How to wake up women to the truth about their SMV/MMV.

Readership: All
Targeted Readership: Women
Theme: Boundaries
Author’s Note: Based on my previous comment.  Coauthored with Jack.
Reader’s Note: The advice given here is probably limited to conservative / Christian women.  Flagrant feminists would never hear it.
Length: 950 words
Reading Time: 5 minutes

Intro

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Jack’s post, Double Bind (2023/12/8) discussed the importance of mythos in our concept of Masculinity and Feminity.  ‘Mythos’ is not my preferred term for it, but I agree with what he’s talking about.  What Jack would call “being under a spell”, I would call a “strong delusion” (based on 2 Thessalonians 2:7-12).

The problem is that women have keyed into the false mythos / strong delusion of Disney, Feminism, and the overinflated SMV that comes from banging a series of Ch@dwicks.  Since their minds are already preoccupied and their egos already invested in these fantasies, presenting them with a true mythos of Christian Headship comes off as abusive / controlling / m1s0gyn!st!c / toxic / etc.  It isn’t going to fly.

A comprehensive understanding of most all The Laws of Human Nature indicates that the only way to deal with this issue is to present them with the clear, undeniable, unavoidable facts and then let them make their own decisions. The Law of Activity suggests that it is Men who must take the initiative, provide Frame, and lay things out for them.

So here I’ll make this as simple as I can for everyone.

False Feminine Values

Ladies, you are not high value IF:

  • Your N > 5.
  • You’re divorced.
  • You’re 25 or over, and not married.
  • You are not or never were married to the father of your child(ren).
  • You appear on social media platform videos about dating, mating, sex, marriage, and relationships.
  • You call yourself an “influencer”.
  • You’ve ever had a substance abuse problem.
  • You’ve ever been treated for a mental illness or personality disorder of any kind.
  • You’ve ever been under the care of a mental health professional.
  • You’ve ever attempted any kind of self-harm.
  • Your female friends call you high value.
  • You call yourself high value.
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She who claims to be, or thinks herself to be high value, is NOT high value.

Contrary to popular belief, the following characteristics do NOT necessarily make a woman “high value”:

  • Education.
  • Sexual skills / experience.
  • Having a Christian “ministry”.
  • Job / career / remunerative activity.
  • Asserting “equal” status to your husband.
  • Being sexually attractive, physically appealing, or “hot”.

Men don’t care about any of these things.  In fact, some of these things might even eat into the qualities that make a woman high value.

False Poseurs of Value

Jedediah Bila, Pearl Davis, Jennifer Moleski, and Estee Williams are not high value.  Any other woman who puts herself on Instagram, Onlyf@ns, YouTube, etc. is not high value. They might be high sexual value; but they’re not high value overall.

Gisele Bundchen, Angelina Jolie, and Adriana Lima are not high value.  Whatever other actress, cultural icon, Hollywood star, or model you might admire is NOT high value.  She may be stunningly beautiful, but that alone does not make a woman high value. Again – high sexual value, maybe, but not high value overall.

Lysa Terkeurst and Paula White are not high value.  Any famous Christian author, lecturer, pastor, or teacher you can think of is not high value.  She may be super religious and totally “sold out” to the Lord, but that alone does not make a woman high value.

All these women are not high value because they make careers and reputations of themselves, thereby indicating that they are independent and don’t really need a man.  And most of them make careers and reputations of themselves because they are not high value.  Do you see the connection?

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High Value Women

Men recognize high value women and immediately take them off the market.  High value men take and marry high value women.

Here is where The Law of Exposure comes into play. Men have to make their boundaries clear.

Now let’s get a realistic mental image of what a high value woman looks like.

Men, not other women, decide which women are high value and which are low value.

A man wants someone who hasn’t been hopping from one man to the next for the past 10 years, and certainly not someone who was passed around like a joint at a frat party 20 years ago.   A man wants a woman he can truly call his own — that means he gets the sole honors of making her cherry eyes pop and teaching her how to S and F fall in love with him.  A man wants a woman who is humble, kind, soft-spoken, teachable, and who will do as he asks with a cute bunny hop and a genuinely warm smile.  I don’t care if you think that’s controlling or demeaning or m!s0gyn!st!c or whatever.  I’m just the messenger.  That’s what men want, and that’s what makes a woman high value.

If you are indeed a high value woman, high value men have probably already identified you and have worked hard to take you off the market.  If you are indeed a high value woman, you can recognize a high value man and you’ll willingly submit yourself to him and his purpose without hesitation nor reservation.  If you are indeed a high value woman, you’ll have the agency, maturity, and social skills necessary to make things work out with the first guy you choose.  I don’t care if you think that’s too demanding, impossible, or unreasonable.  Again, I’m just the messenger.  That’s what men want, and that’s what makes a woman high value.

Now that you know the truth, you have a choice.  You can make a diligent effort to make yourself into the highest value woman that you can, and see what kinds of doors that will open up for you in your life.  Or you can ignore everything I’ve said here, go back to your church, your bar, or your club, and continue asking yourself, “Where have all the good men gone?”

It’s up to you to decide.

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