| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | First date other than coffee? | zero0x | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 06:26 PM | |
| 1 | "How about you give me your number" | zero0x | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 05:15 PM | |
| 1 | " I prefer chatting here for a while" how to reply for this | zero0x | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 05:43 PM | |
| 1 | Alternative to dating apps and clubs? | zero0x | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 12:39 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | Asexuality is the way to goNGL There was a post about this in this forum a while back. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/22 05:19 AM |
| 4 | 2022 Predictions for the new year (Warning: Politics)Expecting VR dating soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 8 | I've compiled a list of the top recommended books for men from 56 of the top blog posts"The Charisma Myth "is a good intro. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 34 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?I can show you the world Shining, shimmering, splendid Tell me, princess, now when did You last let your heart decide? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Improv classes vs Toastmasters?Toastmaster at my work still holds meetings online. I prefer Improv because of different kinds of people and keeps you on your feet. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that abuse victims tend to be really good at shit tests and maintaining frame?You are different from the rest. Your heart is pure! Rejoice! The broken are the more evolved. Rejoice. - The Beast (Split) | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | dating in their 40s in Bay Area: hot single mom vs average jane without kidsHave you ever dated someone with kids? I dated one women who had a kid at 16 and was not living with her. Minimal baggage here. hot/average is all subjective. For me a 10/10 body but no degree or proper job is pass. Buts its true most women are looking to lock you down. I am 31, from bay area and 80% of matches were older than me. Being in tech gives them provider vibes. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Online dating is so hard for average guysThis. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Performance anxiety – why we feel nervous when dealing with the opposite sex.Exactly, I used to mess up bcos I used to think this is my only chance. Just go slow, having no expectations helps. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagWhat are the views on colored hair? Like Asians going blonde, red etc | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Testosterone boosters you’ve had success with?They don't work. If anyone has link to research, can share results. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Girl says "I won't have sex with you, but I'll give you a blowjob", while in bed+1 with the STD's. She is certainly hiding something. You will be surprised how many girls lie. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Those who cannot sacrifice anything, cannot change anything.Currently reading Nietzsche. Every guy should read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/19 06:38 PM |
| 22 | Those who cannot sacrifice anything, cannot change anything.Similar. A person who cannot give up anything, can change nothing.”― Armin Arlet This was the final moment when Eren decides to overcome his fear. Similar to the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/19 05:33 AM |
| 75 | Those who cannot sacrifice anything, cannot change anything.And that’s a quote from Attack on Titans season 1 finale. Some people learn it the hard way. But you still need to walk the path to learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/19 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to go into monk mode and hide from the world for a year+?I am in similar situation as you. I have deleted all apps. I just use meetups to stay in touch with reality. Never give up cold approach. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How to keep my feet from getting sore after deadlifts?No bueno. Replace them with training shoes. I had the similar problem when my shins used to pain when I used to run using bad shoes. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How to keep my feet from getting sore after deadlifts?which shoes you use? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Is it a huge red flag that girls unmatch after I give or she gives her number out?I never ask for number, ask her to meet at X at Y time. Many are looking for orbiters. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Tinder openerThis. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with those days when it seems like your goals are getting away from you?Persistence. Read more to have clarity about choices, there is no easy way. "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, sometimes frightened. But no price and is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." — Rudyard Kipling | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Blocking girlsOnly if you are talking about a single girl and dont care about getting banned. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Blocking girlsIf you have her number, then ignore. If using apps, then block. Bcos she may block you and multiple blocks can lead your account getting banned for no reason. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Blocking girlsIgnoring can work in reverse and she may block you. If using apps your account may get banned. So safe to block if not interested. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How big a role does BF% play in SMV?My chin got more defined after I lost 20lbs. Have you tried Mewing? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 07:13 PM |
| 2 | “What is your schedule like this week?”Respond with time and place. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 12:34 AM |
| 0 | Quick Tip for a date idea that saves YOU money, gives you more exposure, and nets you value even if it doesn’t work out.Personally, I wont cook for a women. I do cook often and she ends up eating at my place. But I never ask her for dinner/lunch. Not eating out and cooking at home is great, but should never be a date plan. My intentions are clear and free time is limited. She will meet you if she is into you, no matter what. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/19 11:54 PM |
| 3 | How to increase confidence?Only way is to talk to people. Try meetups, talk to strangers. You need to have hobbies, something common to open a conversation. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:08 AM |
| 12 | Girl “wants to get to know me better” online before first dateShe just doesn't finds you attractive and have better guys lined up. You are a backup thats why she wanna be sure. You can either give into her frame, text back to back, expect her to on go date with you. Or Ignore her, she will message you if interested. Abundance is the key. Remember girls out there are looking for the best match not the right match. This is how the game is. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 09:06 PM |
| 3 | What are your favourite/meaningful quotes?“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan Press On! has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.” ― Calvin Coolidge | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Told LTR im not comfortable with weed she said "I'll See."You just don't give up your frame. Just say no, you don't need to reason with her. Worst case soft next her. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Disgusted by what I'm seeing.Thats one of the reason to screen. There are many know red flags. "Just because you have condoms doesn't mean you're safe, Kenny! Statistically speaking, the most bacteria-ridden place on the planet is the mouth of an American woman! And you're gonna let that near your penis?" - Sir Eric Cartman | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | First date other than coffee?Thanks, I am gonna try this next time. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | First date other than coffee?Still wont eat out. I do cheat meals sometimes with my friends. Post hiking etc. But limited to that. I dont count on cheat days. It was tough to come from 210 to 172. Goal is 155. I have never eaten out with my current plate, they dont care about all this. I was just looking for first date recommendations. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Swallowing the pill caused the death of my social life.Edited the source. It comes from an interview piece by Arthur Gordon, "Interview with an Immortal", Reader’s Digest, 1935. The 1967 Kipling Society journal reprints it as "Six Hours with Rudyard Kipling". It quotes Kipling as saying: "The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." htt… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | First date other than coffee?I do that sometimes, But I wont do that for a women. I think water on dates seems acceptable. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:56 PM |
