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Conversationzisehuar/r/seduction10/08/22 01:53 PM
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Fundamentals zisehuar/r/seduction10/08/22 03:59 PM
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Field Reportzisehuar/r/seduction14/08/22 11:41 PM
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Fundamentals zisehuar/r/seduction19/08/22 04:39 PM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:48 PM
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You got it
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:23 PM
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You're probably right
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:11 PM
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Sure man, any time!
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:46 PM
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Hahaha you crack me up! How do you ever get laid and with who? I can't 😂 please develop some respect man.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:44 PM
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You're just losing out on opportunities that way. You're obviously seeking, she's responding.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:43 PM
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Lol, you need to give a lady a reason why she should take your number in the first place. C'mon you should know that.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:42 PM
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I mean, it's not like she asked for you to enter her space. But if you decide to, which is generally great if you're respectful, then yeah you do have to prove your value to her in some way. It's not something women consciously think about, but it's a natural part of the process.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:47 PM
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What? It's playful. Some of you need to work on their self esteem lol. I like the minimizing future regret answer. But you actually need to have some quality yourselves guys. So keep improving on yourselves and you'll be better for it.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:09 PM
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So funny. You'll rarely get a good woman with that attitude.
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:07 PM
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It's a valid alternative if that's what you honestly want at one point. Right now you don't, so just keep it up I guess.
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:10 PM
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Women are all for it. But there are many factors, such as stigma, safety, STDs, why women tend to not seek variety as much. That's why I'm saying, just get a girlfriend and celebrate your kinks with her
/r/seduction16/08/22 05:01 PM
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No you shouldn't lie ever. It just causes chaos. You say you don't understand - I didn't catch what you mean. Everyone has talents and positive features. You may not be on the very top but only few are. Not all women are, either. Maybe you'd have to adjust your expectations a bit? I know this applies to women, too.
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:25 PM
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How about you work on your catch factor. I'm sure you're blessed with talents.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:30 PM
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Nowadays almost everyone has a backstory of having met online. But do talk to women outside of that. You guys just have to be more bold and invite the lady to an actual date fairly quickly. Talking online for more than a few times forth and back is boring. Just make it coffee (and maybe dessert), nothing big for a first date.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:13 AM
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It depends on what you are looking for. The best looking men can be very game oriented. If you want a relationship, you're rare. If you don't, then I'd say still be honest but be super clear, consistent and persistent. Stand out with great dates and court her. Women want to get laid, too, but when you're more average you gotta work a little harder to get her hot for you.
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:09 AM
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Ugh, so sorry. I had plenty of weird stuff happen. This is crazy. Make sure you take good care of your mental well being. Exercise, eat healthy, get life coaching.
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:38 AM
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Yeah I don't do ONS, at least not intentionally. The plan is long term.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:46 PM
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You're doing great. Women un-learned to be treated like a woman (I am one). In the past, it has been impossible for me to accept being treated. They don't mean any harm, it's more of an independent thing. It's great that you're a gentleman though. You can insist once and point out that you're a gentleman and offer that she pays for the next coffee/ice cream/dessert somewhere else. If she doesn't accept, graciously let her split.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:44 PM
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I mean, once a man lied to you like this things won't happen. If he was honest, that's an entirely different story.
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:56 PM
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That's what I mean. There will always be some body fluids that enter your system. That's why I like STD testing.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:04 PM
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I just went to Planned Parenthood for the STD testing. The NP there gets tested every 3 months herself for peace of mind. She uses condoms, too, but is telling me they're only 70% effective against STDs. Plus, I'm sure most of us are doing oral.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:02 PM
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So many women like guys who aren't all alpha...probably even most. I don't like guys who see themselves as beta though. Don't categorize yourself that way. Imagine everyone was a masculine warrior type. You also need the poets etc. Just be confident in the blessings you have and develop any way you wish. Continuous growth is important and makes you more confident and grounded.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:20 PM
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Yeah that's true. It's very common though. Not sure of it's realistic to hope not to catch it? The common STD tests don't even test for it as far as I know (your primary care physician etc.).
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:39 PM
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Hmm maybe. Both are very common. Those panels don't usually test for that in my experience. The body cures HPV actually... for younger folks out there, there's a vaccine against that now.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:08 PM
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Just make sure you're genuine and honest while acting like a gentleman. Treat them like human beings with dignity. As I like to say, girls like to get laid, too.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:06 PM
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Nice!! Please do share. I see quite a bit that men think that you have to lie to women. You seem to be doing a good job. Women want to get laid, too!
