zifey Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
58	[FR] TIFU by going out high	Field Report	zifey	/r/seduction	31/03/15 01:32 AM

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1	[FR] TIFU by going out high Let me know how it goes! But maybe leave out the hooker bit..	/r/seduction	01/04/15 02:25 AM
1	[FR] TIFU by going out high Yeah, I agree. I also believe it was partially due to the fact that I literally walked right in the door then straight to her. Shows a bit of confidence	/r/seduction	01/04/15 02:25 AM
1	[FR] TIFU by going out high You know how you can tell the difference between a genuine and fake smile? It was like that. The light went from her eyes. But I was pretty out of it, maybe it was just perceived. I suppose it does make more sense than her being a hooker	/r/seduction	01/04/15 02:24 AM
3	A Few Quotes for Seduction (and all of life) One of my favorites: "confidence isn't knowing you can, it's knowing you'll be ok if you can't." or something alone those lines	/r/seduction	26/03/15 03:08 PM
8	Suppose you became incredibly handsome and charming somehow. Why would an available woman ever decline you to go on a date? Lots of women assume that a man like that is a player, so would be put off until getting to know him better. Other women just aren't interested in a relationship at all. Sometimes they don't feel like talking at the time of the approach. You can be perfect, but its still a numbers game. Better numbers sure, but never 100%	/r/seduction	12/03/15 02:04 PM
1	Pickup Girls using T-Shirts. Do you guys think this will work? I think it will turn off more girls than on. Mostly, the only time that really douchey stuff works is on spring break or something when everyone is drunk.	/r/seduction	11/03/15 03:36 AM
3	Techniques to get a girlfriend and not just a ONS? In my view, the faster you can get her in bed, the more comfortable a relationship is. The easiest way to convert a ONS into a relationship is showing selflessness during the ONS. Offer them water/coffee/drinks when you get back to your place. Most importantly, amaze her with sex. That is, be really good at making her feel good during sex, and be eager to show her how good you are. I don't stop until they come (within reason: if it ain't happening, it ain't happening), which many women aren't us…	/r/seduction	27/02/15 05:46 AM
2	Realization: Men do the approaching Women do approach, but use different prerequisites than most men. If you're out looking for girls to approach, what do you look for? I would guess something like looks, who she is with, and her general body language. I'm not saying that these are not important for women, only less important. 90% of the times that I've been approached by women have something in common: I wasn't actively looking for women. Just having an absolute blast with my buddies, being the center of attention is what led to …	/r/seduction	19/02/15 05:06 PM
1	What are some openers for situations where simply saying "hi" seems a bit awkward? Like the others are saying, don't over think it. Somebody in your class is easy to open. Sit down next to them and immediately start conversation. Sarcastically ask how excited they are for class, or ask for clarification on a lesson from a previous class, for example. Or don't sit near, and approach after class. Again, you could ask for clarification on something that the instructor went over, bring up something that you found interesting in class, or just compliment something unique about them…	/r/seduction	17/02/15 05:44 AM
1	How often do you keep in contact? Generally, gauge off of what she is doing. If she responds once a day or so, then respond once a day or so. I don't really like texting much, so I respond every few hours to once a day. Respond instantly or fairly quickly every once in a while to make it seem like you respond when it's convenient for you and you aren't trying to play her. If you guys are making plans (which I believe is all texting is really good for), then respond a bit quicker, as it's polite. I can't stand it when I feel like…	/r/seduction	17/02/15 03:01 AM
3	How to "date" as an introvert/homebody? If you'd rather go to the gym or relax with your time off, then do that. Are you saying that you want to sleep around while staying at home all the time? That's obviously not going to work. However, after several dates with the same girl, it's somewhat acceptable to spend nights in relaxing, or going to the gym with each other. Are you saying that you don't mind leaving the house for a date, but never feel motivated? The best approach to that is make the plans a week in advance. You aren't commi…	/r/seduction	17/02/15 02:57 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/24/14 Are you in high school? If so, I would say that it would definitely be beneficial to try to get a small friendship going on first. You guys are in the same school together for 40 hours a week, so there is a lot of opportunity. From what I recall, going on a date with somebody was a lot more serious in high school! Once you get out of high school (if you're not already), then it becomes harder to hang out with the people you meet. That's when the "let's date" approach works well. Lemme know which…	/r/seduction	25/02/14 06:19 AM
3	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/24/14 It's hard to give advice based on what you've given us! You did a great job listing all of the positive things, but you also did a great job at not listing anything negative. This is a good mindset to have, but it's difficult to improve if that's what you need to do. Common mistakes that I notice in my friends are they get too clingy. Does that sound like something you might be doing? Reflect on some moments that you weren't sure about, and then maybe we can help you better!	/r/seduction	25/02/14 05:56 AM
5	A way of pushing myself out of AA Most of my advice here applies to bars and clubs, because that's where I feel most comfortable. I think that there are a few underlying things that you must always keep in mind to minimize approach anxiety: Anybody who isn't talking to you is missing out. To me, this is the most important one, and you gain this mindset by being the best person you can be. Hit the gym, practice good hygiene, be active, and dress well. I'm sure you hear this all of the time, but that's because it's great advice. I…	/r/seduction	25/02/14 02:48 AM
4	A way of pushing myself out of AA It sounds like there is enough emotional punishment here that it shouldn't be necessary to be physical! Next time you are getting approach anxiety, remember the way you are feeling right now, and hopefully you can realize that the feeling you get is adequate punishment. Pair that with memories of how awesome it feels when you just blurb something out to that girl and start a conversation, and it seems like you should be set. Worst case scenario in an approach is you totally get shut down, but ev…	/r/seduction	25/02/14 01:50 AM