| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | How to finally break free of being a loser? | Inner Game | zexwyomom | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 11:43 AM |
| 0 | Height growth surgery in this age | Outer Game | zexwyomom | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 02:10 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Height growth surgery in this ageI don’t want to go to Asia. Im attracted to white women. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Height growth surgery in this ageThanks. It’s just a theory. | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Height growth surgery in this ageYes true unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Height growth surgery in this ageI don’t want to constantly chase average women outside like a puppy. There are many explanations why it is not optimal, but would have been longer to explain. I am 29, working and I have limited time outside, gym, work, drive, rest, repeat. I aim to improve myself to the point women want me naturally, not force myself to it. | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Height growth surgery in this ageMoral of the story: just focus on meaningful relationships, you are not a good fit for side flings. 👍🏻🤣 | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Height growth surgery in this ageI am talking in this situation, only if you are attractive and 5’9, not someone who foolishly thinks 5 cm would change everything regardless of everything. | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 02:29 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girl through linkdinWhat the fuck? | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What’s the difference between the guy who ends up becoming the best friend and the guy who fucks her?Bla Bla bla. I have a girl bestfriend and she let’s me fuck her every day and night. You’re too deep into alpha male shithole. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 02:53 PM |
| 0 | You cant survive the modern dating market unless you are good in bedLive in big city. Sex life is amazing. But dating life sucks🤣 | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?This is the answer. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Be friend with women!Yes, I have a female friend (with benefits) who helps me with everything, even getting with girls. She always compliments me and tells me you deserve better girls. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 09:49 AM |
| 0 | Do yall think you can date 10'sTrue. People are delusional. They want to believe what they think. Most attractive girls are in the range of 7-8 if they look at it from the right angle. | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 03:34 PM |
| -1 | The Confidence Hack You’ve Never Heard OfEven you’ll be beaten your ass of by girls boyfriend nearby, or worse, you’ll end up in jail, it is ok don’t worry 🙌🏻 | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Using money to upgrade my dating lifeWhat you will you do after all these finished? Not so sustainable to me. If your salary, monthly earnings are somewhere similar to this then it is okay, otherwise you will not sustain this lifestyle any longer | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?That logic hit me hard. Thank you for this | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.If you do not have anything “good” about yourself, why should any girl think that way? | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The Brutal Truth About Approaching Women Nobody Wants to HearI do not believe this confidence thing. I think everything depends on whether girls like you or not. Of course you should not be doing anything stupid. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?I just can get the logic behind it, I would love to approach a woman I really like, but here is the thing. Many guys would want to approach the woman I liked. If everyone should approach, who will win at the end? It would be total chaos! Even if I approached, I would not be different any other guys who approached her! Everyone would be the same guy who she rejects. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Who has dabbled in prostitutes, sex workers, escorts, massage parlors, strippers, and how has that affected your seduction abilities?Instead It decreases my abilities | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to finally break free of being a loser?27 and I don’t care about quantity of sex. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How to finally break free of being a loser?Going to the gym already for years. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How to finally break free of being a loser?Im not late for the “night outs” because I sleep early and I am not that nightclub guy. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | How to finally break free of being a loser?What? | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 06:01 PM |
| 1 | How to finally break free of being a loser?Beck? | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 03:49 PM |
| 3 | How to finally break free of being a loser?I always go out with my couple of friends | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How to finally break free of being a loser?Yes multiple of times when I was at university. But now I am very anxious and scared. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 02:35 PM |
| 5 | How to finally break free of being a loser?Thanks for the reply. Yeah might be true. I am working corporate job, which I don’t see my future and and 9-5 drains me everyday | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 12:21 PM |
| 0 | You have two choices: master Cold approach Pick-Up or face the possibility of remaining single indefinitely.It makes. At least for attractive guys. | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?Casual job does not matter. Does it work just randomly approaching in cafe/restaurant? Because i only see women i like there. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 09:49 AM |