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:11 PM
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I actually felt at the time he should write a short guide about how to be a gentleman. Maybe he should still do it, haha. You name it, he did it. Perfect manners, really sweet and attentive, planning multi layered dates, showing that he's very interested by being very consistent and clear. Amazing guy until that point. He literally did everything right. As I said earlier, if he was honest about a positive result I would have stuck by him.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:38 AM
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Life coaching can definitely help. If that's a positive way of viewing yourself, great if it motivates you. But if it discourages you, look into life coaching
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:30 AM
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Alright not sure what kind of women respond to that. Not shaming, just telling you my experience with quality women.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:29 AM
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Yeah but IMO that's the most efficient
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:28 AM
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Wow, okay. Would you say that you can be honest about your intentions or is some deceit necessary (such as, "let's see where things go" vs. "I only want a hookup"). Just asking so I understand the man culture better.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:27 AM
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There were two months of heavy courtship prior to that, so probably not. I'm not giving this report to make him look bad - it is because I noticed that the results can be faked if we're not observant
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:24 AM
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Average isn't bad at all, but if you want more, you'll be improving yourself.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:22 AM
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No still using condoms. And thank you, good point. It's just that as mentioned above, for oral I won't use a condom, plus they're not protecting you 100%
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:20 AM
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I do! But not with this guy, that one is out. Condoms only protect you from STDs to about 70%. Also, I wouldn't use one for oral and I love giving and receiving.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:44 AM
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You mean myself? I'm only humbly stating that I am very sought after. I'm not perfect by any means. I won't be perfect, but I'm striving to become better every month and every year. I'm definitely a much better quality person, more educated and even improved my appearance compared to 10 years ago.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:40 AM
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Maybe...but like you said, you don't need to stay average. Growth mindset, baby. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:09 AM
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I'm a woman and I'm very sought after :) so I'm getting the royal treatment thankfully. When you can be respectful to everyone, that's when you're going to increase your success rate.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:02 AM
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Good for you approaching mature women. They're flattered. You gotta understand, they do think you're cute. Some might have kids who are teens, so pretty close in age to you. You can say straight up that you like more mature women and show that you're a consistent gentleman.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:00 AM
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I don't know. I'm a woman. It's a bit different using your hands vs. your mouth. You gotta understand, you're kind of stuck on it and that can be a bit terrifying if there's not some solid trust. Definitely only stroke/gently tug her hair, don't hold or guide her head.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:54 AM
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Good question. Let's say there's a week in between and you haven't met yet. Text a few times, initiate. Definitely do not play hard to get whe she texts, but wait a few minutes to respond when she first texts. Then, you can carry on the texting conversation if that's what happens. Once you've met, switch it up with a phone call here and there to stand out and ask her if that's what she likes.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:49 AM
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Yeah. Wow it's hard to imagine how a guy who wants a relationship would have trouble finding one. It's the liars who mess it up for the good guys
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:37 AM
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You got a lot if right ideas here. There is a stigma and you do not want women to feel like sluts. There's some courtship and honesty involved in my experience (I'm a woman). Say what you're looking for, but be a gentleman about it. Girls do want to get laid with a guy who makes them feel like a desirable woman. But again, be honest so you'll have an easier life and good karma.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:20 AM
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YES! You're a good man (this comes from a woman). I'm sure there's been a little bit.of energy between you two. I just recently had someone give me flowers on a date prior to us kissing. So absolutely sweet idea, go for it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:14 AM
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Oh, I don't think that was part of the panel. What's usually included is a rapid HIV, plus gonorrhea, chlamydia and trich. No, so far no one ever had something positive. But you know what, he'd gained points by saying he had a positive result of one of the non-HIV ones and gets it treated. I'd respected his honesty a lot and stuck by him for sure.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:11 AM
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Yeah. Girls can be a bit overwhelmed in that situation so be gentle and kind and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:07 AM
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No, don't do that. Better help.com or a life coach. Your anxieties come from somewhere. Lots of people have them. You get that treated instead and you'll be so much better for it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:05 AM
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It's bat sh*t crazy. Never heard of this. Just wanted to share because THANK GOD I had this little insight after a couple of hours of seeing "his" test results...hey, was there a name attached to it?
