Sexy Move: The Vaginal Orgasm Workaround

Because my mother left The Hite Report on Female Sexuality on the living room bookshelf, one of things I first learned about sex, was that only around 30% of women ever orgasm from penis in vagina thrusting. But it’s okay, it’s not like I turned out obsessed by sex or anything.

Sorry, was thinking about vaginas and lost my train of thought…

Oh, right! The old P-in-V and jiggling it about thing doesn’t get most of the ladies there, but vaginal orgasms are the holy grail of sexuality… so what to do?

One option is a long period of him using fingers or tongue and getting her to 90-95% of the way to orgasm. Then on her signal to switch out, she starts masturbating while he climbs on top and enters her. There’s probably only limited thrusting he can do as her fingers will need clearance to do their thing on her clitoris. (you could do a doggystyle or girl on top version of this too)

It usually takes a little longer to orgasm this way, especially as her being at the 90-95% mark can drop a little during the transfer and it’s probably a different set of sensations approaching an orgasm with him inside her. But once there it can be remarkably intense.

When she starts actually orgasming on your cock, that’s the end of your little tease and denial thing where you haven’t been thrusting in her. The combination of cumming on your cock and your immediate hard pounding will often make her orgasm last longer as well.

So it’s a workaround of sorts, but who cares if it is? If it works for you, it works for you. Enjoy.