| 0 | What now?Its interesting that you suggested this, can you elaborate? | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Is this a matter of confidenceIs it really confidence? Or is it really money and attractiveness? We may never know until we die. Either way we are screwed. | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach will SAVE you.This is not the case for me though. Never in my life I got acquainted with a girl from dating apps, social circles, social media, work etc. that truly worked out for me. The only girl was my ex which was my classmate. Haven’t tried cold approaching tho. Need to try and evaluate all of the options. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:50 AM |
| 5 | Here’s what works for me on Hinge - discussionDating apps is bullshit mate | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | When a woman likes you, you will knowWhat attitude? | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 09:19 AM |
| 6 | When a woman likes you, you will knowOf fvck I guess none of the girls I am trying to talk to don’t give a damn about me lol. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | This shit is so addictiveUnless your standards are very low or you’re godlike its unusual. | /r/seduction | 24/10/23 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Age Doesn’t MatterWhat if you’re not tall but others? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you get to Sleep with Unrealistic Hot Women?Be tall, and don’t be ugly, and dress expensively, all you need for getting that attention from 10s. | /r/seduction | 15/08/23 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Coming from money has spoiled me and ruined my drive.You are me except the part I should always follow what they say which again makes me a poor person | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/23 01:41 PM |
| – | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"Same. No matter how many women tell me I am good looking, how many looks I get from hot girls, or ‘I shouldn’t have any issues with girls’, ‘it’s all in my head’, I am sick of the dating world around me. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"Same as at least 7/10 face, 5’9 white. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Yes I know that most girls are against casual dating, or in other words they need to be in relationship or some sort of deep emotional connection before sex, I try to avoid them as well. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I’m not sure if I’m attractive to them or not, I think I don’t have bad looks, but I need to improve myself to increase the quality of girls I’m attracting. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Not every girl wants to have a future with a guy. Or wants a serious relationship. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Yes. It’s extremely hard as the girls I like never approaches me. So I should improve myself to the point becoming attractive to them. For example I have to be shamed, ridiculed or at least rejected countless times in order to get at least one of them. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:29 PM |
| 6 | the SHOCKING reason you're not getting any datesI can’t promise this for only ‘tall’ men but it’s mostly for good-looking or above average men like myself. The Market is extremely cruel, imagine an old, ugly, creepy, broke guy reads this and links with himself and had hopes about getting extremely hot women just because he has confidence. Do you think that’s logical? I don’t think so. No offense to anyone but I don’t think everyone should land a hot beautiful girlfriend. Otherwise that plan would lead to failure. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 01:23 PM |
| 3 | The Rookies Guide to Approaching - What do women really wantLmao. Stopped reading after ‘as opposed to library girl’. The problem is it’s the opposite of what I want in a girl. Wish I found attractive most of the girls. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Should I just give up and focus and “improve” myself or continue trying to get better at the game and going out and approaching3 years? Fuck that I’m out. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 08:37 AM |
| -1 | How to lower my standards to get more experienceBruh why do you look like a gay and act straight | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Men are forced to approach in abundance if they want any shot at getting laid or an LTR, yet they are shamed for it by women who want to feel special creating a very frustrating situation for men.I haven’t seen someone being shamed for approaching IRL. Whether it’s an old man or ‘chad’. It’s mostly reddit where women say don’t approach etc. I always hear from single/married female colleagues,friends etc. that they actually LIKE attention from men, even they reject them. Almost every women I talked to said they think men are weak nowadays and DONT approach them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy)Nah. How Could you even see a baby face hot instagram models with a broke guy? The Chance is less 1%. You living in some kinda dream. Capitalism and money rules all the world including dating. Sooner or later in future all girls hot enough will become an insta model and start selling themselves. I’m not talking about slightly attractive girls, even they can become money chasers. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy)Nah. How Could you even see a baby face hot instagram models with a broke guy? The Chance is less 1%. You living in some kinda dream. Capitalism and money rules all the world including dating. Sooner or later in future all girls hot enough will become an insta model and start selling themselves. I’m not talking about slightly attractive girls, even they can become money chasers. | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy)I see all the time | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy)I’m not talking about Tinder. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy)This is so true. Life is not around tinder and dating apps. Of course people there look for attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 04:54 PM |
