are alone or with a friend or two at most. The more people in the group or vicinity, the more energy and exerperince you need to overcome obstacles as there are increasingly more variables you need to be aware of or manage to execute successfully, unless you're replying on pure luck. That said, it depends on the group dynamic. Generally, there are two ways… | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Such thing as a too much confidence in Cold Approach?Quality over quantity my friend. Are you going out to get numbers or form relationships? Id rather have 2 quality leads than 10 flakes. Thats the difference between 10 girls giving your number to get out out of an arbitrary/awkward conversation and 2-4 girls saying wow, what a great guy, I hope he texts/calls me! Unless you're some high status/really good looking dude, your 2-3 minutes are worthless and you're not even relying on "game" at that point. 20 approaches is just a confidence building … | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Such thing as a too much confidence in Cold Approach?2-3 minutes? Is this a joke. You havent built a connection, no rapport, let alone aroused any emotion in her. How do you expect to leave a lasting impression on them in 2-3 minutes? Do a deep dive. On a night out city girls will ghost you even if they make out with you. Go for 2nd base and try to sleep with them even - but only if you're horny yourself. Otherwise dont bother approaching, your emotion is not authentic otherwise and your results will speak for themselves. | /r/seduction | 04/08/20 03:45 AM |
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