zymbosa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Expensive Gift-Giving?	LTR/MARRIAGE	zymbosa	/r/RedPillWomen	04/05/18 03:30 PM
0	FFM Threesomes. Thoughts?		zymbosa	/r/askTRP	17/07/17 01:37 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Expensive Gift-Giving? Yeah-also a preface to this things vs. experience thing...it's a question that we asked each other before dating and we both said experiences so we said we'd do something for special events rather than buy nice gifts. But when he doesn't have time for experiences due to stressful work schedule etc,...what do? Ha.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/18 02:50 AM
1	Expensive Gift-Giving? I'm a big fan of traditions. We do have one on Tuesday-its usually his most stressful day of the week job wise, so I buy some nice steaks and cook them and we share the expense. Definitely wish he could do something like that for me, but when I do ask, I feel like he feels he can't satisfy my needs due to his unpredictable work schedule etc. Which isn't his fault. He's set time aside but I end up doing all the planning because hes too tired initially to do it. I don't want to push him any more o…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/05/18 02:43 AM
1	Expensive Gift-Giving? a little over 1.5 years	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/18 03:09 PM
1	Expensive Gift-Giving? I do a lot for him, his job takes a huge toll on him and I cook his meals, stay up late with him when he's stressed to talk, and acclimate to his unpredictable schedule. I know he's doing his absolute best to try to give us one on one time etc, but with his job we haven't been able to get away for a trip or do much else. So I suppose that love language isn't getting filled at all, so I'm seeking out something that might be easier. I get him small gifts like his favorite candy or a sweet note all…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/18 02:56 AM
1	I'd rather struggle every day of my life rather than ever give a man the power to say 'you wouldn't have that if it wasn't for me' Okay, the only man that would say something like that is in a situation where a woman truly did absolutely nothing to deserve something. In which case, she deserves to had that said to her, and it's not just a female connotation. I wouldn't have a lot of things if it weren't for my parents, friends, etc. but I'm not getting butthurt or selfish about it, rather I'm paying it back in gratitude and giving them something in return. Relationships in general should be like being in an elevator-every t…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/18 12:57 AM
1	continuing a relationship after cheating looking at his phone is a breach of privacy but can be salvaged somewhat here. I'd confront him, calmly, say you saw said texts, and let him know it's unacceptable. Then take time off for yourself. If he comes back in an accusatory nature, don't engage. Connect with friends. Do your favorite things. Don't flirt with other guys or seek attention from them. Investing time in yourself makes you attractive to other men, not spraying your time into a crowd of men and leaving a bit left for self-impro…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/18 12:51 AM
7	How class affects male preferences Hm. I'd just keep in mind that your career goals and aspirations are personal and unique to you, and shouldn't be shorted or overextended by the prospect of getting a certain type of guy. Find something you are passionate about and stick to it and advance yourself in it. additionally, as somebody surrounded by "creative class" types, these type of men are sometimes brutally stringent with their requirements for a woman. They need somebody that can carry on an intelligent conversation and more im…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/18 12:42 AM
8	How can I make myself become marriage material? This is definitely something that needed to be brought up earlier in the relationship. You need to have your 'must haves' clear in your mind before entering an LTR (ex. wanting kids, marriage, stance on monogamy) Don't sacrifice your must haves-be clear about them and if they aren't going to be met, move on. And don't be afraid to be clear about what you want, what's negotiable, and what you don't want. I highly recommend making it a point to invest less time/energy in him and investing in yours…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/17 04:25 PM
1	Recently married and questioning everything. Unsure where to go from here. You said it yourself....get out. You're being selfish by staying in something that's comfortable rather than finding something that is truly lasting.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/11/17 07:39 PM
2	Recently married and questioning everything. Unsure where to go from here. Been in a very similar situation as you. Ended in divorce, 0 regrets, 0 hard feelings. There is a BIG gap between boyfriend and husband. Dating is pretty self serving. In a marriage you are a team and must work as such. By keeping your feelings from him you are not being a good team player. When something is wrong you need to tell your partner, and not be afraid of what they might say. If somebody is slacking, tell them. Marriage is not perfect and there will be good/bad times. But if you are se…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/11/17 07:32 PM
1	FFM Threesomes. Thoughts? Interesting-I feel like this is my BF's opinion as well.	/r/askTRP	17/07/17 10:23 AM
1	FFM Threesomes. Thoughts? Confirmed-not my boyfriend, BF does not use reddit. In terms of the theory that I will want to fuck other men-totally false. I've made it clear that I do not want to do that, he would never have another man in the equation (obviously) so that's good that we're on the same page. As far as we've discussed, this would not be a regular thing-just a fun thing we tried and enjoyed and are open to trying again. Both of us want to probably see this same girl again and she's down-only potential negative …	/r/askTRP	17/07/17 10:20 AM