| -12 | Is it stupid to not know how attractive i am ? (guy)No. Most of them specially good looking ones are after money. If you’re broke as fuck you’ll never have chance even if you’re attractive. | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever feel like a sleazy sales man when you cold approach?Lmao, if you don’t approach people, how you gonna make your social skills off the hook??? | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 07:30 AM |
| 19 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.I have a friend who has many girl friends. He’s very weak personality when it comes to seduction, he struggles to find partners. He’s extremely nice guy. Everyone friendzones him. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.Maybe your pics have too low quality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Men point out that the example of men woman have is cut from the group of men woman chose. This is obviously true. But id argue it’s the same for men.This is fundamentally wrong. Normal looking young and thin women has many options, not like extremely attractive girls, but still they do. The problem could be they don’t like the ones who likes them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 04:35 PM |
| 9 | Why women talks about their previous experience ?Its a good sign, they’re letting you know that they wanna get railed by you. Fear when she talks how sweet and innocent she was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Average/below-average women actually want to be asked out in publicIt is normal. Of course he gonna approach based on how you look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 09:46 AM |
| 2 | If all men who don't have success getting sex/ relationships with women suddenly start hitting on women constantly, subs like thus wouldn't exists and men would be happier.It is. You’re just a soyboy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 12:11 PM |
| 3 | If all men who don't have success getting sex/ relationships with women suddenly start hitting on women constantly, subs like thus wouldn't exists and men would be happier.No never. The worst thing they could constantly reject you if your approach never gets better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/22 11:05 AM |
| 8 | Most men just take the little options they getJust for the context, as a male Im out of this population. I don’t find most of the women attractive, I do rarely see someone as attractive. They may seem a little attractive at first but I realize that all of that is illusion, with a bit of help of the makeup, a sexy dress or more. Truely attractive women are rare (imo at least). I’m in a position of improving myself to the point where I can attract what is attractive to me, not just find someone to settle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Most of the men/boys on this sub need to start lifting and eating healthy. That alone will improve their health tremendously & in the long run help them attract women.Im lifting for 7 years now, girls not gonna approach you out of the blue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 03:07 PM |
| 4 | how would you women feel if men wore as much makeup as you?Gross lol. Girls I know would be disgusted from this and won’t give you any time of a day if they found out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 01:22 PM |
| 2 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Yes, in my country for example, women are oppressed for a long time, and they refuse to have sex with their own desires, they see sex as prize, final act of negotiation, in exchange to money, or when a guy does things right they feel like they need to ‘give’ sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?Boobs are overrated imo. Of course boobs are plus but there are more important and meaningful things come before we look into your boobs. Such as face and nice round ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?Plot twist, I would not flirt with women who aren’t particularly attractive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 07:22 PM |
| 7 | Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating.True. It was humiliating to me to learn I’m not on the same level as top guys that are attractive like a male model, but I was clearly above average. I didn’t know how the system worked, learning it was like a slap on my face, because from my young age I believed i was attractive and not different from other 10s , but the system/hypergamy doesn’t care. If you’re not a male model, You’re not gonna magically get laid with a girl attractive to you or somehow meet a girl that you like. You gotta ear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women.I believe ALL men dating problems have one solution; approaching women enough, can’t stress this enough, it is very simple. Approaching WITHOUT any signals, without overthinking. Women have it harder in a way they are passive recipients of dating, they are afraid or shy to approach to a guy they are attracted to because of the social conditioning, or simply they can be shamed. But men have the opportunity of making an attractive girl attracted to them, if they have SOME attractive traits, either… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How true is to say that rich guys gets more dates and more relationships opportunities than the average male?They have