Gender Predation of Attention and Sex

Incentives and Rewards are skewed beyond redemption.

Readership: Christian Men
Theme: Current Intersexual Dynamics
Length: 1,000 words
Video Length: 3 minutes
Reading Time: 5 minutes

Intro

Here, I’ll cover a groundbreaking video from Liam DeBoer at Blendr News which compares male and female social pathologies within a sociosexual paradigm that he calls “Gender Predation”.

Blendr News (Liam DeBoer): The Gender Predation Paradigm (2025/12/3)

It used to be that moralizers panicked over the immoral and manipulative nature of PUA Game tactics, but in comparison to Gender Predation, Game seems like child’s play. We, as a culture, are no longer playing Games.

The remainder of this post contains:

1. A description of Gender Predation that appeared in a Blendr News Substack article posted a day before the video.
2. A transcript of the above video.

I’ll break this down in several upcoming posts.

Gender Predation

Here is the most controversial opinion that society must recognize before it’s too late: Female promiscuity and pornography are the female equivalents of violent criminal behaviour in men.  Both are pathological inversions of the masculine ideal of strength and the feminine ideal of beauty.  This is what I call The Gender Predation Paradigm — a framework for understanding how male and female failure modes mirror each other in a culture that has dissolved every guardrail meant to civilize them.

Human behaviour didn’t spring out of thin air.  It grew out of evolutionary incentives.

• Men’s physical strength evolved for protection, provision, and competition.
• Women’s beauty and fertility cues evolved for mate selection and securing long-term investment.

These traits weren’t decorative — they were survival strategies.  But when cultural guardrails break — family structure, sexual norms, community cohesion — these strengths don’t disappear.  They become weaponized.

Men commit almost all violent crime, not because men are evil, but because male traits like risk-taking, impulsivity, and aggression become destructive when they detach from duty.  The typical male failure mode is straightforward: use strength to take resources.  Robbery, assault, fraud, gang violence — the dark side of masculinity is force.

The typical female failure mode follows the same evolutionary logic but through a different channel: use beauty and sexuality to extract resources.  Not through building families or stable partnerships, but through promiscuity, pornography, sugaring, attention-maximizing, and short-term manipulation of male desire.  This isn’t identical to male criminality, but it serves the same function: to exploit one’s biological advantage to prey on the weak and pull resources from them.

This is what happens when ideals collapse.

Masculine Ideal: protector, builder, discipline.
Masculine Pathology: thug, drifter, criminal.

Feminine Ideal: nurturer, chooser, gatekeeper of pair-bonding.
Feminine Pathology: promiscuous manipulator, seller of intimacy, extractor of attention.

Both are corrupted versions of real virtues.

Why does this happen now?

Three Modern Accelerants:

1. Collapse of Stigma — No social cost to selling or exploiting sexuality.
2. Technological Leverage — OnlyF@ns, T!nder, and algorithmic p0rn turn beauty into a scalable commodity.
3. Weak Communities and Widespread Fatherlessness — No training, no guardrails, no cultural expectations.

The root cause is the same for both sexes: Fatherlessness and the erosion of family norms.

• Men commit less crime when bonded, mentored, and embedded in a community.
• Women exploit sexuality less when guided by fathers, mothers, and strong social norms toward healthy pair-bonding.

And the consequences are the same: Societal Decay.

• When men’s pathology goes unchecked, communities collapse into violence.
• When women’s pathology goes unchecked, relationships collapse into mistrust, loneliness, and demographic decline.

Both are downstream from a culture that no longer admits masculine and feminine ideals exist — let alone that they must be channeled, not denied.

Transcript of Blendr News Video

[This transcript is nearly identical to the post quoted above.]

Here is the most controversial idea that society needs to face before it’s too late.  Female promiscuity and adult content generation are the female equivalents of violent criminal behavior in men.  Both are warped versions of the masculine ideal of strength and the feminine ideal of beauty.  I call this The Gender Predation Paradigm.  A way to understand how male and female failure modes mirror each other once the guardrails that used to civilize us fall apart.

Human behavior didn’t appear out of nowhere.  It grew out of evolutionary incentives.

• Men developed strength for protection, provision, and competition.
• Women developed beauty and selectiveness for choosing partners and building long-term stability.

These traits weren’t decorative, they were survival tools.  But when cultural guardrails break, family structure, dating norms, community cohesion, these strengths don’t disappear.  They get weaponized.

Men commit the vast majority of violent crime.  Not because men are inherently evil, but because male traits like risk-taking and aggression go dark when detached from responsibility.  The male failure mode is obvious, using strength to take resources, robbery, assault, gangs.  The shadow side of masculinity is force.

The feminine failure mode follows the same evolutionary logic, but through a different channel, using beauty in short-term intimacy cues to extract resources, not through building families or stable bonds, but through hyper casual behavior, digital content selling, sugaring, attention farming, and short-term manipulation of male desire.  It’s not identical to male criminality, but it serves the same function, exploiting one’s biological advantage to prey on the weak and pull resources from them.

This is what happens when ideals collapse.

Masculine Ideal: protector, builder, disciplined.
Masculine Pathology: thug, drifter, criminal.

Feminine Ideal: nurturer, chooser, gatekeeper of commitment.
Feminine Pathology: hyper casual manipulator, the seller of simulated intimacy and extractor of attention.

Both are corruptions of real virtues.

Why is this exploding now?

Well, three accelerants.

1. The first is the collapse of stigma.  No social cost to exploiting intimacy.
2. A second is tech leverage.  Subscription platforms, swipe apps, and algorithmic fantasy turn beauty into a scalable commodity.
3. The last is weak communities and fatherlessness.  No training, no boundaries, no expectations.

The root cause is the same for both genders.  The breakdown of family norms.

• Men act out less when bonded, mentored, and embedded in community.
• Women exploit less when guided by strong parents and clear norms for healthy pair bonding.

And the consequences are the same.  Societal decay.

• When male pathology goes unchecked, communities fall into violence.
• When female pathology goes unchecked, relationships collapse into mistrust, loneliness, and demographic decline.

Both are downstream from a culture that no longer admits masculine and feminine ideals exist, let alone that they must be shaped and channeled, not denied.

Related

1. Substack: Blendr News: Canada: Run by Criminals for Criminals, “Queering” Education, and Gender Roles | Blendr Report EP142 (2025/12/6)
2. YouTube: Blendr News: Canada: Run by Criminals for Criminals, “Queering” Education, and Gender Roles | Blendr Report EP142 (2025/12/6) Cued to “The Gender Predation Paradigm”
3. Σ Game: Be Wary of the Honeys (2026/2/1)