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These are the current sections of the book:

Section 1: The Bible and Culture

  • Chapter 1: The Bible and Culture
  • Chapter 2: Shifts in Marriage and Society
  • Chapter 3: The feminization of the Church

Section 2: The Bible on Marriage

  • Chapter 4: The creation of man, woman, and marriage
  • Chapter 5: Sex differences and the New Testament on marriage
  • Chapter 6: Marriage is optional

Section 3: Biblical Masculinity

  • Chapter 7: What does it mean to be a man?
  • Chapter 8: The orientation of man
  • Chapter 9: Attraction
  • Chapter 10: Barriers to attraction

Section 4: The transition of singlehood to relationships to marriage

  • Chapter 11: Cultivating masculine leadership
  • Chapter 12: A 5-step process for growing in spiritual and practical maturity
  • Chapter 13: Expectation pitfalls to relationships
  • Chapter 14: Managing a healthy relationship
  • Chapter 15: Finding and choosing a wife: a prospective timeline

Section 5: Leading a marriage

  • Chapter 16: Identify and understand your responsibilities
  • Chapter 17: Understand the dysfunctional patterns
  • Chapter 18: Understand the Christian approach to influence and solve marital issues
  • Chapter 19: Common pitfalls to marital godliness

Book conclusions

Appendix: Objections to the theology outlined in this book

  • Objections to Biblical Order
  • The Fall shows differences between men and women

Other notes:

Overall, the book is approximately 180 pages in word, which when put into a standard book format will probably end up somewhere around 300+ pages.

The book definitely does NOT contain everything written on this blog or some of the other sources that it has pulled from, and I added in some sections that aren’t covered on this blog into the book too. The scope is too large.

It’s a solid primer that you can take and discuss with men in your Church (single or married).

I removed any sort of RP or manospherian terms and talked about everything in reference to Scripture. RP and the manosphere get a bad rap because of the PUAs, incels, and whatever else groups out there, so people are already biased against any truth if you use that terminology. Also, the Bible is the original book on human nature, so all of the secular RP copies off it anyway (and goes off in wrong or evil directions).