more access to places where hot women hang out. It does not directly affect their game but indirectly. That is why one of my main goals is to become independently rich, so I can afford going to better places and having better aka high quality connections, not just because I wanna show off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Most guys are subconsciously attracted to the women they think they can get, not the women who are actually hotI don’t think this is true in my case. I once tried to have sex with a girl I ‘got’, I failed. From that time on, I only want girl who are hot to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Why is the female dating strategy sub reddit so obsessed with anti porn views and "porn addicted men"?They hate porn because they are incomparably average looking compared to women in porn, as they claim it will shift men’s taste towards ‘porn star’ looking women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Do wearing nice clothing really play a role when it comes to dating and girls? I truly see good looking guys wear whatever and still get girls easily.Im so sad rn because of comments bc my mcqueen sneakers won’t work | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 09:35 AM |
| 3 | What dating/sex myths about women should absolutely not be believed?I haven’t tested this theory yet. I will test this in the future. Im good looking (maybe above average) but 5’9. I will tell you if they are shallow as fuck or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Woman actually do like assholesTrue, if there would be a good women who is hot, I’d definitely be with her instead of assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 11:59 AM |
| 4 | Being a lesbian, is 10x worse than being a straight man in terms of dating, and it makes me angry when they talk about how bad "THEY" got it.Yes it is. It is so miserable to be a man, and lesbian is even worse. Imagine you compete against tall men and you’re not even a man. And you act like a bad boy every time to overcompensate that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you think think of men getting leg lengthening surgery?Im 5’9ish and wanna do that as well, if it would matter. I’m good looking on the face, I got muscular body, I don’t want my potential to be wasted, and I got funds. I am considering it seriously in the future depending on the circumstances. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Sugar Dating RealityI don’t earn much salary, yet I can afford many dates with any women in most of places, because of my family. But I refuse to attract sugar babies, I got immediately turned off when I sense women is after my money. I drive luxury car but I never show off, no woman knows I got that car until going to a date with me. I hate this mentality of attracting sugar babies, maybe I’m doing wrong, it is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 08:30 AM |
| 10 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?If most of hot women wants it, it matters. Otherwise not that important. Im not claiming that they want the height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:24 AM |
| 5 | Where Can I meet up girls who are interested in only casual sex?Error 1. Too much overvaluation. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What do these women want?Same to me to the part of being attracted to minority of women. Hard to implement numbers game when you barely or once in a while see any women you attracted to. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Best cities in Europe for single man?I don’t know what You talking about honestly. I’ve seen the hottest women in London. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How to keep a girl interested in sex without getting into relationshipJust be a greek god. Im attractive, but not attractive as to be considered as a fuck buddy (yes I have self diagnosed myself). Every girl I dated (they were smoking hot tho) treated me as relationship material. I have male model acquaintances and they tell me different story. That’s why I gave up fully. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]We clearly speak about different things. Being in a relationship with an attractive woman could be your goal, or even hooking up with average looking women could be your priority. But for me the case is different. I have lost the hope since my friend (good looking, 6’5, athletic, no specific banger game) hooked up with literally a model in vacation. I have another friend (male model) who just hooks up with attractive women FRIeNDLY (lmao), kisses girls who have boyfriends. These guys have more o… | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 08:34 AM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]It’s not gonna work unless you’re extremely good looking. I have such friends I know everything well. I also believed in seduction and such because I’m also a cute guy (above average looking, I had couple hot gfs before) but right now I’m about to give up and not bother about it after my experiences. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Wish I didn’t like tallish (beautiful only) women lol | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This could be a good opinion, but Men are in better position than women in terms of importance of looks, don’t let some sayings distort your thinking, men in general are more inclined to care a lot about looks compared to women. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 04:12 PM |
| 70 | Stop deluding yourselves that cold approach isn't necessaryAs a guy Hate to say it but if you look like a creep don’t approach. Fix your style, or teeth, shoes, fashion etc. never approach with dirty clothes, hair, bad breath etc. be at your best condition. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 08:43 AM |
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