After studying the responses in the open thread, I have now constructed what I believe is a complete and logical definition of game that can serve as a reference. The definition and seven principles contained here are the core of game, or inner game as some call it. These are qualities that all attractive men, irregardless of personal morality and goals, sexual behavior, ethnic origin, or epoch of history possess to some degree, with the apex among them embodying them in full. They are qualities that all women find attractive, also irregardless of the aforementioned factors. So, based on my own opinions, observations, and research as well as your contributions, here is what I’ve got. While I’m almost one hundred percent sure that I’ve got everything down, if you have something more to add, feel free to chime in in the comments. I may end up revising this in the future.

Asterisked names refer to outside sources I used to write this post, a list of which is appended.

game (\ˈgām\), noun – a set of male behaviors, attitudes, actions, and strategies designed to win the sexual attraction of females. SYNONYMS: seduction. (credit: “Game”*, Obsidian)

Principles

  • assertiveness – The ability to project your will on the world. The capability to direct situations to your benefit, insert yourself into the center of social interactions, and act on your own volition. (credit: Dave from Hawaii*, Josh Xiong, Roissy*, Strauss*)
  • calmness – The ability to remain unaffected by the emotional storms of those around you. The will to be a pillar of stability in a world of chaos. (credit: Dave from Hawaii*, Lupo*, Roissy*)
  • confidence – Complete faith in your ability to navigate the world. An unshakable belief in the righteousness of your actions. (credit: Bhetti, Dave from Hawaii*, Lupo*, Roissy*, Strauss*)
  • independence – The willingness to carve your own path through the world, while remaining mindful of those connected to you. (credit: “Bowen Theory – Differentiation of Self”*, Eumaios, OneSTDV, Roissy*)
  • indifference – The ability to avoid being overly invested in individual outcomes. The foresight to keep your eye on the bigger picture. (credit: Anakin Niceguy, Roissy*, Vörek*)
  • presentability – The ability to groom yourself and look good. The possession of style. (credit: Obsidian, Strauss*)
  • sociability – The skills to interact with other human beings. The capability to understand, relate to, and engage those around you. The ability to smile when appropriate and not take things too seriously. (credit: Strauss*, Vörek*)

Works Cited

“Bowen Theory – Differentiation of Self.” The Bowen Center.

Dave from Hawaii. “Relationship Dynamics.” Hawaiian Libertarian.

“Game.” Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary.

Lupo. “How to keep your wife happy from a man who knows.” The Butcher’s Block.

Roissy. “The Sixteen Commandments of Poon.” Roissy in DC.

Strauss, Neil. The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists. P. 21.

Vörek, Roosh. “Putting Women on a Pedestal.” Roosh V.

Vörek, Roosh. “The Two Things That Tight Game Comes Down To.” Roosh V.

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