Induce heart trust by enticing her desire while reviling her will.

Readership: Men; Christian Men; Married Men;
Theme: Whorable Wonders
Length: 1,500 words
Reading Time: 8 minutes

Intro

Have you ever wondered why some women are sooo in love with abusive, controlling men, or why they are attracted to rogue criminals, or why they get turned on by the domination described in 50 Shades of Grey … or by werewolves, of all things?  Or why (for some women) you have to manhandle them, spank their butts, and put them in a choke hold before they’re able to reach orgasm, and why they’re not able to come without it?  And what is the madness that underlies bondage as a fetish?

Here’s a clue.

The Nature of Domestication, Taming, and Training (using the example of Horses)

Horses need to be ‘broken’ (or trained*) to be domesticated.

Horses are prey animals, so their instinct is to flee from potential threats, including humans on their backs. 

Their natural instincts as prey animals would not readily allow them to willingly submit to being mounted by a human.

Through training, horses learn to accept a rider, wear tack (e.g. saddle, bit, bridle, etc.), and respond to cues like leg and hand signals, making them suitable for riding or pulling a wagon. 

Essentially, ‘breaking’ a horse is the process of socializing them and training them to perform specific actions under human direction.   It involves teaching them to accept human control and respond to commands, allowing them to be ridden or harnessed for work.

Well, some women are just like horses in this respect. This is why we hear a lot of women saying, “Men are too nice.” They’re not talking about the Robert Glover kind of ‘Nice‘. No. They want a man who can subdue their feral nature (but men aren’t about to take that risk in today’s social climate).

* Note on Terminology: ‘Breaking’ a horse is now considered an archaic, misleading term, as it often implies forceful or abusive methods which are frowned upon by modern social parasites paracletes, while ‘training’ focuses on positive reinforcement and gentle handling.  In order to avoid the squabble, many equestrian trainers instead prefer the phrase ‘starting’ a horse.

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Case Studies 1a,b — Inducing Humility via the Pleasurable Objectification of the Flesh and via Upsetting Mental Constructs

Red Pill Apostle and I have exchanged email correspondence since early 2021. We often discuss our marital difficulties, among other topics.

In one message, I wrote,

“Forgive me for saying so, but your wife sounds like a proud@ss. My wife is too. Have you found any way to induce humility in her? For me, I’ve found my wife feels humbled when I place my arm or hand around her neck, or slap her butt, or tickle her nipples, or make casual comments about how her particular choice of clothing is unattractive. Early in our marriage, she would try to stop me from touching her in these ways, and she would get angry if I disapproved of her clothing.  With careful observation, I learned that she objected to these things because the humility it induced undermined her pride. But over time, she’s grown to love the first three, and she’s more willing to accept my opinions about her clothing.”

Red Pill Apostle responded,

“I have, in fact, found a way to induce humility in Mrs. RPA, but it is a once and done tactic.  She is emotionally tied up in the image of the perfect family within certain people groups.  It brought her to tears that I had told my brother about her antics, and in what can only be described as the pinnacle of solipsism, she was mortified that she would have to face him and fess up to her behaviors.  “What will he think of me?”  Dead serious. Her behavior was absolutely abhorrent for 17 years, and she’s worried what my brother might think of her now that he knows.  She doesn’t care that I email you, Thedeti, and Mike, because she’ll never have to face y’all.  But close friends and family, knowing who and what she is, have the chance of ruining the image she likes to portray, and that bothers her to the core.  Leaving her would be another way to break the ideal image she has in her mind, but the collateral damage of that defeats the purpose of trying to humble her.”

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Case Study 2 — Red Pill Cad Dad

R. P. McMurphy wrote,

“…this time I tied her up, spanked her using a paddle, put a butt plug in her, and when I put my cock in her… she saw God*. I don’t know if I’ve ever made a woman scream that loud…”

Red Pill Dad, FR: RPD is in love, bad at night game, and an idiot. (2021/10/30)

Note that he is putting her in a vulnerable and completely helpless position, and thereby forcing her to trust him in this situation.

Is this what it takes to induce enough humility (in the Biblical sense) in some women?  …enough for them to have a “breaking” experience and “see God”?

* Note on Terminology: I perceive that McMurphy’s phrase “she saw God” refers to her sudden discovery of the eternally beautiful humility of submission and the joy of trust (not to mention the sheer oxytocin laced pleasure of being impaled under duress) — the essence of what used to be referred to as “falling in love” in a more civilized age.

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Case Study 3 — Domestic Gr@pe

Some time ago, a reader wrote in.

“Once, my wife was in the semi-regular habit of denying me sex.  She would never tell me “No” outright.  Instead, she would just make up an excuse and ‘postpone’ having sex.

But then one morning, I awoke with a raging hard on.  I thought, “I’m married. My wife is right beside me.  Why should I pass on the opportunity?  I’m not going to let this one go to waste.”

She was sound asleep, so I laid on top of her and worked my way into her puss.  She was bone dry, but the extra force of my body weight got me half-way in.  Good enough.  I pounded her until I shot my load … royally, even while she was still in a state of sleepy delirium.

Afterwards, when she was a little more awake, she remarked, “You r@ped me!”

I was amazed by this statement.  “We have been married for 9 years, and you think I ‘r@ped’ you.  Are you serious?  You are my wife, and I will do whatsoever I please with your body … and you will be grateful!”

Sure enough, later in the day, she was itching for me to ‘r@pe’ her again.  Turned out she liked it after all, despite all her protestations.  She wanted it that way.  So I f_cked her again.  She loved it like never before!

From this experience, I learned that I have to push through all her resistance to get her DTF.  She wants me to fight her and force her, and it is this contest of the will that turns her on most.

From that day on, she didn’t deny me sex anywhere near as often as she did before the day I ‘r@ped’ her.”

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Conclusions

The worldly concept of humility is built around shame. But the Biblical concept of humility is about being faced with your desires and limitations, and opening the heart to receive from others.

That said, there is something about the combination of intense pleasure, true helplessness (NOT false or feigned), and humility that makes the soul soar.  Like breaking a horse, or domesticating a wild animal, or … using your rock hard c0ck to F_ck a woman unto ecstasy and mold her into one worth keeping.  This is exactly why The Red Quest advises men to “Tell your girl to use a vibrator during sex” and other bedroom tips. (2019/3/13)

The kinds of men who are most successful in corralling wild foxes, often referred to as “Domineering Jerks” by the less well-laid, are often simply men who understand that women must be trained to trust and submit to their authority, to be ‘tamed’ so to speak, and that this often requires disciplinary measures that are considered ‘abusive’, ‘controlling’, rude, or unpleasant by polite social norms.

For a virgin, or a young and relatively inexperienced woman, sexual intercourse alone is presumably enough to do this. But for older, moar experienced women who have already gone there and done that (perhaps for years), they need something MOAR to get the bit in their mouths and to bridle the breeder.

For the most stubborn wildebeests, the binding of the body and the frustration of the will is necessary to overcome the innate fear of being subdued and to reach that P in V pinnacle of symbiosis.

The fact that most modern women have been tamed and trained by Ch@d-c0ck-a-doodle-do-me’s and NOT their fathers, is exactly why nice candlelight pasta dinners are no longer sufficiently impressive to most women.

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