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:02 AM
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Is that supposed to be a joke? Man please don't complicate this. Just work on yourself and respect people, you'll get laid that way.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:59 AM
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That makes me sad... apparently those stupid useless things are meaningful to her. A great quote I recently heard is, be curious not furious. And if you feel you're weird, try some life coaching...
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:43 AM
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That's pretty funny. No, don't keep getting drunk, it's terrible for your brain. But you're on to something here. It's obviously in you - maybe you can get more comfortable other ways. Running? Meditation? Baking? Also, admittedly, the later it gets the more likely you'll approach women who had more to drink plus want to be taken home by a good guy.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:21 AM
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Yeah it's annoying sometimes 🙄 almost a bit of a miracle
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:16 AM
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Excellent question. Dress in a way that makes you look like a mature man who has it together. This can look different ways depending on your personality and a but by your age maybe. Go for classy as opposed to flashy.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:14 AM
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No I wouldn't agree, sorry. It seems like men and women have a different perception here.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:12 AM
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Smart young man. Can you share that notion please? Being not outcome dependent is the way to go. However, an adjustment. I know you're young, but nurture your gentleman abilities. Treat women as homies, yes, but in a kind, manly way. You can still freely express yourself. Just practice growing into a more mature, healthy masculine way of carrying yourself if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:09 AM
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Yes, and I feel that's an overgeneralization. How do people end up in relationships then?
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:03 AM
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Yes and no. You need to stay consistent. Men still have to pursue or the whole masculine-feminine balance is off.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:02 AM
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Yeah I hear you. It can be hard for girls, too. When you really like someone but can't show it or they'll take you for granted. In my experience though, the guys who show interest consistently are the ones who win. Girls tend to wait if you flake or not. So yes, don't be needy, but show that you really like her by planning dates etc.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:59 AM
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I'm a girl/woman. Medium sized city. Met online a couple of months ago. Why?
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:54 AM
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You know, I guess it hurts a little when people reduce women to their genitals. We're all people who have needs and dignity.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:21 AM
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Sorry, not exactly dumb, but it also didn't sound as classy anymore towards the end. Yes, his statements are very true.
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:16 AM
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Okay, I get that... I think. It's a bit puzzling for me though. Isn't it a bit exhausting always having to find a new partner to have sex with?
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:11 AM
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You're right. It's a spectrum though. There may be some interest which can go either way which is influenced by your actions.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:53 PM
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Yeah! Agreed! Great advice.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:35 PM
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Your actions and intentions matter my friend. You do have to court her.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:26 PM
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Because most are looking for a relationship. As I like to say, why not just work on yourself and actually nurture a relationship. You'll have sex so much more often besides growing personally.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:25 PM
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So true. You guys have to smoothen the pathway so ladies can have sex with you while everyone is keeping their dignity. But a lady does need to be interested in you, which you can influence by being a gentleman. I'm telling you, chivalry is alive and well and it'll get you more sex.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:23 PM
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Yeah I wish you didn't say the last part... you sounded really smart before that lol. I'd agree with you as a woman...we have needs, too. Just be a gentleman and be honest. A lot more good things happen that way.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:21 PM
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I like that one!
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:20 PM
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Excellent, this ghosting has to go. How about something along the lines of, "It was great connecting with you but I am pretty busy/pre-occupied now. I don't want to waste your precious time so go have some fun now". Ok, I see this is not easy. But your honesty is commendable and you'll figure it out!
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:19 PM
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Knowing that you're a valuable human being regardless of people's responses or reactions. That type of confidence really manifests when you work on yourself, make decisions that are good, and possibly do life coaching. Also, start at a place of honesty and do not try to deceive anyone. Let's say, your goal is a hookup, be a gentleman about it (girls have needs, too) and be genuine.
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:33 PM
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Question about daygaming if you don't mind. How effective is it? I'm assuming your goal is a ONS. Succeses out of every ten numbers you get?
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:19 AM
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Yeah I'd agree. Escalate in person, and like a gentleman please.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:16 AM
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Don't call it virgin. That sounds too feminine. Say you never had sex before and it's about TIME. Or something like that. Like the other commenter said, no worries about performance. Women who know it's your first time will be kind I'm sure.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:03 AM
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Yeah, it's genuine and that's attractive
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:00 AM
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So I personally never tried tinder but I could imagine that if you say you've never had sex and need experience someone will have mercy. Because that's precisely your sales point. It won't be a lot of women but a few would be interested I'm sure, especially when you're honest. Got a little muscle and a good hair cut? That can help. But don't show off what you got, just be natural and a little masculine.
