It is commonly understood that when women are unhappy with their mate, they often get fat.  And looking at the United States there are a lot of women that fall in this category.

Or they may suddenly get thin so they can grab a new one.

Women that are uncertain about their mate staying with them will often be motivated to stay thin and attractive.

But just as being a supplicating nice guy beta is a mating strategy, perhaps getting fat and ugly is one too.

First an entertaining article.  Try not to laugh too loud at the pretty lies.

I can’t help myself so lets divert for a moment to some of the stupidest things ever said:

“Beautiful women are prey to men who want to use their beauty to elevate their own status. Because of their beauty they’re used to being adored, and they are flattered by guys who go completely goo goo for them,” explains relationship expert, Dr. Gilda Carle, who has treated many celebrities.

The fuck they are.  What they are prey to is believing that they are entitled to the alpha and because they get everything they want from all the lick spittles they think naturally their beauty will control the alpha.  It doesn’t work that way.  They aren’t flattered, they expect that treatment (even if they may in their hearts distrust it if they are at all self-aware).  What turns their crank isn’t the guy going “goo goo” but the opposite.

“These men are very charismatic. They know how to get women interested in themselves. but because they are so attractive and charismatic themselves, they have other women throwing themselves at them, especially in high profile worlds,” says Rhonda Findling

Game on.

So why did a beautiful woman of substance like Sandra fall head over heels for him? She possibly was so earnest and good-hearted herself, she couldn’t even imagine that she could be “played.”

Please.  I want to puke.  She knew what she was getting unless she is a complete and utter moron.  She just thought like so many women d, that the magic of her pussy would transform him.  She went with the tingle.

Getting a high profile woman, I don’t care if she’s a bitch or not, is a neon piece of social proof (just don’t do what Brad Pitt did, how a man with all that fame and wealth can make me feel sorry for him is almost a gift . . . almost).  You have even an aging celeb like Sandra and you have right there a piece of chick crack.

Which gets me back to the beginning of this post.  If being beautiful makes it more likely that other women will find your mate attractive and want to poach him, how do you drop his social proof?

By getting fat and ugly. 

Women are less likely to want to poach a man that is with a woman that’s beneath her in social status (ie beauty).

Think of what pregnancy does.  The woman tends to get broader after giving birth, her shape is less likely to return, she is more likely to start putting on the pounds (during and after).  It may all be part of nature’s strategy to keep the mate with the woman.