Then God said, “Let there be light”; and there was light.  God saw that the light was good; and God separated the light from the darkness.

Gen 1:3-4

There can be no light without the darkness. As the circle of light gets bigger, darkness must also increase in size to encompass the  light.  How can we know ‘good’ without evil,  its opposite?  If every guy had game then it wouldn’t work.  I don’t worry about that as there are always mor than enough Renfields and followers.  Conversely, when the value of something has been cheapened to the point of being a commodity than it no longer can be special or unique.  In the case of female sexual market value, the bar has been set so low that a guy with options doesn’t, can’t, and/or won’t treasure any woman in his orbit.  Why should he?  They are all the same, life support for a vag.

John Smith and I had an email conversation about various events including  the end of his LTR.  I commented on the inevitability of it all.  Mostly because those things that attract a women are often times the same things that cause the dissolution of the relationship.  I don’t know John personally.  What I do know comes from the various iterations of his blog.  John and Talleyrand (and I suppose to a certain extent myself), all have a certain amount of darkness that draws women to them (well, I won’t include myself in the last half of that statement).   John commented to me that his LTRs wanted and needed that darkness and yet they also wanted to believe he would never cross the line between the light and the dark.  As John told me, how can the darkness be there and be attractive if he never actually does cross that line.