Let me tell you a tale about how I have some concerns about the dark side of Game…
We all know the story about the chick that has an abusive boyfriend. First she loves loves loves him, this guy is so special, he’s so perfect, he’s so different. She will not shut the frak up about this guy.
And we all hate listening to her because we all know what is coming.
It starts as a raised voice. Then there’s a push. Then there’s yelling. Then the pushing becomes a shove. There’s name calling and a slap. Then it’s just hitting.
This is not the escalation of touch we talk about.
Then she breaks free of him in a heroic effort. Puts her life back in order. Becomes stronger. Tells everyone how assured and certain of herself she is now. Then she meets a guy…
…he’s so special, he’s so perfect, he’s so different. She will not shut the frak up about this guy. And we all hate listening to her because we all know what is coming.
Thankfully some women really do break free from the cycle of abuse, but it’s hard. How does anyone really bounce back from being beaten by someone that they love? I suspect most just send out a vibe into the world saying how they expect a man who touches their heart to destroy them as best he can. Then drip tears into their wounds and start the punishment over again more thoroughly until one of them breaks completely.
So what about you Mr. Man. Any lessons here for you? After all this is a male orientated blog.
What sort of vibe are you sending out into the world to attract women to you?
/Activate Sith Mode
Are you terrified of marriage? Or terrified of divorce? Does the idea of a marriage actually working actually scare you… after all you might relax your defenses and then one day discover her restraining order and the bank accounts empty so the sound of the click of her heels meeting her lover. You might drive past the house you paid for every day of the rest of your life and feel the twist of the knife of his car in your garage and pound the steering wheel in impotent frustration. Your fear is quite rational.
The kids might not be yours either. You might have to pay for the kids that aren’t yours until they turn 18. Half, more than half of everything you earned and owned simply gone to the sound of a judges hammer like you’re trapped in a dream about your own estate sale and you don’t have a bidding paddle. Ramen noodles – hallowed be thy name.
Women are such heartless plotting bitches. They can frak for money. Always scheming a way to destroy and suck the income from a man. They want it bigger and better and NOW. More than money, they want his marrow. They secretly smile to themselves as the lingerie vault slams forever like a tomb and thrill to his anguished cries of need for her to show a hint of desire towards him. Such pretty things are not for you.
The only way to deal with such predators is to become a predator yourself. Turn the tables, change the game, load the dice in your favor. Crush the feelings you have for any of them and rub the nose of “the one” in the scent of ten other vaginas to prove you cannot be weak to the touch of a woman. Eat kryptonite for breakfast, after all what does not kill you makes you stronger.
Find them, hunt them, trap them, break them, r*** them.
Lie.
Lie until the lies you tell, you tell so well they are the truth.
Then when you win… a woman giving herself to you, fully, completely and passionately. Savor it. When you are finished with her, turn your back on her in the bed and cuss or elbow her away when she tries to cuddle. Make sure she is damaged for every other man she meets.
Hurt her.
Dear boy… I know all this sounds a bit harsh… but understand I tell you all of this as your friend. I don’t want to see you making some of the same mistakes I’ve made. The same mistakes all men make. It’s for the greater good. Be assured that women are the enemy of man. Let me teach you.
/Deactivate Sith Mode
So like I was saying… What do you really think about women? What are you projecting out into the world to attract to you? Is it helping? Is it truly what you want to experience from a woman?
There are good women out there. Ones that will love you, cherish you, support you, love you and gaze upon you glassy eyed as you get them with child. They will live with you, feed you, laugh with you, touch you, hearts break and hearts make with you.
They will fight for your marriage when you don’t. They will carry the load for you, when you won’t. In your darkest hour, they may be your light. If you cannot find these women, maybe the problem is you. Are you just jaded?
“Lord Vader, it appears in your anger you killed her.”
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