There’s something about the rattle of a rattlesnake that immediately brings your attention in sharp focus. It’s a warning that bad things are about to happen if you don’t stop whatever it is that you are doing and change course. Wives also have a rattle, it goes something like this…
“I’m bored”.
On the surface that doesn’t really get many guys attention, mainly because guys tend to solve their own problems of boredom so easily. We can just watch sports, play a video game, have sex or watch a YouTube video of a little kitty taking on a snake. We’re all set… holy crap there’s one of a baby in an awesome Ironman suit as well.
Ah…. see what I mean, guys can fill that void so easily. My bad… anyway, come back and we’ll continue…
However…
When a woman says “I’m bored” though, you have to remember that most have a submissive element to their personality in relation to a male love interest. Meaning they actually get stimulation from being submissive to a man. The word “stimulation” is carefully chosen, it’s not so much pleasure or enjoyment as the right sort of thing to activate their sexual interest. So what she is basically saying when she says “I’m bored” is “I’m not getting my submissive itch scratched, I’m kinda sitting around waiting for you to make something happen so I have to react to it and do something”.
Or put another way, “I’m bored” = “I need a dominant male”.
So… does that phrase sound a lot more like a warning sign that bad things are about to happen if you don’t stop whatever it is that you are doing and change course? It should. When a wife is bored she’s basically announcing a need for stimulation by a male being dominant towards her.
The first and most common way to get that need met is by trying to force the issue by creating a FitnessTest for you to bump back on her. She’s being not so much a “bitch”, just under stimulated and is just trying to create stimulation. When you pass the test and act dominantly towards her, she’s getting her submissive itch scratched which is what she wants.
It’s very rare that a woman knows herself well enough to realize on a logical level that she is feeling the need to be submissive and express that rationally and be pleased when her husband dominates her on cue. Most women find that having to say they need to be dominated “just ruins it” when he complies. He’s just meant to know and do it, the phrase “I’m bored” is about as far as they go on the hinting before they start getting into feeling like they are the one running the game, rather than the game being run on them.
The other way a wife can get her boredom cured with a dominant male fix is pretty simple. She can find another man to excite her. Most often they still love their husbands, he’s just… well boring. They probably don’t even mean to go looking for another guy, just one thing lead to another and it’s exciting and the Dopamine pathways are getting all lit up inside their head. Pretty soon they are addicted to the flirty texts, emails and phone calls. You sure as hell want to interrupt that before they meet and do something physical.
So you need to keep things up on the Alpha Male / Dominance front for wives that respond to being submissive.
So as soon as you hear that cry of “I’m bored”, know that no matter how happy you are in that moment and how well you think things are going between you… things are in fact dangerously bad. You can probably say to yourself, “oh really? But we have this, and that, and I give her everything she could ever want and we don’t fight or anything. Things are great.” No they aren’t. She’s bored. I’ll finish with a line that isn’t exactly 100% guaranteed to happen, but it rhymes so it will stick in your head and you’d better remember it when you hear her say “I’m bored” to you….
If you’re boring, she’s whoring
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