| 4 | Started lifting 6 months ago and loving it. Want to go further into fighting and self defence techniques. Muay Thai vs BJJ?Krav Maga. Plus its practical too. Try some mixed martial arts. Defence classes etc | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Swallowing the pill caused the death of my social life."The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, sometimes frightened. But no price and is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." — Rudyard Kipling If everything is coming easy, you are heading to the wrong direction. As you progress, people will come and talk to you. Till then carry on my wayward son. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:51 PM |
| 3 | First date other than coffee?They shit everywhere :-( | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | First date other than coffee?Exactly, Plus some think you are a cheapskate but I just cannot consume empty calories. There are many fun things to do, but need the first date to be simple. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:48 PM |
| 9 | First date other than coffee?Goals bruh. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:47 PM |
| 0 | First date other than coffee?Yes my friend, that seems the only option. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | First date other than coffee?I have done that before. I enjoy that and do that with my bros often. I personally wont do that with a woman until LTR or dating for months | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | First date other than coffee?Thats where some of my dates ended. But you just cannot ask for park for first date. Need to ask for something nearby which will lead to the park. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | First date other than coffee?On calorie deficit diet now. 5'9 172 lbs now, Goal to reach 155lbs. Anything from outside is 500+ calories min, For me my goals are more important. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | First date other than coffee?Coffee , Tea not a problem. I just don't drink them since forever. Never felt the need to try either. I had tea like 2 times in my life , Coffee few times. Plus sugar from drinks sticks to my braces. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 10:42 PM |
| 17 | Was fucking a girl for 30 mins but I was limp n didn’t finish. This happened to anyone?How much were you attracted to her? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 06:52 PM |
| 5 | First date other than coffee?Somehow girls dont find coffee as exciting first date too. Bars I feel is too noisy to talk. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 06:41 PM |
| 2 | First date other than coffee?Diet bro. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Alternative to dating apps and clubs?The only interesting women I have met are through work and I don't wanna ask them out. No problem in talking to them, holding a conversation. It's just since swallowing the pill, I am very particular. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Alternative to dating apps and clubs?Working my confidence to that level. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Alternative to dating apps and clubs?Thanks for the reply. I have been approached by women at grocery store but mostly older . I personally feels its better for me to approach in person, but my options are limited. I don't drink, do clubs and the outdoor activities(kayaking, SUP) I just meet older women. Also cant be creep and ask every women in room. Was wondering where girls in age group 25-30 hangout at. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 12:48 AM |
| 23 | The Correct Way to Ask a Girl Out@ u/darchetype Isn't a show at club/theatre too much of investment for first date? How can I ask for simpler things like coffee? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/19 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I took a big look at my life and realized I've surrounded myself with functioning alcoholics for a long time. Where are the best places to find quality friends who aren't going to be booze hounds?Meetups is a good start and its free. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Religion and The Red PillI takes a while for newbies to understand. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 07:05 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with girls who take forever to reply?The "The medium is the message" -Rollo Tomassi. This. She is just fishing for followers. My rule is to never talk to a girl if she doesn't wanna share her number, just move on . Also the quote is by Marshall Mcluhan. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_medium_is_the_message | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Best tinder pick up line everMost are there for validation. Thats why I encourage guys to block anyone who is rude or non responsive. This way she will be at least flagged or banned. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | " I prefer chatting here for a while" how to reply for thisThats what I do. Leave them hanging. Gonna delete all apps soon. One girl couldn't accept the fact I was busy and couldn't meet her when she wanted and where she wanted. Other girl wanted to know why I reply after hours. I think its the stereotype. they see me as Beta. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | " I prefer chatting here for a while" how to reply for thisOn Bumble. matched on Saturday. I usually reply after hours. she messaged this yesterday. Her pics on higher scale, but we know pics vs IRL. I am above average too. She lives pretty close. We started with normal conversation, 4-5 messages only. I usually do not reply after these messages, so wanted to know if i can turn this around this time. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Learning to Move On+1 for the quote in the end. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Rant : being a minorityI do get that most of times, I just ignore them and keep working on myself. Women who cant get over stereotypes, dont deserve anything. My current plate had 'indian d**k' stereotype, guess who is she riding 2-3 times a week. Its all in confidence, frame etc. Don't waste your time on them, you have a bigger purpose. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Had sex but couldn't stay hardL-Arginine L-Arginine wont be of any use until 2,3 are followed. Just some personal experience. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Had sex but couldn't stay hardThis is true, I was in the same boat few months back. Now I go to Gym often, nofap challenge, follow diet. Its stays hard as rock now. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl that friendzoned me told me that she slept with another guy. I asked her to not talk to me anymore.Ghosting,blocking is bad. Just message her to stop texting you. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Don't become her texting buddybut when I ask her to meet, she says don't need to push. Also is it good idea to initiate a text? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Don't become her texting buddyThat works, I check my phone only during lunch breaks and after I leave work. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 07:47 PM |
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