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:55 AM
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I'm sorry but what's the question? Sounds like a fun day!
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:53 AM
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I'm so sorry man, you know there's immature people everywhere. Don't be furious, be curious, as one of my friends would say. They all got their own history and their reaction is a reflection of so many dynamics in their lives. Do not take it personal. Just work on becoming the most respectful and kind person you can be, it'll make you happy and you'll find women to be with long-term. Guess what, that means personal growth and also more sex (yay!).
/r/seduction12/08/22 12:44 AM
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Dear gentlemen, let me share a recent discovery. Attachment styles, especially anxious attachment. Many people have it and it's coachable.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:35 AM
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What?? I never heard of this. I'm very sorry to hear that. I was convinced that this is a problem mostly women have with men, the other way around. That's crazy. You don't deserve that, no one does. Gosh I wish people would do more life coaching. I think the women who do that have been treated that exact way and are terrified to get hurt, so they are trying to keep some distance. Or, maybe you're too much of a sweetheart, but that's pure assumption. I know that when men are too buddy-ish they lo…
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:33 AM
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Blessings for kind people like you and others responding here.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:26 AM
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Aww that's wonderful, congratulations! I only asked about men falling in love with women because I suppose that's my preference (I'm a woman). But your post is helpful. Love the themes that are emerging. Makes me want to write a PhD paper on this 😄
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:13 AM
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Sounds like a pretty darn perfect marriage to me!
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:10 AM
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Don't overthink it, it's fine. You're just having fun. It's not like you're about to marry this woman. And if you were, you'd definitely want to consider if your reasons are valid long-term.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:52 AM
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I wouldn't be toxic because it's bad for you and the ones you are dealing with. Don't be a doormat either. Just be a gentleman and generally available but just 'sometimes' you're not. That's only to keep a lady interested. Once you're an item, don't play games anymore.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:48 AM
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In my opinion we're making some really good progress here
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:40 AM
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What do you mean. Plus, I'm not a bro but a sis. This works you should probably try it.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:09 PM
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Yeah tell me who else to ask
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:47 PM
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I feel like there are some great answers
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:26 PM
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I noticed that men on dating apps sometimes text for way too long. You gotta take initiative and ask her out. That's the whole point.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:17 PM
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Aww congratulations!
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:10 PM
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It takes some time to become fluent, that's alright. I have an accent, too. Looks like Americans love them.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:08 PM
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I'm a woman so here you go... Go for a walk, arm around her waist, slow down, gently pull her closer, kiss. Keep the French kissing for later.
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:05 PM
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Pretty cool if you guys found out that this is what is good for you
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:01 PM
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Now the man needs to make up his mind who to listen to...
/r/seduction10/08/22 09:00 PM
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Yeah great point. This is you guys' platform but feel free to post that question for women, I'll be happy to reply.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:58 PM
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I'm a girl and I'm telling you, don't approach a topless girl. Just wait until she's dressed again. It shows you're a gentleman.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:52 PM
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You gotta improve on your English man. Watch and repeat speeches/parts of movies. You'll be fine.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:47 PM
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I'm sorry man, you sound extremely superficial. Maybe that works for you. But I'd say focus on life coaching before you end up in your mid-40s without a wife or family.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:46 PM
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What's the giveaway that they're narcissistic? Most people if not all seek validation. Isn't it a good thing that you're being approached because you're on the shy side?
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:40 PM
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That's alright. You will. I like to point out life coaching, because we all can benefit from it
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:30 PM
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It did confuse me to imagine giving him a bj but not being too professional/ good at it. Clarification?
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:28 PM
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I once heard sex is like pizza. Even when it's bad it's still pretty good lol
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:11 PM
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Ok that's pretty good! Never heard the innocence part before but it makes sense. Very much stands against the notion that women need to act like porn stars.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:08 PM
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You're right, I know neither one if you currently has a way to help it, but I'd rather he come too fast than him taking too long. Women tend to think it's them and also the friction gets a bit too much.
/r/seduction10/08/22 08:05 PM
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That's probably a joke and I get it. But that's infatuation my friend.
/r/seduction10/08/22 07:22 PM
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Elaborate on that please?
