I have a new rule.

I’m not wasting my time seducing women I know.  I takes too much effort to surmount the LJBF that is in place.

Case in point, I went out with a woman I haven’t seen in months.  She lives in a different city.  I used to work with her years ago.

Things are going well.  She’s laughing at all my jokes.  Twirling her hair.  Grabbing my arm with both hands to emphasize a point.  Talks about sex.

I get her to twirl for me.  I get her to kiss my check.  All the compliance you could ask for.

I invite her to my hotel room with “You should see the view in my room.”

She goes up with me.  No resistence.

I make my move and she’s shocked “Why are you making a pass at me?  You’re like a brother.”

This wasn’t last minute resistance.

I have figured out how to deal with that.

The LJBF was too strong.