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:28 PM
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Haha okay :)
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:14 PM
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Holy... really? I'd say a gentle hair grab/tug is good, pinning down is sexy. But choking? No no.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:09 PM
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Beaten? The poor girl. That doesn't seem healthy :'( but if that works for you both
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:07 PM
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Oh, I'm not sure if feeling used would describe the vibe I like. But I do enjoy when he gets a bit rough/wild if that makes sense. Be careful though guys don't hurt us.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:06 PM
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Oh oops okay. Thanks for clarifying that.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:01 PM
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That's fantastic. I'd think you'd find a woman like that.
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:59 PM
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As a woman, I can tell you I love that. Did they say "do whatever you want" or was that communicated in other ways somehow?
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:21 PM
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Aww you're so sweet. I'm a woman so just to give you feedback, it's okay when you come quickly. It's kind of flattering. When you do it the second time after that you'll last longer, plus you can be good to her in other ways.
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:18 PM
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For clarification, I'm a woman wanting to hear men's thoughts.
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:08 PM
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Female perspective here. The self improvement is what you're working with, your foundation. You will get better women when you are the best version of yourself at the moment. Dating apps don't work for you? I'd say be honest with what you are looking for but be a gentleman about it. It's not easy to just get people to sleep with you, and honestly, I'm not sure if that's your best option to have regular sex anyway. Get a life coach (maybe better help.com) and figure out how to get a girlfriend ma…
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:04 PM
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Thank you, I would definitely not want to trick anyone. It's just that I want to fall in love with the right man who is able to love me back
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:56 PM
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Dang it, but I understand
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:43 PM
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Ok wow, at least you're able to distinguish infatuation from love.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:41 PM
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Great, thank you for sharing.
/r/seduction10/08/22 02:00 PM
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Wow, that's great, thank you! May I ask, how did sex play a role here? Did you have it with all three or were you just dating? I support what you are saying, I just have a hard time imagining being part of a rotation.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:59 PM
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I'm a woman and this is SO TRUE. Do try dating apps though.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:35 AM
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You'll only get drama if you're not honest. The drama comes from actual hurt feelings when things aren't clear. So just be honest with the ladies.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:32 AM
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Athletic and intelligent? Don't let the ladies fall in love with you then! No seriously, avoid drama by being honest and straight up, but like a gentleman. Now to the nerdy girls...you'll find plenty of them at your college library I'm sure. Study partners. Also, studious girls at Starbucks.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:41 AM
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Yes and it should for heaven's sake. Everything else is borderline sexual assault. She has to know what she's dealing with.
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:49 AM
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No don't be subtle. Men think they are nice when they are indirect. Tell it like it is, in a kind way. It might not work out with her in particular, but at least it's INFORMED CONSENT. Sorry to capitalize this, you get why I'm sure.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:54 PM
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Great. Also, most men already know and just say that they are "open to a relationship". Don't do that, guys! Just be kind and honest from the start.
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:52 PM
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I wish everyone would even bother to think that way. I'm a 39f and I'm telling you most men pretend to be interested in a relationship when they're not. I think that's borderline evil and definitely bad karma. You're at a great start. There are many women who are fine with sex only, although you're probably aware it's not the majority. I'd say build rapport for a couple of dates and break it to her in a sense that you are not looking for a relationship. You will have to "give" something to be a …
/r/seduction09/08/22 11:49 PM
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You're so kind and cool for posting this.
/r/seduction08/08/22 02:43 AM
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Omg so sad. This may apply to some people but I hope you'll notice more positive things.
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:18 AM
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I'm a woman and I think it's great when done respectfully. You're brave so good for you.
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:14 AM
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I think it's very sweet how you talk about it. You're giving him credit and are working on self-improvement. Way to go! You'll likely find a way to improve your voice. But your character is much more important and that seems to be going really well for you.
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:56 AM
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I recently got approached in a nice and respectful way. It's great that you're doing this! Definitely more of a challenge and requires people skills. Now the only challenge is to stay honest and not to play with anyone's feelings.
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:51 AM
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True. Plus, we feel when it's insincere and mostly due to wanting validation. You'll find other ways to develop and feel proud of yourself. The more you improve your character and career, the more you'll have true, calm confidence and will find a woman who really likes you for you.
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:47 AM
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I agreewith focus_flow. People have their own history and it definitely sounds like there's anxiety. She seems like a sweet girl and is not playing games by any means. It's just a bit overwhelming for her at this point due to the circumstances.
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:42 AM
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Your hike idea is great. Stay on it, it sounds like you're a good man. She likely has experienced things in the past (trauma; like many of us) that cause her behavior. Just give her time and stay patient, she will need a lot of it to establish trust.
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:36 AM
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